The Twin Flame experience is horrifyingly intense. It feels inescapable. Overtaking, so ultimate and so awesome. There’s good, there’s bad. No matter how long we’ve been numb or what vows we have made in the past to swear off love, meeting your Twin Flame inspires passion that doesn’t know how to quit. Passion that surpasses greater capacity to love than we have ever known. You can’t cut the cord. That would be too easy. This is about learning and if you were able to cut the cord, you would be able to cut your lesson. The Universe allows us to create our reality, but as far as I have seen, the Universe will never let you skip out on a lesson. Lessons that we need to learn keep manifesting themselves through people, circumstances and events, until we overcome them. You only think about lessons you are still learning. You don’t sit around and ponder things that you’ve already mastered. Just like you don’t sit around pondering addition and subtraction. There’s no point. So, when the lesson is over, you stop thinking about it and the manifestation transforms into something else that reflects your current state of being. There is something very important to understand about the Twin Flame Phenomenon. This experience is so intense and amazing. It’s so easy to romanticize, because of the intense attraction and love. But the bottom line is that it isn’t about romance. It’s about growth. Growth always takes priority. Many of you want answers. You want to know what the other person is thinking. You want to know if you will ever reunite or if it’s even possible. These are all 3rd dimensional ideas that really aren’t important. I know that you want to know what they are thinking, if they are learning and benefitting and what the point is of it all. So, I am telling you, the point is for you to evolve into higher and higher states of consciousness. From 3rd dimensional ways of thinking into 4th and 5th dimensional ways of thinking. From a 3rd dimensional perspective, there is no escaping this phenomenon. There is no refuge. There is no way around these intense feelings. From a 3rd dimensional view, it’s all about love and heartbreak being two sides of the same coin. This is a manifestation of the parts of you that feel incomplete or unloved. The idea that something can complete you is the ultimate romance story. That something can save you and make you better than you ever were before. I’m not saying that these things don’t happen, or that they can’t happen. I am just saying that nothing is going to come of thinking that you need saving. That you need someone else to make you whole. A lot of you are up to date with this realization, but you still aren’t there yet. You still aren’t truly living it and believing it. You still are somewhere in the past. Look, I have been where you are. I have felt the unrelenting, never ceasing reminders, aches and pains. I have been there, where there was no way out. But I can tell you that there is a way out. You must know this…
The Twin Flame experience is not about reunification.
It’s about overcoming the greatest of obstacles.
By finding a way out of pain, you prove to yourself that you are indeed whole, worthy and loved.
There is no such thing as needing something outside of yourself in order to be complete. There is no such thing as there only being one person in the world who can serve as a magnificent lover. Reunification may or may not happen, but the hardest thing to achieve in this process, is the ability to move on completely. This is the Challenge. Need attracts more need. Longing attracts more longing. For as long as we romanticize about this from a 3rd dimensional viewpoint, there is no moving on. There is no self discovery of wholeness. There is no recovering from this long lost love perspective. So, you have to come out of that.
Entertain other possibilities.
Are you even entertaining other possibilities? I know that once you meet your Twin Flame, the idea of being with another can feel repulsive, but we are divine and our possibilities for ourselves are not limited. Allow yourself to recognize this. Remaining unfailingly attached to one person, a person who, for whatever reason, cannot be there for you in the capacity that you want, is simply not a self serving or a self loving action. The story does not matter. Be more light hearted about possibilities that the Universe can open up for you. Entertain ideas of good outcomes that aren’t the Twin Flame reunification romance. You might be closing yourself off to other possibilities if you are seeing reunification as the only possible doorway to happiness. It is for sure, that if you cannot release the thought to the Universe, that the chances for reunification are lower.
If you make the Twin Flame experience about reunification, you will be unhappy until it happens. Which means that you may feel incomplete for the remainder of your days. The purpose is to find wholeness, to grow and to overcome all obstacles. To bring our light through the tremendous amounts of darkness we face. What glory is there, when there is very little to overcome? What great glory there is at the end of a great victory. We have chosen this difficult experience because we know that we are victors. Create your reality. Make some decisions. Come to new conclusions. Do whatever it is that you need to do to be happy. For some of you, reunification is part of your process and you are blessed with ability to work on that. If that is your path, then it’s been put before you as a possibility and that is amazing and wonderful. But, there are so many of you who feel trapped, like you do not have many choices. So many of you between a rock and a hard place. So many of you who are being ignored and not recognized by your Twin. Demonstrate self loving actions towards yourself. Whatever it takes. Do it for yourself. Isn’t that part of what we see as romantic? Someone who will do whatever it takes? Do that for yourself. Believe and choose the direction you want to go in. Choose something new and good. You’ve got options. You are divine, Love.
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We are all in this together, I am here for you.