There are so many things that could be considered in matters of love. But what is important are those things that matter the most. What matters the most? We let complicated situations get in the way of love. Circumstances, events and people. None of those things are as important as love, yet we let them get in the way. Why is that? Things are always going to happen. We all know that the road to love isn’t perfect. It’s difficult. There are always imperfections. The question is, what are you focusing on? Where are you placing importance? In the person or in other factors? We seem to go about this all wrong. Submitting to obligations and socially accepted ideas. What do those things have to do with love? This is about who you are going to spend the rest of your life with. This is about you. This isn’t about anyone else. This isn’t even about what is right and what is wrong. This is about not taking love, connection or time for granted. Some things in this world are just hard to come by and should be cherished for the rarities that they are. Love and connection are definitely on that list of things. So, why do we let other things get in the way? Why do we look at the bad and not see what’s underneath it? Why do we hold grudges? Why do we let the opinions of others determine what we do? Why are we doubting love more than anything else?
If you don’t sit yourself down and recognize what is important, you’re going to have misplaced focus and you’re going to miss out on the good things that come your way.
We have to be forgiving. It doesn’t mean to be a doormat. It doesn’t mean to be stupid. It means that you are understanding of the human condition an it means that you love yourself enough to allow yourself to love others. It doesn’t even mean tolerating bad behavior, it means putting more credence in intention than in the mistakes of the past. There are some people who will never change, no matter how many mistakes they make, but there are some people who are very willing to change and we cannot allow their past versions of themselves outweigh the version that they have become because of it. You have to look at what is in front of you, not at what has happened before. For, what exists now has never been before and people have the ability to learn from everything that they do.
This is why it is so important not to hold a grudge. Because if you hold a grudge for something that existed in the past, you are the one who could be missing out because of it. Because of your own inability to move on. There is no logic behind staying in the past. Only if you’re a skeptic, and let me tell you something, being a skeptic is a hard cross to bear. Just like you cannot judge another based only on their past experiences, you also cannot judge everyone based on your past experiences.
At some point, you have to open your heart in order to let good things flow in. That’s just the way it is. If you live as a skeptic, you will never be able to do that and the good things that come your way will be sabotaged by your skepticism in one way or another.
Look at the things that matter. Look at the things that are irreplaceable. Ask your intuition. Make sure that your choices are coming from you and not from the opinions of others or of your fear of being judged. When another person passes judgement on you and showers you with their opinion, tell me, what makes their thinking more important than yours? So, because someone has an opinion, suddenly you are going to wave your white flag and let them decide for you? You were given your own body, your own consciousness and your own discernment for very good reason and that reason is so that YOU could direct yourself. Not so that you could follow someone else’s direction and not so that you could direct someone else. Collaboration and exchange of ideas will always be important, but at the end of the day, your heart is the most important thing and the direction that you choose to take should be in agreement with what your heart tells you. Be sure to do that and you will never know regret.
The next time someone tells you right from wrong and what doctrines or dogmas you should follow, remember that you are equal and your heart will carry the burden if you do not follow your intuition. Don’t let anyone decide for you. Don’t let someone else’s rules be your compass. Do not allow yourself to flounder in fear of judgement.
No great man has ever trusted the opinion of another over the knowing of his own heart.
Courage is admirable, cowardice is not. Follow your heart.
This is how you make love happen. Have your priorities in line and give credit where it is due. I have attracted and united with my ideal soulmate and it would not have been possible if I did not do this. I used and applied the very same teachings that I have given you, to make this union of ideal soul mates occur. I want to help you to do the very same thing. I gave credit where it is due, I compromised my old beliefs and practiced new systems that led me to the union. You have to be able to recognize when old ways of doing things and old systems of beliefs get you nowhere, in order to get into vibrational alignment with something completely new. That is what we are all trying to do. To attract a new situation in a way that has never been done before. Are you ready to be open minded? Are you ready to see the good in people? Are you ready to live open-heartedly, with no expectations? All of these things are necessary in order to unite with your ideal soulmate. Following your heart is the most important thing of all. Let your heart and your joy guide you and choose your priorities accordingly. It may not appear to work out at first, and it won’t, until the Universe brings you the right person to do this practice with. Then you will see an unfolding like never before. Never give up on this concept. Keep practicing it so that when the Universe brings you the right one, you will have your priorities in line and the Union can transpire. The Universe knows how to bring you your ideal soulmate, but the Universe also knows that you will not be able to unite with your ideal soulmate with the old ways of thinking.
The Union with your ideal soulmate is so incredible and amazing but it is an experience that requires you to function from a space of being transparent and completely open hearted. The Union will be perfect, but you have to show the Universe that you are ready by practicing the vibrations that you will need to have in order for the ideal union to occur. So throw out old beliefs that say he has to be this or he has to be that. She has to meet this criteria or that criteria. The only criteria that matters is that you are happy holding their hand and looking into their eyes at the end of the day. That you have a mutual connection like never before. That is what matters and that can come in many forms. Most likely a form you are not expecting. So be open and allow the Universe to do its work without your interference. Do not let yourself be swayed by the opinions of others. You must be in a space where you can follow your heart and do what is good for the union, not what is in accordance with other peoples ideals, but what is in accordance with your ideal union. Priorities. Love comes first and foremost. Follow that and everything else will align.
With Great Love
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