This is a big predicament that many Twin Flames face today. What if the other is married?
The simple answer: It’s not going to change anything. But, this point of view could lighten your load….
If your TF is not ready to be with you, then marriage will just be an excuse to postpone the inevitable. Not that it isn’t a truly complicated situation, but, if they want to leave, nothing can stop them, and if they want to be with you, nothing can stop them.
I think the most important thing about this particular situation that I want to impart is to
Towards them, towards yourself and towards their spouse.
You have to understand that there was something wrong in the marriage before you came along.
The truth is that most marriages are not happy ones. Most people who stay within a marriage are doing so for reasons other than Love or happiness. This is also the case in most Twin Flame situations, with some exceptions. I sometimes see Twin Flames who are within marriages because they are comfortable or because they haven’t worked up the gumption to leave yet, but then, they meet the Twin Flame who reminds them of something very important that is missing in their marriage. A reminder that happiness can be had, and should be.
Many marriages have emotionally ended before the Twin Flame comes into the picture. Just because the physical act of divorce has not occurred, does not make this any less true. Quite often, the marriage was already done for, But with little motivation to change the status quo, it often does not change. For some reason, humans undergo massive amounts of difficulty when it comes to initiating and following through with big changes. It often follows that the Universe sends situations, experiences and people to help catalyze the inevitable changes.
Since Twin Flames are here to accelerate themselves into evolutionary growth, this makes sense that they would catalyze each other to catapult forward when there is stagnation in their lives. The Twin Flame should never feel guilty or wrong about interfering in a marriage. That is hardly ever the case. Happy, destined marriages cannot be broken up. But, we need to push ourselves. That it’s ok to want more, and to go for more, and to grow and change your mind and follow your joy no matter what others think about it. There are levels of self love being activated and called upon whenever we are facing this tricky marriage situation. The Universe is bringing to your attention your true desires. It is your choice to follow them or to ignore the heart’s call.
We have created old paradigms of permanence that are actually hindering us now. the idea of having to stay within a marriage for moral reasons is outdated and it only serves to keep us in 3D fear based thinking. If a person is staying within a marriage for moral, obligatory or fear based reasons, they are not doing anyone any favors. They are only resisting change and their own joy.
Sometimes, people feel trapped in a marriage. But that is limited thinking. The idea of limitation is not acknowledging that you are a walking Universe or that you are the creator of your reality. Come out of that, already! So many of us are evolved, doing marvelous things, yet we cannot pass this simple test to follow our joy, because societal norms have made it difficult. We are Twin Flames, get over it. We are not meant to be stuck, we are meant to grow and blossom at lightning speeds! Make it happen! Forget “Societal Norms”, your fears of the future and your guilt. Stop saying “what if?” and simply live. Follow the path of least resistance. The path of least resistance is always your joy, but if you are allowing 3D ideas to make your joy seem impossible or difficult to follow, that is your own block to overcome, not anyone else’s.
We need to have trust in the Universe and equal love for ourselves and others. Those are major qualities that the Twin Flame experience is cultivating within us.
I am not advising you to do anything except this… Examine your motives and then act.
Whether you are choosing to stay or choosing to go, ask yourself:
Am I doing this out of motivation to gain?
Am I doing this out of Fear of losing?
Am I doing this because its the most Loving, Courageous action?
You already know that love is the purest and best motivator. If this is not your reason for your action or inaction, it is your calling to adjust your thinking so that you can pursue your highest and most purposeful path.
Now, make it happen! No excuses! We are warriors and protectors of the heart, and that includes ourselves. Protect your heart and if you have truly met your Twin Flame, you will protect theirs as well.
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