How To Overcome The Pain For Your Twin (Part 1)

How To Overcome The Pain For Your Twin (Part 1)

These Transmissions are Via Unity Consciousness


It hurts when we can’t have what we want. It hurts so bad. To love so truly, so deeply. That kind of love that you can only hope to find. The heart wants what the heart wants and you can’t help that. How do you transcend the pain, when you just want them to care? What happens when you just can’t have what you want? When you realize you never will?

When you realize you can’t make them open up. Even when you know they love you back.

Will it ever go away? The pain? What makes pain fade? What heals a broken heart? What heals loss? What can replace a love so strong? What can bend the will?

How to deal…

Are you making it your fault? Are you making yourself not good enough? Are you wondering if you could have done something differently? Well, how are you going to move on if you are stuck in the past? How are you going to bring an end to the pain?

There’s no easy way. No easy way besides surrender. Stop blaming yourself. Stop thinking you’re not good enough. Stop wondering what you did wrong. There’s nothing wrong. Only lessons worth learning. Only discovery of self love.

We can’t escape pain when we think we are defective. That’s what makes it so painful. When you think you are the reason. That something must be wrong with you. That you aren’t good enough. That it’s your fault you aren’t lovable. All of these things are lies that we tell ourselves. It doesn’t matter how or why these lies were adopted. It doesn’t matter if you think it’s true. You can decide it isn’t true, and you’ll be right.

We become that which we believe ourselves to be.

So, what do you believe?

The Universe will show you your secret fears. It will show you the nonsense going on behind the veil of your consciousness. Those things you fear are true about yourself. Those things you desperately try not to face. That you try to keep doormant. It’s the reason that you run in fear from love. It’s the reason you react so violently to rejection. Because you think it means something. You think the actions of others can validate your suspicions of yourself.

What if the purpose of rejection was to show you how you are rejecting yourself and to give you a chance to stop? To give you a chance to be there for yourself. To soothe yourself and believe in yourself in the face of rejection.

Do you realize that it is you who assigns meaning to everything? Every meaning, every definition lives inside your consciousness. You give birth to it and sustain it by believing it.


Change your mind…

These three words have so much meaning. They represent choice. They represent the power you have over your mind, your perspective and your reality. It really is that simple. Change your mind. Understand that nobody and nothing determines your value, your worth, your status, your understanding, your point of view. When it comes to your own life, your view is most important. You don’t have to make everyone else right, you can make yourself right about yourself. Paradoxically, when you are able to do that, you won’t fear the opinions of everyone around you. You won’t take it to heart. You will see that their view of you has more to do with themselves than it has to do with you and you won’t fear pain or love.

Change-your-mind-change-your-lifeMake up your mind to accept yourself for the divine being that you are and set yourself free from pain.

Every time that you feel rejected, know it’s not your fault. Every time that you feel unloved, know that it’s not your fault. Every time someone is mean to you, know that it’s not your fault. The person taking the action is responsible for their view and you are responsible for your view, your perspective, your response.

That is all…

You are Loved. Whether you know it or not. Whether you see it or not. Whether you accept it or not. You are still loved.

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We are all in this together, I am here for you.


7 thoughts on “How To Overcome The Pain For Your Twin (Part 1)

  1. Thank you for this….I use to think- that it was me. That something was wrong with me. I hated myself for the longest time. I don’t now. I love myself and accept, all of me. The good and the bad. This has taken over twenty years…And it was so hard. But I did it. And so can anyone who is willing to do the work. Much Light, Love and Happiness. Many Blessings to you.. To everyone! 🙂

  2. I can’t believe how free I am feeling right now. I never felt so self-affirmed about myself and my passion like this. A week ago when I dated my Twin, I let go of something which had been holding me back for so long. The fact that he has a girl friend. This fact led me to run away from him 12 years ago and I could finally let go of it. I gave my Twin a present for his girl friend. This action somehow freed me from all the pain and need and desire to become his only one. I feel more love not only for my Twin but also for my husband whom I was trying to divorce. I am separated from my Twin now as we live in different hemispheres. I will allow myself to meet him again and have fun as I love myself, but I will also love my husband too. Everything in front of me is for learning. I’m committed to my learning and pursuing my mission. Thank you Elise for your guidance.

  3. “Are you making it your fault? Are you making yourself not good enough? Are you wondering if you could have done something differently?”

    well i can say no to each one of these questions. i know i am loved, by myself and my twin, i know i am good enough, and i also know there is nothing i could or would have done differently.
    so where does that leave me…the pain from not being with my twin physically (yet – being optimistic) is not diminished or eliminated by knowing these things.

      1. hmm i don’t see that as an obstacle. wanting love is not unlike wanting warmth, food etc…’things’ you require for your body and/or soul. that kind of wanting is showing us the direction. where our soul wants to get to. sure, all the love we feel is really within ourselves, and is only triggered/awakened by other people and most of all by our twin. but we were not put in this body and on this planet to experience physical reality all by ourselves, completely on our own, alone. so i don’t think there is anything wrong with wanting to be with the person you love. not in a needy ‘i-can’t-live-without-you’ way, but in the knowledge that this union is what is meant for you.

  4. Thank you so much for this article. I met my Twin Soul 2 years ago, and it has been an emotional rollercoaster. We love each other with an intensity that I never knew existed, and this is certainly not my first relationship (or his). We have both now realized that the time is not right to be together for the rest of our incarnation in this life; we know that we were brought together for a short while to do some very important work (we both campaign against human and animal abuse). The strange thing is that we both worked on humanitarian causes long before we met each other; we both took law degrees that we never completed because other things got in the way; we are both the youngest of 3 children in our families; we are both of the star sign Aquarius; and we both knew from our first meeting that this was somehow ‘different’ from anything either of us had ever experienced before…….or will again. We both know that we each have a bit more ‘evolving’ to do in the spiritual sense……but I KNOW that one day, in another reality, when the time is right, me and my Twin will reconnect for eternity. Lorraine

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