All of My Transmissions are Via Unity Consciousness
“My pain has made my fear obsolete.”
Pain is the one thing that we are all trying to avoid. The one thing that we fear the most can take on many different embodiments, but at the core, it’s the same for everyone; Pain.
What happens when you can’t avoid pain? When circumstances and events take place that cause debilitating pain…. What is one to do? Here is the thing. We view pain as a negative experience. But, in order to learn how to overcome pain, we must first have the experience of pain. Once you learn how to transcend pain, fear has no hold on you anymore. This is freedom. making decisions from a place of love and freedom, instead of fear. Fear keeps us from following our hearts. From pursuing the things that are the most meaningful to us. It’s such a handicap when we can’t make decisions from a place of love and freedom.
We are only an empty shell if we cannot live by freedom. We are lukewarm, stagnant and unsatisfied at best, if we ignore our hearts and live by some other rule. Some rule that says we are controlled by our fear of pain. Choices are unencumbered by fear and pain. Otherwise, they are just rules that we live by. They are not choices. Choice represents freedom to choose. Freedom to choose only exists when all options are available to us.
Life is a paradox and the paradox of pain is that when you overcome pain, you are free. When you are no longer ruled by fear, all options become available to you. There is no obligation. There is no ultimatum. No means that can be used to manipulate you into submission. No way that you could be persuaded into some self hating action. That is freedom. Freedom to choose. Freedom to be entirely authentic. Freedom to go after those things that you truly want and to distance yourself from those things you know you don’t want.
When pain is the only threat, bring it on. I have been there. I have lost it all. I have endured the gut wrenching tears day after day. The grueling pain. The desire to cease to exist. The confusion beyond belief. The incapacitating sorrow. The exhaustive spinning of the mental body which tries so hard to figure it out and solve this problem of pain. All to no avail. Just a downward spiral. Here is the verdict. There is a way out of pain and when you find it, you will fear nothing and no-one. There is no thing more empowering than that. Than the ultimate freedom to love and be loved outside of the boundaries that fear wants to keep us within. There is no self-sabotage outside of fear. There is no obligation outside of fear. There is no insecurity outside of fear.
It’s pain that makes you stronger. Pain puts things in perspective. It makes you come to a clearer understanding of what’s really important. Most of all, pain ultimately provides freedom to those who overcome it. Once you overcome pain, the world is yours. You no longer make decisions based in fear, but in love, forevermore. What more have you to fear once you have lost your Twin Flame? What more can happen to you that is worse than that? What more have you to fear if you have lost your Twin and come out the other side and made a beautiful life for yourself? What threat will you fear? For me, there is none. There is no threat great enough to take away my audacity to choose in love. I will move forward in love. I will move forward knowing that I have nothing to lose, because I’ve already lost it all and I not only survived, I overcame. I figured it out. I am the lotus, risen from the mud. Risen from the shadows. I am happy and whole and free as can be. I did it.
There is nothing better than this freedom that I have achieved. This freedom that you can achieve. To be no longer afraid of love. No longer afraid of rejection. To no longer settle for less. To no longer be manipulated. To no longer be under appreciated. To no longer be ruled by fear. Outside of fear there is love, and that is where you can live. This is your way out. Your freedom from fear is on the other side of pain. There is progression involved. It’s no easy task. It’s ok to take your time to arrive. It happens over time. Just be patient and love yourself every step of the way. Every day of pain brings you closer to freedom.
Pain makes fear obsolete.
You cannot be persuaded by pain, once you know pain and have overcome it.
Become stronger than your pain.
We are all in this together. You are loved.