Dear Twin Flame,
It is time that we begin singing a different tune. A song that stands for liberation from longing, needing, and wanting something that we cannot force into our experience. It is time that we begin to sing the song of freedom, liberation, hope, new beginnings and love. There is always more, but you cannot see that when your memory is anchored in your past. When your heart strings are tugging you in a direction that reminds you of what you want to be, instead of what you are and who you can become. Look forward, Dear Twin Flame.
Do you not believe in what awaits you?
Take your mind from what is and know that the Universe can deliver. Do Not ever try to tell the Universe how to deliver. Do Not ever try to guess how it will happen. This can only take you down a negative spiral. Do Not ever ask “how”. Mark these words, that the “How” will trip you up. The “How” is irrelevant and it is not your work. It is the job of the Universe to deliver the “How”. It is not within your capacity to imagine. It is only within your realm to understand that the delivery is underway and it could surprise you and surpass your expectations in an infinite variety of ways.
Ye of little faith. Stop asking how.
Stop trying to foretell. Stop wondering what you Twin Flame is doing and if they will ever come back. What you truly want is to be happy. The Universe has the ability to deliver the whole package to you, in a way that is beyond your ability to imagine. Know this. Do you know it?
If you know it, then you should be able to go about your life, following your joy, because your joy brings you closer to all that you desire; Knowing that it will come and that it doesn’t matter how.
Honestly, here is the greatest task within the Twin Flame challenge: To be able to live happily without them. It’s in every book, we all know it… Letting go, surrender, no matter what you call it, the meaning does not change. But, if you are still ailing, you have not accomplished it. This is why we see the amount of pain that we do in the Twin Flame community. Surrender is easier said than down. For, even when you do decide on it, the deciding in itself is only a means to an end for you. This is why it has not worked.
To be able to live life and be content without them. To be able to love again. Truly and deeply. To know that you deserve love that is reciprocated and harmonious and easy. This my Dear Twin Flame, is how you express faith in the Universe that everything is happening for you, not to you. Demonstrate your faith that the Universe will not cheat you, but serve up more than you can imagine.
Perhaps this is the greatest lesson of the Twin Flame; To inspire you to love so great, so that you have to choose between the love for yourself and the love that you hold for them. This is a very important lesson and it is no coincidence that Twin Flames are Lightworkers, as it is the brightest lights who have the most trouble implementing and embodying the essence of Divine Self Love. Perhaps you could say that the Twin Flame Union is the result of mastering self love. If you think about it, if self love were being embodied, many of the marriages and other situations keeping you from your twin Union would dissolve. Many of you stay in the wrong situations for the wrong reasons. Many of you would be contacting your Twins, instead of endlessly pondering the “right” move. The “right” move is whatever your heart desires, but you cannot see that when your fear is greater than your love. The interactions would also go differently. You cannot control them, but sometimes, in your consistent, pure, loving vibration, you elicit a more heart centered response from them, and you also free yourself of guilt, fear and pain. But imagine if both parties were 100% self loving, the issues keeping you apart would vanish. It must begin with you.
You can’t help what they are doing. You cannot change their mind. You cannot force their hand, but you can do what is best for yourself. You can be your own lover and you can show yourself love by allowing yourself to be open to a mutually loving relationship that serves your highest good. Love isn’t supposed to be hard. It’s only hard when you haven’t learned to love yourself. To be stuck on someone is to hope that they will change. This is the opposite of accepting what is. This is the opposite of trust. This is the opposite of trusting all as Divine. The Twin Flame isn’t about changing anyone else. It’s about changing yourself. On this Twin Flame journey, if you take an action with one goal in mind, that goal being to somehow lead to your Twin Flame changing their mind about you, the action you have taken is not pure. You cannot do it. You have to move beyond that. You have to begin taking actions that are for yourself, serving you. Apart from what you hope to gain from your Twin. Apart from your fears of losing them. You simply can’t factor that in anymore. It’s out of your control. So then, what are you left with? Just you. And, what are you going to do? Do You.
The only thing I am asking you to do is release your resistance. Stop making your circumstances problematic. Stop wishing they were different. Be in your life now, and you will move through it.
It doesn’t start to come together until you begin seeing, through your interactions with new people, that you could actually start a new life. New Life only means New Standpoint. I am not saying that you cannot reunite with your Twin Flame. I am not saying that you can or cannot do anything, but here is what I am saying. Whether you “Move on” and create a new, happy life or not, is not going to change the Twin Flame destiny. The best way to increase your chances of Twin Flame Union is to stop resisting it with your needy cry for them. To stop suffering because of the reunion that hasn’t occurred. No good can come from that. You can never know what is going to happen, truly. But, you can create a beautiful life. You can love again. You can be happy.
You may not even make it into the action part, the important part is that you vibrationally line up with it. That’s the only way to let Destiny play out. You gotta be unconditional.
There is nothing better that you can do, and if Reunion is in the cards for you, it will happen at it’s own accord. It will fall into place. The Universe will orchestrate it. But one thing is for sure, it won’t happen because you forced it. It won’t happen because you pleaded, bargained, suffered and cried. So, with that said, you may as well spend every moment wisely and become a vibration that radiates love, joy and peace, if you ever are going to line up with those things that you desire. All that you desire can be obtained, just not in the way that you think. There is not enough tears in the world to make the Universe bring back your Twin Flame. Start Over. Do anything and everything that you need to do for yourself. For Yourself.
Become a self loving being and you will attract others that love you. Appreciate yourself and you will attract others that appreciate you. This will give you the best chance that you have in this life to attract the things that you want. Twin Flame or not. Don’t put limitations on the Universe. Don’t do it. Surrender. Start over and focus on you. Be your own lover. Court yourself and surround yourself with others who treat you the way that you want to be treated.
We all say that we love ourselves, but look at your life and ask; Am I Loving Myself Enough?
If your Twin Flame isn’t treating you with love, respect and total admiration, then this is your first test. Let them loose from your mind. The fact that you want a person who doesn’t demonstrate that they are wanting you is a sure indicator of a deficiency in self love. Again, I am not saying that you cannot be reunited. Anything can happen. But it’s funny how things change when your perspective changes. There are energetic Laws and spiritual communications at play here, that I am not here to explain, but I am telling you how to make them work for you. You can’t wait around and reserve your life until the Universe gives in. It won’t happen that way. Go out there and get everything out of this life that you can. That is when love will come to you in the fullest. Surrender, trust, believe, and most of all, love.
There is great love here for you.
Yes, I do Twin Flame Readings.