Survival Guide for Being A Misunderstood Empath In Matters of Love

Survival Guide for Being A Misunderstood Empath In Matters of Love

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Everything is a Channeled via Unity Consciousness. This is a Unified Universe.

All Twin Flames are Advanced Empaths, given the option to embrace it or not. When two people come together and they are at differing standpoints in their willingness to embrace their heart centered Empathic traits, there can be quite a rift.

The part of the Twin Flame Union that makes it worth thinking about are the desirable parts. The ideal parts. The magnetism, the love, the harmony. So, this is why I use verbs when referring to it. Twin Flame can mean different things to different people, as can anything else. I am only touching on the desirable parts. Think only of what you want in order to attract it…

I Love you with a Love that simply knows Love. A Love that doesn’t need, but knows. A Love that simply allows itself to be. A Love that doesn’t say “Yes”, or “No”. A Love that doesn’t push or pull. My Love never ceases to be. My love doesn’t know difficulty or obligation. I Love you with a Love that knows no sorrow, but is grateful. A Love that looks into your eyes and is delighted in you. A Love that looks into you with great attention and is overjoyed with the Love in your being. Because I Love you, I feel you so intensely, and I Love it. My Love is peaceful. My Love is easy, and I thank every star for you. I have never known such beauty. I never knew Love could be this easy. So good, that no-one believes it to be. But, you make me a believer. because of you, I know, that dreams are for real and come true.

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The first step is being a believer…

Being an Advanced Empath is a huge blessing. Everyone has this ability but few are aware and even fewer know how to use it to their advantage. As an empath, we sense truth. Because we feel energy and energy doesn’t lie. Therefore, it can be very unsettling when an empathic personality detects an energy that a person refuses to take ownership of, or admit to. For instance, when people deny their true feelings. It happens all of the time, for different reasons. Whether for deceptive purposes, protective purposes or because the ego is shielding the knowledge of the truth. An empath will feel very uneasy when his is occurring.

“When I met the person that I am now in Harmonious/Ideal Union with (Yes, our Union is still Harmonious and more so every day!), neither of us had knowledge of what it would become. I am an excellent perceiver and I had no idea. Now, I know that the Universe kept this knowledge from me on purpose because, I had some habitual tendencies and beliefs around dating that would have made the Union impossible if I had known. Because the Universe only gave me what I needed, and not the whole picture, it all unfolded absolutely perfectly. I did the same thing that I always do, I followed my guidance all the way, and I pointed out to him blocks that I saw. He did not seem to change instantaneously, but I didn’t give it much thought or resistance and turns out, he did change. Without this process that occurred before our Union, he would not have undergone those changes that were blocking our union in the time that he did. Had I known fully, the reason I was working to unblock his energy, at the very least, I would have been anxious and presented resistance to the Union. So, you see, nothing is ever wrong. It is always perfect, even if it doesn’t seem to be. Trust that it is. Trust that Harmonious Union Exists and that the Universe can bring it to you.”

-Elise

This happens quite often in romantic soulmate relationships. One of the lovers will give into the illusion of fear and desire to pull away from the other. It becomes a head over heart matter, where the decisions is void of heart and decided upon mentally. The empath which is more closely in tune with their guidance and emotions will feel the confusion in this and be torn, because what they are feeling from the other, does not match up with the action. The words and explanations do not align with what you know of this person’s heart.

 

What’s an Empath to do?

This is the part which represents that love is also freedom. There is no force. Just because you know where a person’s heart truly lies, that does not mean that you must coheres them to admit it. It is quite often that a person will not be ready to come to terms with the distance between their own heart and their own mind. People are not always ready to admit that their heart and mind are in battle. They, themselves are confused and cannot offer you clarity simply because that is what you desire. Your role is to be understanding of this and in all situations, use your empathic ability to guide you to knowing when a person is ready to receive your input and when they are not. As an Advanced Empath, if you are still enough to collaborate with your guidance on what is the best thing to say, your guidance will tell you what is a good idea to say and what is not. The difference is subtle, so, if you only pay some deliberate attention to the matter when you are getting ready to speak, you will receive answers. It can be difficult, but the difficulty comes from loving the person and respecting their needs more than your own agenda! Putting aside our own agenda is the most difficult part of the equation, but that is love and this is what an Advanced Empath does.  You will not be able to act based on what they need if your top focus is what you think you need, but what would help you to realize is that if you are not acting based on what your guidance is saying, your efforts will be in vain, anyways. As an Advanced Empath, The Universe asks you to pays attention to others and responds accordingly. Otherwise, you are not utilizing your Empathic resources to the best of your ability. To be empathic means to feel what others are feeling, but what good is this if you pay no attention and fail to act in accordance with what you pick up on? It is not up to you to force learning. You cannot do this, even if you try. In fact, the more that you push the matter, the more that the other person is likely to push your agenda away. Quite often, then best way to go about it is to express what you are feeling and if they disagree, let them. Your guidance will give you the specifics in each situation that you are seeking guidance on. Trust, listen, and it will come in the moment.

Instead of flowing based on the need to have your agenda fulfilled and then feeling rejected or misunderstood in the end, the whole gyration of that could be avoided if you simply live by this and follow your guidance first.

You will not be put in this position of being so misunderstood if you are first, making this genuine effort to understand the energies coming through, that you are perceiving. You will instead, know what to do and what is likely to come of it. Clear your mind and pay attention to guidance.

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In the end, paying good attention to your guidance is always what will get you ahead. The Universe cannot give you the entire picture, otherwise, you would have it already. But, there is an entire picture and your guidance leads you with the knowledge of the entire picture. You are to come into greater and greater awareness of your guidance so that you may learn to utilize it more and more. That is how this works. The Universe will not give you something for no reason. Therefore, the Universe will not give you awareness or knowledge that you have not demonstrated that you will use. You must demonstrate incrementally, your ability to utilize your guidance system, in order to gain greater and greater access to it. Your Guidance system is the same as your Empathic Ability. It comes through the same way. “Guidance” becomes “Ability” when you ascertain higher levels keen awareness.

Because a Harmonious/Ideal Union is perfect, by definition, it is only possible once you reach a certain level of awareness and utilization of your guidance. The desired effect is individually chosen. Ego is also a factor that must diminish quite a bit. At least, to a level that you are able to listen to your guidance, in lieu of proving a point. There are just certain things that must already be in place in order for a Harmonious Union to occur. Not to be making anything “less” or “more” but gradients must be used for the sake of explanation in this realm. But remember, that you actually are the one who has chosen the level of mastery that you want to become. There are a great many variations of energies that a being can have. Some personalities are meant to be strong, it is good, and just because you have not come into your union yet, does not make you less or more. It is your journey. Great souls will choose to have a lot of “Straightening out” before they enter into union. It is those strong traits like stubbornness, courage, love and authenticity that require fine tuning to be their best representation. So, do not ever see something as wrong with you. As soon as you begin having fun, you speed the way.

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3 thoughts on “Survival Guide for Being A Misunderstood Empath In Matters of Love

  1. Great read! I see that it was my clever guidance who gave me the right sets of words to say to my twin (whatever that means) the other day by putting my own agenda away and adjusting what to say and how to say it depending on the energy I felt. Even in a conversation the energy fluctuated. I feel that over the last 2 weeks I’ve done the groundwork for my words to reach his heart. I feel his blocks to become authentic. He helped me to become authentic and I know I’m going to help him this time, step by step, as he can take only a little at a time. Our relationship has become so much harmonious but I know there’s more to come. I’m benchmarking you and Dan 🙂 THIS IS FUN!

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  2. This dropped into my FB page just as I was mentally wondering… lovely descriptions and explanations… He is an Empath, too, incredibly sensitive, but would never use such “airy-fairy” words to describe himself that way. We are feeling our way along…thanks for the insights.

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  3. very well written..thank you and i’m glad i stumbled upon this site. it was obviously time. well i still love my twin and would love to be with him, but…i am opening my mind up to the possibility that he is not the only person in this world i could be happy with (no way??! ;-))
    i think your ‘letdown’ (a happy end with the twin is not the purpose of meeting them, most probably) is very gentle and gives a new perspective to the whole story, and a loving one for that matter…unlike e.g. an anti-twin flame group i have encountered where members draw their new-found ‘power’ and confidence from being hateful, resentful and bitter towards their twin by blaming them for past and present suffering, not realizing the law of attraction…so thanks again for this new outlook! 🙂

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