What it’s like To Be in an Ideal Soulmate Union and Why the Twin Flame isn’t Exactly What You Thought it Was…

What it’s like To Be in an Ideal Soulmate Union and Why the Twin Flame isn’t Exactly What You Thought it Was…

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The Universe cannot give you information that you are not ready to receive. That’s the only reason you wouldn’t receive it. So, you have to make a decision. Do you want to know the truth, or do you want to stay in

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You see, we can’t know everything at once. That means we have to keep learning. Maybe the truth doesn’t change, but our understanding of it does. We can get closer and closer to understanding the truth as we evolve.

No-one is wrong.

Its just that we are always striving to reach a translation which is the closest to the truth that we can comprehend from where we currently are.

We have to start somewhere, and over time and with evolution, we become ready to understand more.

Are you ready?

 The Twin Flame is not so different from the traditional translation, but there is much more to it than the traditional Twin Flame template of understanding. 

If one soul splits off into two, are they still the same soul?

Yes and No.

They are of the same origination, but they are now two unique streams of consciousness, independent from each other. Their very own experiences, translations,  perceptions and possibilities.

“This new post turned out to be SO MUCH MORE than I ever thought it would be. It wasn’t my idea. I learn as I channel and the Universe puts pieces together that I’ve been collecting and forms them into a complete thought, like a mosaic.”

-Elise

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Come and join me on this new adventure as we accelerate our ascension. Our beliefs are hard to let go of. The truth hurts. Because lies hide our pain. They do. But I’m here for you. Decide if you want to confront your pains and obliterate them forever. There’s definitely a way. Source knows. That’s why I’m here, delivering to you, these loving messages. So, pick a side and stay tuned.

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Ever since this Union occurred, we could not be separated. We just couldn’t bear it and we found that we felt mutual about everything. It was the most ridiculously satisfying and dazzling experience to find that someone loves you exactly the same way that you love them. That you both want to spend every minute together. That you both can just make out forever, like teenagers in some kind ridiculous, infatuated puppy love trance. That you both just can’t leave the bed because you love pressing your bodies closely together and your very soul is telling you to just stay there, meshed in each other’s energy. Your body won’t even obey you. Separating takes quite a bit of preparation. Peeling yourselves away from each other, even just to stand up can seem like an impossible task when you’re in what I call heaven. A state of complete ecstasy and utter bliss, palpable throughout your entire being. Now, I know what it means to say “Love is in the air”. It’s a place, a vibration, a realm that you can reach. It’s crazy to discover that you both just want to stare into each other’s eyes. That you both are sharing in this state of heaven. Reaching higher, heavenly realms, simultaneously, together. I’ve invested a lot of time contemplating love and visualizing the best case scenario and yet, things happened in this Union that I had never experienced and did not even realize I was missing out on. I have spent months writing pages upon pages to gain momentum on thoughts of love and reach depths as great as I could, yet I never experienced this level of intimacy.

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I had never made love before, and I didn’t even know it. Discovering something through him, with him, well, it was more than special. More than amazing. A whole new world opened to me in those moments. A world that I had never even contemplated the existence of and it happened because it was special. It wasn’t special because it happened. Fate made it possible. From the beginning, I can see that now.

I thought I had done it all, but there was such great levels of intimacy that I had never even fathomed. I did come to realize that I could not hold eye contact with anyone during intimacy. I simply didn’t like to. I noticed that and I knew it was a result of a fear of intimacy. But, that was normal. “Normal” sex is enjoyable, but you aren’t having need to gaze deeply into the eyes of one another for that. You aren’t needing it to be tantric, sensual and to share a heavenly connection. Every minuscule amount of our consciousness was involved. He was the first person, not only that I noticed could look in the eye, but it evolved into enjoying gazing deeply into him and I would use it as a way to shower him in the reality of my love.  He could see me, seeing him, and in my gaze it is undeniable that I love him to his core, all reservations aside. No hesitation in me about it. It is the opposite. My gaze into him is thick with pure adoration. This was all new to me. And we were both awakened to enjoy it. The moments are cherished and savored. Awareness heightened and consciousness brought to a peak, not to miss a beat or a detail. To make even the slightest energy a full throttle experience. Every moment milked for all its beauty. Time stands still and means nothing. It does’t even exist. When we are in heaven, we are in 3D, but we are also somewhere else. In another realm. A realm that doesn’t exist in this dimension. You simply can’t get there without leaving the rest behind. Heaven, it is.

I never made love like that. It just happened, it was unexpected. I didn’t predict any of it. It wast something I had avoided. I thought I had made love before. I thought it was just integrated into the act, when you love someone. But I was in such awe, when we were in this experience and I even said to him, that I have never done this before. Awe and pleasant surprise is the best way I can describe it. It was such an all encompassing experience. I was like, wow, I have never done this before! Everything was so beyond perfect. I never knew that sex could be like this!  It made everything else seem so tiny, compared to the vast, blissful intensity of this. It was not even of this world. I describe it as conscious sex. Your body is so fully experiencing it. Every part of you is fully aware, reveling in happiness and closeness with your partner. But, the sex wasn’t it. It was just one way to experience. What really blew us away is what happened when we just lay down next to each other. We were making out like high school sweethearts. I have never enjoyed kissing so much! I had never even kissed like that. We didn’t want it to end.

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Before this, I remember kissing being decidedly short lived. Somewhere, in the moment, you’re in your head and you just want it to end. But here, with him, our hearts and bodies  fully entwined, yet never getting enough. We just kept on and we became enveloped in ecstasy. I mean, a physical, tangible, very real feeling throughout the entire body of intense bliss. Different from an orgasm or any feeling you get purely from sex or anything sexual. It was not short lived, either. It was literally like being in another dimension. One where you have to be in bliss to exist there. It was lasting, it was thick and intense and very, very real. We could not move from that spot and we surely didn’t want to. Every little touch felt like ripples of ecstasy throughout the whole body. Every caress yielding utter delight throughout. I felt all of my chakras glowing and charged in a warm, euphoric frenzy. My energy centers just lighting up, like no tomorrow. Like I had no body, not the one I knew. I felt all of the energy flowing through my entire body. It’s like somebody turned the endorphin gauge wayyy up and forgot to turn it back down. The bliss and ecstasy was just flowing abundantly and we were both feeling it. We were whispering softly in each other’s ears. Trying to figure out if we both felt it and confirming that we did. It was an out of this world experience.  I have been a serial monogamous, hopeless romantic my entire life and I have never known of any experience so celestial.

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Ever since then, we only leave each other to go to work. Before we were able to live together, we went to great lengths to see each other, daily. To greater lengths that would not even make sense for any other couple. But, we just wanted to be together and we felt better, even if our visit was short, or just enough time to sleep. That didn’t matter. We had to see each other  as often as possible. What would not have been feasible to a “Normal” relationship was necessity for us and still is. Only now, we live together. That just makes it easier. We followed our joy and doing that has brought us even more joy. We still savor every moment we have and romanticize about the time we get together. It is like a fairytale romance in 3D. We hurry home to see each other and we relish the days our work schedules allow us to sleep together.

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We are intimate very often, even if we aren’t planning on it, which is most of the time, we just end up getting swept up in it, even if we have very little time and we go for it. Because, we have decided to let love win. We really enjoy just laying next to each other and cuddling and gazing into each other. It’s one of our favorite things to do that we do several times a day, depending on if we are together, as opposed to at work. After being intimate, we always just lay together and gaze at each other afterward. Even if there is no sex, we love to lay and look at each other. It’s an activity for us, like watching a movie. We’re consciously dedicating loving energy towards each other. That’s always how we fall asleep. I even enjoy when there is only that and no sex, because there is still a knowing of mutual satisfaction in simply enjoying this dream come true that we have together.

Some things in life, you just want to ignore, but with him, I just want to take everything in. To be even more present. To dedicate to him even more of my complete awareness. It can never be enough. I always want to pay him more attention and enjoy him more…. I actually fear the day that we may have a child because I don’t want my attention taken from him. I love what we are able to share. The uninterrupted moments we have together. Being able to look into each other’s eyes and stay there, whispering sweet things for as long as we want to. I love the way his eyes smile when he tells me he loves me and my heart chakra gets a warm, fuzzy, glow. Telepathically confirming to me the energy in those words. Maybe I have been deprived my entire life. Maybe this Union isn’t so marvelous as I perceive it to be. Whatever the reason is that I cherish this Union so much, doesn’t matter. All I know is that our Union is lovely, full of harmony, laughter and desires fulfilled.. It’s a dream for us, and it’s real! Twin Flame, Twin Soul, Soulmate… Makes no difference to me. What we have is what we have, the experience is real and I don’t need to know why. It simply is. We simply are. For whatever reason, I we have been truly blessed with this gift of Perfect Union and we have both decided to keep the momentum going in this direction of love and harmony. The experience is what matters. Since the experience is here, we are making the very best of it.

Everything gets better with time, because we both want it to. We agree that what we have is special and worth preserving and making it as good as we can. We have no reservations, only love. We made a decision to go with our feelings and let love lead the way and we stick with it. Following our joy just leads us closer together and that is exactly how an Ideal Union occurs.

We are an Open Heart Union.

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I feel that sometimes, contrast is a very good way to demonstrate defining characteristics. So, I’m going to compare some opposite ends of the spectrum…

In most relationships, there is compromise. So much so, that people think it is a genuine necessity. Perhaps agreement is the necessity, and that comes much more easily with sameness. To be in Union is to be same. You are in agreement. When the combining occurs, the two things become one. They embrace and celebrate the sameness of their essences. This is what it is to “Meet your match”. This is why people are saying that they are sharing a soul with their “Twins”, because of the feeling of being so incredibly same. In a way that is unique to any other experience. In a way that has not been possible with any other. The resonance is tremendous! It is more than sharing the same interests, likes and dislikes, although, that is also the case. But, it’s more like, naturally being on the same page, all of the time. Naturally thinking the same thing on the same subjects and naturally being on the same frequency at times when there could easily be differences. Always having the same preferences and finding yourself rendezvousing in the vortex whenever you are together.

In my Union, it seems we are always thinking the same thing, or at least, agreeing on it. Even if one has a preference, the preference of the other may not be exact, but it also doesn’t conflict. As in, maybe we want to watch a movie. Maybe I know which specific movie I want to watch and he doesn’t, but his preference does’t conflict with mine.

To be same doesn’t mean you are a clone or an exact copy. You aren’t always doing the same things, having the exact same experiences, the same exact reactions to life and the same exact thoughts. That would be impossible. Each stream of consciousness is an individual. Only you look through your own set of eyes and only they look through theirs. Only your experience and your stream of consciousness is yours and only their experience and their stream of consciousness is theirs.

Because we each evolve, from unique perspectives, to be exactly the same as any other being is impossible, and creation designed it that way.

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To be same means you have found someone who is a very close vibrational match. A match that is remarkably similar and close to yours. Like two pizzas made from the same ingredients. They both came from the same source. Once there is a split from one into two, it is then two different things. Two streams of consciousness which endure two different experiences, lives, thoughts, desires and perspectives.  They are each a whole unit. But we long for that which is similar in vibration to us. This is natural.

The problem that I am witnessing with most relationships and with what the traditional Twin Flame community are identifying as Twin Flame relationships is that they are trying to attain Union with someone who is not actually same enough in vibration to come into union with. Not even same enough to come to agreement.  Not same enough to share the same desires and willingness to act upon them. Not same enough to be equally open hearted. Not same enough to agree to move forward without fear. Not realizing, all the while, that it can be so much easier when you simply meet your match! Someone who is similar in reality, not just in your head. What you see is what you get. If you want different things, it means the two of you are just that different.

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The perfect vibrational match or, the closest vibration match would have a natural, automatic resonance and harmony with you.  Being together would be the easiest thing in the world. Which means, they would not be running away from you. There would not be this huge, back and forth tumultuous calamity of a relationship that causes thrashing about and screaming and fighting and begging and running and pleading and chasing. Harmony, resonance and sameness are all related. If Twin Flames truly shared the same soul, or even very close to it, the whole Twin Flame concept would not look like the running and chasing dynamic that the traditional Twin Flame template depicts. It simply defies Universal Law to say that your match is not agreeing with you or sharing your desires to be together. It’s a complete and total oxymoron. Not a paradox. An oxymoron. It does not coincide with what we know of Universal Laws and the way the Universe operates.

This dynamic has been made up by some painfully lovesick  romantic caught in the 3rd dimensional trap known as attachment. If you are lovesick over someone, idealizing over them, it is no wonder you would find solace in this concept. It’s the only concept can find solace in, without doing the necessary work. The real work. The very fact that traditional “Twins” feel they need to defend their Twin Flame romantic story lines is the evidence that they are insecure. That something is not right. They all get triggered when you challenge their title. Why is that? Why get triggered? Do you get triggered when someone challenges your name? No, because there’s nowhere to land with that. But challenging the Twin Flame story… it’s a trigger. What doe a trigger mean? It means something is unresolved in you. Think about that.

The Twin Flame story It gives these spiritual travelers something to hold onto. Some glimmer of romanticized hope.

For, it is better to be a hopeless romantic with a glimmer of hope, than a pathetic pile of sobbing, tearful, sorrow, with nowhere to turn and no story to explain themselves with.

To have a story about why you are in pain feels so much better than being in pain, and having no story as to why.

(I’ve been there, too.)

This is why you have to believe in the romantic, Traditional Twin Flame Template of running, chasing, and union in the end. Because, you have no other way to explain why you feel the way that you do. None.

Finding out where the pain is really coming from requires an ultimate truth that can only come from you. You don’t even have to know why you’re in pain, but you have to be able to stop blaming anything outside of yourself and take ownership. Know that you have choices and you’re actually in control.

“You don’t live on an iceberg. Go out and make a life” – My mom

The next step is loving yourself no matter how you show up. Loving and accepting the one who is in pain.

“I feel like crap today. Oh, well, that’s just how I am today and that’s ok. Hello, pain”

This concept is not new.  Spiritual teachers of awareness, such as, Elkhart Tolle, are teaching this very same concept and it’s not new to me either. Here is a post that I wrote in January, in the midst of my very painful Twin Flame experience.

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The problem is that this entire Twin Flame concept of sharing the same soul, keeps you attached to the outcome. Dependent upon something outside of yourself in order to have true happiness. In order to get what you really want. and that is why the vast majority of those who identify with the traditional Twin Flame template are so very unhappy and also not in Union. Because they are not attracting what they want. Attachment to the outcome repels the desired manifestation.

That’s Law of Attraction 2.0.

Traditional Twin Flamers who defend the Twin Flame story are fighting for something. Fighting for something outside of themselves and that’s simply no way to transcend.

The problem with the Traditional Twin Flame ideas is that they keep you married to attachment. The proof is in the pudding. There is no self proclaimed traditional Twin Flame follower out there who can feel truly fulfilled unless either A. their lover returns, or B. they move on. Most of them will choose A. because they don’t know how to do B. and they back it up with the Traditional Twin Flame storyline. But what has this gotten you? I know you’re all in pain. That is the reason you’re reading this..

But, there is hope. You’re seeking it,  and it has nothing to do with your Twin Flame

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Sameness of vibration/soul is the belief of the traditional Twin Flame followers, but sameness yields harmony and resonance. Not the opposite! So, it is impossible that one can meet their truest vibrational match and be repelled. This logic defies the Universal Laws of Attraction!

It is possible for a catalytic Twin Flame to become a Harmonious Soulmate relationship, if that person truly is a close vibrational match, the evolution inspired by the meeting would bring you back together, but you cannot hang onto the chance of this possibility as almost all of you are. In most cases, the Twin Flame that you are speaking of having reunion with is simply to inspire you to accelerated ascension and also, enhance desire. The universe wants you to use your wildest imagination to envision the best possible outcomes and that is what the catalytic Twin Flame inspires. Being brought to great desire helps you to attract the best possible outcome. But there is more to the process if you want to see any Union and especially a Harmonious Union. Attachment to a person or demanding a specific outcome from the Universe is not the point of it all. The Universe doesn’t care if you deny all other possibilities that the doorway of love and freedom can bring. The Universe does not respond to your demands or your perseverance or pleas. The Universe responds to your ability to embody higher vibrations, to be authentic, open hearted and to have faith in the great plan that is in store for you.

If you know anything, and if you are not so attached to the idea of Twins sharing a soul that you cannot possibly consider any other idea, this just makes sense. I’m an experienced, professional and well studied soul reader. Well studied in soul traits and identification and an expert in the Law of Attraction from all angles. I have been working with a TON of Soul Mates and “Twin Flames” but it doesn’t take a romantic scientist to see that two people who harmonize well and have resonance with each other do so because they are actually SIMILAR! People who click are on the same vibrational page. It can be no other way! If you don’t click, you do not share similar enough core qualities. The differences are too great. Period. This is Universal Law. Don’t listen to the psychics who all want to tell you what you want to hear. That “confirmation” means nothing. You know how many people in the Twin Flame communities that I could get to tell me that someone is my Twin flame, if I really wanted it? All of them! It’s already happened. They make their assumptions whether I am asking or not! Everyone in the Twin Flame community wants to tell you to “hold on” But that’s attachment.

 They can form whatever opinion they want. They can tell you not to give up on your “Twin Flame” or not, but the TRUTH?…. THEY DON’T KNOW! Twin Flames come and they go. Even the Twin Flames get confused about it!

There is no such thing as missing out on your one and only opportunity for completion. There is no such thing as being destined to reunite with the other half of your soul. That whole theory is very cool, but it invokes two things:

1. That you are incomplete

2. Attachment to something outside of yourself

This theory has it’s value along the path of evolution. But the only constant is change and you can’t “Hold on” forever.

 Do not use the opinions of other people who are stuck in attachment to back up your perpetuation of this nonexistent Twin Flame idea that makes no sense if you know anything about what causes energies to be attracted and repelled. Support holds no weight against truth.

At the very least, you should be seeking truth, not validation of the Twin Flame story, not confirmation of your “Other half”. Truth.

Without truth, love is actually shielded.

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A Twin Flame is a soulmate catalyst that triggers a great amount of growth and inspires enormous depths of passion within you. A Twin Flame is not the end all, be all of you and you are not at the mercy of your Twin Flame’s willingness to surrender to you or to the Universe. There is no such thing as only having one option or one other half in a limitless Universe.

I am saying this because there are many people who believe this, and they will push it on you. Their sanity depends upon having a story for their pain to stand on. I am simply asking that you make sure that you are applying your knowledge on Universal Law and that you take in all of the data that you can, before you get stuck in a theory that puts so many people on a treadmill to nowhere.

This theory has served us well, but it can’t take us all the way. This is the way many spiritual teachings are designed. To meet you where you are. It is time to move beyond this.

You cannot become a master of any one thing if you do not pull from a larger pool of knowledge that goes beyond that one thing.

The only reason I have succeeded in the flesh, in my life, in attracting my Union and the only reason that I know what I know and have the ability to pull more and more advanced teachings and put the pieces together is because I am fully willing to learn. Even if evolution means leaving old ideas behind. If you want to achieve, you have to be willing to let the Universe give you new information.

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I used to be in a space that said that nobody outside of yourself could tell you if someone was your Twin Flame or not. I actually  refer to the whole thing as a Twin Flame experience because many people could be having the Twin Flame experience, whether it is actually a close match or not. I noticed that when I was working with these soulmate “Twin” chasers and runners who were coming to me. They were having the Twin Flame experience, but it definitely wasn’t with a “Twin” Soul. I realized, that by the traditional Twin Flame description of sharing the “same soul”, that made it easy to root out the definite energetic mismatches. It’s just so blatantly obvious when two souls do not share the same core essence or when the energetic traits are very different. It would make me think to myself, no wonder there is a problem in the “Union”. There always will be, because you two are not similar. Yet, the experience was real. It’s an experience. The purpose is growth.

The traditional ideology is that the Twin Flame as an Ultimate Union, but, the only problem with that is how often these Twin Flames remain stuck on the Twin Flame treadmill, by themselves, year after long and painstakingly lonely year?

A Union is a Union. A Twin Flame is a Twin Flame. A Soulmate is a Soulmate. Stop trying to make the transition from Twin Flame into Union and just take the lesson! You have no other choice! You can’t change their mind. You can’t force anything into being. You can learn the hard way, or you can learn the easy way. That’s the only choice you have.

You will learn. But how much pain will it take?

”Go or be dragged” – Amazing Yoga

If Reunion is going to occur, don’t worry you won’t miss it. Nothing could make you miss it…except yourself.

Stop trying to arrange your fate. That’s the job of the Universe. YOUR job is to learn to love.

 Love yourself, love others and love your life. Stop wanting things to be different. Follow your joy in the ways that you are able to. Not only is that all you can do, it’s enough. Not only is it enough, it’s all you can do.

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Listen to energetic reason. The one who is naturally same, doesn’t have to be forced, persuaded, coerced   chased, or gradually negotiated into compromise. The very root of disagreement in any form is difference in opinion or desire, which is simply an extension of differences in the soul itself. If you are having a very large discord with someone, such as, “ I want a relationship with you, but you don’t want a relationship with me.” that person cannot possibly be the same soul that you are. It simply would not happen with someone who is the same that you are. Someone who shares your exact traits and makeup at the core, would be agree with you and they would be more than willing.

Don’t even start with the excuses. Excuses don’t exist in an Open Heart Union.

People who drift apart over time do so because as they evolve into more authentic versions of themselves, they realize that they are with someone who is actually very different from them.

The opposite is also true. People who are the same at their core will grow closer as they evolve into their most authentic versions of themselves.

That is what it is like to be in Union with your Ideal Soulmate. You grow closer. 

The more authentic you become, the more it brings you together. That’s how you know if you are same at your core.

When you find this person, there is no chasing, there is no running, there is only recognition. The resonance is so strong that there is simply no other way. No turning back. You KNOW when you are dealing with your match because you merge. This is simply how the Laws of Attraction work.

Same =Resonance=Harmony= Merging=Union

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If there is not mutual recognition, then there is a noticeable difference at core essence that makes being apart a more appealing option than being together. Once the core match is found, there is a mutual clarity and understanding of togetherness being priority. There is no excuse in existence that would be convincing enough to separate either of you from your perfect Union, once recognized. By definition, an Ideal Union is when you are SAME.  On the same page, on the same frequency, on the same vibration, which means you will easily agree. An Ideal Union cannot be in the past, otherwise, it obviously wasn’t Ideal. An Ideal Union is in the present and Harmonious, like heaven on Earth. Following your joys bring you closer, not farther. Some of you are receiving the message that Heaven on Earth is what this ascension process is aiming to achieve. These Open Heart Unions are simply a manifestation of that collaborative agreement/effort to raise the vibration of the collective consciousness.

Here’s a math problem for you…

If there are 1 million un-united Twin Flames in the world and all of them learned how to attract an Open Heart Union to themselves, how much would that raise the vibration of the collective consciousness?

It is impossible to share exactly the same soul. A soul is not a thing that can be divided into two. Once it becomes two, it is two different things. We are all one, we are all same, because we all come from one source and we are all extensions of that same source. So, we are all Twin Flames, but, on the level that we are speaking,

A soul is simply a stream of consciousness. If a stream of consciousness were to split into two, it then would become two different streams of consciousness. Two different perspectives  two different bodies, two different experiences, two different reactions, two entirely different worlds. So, the fact that you are looking at someone through your own set of eyes and not theirs, makes you different, NOT same.

However, what we are looking for in an Ideal Soulmate Union is someone who is very similar to us, energetically. Now, that can be achieved. It is possible to find someone who thinks on the same level as you, agrees with you,  shares your viewpoints, interests and likes your ideas. It is possible to find someone to share a mutual love relationship that is full of resonance and harmony. That is possible. So, when I say “same”, I am saying similar, or very, very similar energetic vibration.

Majority of the people who come to me for readings are remarkably different. The fact that they are in separation physically, mentally or emotionally is the evidence.

This is not about being right or wrong. There’s really nothing “wrong” about the traditional story. But the traditional story is not expansive enough. If it keeps you locked into attachment and causes you more pain than joy, you miss the point of the entire scene. If you feel like Union comes from the manifestation of “The one”, you aren’t focusing inward, you are focusing outward, to them. But they cannot help you. They are only a manifestation of your current state.

If you feel like something is missing, or like you can’t have what you truly want or that what you truly want is in the future, you will be right. It will never be manifested in your NOW moment.

Most of my clients miss the point that this is ALL ABOUT THEM. Not about the other person.

And they don’t want to hear that.

They want me to tell them the future about reunion. They want me to confirm the connection. They want to know more about what the other person is doing than about the inner work.

Don’t let the story distract you from the reason that your catalyst came to you.

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Ideal Union is so easy when you’re experiencing it. It feels like the most natural thing in the world and once you find it, you have no idea how it took so long to find it and how on Earth you came to know so many issues with others in the past. We all know that harmony is possible. That finding and equal soul to come into Union with is possible and it makes sense to us that it has to be out there. I remember having this thought over and over, so many times, even years before it came into my reality. It makes more sense in every way, to be in harmony than it does to be in disharmony, but you still have to find a way to come into harmony with harmony!! You still have to match the vibration in order to align with it and manifest it in 3D. You have to come into harmony with the self. All things outside the self aside. It is possible for all. There is no-one but you. You are the only missing piece.  I always knew, for sure, that there had to be somebody out there who was looking for me, exactly, in every way. I knew that there was someone out there who would feel like they hit the jackpot with me and would do anything for me. The same is true for everyone else! You have a match, and you can attract it. It all depends upon you.

This is quite possibly where the phrase “Till death do you part” comes from. Because this is how it feels when you meet your match, and it’s mutual. That you will be venturing through all eternities and realms together, because in each other, you have found your “perfect” match. A place called home. A home that exists no where else and home is where the heart is.

The Traditional Twin Flame Concept is a metaphor for the truth of Unity, Oneness and Love. The truth that we all are of the same and that we come from the same source. We are all united in this unified universe. I am your Twin Flame and thank you for being mine. My catalyst, my reason, my mission, my motivation and my inspiration and my purpose for continuing on in my expression of love.

Here are some videos from credible sources that support all of the above that I have just mentioned. Matt Kahn teaches from an emotional standpoint. Teal Swan explains the Technical view and Larissa Roberts confronts the truth of the Metaphor and the purpose of the Twin Flame experience. Enjoy.

TEAL SWAN, ON TWIN FLAMES

                           TEAL SWAN, DO TWIN FLAMES EXIST? <- Go to 16:14

LARISSA ROBERTS, ON TWIN FLAMES

MATT KAHN, ON TWIN FLAMES

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 There is more information to cover on this subject. For instance, based on what I said regarding the Law of Attraction, then why would one attract someone and then repel them? Or, why would one attract anyone at all, if they aren’t close enough in vibration to have harmony with? This goes back to attracting based on the vibrations within yourself which need to be resolved and that is something which I have already covered.

Here is the Link -> ALIGNING WITH THE VIBRATION OF THE IDEAL SOULMATE UNION

Hi, this is Elise<3…

 PLEASE JOIN OUR GROUPS: TWIN FLAME 2.0 LOVE REVOLUTION

OPEN HEART UNIONS

I have been conducting Twin Flame and Soulmate readings for you all, for many months now…

I have the ability to point out the blocks in your energetic patterning that need to be resolved before your Perfect, Ideal Soulmate Union can occur.

I need only a picture of you in order to perform this reading. The reading includes detailed instruction, tailored to your specific needs and guidance to explain exactly what it is that you must resolve and how to go about in doing so.

I am still offering TwinFlame/Soulmate Readings.

But ALL of you who come to me are desiring an Ideal Union/Open Heart Union

This requires you to identify and resolve the misaligned energies within yourself.

Call the reading what you will, but all who come to receive readings from me will be informed of what is blocking you from your Perfect Union and what you must do in order to resolve and come into alignment with your Open Heart Union.

I have already resolved and completed my transition, which has resulted in my very own Unification With My Ideal Soulmate in the 3rd dimension.

This is what I want for all of you.

63c4fffe9454ab29bbaa6792cbb9d81dI am not supporting the idea of attachment. That is not what resolution is about. It’s not about a means to an end. A pot of gold at the end of the rainbow. However, Ideal Union does occur as a result of resolving the self and coming into union with the self, but, if that is the goal, that is a block in itself.

My approach is via open heartedness, which means becoming more familiar with your authentic self and embodying 100% authentic self expression. For all of you, authentic self expression equals love. Love for the self and love for others without reservations, expectations or attachments to outcome. Anything not of love is a result of fear and is not of you.

I am now, solely teaching advanced concepts. I expect my clients to be well informed and completely dedicated to the cause. Otherwise, you will miss everything I have said to you.

My mission is to assist in the growth of each individual into love, for the good of all.

My clients must be those who are up to speed enough to benefit from my assistance.

Before contacting me, please understand that this is all about you.

Your soulmate is simply a reflection.

When you change yourself, you change the reflection.

With Great Love ❤

You are all my Twin Flame. Thank you.

At this point, my blog is very comprehensive, with over 70 posts on this subject and my life experience is a testimony that whatever I am doing, it works, because it has lead me into manifesting my greatest desire. If there is something that does not make sense to you, it is either because you are not ready for the information, you are not fully understanding  due to a block, (I notice that when people want to “Hold on” to an idea, they do not fully take in the information and they also misinterpret, completely. This is a block, due to not wanting to change the mind about a current standpoint) or because there are many other pieces of the puzzle that need to fill in before you can reach this point. It’s simply a journey and my intention whoever does come across this information benefits.

I have many, many other helpful posts and many of them have nothing to do with Redefining Twin Flames. Many of my posts do align with traditional concepts, so, It’s likely that no matter where you stand, I have something that can meet you where you are. Please contact me if you are looking for any information. Perhaps I can provide you with links to previous entries I have completed.

My Mission is service, via Truth and Love. My Courage is my Testimony. My work is my Seal.

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5 thoughts on “What it’s like To Be in an Ideal Soulmate Union and Why the Twin Flame isn’t Exactly What You Thought it Was…

  1. Dear Elise,
    THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR THIS POST 💓
    I do so totally resonate with all of your written words. I see your posts as gifts from the Universe to me. I was just melting during reading out loud the post. I still do.I feel supported and trust the divine plan.
    Love, Henny Manukilej
    Date: Sun, 26 Jul 2015 08:17:32 +0000
    To: hennym_70@hotmail.com

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  2. Im not denying the experience, i actually validated that part. Its just a complicated thing, explaining how the souls are. Because its not a 3D concept, yet we are trying to understand it. Its ok if you are not ready for this

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  3. Hello, I am new to your blog and am just loving this article. It is so beautiful and all that you describe resonates with me deeply. These are concepts that I have been discovering on my own path via my own intuition etc and I feel a certain electric charge and thrill at reading your words and seeing your pictures, it is as if my soul is shouting out Yes! Yes! Yes! I actually find this journey to be amazing because as you said, it is not about Other, bit about Self first, which breaks US open to unconditional love and love of self, of other, and of life. It is so pure, so sweet, so delicious. I truly appreciate your open hearted union and relish in it; I am smiling. Thank you. ❤ I look forward to reading more of your blog.

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  4. Your blog its truly a wonder….its filled with so much love,you can easily know how much love must be in the heart of you elise….this is truly wonderful…..

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