Moving through the Twin Flame Stages to Reunite (Part 1)

Moving through the Twin Flame Stages to Reunite (Part 1)

Let us hold your hand. Let us guide you. This is what our messages to you are about.

We are going to cover the Twin Flame stages in this post. But the point of our covering this topic with you is not just so that you may know the stages of the Twin Flame. That would be information that is of little use to you, compared with what we are going to offer here, today. What we want to do is to offer is of much greater value.

Our objective here, is to tell you how to move through these stages

and to the final Reunification of the Twin Flame.

*Union or Reunion, the destination is the same. What matters is that you get there.

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We want to discuss with you the stages of the Twin Flame Union, from our perspective. There is a reason why we are doing this at this point in time, because the channel has not fully made her mind up about them, and that is how we want it to be. We want to channel a new message, before she had the chance to come to any definitive judgements about the process. We are making sure that our messages are reaching you very clearly:)

There is no absolute when it comes to these stages.  We will explain it as we see it, and hopefully, this standpoint about the process will be refreshing to you. Here is the thing that we are wanting you to know; that you may trust your guidance when it comes to your Twin Flame and the process that you are coming through. So many of you are much too dependent on the verdicts that others have come to. Why is their experience or their opinion more important than yours? Why is should their words be more important than what you feel is the truth? We are not saying to question that which resonates with you, we are saying the opposite. Always goes with what resonates with you. Sometimes the outer guidance that you receive will be in harmony with your inner guidance. If the outer guidance and the inner guidance are not in alignment, allow yourself to ruminate about it. Put the outer guidance on the shelf of your consciousness and let it settle in and form, until you naturally come to some inspired thought about your decision. Base your decisions on your guidance system. The idea is to expose yourself to enough information that you may find the outer guidance which is congruent with your soul perspective. Believe that which resonates with you. Truth resonates.tumblr_meeqpmL83o1ryrbgw-2

So, here is what we think about this that you are calling the Twin Flame stages. You are right, that there is process involved, and there are a great many similarities in the experiences that you all have, because it is all about ascension, development, surrender and finding unconditional love for all. But, there is not really an absolute connection between the exact order or way that each stage presents itself, from one case to another. All of you are going through this process at unique speeds and in different ways. We think that it is ok for there to be differences, because you all are infinite and therefore, allowed to be unique. Some of you have been looking around for information on the Twin Flame stages and when the ideas don’t line up with your experiences, you are confused. We will explain this in a way that is not rigid so that you can find what you need in your specific case.

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Recognition

Upon meeting, The Twin Flames will accomplish the first stage of Recognition. Some of you are saying that it is instantaneous. That the instant that the eyes meet, the eyes lock and the connection is mutually acknowledged. It does not have to be this way, although, it is a very romantic idea, every situation can be different and twins may recognize each other at different times, vs. at the same exact time. However, the similarity in this is that the mutual recognition will occur at some time in the beginning of the interaction. It does not take weeks or months of seeing a Twin Flame, in order to recognize him or her. One flame may know it on the first meeting and the other may notice it the next, but there will not be a gradual recognition occurring. Whenever the recognition does occur, it is sudden, significant and profound. It is like lightning and from that point forward, it cannot be denied. The difference with a soulmate, is that, the connection can be sensed in its fullness over time. The Twin Flame recognition is a fast reaction that occurs in the beginning of the interactions, when they occur. If you meet your flame and you are ignoring them from the get go, this can cause confusion and slow the process. We do not recommend this approach if you would like to move forward with your life and in your growth process:)

You see, we are not only presenting these stages to you so that you may know what they are. We want for you to be able to relate and recognize these stages because we know that it can be difficult to fully believe in the connection that you are experiencing and all of you are seeking validation of your experience at one point or another. This is one of the many ways that we will help you to validate your situation, as it is very important for you to find peace on this matter, and it is our desire to assist you in accomplishing that so that the Unification of the Twin Flames may occur.

Realignment

9f0841381df538e93b523523d69cbe99After the stage of recognition, there will be a sort of Realignment stage, where you are regaining your footing in your understanding of what is occurring, or what has occurred. This Twin Flame interaction can be a lot to understand and absorb and it can take days, or weeks or months to understand what is happening. More insights will come to you during this stage as reasons for things that have occurred become clear. You will be identifying and noticing synchronicities from the event and forward from the event. Many of the Twin Flames will be led or inspired to find or study Twin Flame concepts in order to grasp what is happening. This is a good thing for those of you who do it. This is a time of taking in new information and making sense of things to allow realignment to occur. We cannot say how long this stage lasts and this stage will be overlapping other stages in most cases. For, you are always taking in new information and realigning yourselves into becoming and understanding with more clarity. The key to this stage is to allow yourself to believe in the connection. Not allowing yourself to believe that what is happening is real, will keep you in a state of confusion. Your heart center must be allowed to open and and make decisions. You cannot develop the heart space and enter into new stages of transformation if you are holding back the heart space and deferring the majority of your thought to the mind and logic based thinking mechanism. You must become heart centered and learn how to feel and from there, you must learn to believe what you feel. You must allow the heart space to make the decisions and defer to it for guidance. This is what it means to be heart centered and this is the key to being able to use your guidance and remain in a state of love which is an essential part of moving through all of these stages.

Swooning

After you have figured out the significance of this person in your life and what it means to you, there is a stage of love that occurs. We would like to call it the Swooning stage, because the both of you have recognized each other, you have established that the connection is real and electric and significant and your eyes are big with wonderment in the absorption of all of this love that you are coming to know. This stage can overlap other stages as well. It is a glimpse into the Twin Flame Union and this is the stage that occurs just before the next stage, which we will call the separation stage.

We want you to see these stages as you understand the different dimensions. They exist simultaneously and overlap each other. You exist in the third dimension and in other dimensions simultaneously and the same will be true with these stages. They are not really stages, they are states of being that occur as part of the Twin Flame experience. It is possible to move about these states of being in the same way that you can navigate through the dimensions. You must decide where you will reside in order to stay there and the more intention that you can conjure, the greater ability you will have to reside in the state of being that you wish to reside in. This is how you can pass through the different stages and into the states of being that are desired, by knowing that you can and simply doing it. We know that you see limitations, but we do not. We see that the truth is that the only limitations you have are the ones that you set for yourself and you can move through them just as swiftly as you can move through the dimensions. The two are interconnected. Higher states of being are equal to higher levels of consciousness (higher dimensions). Higher levels of consciousness bear truths that are congruent with moving through the difficult states of the Twin Flame process. When you raise your level of consciousness it will be easier for you to move forward into the state or stage that you wish to be in. The way that you accomplish this is by being centered in your heart space. Being in touch with your heart space and making decisions from there is a product of coming into a higher level of consciousness and navigating yourself from the perspective of higher dimensional realities. This is what is needed in order for you to move through the stages. The whole point of the Twin Flame process is really a mission. This is why we are so dedicated to this work with you, because it is part of our mission to help you with yours. Higher states of being are required of you now and all of you finding yourselves in the Twin Flame process have chosen to be on the front line and to evolve so that you may come to understandings that require you to be heart centered. We are all raising the consciousness of the Planet, one Union at a time. There is life mission involved here. Life would not be fun without purpose, so all of you have great purposes here. Because being in a human body can make it difficult to see truths, you must sometimes undergo pain in order to seek truth. This is the only reason there is pain in the process of growth and this is the reason that all of you are growing so fast as part of the Twin Flame experience. The more pain that you are in, the more that you will call forth and seek truth. The truth is that you are love. So to escape pain, you must find truth, which is love. Growth is the point. The sooner that you really decide, and dedicate yourself to the embodiment of love, the sooner pain will leave you, you will grow and you will fulfill your purpose. In order for you to fulfill your purpose fully, the Twin Flame Union must occur at some point. Therefore, if you are doing your purpose truly and faithfully, there will be a point in which you can no longer continue to grow and fulfill that purpose unless you reunite with your Twin Flame. Since the Universe is supporting those of you, who are in alignment with fulfilling your purpose, with all of the tools that you need to continue doing your purpose, your Twin Flame is simply one of those tools and will come to you at the precise time that they become the next tool that you will need in order to continue on your path of growth, awakening and Illumination.

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Separation 

Separation follows the swooning stage. The stage of separation occurs as a result of fear of the extreme emotions that accompany the connection shared between the Twin Flames. There are often unfavorable circumstances involved, which serve as an excuse to separate, but no matter what, the whole thing is that the separation never occurs because of circumstance, it occurs because of the fear and the circumstance is the excuse that the ego uses to dodge self-realization. Circumstances are placed so that each Flame can, in their own time, realize on their own that the circumstance was not to blame, but that it was their own choice to separate and they must be willing to fully see and understand the true reason behind why they chose to “Run”.  This is when self-realization would occur. This stage is also called the “Runner” stage. That is what all of you have labeled it to be, but as you all are evolving, you are coming to realize that there is no runner. The runner is only an illusion. A fabrication which occurs when the partner has more growing to do before unification can occur. You see, Twin Flames do each other a great favor in staying apart. They grant each other growth in a situation where the conscious mind is running wild with so many emotions. You must know that your higher selves are always communicating and there is never a mistake in this. Nobody is running from a perfect union. When there is growth to be completed, the Twins will be separated until the transformations are complete on both ends. The one who is appearing to run is simply playing the role. They are not really running. They are under the direction of the higher self, and in alignment with soul contract. This is why you can communicate with the higher self of your Twin Flame, but not the person in 3D. They love you, but they are under contract in the physical until certain limitations are overcome on both sides. Your higher selves are very good at projecting their love and they are always setting up synchronicities to remind you of the love that is being showered upon you, by the union. This is the reason that you feel good when you notice these synchronistic events. That is what they are for.

Self-Realization

The purpose of Separation is so that Self-Realization can occur. So, this leads us to the stage of Self-Realization. This happens in many fragmented steps. As layers upon layers of that which no longer serves you are peeled away, It is a gradual progression. It seems that you keep growing, and you keep feeling ready to reunite, but only the soul/higher-self knows when it is time. Sometimes, it seems that one Twin will be ready for much longer than the other Twin, but this is not really the case. You see, the Universe allows time for you to truly become acclimated to your new vibrational standpoint to decrease the chances that you will be triggered and put back off balance when your Twin Flame returns. You must demonstrate that you can maintain your new state of unconditional love and enlightenment under any and all conditions. The Universe will give you many circumstances to practice on. Circumstances to shake you up. Circumstances that are difficult. Because the Twin Flame Union can be difficult if you cannot maintain yourself, and the Universe does not like inconsistencies. It wants for you to be fully ready. Sometimes, there is value in coming together and parting again, but otherwise, the Universe is trying to get you to a new vibrational baseline that you can demonstrate is easily maintainable, even in an environment which is not controlled. You must become unconditional. Unconditionally loving, unconditionally peaceful and unconditionally dedicated to fulfilling your purpose. Some of you keep yourself in limbo by becoming disheartened when your flame does not appear to you in the way that you want him to. This action in itself tells the Universe that you are not truly ready and the union can therefore, not occur. We know that this idea can be frustrating to you, but it is consistent with the idea of paradox that we explained in the previous post and remains true. We will continue to explain these concepts to you in as many ways as possible so that they may become engrained into your understanding and into your consciousness. Applying what you have learned is not always an easy thing to accomplish. It requires reinforcement of the idea that you are trying to manifest and the method to it. Dear, Twin Flame, do not despair. All that you need is provided for you and within your reach. Please know this and it will be true for you.

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The stage of Illumination

We like this word, Illumination, because it is quite literal for what is happening. You are bringing in and allowing more light into your life and you are building a light body. Discovering and applying more concepts of love and light. Working with love and light and using your new found state of consciousness to serve the world. Reaching a state of unconditional love is consistent with this stage. We do not mean that every instant is blissful. You are still human, after all. But overall, there is an understanding and an embodiment of unconditional love, not only for your Flame, but for everything. It is the embodiment of unconditional love which allows you to reach higher states of consciousness which allow you to creatively channel that love through your purpose on this Planet. All of you have a purpose, but your purpose is tied into other concepts, like your joy and your passion and love. You must be in a heightened state in order to reach it. This is why the Twin Flame connection is designed to awaken your consciousness, because love is ultimately the great motivator. The reason for this is because you are love. Creation will always come back to itself. This is why the subject of love is so intense for you. It is a journey of self-realization. One that you cannot ignore because you cannot ignore yourself! To do so only causes great pain. Love is the answer, but in order to understand love, you must understand yourself and in order to understand yourself you must love. You must be love. You must be illuminated and practice the truth of love. To be Illuminated is to shine light on the truth of love. Love of the self and therefore, love for all other things. The Twin Flame Reunion simply follows love. How many of you are in love all of the time? We want you to be. Not for us, but for all of creation and because this is your wish as well. We want you to be able to see and to find the love in all places, in all spaces, in every facet of all that is. There is so much love to be found. When you are Illuminated you will have love which courses through your body and inspires you to action. Action in joy through that which you are passionate about. Allow this love to be channeled through writing or music or play or art. Express it in all of the ways that you can, but pay close attention to the method in which you are inspired to channel love and be sure to do that. The key here is that you must act on your inspiration in order to receive love and in order to be in love, more of the time. The more that you stay in that state of love, the more love will come to you and your Flame is no exception. So, be in love. Channel that love and inspiration in every way that you can. Relax about it. Enjoy it. Do not wait to have fun just because your flame is not next to you. That is irrelevant and if you keep looking at the door to see if he is there, he cannot come! This is the Paradox that we have told you about! So, relax into love and enjoy your Illuminated, love inspired self so much that you forget about your Flame. Allow yourself to be lost in your life giving purpose and self discovery and in the beauty of all that you are creating during this stage of Illumination. Your Flame is irrelevant when you are in this state and when your Flame is irrelevant to you, he will come. This is the great Paradox that we want you to understand. There is only love, and love is all that is. Your Twin Flame will follow when you embody this completely and without looking back at the door. Know that he is there, and do not need him. When you are in love with everything and with all that is and when your consciousness is absorbed in the idea of expressing that love that is flowing from you, oozing from you as a beautiful dance of love, you will not miss your Flame or want for anything and that is when you will hear a knock at the door. It will be a great surprise! Unexpected and pleasant. So, do not go looking for love, instead, be the love and love will come looking for you. Remember the Paradox and live life in joy. We love you.

You are all my Twin Flame, Thank you

-Elise

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19 thoughts on “Moving through the Twin Flame Stages to Reunite (Part 1)

  1. Thank you for this. My twin died a year ago. I have been looking for him to walk through the door. This is for me, as well as my twin. Our Guide and my twin have been saying this same message to me, 🙂 While also saying we are to be reunited soon. Letting go now.Thank you so very much.

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  2. your article was great, I met and Married my twin flame and then I was the runner, I never understood why but I think I understand now , its been 27 years and I miss her every day, im still hoping for the reunion

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  3. accepting all this my tf chose to be with someone else when he is with her physically I am in physical pain, does he feel/know that, will it stop? It makes me feel as tho I will burn & want to die

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  4. Reblogged this on Louise Ann blogging at: free your Spirit 3/7 and commented:
    I have an inkling that there will be a reunion , maybe not in this life time, but it is for sure we both need to lose our unconditional love thought and behaviours, jealousy, abandonment, control, resentment, hate, fear of extreme emotions, fear of allowing, manifest and grow and we couldn’t do that together so the universe and our high selves and team ripped us apart and kept on until we finally had to conceded to separation. I commit fully to the process of unconditional existence so that I may unite with all that is.

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    1. Keeping open heart is the key, and it requires letting go of all u have mentioned. The picture is BIG. You have to love yourself enough to be authentic and stand by your own side with conviction in your commitment to doing so. For, when you commit to being your authentic self, all that will come through is love and you will attract only love.

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      1. Yes that is the reason it had all had to break apart. A life built on un-authenticity is a life built on a lie. I am now concentrating on being the very truest, most honest, aligned loving person, soul I can be this time around. Losing the conditions in any story Simple Joy, Love and understanding.

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  5. Thank You so much for posting this. I have recntly worked through the process to the point where I am trying to love unconditionally and embody the paradox. I miss him so much and keep trying to think through how I can find him again but know it is not the natural way. Everything you spoke here is exactly what I have learned from listening to my higher self coaching me during this process. It was such a relief to get that affirmation from you as well. I want to thank you again for sharing your knowledge here for everyone, you truly have a gift and I appreciate your strength. Love and Light

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  6. I’m pretty certain I met my TF about 3 years ago at work. I am 10 years older than her, I’m married, and she was also in a committed relationship when I met her. We took to each other instantly and developed a bonding friendship that took off like a rocket ship ! We opened up to each other honestly and without any judgments. We eventually became physical & intimate which was unbelievably mind blowing. We enjoyed spending time together immensely, but eventually greed, jealously and anger crept in and separated us a few times. We tried to sever the connection but always came back together until recently. We do not speak now. Never has anyone touched my heart & soul with such joy and passion like her before. We were lost in each others connection so deeply, but suffered dearly when we were a part from one another. The pain and emotions became a destructive force for us and we both exploded with negativity. We have learned let go and focus on ourselves individually. It was the most awakening experience I’ve ever had the pleasure to enjoy. Hopefully a day will come when we can rekindle our relationship as I cannot see myself with anyone else but her.

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  7. I am sending you immense gratitude and love for writing this article. It moved me to tears. Many, many things led me here… starting with synchronicities that could no longer be dismissed, and snowballed into a spiritual awakening. I had reached rock bottom from despair over the loss of my twin flame: I begged the universe for a sign. I had asked before, but not in such desperation–or maybe just not in the mindset to receive. I knew we were tied together, and I still felt him, but now how or why. He broke up with me while he was away, citing the intensity, and though he is only 2 miles away, I haven’t seen a trace of him in the two months since he came home. We talked once, immensely missed each other, made plans to see each other which ultimately fell through due to circumstances outside our control, and he dropped off the face of the earth again. We spent every day together for 3 and a half years: now I see that it was a mistake in my time of my growth (or, in this sense, necessary to address those parts of ourselves) but it has been incredibly hard. I started slowly reading about every topic of spirituality I could get my hands on, starting with tarot cards, and then it suddenly accelerated very quickly. So many things, like I said,have led me here… and I know that this was something I was meant to read. Thank you for helping remove any residual burden off my heavy heart: it was an incredible experience. I hope great things come your way for it.

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