This channeled message came to me as a personal message at a time when I desired to reunite with who I considered to be my Twin Flame. I wrote it, put it away and I was under the impression that I would be presenting this document to him, one day in the future, and that it would set terms that would facilitate healthy interactions between us. I now realize that, not only could I present this to any soulmate that I share a strong, mutual and lasting love connection with, but I also realized that this information could be of benefit to all soulmates inside or outside the realms of a relationship.
The energy that I perceived as my Twin Flame energy, told me that in order to reunite, we must change the way that we think about love. I did not really know what he meant or even agree at first. But I understand what he means now. He said that love is not a fairytale. He said that things will not always be perfect. You cannot completely avoid bumps in the road. That is alright. It is not always easy. If you recognize that going into it, it will be easier to deal with and to come to solutions because instead of being disappointed from a mishap, you learn to how to move beyond it and into that which is better for the relationship. Instead of letting the bumps ruin, you let them bring you to more, deeper states of love.
This message was really meant for a specific individual, or so I thought, but the following applies to everyone:
He said we must both let go of our pain.
Both parties must let go of the pain from the past.
Everyone has a fear/fears of the chance of negative cycles they have experienced in the past somehow being repeated. Of being hurt or of somehow hurting those whom you love the most.
EVERY fear is somehow, a derivative of a past experience.
We fear hurting those we love and we also fear being hurt. Because it has happened before…
So, he asked me to write something. Here is what he said:
“Go and write that letter on how to change our thinking on marriage/relationsips so we don’t bring in the abuse from our past… Keep it simple.”
He was speaking to me, in a way that made sense to me, in my life, but this same sentence can make sense to you. Everyone has known some type of negative thing, whether it be abuse, neglect, indifference, insensitivity. We all know what it is like to be emotionally bumped, bruised, abused and scarred.
So, here is the solution, I channeled. It’s not easy to just get over something from the past. It is much easier when your focus is to set terms and pave the way for the future. Every moment is new. So, set new intentions for your relationship before you get a chance to make a mistake. Mistakes will be made. You just have to have a game plan ahead of time. I am not saying that my solution is any end all, be all. You know that there is no epitome of anything in existence. There is always more, because evolution is always a constant. But, I felt satisfied with this and hopefully, you will, too.
Here it is:
Let love win. Always.
We will not always be able to avoid disagreements. That is ok. It is the way that we choose to discuss our differences that matters. We may disagree, we may even get mad, we may make mistakes or say things that do not truly represent our truth. We are human. This can happen and you must know that it is ok. It does not mean that the relationship is bad. People who love each other can sometimes face the most difficulty. We will pave the way to use this aspect of the relationship to actually bring more love in. Our arguments will be grounds to bring us closer. Not farther apart. Here is how.
By remembering what is important.
By paving the way ahead of time, as we are doing now.
1) Differences can be argued without disrespect. Avoid name calling or cursing at one another at all costs. This should be an easy thing to remember. There is actual energy involved in the action of doing those things that you do not want to throw at one another. Simply know that.
2) Never regret or place blame on yourself or the other. Regret is a destructive energy. It is a self hating energy and if you feel that way towards yourself it will have negative effects on the relationship. You already can see how this is true.
Self Compassion. Have self compassion. When you feel bad about something said or done, simply use it as a lesson/opportunity to do better. That is all. And be thankful for the opportunity that you had to grow and become better. That is all that you must do. Use it to be a better version of yourself and move forward in a positive way.
3) Reciprocate. If the two of you make it a point to reciprocate, your relationship will always be beautiful and full of love and wonderful, pleasant surprises. Let it be. If you love each other, expressing that is the most natural thing in the world for you both. Simply agree to show it. To not hold back in any moment. Let love win.
4) Compassion is a given that you should naturally have for someone that you love. Trust can be more difficult to create. To foster trust, make the relationship completely transparent. No secrets, no room for doubt.. Even if you do not wish to reveal something, simply explain that. No need to hide. Do the right thing by one another and hide nothing. Two people that are connected will know when something is wrong. Do not allow yourself to bring energies in that will create doubt, mistrust or confusion.
Love is Freedom
Freedom is Love
The best symbol of love that you can bestow upon one another is the freedom to be yourselves fully.
When you allow each other transparency and freedom to be yourselves fully, without fear of judgement or retaliation, (Because you have agreed to let love win) you will then have the ultimate trust which is the perfect medium for fostering your love which is already innate between you. This is the solution you are seeking. Simply enjoy each other, live by these values and let love win. You already have everything you need and all you have is beautiful. Let it be.
Not everyone can accomplish what is here. Some people are simply too far gone, not ready or not meant to be. But perhaps you will have the opportunity to use these ideas for yourself in your relationship or future relationship in some way. If anything, you can have these concepts for yourself and have them readily available to use when the moment becomes right. Good luck to you and your love!!
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