There are two energies that you can have towards a person.
One is the energy of
#1- “What am I going to do for you?”
The other is:
#2- “What are you going to do for me?”
They are very different.
Are you listening to the tells?
Energy #1 says that the person is willing, open and ready. That they are not only receptive, but willing to give of themselves. They aren’t so preoccupied with convincing themselves that they are worthy that they can’t relax and just enjoy being with you. The #2 energy is always asking “Is this good for me? Is this good enough for me? What would be better? Can I find something better?” Therefore, they will keep you around, but only long enough to find the next thing that sparks their interest and nothing that you do for them will be good enough. They might say thank you, but they will never be truly appreciative, because of course, they are better than anything you could possibly dish out. They are entitled little bastards, not ready for love. I once cooked a meal for a man, he was nice enough. Chilean sea bass is what I made and I made two gourmet sauces to go with it. It was a beautiful, carefully cooked and delicious meal. But the first thing he said when I served him and we sat down to eat is that I gave him the wrong fork. Are you fucking kidding me? That was a huge tell… can you guess his energy? “What are you going to do for me?”. There’s no gratitude there. Get rid of those energies as soon as you spot them. They will drain you fast and cause a lot of frustration.
The #2 energy says that they are only in it for themselves and no relationship can prosper that way. It can be very easy to identify either energy in a person. Sometimes, it’s harder than others to figure out which side of the fence they are on and sometimes, you can know just by looking at a person, or by the first thing that they say. Think about intention. A person who is too driven by their own neediness is not going to be the person who is looking out for you, because they are too busy looking out for themselves. The guy who tries to kiss you on the first night you meet and doesn’t pay attention to the fact that you’ve been trying to brush him off is only out for himself. A person who is looking out for you, wouldn’t miss those messages and wouldn’t go in for the kiss out of respect for what your energy has told him. A person who compliments you, but acts like he is the one who deems you good enough to spend time with. One guy said to me “Since I am an awesome judge of character and I think you’re really cool…” We don’t need to hear the rest, this guy is a douchebag. lol He doesn’t even have the decency to give you credit without giving himself credit first. Some people feel entitled. It’s like a high horse, spoiled kind of energy. They put themselves on a pedestal and they’re always on the lookout to see if you’re “Good enough” to share space with them. Look for this energy and when you see it, run! This energy isn’t going to change. Most people who carry one or the other, aren’t going to change it. They don’t know how.
Look at the energy of “What am I going to do for you?” They are always more subtle, because they are showing that they are gentle, as to not disturb you. It is a conscientious energy. They are thinking of you, first. As opposed to energy #2, where they are thinking of you second. Big difference.
Don’t get me wrong, everyone has to lookout for themselves, but some people are appreciative and some people aren’t. Some people have better intentions than others. Some people are more selfish than others. I am just telling you how to eliminate a bad energy off the bat to help your process of elimination when you are selecting a potential partner.
It’s in the little things. Don’t forget that.
A person who’s dominant vibration is always asking what they can get out of you is a natural thrill seeker. There are many variables when it comes to energy, but in general, the thrill seeker is out for thrill more than anything else. Which means, you’re never going to be #1.
It is possible to manage to have a strong soul connection with a person like this to where it is meant to be. But, please take note that if this happens, their energy towards you would flip. They would take on the energy of “What am I going to do for you?”. If this is not the energy they have, a relationship cannot be comfortably sustained. The right person will have this energy with you, even if they didn’t previously have it in prior relationships.
Some people think I analyze too much. I’m an advanced am path and I know that everything means something. Tells don’t lie. They tell the truth that is hidden. Go with your gut instinct. If you are nervous, turned off or walking on eggshells, your initial impression is the correct impression. I promise you that.
On this Full Moon, there’s a lot of emphasis on relationships in the astrology. It’s do or die. choose your destiny wisely!
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