The Real Reason For The Pain For Your Twin Flame…

The Real Reason For The Pain For Your Twin Flame…

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I know that this may be a difficult concept to consider, for many of you. But, hear me out. There’s no harm in it…

I thought that my pain was caused by the separation from my Twin. I was wrong…

My pain started before that. Before I knew what he was to me. Before I consciously established the connection. Before the Twin Flame run even began. I called it dark night of the soul. It came over me and I was cloaked in it. In the confusion, in the overwhelming hopelessness and pain. No apparent rhyme or reason. No way out. It was pain that was there. It simply existed. There was nothing that I could do except bask in it. Accept it. There it was. I let the tears flow. I don’t know any other way… The Twin Flame run occurred after that and the pain continued, but let’s not get this mixed up. Let’s understand what pain really originates from.

I understand sadness. I understand what it feels like to be drowning in dark, merciless waters of pain. So much heartache. Not knowing how to make it stop. Utter despair and praying for the end to come. The end of me. The end of the pain. Either which way, when you’re in that place, it doesn’t seem to matter how relief befalls you. You just want it to come. You just want to see the light of day again. To feel like you have some good reason to live for. Or to die and to cry no more…

I reached this point of awareness in the midst of my pain, on a few occasions… A point where I looked at the pain. I studied it. I observed it. I tried to see where it was really coming from. I went into it. I felt the pain outside of the circumstances. I separated the reason from the pain. The pain didn’t disappear, it was still there, but I realized something…. That the pain wasn’t attached to anything. It was just there. It wasn’t there because of my situation. It wasn’t there because of my Twin, or because of the separation. It wasn’t there for any reason besides that it just existed. It was something that was already there. Something that needed to be looked at and dealt with. Something that was crying out for attention. Crying out for action, movement, energy, acknowledgement and change.

We attach reasons to our pain. We try to rationalize it, to make it logical. We blame this person, or that thing. We justify that our reactions of pain are perfectly valid, given the circumstances, but that is a lie. You see, you could have 10 different people all experience the same thing and they could all have completely different reactions. The circumstances don’t cause the reaction, you do. You are the one who reacts to your circumstances. Your reaction is your reaction, it’s something that is already there. Something that already exists within you, and whatever is already inside of you will come out when it gets a chance.

Circumstances are just the excuse for the existing shadows to come to the surface to be seen, transcended and transformed.

This why we test people. To see what’s inside of them, to see what they’re made of.

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What are you made of?

At the core of your pain, there isn’t anything to blame. There is no circumstance that is causing it. That is just an illusion. We think that if circumstances would change that we would feel better. The truth is that when we overcome the pain that already lives inside of us, we then allow for change. Pain comes up to show you that it’s there, not because of some outside circumstance. There is no outside circumstance that could cause you pain if the pain wasn’t already there.

I know it is difficult to see this. I know that there is pain involved with separation and that the way that we experience it  points to the idea that the circumstance is to blame for the onset of pain. But, the circumstance is just a trigger for something that is already there. If it were the circumstance which caused the pain, then it would be impossible to overcome the pain unless you could change the circumstance. The reality is that it is possible to overcome the pain, even if the outside circumstance stays the same. This means that it isn’t the circumstance which causes the pain. The reason it is important to note is because this understanding is the jumping off point to empowerment. You should know that you are not at the mercy of your pain, even if you cannot change the circumstances.

So, stop blaming your Twin, or the separation for your pain. Stop thinking that you can’t escape it. Stop thinking that you are being inflicted with a painful experience. It’s just an experience. Your reaction is your creation.

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Be aware of your pain. Look at it. Study it. Go into it. You will see, it’s only pain and it can go away just as swiftly as it came. It isn’t attached to anything. It isn’t attached to you. You are not married to pain. It isn’t following you around. It isn’t your ball and chain. It’s only pain. It’s only there to show you something. Become ultra conscious of it and you will allow it to show you what you need to see. Circumstances, people and events aside.

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Why the Twin Flame Runner Runs

Why the Twin Flame Runner Runs

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I just love you. And I feel so blessed by this opportunity to love. I feel so lucky to have met you. I feel so good that you are here. So grateful that you arent just a dream anymore. I’ve been asking for you. I’ve been imagining you. I’ve been preparing for you. I’ve been practicing you. I’ve been waiting for you. Now, I get to see you, I get to hear you, I get to taste you and touch you. I get to have conversations with you. I get to visit with you. I get to spend time and joke and laugh with you. So different. The real thing vs. the imagined thing. So very different, and I never thought that I would feel this way. Scared shitless.

Every new experience is an opportunity for me to understand something in a deeper way than I ever have before. Today, I am understanding the runner. We all hate on the runner. We make the runner the problem. If they just wouldn’t run, everyone would be happy. What’s the point, anyway? What’s the point of running? Why do they run from what they love? How is that even possible? It doesn’t make sense.

I know it. It doesn’t make sense. But the truth is that everyone does the best that they can from their current point of consciousness. The runner flees because they feel like they can’t stay. It can be so difficult when you meet someone you love. Someone you’ve been waiting to meet. Someone you actually have a connection with. Someone who is everything that you want. It can seem too good to be true, and for the runner, they are just waiting for the other shoe to drop. It feels to them like if they are seen, that they won’t be loved. Even if they are a great person with nothing to hide. Even if they know that they are wonderful and have so much to offer, it still feels like you might be rejected at any moment. No particular reason, besides that you just aren’t good enough. It’s not even a logical fear. It’s completely ridiculous! But, none the less, you are walking a tight rope, holding your breath, looking down and hoping to god that you don’t fuck it up. This thing that you have found that you know that you want. This thing that you know is special. There it is and holding onto it just becomes too much to bear. It just becomes too difficult to try to stay open and vulnerable so that you can maintain the relationship, when at the same time, you are scared shitless. You are watching yourself and what you say. Censoring yourself and playing back scenarios in your head, wondering if you did the right thing. God forbid if you make a mistake. Then it becomes some huge ordeal. Something you just beat yourself up about. The seesaw of the relationship and going with the ebb and flow is difficult too. It all just becomes too much. So, one will run in small ways. This is where games originate. For the Twin Flame runner, they run away completely. It just becomes easier to not have the relationship at all. To not have to be afraid, to not have to worry about if you said the right thing or if your Twin is still into you. To not have such incessant inquiries in your mind. Just make it all stop. That is why the runner runs. To make it stop.

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Being in the presence of your Twin Flame makes you aware of so many things you didn’t know about yourself. It brings to the surface every insecurity. Every fear. Depending upon where you are in your journey, it could be too much. Especially for someone who has not done a lot of reflecting on the self. For someone who has shadows buried  and hasn’t yet begun the process of purging. So, just imagine suddenly becoming aware of everything about yourself that seems less than perfect or less than ideal. And all of this is happening in the moment that you want to put your best foot forward. It’s completely nerve wracking if you’re not really self aware. It’s nerve wracking even when you are self aware. It’s quite a dilemma. That the moment you want to just be yourself and embody all of the characteristics about yourself that you know are ideal, is the moment you become aware of all of your weaknesses. It’s tough to be your best when you become so aware of your “flaws”.

This is why the runner runs. Not because they do not feel great love. It’s the opposite. They do feel great love. It’s that great love that makes them afraid. Afraid of rejection, afraid of losing. When you are looking at it from the runner’s perspective, It feels better to know that you sabotaged something on purpose, than to live with being the one who “messed up”, or wasn’t good enough. This is the logic. Is it sensical? I don’t think so. I think we all know that this premise of running is flawed. But, this is what happens. Once the initial Twin Flame connection is established, it brings up a lot of things to the surface that need to be worked through. Sometimes, the runner just needs time to sort it all out and gain their footing. They need to figure out what to make of it all. How to gain a new perspective that will be self loving, instead of self sabotaging. It can be difficult to understand. How someone could be so afraid. But it happens, and sometimes, it just takes time to sort out.

Everyone has their quirks. Everyone has their good sides and their bad sides. Everyone has had experiences that are good and bad. Everyone has made choices that are good and bad. It’s the overall package that we are looking for. Things can be overcome. Fear can be overcome. That’s what is important. Not what happened in the past but where you are letting it take you. What you are making of it and who you are choosing to become because of it. Are you letting your experiences make you better and stronger? Are you becoming more loving or less loving?

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Let’s not hold our runners accountable for taking the time that they needed for themselves. Let’s not judge them based in their past. People need to work through things sometimes. Pain and fear make people do crazy things, but it’s not who they are. People can get over fear and pain. Make your decisions based in the now. Based in who is good for you now and who they have become. Give love to the runners of the world. That is all they ever wanted all along.

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Dear Twin Flame; The Formula For Attracting The Ideal Mate

Dear Twin Flame; The Formula For Attracting The Ideal Mate

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Shut up and Love.

I will focus my loving attention on you. Why? Because you have inspired me. You have made it easy. You have opened me up and made me vulnerable. Vulnerable so that I could see the parts of myself that I couldn’t see before. The parts of myself that need to be loved. The parts of myself I ignored, before you came along. Thank you for coming along and being the being that you are. For inspiring me to love. For giving me a reason to experience the divine. I see the divine in you, and seeing the divine in you allows me to see the divine in myself.

I am so appreciative of you. You are more than I remember asking for. You are my pleasant surprise. I have been asking for this for so very long and in so many ways. I have been piecing this together, one desire at a time. One preference at a time, and there you come, just on time. I recognize you. You are my creation. You are the living proof, the manifestation, the evidence that the Universe is conspiring in my favor, to bring me all that I have asked for, whether I was aware of the asking or not. Even the most artfully crafted poetic masterpiece would undermine the delight I have been graced with since you’ve crossed my path. But it’s even more than that. Because what we have is mutual. What a blessing that we can both have this experience together, at the same time. That I can understand you and you can understand me. The as I resonate with you, you are resonating with me. Our bliss is shared. Our joy is shared. We are on the same page, seeing eye to eye, being understood and understanding. Everyone wants to be understood and understanding is the doorway to freedom. Freedom is love. This is good. This is easy. This is logical. And this experience has shown me what I really want. No walls, no fears, no barriers. Just me, just you. Two people coming together who want the very same thing and are ready for it, at the same time.

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Anything else would fall short.

This what you want, Twin Flame. You want your experience to be mutual. You want your experience to be easy and smooth. You want your experience to feel good. You want for everything to fall into place just perfectly, no resistance on either end and no reservations, no hesitation, no fear. This is truly what you want. Something that you can touch and taste and smell and be a part of, in the flesh. Not just in the mind’s eye or on a soul level.

If your Twin Flame is running, that’s not your ideal experience. It is only half of the experience. One half that you are in love, but the other half that it is not easy, not mutual or satisfying. You must understand this, that no matter how much you think you want this Twin, that attaching yourself to anything that is not serving you in love is not a self loving action. If you love a person and want an experience with them that they do not want with you, they are simply not your ideal person. Not in that moment that they are denying you. They are only half the ideal. The half that you love, and the half that loves you, but not the half that can make your love into a fully fleshed out reality that you can live to enjoy. And since we are here to have a 3rd dimensional experience, it matters. This truth is real. It deserves consideration. There is so much more at play here, in the Twin Flame connection than meets the eye. The real purpose is for you to love yourself. The best way to learn an to grow is to be challenged. That is what this is. It’s a challenge. A great challenge which is only taken on by those who have great ability and desire to evolve at a rate which many have not committed to taking on.

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Your Twin Flame has inspired you to experience an enormous capacity to love. This energy also makes you aware of your need for things outside of yourself for the feeling of fulfillment, satisfaction or completeness. This awareness is key, so that you may experience the contrast and pain which will inspire you on your journey to fulfillment through the self. Contentment and completeness through the self, instead of by any other means outside of the self. This is the journey. Reunification of the Twin Flame is not the goal of this experience. The reunification or fulfillment via 3rd dimensional manifestation is simply a by-product of the inner workings we are motivated toward as part of the Twin Flame odyssey.

You are not attached to anything. The Twin Flame is a connection, yes, and it is true that you cannot sever it, but it is also true that you do not have to want for something that is not serving you. You must learn to make the self loving action of allowing yourself to come to a place where you can allow a person in that will actually represent true love. A person who values you. A person who looks at you through the eyes of love and with no reservations about it. A person who is not afraid of themselves or of you. A person who is not afraid of connection or intimacy. This is what you deserve, Twin Flame! This is the challenge! To love yourself  first, so that you are not at the mercy of another. Not to be a stone who refuses to love. But to love without condition. To love, regardless of the outcome an to be able to see new beginnings in the endings, instead of seeing pain, fear and anguish in the endings.

Your Twin Flame could very well be the person who can offer you the whole package of mutually expressed love. Do not despair. But are you making that the end all be all? There is need to underline this idea that you cannot be dependent upon the reunification with your Twin Flame for completion. You must recognize that love abounds. Satisfaction, contentment, completion and wonder abound in this universe and the forms that these experiences can take on cannot possibly be predicted by you, or any human mind.

You want the one who has mutual feelings and gives you what you want in every way. Through actions and words and consistency, manifested in the physical. Many of us have this idea that we cannot have it all. This is a human, limiting concept. You can have it all. Great love doesn’t have to be hard, but what are you believing? What are you accepting as real, possible and true? If you are accepting a reality of a standard that is less than what you know that you deserve as a divine being, then that is the reality that you will attract. Once you cease to entertain the less than ideal as a reality, it won’t be your experience because you won’t be accepting of it. You therefore, raise your expectations of the Universe and the Universe must deliver.

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Value yourself enough to be firm with the Universe about what you want. Value yourself enough to realize what’s really important. We get so caught up in the details of what we want, forgetting that when the Universe brings you the right package, certain other things don’t matter. We get so hung up on one person, forgetting that there is more than one person for everyone. Forgetting that if the Universe brought it through one, it can bring it through another. It does not mean that the experience will be the same. It does not mean that it will be the Twin Flame experience all over again, but it will be what you want. Twin Flame, it is true that it can come, but you must value yourself enough and raise your vibration enough to attract the satisfaction that you seek. It can come through your Flame or through some other way, but what we know is that either way, you have to let go of your part in trying to control it. No matter what you attract in the end, whether it be the person you currently consider to be your Twin Flame or not, the means is always the same. You attract what you feel and you attract what you are. So, value yourself, don’t settle, satisfy yourself in all the ways that you can, be content in your now and open minded to the future. This is the formula, and along the way, use every excuse that you can to experience love. Cherish every soulmate and act upon the love that they inspire within you. Give all of them your full attention and love. Be in that vibration of appreciation as much as you can. Good things will come. I love you.

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Twin Flame, Must Read; This is The Key To Getting What You Want

Twin Flame, Must Read; This is The Key To Getting What You Want

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There is no greater gift than my love for you

I love you

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The Twin Flame experience is painful. It’s gut wrenching, confusing and brings you to places that you never knew you could go. Humans outside of this experience, looking in, cannot possibly fathom what the Twin Flame phenomenon entails. They don’t understand why you just can’t get over it. Why you just can’t forget about it. Why you just can’t move on. So we say, do you think that I would be suffering like this if I had the choice? I wish I could forget. I wish I could move on. I wish that I could stop loving this person. I know it sounds pathetic. I know it sounds absurd. I know it makes no sense, but it’s beyond my control. This is the experience. It’s overtaking and powerful. It inspires such a great magnitude of love and an equal magnitude of suffering. Two sides of the same coin.

Let’s take a look at this. Because, logically, we know that the plan of the Universe isn’t to make us suffer. The Universe doesn’t conspire to put us through pain that we cannot escape. We know that the Universe is always expanding and wants us to keep up with that expansion. Taking us to new heights of evolution and growth, wisdom and self empowerment. The point is not to become smaller, but to become bigger. A more profound expression of the divine. For, that is what we are. We are the divine.

So, what does all of this mean? We are only human and we can only see things from a human perspective, or can we? We are learning, we are changing, we are growing and with that comes new dimensions of thought. New paradigms and new understandings.

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The Twin Flame experience is to help us reach new heights of evolution. So, therefore, it makes sense that the idea is for us to become happy and whole, no matter what. To come to a place where we are no longer dependent upon the outcome for satisfaction or fulfillment or joy. That is the key, but how does one achieve that in the Twin Flame experience? How is that possible, when the desire and the connection seems so indomitable?

This is your challenge. Why do you want your Twin Flame? Let’s not romanticize about it. Those of you who have been studying this and are well versed have been told again and again that the Twin Flame experience is not about romance. Establishing that opens the door to  understanding the true meaning behind all of this and what we can ultimately gain.

The hardest concept to accept about the Twin Flame  experience is that at some point, you have to be able to accept being without them. Let’s not forget that this is not a one size fits all. Every person and Twin Flame is an individual and  everyone has their own journey. But, overall, you must reach a point where you can truly move on and accept life without them.

Many of you have come to this idea, but there is still a part of you that feels that your Twin Flame is the only thing that could ultimately fulfill you. You move on in your daily life, but you still miss them. You still think that there is no one else out there for you and you still dwell on the Twin Flame fantasy. Part of you feels that little empty space which could only be filled by them. The one, true love.

Let’s think about this. The Twin Flame experience causes us to see all kinds of things about ourselves that we didn’t even know were there. The idea is to find love, which is only possible through self love. It all begins with your love for yourself. That’s where it’s at.

Self loving actions.

What is a self loving action? I think that if we become conscious and honest with ourselves, we know the difference between actions that are self loving and actions that are not. Is it a self loving action to remain stuck on a person that is not recognizing our value? That is not treating us with respect and love? Think about this. The heart wants what the heart wants. We want what we want. But, the greatest lesson here is to understand that loving a person who is not offering us all that we, as extensions of the divine deserve, is not an action of self love. It is ok to love. But, there comes a point where we must see that the Twin Flame that isn’t valuing us, is not the whole package. Yes, it feels like the Twin Flame is everything that we want. We love them beyond description, but theres still a big chunk of the equation that is missing.

What we want is someone whom we love, but that love has to be mutual and mutually expressed and honored.

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The difference between your Twin Flame and the person that you actually want to be with is that the person you really want won’t run! They will be just as enthused about you as you are about them! They won’t be so easily scared away. They won’t be wishy washy. They won’t be indecisive and it won’t be a difficult thing! You want the mate that you see eye to eye with on all levels.  This is so important to understand! The one that you want is not going to question. They are going to be as sure about you as you are about them. They are going to overcome every obstacle, no questions asked. They will follow their inspiration to be with you, and it won’t take months or years of deliberation, weighing the pros and the cons before they realize that they want to go the extra mile with you. When you find that person, oh, the joy. Oh how easy it will be. Oh, how wonderfully a relationship can flow. The relationship that you want is easy. It’s easy and it all just falls into place. It’s not difficult, it’s a harmonious experience. Like finding the glove that finally fits. You will not even believe how easy and fitting a relationship can be. That is the relationship that you want. Not one that is full of turmoil, games, tears, loneliness and pain.

The mate that you actually want is one who values you and demonstrates that they value you.

The Twin Flame experience is not about romance. It’s about learning to love the self. I cannot express this enough. The pain is far too great to comprehend moving beyond it. I know this, I’ve been there, I understand, but you must know that the point of all of this is not so that you can feel incomplete, it is so that you can feel complete. Until you can truly move beyond it, you are still not demonstrating self love and therefore, cannot attract the one who reflects that back to you.

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Moving Beyond

The number one most important thing, besides loving yourself no matter what state you are in, is not limiting the Universe’s ability to bring you what you want. To explain further… If you have decided that your Twin Flame is the only thing that can possibly make you feel complete and happy, you are limiting the options that the Universe has to bring you fulfillment. You do not know better than the Universe. Period. That being said, it makes no sense for you to tell the Universe how to deliver something to you. This is outside your realm of comprehension. You cannot tell the Universe that your Twin Flame is the only venue for which you want to be fulfilled. The fact is that the Universe is unlimited. That means that there are many ways for you to be fulfilled and your Twin Flame may be one, but it may not be the one at all. In order to allow fulfillment to come to you, you must come to terms with the fact that fulfillment can come to you through any number of venues. There is no such thing as only having one option. There are infinite options, the Universe knows no bounds. From a human perspective, this is not easy to come to terms with. But we are moving beyond the 3rd dimension. We are moving into greater and greater realms of understanding and therefore, greater realms of possibilities for all.

Trust in the Universe

If you are believing that the only way to true happiness is through your Twin Flame, then you are not having faith in the Universe. You are not trusting in the infinite capacity of the universe to orchestrate the manifestation to bring you precisely what you want in ways that surpass your expectations. This is possible. Do not entertain doubts in your energy field. All you have to do is say to the universe; I know that you know what I want and you can bring it to me through my Twin Flame or through some other person. Trusting that the Universe can deliver, because, it can.

This does not mean that you are not destined to be with your Twin Flame. There is a paradox at work here. The paradox is that you can have what you want when you do not need it anymore. This is very important to understand. Yes, I am telling you to move on. To become whole. To stop needing. The paradox is that the moment that you come out of the vibration of need, you will stop attracting more need. Instead, you want to be in the vibration of not needing, and that is when you can then attract what it is that you truly want. When you stop the need, you release resistance to what you want. By doing this, you are actually increasing your chances of reuniting with your Twin Flame. By letting go and surrendering. This is actually the best chance that you have of reuniting with your Twin Flame, but there is one more certainty at play… That whatever it is that comes along will be exactly what you want.

You must live moment to moment, making self loving decisions that you know are good for you and that make you happy. Do whatever you must to live a happy life. You must trust the Universe and that it can deliver, without limiting the options by which it can bring it you. Without needing it a certain way. Let the Universe surprise you, and it will.

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Love, Love, Love, trust, have faith and be super happy.

I have so much love for you. For you, I pour my heart and soul. For you, I hold nothing back. For you, I am willing to tell the truth, even when it may be difficult for me me to say and difficult for you to hear. I do it because I love you and there is no greater blessing than that. I am so grateful that the Universe has blessed me with such great capacity to love. There is no greater joy. I am a loving being, an expression of the divine, I am blessed and so are you.

With great love.

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What is the Point of the Twin Flame Journey?

What is the Point of the Twin Flame Journey?

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There are two main points of the Twin Flame Journey that will be covered in this Transmission. The first has to do with Guidance. As you know, guidance is an amazing and invaluable tool that is meant to assist you through your travels here in this dimension. It is the bridge between the physical and the spiritual. All of you desire guidance, for it is no secret that you all are asking for it on a daily basis. Every single one of you. Is it so hard to believe that you have access to your guidance at any point in time? The Twin Flame experience is an exaggerated play on what it feels like to be guided. It’s an exaggerated gut feeling. An Exaggerated hunch. An exaggerated intuitive pull. So much so, that even those of you who have no belief in these types of things will be compelled to understand this experience which is so foreign to you. There is no one who can ignore the intensity of the Twin Flame connection. It exists, it’s undeniable and this is for good reason.

The Twin Flame experience in meant to get you in touch with your own guidance system on a greater scale.

Once you learn this, that you have intense feelings that you cannot ignore and that you didn’t make it up, it’s an experience and that experience is legitimate in itself; You will then be at the jumping off point that allows you to pay attention to your guidance system, even in times when it presents itself in much subtler ways.

Many of you wonder if you are crazy because of this Twin Flame experience. It’s an experience! It is real! The experience is real! The connection is real! You don’t make up these feelings, they are real. You meet many people throughout your lifetime that do not trigger such intensity within you, so why should it be so hard to fathom that the connection you feel to that one person is real? You would not be stuck on this situation if it was not real. If there was no real connection. Stop doubting yourself. Stop doubting your sanity and stop doubting your connection to your Twin Flame. Stop asking if it is real, simply be at peace with it. Simply acknowledge the experience and move on if you must, or do whatever it is that you must do, but stop going over it again and again, as if there is something that you do not know. You can’t have everything all at once. You must have faith in your guidance and then move on to the second point that we are about to make about the Twin Flame experience…

The second point of the Twin Flame experience is essentially to become whole. To learn unconditional love, self realization, ultimate authenticity and manifestation of courageous love. You cannot discover your capacity to love without loving yourself and as you learn to love others you learn to love yourself. As you learn to love yourself, you also learn to love others. The two are connected.

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You must learn what it means to love yourself in order to get through this. It’s a whole different world than what you are accustomed to. It is a completely different perspective. A completely different experience. It will take a complete shift in paradigm. What will be explained in later transmissions will be difficult to accept at first, for some of you. But, be assured, that what is offered here will be of good help to you if you can trust and gradually learn to apply it.

Self Loving Actions and Reaching Completeness

You must know that you are ok, even by yourself. You must know that you are ok, even without your flame. Do you know it? Do you feel it? Is that your experience? Many of you will say that you do feel complete, but you are still wanting for the completeness of the Twin Flame experience and this is counter to feeling what it actually means to feel complete. When you are complete, there is no longing for anything. when you are longing, you are not demonstrating trust that the Universe will deliver to you what you want and therefore, it cannot!

Do you see how you are the one who is putting a wrench in your own fate? You attract what you feel and what you are. What signal are you giving to the Universe? Are you telling yourself that you are ok and loving yourself in every moment, no matter what state you are in? Or are you wanting, desiring and longing for things you do not yet have.

It is no secret that to stop the longing seems impossible to many of you. This is why it will be covered in greater detail in the next transmission. Please try to let this idea sink in a bit, as the promise here is to bring you closer to happiness and freedom, one step at a time.

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You are so very loved and that will never change, Dear, Twin Flame. The Universe has made every possible preparation for you, everything is ready and all you have to do is allow the abundance of love to flow. That is what these transmissions are all about. Namaste.

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We are all in this together, I am here for you.

Freedom From Fear; For The Twin Flame

Freedom From Fear; For The Twin Flame

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All of My Transmissions are Via Unity Consciousness

“My pain has made my fear obsolete.”

-Elise

Pain is the one thing that we are all trying to avoid. The one thing that we fear the most can take on many different embodiments, but at the core, it’s the same for everyone; Pain.

What happens when you can’t avoid pain? When circumstances and events take place that cause debilitating pain…. What is one to do? Here is the thing. We view pain as a negative experience. But, in order to learn how to overcome pain, we must first have the experience of pain. Once you learn how to transcend pain, fear has no hold on you anymore. This is freedom. making decisions from a place of love and freedom, instead of fear. Fear keeps us from following our hearts. From pursuing the things that are the most meaningful to us. It’s such a handicap when we can’t make decisions from a place of love and freedom.

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We are only an empty shell if we cannot live by freedom.  We are lukewarm, stagnant and unsatisfied at best, if we ignore our hearts and live by some other rule. Some rule that says we are controlled by our fear of pain. Choices are unencumbered by fear and pain. Otherwise, they are just rules that we live by. They are not choices. Choice represents freedom to choose. Freedom to choose only exists when all options are available to us.

Life is a paradox and the paradox of pain is that when you overcome pain, you are free. When you are no longer ruled by fear, all options become available to you. There is no obligation. There is no ultimatum. No means that can be used to manipulate you into submission. No way that you could be persuaded into some self hating action. That is freedom. Freedom to choose. Freedom to be entirely authentic. Freedom to go after those things that you truly want and to distance yourself from those things you know you don’t want.

When pain is the only threat, bring it on. I have been there. I have lost it all. I have endured the gut wrenching tears day after day. The grueling pain. The desire to cease to exist. The confusion beyond belief. The incapacitating sorrow. The exhaustive spinning of the mental body which tries so hard to figure it out and solve this problem of pain. All to no avail. Just a downward spiral. Here is the verdict. There is a way out of pain and when you find it, you will fear nothing and no-one. There is no thing more empowering than that. Than the ultimate freedom to love and be loved outside of the boundaries that fear wants to keep us within. There is no self-sabotage outside of fear. There is no obligation outside of fear. There is no insecurity outside of fear.

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It’s  pain that makes you stronger. Pain puts things in perspective. It makes you come to a clearer understanding of what’s really important. Most of all, pain ultimately provides freedom to those who overcome it. Once you overcome pain, the world is yours. You no longer make decisions based in fear, but in love, forevermore. What more have you to fear once you have lost your Twin Flame? What more can happen to you that is worse than that? What more have you to fear if you have lost your Twin and come out the other side and made a beautiful life for yourself? What threat will you fear? For me, there is none. There is no threat great enough to take away my audacity to choose in love. I will move forward in love. I will move forward knowing that I have nothing to lose, because I’ve already lost it all and I not only survived, I overcame. I figured it out. I am the lotus, risen from the mud. Risen from the shadows. I am happy and whole and free as can be. I did it.

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There is nothing better than this freedom that I have achieved. This freedom that you can achieve. To be no longer afraid of love. No longer afraid of rejection. To no longer settle for less. To no longer be manipulated. To no longer be under appreciated. To no longer be ruled by fear. Outside of fear there is love, and that is where you can live. This is your way out. Your freedom from fear is on the other side of pain. There is progression involved. It’s no easy task. It’s ok to take your time to arrive. It happens over time. Just be patient and love yourself every step of the way. Every day of pain brings you closer to freedom.

Pain makes fear obsolete.

You cannot be persuaded by pain, once you know pain and have overcome it.

Become stronger than your pain.

Be free

We are all in this together. You are loved.

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How to Overcome The Pain For Your Twin (Part 4)

How to Overcome The Pain For Your Twin (Part 4)

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You can only see through the eyes of your own perspective, but perspective is subject to change.

Pain is a state of being. A lens that the world is viewed through. A perspective, birthed and supported by beliefs and definitions. All of this which is subject to change. “Rose colored glasses” is a common term for the perspective of love. The lens of love that we look through when we are inspired into this perspective. Your world will look different depending upon the type of lens that you are looking through. Your world will hold different meaning depending upon the lens that you are looking through. The lens that you are looking through will influence your interpretation of everything that surrounds you. Are you looking through the lens of love? Are you looking through the lens of victimization? Are you looking through the lens of insecurity? Are you looking through the lens of pain?

The lens of pain

Don’t be silly, there is always a way out of pain. You just have to decide it for yourself. You have to drop expectations. You have to stop trying to force your way out of pain. You have to just decide that it’s ok to be in pain, because, it is. There is nothing wrong with being in pain. Pain is a sign of growth. Growth that must know pain for some reason. For a chosen reason. A reason that can serve its purpose when you decide. When you learn that love is the only way out. When you are able to give yourself a little push and do things that you know are good for you, even when it seems difficult. Be brave. Have the audacity to see that there is a way out of pain.

Take off the lens that sees through the eyes of pain and embrace yourself. Be ok with your state of being. You are worthy, even when you are in pain. You are good, even when you are in pain. You are right, even when you are in pain. You are ok, even when you are in pain. There is no lens that you could look through that could change your divine nature. Your divine nature is real and eternal. You are that which you are and there is no way out of that or around it. Everything else is just a lie. An illusion. A perspective. Your divine nature is truth, whether you choose to see it or not. Whether you choose to embrace it or not. But, for the sake of convenience, you may as well, embrace yourself, forgive yourself and accept yourself, even when you are in pain. Paradoxically, when you stop pushing against your state of being and surrender to it, loving yourself regardless, suddenly, you are seeing through the eyes of love. Through rose colored glasses. That’s the idea.

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When one is looking through the lens of pain, pain comes up a lot more. The glass is always half empty, instead of half full. Negative emotions come up at times when they could be avoided. Negative thoughts come up when there is positivity to be seen. It’s all in perspective. The way that you choose to see it. The thoughts that you choose to entertain from your perspective are what runs the show. Everything else will follow. So, take off the lens that you see pain through. Take off the perspective that shows you the most pain. Put on a perspective that sees self love and self acceptance. That is where salvation begins. With knowing that it’s ok to be in pain and when you choose to not feed into pain’s perspective, things can begin to change for you. Everything does’t have to change suddenly. Things can change over time. In each moment, all you can do is try to be going in the right direction and stay in self acceptance and love. Be ok where you are and you will attract more of that. One thought at a time. One loving step at a time. You will be ok. You will be fine. There is great love here for you. We are all in this together.

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