I transmit Messages through a Unity Consciousness. A Consciousness that does not identify with separation.
We are one.
Understanding is a prominent requirement. That is why all of you have the ability to be empathetic toward others. To feel what they feel. You may not activate this ability, you may not honor it or have awareness to it, but all of you have the ability to be understanding of others. It is the most basic necessity to foster love, instead of fear. When you are knowing the deeper roots of where outward manifestations are coming from, not only will you know that reactions aren’t personal, but you will understand the true cause. Relate this to people. Anger, fear, Abandonment… When you understand why the Twin Flame runs, it is more difficult to blame them. It is easier to love. That is the point here.
Understanding is a gift that you can give to others. It takes stillness of the mind and thought. It takes conscientious efforts and slowing down of need to do or think. Sometimes, pain can drain the will, in this state, one can be much more still, aware, alert and understanding of others. Perhaps pain is a great teacher, in that way. It provides understanding with a quickness.
Suddenly, you aren’t thinking of yourself because you want to be distracted from your pain. You aren’t thinking of your own feelings, your own intentions to act or to speak. It becomes easy to focus intently on others, no matter how simple or mundane. Even the most trivial activity possesses a new life, when your wish is to divert yourself from your own pain. Enlightenment and understanding go together. Enlightenment is the stillness that sees all. You must see in order to understand. Enlightenment is only a word, but it’s the chosen word for this simple explanation. let’s not get too complicated about it.
Pay attention to others. Be so present, that you can listen intently to someone acting out from a place of pain and you can keep your head about you and respond in a compassionate, understanding way, instead of lashing out, like we most often do. We can break the mold and be different. Reaction isn’t a requirement. Understanding is a requirement if you are wanting to grow. Unconsciousness is always reacting, but in the unconsciousness the attention is never on the true cause of the problem, therefore, it never gets the attention it needs.
I can tell you, really quickly, how to disarm yourself and how to disarm the other. To disarm yourself, be conscious, be present, be aware and pay very close attention. Listen intently and use your will to keep your reaction from rising up. Don’t interrupt and don’t jump forward into thinking of your response. That would only fuel the fire. First, you, yourself must be disarmed. As you are consciously and intently listening to the unconscious, other, reacting however they may, by the time that they are done talking and you have been quiet the entire time, they will already be calming down. Simply the act of you listening, remaining calm and non-reactive will cause them to become more aware. You will feel their energy calm and they will have released the negative energy, which you, in your awareness, are not fueling. Then, they will be ready to listen. If you are able to see that people only say hurtful things because of their own fear and their own pain, then, you can refrain from lashing out.
This is how you eliminate the feeling of blame and how you gain understanding. People only do hurtful things when they, themselves are hurt. Pain comes from fear. Negative actions are expressions of pain, hurt and fear. Anger is an expression of pain. Running is an expression of fear. How can you blame your Twin when you know this of them? When you understand them, you will be able to feel better about it. You will be able to be more at peace and more loving and you will, therefore, free yourself of negative emotions and reactions as well.
We are all in this together, I am here for you.