The Real Reason For The Pain For Your Twin Flame…

The Real Reason For The Pain For Your Twin Flame…

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I know that this may be a difficult concept to consider, for many of you. But, hear me out. There’s no harm in it…

I thought that my pain was caused by the separation from my Twin. I was wrong…

My pain started before that. Before I knew what he was to me. Before I consciously established the connection. Before the Twin Flame run even began. I called it dark night of the soul. It came over me and I was cloaked in it. In the confusion, in the overwhelming hopelessness and pain. No apparent rhyme or reason. No way out. It was pain that was there. It simply existed. There was nothing that I could do except bask in it. Accept it. There it was. I let the tears flow. I don’t know any other way… The Twin Flame run occurred after that and the pain continued, but let’s not get this mixed up. Let’s understand what pain really originates from.

I understand sadness. I understand what it feels like to be drowning in dark, merciless waters of pain. So much heartache. Not knowing how to make it stop. Utter despair and praying for the end to come. The end of me. The end of the pain. Either which way, when you’re in that place, it doesn’t seem to matter how relief befalls you. You just want it to come. You just want to see the light of day again. To feel like you have some good reason to live for. Or to die and to cry no more…

I reached this point of awareness in the midst of my pain, on a few occasions… A point where I looked at the pain. I studied it. I observed it. I tried to see where it was really coming from. I went into it. I felt the pain outside of the circumstances. I separated the reason from the pain. The pain didn’t disappear, it was still there, but I realized something…. That the pain wasn’t attached to anything. It was just there. It wasn’t there because of my situation. It wasn’t there because of my Twin, or because of the separation. It wasn’t there for any reason besides that it just existed. It was something that was already there. Something that needed to be looked at and dealt with. Something that was crying out for attention. Crying out for action, movement, energy, acknowledgement and change.

We attach reasons to our pain. We try to rationalize it, to make it logical. We blame this person, or that thing. We justify that our reactions of pain are perfectly valid, given the circumstances, but that is a lie. You see, you could have 10 different people all experience the same thing and they could all have completely different reactions. The circumstances don’t cause the reaction, you do. You are the one who reacts to your circumstances. Your reaction is your reaction, it’s something that is already there. Something that already exists within you, and whatever is already inside of you will come out when it gets a chance.

Circumstances are just the excuse for the existing shadows to come to the surface to be seen, transcended and transformed.

This why we test people. To see what’s inside of them, to see what they’re made of.

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What are you made of?

At the core of your pain, there isn’t anything to blame. There is no circumstance that is causing it. That is just an illusion. We think that if circumstances would change that we would feel better. The truth is that when we overcome the pain that already lives inside of us, we then allow for change. Pain comes up to show you that it’s there, not because of some outside circumstance. There is no outside circumstance that could cause you pain if the pain wasn’t already there.

I know it is difficult to see this. I know that there is pain involved with separation and that the way that we experience it  points to the idea that the circumstance is to blame for the onset of pain. But, the circumstance is just a trigger for something that is already there. If it were the circumstance which caused the pain, then it would be impossible to overcome the pain unless you could change the circumstance. The reality is that it is possible to overcome the pain, even if the outside circumstance stays the same. This means that it isn’t the circumstance which causes the pain. The reason it is important to note is because this understanding is the jumping off point to empowerment. You should know that you are not at the mercy of your pain, even if you cannot change the circumstances.

So, stop blaming your Twin, or the separation for your pain. Stop thinking that you can’t escape it. Stop thinking that you are being inflicted with a painful experience. It’s just an experience. Your reaction is your creation.

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Be aware of your pain. Look at it. Study it. Go into it. You will see, it’s only pain and it can go away just as swiftly as it came. It isn’t attached to anything. It isn’t attached to you. You are not married to pain. It isn’t following you around. It isn’t your ball and chain. It’s only pain. It’s only there to show you something. Become ultra conscious of it and you will allow it to show you what you need to see. Circumstances, people and events aside.

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Why the Twin Flame Runner Runs

Why the Twin Flame Runner Runs

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I just love you. And I feel so blessed by this opportunity to love. I feel so lucky to have met you. I feel so good that you are here. So grateful that you arent just a dream anymore. I’ve been asking for you. I’ve been imagining you. I’ve been preparing for you. I’ve been practicing you. I’ve been waiting for you. Now, I get to see you, I get to hear you, I get to taste you and touch you. I get to have conversations with you. I get to visit with you. I get to spend time and joke and laugh with you. So different. The real thing vs. the imagined thing. So very different, and I never thought that I would feel this way. Scared shitless.

Every new experience is an opportunity for me to understand something in a deeper way than I ever have before. Today, I am understanding the runner. We all hate on the runner. We make the runner the problem. If they just wouldn’t run, everyone would be happy. What’s the point, anyway? What’s the point of running? Why do they run from what they love? How is that even possible? It doesn’t make sense.

I know it. It doesn’t make sense. But the truth is that everyone does the best that they can from their current point of consciousness. The runner flees because they feel like they can’t stay. It can be so difficult when you meet someone you love. Someone you’ve been waiting to meet. Someone you actually have a connection with. Someone who is everything that you want. It can seem too good to be true, and for the runner, they are just waiting for the other shoe to drop. It feels to them like if they are seen, that they won’t be loved. Even if they are a great person with nothing to hide. Even if they know that they are wonderful and have so much to offer, it still feels like you might be rejected at any moment. No particular reason, besides that you just aren’t good enough. It’s not even a logical fear. It’s completely ridiculous! But, none the less, you are walking a tight rope, holding your breath, looking down and hoping to god that you don’t fuck it up. This thing that you have found that you know that you want. This thing that you know is special. There it is and holding onto it just becomes too much to bear. It just becomes too difficult to try to stay open and vulnerable so that you can maintain the relationship, when at the same time, you are scared shitless. You are watching yourself and what you say. Censoring yourself and playing back scenarios in your head, wondering if you did the right thing. God forbid if you make a mistake. Then it becomes some huge ordeal. Something you just beat yourself up about. The seesaw of the relationship and going with the ebb and flow is difficult too. It all just becomes too much. So, one will run in small ways. This is where games originate. For the Twin Flame runner, they run away completely. It just becomes easier to not have the relationship at all. To not have to be afraid, to not have to worry about if you said the right thing or if your Twin is still into you. To not have such incessant inquiries in your mind. Just make it all stop. That is why the runner runs. To make it stop.

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Being in the presence of your Twin Flame makes you aware of so many things you didn’t know about yourself. It brings to the surface every insecurity. Every fear. Depending upon where you are in your journey, it could be too much. Especially for someone who has not done a lot of reflecting on the self. For someone who has shadows buried  and hasn’t yet begun the process of purging. So, just imagine suddenly becoming aware of everything about yourself that seems less than perfect or less than ideal. And all of this is happening in the moment that you want to put your best foot forward. It’s completely nerve wracking if you’re not really self aware. It’s nerve wracking even when you are self aware. It’s quite a dilemma. That the moment you want to just be yourself and embody all of the characteristics about yourself that you know are ideal, is the moment you become aware of all of your weaknesses. It’s tough to be your best when you become so aware of your “flaws”.

This is why the runner runs. Not because they do not feel great love. It’s the opposite. They do feel great love. It’s that great love that makes them afraid. Afraid of rejection, afraid of losing. When you are looking at it from the runner’s perspective, It feels better to know that you sabotaged something on purpose, than to live with being the one who “messed up”, or wasn’t good enough. This is the logic. Is it sensical? I don’t think so. I think we all know that this premise of running is flawed. But, this is what happens. Once the initial Twin Flame connection is established, it brings up a lot of things to the surface that need to be worked through. Sometimes, the runner just needs time to sort it all out and gain their footing. They need to figure out what to make of it all. How to gain a new perspective that will be self loving, instead of self sabotaging. It can be difficult to understand. How someone could be so afraid. But it happens, and sometimes, it just takes time to sort out.

Everyone has their quirks. Everyone has their good sides and their bad sides. Everyone has had experiences that are good and bad. Everyone has made choices that are good and bad. It’s the overall package that we are looking for. Things can be overcome. Fear can be overcome. That’s what is important. Not what happened in the past but where you are letting it take you. What you are making of it and who you are choosing to become because of it. Are you letting your experiences make you better and stronger? Are you becoming more loving or less loving?

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Let’s not hold our runners accountable for taking the time that they needed for themselves. Let’s not judge them based in their past. People need to work through things sometimes. Pain and fear make people do crazy things, but it’s not who they are. People can get over fear and pain. Make your decisions based in the now. Based in who is good for you now and who they have become. Give love to the runners of the world. That is all they ever wanted all along.

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Dear Twin Flame; The Formula For Attracting The Ideal Mate

Dear Twin Flame; The Formula For Attracting The Ideal Mate

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Shut up and Love.

I will focus my loving attention on you. Why? Because you have inspired me. You have made it easy. You have opened me up and made me vulnerable. Vulnerable so that I could see the parts of myself that I couldn’t see before. The parts of myself that need to be loved. The parts of myself I ignored, before you came along. Thank you for coming along and being the being that you are. For inspiring me to love. For giving me a reason to experience the divine. I see the divine in you, and seeing the divine in you allows me to see the divine in myself.

I am so appreciative of you. You are more than I remember asking for. You are my pleasant surprise. I have been asking for this for so very long and in so many ways. I have been piecing this together, one desire at a time. One preference at a time, and there you come, just on time. I recognize you. You are my creation. You are the living proof, the manifestation, the evidence that the Universe is conspiring in my favor, to bring me all that I have asked for, whether I was aware of the asking or not. Even the most artfully crafted poetic masterpiece would undermine the delight I have been graced with since you’ve crossed my path. But it’s even more than that. Because what we have is mutual. What a blessing that we can both have this experience together, at the same time. That I can understand you and you can understand me. The as I resonate with you, you are resonating with me. Our bliss is shared. Our joy is shared. We are on the same page, seeing eye to eye, being understood and understanding. Everyone wants to be understood and understanding is the doorway to freedom. Freedom is love. This is good. This is easy. This is logical. And this experience has shown me what I really want. No walls, no fears, no barriers. Just me, just you. Two people coming together who want the very same thing and are ready for it, at the same time.

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Anything else would fall short.

This what you want, Twin Flame. You want your experience to be mutual. You want your experience to be easy and smooth. You want your experience to feel good. You want for everything to fall into place just perfectly, no resistance on either end and no reservations, no hesitation, no fear. This is truly what you want. Something that you can touch and taste and smell and be a part of, in the flesh. Not just in the mind’s eye or on a soul level.

If your Twin Flame is running, that’s not your ideal experience. It is only half of the experience. One half that you are in love, but the other half that it is not easy, not mutual or satisfying. You must understand this, that no matter how much you think you want this Twin, that attaching yourself to anything that is not serving you in love is not a self loving action. If you love a person and want an experience with them that they do not want with you, they are simply not your ideal person. Not in that moment that they are denying you. They are only half the ideal. The half that you love, and the half that loves you, but not the half that can make your love into a fully fleshed out reality that you can live to enjoy. And since we are here to have a 3rd dimensional experience, it matters. This truth is real. It deserves consideration. There is so much more at play here, in the Twin Flame connection than meets the eye. The real purpose is for you to love yourself. The best way to learn an to grow is to be challenged. That is what this is. It’s a challenge. A great challenge which is only taken on by those who have great ability and desire to evolve at a rate which many have not committed to taking on.

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Your Twin Flame has inspired you to experience an enormous capacity to love. This energy also makes you aware of your need for things outside of yourself for the feeling of fulfillment, satisfaction or completeness. This awareness is key, so that you may experience the contrast and pain which will inspire you on your journey to fulfillment through the self. Contentment and completeness through the self, instead of by any other means outside of the self. This is the journey. Reunification of the Twin Flame is not the goal of this experience. The reunification or fulfillment via 3rd dimensional manifestation is simply a by-product of the inner workings we are motivated toward as part of the Twin Flame odyssey.

You are not attached to anything. The Twin Flame is a connection, yes, and it is true that you cannot sever it, but it is also true that you do not have to want for something that is not serving you. You must learn to make the self loving action of allowing yourself to come to a place where you can allow a person in that will actually represent true love. A person who values you. A person who looks at you through the eyes of love and with no reservations about it. A person who is not afraid of themselves or of you. A person who is not afraid of connection or intimacy. This is what you deserve, Twin Flame! This is the challenge! To love yourself  first, so that you are not at the mercy of another. Not to be a stone who refuses to love. But to love without condition. To love, regardless of the outcome an to be able to see new beginnings in the endings, instead of seeing pain, fear and anguish in the endings.

Your Twin Flame could very well be the person who can offer you the whole package of mutually expressed love. Do not despair. But are you making that the end all be all? There is need to underline this idea that you cannot be dependent upon the reunification with your Twin Flame for completion. You must recognize that love abounds. Satisfaction, contentment, completion and wonder abound in this universe and the forms that these experiences can take on cannot possibly be predicted by you, or any human mind.

You want the one who has mutual feelings and gives you what you want in every way. Through actions and words and consistency, manifested in the physical. Many of us have this idea that we cannot have it all. This is a human, limiting concept. You can have it all. Great love doesn’t have to be hard, but what are you believing? What are you accepting as real, possible and true? If you are accepting a reality of a standard that is less than what you know that you deserve as a divine being, then that is the reality that you will attract. Once you cease to entertain the less than ideal as a reality, it won’t be your experience because you won’t be accepting of it. You therefore, raise your expectations of the Universe and the Universe must deliver.

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Value yourself enough to be firm with the Universe about what you want. Value yourself enough to realize what’s really important. We get so caught up in the details of what we want, forgetting that when the Universe brings you the right package, certain other things don’t matter. We get so hung up on one person, forgetting that there is more than one person for everyone. Forgetting that if the Universe brought it through one, it can bring it through another. It does not mean that the experience will be the same. It does not mean that it will be the Twin Flame experience all over again, but it will be what you want. Twin Flame, it is true that it can come, but you must value yourself enough and raise your vibration enough to attract the satisfaction that you seek. It can come through your Flame or through some other way, but what we know is that either way, you have to let go of your part in trying to control it. No matter what you attract in the end, whether it be the person you currently consider to be your Twin Flame or not, the means is always the same. You attract what you feel and you attract what you are. So, value yourself, don’t settle, satisfy yourself in all the ways that you can, be content in your now and open minded to the future. This is the formula, and along the way, use every excuse that you can to experience love. Cherish every soulmate and act upon the love that they inspire within you. Give all of them your full attention and love. Be in that vibration of appreciation as much as you can. Good things will come. I love you.

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Twin Flame, Must Read; This is The Key To Getting What You Want

Twin Flame, Must Read; This is The Key To Getting What You Want

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There is no greater gift than my love for you

I love you

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The Twin Flame experience is painful. It’s gut wrenching, confusing and brings you to places that you never knew you could go. Humans outside of this experience, looking in, cannot possibly fathom what the Twin Flame phenomenon entails. They don’t understand why you just can’t get over it. Why you just can’t forget about it. Why you just can’t move on. So we say, do you think that I would be suffering like this if I had the choice? I wish I could forget. I wish I could move on. I wish that I could stop loving this person. I know it sounds pathetic. I know it sounds absurd. I know it makes no sense, but it’s beyond my control. This is the experience. It’s overtaking and powerful. It inspires such a great magnitude of love and an equal magnitude of suffering. Two sides of the same coin.

Let’s take a look at this. Because, logically, we know that the plan of the Universe isn’t to make us suffer. The Universe doesn’t conspire to put us through pain that we cannot escape. We know that the Universe is always expanding and wants us to keep up with that expansion. Taking us to new heights of evolution and growth, wisdom and self empowerment. The point is not to become smaller, but to become bigger. A more profound expression of the divine. For, that is what we are. We are the divine.

So, what does all of this mean? We are only human and we can only see things from a human perspective, or can we? We are learning, we are changing, we are growing and with that comes new dimensions of thought. New paradigms and new understandings.

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The Twin Flame experience is to help us reach new heights of evolution. So, therefore, it makes sense that the idea is for us to become happy and whole, no matter what. To come to a place where we are no longer dependent upon the outcome for satisfaction or fulfillment or joy. That is the key, but how does one achieve that in the Twin Flame experience? How is that possible, when the desire and the connection seems so indomitable?

This is your challenge. Why do you want your Twin Flame? Let’s not romanticize about it. Those of you who have been studying this and are well versed have been told again and again that the Twin Flame experience is not about romance. Establishing that opens the door to  understanding the true meaning behind all of this and what we can ultimately gain.

The hardest concept to accept about the Twin Flame  experience is that at some point, you have to be able to accept being without them. Let’s not forget that this is not a one size fits all. Every person and Twin Flame is an individual and  everyone has their own journey. But, overall, you must reach a point where you can truly move on and accept life without them.

Many of you have come to this idea, but there is still a part of you that feels that your Twin Flame is the only thing that could ultimately fulfill you. You move on in your daily life, but you still miss them. You still think that there is no one else out there for you and you still dwell on the Twin Flame fantasy. Part of you feels that little empty space which could only be filled by them. The one, true love.

Let’s think about this. The Twin Flame experience causes us to see all kinds of things about ourselves that we didn’t even know were there. The idea is to find love, which is only possible through self love. It all begins with your love for yourself. That’s where it’s at.

Self loving actions.

What is a self loving action? I think that if we become conscious and honest with ourselves, we know the difference between actions that are self loving and actions that are not. Is it a self loving action to remain stuck on a person that is not recognizing our value? That is not treating us with respect and love? Think about this. The heart wants what the heart wants. We want what we want. But, the greatest lesson here is to understand that loving a person who is not offering us all that we, as extensions of the divine deserve, is not an action of self love. It is ok to love. But, there comes a point where we must see that the Twin Flame that isn’t valuing us, is not the whole package. Yes, it feels like the Twin Flame is everything that we want. We love them beyond description, but theres still a big chunk of the equation that is missing.

What we want is someone whom we love, but that love has to be mutual and mutually expressed and honored.

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The difference between your Twin Flame and the person that you actually want to be with is that the person you really want won’t run! They will be just as enthused about you as you are about them! They won’t be so easily scared away. They won’t be wishy washy. They won’t be indecisive and it won’t be a difficult thing! You want the mate that you see eye to eye with on all levels.  This is so important to understand! The one that you want is not going to question. They are going to be as sure about you as you are about them. They are going to overcome every obstacle, no questions asked. They will follow their inspiration to be with you, and it won’t take months or years of deliberation, weighing the pros and the cons before they realize that they want to go the extra mile with you. When you find that person, oh, the joy. Oh how easy it will be. Oh, how wonderfully a relationship can flow. The relationship that you want is easy. It’s easy and it all just falls into place. It’s not difficult, it’s a harmonious experience. Like finding the glove that finally fits. You will not even believe how easy and fitting a relationship can be. That is the relationship that you want. Not one that is full of turmoil, games, tears, loneliness and pain.

The mate that you actually want is one who values you and demonstrates that they value you.

The Twin Flame experience is not about romance. It’s about learning to love the self. I cannot express this enough. The pain is far too great to comprehend moving beyond it. I know this, I’ve been there, I understand, but you must know that the point of all of this is not so that you can feel incomplete, it is so that you can feel complete. Until you can truly move beyond it, you are still not demonstrating self love and therefore, cannot attract the one who reflects that back to you.

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Moving Beyond

The number one most important thing, besides loving yourself no matter what state you are in, is not limiting the Universe’s ability to bring you what you want. To explain further… If you have decided that your Twin Flame is the only thing that can possibly make you feel complete and happy, you are limiting the options that the Universe has to bring you fulfillment. You do not know better than the Universe. Period. That being said, it makes no sense for you to tell the Universe how to deliver something to you. This is outside your realm of comprehension. You cannot tell the Universe that your Twin Flame is the only venue for which you want to be fulfilled. The fact is that the Universe is unlimited. That means that there are many ways for you to be fulfilled and your Twin Flame may be one, but it may not be the one at all. In order to allow fulfillment to come to you, you must come to terms with the fact that fulfillment can come to you through any number of venues. There is no such thing as only having one option. There are infinite options, the Universe knows no bounds. From a human perspective, this is not easy to come to terms with. But we are moving beyond the 3rd dimension. We are moving into greater and greater realms of understanding and therefore, greater realms of possibilities for all.

Trust in the Universe

If you are believing that the only way to true happiness is through your Twin Flame, then you are not having faith in the Universe. You are not trusting in the infinite capacity of the universe to orchestrate the manifestation to bring you precisely what you want in ways that surpass your expectations. This is possible. Do not entertain doubts in your energy field. All you have to do is say to the universe; I know that you know what I want and you can bring it to me through my Twin Flame or through some other person. Trusting that the Universe can deliver, because, it can.

This does not mean that you are not destined to be with your Twin Flame. There is a paradox at work here. The paradox is that you can have what you want when you do not need it anymore. This is very important to understand. Yes, I am telling you to move on. To become whole. To stop needing. The paradox is that the moment that you come out of the vibration of need, you will stop attracting more need. Instead, you want to be in the vibration of not needing, and that is when you can then attract what it is that you truly want. When you stop the need, you release resistance to what you want. By doing this, you are actually increasing your chances of reuniting with your Twin Flame. By letting go and surrendering. This is actually the best chance that you have of reuniting with your Twin Flame, but there is one more certainty at play… That whatever it is that comes along will be exactly what you want.

You must live moment to moment, making self loving decisions that you know are good for you and that make you happy. Do whatever you must to live a happy life. You must trust the Universe and that it can deliver, without limiting the options by which it can bring it you. Without needing it a certain way. Let the Universe surprise you, and it will.

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Love, Love, Love, trust, have faith and be super happy.

I have so much love for you. For you, I pour my heart and soul. For you, I hold nothing back. For you, I am willing to tell the truth, even when it may be difficult for me me to say and difficult for you to hear. I do it because I love you and there is no greater blessing than that. I am so grateful that the Universe has blessed me with such great capacity to love. There is no greater joy. I am a loving being, an expression of the divine, I am blessed and so are you.

With great love.

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What is the Point of the Twin Flame Journey?

What is the Point of the Twin Flame Journey?

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There are two main points of the Twin Flame Journey that will be covered in this Transmission. The first has to do with Guidance. As you know, guidance is an amazing and invaluable tool that is meant to assist you through your travels here in this dimension. It is the bridge between the physical and the spiritual. All of you desire guidance, for it is no secret that you all are asking for it on a daily basis. Every single one of you. Is it so hard to believe that you have access to your guidance at any point in time? The Twin Flame experience is an exaggerated play on what it feels like to be guided. It’s an exaggerated gut feeling. An Exaggerated hunch. An exaggerated intuitive pull. So much so, that even those of you who have no belief in these types of things will be compelled to understand this experience which is so foreign to you. There is no one who can ignore the intensity of the Twin Flame connection. It exists, it’s undeniable and this is for good reason.

The Twin Flame experience in meant to get you in touch with your own guidance system on a greater scale.

Once you learn this, that you have intense feelings that you cannot ignore and that you didn’t make it up, it’s an experience and that experience is legitimate in itself; You will then be at the jumping off point that allows you to pay attention to your guidance system, even in times when it presents itself in much subtler ways.

Many of you wonder if you are crazy because of this Twin Flame experience. It’s an experience! It is real! The experience is real! The connection is real! You don’t make up these feelings, they are real. You meet many people throughout your lifetime that do not trigger such intensity within you, so why should it be so hard to fathom that the connection you feel to that one person is real? You would not be stuck on this situation if it was not real. If there was no real connection. Stop doubting yourself. Stop doubting your sanity and stop doubting your connection to your Twin Flame. Stop asking if it is real, simply be at peace with it. Simply acknowledge the experience and move on if you must, or do whatever it is that you must do, but stop going over it again and again, as if there is something that you do not know. You can’t have everything all at once. You must have faith in your guidance and then move on to the second point that we are about to make about the Twin Flame experience…

The second point of the Twin Flame experience is essentially to become whole. To learn unconditional love, self realization, ultimate authenticity and manifestation of courageous love. You cannot discover your capacity to love without loving yourself and as you learn to love others you learn to love yourself. As you learn to love yourself, you also learn to love others. The two are connected.

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You must learn what it means to love yourself in order to get through this. It’s a whole different world than what you are accustomed to. It is a completely different perspective. A completely different experience. It will take a complete shift in paradigm. What will be explained in later transmissions will be difficult to accept at first, for some of you. But, be assured, that what is offered here will be of good help to you if you can trust and gradually learn to apply it.

Self Loving Actions and Reaching Completeness

You must know that you are ok, even by yourself. You must know that you are ok, even without your flame. Do you know it? Do you feel it? Is that your experience? Many of you will say that you do feel complete, but you are still wanting for the completeness of the Twin Flame experience and this is counter to feeling what it actually means to feel complete. When you are complete, there is no longing for anything. when you are longing, you are not demonstrating trust that the Universe will deliver to you what you want and therefore, it cannot!

Do you see how you are the one who is putting a wrench in your own fate? You attract what you feel and what you are. What signal are you giving to the Universe? Are you telling yourself that you are ok and loving yourself in every moment, no matter what state you are in? Or are you wanting, desiring and longing for things you do not yet have.

It is no secret that to stop the longing seems impossible to many of you. This is why it will be covered in greater detail in the next transmission. Please try to let this idea sink in a bit, as the promise here is to bring you closer to happiness and freedom, one step at a time.

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You are so very loved and that will never change, Dear, Twin Flame. The Universe has made every possible preparation for you, everything is ready and all you have to do is allow the abundance of love to flow. That is what these transmissions are all about. Namaste.

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Freedom From Fear; For The Twin Flame

Freedom From Fear; For The Twin Flame

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“My pain has made my fear obsolete.”

-Elise

Pain is the one thing that we are all trying to avoid. The one thing that we fear the most can take on many different embodiments, but at the core, it’s the same for everyone; Pain.

What happens when you can’t avoid pain? When circumstances and events take place that cause debilitating pain…. What is one to do? Here is the thing. We view pain as a negative experience. But, in order to learn how to overcome pain, we must first have the experience of pain. Once you learn how to transcend pain, fear has no hold on you anymore. This is freedom. making decisions from a place of love and freedom, instead of fear. Fear keeps us from following our hearts. From pursuing the things that are the most meaningful to us. It’s such a handicap when we can’t make decisions from a place of love and freedom.

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We are only an empty shell if we cannot live by freedom.  We are lukewarm, stagnant and unsatisfied at best, if we ignore our hearts and live by some other rule. Some rule that says we are controlled by our fear of pain. Choices are unencumbered by fear and pain. Otherwise, they are just rules that we live by. They are not choices. Choice represents freedom to choose. Freedom to choose only exists when all options are available to us.

Life is a paradox and the paradox of pain is that when you overcome pain, you are free. When you are no longer ruled by fear, all options become available to you. There is no obligation. There is no ultimatum. No means that can be used to manipulate you into submission. No way that you could be persuaded into some self hating action. That is freedom. Freedom to choose. Freedom to be entirely authentic. Freedom to go after those things that you truly want and to distance yourself from those things you know you don’t want.

When pain is the only threat, bring it on. I have been there. I have lost it all. I have endured the gut wrenching tears day after day. The grueling pain. The desire to cease to exist. The confusion beyond belief. The incapacitating sorrow. The exhaustive spinning of the mental body which tries so hard to figure it out and solve this problem of pain. All to no avail. Just a downward spiral. Here is the verdict. There is a way out of pain and when you find it, you will fear nothing and no-one. There is no thing more empowering than that. Than the ultimate freedom to love and be loved outside of the boundaries that fear wants to keep us within. There is no self-sabotage outside of fear. There is no obligation outside of fear. There is no insecurity outside of fear.

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It’s  pain that makes you stronger. Pain puts things in perspective. It makes you come to a clearer understanding of what’s really important. Most of all, pain ultimately provides freedom to those who overcome it. Once you overcome pain, the world is yours. You no longer make decisions based in fear, but in love, forevermore. What more have you to fear once you have lost your Twin Flame? What more can happen to you that is worse than that? What more have you to fear if you have lost your Twin and come out the other side and made a beautiful life for yourself? What threat will you fear? For me, there is none. There is no threat great enough to take away my audacity to choose in love. I will move forward in love. I will move forward knowing that I have nothing to lose, because I’ve already lost it all and I not only survived, I overcame. I figured it out. I am the lotus, risen from the mud. Risen from the shadows. I am happy and whole and free as can be. I did it.

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There is nothing better than this freedom that I have achieved. This freedom that you can achieve. To be no longer afraid of love. No longer afraid of rejection. To no longer settle for less. To no longer be manipulated. To no longer be under appreciated. To no longer be ruled by fear. Outside of fear there is love, and that is where you can live. This is your way out. Your freedom from fear is on the other side of pain. There is progression involved. It’s no easy task. It’s ok to take your time to arrive. It happens over time. Just be patient and love yourself every step of the way. Every day of pain brings you closer to freedom.

Pain makes fear obsolete.

You cannot be persuaded by pain, once you know pain and have overcome it.

Become stronger than your pain.

Be free

We are all in this together. You are loved.

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How to Overcome The Pain For Your Twin (Part 4)

How to Overcome The Pain For Your Twin (Part 4)

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You can only see through the eyes of your own perspective, but perspective is subject to change.

Pain is a state of being. A lens that the world is viewed through. A perspective, birthed and supported by beliefs and definitions. All of this which is subject to change. “Rose colored glasses” is a common term for the perspective of love. The lens of love that we look through when we are inspired into this perspective. Your world will look different depending upon the type of lens that you are looking through. Your world will hold different meaning depending upon the lens that you are looking through. The lens that you are looking through will influence your interpretation of everything that surrounds you. Are you looking through the lens of love? Are you looking through the lens of victimization? Are you looking through the lens of insecurity? Are you looking through the lens of pain?

The lens of pain

Don’t be silly, there is always a way out of pain. You just have to decide it for yourself. You have to drop expectations. You have to stop trying to force your way out of pain. You have to just decide that it’s ok to be in pain, because, it is. There is nothing wrong with being in pain. Pain is a sign of growth. Growth that must know pain for some reason. For a chosen reason. A reason that can serve its purpose when you decide. When you learn that love is the only way out. When you are able to give yourself a little push and do things that you know are good for you, even when it seems difficult. Be brave. Have the audacity to see that there is a way out of pain.

Take off the lens that sees through the eyes of pain and embrace yourself. Be ok with your state of being. You are worthy, even when you are in pain. You are good, even when you are in pain. You are right, even when you are in pain. You are ok, even when you are in pain. There is no lens that you could look through that could change your divine nature. Your divine nature is real and eternal. You are that which you are and there is no way out of that or around it. Everything else is just a lie. An illusion. A perspective. Your divine nature is truth, whether you choose to see it or not. Whether you choose to embrace it or not. But, for the sake of convenience, you may as well, embrace yourself, forgive yourself and accept yourself, even when you are in pain. Paradoxically, when you stop pushing against your state of being and surrender to it, loving yourself regardless, suddenly, you are seeing through the eyes of love. Through rose colored glasses. That’s the idea.

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When one is looking through the lens of pain, pain comes up a lot more. The glass is always half empty, instead of half full. Negative emotions come up at times when they could be avoided. Negative thoughts come up when there is positivity to be seen. It’s all in perspective. The way that you choose to see it. The thoughts that you choose to entertain from your perspective are what runs the show. Everything else will follow. So, take off the lens that you see pain through. Take off the perspective that shows you the most pain. Put on a perspective that sees self love and self acceptance. That is where salvation begins. With knowing that it’s ok to be in pain and when you choose to not feed into pain’s perspective, things can begin to change for you. Everything does’t have to change suddenly. Things can change over time. In each moment, all you can do is try to be going in the right direction and stay in self acceptance and love. Be ok where you are and you will attract more of that. One thought at a time. One loving step at a time. You will be ok. You will be fine. There is great love here for you. We are all in this together.

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How To Overcome The Pain For Your Twin (Part 3)

How To Overcome The Pain For Your Twin (Part 3)

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There is still one more thing you have yet to discover about pain. Part 3. This is the part that is simply rooted in your consciousness. Do you identify with pain? Do you call it by your own name? Do you give it a home in your mind? Do you share your bed with it? It is helpful when you remember that pain is not a part of who you truly are? It’s not an element of your essence. Pain is a lie and is always just an illusory experience. Pain can come and go. It’s an entity all unto itself. It’s a perspective. A state of being. It’s not you and it’s not a part of you. You can be friends with pain for a very long time. Letting it tag along with you everywhere that you go for years and you can make a clean separation at any time. You can choose to end your relationship with pain at any time, no matter the history. You are in charge. Did you forget that? Have you been letting pain take over you life? Playing hide and seek? Running from the pain you are so badly wanting to overcome and never succeeding….

Where is your consciousness? Your awareness to your ability to make choices? When you can recognize that pain is an entity unto itself that needs your cooperation in order to exist, consciousness cannot be far. Give pain a name. Call it Bob, or Red. The point is to recognize it as something that is outside of yourself. Something that is not you. Something that is not attached to you. Something that comes and goes. Something that  you can allow to pass by you. Something you can witness. Something that you can make a choice to associate with, to feed or to starve.

Pain is just pain. It doesn’t have power, only you can give it that. Pain doesn’t have a place, only you can give it that. Pain doesn’t have any ideas, only you can give it that. So, you see, just like any friend or acquaintance, you can choose to associate with it or not. You can choose to feed it with your thought and energy or not.

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Love the one who is in pain

Pain isn’t what is important here. The one who is important in this equation is you. When you are in pain, what are you telling yourself? Are you telling yourself that it is ok to be in pain, or are you bar-rating yourself about it? Are you telling yourself that it happens sometimes and it’s ok?  That is what you are being asked to do. Be your own best friend. Stand strong by your own side and instead of fighting against the pain, let it be. Stop fighting it. Be ok with it and tell yourself that if you are choosing to be in pain that it’s ok. Some of you say that you do not choose pain, but it’s as if pain chooses you. On some level. it is always a choice, so that is why alternative focuses of thought are being offered here.

Don’t fight the pain…

…Love the one who is in pain. tell yourself that you are ok no matter how you decide to show up. Be ok with being in pain. Be ok with it. Paradoxically, this will soothe the pain. Maybe not all of it at once, but it will open the door to freedom. It will get you going in a direction that is self loving and that is where all possibilities live. When you feel bad about yourself because of your pain, it is like compounding more pain ontop of the already existing pain. It does you no good. Self degradation and judgement are not self-loving actions and will not help you solve this problem of pain, but will only make it worse. Self-realization and self-acceptance are like the light that begins to light the way for the truth and beauty of you to be seen. Let the light shine. See pain for what it is. An entity unto itself. A homeless thought form that has no home, no motivation, no place to be, except for  that which you give it.  You can invalidate pain by validating yourself. Be careful with your thoughts. With what you choose to focus on. Be blind to those things that you know bother you and fill your head with other things. Pain needs food to live. Don’t give it any.

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How to Overcome The Pain For Your Twin (Part 2)

How to Overcome The Pain For Your Twin (Part 2)

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My Twin Flame told me how he felt about me. I didn’t make it up. It was mutual. It happened. It was real. But, as you all know, there’s always a problem, and when push comes to shove, it was all over. I asked him if he meant it. He said that he did, and then he said something else…

“Does it matter?”

I’ll never forget those words. Why would he say that? I couldn’t understand it. I just knew that it felt bad. I get it now. Those are the words of someone who has given up. Someone who has relinquished their freedom to go with their heart. In his mind, there was no other choice. So, it didn’t matter.

I didn’t understand it because I never put myself in a corner. I never relinquish my ability to choose.  I didn’t understand that type of thinking. Although I understand it now, it’s still difficult to relate to.

Here is what I want you to know…

Dear Twin Flame, it matters. You can’t help that. You can’t stop it. There is no ceasing, no running, no stopping. This love is like a waterfall. It flows with a strong current and when you feel pain, that’s when you’re trying to go against it.

You can’t talk yourself out of love. You can’t cut the cords.

“I love him so much. Nothing soothes the pain. Nothing takes it away. nothing makes me forget. Nothing else is good enough. There is nothing that could ever replace him in my heart. No substitute. No other way. My thirst for you will never be quenched. Never satisfied outside of you. My desire for you is too great. This is a gut wrenching love. I am consumed in my sorrow. My heart, body and soul mourns for you. My sadness won’t let me forget my love for you. My sadness reminds me of how I miss you.

My Desire…

You are a part of me and I can’t have it any other way. My heart knows no other. No distraction is enough. I laugh at the idea of replacing you. There is no such thing.

I love you. “

I know that it is hard to live this way. I know that sometimes, it feels like there is no escape. It feels like all is lost. It feels like you can’t move on. Like it’s the end of the road and life becomes one great big chore. We just go through the motions, wishing, hoping, thinking and praying for change. Missing the Flame that set our souls on fire. So close, yet so far. If only…. If only they would return. If only there was some way.

Dear Twin Flame, don’t invalidate your feelings. Don’t try to cut the cord. It is impossible to do, anyway. Don’t make it wrong that you feel the way that you feel. That’s the first step. Being loving and understanding towards yourself, no matter what you are feeling. You are human, after all.

Here’s an idea…

We live our lives in a state of disappointment when things don’t go our way. But what you aren’t considering, as you are living in disappointment is that things can change in any moment. Imagine living from that state. Of knowing that the world is fluid, malleable and is subject to change in any moment. That things can move in your favor unexpectedly at any given time.

The other side to that is that you must be in a receptive mode. You must be in a state of being that allows you to attract the types of changes that you want.

Stop thinking that your moments are predictable. They are not!

Things can change in an instant. Are you considering that?  It’s true, so do yourself a favor and remind yourself of that and move forward with positive expectation that everything is working out for you.

It only takes one. One moment, one circumstance, one person to change your life forever, for the better, and that one thing can show up at any moment. So, instead of trying to cut chords or figure out how to forget, just remind yourself that things can change and that they are changing all the time. Stop trying to stop loving. Stop trying to run away and harden yourselves. Stop living in disappointment.

There is no death sentence here. Only circumstances. There is no hard, fast, definite outcome. Anything can happen. You must see that. Don’t let yourself wallow in pain, while you could be learning lessons that get you closer to reunification.

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“The one truth you cannot hide is love”

-Dr. Henry Morgan, Forever

You create your reality. It’s hard to escape the pain, but we are doing it little by little. We are loving ourselves instead of beating up on ourselves. We are learning to love with hope, instead of doubt and we are learning that no matter what happens, we are ok. Give yourself the gift of peace, one moment at a time. Don’t smudge out the love. Don’t forget it, block it or hide it. You can learn to integrate it in and to let go of the pain. Keep the love and let go of the pain, one hopeful moment at a time.

We are all in this together, I am here for you.

 

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How To Overcome The Pain For Your Twin (Part 1)

How To Overcome The Pain For Your Twin (Part 1)

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It hurts when we can’t have what we want. It hurts so bad. To love so truly, so deeply. That kind of love that you can only hope to find. The heart wants what the heart wants and you can’t help that. How do you transcend the pain, when you just want them to care? What happens when you just can’t have what you want? When you realize you never will?

When you realize you can’t make them open up. Even when you know they love you back.

Will it ever go away? The pain? What makes pain fade? What heals a broken heart? What heals loss? What can replace a love so strong? What can bend the will?

How to deal…

Are you making it your fault? Are you making yourself not good enough? Are you wondering if you could have done something differently? Well, how are you going to move on if you are stuck in the past? How are you going to bring an end to the pain?

There’s no easy way. No easy way besides surrender. Stop blaming yourself. Stop thinking you’re not good enough. Stop wondering what you did wrong. There’s nothing wrong. Only lessons worth learning. Only discovery of self love.

We can’t escape pain when we think we are defective. That’s what makes it so painful. When you think you are the reason. That something must be wrong with you. That you aren’t good enough. That it’s your fault you aren’t lovable. All of these things are lies that we tell ourselves. It doesn’t matter how or why these lies were adopted. It doesn’t matter if you think it’s true. You can decide it isn’t true, and you’ll be right.

We become that which we believe ourselves to be.

So, what do you believe?

The Universe will show you your secret fears. It will show you the nonsense going on behind the veil of your consciousness. Those things you fear are true about yourself. Those things you desperately try not to face. That you try to keep doormant. It’s the reason that you run in fear from love. It’s the reason you react so violently to rejection. Because you think it means something. You think the actions of others can validate your suspicions of yourself.

What if the purpose of rejection was to show you how you are rejecting yourself and to give you a chance to stop? To give you a chance to be there for yourself. To soothe yourself and believe in yourself in the face of rejection.

Do you realize that it is you who assigns meaning to everything? Every meaning, every definition lives inside your consciousness. You give birth to it and sustain it by believing it.

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Change your mind…

These three words have so much meaning. They represent choice. They represent the power you have over your mind, your perspective and your reality. It really is that simple. Change your mind. Understand that nobody and nothing determines your value, your worth, your status, your understanding, your point of view. When it comes to your own life, your view is most important. You don’t have to make everyone else right, you can make yourself right about yourself. Paradoxically, when you are able to do that, you won’t fear the opinions of everyone around you. You won’t take it to heart. You will see that their view of you has more to do with themselves than it has to do with you and you won’t fear pain or love.

Change-your-mind-change-your-lifeMake up your mind to accept yourself for the divine being that you are and set yourself free from pain.

Every time that you feel rejected, know it’s not your fault. Every time that you feel unloved, know that it’s not your fault. Every time someone is mean to you, know that it’s not your fault. The person taking the action is responsible for their view and you are responsible for your view, your perspective, your response.

That is all…

You are Loved. Whether you know it or not. Whether you see it or not. Whether you accept it or not. You are still loved.

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Dear Twin Flame, Take the Good with the Good….

Dear Twin Flame, Take the Good with the Good….

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You make it so easy to miss out on love. So easy to turn away. So easy to say something that you can’t take back. So easy to run away. You hold out too long. You freak out too fast. All of you think that time holds some kind of promise. That in time, truth is revealed and that some kind of confirmation is awarded if you hold out. There is no such thing. Truth is the truth and the truth is subject to change. Things happen as a rippling effect of every decision that you make. Tides come and go. Opportunities to act come an go.

See here’s the thing, no matter what you do, things can always go wrong. Whether you are committed, not committed, trusting or not, things can always go wrong. So, the best thing to do is to make sure that you aren’t assisting the creation of these things that you fear. When you fear something, you create it. When you anticipate something, you create it.

Here is another thing worth noting, that emotions are not meant to be contained or controlled. When there is love, the best thing that you can do is be true to yourself and act on it. Don’t hide it, don’t hold it back because you are afraid. Afraid of judgement, afraid that it is too soon. Act on your own emotions that you feel and you will inspire others to do the same. Imagine if all of the world were doing this. If all humans were actually expressing truthfully, the love that they feel. If everyone confessed their love. Excuses, fears and obligations aside. No walls, no barriers, no lies. Just true love for all to see. Transparency.

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Well, we can’t control what everyone else is doing. But we can live by the code of our own truth. We can all stand for love. We can inspire others to do the same. Be true to what you are feeling. Give it all you’ve got. Milk it for everything it’s worth and don’t let it go until it leaves you. Until you don’t feel it anymore. But if you feel it, at least don’t be afraid to act on your truth. Anywhere there is love, just let there be love.

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This is a moment to moment thing. I mean take the good with the good. Wherever there is good, choose to focus only on that. Don’t throw the baby out with the bath water. Don’t say to yourself that good and bad things must be tied or that bad outweighs the good. Just appreciate whatever there is to appreciate and leave the rest.

If you love someone and they want only to be friends, why can’t you accept the good with the good? So many of you are throwing away relationships with the people that you love because you can’t have it your way. Because it’s not on your terms. Is that the way of love? Love knows no conditions and when you are throwing away any relationship because it isn’t on your terms, you are loving conditionally, not unconditionally. The aim is to love unconditionally and to embody that in as many ways as possible. When you throw out a person from your life because the contact isn’t what you want it to be, you aren’t focused in the good of it all. All of you who have Twin Flames should feel grateful for any little contact that you have with them, instead of taking it for granted and saying that it’s not good enough. Some Twin Flames don’t speak at all to each other. Some live across seas from each other. Some can die, too. If you are dedicated to it, you can find the good in your situation. So, find it. This is your challenge. Take the good with the good.

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Find the love that they have helped you to discover. There doesn’t have to be pain attached to it. You can learn to filter that out. But, you can only do that when you learn to take the good with the good and leave out the rest. Leave out the “but”. “I love him, but…”. The “but” is where the focus is diverted to the problem, so leave it out. Only focus upon the good parts. Does it make any sense to do that? It does, because it will improve your quality of life and even if there was no such thing as the Law of Attraction (Which, there is…), improving quality of life would make the effort of shifting the focus worthwhile. That’s exactly what will happen when you choose to take only the good. When you choose to focus on only the parts that you like. Your quality of life will improve, and when that happens, you open the doors for things to change.

Stop focusing on what you can’t have, focus upon what you can have. Don’t throw away the whole thing just because it isn’t on your terms.

Here is the trick… That when your quality of life becomes so good, that you are no longer seeking an outcome, that’s when things will really begin to shift. You make the change first. You must create the energy for the rest of it to manifest around you. It all starts with you. Take the good with the good and leave the rest out. Enjoy your relationships in the highest capacity that you can and don’t hold back love that is true. Live by this code and things will turnaround for you.

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Dear Twin Flame, On Giving Up….

Dear Twin Flame, On Giving Up….

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I can’t count the number of years that I’ve been looking for that special connection. The one that is just right. The one that brings fantasy into reality. The connection that doesn’t leave you wanting. The connection that fits like a glove, surprises you, inspires you and makes everything in the world make sense. The one that leaves no room for doubt and makes you feel so right. The undeniable resonance. The awe. I will never forget that feeling of awe. The one that came upon me when I realized that I had found exactly what I was looking for.  The feeling that I had when I realized we were both, simultaneously coming to the same realizations about what was happening. It was more than uncanny. More than coincidence, it was purely amazing. I remember looking down, at the floor. At nothing. Speechless. In a state of true inconceivability. In that moment, I couldn’t even register what was happening. And there were many moments like that, during the interactions that we had. Many moments that were so, undeniably perfect. That kind of perfection doesn’t really happen. It was foreign. It was too perfect.  Too perfect to be real, too perfect to be coincidence as I felt invisible puzzle pieces that had never found each other , finally fitting together in perfect harmony. Puzzle pieces that I never knew existed. It felt like more than I could have even thought to ask for was placed right before me. Like the universe had anticipated my desires before I even knew what they were. A perfection that I could not have perceived prior to the experience, let alone conjure in my imagination. The perfection was difficult to fathom in the moment. It left me in sort of, a blank state. Speechless. I could hardly even ponder it. It took days, even weeks for me to sort it out. I did have understanding at first glance, but it was broad, non-specific understanding. I knew there was a connection.

That special connection. The one that we search for, forever. The one we only hope to find, and often give up on. The one that seems so elusive that we settle for less. There it was, right before me. Like some fairytale, except there it was, in the flesh. It was unbelievable, but it was real. I know how special connections are. This particular connection is rare. It is truly unique. Even the most masterful scheme of words would fall short to describe. All I know is that connections can’t be found at will. They can’t be forged. Only pursued. You can’t undo them. Some serve their purpose and then you can move on, but some are eternal. Ultimate. This was one of those. Beyond precision, beyond perfection. It just was. And that’s how connections are. You either have them, or you don’t.

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So, what’s the problem? If you have a connection, why would you not pursue it? Connections can’t be severed, only pursued. They can’t be forgotten, only embraced.  They can’t be killed, only loved. I know all that psycho babble about things that have happened to you in the past and therefore, you’ve deemed love a dangerous thing. I call bullshit. Don’t lose sight of the reality of the situation. The fact is that connections are real and they are for a purpose. If you run from a connection, it’s never going to leave you, you’re just going to be looking for it for the rest of your life, never truly finding it. Then, you’re going to marry someone that falls short of the experience that you know exists, because you had it. All in the name of safety? All because you were afraid? That is the life you are committing yourself to? A life orchestrated by your fear of getting hurt, or by condemning yourself to the loss of something you love in lieu of giving love a chance?? There is no greater folly than premature surrender. Yet, so many of you are doing this. So many of you are withdrawing yourselve out of fear and surrendering the only chance you have of true love.

I don’t want to define a difference between true love and untrue love. Love is love. But I want to punctuate on the presence of undeniable connection. It’s the ones we love the most truly that we run away from. Not the ones we are lukewarm about. There’s nothing courageous about a lukewarm sort of love. True love is the only love that requires courage.

Why are you running?

What are you afraid of?

Fear of being judged? Fear of being stripped of the walls you’ve so carefully constructed? Better to run away from what you love and to find something lukewarm and safe, is that it?

Face Your Fears.

Here’s the truth, there is no such thing as safety.

At some point, you begin with nothing. Somewhere along the line, there was an unfulfilled desire, even if you were unaware of it in the moment. Here’s the crossroads… at some point, you have a choice. Go for what you want or don’t. It really is so simple and yet, we manage to somehow, botch it all up and make it seem complicated. We make love into the bad guy. Love is the good guy. It’s fear of love that botches things up. That is always the case.

Here is the choice:

A- Be Courageous, Take a Chance and You At Least Have A Chance of Getting What You Want. You Never Know, You Just Might Get It.

B- Be a Coward and Don’t Have The Audacity to Try. Don’t Take a Chance. Don’t Be Courageous. This Choice Is The Only Choice That Concretely Binds You To The Outcome of Never Getting What You Want.

Here is the thing. When you arrive at the crossroads where you are making this choice, there’s only one way to look at it. If you try and fail, you’ll just be exactly in the place where you already started. You’ll just be back where you left off. So, when does not trying become the better decision, here? If you end up back at square one, then that perspective actually takes the risk out of it, right?

I know your argument. That you could end up heartbroken and that’s actually worse off than you were before. Well, even in the midst of heartbreak, you can choose to see that you are no worse off than before. You’re still without the other person, which is where you began in the first place. That’s if it even ends up that way. There’s two possibilities. One is “good” and one is “bad”. Which outcome are you focusing on?

It’s all about perspective. So, the question is, are you going to see the most advantageous perspective or not? Are you going to choose the perspective that gives you the best chance of happiness or are you going to sabotage yourself before you have a chance to see your desires manifest?

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Why Not?

People are afraid of Taking a chance. people are afraid of opening their hearts, having courage, and getting their hearts broken. So what? So what if you get your heart broken? Seriously, it’s still not an excuse to never try. Committing yourself to doom is not a better idea than being courageously in love, because you can’t stop being in love. You can only pretend, and in the end, you are still in love and you just sabotaged it. Don’t be so despondent. There’s no reason for it. It’s paradoxical, really. The only way to truly fail is to fail to try. The only way to commit to failure is to commit to failure by not giving success a chance. All of this fear is in your head. It’s irrational. Overcome your mind. Overcome yourself. Overcome the voice that says you’re not good enough. That’s the only thing that is truly blocking you. Yourself. the good news is that, once you realize that you are the only thing in your way, you can move!! It’s a no brainer.

It’s not over until the fat lady sings.

It’s Never over. Do you get that?

It doesn’t mean never find the will to move on. It just means don’t run from love when you have the chance to run to it.

You can’t free yourself by running away.

I knew a guy who refused to give up on what he wanted, no matter how dismal the odds appeared to be. Guess what? This guy always got what he wanted! I kid you not. The guy’s like Houdini. This is the secret that the successful people of the world will attest to. That, the secret is to not give up. Failures happen. But the way to get to success is through failure. Success follows failure. Never stop trying. be courageously in love, always and love will come to you. That is a promise.

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Dear Twin Flame, What’s Blocking You? How To Dissolve Your Blocks to Love…

Dear Twin Flame, What’s Blocking You? How To Dissolve Your Blocks to Love…

I transmit messages from a Unity Consciousness. There’s no difference between you, me or anything else.

We are all one.

“I don’t understand why people don’t just let love win. Why they don’t just give in. Why they succumb to the illusion of obligation or fear. If we cannot give into love, then what are we here for? What have we to live for besides love? All you “Runners” wake up. Everyone wake up and stop being afraid. There is nothing to fear because everything is a perception, including fear itself. It is you who gives everything it’s meaning, which means that you can choose to see it any way you want. So choose a different perspective. One that allows love, instead of fearing it. Sometimes, you just want to bash someone over the head, just to get them to understand. it really is that simple. Fear is an illusion, a perspective, a choice. and it is a choice that will always rob you of love and happiness. I’ve had enough of that. I go for what I want and in that, I am free.”

-Elise

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Overcoming fear is a choice. A choice of love. This is the reason why Love is a most courageous act. You must know this. You all have created so many reasons not to love. So many barriers, so many rules. Notice, the word “Create”.  There is no reason not to love. The only reasons you have are created by you. Which means, you can create a different choice at any time. You can shift your perspective at any time. You can choose love at any time. There is no reason besides your own reason. There is no barrier, besides your own perception of barrier. You cannot force another, but you, yourself can be open and courageously in love. How can you expect another to reflect back to you a love that is truly courageous if you are not demonstrating the same? It begins with you. Do not make it such a big deal. Follow your heart. So simple, but you make it so complicated. It is a choice. A choice to value your own feelings above any other. A choice to honor your feelings, your knowing and your own intuition. A choice to honor yourself. If you are honoring yourself, you will find others that honor you and value your feelings as well. It doesn’t mean that your Twin Flame will finally come jumping out of the bushes, the moment you make a new choice. Why is that always the goal? The more you want it, the more incomplete you feel and the more that you actually, hold it away in your state of wanting, needing and incompleteness.

You are rushing to make changes, and you are making them, you are improving, but you are slowing your transition by always looking for the end result. You want what you want. Creation knows. But as you think of what you do not have, you cannot have it. There are things that happen. There are situations where you do not fully understand what brought you together and what drove you apart, but here, it is the best rule of thumb to know that you must be complete to attract the complete package you are seeking.

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Fill Up Your Life

Make your own life. A life filled with everything that you want and take it in any form that you can get it. If you want love, take it and create it in every situation that you can. et your life be fluid. Let your life be full of entertainment, love, fun and passions. Let your life be filled with people and things that you enjoy. Whatever you must do. So many of you are dying in your pain of your love lost. This was not the point. To feel pain, to grow and to learn, yes. To increase your capacity to love and to make your stronger, yes. To help you to surrender and re-prioritize, yes. But not to conquer you. Not for you to wallow in your pain forevermore.

Sometimes, it just takes some doing. Some action in a direction that you know is good for you. When you are down, it won’t be easy. An object at rest, stay at rest, an object in motion, stays in motion. A person feeling down, has a hard time getting up. Give yourself a little push. Be creative. Get out. Do something. meet with others. Socialize. Practice your enlightenment concepts everywhere you go. For goodness sake, stop blaming yourself for not being good enough. Accept yourself exactly how you are, so that others may do the same for you. That means, no matter how you are doing, it’s ok. Don’t tell yourself “I’m bad at this.” or “This isn’t working” and the classic “What’s wrong with me?”. We are all same, you are no different. However you feel is how you feel. Whatever you can do is what you can do.

You can’t be mourning, when you are too busy doing other things. Find a way.

Once you let go, a little bit, it can become easier to let love win.

Wrapping this right back to the point. Let love win. Dissolve every excuse and barrier to love that you have. Every single reason that you have created as your reason to be in fear, is a reason that can dissolve with your choice. There is no reason. There is no excuse, besides the ones that you support. Not your past, not your future, not anything. Never give up, because creation has never given up and you are part of creation, which means, you will attract that which you are.

Come to terms with this, that you create your reasons and you can dissolve them as well.

Namaste

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Understanding Your Twin Flame… Disarm the Fight

Understanding Your Twin Flame… Disarm the Fight

I transmit Messages through a Unity Consciousness. A Consciousness that does not identify with separation.

We are one.

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Understanding is a prominent requirement. That is why all of you have the ability to be empathetic toward others. To feel what they feel. You may not activate this ability, you may not honor it or have awareness to it, but all of you have the ability to be understanding of others. It is the most basic necessity to foster love, instead of fear. When you are knowing the deeper roots of where outward manifestations are coming from, not only will you know that reactions aren’t personal, but you will understand the true cause. Relate this to people. Anger, fear, Abandonment… When you understand why the Twin Flame runs, it is more difficult to blame them. It is easier to love. That is the point here.

Understanding is a gift that you can give to others. It takes stillness of the mind and thought. It takes conscientious efforts and slowing down of need to do or think. Sometimes, pain can drain the will, in this state, one can be much more still, aware, alert and understanding of others. Perhaps pain is a great teacher, in that way. It provides understanding with a quickness.

Suddenly, you aren’t thinking of yourself because you want to be distracted from your pain. You aren’t thinking of your own feelings, your own intentions to act or to speak. It becomes easy to focus intently on others, no matter how simple or mundane. Even the most trivial activity possesses a new life, when your wish is to divert yourself from your own pain. Enlightenment and understanding go together. Enlightenment is the stillness that sees all. You must see in order to understand. Enlightenment is only a word, but it’s the chosen word for this simple explanation. let’s not get too complicated about it.

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Pay attention to others. Be so present, that you can listen intently to someone acting out from a place of pain and you can keep your head about you and respond in a compassionate, understanding way, instead of lashing out, like we most often do. We can break the mold and be different. Reaction isn’t a requirement. Understanding is a requirement if you are wanting to grow. Unconsciousness is always reacting, but in the unconsciousness the attention is never on the true cause of the problem, therefore, it never gets the attention it needs.

I can tell you, really quickly, how to disarm yourself and how to disarm the other. To disarm yourself, be conscious, be present, be aware and pay very close attention. Listen intently and use your will to keep your reaction from rising up. Don’t interrupt and don’t jump forward into thinking of your response. That would only fuel the fire. First, you, yourself must be disarmed. As you are consciously and intently listening to the unconscious, other,  reacting however they may, by the time that they are done talking and you have been quiet the entire time, they will already be calming down. Simply the act of you listening, remaining calm and non-reactive will cause them to become more aware. You will feel their energy calm and they will have released the negative energy, which you, in your awareness, are not fueling. Then, they will be ready to listen. If you are able to see that people only say hurtful things because of their own fear and their own pain, then, you can refrain from lashing out.

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This is how you eliminate the feeling of blame and how you gain understanding. People only do hurtful things when they, themselves are hurt. Pain comes from fear. Negative actions are expressions of pain, hurt and fear. Anger is an expression of pain. Running is an expression of fear. How can you blame your Twin when you know this of them? When you understand them, you will be able to feel better about it. You will be able to be more at peace and more loving and you will, therefore, free yourself of negative emotions and reactions as well.

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Dear Twin Flame, You’re Not The Boss Of Me…

Dear Twin Flame, You’re Not The Boss Of Me…

I transmit messages from Unity consciousness, which does not feel separation or difference between sources of consciousness. We are all one.

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Everyone who comes to me tells me about their Twin Flame. As if there flame is the source of the problem. The reason for the problem. Here is the thing, it’s never them, it is always you. You are always the attractor of your own experience. It is a painful truth, but the only way to get past that truth is through it. Once you do, you gain. Open your eyes to get a glimpse of a different view. A perspective that knows that you are the creator. You are in charge and you have the power to change everything. For as long as you think that your Twin Flame is the source of your problems, you will never get the answers that you want and you will never see the changes you desire.

In order to get a different result, you must take a different action.

It would be wrong of me to simply tell you your future, when I can do you a much greater service. I can help you change your future. I can help you create your future. You are not at the mercy of some predetermined destiny. Your future is dependent upon you. Upon your Now. The choices that you make now, which are subject to change at any time. It is your decision. Knowledge is power. My readings are not only readings, they are teachings. They are insights, they are guidance, they are awareness. I can show you which energies are blocking you and how to transmute them, how to play with them and change them into the energies that you want. Some of you are not even ready for that. You are still caught up in the stories. Not yet onto the real matter, which has to do with molding your future stories.

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In order to mold your future, you have to stop telling the same old stories. You must shift your perspective altogether. You desire shifts of great magnitude in your lives, but, do you not recognize that those shifts must occur within first? And that those shifts are most often, not instantaneous? They happen over time. Which is why, the lot of you who are wise, will give yourselves the time and continue with your coaching to help you continue on your path to change and grow. One session is not enough. Not with me, not with any coach. Even if you make the shifts that I advise, what then? There is always more to do, more to learn, more everything…

You can only expect so much from yourself. Don’t ever stop giving yourself exposure to coaching and teachings to maintain your guidance along your path.

These teachings never stop, not even in reunion. Separation is a teaching in itself. So is reunion. You can all be reunited and you do not even know it.

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Stop blaming the other. Many of you are doing it silently. In private, you think to yourself that you do not blame the other, but you are still wondering why they do what they do and thinking if only they would change. What they are doing has nothing to do with you and everything to do with you. They are your feedback. They can’t help but to be your feedback, it is part of the soulmate contract. But I do mean that it has nothing to do with you, in the sense that, it’s not about them loving you or not, it’s about you loving you or not.

It seems complicated, and in one way, it is. But in another way, it is not. It’s only when we wonder why things are happening, that we get confused. When you can see everything as a relevant thing, then you will not be so confused. You will be focused upon other things. Sometimes, shift in focus is so necessary. It is beneficial to be able to learn through any conduit that the Universe wants to place before you. The Universe will put conduits in front of you, to teach you. You must follow your joy and pay attention in order  to get the lesson.

Everything is a teacher. You even receive teachings through your imagination, as you ponder things. You may call them insights. Insights feel good, don’t they? They are you experiencing greater levels of clarity and understanding. Coaching makes it easy because it is spelled out for you, in the physical. But you can learn to let everything teach you, especially your Twin Flame. But, this isn’t a self hating thing. This isn’t about what you are doing wrong, as so many of you are making it out to be. See, because then, you are focused in the problem, instead of the solution and it is much harder to bring about a solution when you are focused in the problem.

So, stop thinking of what your Flame is doing wrong and stop thinking of what you are doing wrong. There is nothing wrong. Only perspective is subject to change and you must change your perspective in order to bring about change. Don’t blame anyone, and don’t blame yourself, change your perspective, instead. Make nobody wrong. Isn’t that what love is? Why do you think Love feels so “right”? because the perspective of love sees no wrong. Not of you and not of the other.

Make yourself right and you will become it. Make the other right and you will see it. Be love. Be hope. be faith. Be joy. Don’t make it complicated. Just be.

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Dear Twin Flame, Here’s Why You’re Not Crazy…

Dear Twin Flame, Here’s Why You’re Not Crazy…

I transmit messages via Unity Consciousness. I touch on the experiences that are active and it’s most often what the Twin Flames are needing to hear in the moment that they are needing to hear it. It just happens that way. Enjoy…

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This whole Twin Flame thing is enough to make you think you’re going crazy. I mean flying off the handle, insane, out of your mind, total madness! One minute, you’re swearing off you’re supposed “Twin Flame”, saying that you can move on and who needs em anyway. pointing the finger, saying, who needs that? Then you end up right back where you left off, crying your eyes out to sad love songs, wondering why the world is so wrong. Madness! Then, you’re left doubting yourself, doubting your Flame, doubting the Universe, questioning yourself, questioning the connection, questioning your sanity…. Wondering why you even feel the way that you do. Wondering why you are all hung up on them. Wondering why you can’t shake it. Thinking is it even logical to feel this way about someone??? Wondering what’s wrong with you and all those precious little thoughts that cross our minds in the delight of the Twin Flame journey.

Is it even Logical to feel this way?

Why am I so hung up on them?

Why can’t I just forget??!!

We all feel this way, sometimes, but there’s definite reasons why we love our Flame so much. Even through distance, turmoil and all other obstacles. We love them because we have a connection with them. Connections can’t be forged. They can’t faked. And they can’t be denied! They can’t be conjured artificially and connections are real. Not only can they be felt, but they are strongly felt. You can’t miss them. This is what lets us know it is real. Feelings are real, and we don’t get them for everyone. Pain is real, love is real, resonance is real. It’s all real and it’s all relevant. Twin Flame connections are one of a kind. So, don’t think you are crazy. You are not! You are just recognizing what you are experiencing and it’s a real experience.

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All of our lives, we are searching for our soul mates. For the ones that we connect with on a deeper level. Connection means more than anything else. Connection trumps all. When you connect with someone, you just know. It’s that love connection that matters. That connection we are looking for… That connection that makes itself known… That connection that, when you find it, there’s no question about it. It can’t be undone. It’s that “POW!”,  that you can’t deny. There’s multitudes of poetry, movies and songs that come from people who experience strong connection. You can search for years and never find it. It’s no wonder that we feel this way about our flames. We know that it’s special. Think about all of the people you’ve met. Most of them are easy to forget. But, the Twin Flame, it’s a sacred connection. The coming home. The feeling of resonance that nothing can compare to. The awe inspiring energy of their presence. Don’t feel bad because you miss them. Don’t feel like you are crazy. Connections are real. Love is real and you’re not crazy for noticing. When you recognize this, you can see it is logical to not forget someone.

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Give yourself a break. Give yourself some credit! When you think about it, there is good reason for how you feel. Don’t let your mind talk you into thinking this is all nonsense. It’s a real experience. All you have to decide is what’s going to happen from here. What are you going to learn from it? What’s the lesson? How can you grow from this? How can you transform yourself and the reflection? Dear Twin Flame, do not despair. There is always hope. Always…

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