Can You Love Unconditionally?

Can You Love Unconditionally?

“Friends say I’m crazy cuz easily I fall in Love…” -Janet Jackson

People see love as weakness. As an inconvenience, as a sin, as betrayal. To fall in love easily is seen as an undesirable trait.

The problem is that people don’t know what love is.

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When you say you fall in love easily, what you really mean is that you get attached easily. But love and attachment are in fact, opposites.
I can tell you what it’s truly like to fall in love easily, because I fall in love easily, and it’s not an undesirable fate. When I fall in love, I do it without attachment. It’s amazing, it’s wonderful, it’s immense, it’s intense, and then, it’s gone. It comes and goes like breath. In and out, like the cycles of everything else on the planet. One cannot be stagnant forever. It is the differences in our moments that determine so much of their quality. Love doesn’t really come and go, just the moments do, and when you’re not attached, you can allow yourself to flow through each moment as you should. In the moment. Whatever that moment means to you it can mean for you. Love isn’t meant to disable or distract. It’s meant to be a natural state of ease, of clarity, of appreciation. Love doesn’t keep you from living your life, it just gently nudges you here or there…Like a cosmic wink. Love says “this is good”.truth

I love so easily. Because I know that love doesn’t mean anything that most humans associate it with. It doesn’t mean sex, it doesn’t mean being together, it doesn’t mean marriage, it doesn’t mean children, it doesn’t mean white Pickett fence or future. Love doesn’t even mean attention. Love is love. That’s it. When you associate it with all those other things, now you see what your real problem is. It was never love. Just your associations with it. Can you love outside of your attachment to all of those associations? Can you love without chasing Union? Can you love without needing attention? Can you love without wanting a future? Can you love without possession? Can you love without expectation? Without making demands? Without assuming that the other must behave a certain way? And if they don’t behave that certain way that your little heart will be broken? This is not love, this is decades of sore misunderstanding. Love is the energy of the Universe. It fills every place you are willing to not get in the way. These Twin Flame connections are meant to show you one very important thing. That your current paradigm doesn’t work!! You are all upset because your twin won’t be with you, they won’t call you, they won’t pay attention to you, they won’t have a relationship with you. What’s any of that got to do with love? You can’t put your Twin Flame relationship in the same box you put all your other relationships in, because, it won’t fit. Only when you embrace and exercise love in all the ways it DOES come, without thought of all the ways you don’t see it coming, only then can you enjoy this unconventional, new paradigm Love. It’s a new kind of love that calls for a new kind of acceptance. A higher point of view. Let’s be responsible for once. We’ve all been unwilling to change. We’ve all been wanting our Twin Flame Love to behave itself. If it did, you’d never come to know what Unconditional Love is all about. And what it’s not about. When love finds you, dwell in it. When the object of your love leaves your sight, it is still there. We are spiritual infants. We didn’t know that just because we can’t see it, doesn’t mean it isn’t there. Well, it’s time to know it, and know it well. Many of you are married or with other lovers, or dealing with a Flame who is. When the flame comes around, milk the love, enjoy the love, bask in the love. When the object of love leaves (physically or emotionally) understand, the love has not gone. You are the love. Love simply is. Be the love. Know abundance, not lack. Live your moments for yourself. Be your own object of your loving attention. When the object returns, wonderful. But you will find, with time and with mastery, that your objects of love become more than one. More fluid, more flexible and more abundant. And that the more fluid and changeable you become, within the art of surrendering to loves eternal ebb and flow, the more in love you can be, all of the time, with anyone and with yourself, all of the time.

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2 thoughts on “Can You Love Unconditionally?

  1. Oof! Kinda hits you (& by “you” I mean “me”) in the boo-boo, don’t it?! Thanks so much for that, Elise. & big love to you!🔥 đź’–

  2. Thank you Elise, I found you through your readings and resonate with you. I have been almost mindless trying to work out wtf was going on between me my husband and I my supposed only twin flame.
    I adore my husband we have been together since I was 18 and he was 21 we are now 40 & 42
    My supposed twin flame STF was my first love met at me 14 him 15.
    He has been a huge catalyst for my husband and I.
    Every time he got back in contact it led to a huge learning experience for my husband and i , made me evaluate question and reinforce my connection with my husband and I always chose my husband.
    Yet I have this connection with my STF that drove me insane.
    Thinking about him, dreaming about him, meeting him in the 5d where our union is beyond heavenly.
    My STF and I have been in constant on-line for a year now and have met 3 times never any physical contact other than a hug and a peck on the cheek, he is married too.
    He has made me face my past and reveal my hidden parts to my husband.
    The night I told my husband about a huge part of my life I was ashamed of and had never spoke of before convinced he would leave me and it led to the most wonderful week of our relationship, we could not stop kissing touching hugging making love (with 3 children this can be frustrating) we gazed at each other constantly.
    My husband who does not meditate but is open to spirituality as a concept had a vision during this week of intense love.
    We were lay in bed cuddled up, and I had fallen asleep.
    Previous to this I hate being touched whilst trying to sleep and never allowed it.
    He told me he saw us rise from the bed our faces pressed together and as we ascended spinning the atmosphere was filled with a colour he said he had never seen before, I asked if it was rose pink, a colour I use in my clearing, and love to fill my aura with, the colour of love, he was astounded.
    Yes he cried it was exactly that!
    I have had past life visions with my STF and my husband being very close, best friends, lovers etc I once left on ship and my STF was my lover being comforted by my present life husband, his past life best friend.
    I have always had this sense that the 3 of us are hugely connected.
    My husbands birthday 11/7/74 day month year
    My STF birthday
    7/7/75 day month year
    My birthday
    28/8/76 day month year
    My son, given a name I had chosen with my STF at 14, by me whilst being brought round from a full sedation c-section, despite my husband and I having chosen a different one!
    His birthday
    My son is the Union of all three of us I am convinced.
    My STF and my husband share a first name.
    I’ve been terrified after reading the conventional twin flame theories that this could not be true.
    That I would end up leaving my husband despite living him so unconditionally.
    And now I know that’s not true, I can continue to love my husband unconditionally.
    Have my STF in my life at the level it is now or not at all.
    And it is joyful.
    Love flows through me at a breathtaking pace.

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