Is Love Painful? Pillow Talk with Dan & Elise

Is Love Painful? Pillow Talk with Dan & Elise

 

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Hopefully, this resonated. There are so many ways to see the TF/Love situation. Probably more options than you think! It’s complicated, and yet simple. It’s about how you feel. I know that sometimes, it’s even hard to figure that out. With all the push and pull, back and forth and feeling like you have no more options. That’s why, even though the trying part of my journey is over, I have chosen to stay here and help you through yours. There are things I would have given anything to know earlier. If I had only gotten that remote healing before I quit my job, had a manic episode and came down with depression, you know?? Well, this information is valuable and life changing for many. That is why I am here, offering it to you. Each situation is unique and that is how I approach them. If you are having a hard time, confused, or tired of being between a rock and hard place, Check out what might be the right fit for you. I will always offer insight you didn’t have before, and Remote Healing (included in the TF reading) is nothing to be taken lightly!

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Stand Your Ground & Make Shit Happen! (Lightworker & TF)

Stand Your Ground & Make Shit Happen! (Lightworker & TF)

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Channeled in tune with Current Cosmic Themes and Unity Consciousness

The world just keeps on spinning and events never cease to occur. Becoming never stops and evolution is as definite as the planets spinning in perfect proximity to each other, as they always have.

The Question is, are you involved in the way that things unfold for you, or are you creating by default? Are you a passerby in your own experience or are you an active participant?

Right now, Lightworkers are being called forth to step into who they intended to become before they arrived here. There is one very important ingredient to achieving this

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CONVICTION.

Because convictions allows you to follow your joy. Once cannot follow their joy unless they allow and pursue. It often is not easy. This is why we have conviction.

YOU MUST GO AFTER WHAT YOU WANT.

To go after what you want, with conviction, is the only way to find out if it is truly what suits your needs. Even if it was not what you wanted in the end, you still had to pursue it as part of your journey to your True North.

Most Lightworkers are very gentle souls that allow themselves to be overshadowed more often than not. This is a manifestation of a deficit is self worth understanding. A solar Plexus deficit. It is crucial to know, that you are a God/Goddess and to treat yourself and others that way. Look upon the Goddess. In her aura, you can see everything you need to know.

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For those who are the opposite and have learned to speak for themselves, even if it ruffles feathers, we have a different message ahead.

For those who still find themselves seeking approval from outside sources, no matter how “Normal”, society has made this tendency appear to be, it is detrimental to the path of a Lightworker or Twin Flame.

There is a balance that can be reached. For those who find themselves arguing with others for their points, listening more, being more open to the ideas of others and pondering alternate ideas would actually be the path to balance.

For those who often get silenced and trampled, standing your ground with confidence and conviction in what you know is your intuition, inspiration and joy is actually the path to balance.

Inclusion of Both ends of the spectrum are what creates balance.

Many of you have been in a position where you were the one who was trampled and in order to be heard, you became the opposite. Loud and proud with your beliefs and opinions. But we are here to tell you that you do not have to be so passionate in order to be heard and to stand your ground. Once you have learned to stand your ground, you can learn to do so without ruffling feathers. Everything can be said in a way that does not speak from the triggered ego mindset. Kindly.

The tricky part is that, if you are a newbie who is trying to learn to stand your ground, you will need to take on the passionate approach in order to solidify this ability in your power center (solar plexus).

Is this making sense?

Things are always changing and evolving. Each stage is an important part for you along the way, but continuing to evolve is equally important. Implementing new energies is the only way to attract the changes you desire. For, the same thing only yields same results.

If you want a new result, you must decide on a new action.

The same is true for Twin Flames.

Law of Polarity

Twin Flames often occur in a dynamic where one is more outspoken and open than the other. The one who is outspoken often is rejected because they trigger the other to a natural reaction, which is Cognitive Dissonance. There is a Law of Polarity one can observe which states that everything in the Universe has a Polar Opposite. Since Twin Flames are often some representation of this, the more you push an idea, the more you push the other to further root themselves into the opposite of what you are trying to achieve with them.

The only way to facilitate a reaction that does not create distance by Law of Polarity is to not take on such a polar standpoint. Perhaps you have your belief, but the energy is actually neutral. You can achieve this by not needing a reaction from the other. By not trying to convince them. By not wanting to convince them. make it a non-issue and they will not be repelled by this Law. This means that you actually have to be quite neutral. This is where detaching from outcome is extremely important. One cannot achieve this otherwise. Once you have learned Open-Hearted Detachment, one can implement this neutral feel, which will not serve to repel the desired outcome.

The Twin Flame is a progression, same as any other walk of life. Lightworkers and Twin Flames, do not be dismayed when things do not go your way. This is actually how you prove detachment from outcome.

Do you not know, that the outcome relies upon your dominant state of being?

It does not work any other way. So, to be disappointed in a turn of events is to support that as the outcome, instead of the outcome you so desire.

There is no need for you to fight you point, unless you are practicing that vibration of standing your ground.

If you often find yourself fighting your point, try adding more femme to the equation. This will help you attract those who are in agreement.

To push very hard against something, actually attracts more of the very thing you are pushing against.

If you have difficulty standing your ground, practice getting fired up about it and standing behind yourself, no matter who it is that has been overpowering you.

Once you are in your Power, do not use your power to overpower another. There is no need.

If you would like to come into your power, do not allow your joy and intuition to be trampled. Do not let your mission to be swept under the rug.

Balance.

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Identifying the Right Energy in a Potential Partner

Identifying the Right Energy in a Potential Partner

There are two energies that you can have towards a person.

One is the energy of

#1- “What am I going to do for you?”

The other is:

#2- “What are you going to do for me?”

They are very different.

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Are you listening to the tells?

Energy #1 says that the person is willing, open and ready. That they are not only receptive, but willing to give of themselves. They aren’t so preoccupied with convincing themselves that they are worthy that they can’t relax and just enjoy being with you. The #2 energy is always asking “Is this good for me? Is this good enough for me? What would be better? Can I find something better?” Therefore, they will keep you around, but only long enough to find the next thing that sparks their interest and nothing that you do for them will be good enough. They might say thank you, but they will never be truly appreciative, because of course, they are better than anything you could possibly dish out. They are entitled little bastards, not ready for love. I once cooked a meal for a man, he was nice enough. Chilean sea bass is what I made and I made two gourmet sauces to go with it. It was a beautiful, carefully cooked and delicious meal. But the first thing he said when I served him and we sat down to eat is that I gave him the wrong fork. Are you fucking kidding me? That was a huge tell… can you guess his energy? “What are you going to do for me?”. There’s no gratitude there. Get rid of those energies as soon as you spot them. They will drain you fast and cause a lot of frustration.

The #2  energy says that they are only in it for themselves and no relationship can prosper that way. It can be very easy to identify either energy in a person. Sometimes, it’s harder than others to figure out which side of the fence they are on and sometimes, you can know just by looking at a person, or by the first thing that they say. Think about intention. A person who is too driven by their own  neediness is not going to be the person who is looking out for you, because they are too busy looking out for themselves. The guy who tries to kiss you on the first night you meet and doesn’t pay attention to the fact that you’ve been trying to brush him off is only out for himself. A person who is looking out for you, wouldn’t miss those messages and wouldn’t go in for the kiss out of respect for what your energy has told him. A person who compliments you, but acts like he is the one who deems you good enough to spend time with. One guy said to me “Since I am an awesome judge of character and I think you’re really cool…” We don’t need to hear the rest, this guy is a douchebag. lol He doesn’t even have the decency to give you credit without giving himself credit first. Some people feel entitled. It’s like a high horse, spoiled kind of energy. They put themselves on a pedestal and they’re always on the lookout to see if you’re “Good enough” to share space with them. Look for this energy and when you see it, run! This energy isn’t going to change. Most people who carry one or the other, aren’t going to change it. They don’t know how.

Look at the energy of “What am I going to do for you?” They are always more subtle, because they are showing that they are gentle, as to not disturb you. It is a conscientious energy. They are thinking of you, first. As opposed to  energy #2, where they are thinking of you second.  Big difference.

Don’t get me wrong, everyone has to lookout for themselves, but some people are appreciative and some people aren’t. Some people have better intentions than others. Some people are more selfish than others. I am just telling you how to eliminate a bad energy off the bat to help your process of elimination when you are selecting a potential partner.

It’s in the little things. Don’t forget that.

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A person who’s dominant vibration is always asking what they can get out of you is a natural thrill seeker. There are many variables when it comes to energy, but in general, the thrill seeker is out for thrill more than anything else. Which means, you’re never going to be #1.

It is possible to manage to have a strong soul connection with a person like this to where it is meant to be. But, please take note that if this happens, their energy towards you would flip. They would take on the energy of “What am I going to do for you?”. If this is not the energy they have, a relationship cannot be comfortably sustained. The right person will have this energy with you, even if they didn’t previously have it in prior relationships.

Some people think I analyze too much. I’m an advanced am path and I know that everything means something. Tells don’t lie. They tell the truth that is hidden. Go with your gut instinct. If you are nervous, turned off or walking on eggshells, your initial impression is the correct impression. I promise you that.

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On this Full Moon, there’s a lot of emphasis on relationships in the astrology. It’s do or die. choose your destiny wisely!

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Dear Twin Flame; Recovering Your Faith and Divine Self Love

Dear Twin Flame; Recovering Your Faith and Divine Self Love

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Dear Twin Flame,

It is time that we begin singing a different tune. A song that stands for liberation from longing, needing, and wanting something that we cannot force into our experience. It is time that we begin to sing the song of freedom, liberation, hope, new beginnings and love. There is always more, but you cannot see that when your memory is anchored in your past. When your heart strings are tugging you in a direction that reminds you of what you want to be, instead of what you are and who you can become. Look forward, Dear Twin Flame.

Do you not believe in what awaits you?

Take your mind from what is and know that the Universe can deliver. Do Not ever try to tell the Universe how to deliver. Do Not ever try to guess how it will happen. This can only take you down a negative spiral. Do Not ever ask “how”. Mark these words, that the “How” will trip you up. The “How” is irrelevant and it is not your work. It is the job of the Universe to deliver the “How”. It is not within your capacity to imagine. It is only within your realm to understand that the delivery is underway and it could surprise you and surpass your expectations in an infinite variety of ways.

Ye of little faith. Stop asking how.

Stop trying to foretell. Stop wondering what you Twin Flame is doing and if they will ever come back. What you truly want is to be happy. The Universe has the ability to deliver the whole package to you, in a way that is beyond your ability to imagine. Know this. Do you know it?

If you know it, then you should be able to go about your life, following your joy, because your joy brings you closer to all that you desire; Knowing that it will come and that it doesn’t matter how.

Honestly, here is the greatest task within the Twin Flame challenge: To be able to live happily without them. It’s in every book, we all know it… Letting go, surrender, no matter what you call it, the meaning does not change. But, if you are still ailing, you have not accomplished it. This is why we see the amount of pain that we do in the Twin Flame community. Surrender is easier said than down. For, even when you do decide on it, the deciding in itself is only a means to an end for you. This is why it has not worked.

To be able to live life and be content without them. To be able to love again. Truly and deeply. To know that you deserve love that is reciprocated and harmonious and easy. This my Dear Twin Flame, is how you express faith in the Universe that everything is happening for you, not to you. Demonstrate your faith that the Universe will not cheat you, but serve up more than you can imagine.

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Perhaps this is the greatest lesson of the Twin Flame; To inspire you to love so great, so that you have to choose between the love for yourself and the love that you hold for them. This is a very important lesson and it is no coincidence that Twin Flames are Lightworkers, as it is the brightest lights who have the most trouble implementing and embodying the essence of Divine Self Love. Perhaps you could say that the Twin Flame Union is the result of mastering self love. If you think about it, if self love were being embodied, many of the marriages and other situations keeping you from your twin Union would dissolve. Many of you stay in the wrong situations for the wrong reasons. Many of you would be contacting your Twins, instead of endlessly pondering the “right” move. The “right” move is whatever your heart desires, but you cannot see that when your fear is greater than your love. The interactions would also go differently. You cannot control them, but sometimes, in your consistent, pure, loving vibration, you elicit a more heart centered response from them, and you also free yourself of guilt, fear and pain. But imagine if both parties were 100% self loving, the issues keeping you apart would vanish. It must begin with you.

 You can’t help what they are doing. You cannot change their mind. You cannot force their hand, but you can do what is best for yourself. You can be your own lover and you can show yourself love by allowing yourself to be open to a mutually loving relationship that serves your highest good. Love isn’t supposed to be hard. It’s only hard when you haven’t learned to love yourself. To be stuck on someone is to hope that they will change. This is the opposite of accepting what is. This is the opposite of trust. This is the opposite of trusting all as Divine. The Twin Flame isn’t about changing anyone else. It’s about changing yourself. On this Twin Flame journey, if you take an action with one goal in mind, that goal being to somehow lead to your Twin Flame changing their mind about you, the action you have taken is not pure. You cannot do it. You have to move beyond that. You have to begin taking actions that are for yourself, serving you. Apart from what you hope to gain from your Twin. Apart from your fears of losing them. You simply can’t factor that in anymore. It’s out of your control. So then, what are you left with? Just you. And, what are you going to do? Do You.

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The only thing I am asking you to do is release your resistance. Stop making your circumstances problematic. Stop wishing they were different. Be in your life now, and you will move through it.

It doesn’t start to come together until you begin seeing, through your interactions with new people, that you could actually start a new life.  New Life only means New Standpoint.  I am not saying that you cannot reunite with your Twin Flame. I am not saying that you can or cannot do anything, but here is what I am saying. Whether you “Move on” and create a new, happy life or not, is not going to change the Twin Flame destiny. The best way to increase your chances of Twin Flame Union is to stop resisting it with your needy cry for them. To stop suffering because of the reunion that hasn’t occurred. No good can come from that. You can never know what is going to happen, truly. But, you can create a beautiful life. You can love again. You can be happy.


You may not even make it into the action part, the important part is that you vibrationally line up with it. That’s the only way to let Destiny play out. You gotta be unconditional.


There is nothing better that you can do, and if Reunion is in the cards for you, it will happen at it’s own accord. It will fall into place. The Universe will orchestrate it. But one thing is for sure, it won’t happen because you forced it. It won’t happen because you pleaded, bargained, suffered and cried. So, with that said, you may as well spend every moment wisely and become a vibration that radiates love, joy and peace, if you ever are going to line up with those things that you desire. All that you desire can be obtained, just not in the way that you think. There is not enough tears in the world to make the Universe bring back your Twin Flame. Start Over. Do anything and everything that you need to do for yourself. For Yourself.

 Become a self loving being and you will attract others that love you. Appreciate yourself and you will attract others that appreciate you. This will give you the best chance that you have in this life to attract the things that you want. Twin Flame or not. Don’t put limitations on the Universe. Don’t do it. Surrender. Start over and focus on you. Be your own lover. Court yourself and surround yourself with others who treat you the way that you want to be treated.

We all say that we love ourselves, but look at your life and ask; Am I Loving Myself Enough?

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If your Twin Flame isn’t treating you with love, respect and total admiration, then this is your first test. Let them loose from your mind. The fact that you want a person who doesn’t demonstrate that they are wanting you is a sure indicator of a deficiency in self love.  Again, I am not saying that you cannot be reunited. Anything can happen. But it’s funny how things change when your perspective changes.  There are energetic Laws and spiritual communications at play here, that I am not here to explain, but I am telling you how to make them work for you. You can’t wait around and reserve your life until the Universe gives in. It won’t happen that way. Go out there and get everything out of this life that you can. That is when love will come to you in the fullest. Surrender, trust, believe, and most of all, love.

There is great love here for you.

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Where’s My Reunion???!!!

Where’s My Reunion???!!!

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Here we are, in the place where many Twin Flames have foretold of reunification… Venus sits in Pisces, along with many other planets at this time. Mars has run it’s course in Scorpio, the war is over, and many of you Twins have indeed, reunited. It is a beautiful thing, and yet, the rest of you simply stand there, in silence, and awe, wondering…

Where is my Twin Flame Union?

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We ask you, yet again, because this is the very thing that is holding up the process for you.

Does it matter what happens tomorrow if you are having fun today? If today is a good day, then what have you to want for? And yet, you cannot get there from where you are. You cannot simply enjoy. At the same time, knowing, that needing the future is what keeps it just out of your reach. You would not be reading this if this was not true for you. You say “I do not need Union”, but in the back of your mind, you are constantly looking around the corner. Trying to play life as if it were a game of chess, to see what your current position and choices will yield in the future. The problem is this:

If you make choices from a strategic standpoint, instead of a fun-loving, in the now standpoint, you will never reach the end game you are truly looking for, which is fun in itself. Only fun in the now can yield that.

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No matter how many times we tell you, it needs to be repeated, you need reminding, and that part matters not, so long as you get it at some point along your journey.

The quality of your moment determines the quality of your future.

Simple as that.

Sometimes, you get there. You know that you do not need for Reunion, but then, you still find yourself slipping into depression, sadness, longing and even anger… Wondering why this is happening to you in this way and why you can’t just have it your way. Or, at least, an easier way. After all, have you not learned so much?? Of course you have, but the learning means nothing without the being. 

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Being able to embody what you have learned is key. Paradoxically, the sooner you forget about the whole thing and simply focus on having fun, the sooner you will be brought straight to your destiny. Whatever that may be, is not something you need to worry about. Simply know that joy leads to more joy, fun leads to more fun, and if you can’t get there as a dominant sate of being, then this answers your question of “Where is my Union?”.

Make a decision to be honest right now. Only focusing on yourself, because that’s the only thing you have any amount of control over, what is blocking your Union? How do you truly feel about it? Chances are that if you think about it daily, the majority of the thoughts are causing resistance. This will be all of you or a great majority. The question is, can you stop thinking about it? 😉 I bet you could if you were truly having fun….

If you have listened to the above videos, they will state exactly that. That,

#1  You don’t have to know how the unfolding will occur.

#2 You must first have faith

#3 The only thing you can change is yourself

The good thing about being able to change yourself is that when you change yourself, you change your world, but there’s a catch…

You cannot attempt to change yourself with the intention of changing the world to suit your needs. You cannot attempt the change and then look for he evidence of the change outside of yourself, this would not be a true change and you can’t fool the Universe. The outside change needs to not matter to you. When you can reach that, A LOT will change for you 😉

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