How To Be In Love, Not Need In Love…

How To Be In Love, Not Need In Love…

Everything is channeled. There is no difference between you and I. There is no “them” vs. “we”, in a Unified Universe.

With Tons of Love

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This concept will set you free, if you can allow yourself to grasp it. Please understand that there is no epitome of anything, this includes knowledge. So, there is an infinite ability to harness knowledge. That makes it impossible to know everything at once, because if you knew everything there is to know, there would be no more becoming and there is no such thing as stagnation or halt in an infinite Universe. There is always more to know, more to evolve, more to become, more to see, more to do and more to be.

Let’s talk about Love…

First of all, I fucking Love you guys. I love you all. This journey has been more amazing than I could ever have previously imagined. It has opened me up to more than I ever thought I would know. I have reached places I had never even conceived of reaching. Expressing my epiphanies, inspirations and thoughts in this way, to you all, has been the ultimate therapeutic endeavor, and I would not have had enough reason to do it if not for all of you. All of you who resonate with my insights and experiences and all of you who benefit from them and find confirmation in them. I thank you for expressing your love and gratitude. I am a person, just like you, and I love to know that my thoughts are reaching you in a good way and making a positive impact on your hearts and minds. So, yes, I love you, and don’t ever doubt my love…

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Love is inspired…

We are in human form. We have ego. We have these bodies to manage, minds that wander and require deliberateness of intent. We do not always love. We do not always know what love is. Sometimes we love and sometimes we don’t. Sometimes ego gets in the way. We need inspiration to love, but after that, it becomes more of a choice. Not to say that one cannot fall out of love, or change their preference. It is all part of the web of experiences that we agreed to have when we came here…

What I am saying is that, yes, we are inspired to love. But there is also a choice to allow yourself to be inspired. Once you have harnessed great love and you know it, it is possible to come to the realization that love is a state of being and that you can remain in that state of being without the inspiration. You can simply choose love. To be in love, in general. To feel love. The emotion is separate from the object. You can harness this state of being. I’m not talking love potion number 9, where you completely lose all of your senses. I don’t think it is even humanly possible or necessary to concretely remain in a state of love. That would mean stagnation. Oscillating is necessary for growth. So, you will not be in love, all of the time, so do not try to make yourself be that. But, you can be generally loving. You can choose to harness that state of being of love over nothing at all. For no reason. You do not need an object or a person to love. You can simply be love.

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Love is a state of being…

There is no lover in my bed, and I am still in love. There does not have to be romance to make me feel in love. I do not need a person to inspire me to that state of being. Whoever comes along into this loving space, though, is sure going to benefit, because I am already there! The love is flowing! It is easy! It is natural! I do, allow myself to be inspired to love, through others, but it does not stop there. Sometimes, it just comes over me out of nowhere. For no reason. For no object, for no person, it is simply my state of being. Do not worry about not doing it right, love is fleeting. It will always come and go. The idea is that you choose to allow yourself freedom to go with your opportunities to be inspired to love. Don’t hold back. Don’t think it is unnecessary or childish to simply be in love. Love is one of the highest vibrations that you can be in. It is like appreciation. They are the same.

Also, when you do not need the lover in order to be in love, then you will not smother them when they come, and you will not push them away with your fears, either… There is a difference between love and an energy that gives off a needy cry. A big difference. Achieve love that is for love and not for need. That is how you attract what you truly want.

The problem is that so many of you do not let yourselves go there as much as you could. You smother your loving inspirations because you are thinking too much from this 3rd dimensional perspective. Fuck that perspective. That perspective that says that love is weak, and that it doesn’t think clearly. If you are reading this, you should know better. That those 3rd dimensional perspectives on love are based in the ego, rooted in fear, and that is not serving us at all. We have evolved beyond that old paradigm. We are not cavemen anymore. Not only is it ok to love for no reason, but how else are you going to attract more love into your life? Taking on a loving state of being at every opportunity is the best thing you can do to attract like energies, people and circumstances to yourself, not to mention raising the collective vibration of the planet.

“Be the change you wish to see in the world.”

-Mahatma Gandhi

Enjoy all the beauty that there is to see…

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Allow yourself to be inspired. The more that you practice the vibration of love, the more easily it will come over you and it does not matter what inspired you to it. You are just practicing being in that energetic standpoint, where you can see the beauty in everything. That is really what it is. Love makes everything beautiful. Love is the kind of thing that you just have to go with. If you are inspired to it, go! Do not ignore it or smother it or try to guard yourself against it. Love is always leading you in a good place and just because you are going in a direction, it does not mean that you will stay there, but you must enjoy the ride to see what it’s all about and to obtain the lesson that is being offered to you. If you hold back love, not only do you not get to experience it in that moment, but it botches up the entire formula. It keeps you from receiving love. When you take an action based in love, you attract more of that. When you take an action based in fear, you attract more of that. Let that be your formula. If something leaves your experience when you are loving it, it is for a reason. With a soulmate, if they leave you when you have acted in love, they were simply not attracting that. If they respond negatively or bleed negativity onto the good heart that you have presented with, it is simply because they do not deserve you! They are not in alignment with the love that you are offering! It is much better to be with someone who is. That is really the only way to be truly happy in a love relationship. When both partners value themselves enough to receive love. When both partners are courageous enough to drop down their walls and give love. When both partners are brave enough to allow themselves to see the beauty in each other.

Love is a state of being. Choose it. You will never be perfect. Love will always be fleeting in the moment, but choose to embrace it more and more when it does come. Choose to invite the experience of being in love. In general, just feeling love and knowing love whenever the opportunity makes itself known to you. I am so in love. With what I am doing. With what I feel from the Universe. With everything and with nothing, I am simply in a space of love. Come try it<3.

With all my love.

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Choosing a Soulmate Who Brings Out The Best in You…

Choosing a Soulmate Who Brings Out The Best in You…

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Everything is Channeled. “I”, “We”, it is all the same in a Unified Universe.

If I can convey this correctly, what I am about to say will serve as a very serious breakthrough in your consciousness. There are things that exist, systems in place that you are not currently aware of, but as you move along your path of evolution, learning and picking up bit and pieces of information along the way, you become ready for more. More bits of the puzzle, more information and even paradigm shifts can occur when certain levels of understanding have been reached. Total shifts in consciousness are awesome and incredible to the mind, body and soul. It means that you are learning faster, which is always good. We always want faster becoming, never slower becoming. You know what is good for you. Positive forward momentum. That’s good. So, here we go… Let’s have a total shift in consciousness. What I am about to say is not particularly profound… until you come to understand the degree to which it is true. That’s what’s profound about it. Whoa!!! Supernovae…

Different people bring out different qualities in you.

Not so profound. Let’s take it further…

Different people will evoke different energetic responses from you.

Let’s let it evolve…

There are some people who evoke from you, those energetic qualities that you want to embody

and other people who evoke from you those energetic qualities that are not what you want to embody.

Here is what’s profound…

Which person are you in love with?

It is obviously, a good idea to be in love with the person who elicits from you, the qualities that represent who you want to be. It is obviously, not an ideal choice, to be in love with a person who elicits from you a qualities that do not represent the person you are wanting to be.

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Furthermore….

Your choice of who you want to be, is just as constant as your choice of who you want to be with. You can be moving along just fine, until you have that moment of recognition where it becomes apparent to you that you want something that is different from what is currently in your reality. This is how energetic disharmony is born. If you have an energetic disharmony, it isn’t a big deal. But you are making it a big deal! Because you are attaching yourselves to people unnecessarily and then, they cause you to grow, and things begin to fall apart as you become ready to be with another person because you have grown and are ready to have different qualities elicited from you, but you are resisting the change, entirely! You deem it as a sad, bad thing!! So, you cling to the old. Further perpetuating the state of disharmony.

It is actually a fantastic thing when you become ready for someone new! It means that you now, have the opportunity to meet someone who can teach you your next lesson! It means that you can meet new people with new qualities and learn new things! Moving onto bigger and better things is a cliche, but it’s based on real shit. This is it. The reality of things. Stop clinging to people who’s energies are disallowing you from becoming the person that you want to become. Instead, leave those people and find new people who’s energies are attracting the qualities that you want to exhibit.

Is who I am when I am with you, the person that I want to be? Do you bring out the best in me?

Do I like who I am when I am with you?

If a person is not in an energetic state of being which allows them to receive kindness from you, they will not receive any kindness from you. Period. No matter what you do. They will either evoke something from you that is not kindness,  or they will misinterpret your kindness, the mail will get lost, the message won’t get sent and they will miss it entirely. There is nothing that you can do about what another being is currently attracting. You cannot cause them to change! What you must do is move on and find a person who is attracting kindness. If you are wanting to be a kind person and you come together with a person who is wanting to be around people who are kind, the two of you will collide and find such exquisite harmony. Let that be the case for you. Let yourself find people who are attracting the qualities that you want to exhibit. The rest cannot see you, cannot hear you, cannot appreciate you and that is just how it is. If you find that you are fearful around a person, yes, those fears are yours, but this person also has an energy that is attracting and eliciting those fears to come forth from within you. They are part of the problem. The attractor is part of the problem. We are multifaceted beings. We are mixed bags of energy. There are many things which can be elicited from us. Find a person whom you feel good and confident around. Find a person whom is easy for you to love. If a person is attracting a nightmare and you come their way, you will be their nightmare, whether that is your intention or not. It may not even be your intention, but if you are in that vicinity, it will happen. Find someone who is attracting joy and let them bring out the joy in you. Find someone who is attracting love and let them bring out the love in you. Keep going about the mary-go-round until you find a fit that really suits you. There are many, many people and energies present for a reason, because life is a constant flow, and so are you. There is no stagnation. We want you to grow, you want you to grow, the Universe wants you to grow and so it is. You will. But, to make it easier on yourself and to speed the coming of the things that you desire, go with the flow. let things go that are not working. It does not mean do not give it a chance. It does not mean do not put forth effort or do not try. That is not what we mean here at all. Put forth your best effort, but also recognize that even your best efforts cannot yield results from a person who’s energetic state of being is simply choosing not to adjust to create harmony. Do not remain in a state of stagnation out of a fear of loss.  Because loss can never happen. It is illusory. It only happens in your mind. If you would allow yourself to line up with attracting the thing that you want, that thing would show up and so fast and you would not feel loss at all. At the same time, when you feel loss, you cannot possibly attract something to fill your void.

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These transitions happen slowly for most of you. The transition from loss to gain. You may have to meet many people who incrementally prepare you to be in the right vibration to receive a bigger thing that you want. But know that, that is what is happening. That everyone who crosses your path is of great purpose for you and that purpose does not have to be forever. It is for now, and when it is no longer serving you, simply let it go. It does not mean run and scream, it means let it go when it wants to go! Let the sour milk go! It is already gone!!

You must see this. That when you are feeling negative emotion, it is because you are resisting. You are holding on too tight. You aren’t going with the flow. Go with the flow, is all that is meant here. See everyone as compatible with your ideal energetic components or not. What is good is good, it is not hard to miss. What is bad is bad, it is not hard to miss. In order to help yourself, ask yourself, is there more good or bad here? Sleep on it if you must, but let this idea of attracting qualities and harmonizing by law of attraction, sink in for you. This explains your relationship experiences. Its not you, it’s them, and they were not what you wanted anyway, but you shall find what you are wanting if you keep going. There is no chance of harmonizing with what you want if you are resisting it.

I want to make a note, that this only applies if you are being authentic. You cannot be holding back, taking action from the energy of fear and also cultivate what you want from a relationship. But, if you are truly authentic and open hearted, and you still do not find harmony with the person that you are with, or wanting to be with, then, you have done all that you can do. 

So, what will you do?

What is meant to be, will be. Many of your relationships loop around, as you come together, you grow, you separate for a time and you end up back together. This is very sensical, but you have to allow the in between stages of reunion to occur, before the reunion can occur. You cannot be holding on and resisting the whole way and meet with the necessary components to bring you to a higher state of consciousness. You are required to go with the flow. So, do not fear “letting go”, if it is meant to be, it will be. This is for you all, who are holding onto something that is no longer serving you and doubting that there is much else out there for you. Do not be so foolish to insult the Universe in this way. The Universe NEVER runs out of ideas, or resources, or means. But, you can block yourself from getting what you want. True story:)where-is-my-soulmate

I feel the love of the Universe.

The next post will be about love. Inspired by things, but love can exist with or without. No object necessary, loves is a state of being. It will be good<3

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A Formula For Relationship Harmony

A Formula For Relationship Harmony

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This channeled message came to me as a personal message at a time when I desired to reunite with who I considered to be my Twin Flame. I wrote it, put it away and I was under the impression that I would be presenting this document to him, one day in the future, and that it would set terms that would facilitate healthy interactions between us. I now realize that, not only could I present this to any soulmate that I share a strong, mutual and lasting love connection with, but I also realized that this information could be of benefit to all soulmates inside or outside the realms of a relationship.

The energy that I perceived as my Twin Flame energy, told me that in order to reunite, we must change the way that we think about love. I did not really know what he meant or even agree at first. But I understand what he means now. He said that love is not a fairytale. He said that things will not always be perfect. You cannot completely avoid bumps in the road. That is alright. It is not always easy. If you recognize that going into it, it will be easier to deal with and to come to solutions because instead of being disappointed from a mishap, you learn to how to move beyond it and into that which is better for the relationship. Instead of letting the bumps ruin, you let them bring you to more, deeper states of love.

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This message was really meant for a specific individual, or so I thought, but the following applies to everyone:

He said we must both let go of our pain.

Both parties must let go of the pain from the past.

Everyone has a fear/fears of the chance of negative cycles they have experienced in the past somehow being repeated. Of being hurt or of somehow hurting those whom you love the most.

EVERY fear is somehow, a derivative of a past experience.

We fear hurting those we love and we also fear being hurt. Because it has happened before…

So, he asked me to write something. Here is what he said:
“Go and write that letter on how to change our thinking on marriage/relationsips so we don’t bring in the abuse from our past… Keep it simple.”

He was speaking to me, in a way that made sense to me, in my life, but this same sentence can make sense to you. Everyone has known some type of negative thing, whether it be abuse, neglect, indifference, insensitivity. We all know what it is like to be emotionally bumped, bruised, abused and scarred.

So, here is the solution, I channeled. It’s not easy to just get over something from the past. It is much easier when your focus is to set terms and pave the way for the future. Every moment is new. So, set new intentions for your relationship before you get a chance to make a mistake. Mistakes will be made. You just have to have a game plan ahead of time. I am not saying that my solution is any end all, be all. You know that there is no epitome of anything in existence. There is always more, because evolution is always a constant. But, I felt satisfied with this and hopefully, you will, too.

Love you<3

Here it is:

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Let love win. Always.
We will not always be able to avoid disagreements. That is ok. It is the way that we choose to discuss our differences that matters. We may disagree, we may even get mad, we may make mistakes or say things that do not truly represent our truth. We are human. This can happen and you must know that it is ok. It does not mean that the relationship is bad. People who love each other can sometimes face the most difficulty. We will pave the way to use this aspect of the relationship to actually bring more love in. Our arguments will be grounds to bring us closer. Not farther apart. Here is how.

By remembering what is important.
By paving the way ahead of time, as we are doing now.
1) Differences can be argued without disrespect. Avoid name calling or cursing at one another at all costs. This should be an easy thing to remember. There is actual energy involved in the action of doing those things that you do not want to throw at one another. Simply know that.
2) Never regret or place blame on yourself or the other. Regret is a destructive energy. It is a self hating energy and if you feel that way towards yourself it will have negative effects on the relationship. You already can see how this is true.
Solution:
Self Compassion. Have self compassion. When you feel bad about something said or done, simply use it as a lesson/opportunity to do better. That is all. And be thankful for the opportunity that you had to grow and become better. That is all that you must do. Use it to be a better version of yourself and move forward in a positive way.

3) Reciprocate. If the two of you make it a point to reciprocate, your relationship will always be beautiful and full of love and wonderful, pleasant surprises. Let it be. If you love each other, expressing that is the most natural thing in the world for you both. Simply agree to show it. To not hold back in any moment. Let love win.

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Foster Trust
4) Compassion is a given that you should naturally have for someone that you love. Trust can be more difficult to create. To foster trust, make the relationship completely transparent. No secrets, no room for doubt.. Even if you do not wish to reveal something, simply explain that. No need to hide. Do the right thing by one another and hide nothing. Two people that are connected will know when something is wrong. Do not allow yourself to bring energies in that will create doubt, mistrust or confusion.

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Love is Freedom
Freedom is Love
The best symbol of love that you can bestow upon one another is the freedom to be yourselves fully.
When you allow each other transparency and freedom to be yourselves fully, without fear of judgement or retaliation, (Because you have agreed to let love win) you will then have the ultimate trust which is the perfect medium for fostering your love which is already innate between you. This is the solution you are seeking. Simply enjoy each other, live by these values and let love win. You already have everything you need and all you have is beautiful. Let it be.

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Not everyone can accomplish what is here. Some people are simply too far gone, not ready or not meant to be. But perhaps you will have the opportunity to use these ideas for yourself in your relationship or future relationship in some way. If anything, you can have these concepts for yourself and have them readily available to use when the moment becomes right. Good luck to you and your love!!

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To Attract The Right Soulmate, Evolve Into The Right Soulmate… (Part 1) Positive Change

To Attract The Right Soulmate, Evolve Into The Right Soulmate… (Part 1) Positive Change

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Everything is Channeled in some way, shape or form. I Channel through that which I call Unity Consciousness

There is a system in place that you may not be appreciating. Your ability to come into a state of homeostasis is of value, but, there would not be a such thing as homeostasis if chaos did not also exist. The value is in your ability to transform chaos back into homeostasis. Each time that you are able to transform your discombobulated state into a state of homeostasis, you have reached an entirely new way of being, that puts you at a higher functioning capacity than before. Accomplishing homeostasis out of chaos is always challenging in some way. As a result, you see that, instead of appreciating the entire system and that it works… Instead of appreciating that by piecing together the the puzzle, you are actually accomplishing something, many of you condemn yourself for being in that chaotic state to begin with. As if something is wrong with it. There is nothing wrong with it. If you could remain in a state of homeostasis at all times, there would be something wrong with that, because that would mean stagnation. You could not grow, learn, evolve and become capable of more. Without this system which consists of the unraveling of the current so that it can become the new. This is a constant thing. A constant movement taking place in your consciousness and it is also reflected in your lives. But you all have learned to resist it. To resist change. When you feel chaotic on the inside, you deem it wrong and you want to fix it. This is where motivation for positive forward momentum originates, but you do not have to view this state or need for change as negative. Change is never negative. Your thoughts about it create the negativity and trigger the negativity to ensue. If you do not resist the unraveling, you could more quickly, easily and painlessly accomplish the reconnecting of the dots for the newer, better picture, so to speak.

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Stop making change wrong.

Becoming aware of what is not desired is a gift because it allows us the power of choice, which makes positive evolution possible. You must develop a preference before you can ever attain that which is desired. Before knowing what you do want, you must know what you do not want. Don’t make it any harder than that.

Just participate.

How?

By moving forward, the best that you can.

Take your direction by using your joy and your preference as your compass.

You will find that those things that unraveled did not make you as happy as the things that came together and followed them. You will find that when you re-establish homeostasis, that you are better off than you were before. Don’t be a Debbie downer about it. Don’t be a baby, don’t be a whiner. Instead of being a cheese ball, eat a cheese ball and fucking find reasons to smile about it. Why? Because finding reasons to smile is better than finding reasons to frown. Don’t fight us on this, just do it and you will find yourself in a much happier state. The only time you feel wrong is when you are making something wrong. It’s all in perspective. You have the power of crafting that perspective. You must realize that, in order to utilize that power. There is always more than one way to see one thing. This goes for anything.

The root of your power is your awareness. It is what makes everything possible. Awareness is a gift, because it allows the power of choice, which makes evolution possible. It makes improvement possible. Utilize this idea in all of the ways that you can. Before you are used to it, you will not even come close to realizing all the ways in which you can utilize awareness in your every day, moment to moment experience to gain decision making power like never before. Just do what you can. Become aware of what you can. There is always more to learn, more to know. Everything is relevant, but if you automatically discard something because you deem it irrelevant, it cannot therefore, become relevant for you and show you all that it has the potential to show you! There are so many things that you are not paying attention to, that you could be giving a greater level of attention! It’s all in the details. It’s all in everything. Leave nothing out. Begin to see it that way and it will be true to you and instead of reading books to no end, in order to learn, you will find that you can learn from almost anything that you do, just by giving things your attention, as if they are relevant. You will learn so many things this way. Things that have a different quality than what a book provides. Life experience is the best teacher of all, and we learn by observing contrast. It is by seeing that which we are not, that we learn about that which we are, ad everything else. Contrast provides choices and preferences and awareness to different, fresh and new concepts. This is all life enriching stuff that we are talking about. Just by doing this process that is mentioned here, could add so much richness to your life and you would become a highly conscious, fast learning being, because of it.

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You could become just as fascinating as the world is to you. People could observe you and just be blown away by your perceptions and your willingness to share your unique ways of thinking. Yes, we are cultivating new ways of being and thinking. We are cultivating greater awareness, for the sake of greater levels of consciousness. Why? Because it is life enriching and fun. Because knowledge is power and stagnation is completely boring.

This is important when you want a mate. The more you learn, the more options you have, all around. You can invent new ways to interact with people. You will genuinely acquire new interesting qualities that you did not have before and you will also ne noticing more things in general, which allows you to make decisions which are more informed. This is all good. Good is what we are after. That is all.

So, many of you want to know how to attract your Soulmate. The one that you want. You do that by becoming the person that your Soulmate has agreed to come together with. Learn, evolve, grow and love. This applies whether you have met your Soulmate or not. This applies whether you have met your Twin Flame or not. You still have to be the person that they have agreed to be with in order to attract them to you.  I love you all so much!

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Faint Hearts, Beware… Twin Flames and Soulmates…

Faint Hearts, Beware… Twin Flames and Soulmates…

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I experienced a lot of reluctance and deliberation about sharing this, but since I have shared it, I have received many good responses. If this is for you, it will find you. With love<3

I have not written for what seems like a very long time. I know that you all have noticed. It has been many months that I have written fairly consistently. My blog posts, sprinkled all over Facebook, littering your timelines, but I hope that when you open them and read them, that you would find they had something to offer that was worth the trouble. For most of you, that has seemed to be the case. I have heard so many wonderful things and it warms my heart to know that my words can inspire and help you, even to the smallest degree. I feel so much love when I am writing here for you. I infuse my words with love as I type across the screen, so that you might feel that little warm energy in your heart  center as you read. So that you might experience some small relief from your daily lives as your eyes dance across the screen. My point in being here, in writing as I do, is not to teach, but to inspire. I will never claim to know anything for absolute, except for one thing… That you should follow your joy. There is no one who can know absolute truth, especially not from this third dimension. There are things that are just beyond us, while we are here. But, we understand the best that we can and experience is a great teacher. So, it is from experience that I share my new understandings with you today.

The important thing is not what a Twin Flame is. Not who is your Twin Flame, but the lessons that you take from a Twin Flame experience.

My literary strike was not as a result of lack of ideas or lack of inspiration or unwillingness to share. In fact, there have been such a great deal of ideas and inspirations, it just never felt like a complete enough thought to fully express to you. I knew I had to let it evolve, even further. I have felt a great transformative energy working in my consciousness. I knew that it was big. I knew that there was a time when I could not accept certain things I will reveal to you today. I wanted to find a way to share my truth with you, without making waves. Some of you have already been feeling the beginnings of this new energetic perspective and some of you have vehemently opposed it. That is ok. Only take what resonates with you. Put everything else on the shelf of your consciousness. You never know when those things that didn’t make sense for you, will finally click into place.

We can only accept what we are ready for. That is ok.

I have three great spiritual teachers that I have been studying for many years. I trust all of their teachings, because they have always resonated with me. I have come to see these three teachers as very reliable sources of information. Teal Swan/Scott, Bashar and Abraham Hicks. When I first became curious about their views on the Twin Flame, I found their ideas regarding this. All 3 teachers had basically the same thing to say. That the Twin Flame is not everything that we are making it out to be. That there is no such thing. Not in the way that we have defined it. That the label is too much. It is a soulmate connection. At the time, I wasn’t ready to hear any of this. Talk about bursting your bubble. I didn’t get mad. I didn’t know what to think. I just couldn’t process it. So, I let it go and I put the ideas up on the shelf of my consciousness and now, after my own experience, those ideas are making much more sense to me. The confusions involved when your most trusted teachers tell you something you just really aren’t wanting to hear… Something difficult to believe. It’s quite disheartening. But, now, at this point in my journey, I feel relief.

There are some things that I always believed, that I still believe. Through my journey, it has become more and more evident that there is simply no way to confirm a Twin Flame connection for certain. In my experience, it is easy for me to tell when the energy just isn’t right. But, to confirm that someone is indeed a Twin Flame, it simply cannot be done. Everything exists within a probability. We can gauge when probability is very high. But we cannot even say that for 100% understand the Twin Flame phenomenon with absolute clarity. Some things get lost in translation between higher realms and the land of 3D.

The Twin Flame experts are saying that 95% of people who think they are Twin Flames, are not. So, this isn’t something I just invented. My experience confirms this idea.

95% is a BIG number. That means that 95% of you who are agonizing and offering through this Twin Flame experience, could really be moving on. It means that at least 95% of of you will never reunite and that 95% of you should be finding ways to move on and live a happy life. But being able to live without your Twin Flame applies to EVERYONE suffering through this heartache. This is a legitimate teaching in the Twin Flame process that people are tripping over. How to move on and be ok without them. Some people are downright outraged by this idea. Whether you are a Twin Flame or not, whether you believe in it or not, 100% of each and every one of needs to know how to get over heartbreak. It is part of the lesson.

Let’s talk about our definition of what a Twin Flame is. Most of you believe that the Twin Flame is actually the other half of your soul. Of course, we love this idea. It makes it so romantic. So, “meant to be.”. I never really warmed up to this idea. First of all, who is the one who came up with this idea that the Twin Flame is the other half of your soul? Where did this idea come from? Second of all, my most trusted teachers are not in support of this idea. So, here is an explanation of the Twin Flame that was given to me, via spirit. It always made good sense to me. I am simply offering it to you…

Let’s talk about pizza. The Twin Flame isn’t like you made a pizza, cut it in half, where you are one half and your Twin Flame is the other half. The Twin Flame is like, you made two pizzas, using the same ingredients and divided up the ingredients a little asymmetrically, so that you could have harmonious differences. What you see in them, is in you, but you aren’t exactly the same. You are both whole, unique and in each other’s lives for the sake of growth.

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Here is the thing. Every soulmate is like that. We are all soul mates and we are all made of the same “stuff”. We are all soul mates. The Twin Flame is no different. It just presents uniquely intense lessons to learn. The Twin Flame is indeed special. Yes. It is a great connection. It is a roller coaster of love, pushing you to your deepest, darkest places, forcing you into realms that you would never otherwise experience. This is the challenge we undertake on planet Earth. To turn great darkness into great light. That’s it, and that’s part of the Twin Flame experience.

Don’t make this into a bad thing. Why do you need someone to be the other half of your soul? Why do you need to believe there is only one person out there in the universe who can complete you? These ideas are very limiting.

Romanticism is a 3rd dimensional energy.

Attachment is a 3rd dimensional energy.

Dependence is a 3rd dimensional energy.

Fear is a 3rd dimensional energy.

Control is a 3rd dimensional energy.

Doubt is a 3rd dimensional energy.

There are all different types of soul mates. Everyone you meet is a soulmate. Opportunities to learn, abound. The Twin Flame is a very special soulmate, because they are here to teach you your greatest, toughest lessons. They are here to take you to depths that you never knew were possible. They are here to assist you in accelerated expansion. They are here to open your heart. They are here to force you to build strength you never knew you had. What is more important than the label, is the experience. Let’s not make it about the label, but about the experience.

”Ease up on your label.” -Bashar

Everyone wants that confirmation of their Twin Flame. They want to know “Is he really my Twin Flame?” Tell me, does it matter? Does the label really matter? Does the label make a difference to your experience? Does the label make it possible for you to change your situation? Does the label increase your chances of being able to change their mind? No, it doesn’t. It doesn’t make a difference. The only difference it makes is that if you think that someone is your Twin Flame, you are more likely to stay hung up on them and less likely to move on. You are more likely to stress and romanticize about it longer. You are more likely to compare everyone you meet to them. You are less likely to think rationally about it. You see, we all deserve to be with someone who values us and loves us and acts on those things. But, if you think that there is only one person in the world who can fulfill you completely, you are doomed, unless they happen to change their mind about you. It can happen. People can end up together after trials and tribulations, but it ends up being a sad story for most of you because of this one fact…

There are some things that you cannot change. Like, other people’s minds.

Wishing, hoping, thinking and praying that someone will come around is a recipe for doom. In all that time that you are living in hopes of something that may never come to pass, you aren’t moving on with your life and you aren’t attracting someone to have a loving, fulfilling relationship with.

It doesn’t mean give up. It doesn’t mean good things can’t happen. Sometimes, these people end up back together. We have all seen that. But, it means let it come to you. Don’t live your life wishing, hoping, thinking and praying. Live your life now.

Everyone is a soulmate and in an infinite Universe, there is no such thing as only having one solution, or one true love. This infinite Universe yields infinite possibilities for us in all situations, including the realm of love. There is no such thing as only one person in the Universe who is right for you. There is only a such thing as lining up with what you desire. You do that by believing it is possible. That’s the first step.

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Don’t be dependent on an outcome. Thinking someone is our Twin Flame, tends to make us do that. It tends to keep us in limbo. When something is out of your control, stop trying to control it, and if you cannot control it, you have to focus on the things that you can control.

I know what it’s like to not be able to move on. I became so ill after my FalseTwin Flame experience.  I was heartbroken beyond comprehension. I experienced many physical and mental ailments. Some that that I am still experiencing today. My life was changed forever. I just couldn’t move on. I just couldn’t be happy. I just couldn’t sleep. I couldn’t eat. My health significantly diminished. I had never experienced anything like it in my life. Not being able to move on. Moving on was never an issue for me, until the Twin Flame experience bounced into my life.

I just want you to know, that I know what it’s like. I felt the unmerciful agony. The endless, relentless haunting of his memory, his image, my fantasies, my love for him that could never be fulfilled. Love that I never knew was humanly possible. The intense desire that could never see the light of day. The unbearable truth, that no matter what I did, no matter how much I wanted it, I couldn’t have it. Complete and utter despair. I didn’t want to exist, let alone, to live. Life was just a chore. I was tormented, day and night. In my sleep, in my semi-waking states. Before my eyes would even open, the pain would set in. The feeling was so empty. Hopelessness, loneliness, grief and pain. Despite my best efforts, I was inconsolable, although, I did my best to hide it from the world.

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I got through it. I have come out the other side, and so can you.

That is my motivation, here, with you.

It is possible, and I want it for you.

Maybe you aren’t being tormented. Maybe, you don’t want to get over it. Maybe you don’t like anything you are reading, thus far. If so, then, this message is not for you. But, there are a great many of you who are ready for this message, and I am writing to you. I am here for you.

I don’t want to teach about Twin Flames anymore. I want to teach about soul connections. That’s what I have been doing all along. Who is to say what is a Twin Flame and what is not? Who is to say who is a Twin Flame and who is not? One thing that we know for sure is that it’s a soulmate connection. ALL soulmate connections are important. I want to help everyone get through their soulmate connections and through to the other side. 95% of everyone who thinks they have a Twin Flame connection, do not. But whether you do or not, the lesson is the same. The idea is to learn how to get over heartbreak.

People want to know how to find their Twin Flame, how to find their ultimate soulmate. “The one”. The only way is to see every other soulmate as relevant and important. The Twin Flame experience has a way of blocking us from doing that. Because, you are always looking for your Twin Flame, so you are always comparing and if you do not think someone is your Twin Flame, The ultimate, you automatically don’t see them with as much relevance. It slows down the learning process, which slows down everything else. You cannot move on from a lesson if you don’t learn it. You can’t learn a lesson if you don’t see what’s in front of you as relevant. So, the best way to move through your lessons quickly is to ease up on your labels and see everything and everyone as relevant. The important thing is not whether this person is your Twin Flame or not. The important thing is what you are learning from whatever soulmate has been placed in front of you now. See it as relevant, and as soon as you learn one lesson, you can move onto the next. That’s what this is all about. Not about finding an ultimate this or that. Not about finding “The Twin Flame”. See the Twin Flame as an experience, not as something written in the stars. Not as the other half of your soul. Not as something that has to turn out a certain way. Not as a romantic injustice. See it as an experience. It’s about learning. See the Twin Flame as a soulmate. As a soulmate that has great things to teach you, a huge impact on your life, and your path of love and consciousness.

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What I want to do is to help you with your emotional state. Heartbreak is one of the toughest things in life to endure. I want to help you all improve your lives. I want to help you all get through these tough times with your soul connections. I want to help you gain peace of mind. To know when to move on and when to not. I want to help you to see the positive ends of your situations and the possibilities there are for you. I want to help you utilize your cognitive resources.  I want to give you new, fresh and positive perspectives on what is possible for you. I want to help you achieve peace of mind.

Everyone needs to be inspired and motivated sometimes. Everyone needs positive influence. Let’s not make this life about your Twin Flame, let’s make it about you. Let’s not make it about being with your Twin Flame or not, let’s make it about deciding to pursue happiness or not. After all, happiness is the key to everything.

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I have Learned a lot about how to get through this intense Twin Flame experience. I want to help others reach the place that I have reached. Why? Not because I am right or wrong, but because I wasn’t happy before, and I’m happy now. I want to help you do the same thing. I want to help you on your pursuit of happiness and fulfillment. I want to help you not only to see your possibilities, but to make them a reality. This life is about learning, loving and joy. Whatever it takes.

 I deal mostly with emotions. WE all have the same goal!! Anything else that follows is not controlled by you. The only thing controlled by you are your thoughts and emotions about your present situation. The only difference is your idea of what you think you are going through and your predictions about the future. The label. That’s the difference. The commonality among all of us, the 95% and the 5% is the same. What we all need to know is how to live after a broken heart, because, Twin Flame or not, you just can’t make them come back. You can only move on.

Some people do not need to learn how to move on, but how to open their hearts and love without fear. That is, of course, an aspect that I will be covering as well. The point is to feel happier and lead a happier life. I will always be pointing you to your joy.

Mission or not, you cannot do your mission from a state of heartbreak.

The reunited is only one perspective. One perspective lense that so many are having to do without and so many will never get to see. What about the rest of us? What about us who still need to live our lives and us who still need to love? Who is teaching them? I will. Love you…I love, love. I’m a hopeless romantic and I have learned so many things about love in this journey. I want to share them all with you. So, stay tuned, as I share with you all of the things I have learned that led me through the other side of pain, into the light of happiness. I will now be dealing with all soulmate connections. All soulmate and romantic situations. No matter what is happening, I am here for you.

With so much love…

We are all in this together, let’s get through.

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