How to Overcome The Pain For Your Twin (Part 2)

How to Overcome The Pain For Your Twin (Part 2)

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My Twin Flame told me how he felt about me. I didn’t make it up. It was mutual. It happened. It was real. But, as you all know, there’s always a problem, and when push comes to shove, it was all over. I asked him if he meant it. He said that he did, and then he said something else…

“Does it matter?”

I’ll never forget those words. Why would he say that? I couldn’t understand it. I just knew that it felt bad. I get it now. Those are the words of someone who has given up. Someone who has relinquished their freedom to go with their heart. In his mind, there was no other choice. So, it didn’t matter.

I didn’t understand it because I never put myself in a corner. I never relinquish my ability to choose.  I didn’t understand that type of thinking. Although I understand it now, it’s still difficult to relate to.

Here is what I want you to know…

Dear Twin Flame, it matters. You can’t help that. You can’t stop it. There is no ceasing, no running, no stopping. This love is like a waterfall. It flows with a strong current and when you feel pain, that’s when you’re trying to go against it.

You can’t talk yourself out of love. You can’t cut the cords.

“I love him so much. Nothing soothes the pain. Nothing takes it away. nothing makes me forget. Nothing else is good enough. There is nothing that could ever replace him in my heart. No substitute. No other way. My thirst for you will never be quenched. Never satisfied outside of you. My desire for you is too great. This is a gut wrenching love. I am consumed in my sorrow. My heart, body and soul mourns for you. My sadness won’t let me forget my love for you. My sadness reminds me of how I miss you.

My Desire…

You are a part of me and I can’t have it any other way. My heart knows no other. No distraction is enough. I laugh at the idea of replacing you. There is no such thing.

I love you. “

I know that it is hard to live this way. I know that sometimes, it feels like there is no escape. It feels like all is lost. It feels like you can’t move on. Like it’s the end of the road and life becomes one great big chore. We just go through the motions, wishing, hoping, thinking and praying for change. Missing the Flame that set our souls on fire. So close, yet so far. If only…. If only they would return. If only there was some way.

Dear Twin Flame, don’t invalidate your feelings. Don’t try to cut the cord. It is impossible to do, anyway. Don’t make it wrong that you feel the way that you feel. That’s the first step. Being loving and understanding towards yourself, no matter what you are feeling. You are human, after all.

Here’s an idea…

We live our lives in a state of disappointment when things don’t go our way. But what you aren’t considering, as you are living in disappointment is that things can change in any moment. Imagine living from that state. Of knowing that the world is fluid, malleable and is subject to change in any moment. That things can move in your favor unexpectedly at any given time.

The other side to that is that you must be in a receptive mode. You must be in a state of being that allows you to attract the types of changes that you want.

Stop thinking that your moments are predictable. They are not!

Things can change in an instant. Are you considering that?  It’s true, so do yourself a favor and remind yourself of that and move forward with positive expectation that everything is working out for you.

It only takes one. One moment, one circumstance, one person to change your life forever, for the better, and that one thing can show up at any moment. So, instead of trying to cut chords or figure out how to forget, just remind yourself that things can change and that they are changing all the time. Stop trying to stop loving. Stop trying to run away and harden yourselves. Stop living in disappointment.

There is no death sentence here. Only circumstances. There is no hard, fast, definite outcome. Anything can happen. You must see that. Don’t let yourself wallow in pain, while you could be learning lessons that get you closer to reunification.

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“The one truth you cannot hide is love”

-Dr. Henry Morgan, Forever

You create your reality. It’s hard to escape the pain, but we are doing it little by little. We are loving ourselves instead of beating up on ourselves. We are learning to love with hope, instead of doubt and we are learning that no matter what happens, we are ok. Give yourself the gift of peace, one moment at a time. Don’t smudge out the love. Don’t forget it, block it or hide it. You can learn to integrate it in and to let go of the pain. Keep the love and let go of the pain, one hopeful moment at a time.

If you would like a Twin Flame Reading, you may contact me at any time via AcceleratedAscension@yahoo.com or via Facebook Page to Accelerated Ascension For the Twin Flame.

We are all in this together, I am here for you.

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One thought on “How to Overcome The Pain For Your Twin (Part 2)

  1. I just have to say thank you again. I left a much longer comment that I was pretty proud of, and then it disappeared when I tried to submit it :(. But the most important part of it was thanking you. I don’t know what I would’ve done without finding you/your healing words, as the years were wearing me down in this venture, and good information that was helpful got harder and harder to find.twin flames, we are going to be okay – Elise is here!

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