How To Be In Love, Not Need In Love…

How To Be In Love, Not Need In Love…

Everything is channeled. There is no difference between you and I. There is no “them” vs. “we”, in a Unified Universe.

With Tons of Love

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This concept will set you free, if you can allow yourself to grasp it. Please understand that there is no epitome of anything, this includes knowledge. So, there is an infinite ability to harness knowledge. That makes it impossible to know everything at once, because if you knew everything there is to know, there would be no more becoming and there is no such thing as stagnation or halt in an infinite Universe. There is always more to know, more to evolve, more to become, more to see, more to do and more to be.

Let’s talk about Love…

First of all, I fucking Love you guys. I love you all. This journey has been more amazing than I could ever have previously imagined. It has opened me up to more than I ever thought I would know. I have reached places I had never even conceived of reaching. Expressing my epiphanies, inspirations and thoughts in this way, to you all, has been the ultimate therapeutic endeavor, and I would not have had enough reason to do it if not for all of you. All of you who resonate with my insights and experiences and all of you who benefit from them and find confirmation in them. I thank you for expressing your love and gratitude. I am a person, just like you, and I love to know that my thoughts are reaching you in a good way and making a positive impact on your hearts and minds. So, yes, I love you, and don’t ever doubt my love…

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Love is inspired…

We are in human form. We have ego. We have these bodies to manage, minds that wander and require deliberateness of intent. We do not always love. We do not always know what love is. Sometimes we love and sometimes we don’t. Sometimes ego gets in the way. We need inspiration to love, but after that, it becomes more of a choice. Not to say that one cannot fall out of love, or change their preference. It is all part of the web of experiences that we agreed to have when we came here…

What I am saying is that, yes, we are inspired to love. But there is also a choice to allow yourself to be inspired. Once you have harnessed great love and you know it, it is possible to come to the realization that love is a state of being and that you can remain in that state of being without the inspiration. You can simply choose love. To be in love, in general. To feel love. The emotion is separate from the object. You can harness this state of being. I’m not talking love potion number 9, where you completely lose all of your senses. I don’t think it is even humanly possible or necessary to concretely remain in a state of love. That would mean stagnation. Oscillating is necessary for growth. So, you will not be in love, all of the time, so do not try to make yourself be that. But, you can be generally loving. You can choose to harness that state of being of love over nothing at all. For no reason. You do not need an object or a person to love. You can simply be love.

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Love is a state of being…

There is no lover in my bed, and I am still in love. There does not have to be romance to make me feel in love. I do not need a person to inspire me to that state of being. Whoever comes along into this loving space, though, is sure going to benefit, because I am already there! The love is flowing! It is easy! It is natural! I do, allow myself to be inspired to love, through others, but it does not stop there. Sometimes, it just comes over me out of nowhere. For no reason. For no object, for no person, it is simply my state of being. Do not worry about not doing it right, love is fleeting. It will always come and go. The idea is that you choose to allow yourself freedom to go with your opportunities to be inspired to love. Don’t hold back. Don’t think it is unnecessary or childish to simply be in love. Love is one of the highest vibrations that you can be in. It is like appreciation. They are the same.

Also, when you do not need the lover in order to be in love, then you will not smother them when they come, and you will not push them away with your fears, either… There is a difference between love and an energy that gives off a needy cry. A big difference. Achieve love that is for love and not for need. That is how you attract what you truly want.

The problem is that so many of you do not let yourselves go there as much as you could. You smother your loving inspirations because you are thinking too much from this 3rd dimensional perspective. Fuck that perspective. That perspective that says that love is weak, and that it doesn’t think clearly. If you are reading this, you should know better. That those 3rd dimensional perspectives on love are based in the ego, rooted in fear, and that is not serving us at all. We have evolved beyond that old paradigm. We are not cavemen anymore. Not only is it ok to love for no reason, but how else are you going to attract more love into your life? Taking on a loving state of being at every opportunity is the best thing you can do to attract like energies, people and circumstances to yourself, not to mention raising the collective vibration of the planet.

“Be the change you wish to see in the world.”

-Mahatma Gandhi

Enjoy all the beauty that there is to see…

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Allow yourself to be inspired. The more that you practice the vibration of love, the more easily it will come over you and it does not matter what inspired you to it. You are just practicing being in that energetic standpoint, where you can see the beauty in everything. That is really what it is. Love makes everything beautiful. Love is the kind of thing that you just have to go with. If you are inspired to it, go! Do not ignore it or smother it or try to guard yourself against it. Love is always leading you in a good place and just because you are going in a direction, it does not mean that you will stay there, but you must enjoy the ride to see what it’s all about and to obtain the lesson that is being offered to you. If you hold back love, not only do you not get to experience it in that moment, but it botches up the entire formula. It keeps you from receiving love. When you take an action based in love, you attract more of that. When you take an action based in fear, you attract more of that. Let that be your formula. If something leaves your experience when you are loving it, it is for a reason. With a soulmate, if they leave you when you have acted in love, they were simply not attracting that. If they respond negatively or bleed negativity onto the good heart that you have presented with, it is simply because they do not deserve you! They are not in alignment with the love that you are offering! It is much better to be with someone who is. That is really the only way to be truly happy in a love relationship. When both partners value themselves enough to receive love. When both partners are courageous enough to drop down their walls and give love. When both partners are brave enough to allow themselves to see the beauty in each other.

Love is a state of being. Choose it. You will never be perfect. Love will always be fleeting in the moment, but choose to embrace it more and more when it does come. Choose to invite the experience of being in love. In general, just feeling love and knowing love whenever the opportunity makes itself known to you. I am so in love. With what I am doing. With what I feel from the Universe. With everything and with nothing, I am simply in a space of love. Come try it<3.

With all my love.

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