These Transmissions are Via Unity Consciousness
It hurts when we can’t have what we want. It hurts so bad. To love so truly, so deeply. That kind of love that you can only hope to find. The heart wants what the heart wants and you can’t help that. How do you transcend the pain, when you just want them to care? What happens when you just can’t have what you want? When you realize you never will?
When you realize you can’t make them open up. Even when you know they love you back.
Will it ever go away? The pain? What makes pain fade? What heals a broken heart? What heals loss? What can replace a love so strong? What can bend the will?
How to deal…
Are you making it your fault? Are you making yourself not good enough? Are you wondering if you could have done something differently? Well, how are you going to move on if you are stuck in the past? How are you going to bring an end to the pain?
There’s no easy way. No easy way besides surrender. Stop blaming yourself. Stop thinking you’re not good enough. Stop wondering what you did wrong. There’s nothing wrong. Only lessons worth learning. Only discovery of self love.
We can’t escape pain when we think we are defective. That’s what makes it so painful. When you think you are the reason. That something must be wrong with you. That you aren’t good enough. That it’s your fault you aren’t lovable. All of these things are lies that we tell ourselves. It doesn’t matter how or why these lies were adopted. It doesn’t matter if you think it’s true. You can decide it isn’t true, and you’ll be right.
We become that which we believe ourselves to be.
So, what do you believe?
The Universe will show you your secret fears. It will show you the nonsense going on behind the veil of your consciousness. Those things you fear are true about yourself. Those things you desperately try not to face. That you try to keep doormant. It’s the reason that you run in fear from love. It’s the reason you react so violently to rejection. Because you think it means something. You think the actions of others can validate your suspicions of yourself.
What if the purpose of rejection was to show you how you are rejecting yourself and to give you a chance to stop? To give you a chance to be there for yourself. To soothe yourself and believe in yourself in the face of rejection.
Do you realize that it is you who assigns meaning to everything? Every meaning, every definition lives inside your consciousness. You give birth to it and sustain it by believing it.
Change your mind…
These three words have so much meaning. They represent choice. They represent the power you have over your mind, your perspective and your reality. It really is that simple. Change your mind. Understand that nobody and nothing determines your value, your worth, your status, your understanding, your point of view. When it comes to your own life, your view is most important. You don’t have to make everyone else right, you can make yourself right about yourself. Paradoxically, when you are able to do that, you won’t fear the opinions of everyone around you. You won’t take it to heart. You will see that their view of you has more to do with themselves than it has to do with you and you won’t fear pain or love.
Every time that you feel rejected, know it’s not your fault. Every time that you feel unloved, know that it’s not your fault. Every time someone is mean to you, know that it’s not your fault. The person taking the action is responsible for their view and you are responsible for your view, your perspective, your response.
That is all…
You are Loved. Whether you know it or not. Whether you see it or not. Whether you accept it or not. You are still loved.
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