Process To Attract An Awesome Lover; Instructions Included:)

Process To Attract An Awesome Lover; Instructions Included:)

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I know that I am Channeling in Unison with the Universe because I simply follow the urge to type, even when I haven’t the slightest clue what I will be typing. I just demonstrate my faith in the Universe and let it give me each word as it comes. When I begin to type, I don’t need to know how each sentence will end. I don’t need to know anything besides the current word I am typing. All I need is one word at a time, and it all comes together in the end.

This is a Unified Universe and I’m just a part of that. My channeling is simply a metaphor for the Unity of all that is.

Trust and Believe

Good shit is real;)

*Note- This can Process can be applied to an existing Lover or a New Lover.

There are so many things that your attention could be drawn to. So many things worth considering. So many things worth getting to know. But at the end of the day, what is most important? And, furthermore, are the important things the things that you are focused upon?

You see, it does not matter what you know, if you pay no attention to those things that you know will help you. Knowledge and wisdom are not one in the same. Knowledge is to know, to be aware of a thing. But application of what you know is the mark of wisdom. Don’t get it twisted;)

We know that most of you are quite intelligent, because you are the ones who seek information and keep your minds open because you are so willing to learn new things. This is invaluable to your evolution and will help you tremendously.

Learning is the ONLY chance you have if you are hoping to improve in any area of your life.

Relationships are no different. What are you focused upon? The Universe will share with you an incredibly simple tool that you can use to improve any relationship that you have or desire to have. But the use of this process does not have to stop there, you can use this for anything. Here is the key to attracting the most awesome lover to you.

It isn’t about finding the perfect lover. There is no such thing. It’s not even about being the perfect lover. Those words are not an all encompassing translation.

It’s about eliciting what you want from the Universe and from the person you are with.

Every ingredient that you could possibly want is already there. It becomes visible to you when you bring it into focus. You must focus correctly in order to bring it into your view.

You have options. Anything you can focus upon is an option you are choosing. So, out of all of the options available to you, what are you choosing?

There is an element of control involved with this process. Focus, even if it feels good and is positive takes deliberate intention, which is effort. But, if you think that the negativity you are experiencing is greater than the small effort it takes to gear shift your energy into the direction which will attract what you want unto you, then it should not be a problem.


Have you got something better to do than to attract what you want unto you? Didn’t think so;)

None of this is new, but you need reminding. You need it to be said in different ways. You never know when the optimal configuration of words will hit you in such a way that brings clarity. Enough clarity to inspire your application from knowledge into wisdom which you apply in your life and reap the rewards.

You can only reap the rewards when you are applying these concepts correctly. It is worth the effort it takes to understand and it is worth the effort it takes to apply. 

You all want to know what this life is about. Here is what it is…

It’s about getting it right. And by that, we do not mean that you are to reach some sort of epitome of goodness. You are already as good and worthy as you will ever be. What it means to get it right is to identify your desire and APPLY THE LAWS OF THE UNIVERSE IN THIS DIMENSION UNTIL YOU RECEIVE WHAT YOU DESIRE. 

This requires trial, error and feeling out the energy involved. There is always energy involved. Become aware of it. This will help you tremendously. Pay Attention! Possibly the two most helpful words you could ever know. You cannot “Get it right” if you do not even realize what you did to get what you got in the first place. Trial and error only works if you are learning along the way.

The ultimate result of “ Getting it right” is JOY. That is it. The reason for existence. Everything in the Universe gravitates towards joy at all times and this is what perpetuates existence. Nothing could exist without first the desire to exist. Once you exist, you must follow your joy in order to continue existing. If you do not follow your joy, you will surely die. You must eat, you must breathe, you must follow your joy in order to live. To live is a verb and also a cliche. All of you know that the word “life” is equated with the word “joy”, As evidenced by the phrase “live your life”. What you must know is the joy exists on an ongoing crescendo. You can take it as high or as low as you are wanting to go. Even if you have shitty quality of life, you still desire to live, or else, you would not be here. So, simply to breathe contains an element of Joy. Learn to take it to another level by attracting your preferences to you. Existence is a preference. To live is a preference and living a preference = Joy


It is my joy to write, and so, I do. It is my joy to live, and so I do. This concept extends into every crevice of existence. Relationships included. Here is a step by step process to make it easy for you to get into a vibration which makes you compatible with a desirable mate.

  1. Identify what you want. Make lists of desirable traits and try to encompass all that you can. (The post prior to this one provides a good list of traits to get you started). Do realize that what you desire can come in a form that you do not immediately recognize. This is part of trusting the universe. Follow your joy at all times.
  2. You must Believe that what you desire exists
  3. You must Believe that the Universe can easily deliver what you want. After all, the Earth does unfailingly spin on its Axis. The Sun and the planets all orbit in perfect proximity to one another, and the best part is that you think that the Universe cannot deliver your desire? You are an Eternal being, part of this infinitely perfect web of creation. Do not give into the small minded rubbish, that the Universe is limited. Believe.
  4. EnJOY your fucking life! Here’s the story, you attract what you feel and what you are. If you are sad, if you are lonely and if you feel that something is missing, that is what you will get.

How To EnJOY Life:


  • Use your power and ability of focus to keep you appreciative of all the good that surrounds you
  • There will always be things to dislike as well as things to appreciate, the difference is in where you are choosing to look.
  • Practice seeing only the things that you enjoy. Don’t throw the baby out with the bath water.
  • Let go of judgement. You can use discernment, but try leaning towards being more carefree and do not linger on negative ideas.
  • Choose to assign positive meaning to things, instead of assigning negative meaning.
  • If something doesn’t feel good, go away from it.
  • If something feels good, follow it.
  • That which you feel drawn to is for a reason.
  • Focus on things you can do to bring more fun into your life. Allow yourself to do them.
  • Life is a game. Play.
  • Just Focus Positively. That pretty much sums it up.


Having a difficult time staying focused?

Here is something easy you can do:

Create intentions. One key intention or a few. Recite and focus on your intention at the start of each day and as often as you can remember to do so. Here are a few sample intentions:

  • May my focus always carry me into fun, no matter what I am doing.
  • May I always focus on the beauty that surrounds me.
  • Positivity follows me everywhere I go
  • I am carefree and receptive to good vibes
  • I can make anything work in my favor. I am creative, clever and fun.
  • Every moment is full of fun
  • I like this game
  • The Universe conspires in my favor and there is good to be had

Surround yourself with information that supports your intentions. Don’t watch the news, don’t watch frightening movies, and avoid situations that you know lead to negative feelings. If you must do something you dislike, find good things about it and pave the way for positive thinking before you arrive. For instance, if you don’t want to go to work, do something different. Go to Starbucks, change your makeup or hairstyle. Make it fun, throw paper balls… listen to music… Do something that offers you some sense of relief and focus on that. Whatever you are doing, you can put a positive spin on it.Anime-ishcupcakegirl2 Now that you are aware of all the pointers in the process and you are enjoying your life… just keep doing that. here is where many of you get tripped up; You treat the process like it is a means to an end, when in reality, the point is to EnJOY yourself NOW. If you make this a means to an end, you are still exhibiting an energy that tells the Universe that something is missing from your life and therefore, what you want cannot manifest itself into your reality. Find joy in your now. Yes, things will come, but do not depend on that and especially do not get upset if they do not. You are a creator, you are in charge, you must do the work. Here is a funny thing that you will learn:  Your Lover is not necessarily far away from you in proximity. In fact, your lover could be right in front of your face and if you are in the wrong vibration, you will never perceive that.It doesn’t matter where your lover is. Your lover could be on the other side of the world and if you are doing it right, they will appear. Just like that.  Your Lover is probably already there, very close. in fact, the very moment that you line up (vibrationally) with it, it will appear.

Many of you have tendency to feel that “I’m not doing it right. I’m no good at this. This isn’t working”

Stop doing that. LOL

(I, the channel, can identify the blocks in your vibration and provide you with instruction on how to change them to attract what you want. You will find my information at the bottom)

***You will slow the process of you are dependent upon an outcome.***

Be creative and learn how to have fun from exactly where you are sitting. It is not the outside world that must change in order for your desire to be revealed. It is you who must change so that you can see your desire is already fulfilled. Even if it is in front of your face, you will not see a positive thing until you have shifted your FOCUS in order to perceive it. What you want is already there. It is you who must change to line up with it.


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-The Universe…and… Your favorite Channel!!<3<3

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Re-Prioritizing What You Need In A Soulmate…

Re-Prioritizing What You Need In A Soulmate…

Channeled Via Unity Consciousness

Is this about me being happy, or what??

“This post led me directly into Union by way of assisting me to the ‘recognition’ that everything I wanted in a man was actually standing right before me. If you can check off all these 9 characteristics, you’ve got one heck of a match!!”



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Fireworks, overwhelming magnetic attraction, chemistry that keeps you feening for more, romance, passionate roller coaster rides, undying infatuation and obsession over an ideal that doesn’t exist, but just won’t quit.

It’s like the ultimate ride. Good, bad and everything in between, being inspired to deeper levels of love than you thought was humanly possible.. well, it just makes it hard to let go. It’s true, Intense connections are something we in inately long for, but they are truly hard to come by. Deep inside, we are all passionate creatures and we naturally want to be inspired to experience the greatest depths of love, beauty and connection… So, when we do experience it, we tend to hold onto it…

We are emotional creatures. Creative creatures, we are made from the fabric of love and we are drawn to the dreamy. The heart wants what the heart wants and when it calls, it is more than difficult to ignore. How can you ignore a feeling? How can you tune out the calling of your soul? The very tugging of your own heart, which knows no way to lie. There’s no way to ignore That which comes through you. In your body, in your mind, in your heart center. You can change a thought, ignore what’s infront of you, but you cannot ignore that which comes through you, the deepest cries of your soul…

Love and passion is more than an ideal thought, it’s a state of being. It’s the truth of who you are. It’s undeniable. It takes over. And under the right circumstances, it haunts you.

We fall so easily into the trap of wonderlands. We can be so intensely attracted to someone, that we overlook the most basic necessities.


It’s like, we are so enraptured with our emotions, we don’t even see the blatant negativities that make us incompatible. We hold onto hopes and dreams so dearly, that we don’t even see the most obvious factors staring us in the face. Factors like, He’s just not into you. Factors like, there is no relationship here. Factors like, there’s no reciprocation, and it’s just not mutual. Excuses, excuses. The hardest part to overcome is knowing that someone loves you, regardless of their action, or that they could, if only…

As eccentric and spiritual as I am, as much love, hope and belief as I have within myself… At some point, we need to have balance.

We are in a human world.


And we’ve got decisions to make…

At some point, you have to stop pushing against that. Pushing against what the Universe is trying to show you. Pushing against the facts that are presenting themselves, in your face. Things can transpire, but holding on for dear life is never part of the formula, it’s a demonstration that you aren’t trusting the universe. When something is meant for you, it comes easily! You don’t have to hold onto it for dear life and hope it does not slip away! The Universe does not make you beg for what is rightfully yours! So, if something is just not sticking to you, if it’s just too difficult to maintain, that is the Universe’s way of telling you that, that thing does not belong in your field. We are meant to have everything that we want, but you have to let it come to you. If you do not believe in the Universe’s ability to deliver, you will never experience the truth of it.

love can be a sickening, twisted adventure, to say the least. We make all these assumptions about what we need, but here is what happened to me…

I came to an even deeper appreciation for love through the realization that mutually shared love is truly hard to come by. As a result, I decided to implement some logic. Logic for the sake of opening more doors through which the Universe Would have more opportunities to deliver.

I decided to focus on what’s really important. I decided reprioritization was in order.

I had so many things on my list of things that I wanted in a man, that NOBODY was making it through my filtration system. So, I made a decision. Either, sit around with my nose in the air and wait forever, for the perfect guy. Or, open doors for the Universe To deliver more opportunities and experiences and see what happens. I decided to demonstrate my trust in the Universe.

I started asking myself  “What is most important?”

what’s most important?

Chemistry. Chemistry was my first answer, which leads to…

…Love.  Which conquers all.

Trust, trust is a must.

What else?…


Above all, a relationship needs to happen mutually, or there can be NO relationship. Reciprocation requires 2 people, both people involved. One person only equals half the formula and if there is only one of you participating, you’ve got zero. The reason I am bringing this up is because we WANT our relationships to be mutual. We WANT a relationship where both sides reciprocate their interest in the relationship. If you haven’t got that, then whatever it is that you are looking at is missing a non-negotiable requirement, and therefore, that means that not only do you deserve better, but you can attain it. Do not epitomize something that is not what you deserve. Do not disrespect yourself and the Universe in that way. You DO deserve better than to be treated like you are an option. You DO deserve better than to be taken for granted, unappreciated and turned down. Anyone who is treating you that way is not what you actually want. We want to be desired, cared for, honored, valued and loved. There is no such thing as the “perfect” one for you, who is not treating you as such. Anything less is simply not good enough. Love all you want. Love unconditionally. But realize this, what you deserve… A mutually beneficial and loving connection.

Connection, that’s super important.

You can’t have love without the right connection to facilitate romance. That’s why Connection came first on my list. I have loved many people that I just didn’t have the right connection with, and I couldn’t keep them in my life, romantically.

Those things are what matters and those things are what’s hard to come by. We need to prioritize What we are looking for and let everything else come into place. Because, if you have the most important factors in line, the rest of it isn’t going to break the deal.

my previous list of automatic disqualifications was so specific, it was like smacking the Universe In the face. Like when your parents know what’s good for you, but you think you “Know it all”. I’d rather be in love and happy with someone I never thought I’d end up with, than a lonely, stuck up know it all.

Who cares if the guy is 6’0, 6’4 or 5’8? When you’re in love, that makes no difference.

So what if he makes enough money to buy you a Tiffany diamond and a bad ass wedding? No amount of money can bring joy to a soul that is bound to a loveless, uninspiring union.

And, If he’s a super fun guy, and you enjoy your time together, but you can’t trust him and he doesn’t trust you, it just isn’t going to work.

So what if he wasn’t what you originally thought you were looking for? Love isn’t derived from a checklist and when there is mutual chemistry and love, the checklist can go fuck itself. Lol


Let’s talk about what’s really important. let’s talk about the factors that are actually necessary for the union that you want.

For me, this next part goes without saying, but I’m mentioning it because I’ve noticed that for many of you, it doesn’t, because you remain in love regardless.

Everything has to be mutual in order to work, period. Both parties must be interested, involved and willing to demonstrate. There must be even exchange of energy between you.

So, keep that in mind…

Everyone recommends making a “list”. But, what should go on the list?  Mine used to be pages long. Since the completion of my latest transition, I’ve come up with a much shorter list of key characteristics that I think, not only are necessary for me to have in a healthy relationship, but I think these characteristics are comprehensive,  on point, ideal qualities that are general enough to be of importance in any romantic relationship.










Those apply to everyone and I’ll elaborate why. The following are a few that I tailored to my specific needs:




Chemistry- You need to jive. You need to be attracted to one another. You need to have a connection,,enjoy eachother and want to be Together. Chemistry must be mutual. If the demonstration is not mutual, something is missing and the relationship won’t work.


Compassion- You gotta be with someone who cares enough to at least try to be understanding. We ALL need that sometimes. It’s a part of being able to love another person and demonstrate that. Compassion fosters kindness and many other attributes we need and desire in a mate.

Credibility- Credibility is like trust, but it’s more than that. You can trust someone who doesn’t have credibility. You want to trust them, but in the back of your mind, you are still doubting. You’re choosing to trust them, but you’re thinking it could be a mistake. That’s not credibility. Credibility is when someone has done what it takes to prove that they are trustworthy, forthright and honorable.

Courage- Courage is a door opener. Nothing happens without a bit of courage. It takes courage to make a move, it takes courage to be vulnerable, it takes courage to give someone a chance, it takes courage to work together to overcome issues and it takes courage to love.

Consistency- Consistency is very key, for a few reasons. First of all, if someone is inconsistent, you’re not seeing who they truly are. They are conflicted in some way. And you can’t commit to a person who hasn’t even come into themselves yet. You just don’t have any way of knowing what you’re getting into!

Commitment- At some point, commitment comes into play. Any idea requires commitment before you can see it transpire. I think it’s related to courage. Indecisiveness can be annoying, when you’re ordering dinner, but in a relationship, it’s completely detrimental. Commitment isn’t about marriage. People get married all the time, and you find that they aren’t actually committed to it. Commitment is a state of being and it changes everything, because when you’re committed, you make the healthiest choices available for that thing you are committed to. When you’re not committed, your decisions will reflect that and it’s not at all conducive to maintaining a healthy dynamic.

Compromise- Every human is different. No matter how similar you are, or how well you harmonize, compromise will undoubtedly come into play at some point. If you are both willing to compromise for the sake of harmony, you will overcome problems before they even become problems.

Conscientiousness- This goes further than compassion. Compassion is being able to feel for another person. This could happen intentionally or unintentionally. Conscientiousness is intentional. You are being mindful of the other person’s needs and thoughts on purpose, because you care and you want them to know it. You are anticipating their needs, before they’ve even thought of it or said anything. You are consciously paying attention to them, looking out for them and caring for them. It’s not only caring, but proving that you do, with your actions. This is very important in building and maintaining credibility and a loving bond.  We pay attention to the things that we love and for those things that we love, we are also willing to act in their best interest, without being told or reminded.

Demonstration- You could have all the care in the world, all the love in the world, but if you cannot follow through with demonstrating that, it doesn’t matter. Nothing translates if you do not demonstrate. Everything must be demonstrated in order to make any bit of difference. You use all kinds of means for this. Words and actions come in multiple forms. There are no excuses in the world good enough to excuse lack of demonstration. Sorry.


You could have all the ideas in the world, but it’s all for nothing if you cannot demonstrate.

I have put this list together and explained it for you all, because intention is a good foundation for attracting what you desire. Focus on these qualities that you want in another, know that the Universe can deliver and use them as your guide so that you don’t settle for less. Sometimes, we know something is off, but without a sensical articulation, we let things slide. This list will let you know exactly what’s there or what’s missing. Add to it to suit your individual needs and preferences as I did, but remember that the point here, is to focus on what’s really important in order to open doors for the Universe to bring it to you. The Universe does deliver pleasant surprises, and that can’t happen if you think you’re ahead of infinity, with every single detail laid out! Demonstrate your trust in the Universe and the Universe will deliver.

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