Joy is the First Sign of Union (Blocks to Joy)

Joy is the First Sign of Union (Blocks to Joy)

Channeled Via Benevolence


Within this Twin Flame Journey, which changes us forever, we have ebb and flow that seems to never relent. The tide comes in and the tide goes out. Waves come and waves go, always bringing a new thought or perspective. For, this is a path of growth. A path of accelerated evolution in consciousness. This is why you find yourself pondering so much. Re-thinking and thinking ahead, even spinning for much of the time. The mind races to find a solution, but we all know that the only solution is you. The only riddle that needs solving is you. For, you are the great attractor of what you manifest. You get ALL the credit. Good, bad, desired, undesired and all that which comes between. We are all here to help you along. You have no idea how much assistance is waiting for you to call upon it. We are at your fingertips and at your service. We are a benevolent bunch. Friends, Family, we have always watched over you and always will. For, you are not alone here. We know how disconnected and alone it can feel to be incarnate here in the 3D, but we are ever present, never relenting our guidance that you may trust. You see, there is something you need to understand.

You will not always understand why a thing turned out the way that it did. Does that mean that it was for no reason? You will not always like the outcome that you see, does that mean it is not benevolent?

For, we see clearer, and farther, and bigger than you do from your state. When you were in our shoes, before you came, you did too. You saw the big picture, and you agreed that it was good. It is the reason you are here to participate. But much of your knowledge is now gone. You only see from a linear view and you cannot see all the results and ripples that we do. You can see where you have learned a valuable lesson from a negative experience, but only when finding that good is your focus. This is one thing we are wanting to tell you. To look for the good more often. Focus on finding the positive effects more often. Instead of thinking the worst, why not think the best?

You have no idea how good it is that you miss out on some things that you think you would have enjoyed.  Does your disappointment mean you have not dodged a bullet? We know otherwise…

Timing is everything…

…And if  a thing does not turn out in the way that you think you wanted it to, why do you throw your hands up and take it upon yourself to say that it is over?.. That you will never get what you want? You are the one who has the most limited view. This does not mean that, just because you cannot see what is around the corner, that it won’t be what you prefer. However, when you decide that the future does not hold what you want, so the Universe must bend to your will. But, if that is the case, why not decide that the future does hold what you want?

Sometimes, things do not happen on your clock. When it comes to Twin Flames, it is never on your clock. You want immediate results, immediate manifestation. You want to reach the finish line immediately. We understand this, but it is the desire that can work either for you, or against you…

You see, a desire can make the unfolding that much sweeter, or, it can hold it from you altogether. Let us explain this difference, so that you may use it to your advantage..

The basis for this is your understanding of the Universe. If you understand that your desire   is a calling which has already manifested and that all you have to do is line up with it. And that the Universe which creates worlds is orchestrating everything in your favor, that everything is working out for you, you will proceed with poise and calm as you savor the gentle unfolding of your manifestation. There is much less resistance here. Perhaps it would be a small roller coater of excitement and anticipation, but it would be a delight, all the way through to the end. There is not doubt if you know these things. There is no fear, for fear is a lie unto itself.

Fear has no power, no basis in reality. Doubt and fear are nothing but thought forms.


The truth is benevolence. The truth is that you are creator. The truth us that you can have all that you desire and all that you desire has already manifested. The truth is that it is your fear, doubt, feelings of unworthiness or rightness which are holding you apart from that which you seek. And then, you blame the universe….

Let us paint a picture for you. Instead of feeling nervous, you feel a calm sense of excitement. Eagerness to see how things will go. Your ears are wide open. You are not distracted. You hear every word. You notice every move. You feel every emotion and reaction. There is connection. You are enjoying seeing how things flow and looking forward to see what tomorrow will hold. This is fun. This is joy. This is power. Power because there is no doubt. Only a deep seated knowing that “Everything is working out for me, and I can’t wait to see what that looks like”. This is a game, this is fun. When something doesn’t go your way, you look for the next fun thing to do and as a result of not dwelling in sadness, you bounce back quickly, and the situation does too.

You know the reality that you have been living. Does it look like that? It seems that we are all upset over something. So upset, that it takes years of constant purging, and healing, and fixing and targeting the problem, finding the problem, eradicating the problem in order to figure out what we are doing wrong. Well, all of this only puts more emphasis on the wrongness of things. We are where we are. Let us make peace with that. But, the more that you know everything is perfect and nothing needs fixing, only realizing that it is perfect and in perfect hands, the more you realize who and what you are, the power that you have and that nothing needs fixing, only realizing.

There are many of you who are playing two sides to the middle. If you could see yourselves from a different set of eyes, you would see what we mean, but you cannot. You can only see through the eyes of your own perspective and experience through your own consciousness. This makes it difficult for you to see the severity of what you are doing compared with others who are not doing what you are doing. Many of you are practicing negative thoughts on a very regular basis, but when you speak to others, you are giving your insight and denying to yourself that your mind is spinning the way that it is. So, there is a disconnect between the actual habitat of your consciousness and your recognition of it. This is not a problem, except that what you want is change and change only comes when first you have become aware of what it is that you are doing that you would like to change. It is not important or helpful to deny the reality of your thoughts. It is important to recognize the reality of your thoughts. Some of you are blocked to this recognition. That is why it does you a great service to work with a person who can bring to light those patterns that you are not readily recognizing within yourself. This is one way that being vulnerable, open and honest with another can assist you on your journey of most growth.

If you are unsure what you are thinking or if anything needs to change, simply look at what is manifested for you. If you would like to change something, then a change in thought is in order and must come first.

If a manifestation is long-incoming for you, then there is a belief within you that is not benevolent. You do not have to fish out every belief. You do not have to dig and purge and repeat forevermore. You simply have to replace these beliefs with new ones. You simply have to start thinking new thoughts. Be deliberate. Find words that feel truly good and practice them. Speak nicely to yourself and care for yourself. If there is something that you want, know you can have it! In every thought, word and deed, reaffirm the knowing that everything is working out for me and everything that I want is coming, and watch how life unfolds once you make this your new, vibrational standpoint.

Joy is the first step to Twin Flame Union or any Love union for that matter. Joy let’s you know you’re on the path.  It ends in joy and therefore, it must begin in joy. So, make it a point to en-joy.

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