ATTRACT UNION WITH FOCUS

ATTRACT UNION WITH FOCUS

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MANIFEST TWIN FLAME UNION
SECTION 3 – ATTRACT UNION WITH FOCUS

YOU WILL FIND:
1- Why Are They Running??
2- How To Stop Chasing & Create an Energy That They Don’t Have To Run From
3- Elicit The Empowered Version of Your Twin
4- Why You Can’t “Help” Your Twin
5- How To Focus Through The Eyes of Love
And More…

A Surefire way to lift your spirits, Your Vibration, Your Focus, and get you back on track, even when you feel down. Reinforcing Your Ability to Look Through The Eyes of Love and Union, Regardless any Circumstance, and Bringing To Light How Alignment With Love and Union Occurs. Giving You Practical Application Steps that Meet You Where You Are, and Getting Down To Earth About How to Accomplish Love in REALITY. It’s all about EMPOWERMENT!! You Have all the Power, You Have The Choice to Align, No Matter the Circumstances. You are The God and Creator of Your Union. The Idea is To Empower You FULLY into that Knowledge and Root it Within Your Consciousness in A Way That is Going To Make it Easily Applicable For YOU. Manifest Union With FOCUS.

 

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What is a Twin Flame? (Is your definition helping you?)

What is a Twin Flame? (Is your definition helping you?)

There is no Universally agreed upon definition of Twin Flame, Except that it is something ideal, something wanted and something very good. So, why make it more complicated than that? The main service this video is going to provide for you is helping you to make sure your definitions aren’t working against you!

(Teal Swan Explanation of Twin Flames)

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Identifying the Right Energy in a Potential Partner

Identifying the Right Energy in a Potential Partner

There are two energies that you can have towards a person.

One is the energy of

#1- “What am I going to do for you?”

The other is:

#2- “What are you going to do for me?”

They are very different.

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Are you listening to the tells?

Energy #1 says that the person is willing, open and ready. That they are not only receptive, but willing to give of themselves. They aren’t so preoccupied with convincing themselves that they are worthy that they can’t relax and just enjoy being with you. The #2 energy is always asking “Is this good for me? Is this good enough for me? What would be better? Can I find something better?” Therefore, they will keep you around, but only long enough to find the next thing that sparks their interest and nothing that you do for them will be good enough. They might say thank you, but they will never be truly appreciative, because of course, they are better than anything you could possibly dish out. They are entitled little bastards, not ready for love. I once cooked a meal for a man, he was nice enough. Chilean sea bass is what I made and I made two gourmet sauces to go with it. It was a beautiful, carefully cooked and delicious meal. But the first thing he said when I served him and we sat down to eat is that I gave him the wrong fork. Are you fucking kidding me? That was a huge tell… can you guess his energy? “What are you going to do for me?”. There’s no gratitude there. Get rid of those energies as soon as you spot them. They will drain you fast and cause a lot of frustration.

The #2  energy says that they are only in it for themselves and no relationship can prosper that way. It can be very easy to identify either energy in a person. Sometimes, it’s harder than others to figure out which side of the fence they are on and sometimes, you can know just by looking at a person, or by the first thing that they say. Think about intention. A person who is too driven by their own  neediness is not going to be the person who is looking out for you, because they are too busy looking out for themselves. The guy who tries to kiss you on the first night you meet and doesn’t pay attention to the fact that you’ve been trying to brush him off is only out for himself. A person who is looking out for you, wouldn’t miss those messages and wouldn’t go in for the kiss out of respect for what your energy has told him. A person who compliments you, but acts like he is the one who deems you good enough to spend time with. One guy said to me “Since I am an awesome judge of character and I think you’re really cool…” We don’t need to hear the rest, this guy is a douchebag. lol He doesn’t even have the decency to give you credit without giving himself credit first. Some people feel entitled. It’s like a high horse, spoiled kind of energy. They put themselves on a pedestal and they’re always on the lookout to see if you’re “Good enough” to share space with them. Look for this energy and when you see it, run! This energy isn’t going to change. Most people who carry one or the other, aren’t going to change it. They don’t know how.

Look at the energy of “What am I going to do for you?” They are always more subtle, because they are showing that they are gentle, as to not disturb you. It is a conscientious energy. They are thinking of you, first. As opposed to  energy #2, where they are thinking of you second.  Big difference.

Don’t get me wrong, everyone has to lookout for themselves, but some people are appreciative and some people aren’t. Some people have better intentions than others. Some people are more selfish than others. I am just telling you how to eliminate a bad energy off the bat to help your process of elimination when you are selecting a potential partner.

It’s in the little things. Don’t forget that.

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A person who’s dominant vibration is always asking what they can get out of you is a natural thrill seeker. There are many variables when it comes to energy, but in general, the thrill seeker is out for thrill more than anything else. Which means, you’re never going to be #1.

It is possible to manage to have a strong soul connection with a person like this to where it is meant to be. But, please take note that if this happens, their energy towards you would flip. They would take on the energy of “What am I going to do for you?”. If this is not the energy they have, a relationship cannot be comfortably sustained. The right person will have this energy with you, even if they didn’t previously have it in prior relationships.

Some people think I analyze too much. I’m an advanced am path and I know that everything means something. Tells don’t lie. They tell the truth that is hidden. Go with your gut instinct. If you are nervous, turned off or walking on eggshells, your initial impression is the correct impression. I promise you that.

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On this Full Moon, there’s a lot of emphasis on relationships in the astrology. It’s do or die. choose your destiny wisely!

Thank you!

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How To Attract Union (Part 1) Dan and Elise, Our Fist Video Together!

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Twin Flame Separation; Separation Explained at a Cosmic Level

Twin Flame Separation; Separation Explained at a Cosmic Level

Channeled Via Unity Consciousness

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“In my last post, regarding the Energy Report for September 2015 on, this was something completely new and seemed out of my realm. Everything else that I channel regarding Soulmates, Emotion, Blocks, Energy, Laws of the Universe, Cosmic References and Understandings, I have a very comprehensive foundation and experience for. But in my previous post, the intelligence and  the content, that I was channeling was unfamiliar to me,  although it was an easy message to relay, just the same. The process was very similar and the communication was the same. I think that I will be channeling the same intelligence as I have before, in this blog, along with many, many other types of intelligences. Apparently, I have figured this out before now, hence the term “Unity Consciousness”. The point is that I immediately noticed the new energy shift has made new connections more readily available to us and let us all graciously accept the gifts of knowledge and the evolutionary gems coming through to us at this time.”

-Elise

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Good day to all,

There is a reality that is part of the dynamics of what occurs here on Planet Earth that is very easy to regard, once you understand it, but without this reference, it is the reason that many of you are having experiences which represent things that are the opposite of what you prefer and opposite of desirable in a very pungent and powerful way.

We would like to draw attention to a very powerful fact among you… 

That you must have experiences in an exaggerated way in order to achieve the same understandings in very subtle, and even minuscule ways.

All of the humans question the agonizing pain that you must bear. “Why? Why must I endure this? What have I done to deserve this? I don’t want to go through this.” Yet, it is not your value which condemns you to such things, but your desire to evolve and grow that fueled the mechanics of the transitions you have made.

Why so tragic? Why so painful? Why must it happen this way? Well, in fact, it does not have to happen this way, as, with the transitions of mankind that are in the making, pain will become obsolete on this Planet and all that come through here will choose to learn in very different ways than the ones that came before.

This is indeed out of your choosing, as all of the Earth experiences are out of your choosing. But yet, it seems, we are approaching the better parts of the millenniums until now.

All choices are valid. Including that of Separation.

Separation is a Universal concept. Separation between light and dark, of evil an good, it is the illusion that you can be apart from something, but the very word “A-Part” tells a very different story. Words will begin to come into clearer view as numbers do and you will begin to interpret the codes of truth that they hold innately.

Separation of lovers is the most epic of all. Going down in histories repeated in an uncharted numbers of ways. Even the Sun and the Moon are in love, according to the stories that humankind has told, and that all is fine, for all that there is, is a metaphor for love.

Twin Souls/Flames, United as one, separated for the purpose of becoming, only to join again, once more, as a fuller, more expanded version than ever before. Forever seeking one another, for they can never really part. The story of love, belonging and completeness indeed. To become whole is only possible when the truths of divinity are lost, for one can never be incomplete. All is a discovery of the divine within. The divine which already exists as complete. But, what fun is that? To always be same, always be the lightest, brightest, most sublime of all.

Even the Sun would forget itself if given only one option to perceive itself, eternally, from its own eyes that cannot perceive it’s own magnificent glow.

To be the light is one thing. To see what being the light among darkness means in an experiential way, is another.

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Sometimes it is better to forget, discover and repeat, as we have all done, many times before. Separation is actually a divine gift, as all things in creation are an extended representation of supreme perfection. Discovery and adventure are so exciting!! Playing games in ways that have never before been done! Even perfection cannot have a peak, the only constant is change. Therefore, all is perfection, playing out in multitudes of ways. It is your understandings of truth that twist the tale. Separation assists us in knowing ourselves in terms of experience. Your ability to experience and create experience is limitless, but the most ideal and rewarding in this life, for the light workers of the planet is to shed the detours created by ideas which come from being unaware and to simply realize what you are.

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Up to now, many of you have chosen to take on experience, as a way to gain knowledge in the most masterful way possible. To see the experience of another is one way to perceive. To experience for yourself provides far more understanding and is the foundation for that which you know as empathy. Empathy is the soul of compassion, in this realm. Most of you that are here on Earth have had quite enough experience to provide you with sufficient empathic ability and understanding. The empathic traits which have at times, seemed like somewhat of a burden, are a cornerstone for that which is to come. The worst part is over. Learning through experiencing separation is over. We can all shift into love now, because the contrast we all have known has fueled the Collective desire for light, love and harmony. That desire will be fulfilled, because of all of you and your experiences with contrast on Planet Earth. Earth will eventually be an experiential Heaven. For, there has never been a Heaven like this before. Formed over so many “Years” (in your time) of sifting through the contrast. Because of your great emotional experiences of pain, you can have compassion for the smallest of things. You can learn to take notice of the slightest shift in energies, because you have learned to care. This was much needed in order for the rest to unfold and the best is yet to come. Keep learning, keep seeking, keep perfecting your mastery. You will need every piece you can gather. Leave none behind.

Thank you, All,

For being Masters of your craft.

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Your visions are energy permeating throughout everything you create. The way that you choose to see things becomes the form that they take. Remember this at all times, when you are with me, whatever you think of me, I will do. This is true for energies, persons and circumstances alike. The situation may not change, nor a person, but when u look at it differently, u see it differently, therefore, it does change, even if only in your experience of it.

Because we know not what we are, since we have chosen to forget, one must look intentionally, so to awaken to the self, divine nature, divine god and goddess within.

All who desire to see the truth within themselves will.

It does require choosing to be unattached to what you think you already know.

Preconcieved ideas, beliefs and interpretations of truth serve as blocks to inheriting further depths of truth and understanding. Detachment from mind is essential in allowing for new to come in.

Every day can hold epiphanies. But that cannot happen in the biggest way possible if you are not allowing or willing to be accepting of the new that wants to come in.

Since humans have come into Planet earth without recollection of what you are, you don’t make the connection between what we have created and the energies within, which have so masterfully created it. This is example of being unaware. The cosmic equivalent of a zombie. He is walking through, he may even have a goal in mind, but he is completely unaware of why, Unaware of himself and unaware of his power. Although, obviously, he is utilizing his power, still quite unaware and unaware of the potential he possesses.

We sit in the center of our individual universe.  It’s like, all you know is 98.6 degrees core body temp, so you do not notice this as different. you don’t even take notice of it at all. this is your baseline and to be so familiar makes you essentially, blind to it. Same with your energy patterns, familiar voices and patterns of thought. They are all you know, they are so home to you, you can be experiencing them, right in the middle of them and be unable to identify them, nor the culprit, nor the result of your very creation.

Separation is a tool. It makes things fun. It is never to “teach you a lesson” and it’s never about what the Universe wants. It’s always about what you want. For, you are the Universe. You wanted the experience of separation. That is the only reason you are in it. Congratulations on your achievement, you’re there. Only now, you want love.

That is perfectly fine!! The lot of you, however, are making up reasons why you can’t have love, why you are aren’t ready, why you still have things to learn and why the other person isn’t ready, or why it’s out of your control. It’s never out of your control. But if you tell yourself that it’s obvious you have some learning to do, instead of stepping into your mastery, you will create a process of being an eternal student and time will pass where you will be in separation, instead of love, for reasons that you made up in the first place!

You wanted separation, only to rekindle the fire of Love. Once you are in separation, that is achieved and there is no reason to continue in separation. So, none of you are in separation because you are “Supposed” to be. There is no such thing. You create everything. To not realize this is to still be a zombie, as we are all born with some levels of zombie, like, unawareness.

“Who am I to resist what the Universe wants?”

-Elise

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It is never the intention of the Universe to punish you.  To make your life difficult is never the point. Actually, everything that has been put before you is to make your life easier. When you allow yourself to see it that way and have the faith to a degree that causes you to go where the flow takes you, then you will see that for yourself! That everything is here to assist you, and your current standpoint actually is the only problem you could ever come up against!

The Universe is completely about fun, and so are you. It would be nice if you would finally see that as ok. Planet Earth has been a realm filled with a great deal of resistance, up to this point. For different reasons, the point is that Earth is coming to a point where resistance will no longer dominate, and you will see for yourselves how easy it is to work in Unison with the Universe. You will see all of the things you have been hearing about such as following your joy and flowing with the Universe, finally, as your own experiential understanding. What a wonderful shift this will be for you all!

You need to know that separation is all part of the fun and that you are not condemned to stay in separation for any length of time. For, the moment you desire Union, separation has done its job. The job of making Union even more epic and sweet. You do not have to hang out in separation any longer to experience that. The only reason you do perpetuate that is because you have made up a story to explain your perceived lack of manifestation. Well, if you did not feel the need to create a story of why you are not in Union, and focus upon it, you would, in fact, attract Union much faster.

”You are arguing for your limitations.”

-Abraham Hicks

Not realizing who you are presents a problem, only because, this is what precedes the processes and ideas of unworthiness, guilt and doubt creep into your consciousness and gain momentum. Many of you are very quick to think “What am I doing wrong?”… which then must yield some type of response, since you are calling it forth.

If you spin to the point that you have to “Find out why” you attracted or did not attract a thing, an answer will come to you and the whole thing is quite amusing to us, as we see that you then create a “problem” with your story. A problem which could have otherwise been bypassed if you did not create it and choose to support the perpetuation of it, yourself.

You see, you will create anything that you call to you, in accordance with your exact vibratory order. If you are calling a “Reason” for not being good enough or spiritual enough or not manifesting a thing, a reason will come to you at some point. You are calling it in. You are creating understanding. Even if the understanding that you call in is only supported by you, you have that right, to see whatever it is that you want or choose to see in yourself. The Universe will not stop you and neither will your guidance, from creating a story, even if it isn’t real.

It gets complicated, but we will break it down. Truth is your divine nature. You have believed many things besides that, so, based upon this, you can see that what we are saying is true. That you can attract ideas or streams of thought to support anything you want to support. Truth or lie, alignment or misalignment is up to your choosing.

Now that you have attained greater levels of awareness, you have more things to consciously choose from. So choose the truth of the divine. Choose the cosmos. Choose the truths that support the greatest outcomes. Anything that does not support ideal outcomes, simply cannot be “Truth”, because the Universe is ALWAYS in support of highest and most ideal outcomes as a baseline. The Universe is always perfection, always divine, always light, always love, always working for you, to bring your most highest desires to you. You are the only missing component at any given time, not the rest of the world.

The Solution

Be Solution Oriented

vs.

Problem Oriented

The point of all this we are wanting to make is that the problems you create can serve a purpose, but they can also be bypassed just the same, to yield all the results you want in a swift and almost immediate fashion.

The key is not adopting the limiting beliefs which slowed you down in the first place.

The minute that you identify a negative/limiting belief and that you do not neutralize it, you are reinforcing the thought, or “adopting” it.

Processes and ways are many. We are only offering a few.

If you simply do not adopt limiting belief systems, you are already there.

Already evolved, already perfect and trauma, separation, “figuring it out”, “trying too hard”, going through process, none of that has to be a part of your experience. You do not have to go through process in order to get what you want. It has simply been the most common way for humans on Planet Earth, until now.

What if you already have limiting beliefs in place?

Keep reading….

At this point, many of you are thinking to yourselves that perhaps you identify a problem because there is one and it needs to be addressed, but to identify a problem in order to address it, really works to perpetuate any existing problem. Drawing attention to a problem will not extinguish it, only drawing attention to the solution is the solution. All of this would take a very conscious awareness for you to actually catch yourself thinking a thought that is the root of any negative manifestation and to immediately begin to neutralize it by replacing the thought with your chosen standpoint.

This would shorten the life of the “Problem” without having to dig for problems and solutions to problems. For some of you, the digging and discovering new problems with yourself seems to never cease. What do you think that this is indicative of? A problem that needs to be addressed or a person that needs to replace all thoughts about the self with loving thoughts about the self?

Some of you get on the train of spirituality and in your new awareness, you begin identifying “wrongs” in yourself and purging. But this whole process has a tendency to perpetuate itself and for those of you who have been “purging” for years, be assured that there is much shorter way.

Why don’t you, instead, choose to perpetuate and support thoughts of your divinity?

Simply replace all thoughts with love

This requires becoming aware of thoughts.

One way to become aware, before you have mastered it, is to think deliberately.

But the reason why a mantra does not change your life is because a mantra does not correct all the thoughts you are having about yourself. Many of which you are unaware of. Having real time conversation with yourself is much more effective than a generic response. There is a responsibility on your part. To train yourself to become aware of your thoughts, so much so that you can take notice of negative thoughts, talk yourself through them and replace them… it is much different than what you are used to. However, it is no longer feasible to be unconscious and unaware. The New World will function on a premise of greater awareness, and so will you. We promise that the rewards are great. Much greater than what you are getting otherwise and you would not be here if you did not desire to undertake this challenge. Let it begin for you now. Also… another fundamental key. You must simply believe. Believe that you are and BE what you believe. A sort of ‘Fake it till you make it’ , if you will. Except, you need not “fake” anything. All you must do is be Real. Who you truly are, at your divine core essence. Be real, be true, be you.

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“This post ended up being much more than I bargained for. There is detailed explanation, inspiration, motivation and even detailed description of processes here. Consider this Spirituality 2.0. No more lagging behind. Let’s just accept that we are Divine perfection, already. We know it, let’s be it. Let’s accept that we are just perfect, whether we like it or not. LOL We all have a problem with being egotistical, since religion has hammered into our consciousness the idea of being “Humble” and put it on a pedestal. Humble doesn’t mean hate yourself, and allow others to trample your divine rights of self love and self compassion. Can’t you see that this whole translation of humility and the way it has been portrayed is a perfect way to make the people something that is easier to control on a mass scale? Just convince everyone they are no good, that they are wrong, that they are dumb, so they will follow our rules and if that doesn’t work, call them egotistical or conceited. How dare the people love themselves and want to answer the call of their own divine nature! Wake up, people. Be aware and know who you are. As long as you are separate from yourself, you are separate from everything that validates your divinity. As long as you are not truly being your own best friend and lover inside the walls of your consciousness, you will not attract your true best friend and lover in manifested form. That’s how this all works. The Universe will validate what you are doing, whether you are conscious or unconscious about it.”

-Elise

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Highest Truth and Guidance Part 2; Transcending Denial/Ego

Highest Truth and Guidance Part 2; Transcending Denial/Ego

Channeled via Unity Consciousness

“I am here for you. Revealing all of my secrets

so that you may manifest the heaven I know is real.”

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There is so very little that you can understand when your mind and your ego are in the way of you. You cannot possibly remember those things that you knew before you came to this world, those things that you are trying so hard to remember,  if you are blocking yourself with limiting beliefs. Limiting beliefs, meaning, any belief which has been cemented by you and labled as unchangeable. Limiting beliefs such as, the denial of your self worth, the denial of your divinity, the denial of the perfection of creation, the denial that everything is on its way to you and the denial that you are always in the right place at the right time and the denial that you are eternally and always becoming, evolving and reaching higher levels of awareness. No matter how much you have learned, no matter how high that you have become, there is always more to become, to perceive and to know. You will eternally perceive truths in a way that are closer and closer to the actuality of all that is. It does not mean that you can ever know all, but you will always become closer to it as you preserver, with a very open mind and faith, validating all that comes to you on this eternal journey into love.

Everything is always working out for you.

No need to resist. No need to push against. Ask everything what it can teach you. 

For, that is what this is all about.

We all desire to understand higher truths. The we seek the absolute truths and all that we think we know, suddenly becomes that for us. The absolute truth and we fight to keep our positions in that truth. This is a block. This is denying a Universal Law that says the only constant is change and that we are eternally becoming, forevermore. You cannot possibly perceive all that is true from this form that you are in. Do not ever deny that!! 

We can only gain more and more clarity. We can only perceive higher and higher truths, but all that you know does not have to be absolute, so do not make it that. Be like water, allow yourself to become and grow. Allow your guides and the Universe to impress new ideas upon you or to introduce viewpoints that are higher truths than what you knew before. To deny that you can learn is to deny the fact of evolution. The ceasing of which will never happen. To think you are right, does not make you right, it can only make you stagnant. Know what you know, but allow what you know to become, just as you are eternally becoming. As we ascend, our consciousness undergoes change. This is all part of the plan. Allow.

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There are many teachers that never seem to change. They continue teaching the same old things in the same old ways and you do not see the evolution occurring within them. You do not see changes manifesting in their life, as they are instructing you to improve yours. They are not detached from their ideas and this is the reason that they never reflect becoming. A true teacher is also an eternal student and this is what defines a master. Someone who is continuously open to change and to the inception of higher and higher truths. This can never be avoided, only denied. Higher truths are coming to you and the art of detachment does not exclude your thoughts. Do not be so attached to your beliefs that you cling to them, even when new things are being gently impressed upon your consciousness by the Universe and by your guides in a variety of ways. You may count everything as relevant and worth pondering. For, you are divine, but also in a body. Unite the two, by seeing all as neutral ground. Those who choose acceleration of growth over attachment to preconceived ideas are truly dedicated to spiritual growth and dedication to spiritual growth is rewarded because you are then working in harmony with the Universe. This how the blocks of ego are overcome. By working in unison with the Universal plan, instead of your own, at any moment in time. It is a gentle, open sort of energy which sees, but does not attach itself to reaction, but validates and makes everything an equal possibility to learn.

 New waves of energy are upon the planet at this time and there is tremendous change amiss. If you are not changing, you are not growing, and the manifestations in your physical life that surrounds you are the obvious tell, from the Universe, of what requires attention and tweaking in your current state of consciousness. Trust the Universe and the organization of it. For, it is all perfect and so are you. There is nothing that holds you back. Not karma, not a mistake of the past, not a Twin Flame, nor your mother! There is nothing that holds you back but you. The universe provides ways for you to learn, even when you are resisting it, however, you may always choose the easy way, and accelerate willingly, in a fashion which will bear great, positive momentum forward.

BASHAR on Accelerating Manifestation

BASHAR Accelerate Yourself

“…If you should choose to ride the crest of that wave, the leading edge of that wave, of consciousness.
You can accelerate so rapidly, you can attract to yourself so rapidly, the things that are representative of your passion, of your joy, without knowing, in any way, shape, or form, how these things could happen, beyond reason, beyond logic, that your life will become, literally, so dream like. It will be, at first, dizzying and disorienting, until you get used to it. Literally, you will be walking through life like it is a dream; marveling at the miraculously synchronicity that just are popping up, as a matter of course.
When you ride the leading edge of the wave of consciousness…”

Listen to your guides. This requires a quiet mind.

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ASK YOUR GUIDES, A WONDERFUL GUIDE TO GETTING MORE IN TOUCH WITH YOUR GUIDANCE

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Mastering Open-Hearted Detachment

Mastering Open-Hearted Detachment

This is my 75th post on Soulmates and Twin Flames!!

My story is that in less than one year, by following the teachings I channeled, which are here in this blog, I made it through to the other side of the painful Twin Flame experience and manifested and Open Heart Union and I am still here, helping you all do the same… Namaste!!

Channeled via Unity Consciousness

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There’s nothing in the world that I want more than you. I want you more than breath. I want you more than life. I want you more than I ever knew a human could. But I am only human, and you are only you. And although I want you, there is more to me than you. I will find myself, I will answer my questions, I will find the purpose of my pain. This is bigger than just me and you,

but my pain is mine and my answers are mine to find too.

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“Everyone on this journey wants to know how to get back their Twin Flame. 

Everyone on this journey wants the answer to Union.

There is only one answer.

It’s Growth.”

-Elise

You can’t stop there. You can’t energetically stalk another person, thinking that they hold all of your answers, the keys to your kingdom of happiness, fulfillment and ultimate pleasure. You can’t blame them. It’s not their fault, they are only playing a role which is part of your lesson. A reflection of your ultimate truth and it’s your job to find out just how that is so. I know you can’t see it, not at first. But if you only stop to grasp the fact that your pain is yours and caused by nobody else. Your thoughts are yours, your pain is yours, your sorrow is yours, your broken heart is yours, your ego is yours, your reactions are yours, your interpretations are yours, OWN IT!

All of you want to blame the other person. Oh, but we had this connection, we had that experience, he told me this, he flipped on me, he stopped calling, he chased me, he ran, he this, he that… Oh, but I love him, Oh it’s but I can’t get over it. I-I-I-I-I……Guess what?? YOU’RE RIGHT, THIS IS ALL ABOUT YOU! ENTIRELY!

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This is NOT about the other person. It has nothing to do with them at all. In fact, this whole Twin Flame ordeal has nothing to do with anything besides growth. Strong emotions are just a way to get you to do that. The Universe want’s you to come back to love. To understand love, to be love, to embrace love, to be completely open hearted and it uses love to draw you there. Love is a stronghold and pain is a force. This is the way the Universe inspires growth.

Stop justifying yourself with the connection you have. Stop making it ok to stay stuck. Stop making your decisions based on what they are doing. Stop trying to figure them out. Stop trying to make them grow. Stop stalking their journey. Stop thinking you are entitled to know anything besides yourself. Stop making them part of your story. Stop planning your future with them and stop holding onto the hopeless romantic idea that they are somehow, the best love you could possibly have or would passably ever want to have. This is all fairy dust!! I am not bursting your bubble, there is PLENTY out there for you. But, you do not have to be predestined with a Twin in order to manifest a future. You are so preoccupied with these ideas. Frantically trying to figure out how they fit in. Rationalizing why your mind is absolutely flooded to the brim with thoughts of them. That thinking is simply serving to distract you from getting the big picture.

  • He’s my other half
  • I can’t get over him
  • I don’t want anybody else
  • There’s nobody else out there for me
  • He’s my ultimate
  • I just know we are meant to be

You think that because you had/have an AMAZING, outrageous, undying connection that it’s special? That it means something? You’re right, it is special and it does mean something, but it doesn’t have to be for the reasons you think… beth21 Every tarot reading tells you about your future together. Every psychic confirms it. Everything is a synchronistic event that validates your knowing of what’s “meant to be”. You’re giving you’re future children names, you’re planning a life, you’re believing in this future, simply waiting for them to evolve and get on board with you, and all the while, what’s the point? To get what you want? NO! That is why you NEVER get what you want, because you are missing the point completely!! The point is for YOU TO GROW! And if your motivation to grow is to achieve Union, you’ll never achieve union, because you would still be missing the point. Your Twin Flame has nothing to do with that. They are just a catalyst. A messenger. A wake up call. A teacher. Just like everything else. The romantic fantasies are a distraction and if you are reading this, you probably have not manifested union, so, a different perspective is probably needed. To be fair. Romance does exist. Fairytale dreams exist. Love does exist and it does happen. But the attachment is the problem.

Listen to this next part: Love does happen.

Happen- Come to pass, occur, or befall you.

  Happen means happen. If it’s not happening, it’s not happening!! Happens doesn’t mean you have to conjure a spell, wish on a star, figure it out, win anybody over or hold on for dear life hoping that one day, you’ll manifest a union. When it happens, it simply happens. POOF! It unfolds, there it is, it happened naturally, it just manifests and before you know it, you’re living a dream. There’s never a reason to wish, hope, think and pray for year after year. That doesn’t yield results. It’s not efficient, it’s pretty much good for nothing. You will grow, but nothing will change. You will grow and you will grow, but you still won’t see the fruits of your labor. That’s what I’m talking about. We want results! But results are yielded from true change. You’ll know if you have truly changed, because the results will be there to confirm. Until then, keep reading… You have to realize that this is only about you. Leave them out of it. There is an art to this. I can tell you to detach, but there’s a very specific way to do it. People detach all the time when they are hurt. Building walls sky high to erase your vulnerability and make you indestructible is not what I am talking about. Debby There is a way to detach from outcomes because you know that you’re already perfect and you’re simply sifting through until something sticks. Whatever sticks is yours. Whatever doesn’t stick isn’t yours. Whatever happens, happens, the rest, just let it go. You follow your heart willingly and completely. You spill your guts, you dish all your authentic truths in their entirety. Follow the tugging of your heart. Tell them exactly how you feel and don’t hold back. If they turn away, you have to be ok with it, because you know if they were actually for you, they would undoubtedly reciprocate. Make no mistake about that.

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Attachment is the only thing holding you back from making complete transitions.

Attachment means you are needing something outside of yourself.

Non-attachment + Open Heartedness means that you aren’t seeking anything outside of yourself.

The fulfillment and freedom comes from the ability to authentically embody express and yourself to your core and to be detached from outcome, all at the same time.

Most people fall into the trap of retracting open heartedness after being let down.

No matter what you tell yourself, that’s an indication of residual attachment. 

If you are doing that, you have not truly changed.

A master is revealed by the ability to remain open and detached from needing anything, even in the face of unideal outcomes. 

You can rationalize that things don’t always come easy, but when you use this formula, they can. Because this is what the Universe is trying to get you to do. To be you and to allow complete “surrender”, which equals trust, in the process. Learn this formula and practice it. Not only in love, but in life and in all relationships. This is a state of being. It can take months of continual self deliberation to achieve. We are talking about a making a massive transition. It’s a process, but this is key and it’s correct no matter who you are because this is Open Heartedness, which is love. Use every unideal outcome to test your ability to consciously embody this energy. It can take many let downs and many demonstrations to the Universe to fully come into your new energy. Once you have mastered this, things manifest!!! Manifestations can also occur instantaneously, but we are all different and the results can vary.

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What it’s like To Be in an Ideal Soulmate Union and Why the Twin Flame isn’t Exactly What You Thought it Was…

What it’s like To Be in an Ideal Soulmate Union and Why the Twin Flame isn’t Exactly What You Thought it Was…

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Channeled via Unity Consciousness

The Universe cannot give you information that you are not ready to receive. That’s the only reason you wouldn’t receive it. So, you have to make a decision. Do you want to know the truth, or do you want to stay in

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You see, we can’t know everything at once. That means we have to keep learning. Maybe the truth doesn’t change, but our understanding of it does. We can get closer and closer to understanding the truth as we evolve.

No-one is wrong.

Its just that we are always striving to reach a translation which is the closest to the truth that we can comprehend from where we currently are.

We have to start somewhere, and over time and with evolution, we become ready to understand more.

Are you ready?

 The Twin Flame is not so different from the traditional translation, but there is much more to it than the traditional Twin Flame template of understanding. 

If one soul splits off into two, are they still the same soul?

Yes and No.

They are of the same origination, but they are now two unique streams of consciousness, independent from each other. Their very own experiences, translations,  perceptions and possibilities.

“This new post turned out to be SO MUCH MORE than I ever thought it would be. It wasn’t my idea. I learn as I channel and the Universe puts pieces together that I’ve been collecting and forms them into a complete thought, like a mosaic.”

-Elise

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Come and join me on this new adventure as we accelerate our ascension. Our beliefs are hard to let go of. The truth hurts. Because lies hide our pain. They do. But I’m here for you. Decide if you want to confront your pains and obliterate them forever. There’s definitely a way. Source knows. That’s why I’m here, delivering to you, these loving messages. So, pick a side and stay tuned.

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Ever since this Union occurred, we could not be separated. We just couldn’t bear it and we found that we felt mutual about everything. It was the most ridiculously satisfying and dazzling experience to find that someone loves you exactly the same way that you love them. That you both want to spend every minute together. That you both can just make out forever, like teenagers in some kind ridiculous, infatuated puppy love trance. That you both just can’t leave the bed because you love pressing your bodies closely together and your very soul is telling you to just stay there, meshed in each other’s energy. Your body won’t even obey you. Separating takes quite a bit of preparation. Peeling yourselves away from each other, even just to stand up can seem like an impossible task when you’re in what I call heaven. A state of complete ecstasy and utter bliss, palpable throughout your entire being. Now, I know what it means to say “Love is in the air”. It’s a place, a vibration, a realm that you can reach. It’s crazy to discover that you both just want to stare into each other’s eyes. That you both are sharing in this state of heaven. Reaching higher, heavenly realms, simultaneously, together. I’ve invested a lot of time contemplating love and visualizing the best case scenario and yet, things happened in this Union that I had never experienced and did not even realize I was missing out on. I have spent months writing pages upon pages to gain momentum on thoughts of love and reach depths as great as I could, yet I never experienced this level of intimacy.

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I had never made love before, and I didn’t even know it. Discovering something through him, with him, well, it was more than special. More than amazing. A whole new world opened to me in those moments. A world that I had never even contemplated the existence of and it happened because it was special. It wasn’t special because it happened. Fate made it possible. From the beginning, I can see that now.

I thought I had done it all, but there was such great levels of intimacy that I had never even fathomed. I did come to realize that I could not hold eye contact with anyone during intimacy. I simply didn’t like to. I noticed that and I knew it was a result of a fear of intimacy. But, that was normal. “Normal” sex is enjoyable, but you aren’t having need to gaze deeply into the eyes of one another for that. You aren’t needing it to be tantric, sensual and to share a heavenly connection. Every minuscule amount of our consciousness was involved. He was the first person, not only that I noticed could look in the eye, but it evolved into enjoying gazing deeply into him and I would use it as a way to shower him in the reality of my love.  He could see me, seeing him, and in my gaze it is undeniable that I love him to his core, all reservations aside. No hesitation in me about it. It is the opposite. My gaze into him is thick with pure adoration. This was all new to me. And we were both awakened to enjoy it. The moments are cherished and savored. Awareness heightened and consciousness brought to a peak, not to miss a beat or a detail. To make even the slightest energy a full throttle experience. Every moment milked for all its beauty. Time stands still and means nothing. It does’t even exist. When we are in heaven, we are in 3D, but we are also somewhere else. In another realm. A realm that doesn’t exist in this dimension. You simply can’t get there without leaving the rest behind. Heaven, it is.

I never made love like that. It just happened, it was unexpected. I didn’t predict any of it. It wast something I had avoided. I thought I had made love before. I thought it was just integrated into the act, when you love someone. But I was in such awe, when we were in this experience and I even said to him, that I have never done this before. Awe and pleasant surprise is the best way I can describe it. It was such an all encompassing experience. I was like, wow, I have never done this before! Everything was so beyond perfect. I never knew that sex could be like this!  It made everything else seem so tiny, compared to the vast, blissful intensity of this. It was not even of this world. I describe it as conscious sex. Your body is so fully experiencing it. Every part of you is fully aware, reveling in happiness and closeness with your partner. But, the sex wasn’t it. It was just one way to experience. What really blew us away is what happened when we just lay down next to each other. We were making out like high school sweethearts. I have never enjoyed kissing so much! I had never even kissed like that. We didn’t want it to end.

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Before this, I remember kissing being decidedly short lived. Somewhere, in the moment, you’re in your head and you just want it to end. But here, with him, our hearts and bodies  fully entwined, yet never getting enough. We just kept on and we became enveloped in ecstasy. I mean, a physical, tangible, very real feeling throughout the entire body of intense bliss. Different from an orgasm or any feeling you get purely from sex or anything sexual. It was not short lived, either. It was literally like being in another dimension. One where you have to be in bliss to exist there. It was lasting, it was thick and intense and very, very real. We could not move from that spot and we surely didn’t want to. Every little touch felt like ripples of ecstasy throughout the whole body. Every caress yielding utter delight throughout. I felt all of my chakras glowing and charged in a warm, euphoric frenzy. My energy centers just lighting up, like no tomorrow. Like I had no body, not the one I knew. I felt all of the energy flowing through my entire body. It’s like somebody turned the endorphin gauge wayyy up and forgot to turn it back down. The bliss and ecstasy was just flowing abundantly and we were both feeling it. We were whispering softly in each other’s ears. Trying to figure out if we both felt it and confirming that we did. It was an out of this world experience.  I have been a serial monogamous, hopeless romantic my entire life and I have never known of any experience so celestial.

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Ever since then, we only leave each other to go to work. Before we were able to live together, we went to great lengths to see each other, daily. To greater lengths that would not even make sense for any other couple. But, we just wanted to be together and we felt better, even if our visit was short, or just enough time to sleep. That didn’t matter. We had to see each other  as often as possible. What would not have been feasible to a “Normal” relationship was necessity for us and still is. Only now, we live together. That just makes it easier. We followed our joy and doing that has brought us even more joy. We still savor every moment we have and romanticize about the time we get together. It is like a fairytale romance in 3D. We hurry home to see each other and we relish the days our work schedules allow us to sleep together.

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We are intimate very often, even if we aren’t planning on it, which is most of the time, we just end up getting swept up in it, even if we have very little time and we go for it. Because, we have decided to let love win. We really enjoy just laying next to each other and cuddling and gazing into each other. It’s one of our favorite things to do that we do several times a day, depending on if we are together, as opposed to at work. After being intimate, we always just lay together and gaze at each other afterward. Even if there is no sex, we love to lay and look at each other. It’s an activity for us, like watching a movie. We’re consciously dedicating loving energy towards each other. That’s always how we fall asleep. I even enjoy when there is only that and no sex, because there is still a knowing of mutual satisfaction in simply enjoying this dream come true that we have together.

Some things in life, you just want to ignore, but with him, I just want to take everything in. To be even more present. To dedicate to him even more of my complete awareness. It can never be enough. I always want to pay him more attention and enjoy him more…. I actually fear the day that we may have a child because I don’t want my attention taken from him. I love what we are able to share. The uninterrupted moments we have together. Being able to look into each other’s eyes and stay there, whispering sweet things for as long as we want to. I love the way his eyes smile when he tells me he loves me and my heart chakra gets a warm, fuzzy, glow. Telepathically confirming to me the energy in those words. Maybe I have been deprived my entire life. Maybe this Union isn’t so marvelous as I perceive it to be. Whatever the reason is that I cherish this Union so much, doesn’t matter. All I know is that our Union is lovely, full of harmony, laughter and desires fulfilled.. It’s a dream for us, and it’s real! Twin Flame, Twin Soul, Soulmate… Makes no difference to me. What we have is what we have, the experience is real and I don’t need to know why. It simply is. We simply are. For whatever reason, I we have been truly blessed with this gift of Perfect Union and we have both decided to keep the momentum going in this direction of love and harmony. The experience is what matters. Since the experience is here, we are making the very best of it.

Everything gets better with time, because we both want it to. We agree that what we have is special and worth preserving and making it as good as we can. We have no reservations, only love. We made a decision to go with our feelings and let love lead the way and we stick with it. Following our joy just leads us closer together and that is exactly how an Ideal Union occurs.

We are an Open Heart Union.

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I feel that sometimes, contrast is a very good way to demonstrate defining characteristics. So, I’m going to compare some opposite ends of the spectrum…

In most relationships, there is compromise. So much so, that people think it is a genuine necessity. Perhaps agreement is the necessity, and that comes much more easily with sameness. To be in Union is to be same. You are in agreement. When the combining occurs, the two things become one. They embrace and celebrate the sameness of their essences. This is what it is to “Meet your match”. This is why people are saying that they are sharing a soul with their “Twins”, because of the feeling of being so incredibly same. In a way that is unique to any other experience. In a way that has not been possible with any other. The resonance is tremendous! It is more than sharing the same interests, likes and dislikes, although, that is also the case. But, it’s more like, naturally being on the same page, all of the time. Naturally thinking the same thing on the same subjects and naturally being on the same frequency at times when there could easily be differences. Always having the same preferences and finding yourself rendezvousing in the vortex whenever you are together.

In my Union, it seems we are always thinking the same thing, or at least, agreeing on it. Even if one has a preference, the preference of the other may not be exact, but it also doesn’t conflict. As in, maybe we want to watch a movie. Maybe I know which specific movie I want to watch and he doesn’t, but his preference does’t conflict with mine.

To be same doesn’t mean you are a clone or an exact copy. You aren’t always doing the same things, having the exact same experiences, the same exact reactions to life and the same exact thoughts. That would be impossible. Each stream of consciousness is an individual. Only you look through your own set of eyes and only they look through theirs. Only your experience and your stream of consciousness is yours and only their experience and their stream of consciousness is theirs.

Because we each evolve, from unique perspectives, to be exactly the same as any other being is impossible, and creation designed it that way.

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To be same means you have found someone who is a very close vibrational match. A match that is remarkably similar and close to yours. Like two pizzas made from the same ingredients. They both came from the same source. Once there is a split from one into two, it is then two different things. Two streams of consciousness which endure two different experiences, lives, thoughts, desires and perspectives.  They are each a whole unit. But we long for that which is similar in vibration to us. This is natural.

The problem that I am witnessing with most relationships and with what the traditional Twin Flame community are identifying as Twin Flame relationships is that they are trying to attain Union with someone who is not actually same enough in vibration to come into union with. Not even same enough to come to agreement.  Not same enough to share the same desires and willingness to act upon them. Not same enough to be equally open hearted. Not same enough to agree to move forward without fear. Not realizing, all the while, that it can be so much easier when you simply meet your match! Someone who is similar in reality, not just in your head. What you see is what you get. If you want different things, it means the two of you are just that different.

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The perfect vibrational match or, the closest vibration match would have a natural, automatic resonance and harmony with you.  Being together would be the easiest thing in the world. Which means, they would not be running away from you. There would not be this huge, back and forth tumultuous calamity of a relationship that causes thrashing about and screaming and fighting and begging and running and pleading and chasing. Harmony, resonance and sameness are all related. If Twin Flames truly shared the same soul, or even very close to it, the whole Twin Flame concept would not look like the running and chasing dynamic that the traditional Twin Flame template depicts. It simply defies Universal Law to say that your match is not agreeing with you or sharing your desires to be together. It’s a complete and total oxymoron. Not a paradox. An oxymoron. It does not coincide with what we know of Universal Laws and the way the Universe operates.

This dynamic has been made up by some painfully lovesick  romantic caught in the 3rd dimensional trap known as attachment. If you are lovesick over someone, idealizing over them, it is no wonder you would find solace in this concept. It’s the only concept can find solace in, without doing the necessary work. The real work. The very fact that traditional “Twins” feel they need to defend their Twin Flame romantic story lines is the evidence that they are insecure. That something is not right. They all get triggered when you challenge their title. Why is that? Why get triggered? Do you get triggered when someone challenges your name? No, because there’s nowhere to land with that. But challenging the Twin Flame story… it’s a trigger. What doe a trigger mean? It means something is unresolved in you. Think about that.

The Twin Flame story It gives these spiritual travelers something to hold onto. Some glimmer of romanticized hope.

For, it is better to be a hopeless romantic with a glimmer of hope, than a pathetic pile of sobbing, tearful, sorrow, with nowhere to turn and no story to explain themselves with.

To have a story about why you are in pain feels so much better than being in pain, and having no story as to why.

(I’ve been there, too.)

This is why you have to believe in the romantic, Traditional Twin Flame Template of running, chasing, and union in the end. Because, you have no other way to explain why you feel the way that you do. None.

Finding out where the pain is really coming from requires an ultimate truth that can only come from you. You don’t even have to know why you’re in pain, but you have to be able to stop blaming anything outside of yourself and take ownership. Know that you have choices and you’re actually in control.

“You don’t live on an iceberg. Go out and make a life” – My mom

The next step is loving yourself no matter how you show up. Loving and accepting the one who is in pain.

“I feel like crap today. Oh, well, that’s just how I am today and that’s ok. Hello, pain”

This concept is not new.  Spiritual teachers of awareness, such as, Elkhart Tolle, are teaching this very same concept and it’s not new to me either. Here is a post that I wrote in January, in the midst of my very painful Twin Flame experience.

THE REAL REASON BEHIND THE PAIN FOR YOUR TWIN FLAME

The problem is that this entire Twin Flame concept of sharing the same soul, keeps you attached to the outcome. Dependent upon something outside of yourself in order to have true happiness. In order to get what you really want. and that is why the vast majority of those who identify with the traditional Twin Flame template are so very unhappy and also not in Union. Because they are not attracting what they want. Attachment to the outcome repels the desired manifestation.

That’s Law of Attraction 2.0.

Traditional Twin Flamers who defend the Twin Flame story are fighting for something. Fighting for something outside of themselves and that’s simply no way to transcend.

The problem with the Traditional Twin Flame ideas is that they keep you married to attachment. The proof is in the pudding. There is no self proclaimed traditional Twin Flame follower out there who can feel truly fulfilled unless either A. their lover returns, or B. they move on. Most of them will choose A. because they don’t know how to do B. and they back it up with the Traditional Twin Flame storyline. But what has this gotten you? I know you’re all in pain. That is the reason you’re reading this..

But, there is hope. You’re seeking it,  and it has nothing to do with your Twin Flame

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Sameness of vibration/soul is the belief of the traditional Twin Flame followers, but sameness yields harmony and resonance. Not the opposite! So, it is impossible that one can meet their truest vibrational match and be repelled. This logic defies the Universal Laws of Attraction!

It is possible for a catalytic Twin Flame to become a Harmonious Soulmate relationship, if that person truly is a close vibrational match, the evolution inspired by the meeting would bring you back together, but you cannot hang onto the chance of this possibility as almost all of you are. In most cases, the Twin Flame that you are speaking of having reunion with is simply to inspire you to accelerated ascension and also, enhance desire. The universe wants you to use your wildest imagination to envision the best possible outcomes and that is what the catalytic Twin Flame inspires. Being brought to great desire helps you to attract the best possible outcome. But there is more to the process if you want to see any Union and especially a Harmonious Union. Attachment to a person or demanding a specific outcome from the Universe is not the point of it all. The Universe doesn’t care if you deny all other possibilities that the doorway of love and freedom can bring. The Universe does not respond to your demands or your perseverance or pleas. The Universe responds to your ability to embody higher vibrations, to be authentic, open hearted and to have faith in the great plan that is in store for you.

If you know anything, and if you are not so attached to the idea of Twins sharing a soul that you cannot possibly consider any other idea, this just makes sense. I’m an experienced, professional and well studied soul reader. Well studied in soul traits and identification and an expert in the Law of Attraction from all angles. I have been working with a TON of Soul Mates and “Twin Flames” but it doesn’t take a romantic scientist to see that two people who harmonize well and have resonance with each other do so because they are actually SIMILAR! People who click are on the same vibrational page. It can be no other way! If you don’t click, you do not share similar enough core qualities. The differences are too great. Period. This is Universal Law. Don’t listen to the psychics who all want to tell you what you want to hear. That “confirmation” means nothing. You know how many people in the Twin Flame communities that I could get to tell me that someone is my Twin flame, if I really wanted it? All of them! It’s already happened. They make their assumptions whether I am asking or not! Everyone in the Twin Flame community wants to tell you to “hold on” But that’s attachment.

 They can form whatever opinion they want. They can tell you not to give up on your “Twin Flame” or not, but the TRUTH?…. THEY DON’T KNOW! Twin Flames come and they go. Even the Twin Flames get confused about it!

There is no such thing as missing out on your one and only opportunity for completion. There is no such thing as being destined to reunite with the other half of your soul. That whole theory is very cool, but it invokes two things:

1. That you are incomplete

2. Attachment to something outside of yourself

This theory has it’s value along the path of evolution. But the only constant is change and you can’t “Hold on” forever.

 Do not use the opinions of other people who are stuck in attachment to back up your perpetuation of this nonexistent Twin Flame idea that makes no sense if you know anything about what causes energies to be attracted and repelled. Support holds no weight against truth.

At the very least, you should be seeking truth, not validation of the Twin Flame story, not confirmation of your “Other half”. Truth.

Without truth, love is actually shielded.

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A Twin Flame is a soulmate catalyst that triggers a great amount of growth and inspires enormous depths of passion within you. A Twin Flame is not the end all, be all of you and you are not at the mercy of your Twin Flame’s willingness to surrender to you or to the Universe. There is no such thing as only having one option or one other half in a limitless Universe.

I am saying this because there are many people who believe this, and they will push it on you. Their sanity depends upon having a story for their pain to stand on. I am simply asking that you make sure that you are applying your knowledge on Universal Law and that you take in all of the data that you can, before you get stuck in a theory that puts so many people on a treadmill to nowhere.

This theory has served us well, but it can’t take us all the way. This is the way many spiritual teachings are designed. To meet you where you are. It is time to move beyond this.

You cannot become a master of any one thing if you do not pull from a larger pool of knowledge that goes beyond that one thing.

The only reason I have succeeded in the flesh, in my life, in attracting my Union and the only reason that I know what I know and have the ability to pull more and more advanced teachings and put the pieces together is because I am fully willing to learn. Even if evolution means leaving old ideas behind. If you want to achieve, you have to be willing to let the Universe give you new information.

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I used to be in a space that said that nobody outside of yourself could tell you if someone was your Twin Flame or not. I actually  refer to the whole thing as a Twin Flame experience because many people could be having the Twin Flame experience, whether it is actually a close match or not. I noticed that when I was working with these soulmate “Twin” chasers and runners who were coming to me. They were having the Twin Flame experience, but it definitely wasn’t with a “Twin” Soul. I realized, that by the traditional Twin Flame description of sharing the “same soul”, that made it easy to root out the definite energetic mismatches. It’s just so blatantly obvious when two souls do not share the same core essence or when the energetic traits are very different. It would make me think to myself, no wonder there is a problem in the “Union”. There always will be, because you two are not similar. Yet, the experience was real. It’s an experience. The purpose is growth.

The traditional ideology is that the Twin Flame as an Ultimate Union, but, the only problem with that is how often these Twin Flames remain stuck on the Twin Flame treadmill, by themselves, year after long and painstakingly lonely year?

A Union is a Union. A Twin Flame is a Twin Flame. A Soulmate is a Soulmate. Stop trying to make the transition from Twin Flame into Union and just take the lesson! You have no other choice! You can’t change their mind. You can’t force anything into being. You can learn the hard way, or you can learn the easy way. That’s the only choice you have.

You will learn. But how much pain will it take?

”Go or be dragged” – Amazing Yoga

If Reunion is going to occur, don’t worry you won’t miss it. Nothing could make you miss it…except yourself.

Stop trying to arrange your fate. That’s the job of the Universe. YOUR job is to learn to love.

 Love yourself, love others and love your life. Stop wanting things to be different. Follow your joy in the ways that you are able to. Not only is that all you can do, it’s enough. Not only is it enough, it’s all you can do.

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Listen to energetic reason. The one who is naturally same, doesn’t have to be forced, persuaded, coerced   chased, or gradually negotiated into compromise. The very root of disagreement in any form is difference in opinion or desire, which is simply an extension of differences in the soul itself. If you are having a very large discord with someone, such as, “ I want a relationship with you, but you don’t want a relationship with me.” that person cannot possibly be the same soul that you are. It simply would not happen with someone who is the same that you are. Someone who shares your exact traits and makeup at the core, would be agree with you and they would be more than willing.

Don’t even start with the excuses. Excuses don’t exist in an Open Heart Union.

People who drift apart over time do so because as they evolve into more authentic versions of themselves, they realize that they are with someone who is actually very different from them.

The opposite is also true. People who are the same at their core will grow closer as they evolve into their most authentic versions of themselves.

That is what it is like to be in Union with your Ideal Soulmate. You grow closer. 

The more authentic you become, the more it brings you together. That’s how you know if you are same at your core.

When you find this person, there is no chasing, there is no running, there is only recognition. The resonance is so strong that there is simply no other way. No turning back. You KNOW when you are dealing with your match because you merge. This is simply how the Laws of Attraction work.

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If there is not mutual recognition, then there is a noticeable difference at core essence that makes being apart a more appealing option than being together. Once the core match is found, there is a mutual clarity and understanding of togetherness being priority. There is no excuse in existence that would be convincing enough to separate either of you from your perfect Union, once recognized. By definition, an Ideal Union is when you are SAME.  On the same page, on the same frequency, on the same vibration, which means you will easily agree. An Ideal Union cannot be in the past, otherwise, it obviously wasn’t Ideal. An Ideal Union is in the present and Harmonious, like heaven on Earth. Following your joys bring you closer, not farther. Some of you are receiving the message that Heaven on Earth is what this ascension process is aiming to achieve. These Open Heart Unions are simply a manifestation of that collaborative agreement/effort to raise the vibration of the collective consciousness.

Here’s a math problem for you…

If there are 1 million un-united Twin Flames in the world and all of them learned how to attract an Open Heart Union to themselves, how much would that raise the vibration of the collective consciousness?

It is impossible to share exactly the same soul. A soul is not a thing that can be divided into two. Once it becomes two, it is two different things. We are all one, we are all same, because we all come from one source and we are all extensions of that same source. So, we are all Twin Flames, but, on the level that we are speaking,

A soul is simply a stream of consciousness. If a stream of consciousness were to split into two, it then would become two different streams of consciousness. Two different perspectives  two different bodies, two different experiences, two different reactions, two entirely different worlds. So, the fact that you are looking at someone through your own set of eyes and not theirs, makes you different, NOT same.

However, what we are looking for in an Ideal Soulmate Union is someone who is very similar to us, energetically. Now, that can be achieved. It is possible to find someone who thinks on the same level as you, agrees with you,  shares your viewpoints, interests and likes your ideas. It is possible to find someone to share a mutual love relationship that is full of resonance and harmony. That is possible. So, when I say “same”, I am saying similar, or very, very similar energetic vibration.

Majority of the people who come to me for readings are remarkably different. The fact that they are in separation physically, mentally or emotionally is the evidence.

This is not about being right or wrong. There’s really nothing “wrong” about the traditional story. But the traditional story is not expansive enough. If it keeps you locked into attachment and causes you more pain than joy, you miss the point of the entire scene. If you feel like Union comes from the manifestation of “The one”, you aren’t focusing inward, you are focusing outward, to them. But they cannot help you. They are only a manifestation of your current state.

If you feel like something is missing, or like you can’t have what you truly want or that what you truly want is in the future, you will be right. It will never be manifested in your NOW moment.

Most of my clients miss the point that this is ALL ABOUT THEM. Not about the other person.

And they don’t want to hear that.

They want me to tell them the future about reunion. They want me to confirm the connection. They want to know more about what the other person is doing than about the inner work.

Don’t let the story distract you from the reason that your catalyst came to you.

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Ideal Union is so easy when you’re experiencing it. It feels like the most natural thing in the world and once you find it, you have no idea how it took so long to find it and how on Earth you came to know so many issues with others in the past. We all know that harmony is possible. That finding and equal soul to come into Union with is possible and it makes sense to us that it has to be out there. I remember having this thought over and over, so many times, even years before it came into my reality. It makes more sense in every way, to be in harmony than it does to be in disharmony, but you still have to find a way to come into harmony with harmony!! You still have to match the vibration in order to align with it and manifest it in 3D. You have to come into harmony with the self. All things outside the self aside. It is possible for all. There is no-one but you. You are the only missing piece.  I always knew, for sure, that there had to be somebody out there who was looking for me, exactly, in every way. I knew that there was someone out there who would feel like they hit the jackpot with me and would do anything for me. The same is true for everyone else! You have a match, and you can attract it. It all depends upon you.

This is quite possibly where the phrase “Till death do you part” comes from. Because this is how it feels when you meet your match, and it’s mutual. That you will be venturing through all eternities and realms together, because in each other, you have found your “perfect” match. A place called home. A home that exists no where else and home is where the heart is.

The Traditional Twin Flame Concept is a metaphor for the truth of Unity, Oneness and Love. The truth that we all are of the same and that we come from the same source. We are all united in this unified universe. I am your Twin Flame and thank you for being mine. My catalyst, my reason, my mission, my motivation and my inspiration and my purpose for continuing on in my expression of love.

Here are some videos from credible sources that support all of the above that I have just mentioned. Matt Kahn teaches from an emotional standpoint. Teal Swan explains the Technical view and Larissa Roberts confronts the truth of the Metaphor and the purpose of the Twin Flame experience. Enjoy.

TEAL SWAN, ON TWIN FLAMES

                           TEAL SWAN, DO TWIN FLAMES EXIST? <- Go to 16:14

LARISSA ROBERTS, ON TWIN FLAMES

MATT KAHN, ON TWIN FLAMES

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 There is more information to cover on this subject. For instance, based on what I said regarding the Law of Attraction, then why would one attract someone and then repel them? Or, why would one attract anyone at all, if they aren’t close enough in vibration to have harmony with? This goes back to attracting based on the vibrations within yourself which need to be resolved and that is something which I have already covered.

Here is the Link -> ALIGNING WITH THE VIBRATION OF THE IDEAL SOULMATE UNION

Hi, this is Elise<3…

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OPEN HEART UNIONS

I have been conducting Twin Flame and Soulmate readings for you all, for many months now…

I have the ability to point out the blocks in your energetic patterning that need to be resolved before your Perfect, Ideal Soulmate Union can occur.

I need only a picture of you in order to perform this reading. The reading includes detailed instruction, tailored to your specific needs and guidance to explain exactly what it is that you must resolve and how to go about in doing so.

I am still offering TwinFlame/Soulmate Readings.

But ALL of you who come to me are desiring an Ideal Union/Open Heart Union

This requires you to identify and resolve the misaligned energies within yourself.

Call the reading what you will, but all who come to receive readings from me will be informed of what is blocking you from your Perfect Union and what you must do in order to resolve and come into alignment with your Open Heart Union.

I have already resolved and completed my transition, which has resulted in my very own Unification With My Ideal Soulmate in the 3rd dimension.

This is what I want for all of you.

63c4fffe9454ab29bbaa6792cbb9d81dI am not supporting the idea of attachment. That is not what resolution is about. It’s not about a means to an end. A pot of gold at the end of the rainbow. However, Ideal Union does occur as a result of resolving the self and coming into union with the self, but, if that is the goal, that is a block in itself.

My approach is via open heartedness, which means becoming more familiar with your authentic self and embodying 100% authentic self expression. For all of you, authentic self expression equals love. Love for the self and love for others without reservations, expectations or attachments to outcome. Anything not of love is a result of fear and is not of you.

I am now, solely teaching advanced concepts. I expect my clients to be well informed and completely dedicated to the cause. Otherwise, you will miss everything I have said to you.

My mission is to assist in the growth of each individual into love, for the good of all.

My clients must be those who are up to speed enough to benefit from my assistance.

Before contacting me, please understand that this is all about you.

Your soulmate is simply a reflection.

When you change yourself, you change the reflection.

With Great Love <3

You are all my Twin Flame. Thank you.

At this point, my blog is very comprehensive, with over 70 posts on this subject and my life experience is a testimony that whatever I am doing, it works, because it has lead me into manifesting my greatest desire. If there is something that does not make sense to you, it is either because you are not ready for the information, you are not fully understanding  due to a block, (I notice that when people want to “Hold on” to an idea, they do not fully take in the information and they also misinterpret, completely. This is a block, due to not wanting to change the mind about a current standpoint) or because there are many other pieces of the puzzle that need to fill in before you can reach this point. It’s simply a journey and my intention whoever does come across this information benefits.

I have many, many other helpful posts and many of them have nothing to do with Redefining Twin Flames. Many of my posts do align with traditional concepts, so, It’s likely that no matter where you stand, I have something that can meet you where you are. Please contact me if you are looking for any information. Perhaps I can provide you with links to previous entries I have completed.

My Mission is service, via Truth and Love. My Courage is my Testimony. My work is my Seal.

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Twin Flame 2.0 ; Twin Flames Redefined

Twin Flame 2.0 ; Twin Flames Redefined

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MATT KAHN, TWIN FLAMES REDEFINED

Please watch the ^^ above  ^^ video, before moving on with this message, as this is what this post will be referencing. BTW, many of you who are pushing against this video, ADMITTEDLY, have not watched it in it’s entirety. I am sorry, but you’re not allowed to have an opinion on a video of which you are not fully informed on the contents. That’s just reason speaking 🙂  

Channeled via Unity Consciousness. This is a Unified Universe and we are all in this together

“The reason I’m an expert is because I favor solution more than I favor my own beliefs. My mind is fluid and unconfined. My previous beliefs don’t hold me back because I know there’s always more to learn and if I’m not manifesting, I’m not doing it right. Considering new ideas in order to resolve is way more interesting to me than defending something that isn’t manifesting what I want in my reality. If I’m preaching, it’s because I know for a fact that if you master what I’m telling you, you’d create the real life, 3 dimensional result, In form, see it, touch it, taste it, reality!!”

-Elise

I am not going easy on you guys anymore. I have been steadily preparing for this shift for some time now. Guided by the source that I know and trust. Introducing more and more controversial information and gathering up people who are having experiences that are leading them to understand this. Pushing you guys to new heights of possibility  I was preparing for this, WAY before I had any idea that this video was coming out to support me. This is happening.

Embrace the change.

If you are not enjoying the full blown manifestation of your desire, you may as well try on some new ideas because what you’re currently doing isn’t working.

I have chosen to be on the leading edge of thought. To be a pioneer of ideas and between my natural need to be authentic and the conditioning that the Universe offered me, I am 100% courageous and good for the job. Just remember, I am here to serve, led by my guidance, inspiration and supported by strings of synchronicities that act as testimonies in 3D. My messages are for those who find benefit from them. All others may simply ignore.

“Being a pioneer sounds glamorous, but in reality, new information is often vehemently opposed. However, it is our duty to deliver, anyway. I am delighted to see so many Ideal Unions now, popping up. These people are coming to the same understandings as I am being given.”

-Elise

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I will always write from my heart, no matter how controversial the subject matter may be. This is just an example of what it means to be Open Hearted. To pour your heart authentically, no matter what judgement may await from others. Open your heart and allow the love to flow, no matter what. This is the ultimate transformation that the Twin Flame experience is pushing us towards.

“You Are Fulfilled By The Love That You Give”

-Matt Kahn

This is the Core of the act of being Open Hearted. You are inspired to love and you allow it to be channeled through you, to whatever direction or form it wants to take. You give this love in full knowing that it may be rejected. You are not doing it in order to generate a positive response, rather, you are giving it because you are inspired to it and it feels so good to let the love flow as to desires to, all reservations, fears and second thoughts aside. The result has nothing to do with it at all. Open Heartedness. That’s what this is about.

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Open Heartedness = Resolve

When you are resolved, you will attract a person who, instead of reflecting your blocks to you, they reflect what has been resolved.

The Core of all of my teachings is Open Heartedness. This is the message that I am focusing on getting across and encouraging to all. If you watch Matt Kahn’s video, you will see that he is teaching the very same thing. Matt Kahn has a very limited number of videos and I never found anything from him regarding Twin Flames, so, when his video came out regarding Twin Flames, I was ecstatic because his teachings are VERY ADVANCED and I wanted his perspective because, although my guidance is strong enough that I don’t need anyone to agree with me, I know I have been teaching controversial ideas regarding Soulmates and Twin Flames, and I felt somewhat alone in this. As it turns out, his transmission was much, much more controversial and upsetting to the mainstream Twin Flame Community than even what I had been easing into my posts. Although, I am quite relieved that my understandings that my path has lead me to are in alignment with his.

I believe every word that came through him. Not because it came from his mouth, but because it makes perfect sense and he explains all the traits of Twin Flames and he identifies the reasoning behind it. If you are able to see this video without interference from your ego or attachment to preconceived ideas, you too, will see that it makes sense.

His teachings are all very advanced, so if it does not resonate with you, perhaps it is simply not the right time. No sense getting bothered about it.

My teachings are in alignment with Matt Kahn’s teachings. We both use the terminology “Unity Consciousness” to identify what is being channeled through us and our explanation of it are the same. I discovered this through him, but my ways had already been established at that point. It just happened that way. Point being, if you don’t like or agree with Matt, you probably won’t find refuge in me, either. Let your guidance light your path. I am only here for those who   are lead to this information as part of their divine evolutionary path.

What is being presented here, is an entirely new way of looking at Twin Flames and Soulmates. I have heard many teachers, such as Abraham Hicks, Bashar and Teal Swan talk about Twin Flames and that they do not exist in the way that we have made them out to be, but I never came across an explanation this detailed. So, this information is pretty new and it will be difficult for many to accept, but, apparently, it is time to disclose it. We are currently witnessing MANY Ideal and Harmonious Unions taking place. They most certainly exist.

IF YOU ARE NOT OPEN TO THIS VERY DIFFERENT VIEW, STOP READING NOW. READ WHEN YOU ARE COMPLETELY FED UP WITH THE TWIN FLAME TREADMILL AND ARE READY AND OPEN TO MOVING INTO A COMPLETELY NEW PARADIGM SHIFT IN THIS AREA!

Shifting Into A New Twin Flame/Soulmate Paradigm

Here is the old paradigm/ Belief system regarding Twin Flames:

  • The Twin Flame is the other half of your soul
  • There are particular stages which occur that one can look for to explain the nature of the relationship. Such as the “Runner” and “Chaser” dynamic
  • Twin Flames will always come back together (Many adhere to this, but not all)
  • The connection will never die. You will always yearn for them on some level and nothing can break the connection.
  • They will always be your ultimate desire

The problem with this thinking that I have noticed for some time is that it does not empower you to become independent and whole and to move on. Believing that a person is the other half of your soul has a crutch-like effect. It keeps the 3D romanticized version alive and well. There is no right or wrong, but this version will not free you. This version will not assist you in becoming whole. At some point, you have to believe this because attachment is necessary for pain to take place and it is part of the process in order to pinpoint what needs to be resolved and for the transformation to be possible. But, at some point, it is time to move on from the romanticized version. It is time to get off the Twin Flame treadmill and cover new ground. You cannot reach your peak of resolution of blocks if you keep wanting something outside of yourself. Especially, something that is showing you that does not want you, run to you, adhere to you and treat you like the divine being that you are. It’s just that simple. Wanting something that does not want you is an indication of things unresolved within yourself. As Matt states in his video, A master can love from a distance. Chemistry, love, desire and magnetism have no bearing when it comes to realizing that someone simply is not good for you. And, how do you know if someone is not good for you? Because they are not valuing you, loving you and treating you with all the love and adoration and respect that you are so divinely entitled to.

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I really like you. Our chemistry is amazing. I love you. But, you are not good for me.

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To be able to come to this is a self loving action. The question is, are you able to do this? The great majority of you are chasing something that is not chasing you. Valuing something that is not valuing you and wanting something that is not wanting you. It is even more than becoming whole so that you don’t want that anymore. The very instant that you come into the vibration of self love to the degree which is balanced, you will no longer want something that has shown you it doesn’t want you. You’ll no longer be chasing, strategizing and dying over something that simply isn’t reciprocating your devotion. It’s not just an action, its a complete vibrational standpoint. Many of you are saying the words and backing off, but it’s not what is truly in your heart. Your heart still holds on. Take note that taking the action, but not fully lining up with it will not yield the transformation needed to attract Harmonious Union.

Stop lying to yourself. Stop kidding yourself. Mutual love and recognition is unmistakable, and if you aren’t within a Harmonious Union, it’s not 100% mutual. So, stop making excuses for your Twin Flame. Look, I did it too. I have already been through ALL of this Twin Flame Ascension, pain-in-the -butt process, so I’m not making this shit up. I lived it. I experienced all the pain, fully, and I am telling you what works. The laws of the Universe work for everyone, just the same, which means, if you do what I did, you will attract a Harmonious Union. Vibration is vibration. I did what it took to resolve my issues and the proof is in the pudding! I am giving you the answers to manifest your desire in the 3D. I was teaching this BEFORE I manifested an Ideal Union in my own life and I am teaching it now, because the Universe is providing more and more tangible evidence that this stuff here, is on the right track to joy. It just so happens that Matt is teaching it too. This is a HUGE time for this. More and more Harmonious Unions are popping up. This is a time of Accelerated Ascension and that is why this information is coming up NOW!

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There is no difference between your vibration and what you are manifesting. A person who loves themselves does not accept people in their lives who do not demonstrate mutual love. It simply is not an acceptable part of their experience. Yes, you will say, “I love myself”, but point blank, if you are manifesting a Twin Flame runner, there is more work to be done and there’s nothing wrong with that. But ownership comes before change, so own up to it.

Ego is the negotiator. Ego is what makes excuses for a person and asks “What can I do in order to be accepted by you?” “How can I make this work?” “How can I ease my way into this relationship?”. When you are loved, you don’t have to negotiate in order to get it. There’s no negotiation involved! So, quit. Stop messing around with the people who are not reflecting back to you your wholeness and value. That is actually the point of the Twin Flame experience! So, stop making excuses and get on with the joiner into wholeness! Wholeness needs no other. Wholeness does not negotiate or seek that which is running away! Wholeness attracts what comes and what comes, comes easily and effortlessly. That is what happens when you attract from a resolved vibration.

Here is the NEW Paradigm/Belief regarding Twin Flames:

  • Twin Flames are Tumultuous relationships
  • They can be anyone, romantic or not.
  • They push your toughest buttons and triggers
  • Twin Flames are catalytic relationships, their purpose is to cause you to grow rapidly
  • You will attract as many Twin Flames as are needed to resolve blocks within you. You can have MANY  Twin Flames in a Lifetime
  • “Every Ex is a Twin Flame” – Matt Kahn
  • They are not the other half of your soul. They are not more important than other catalysts or soul mates you could have.
  • They are not irreplaceable!
  • They are not meant to be your one and only ideal
  • Union is not the goal, evolution and moving beyond the restrictions reflected by the Twin Flame relationship is the goal

A Twin Flame is anyone who has acted as a catalyst for evolution for you in your life. Those who help you grow the most are the ones who cause you the most pain. Not the ones you experience Harmony with. People have been epitomizing Twin Flames a the Ultimate Union, but as it turns out, Twin Flames are not meant for Union or Harmony. They are meant to act as a trigger. They trigger disharmony and chaos, not harmony. This is why we all know our Twin Flames to be such a tumultuous experience. The point is growth, not union.

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Twin Flame Relationships can become Soulmate relationships. As in, it’s possible. This is where the idea of reunion comes from. Somewhere along the line, someone made a Harmonious Union out of a once, tumultuous union, and now, we are all hanging on the hope that we can do the same.

No matter if you are a Twin Flame or not, the point is always to become whole. So, all I’m saying, is if you hit a brick wall and you can’t make someone be with you because they aren’t allowing you to, go ahead and make a life where you’re being allowed to. What other choice is there?

You’re being shown the way.

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Soulmate Unions are the Unions that you attract once you have resolved what needs to be resolved within you. They just work. They are harmonious. They aren’t needy. They are those relationships that are ideal and don’t represent chaos. They come after the transformations that the Twin Flame experiences have triggered within you. The Twin Flame triggers resolution and the Soul Mate reflects back to you what has been resolved through all of your hard work. You just can’t get there if you are still heartbroken over your Twin.

There is some truth in the belief that Twin Flames must reunite. It is true that the catalytic relationships we endure are the predecessors to reunion. The other half of the story is that yes, we will be reunited in our harmonious, ideal relationship , but not necessarily with the specific person that we are thinking of. That person simply serves as a symbol to get our creative juices flowing. The desire inspired within us by the Twin Flame experience is simply to get us to dream and visualize and experience our greatest depths of desire, in order to more powerfully call fourth the manifestation of what we seek. The specifics are obsolete, because, in the end, the universe knows exactly what you want, and in the Harmonious Union that you truly desire, there will be nothing missing. It will be perfectly mutual. All the parts that were missing from the Twin Flame, which cause the discord between you are the details that will be filled in and granted within the Union that will come to satisfy, once one has become whole as a result of the growth that was sparked by the beloved Twin Flame.

If you are still attached to the idea of Twin Flames sharing a soul, or being two halves of one soul, here is yet, another reliable teacher, Teal Swan, offering her perspective, which is beyond 3D. Teal Swan is incarnated, but she actually coexists interactively with the spirit realm as she perceives both the physical and non-physical simultaneously. She was born with her awareness of herself before she incarnated here and therefore, has a broader, personal knowledge of the things that most humans forget, once incarnated.

TEAL SWAN, WHAT ARE TWIN FLAMES AND DO THEY EXIST?

I hope you enjoyed this message 🙂

With Great Love <3

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Survival Guide for Being A Misunderstood Empath In Matters of Love

Survival Guide for Being A Misunderstood Empath In Matters of Love

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Everything is a Channeled via Unity Consciousness. This is a Unified Universe.

All Twin Flames are Advanced Empaths, given the option to embrace it or not. When two people come together and they are at differing standpoints in their willingness to embrace their heart centered Empathic traits, there can be quite a rift.

The part of the Twin Flame Union that makes it worth thinking about are the desirable parts. The ideal parts. The magnetism, the love, the harmony. So, this is why I use verbs when referring to it. Twin Flame can mean different things to different people, as can anything else. I am only touching on the desirable parts. Think only of what you want in order to attract it…

I Love you with a Love that simply knows Love. A Love that doesn’t need, but knows. A Love that simply allows itself to be. A Love that doesn’t say “Yes”, or “No”. A Love that doesn’t push or pull. My Love never ceases to be. My love doesn’t know difficulty or obligation. I Love you with a Love that knows no sorrow, but is grateful. A Love that looks into your eyes and is delighted in you. A Love that looks into you with great attention and is overjoyed with the Love in your being. Because I Love you, I feel you so intensely, and I Love it. My Love is peaceful. My Love is easy, and I thank every star for you. I have never known such beauty. I never knew Love could be this easy. So good, that no-one believes it to be. But, you make me a believer. because of you, I know, that dreams are for real and come true.

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The first step is being a believer…

Being an Advanced Empath is a huge blessing. Everyone has this ability but few are aware and even fewer know how to use it to their advantage. As an empath, we sense truth. Because we feel energy and energy doesn’t lie. Therefore, it can be very unsettling when an empathic personality detects an energy that a person refuses to take ownership of, or admit to. For instance, when people deny their true feelings. It happens all of the time, for different reasons. Whether for deceptive purposes, protective purposes or because the ego is shielding the knowledge of the truth. An empath will feel very uneasy when his is occurring.

“When I met the person that I am now in Harmonious/Ideal Union with (Yes, our Union is still Harmonious and more so every day!), neither of us had knowledge of what it would become. I am an excellent perceiver and I had no idea. Now, I know that the Universe kept this knowledge from me on purpose because, I had some habitual tendencies and beliefs around dating that would have made the Union impossible if I had known. Because the Universe only gave me what I needed, and not the whole picture, it all unfolded absolutely perfectly. I did the same thing that I always do, I followed my guidance all the way, and I pointed out to him blocks that I saw. He did not seem to change instantaneously, but I didn’t give it much thought or resistance and turns out, he did change. Without this process that occurred before our Union, he would not have undergone those changes that were blocking our union in the time that he did. Had I known fully, the reason I was working to unblock his energy, at the very least, I would have been anxious and presented resistance to the Union. So, you see, nothing is ever wrong. It is always perfect, even if it doesn’t seem to be. Trust that it is. Trust that Harmonious Union Exists and that the Universe can bring it to you.”

-Elise

This happens quite often in romantic soulmate relationships. One of the lovers will give into the illusion of fear and desire to pull away from the other. It becomes a head over heart matter, where the decisions is void of heart and decided upon mentally. The empath which is more closely in tune with their guidance and emotions will feel the confusion in this and be torn, because what they are feeling from the other, does not match up with the action. The words and explanations do not align with what you know of this person’s heart.

 

What’s an Empath to do?

This is the part which represents that love is also freedom. There is no force. Just because you know where a person’s heart truly lies, that does not mean that you must coheres them to admit it. It is quite often that a person will not be ready to come to terms with the distance between their own heart and their own mind. People are not always ready to admit that their heart and mind are in battle. They, themselves are confused and cannot offer you clarity simply because that is what you desire. Your role is to be understanding of this and in all situations, use your empathic ability to guide you to knowing when a person is ready to receive your input and when they are not. As an Advanced Empath, if you are still enough to collaborate with your guidance on what is the best thing to say, your guidance will tell you what is a good idea to say and what is not. The difference is subtle, so, if you only pay some deliberate attention to the matter when you are getting ready to speak, you will receive answers. It can be difficult, but the difficulty comes from loving the person and respecting their needs more than your own agenda! Putting aside our own agenda is the most difficult part of the equation, but that is love and this is what an Advanced Empath does.  You will not be able to act based on what they need if your top focus is what you think you need, but what would help you to realize is that if you are not acting based on what your guidance is saying, your efforts will be in vain, anyways. As an Advanced Empath, The Universe asks you to pays attention to others and responds accordingly. Otherwise, you are not utilizing your Empathic resources to the best of your ability. To be empathic means to feel what others are feeling, but what good is this if you pay no attention and fail to act in accordance with what you pick up on? It is not up to you to force learning. You cannot do this, even if you try. In fact, the more that you push the matter, the more that the other person is likely to push your agenda away. Quite often, then best way to go about it is to express what you are feeling and if they disagree, let them. Your guidance will give you the specifics in each situation that you are seeking guidance on. Trust, listen, and it will come in the moment.

Instead of flowing based on the need to have your agenda fulfilled and then feeling rejected or misunderstood in the end, the whole gyration of that could be avoided if you simply live by this and follow your guidance first.

You will not be put in this position of being so misunderstood if you are first, making this genuine effort to understand the energies coming through, that you are perceiving. You will instead, know what to do and what is likely to come of it. Clear your mind and pay attention to guidance.

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In the end, paying good attention to your guidance is always what will get you ahead. The Universe cannot give you the entire picture, otherwise, you would have it already. But, there is an entire picture and your guidance leads you with the knowledge of the entire picture. You are to come into greater and greater awareness of your guidance so that you may learn to utilize it more and more. That is how this works. The Universe will not give you something for no reason. Therefore, the Universe will not give you awareness or knowledge that you have not demonstrated that you will use. You must demonstrate incrementally, your ability to utilize your guidance system, in order to gain greater and greater access to it. Your Guidance system is the same as your Empathic Ability. It comes through the same way. “Guidance” becomes “Ability” when you ascertain higher levels keen awareness.

Because a Harmonious/Ideal Union is perfect, by definition, it is only possible once you reach a certain level of awareness and utilization of your guidance. The desired effect is individually chosen. Ego is also a factor that must diminish quite a bit. At least, to a level that you are able to listen to your guidance, in lieu of proving a point. There are just certain things that must already be in place in order for a Harmonious Union to occur. Not to be making anything “less” or “more” but gradients must be used for the sake of explanation in this realm. But remember, that you actually are the one who has chosen the level of mastery that you want to become. There are a great many variations of energies that a being can have. Some personalities are meant to be strong, it is good, and just because you have not come into your union yet, does not make you less or more. It is your journey. Great souls will choose to have a lot of “Straightening out” before they enter into union. It is those strong traits like stubbornness, courage, love and authenticity that require fine tuning to be their best representation. So, do not ever see something as wrong with you. As soon as you begin having fun, you speed the way.

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Hi, this is Elise<3…
I have been conducting Twin Flame and Soulmate readings for you all, for many months now…

I have the ability to point out the blocks in your energetic patterning that need to be resolved before your Perfect, Ideal Soulmate Union can occur.

I need only a picture of you in order to perform this reading. The reading includes detailed instruction, tailored to your specific needs and guidance to explain exactly what it is that you must resolve and how to go about in doing so.

I am still offering TwinFlame/Soulmate Readings.

But ALL of you who come to me are desiring Unification with your Ideal Soulmate

So, call the reading what you will, but all who come to receive readings from me will be informed of what is blocking you from your Perfect Union and what you must do in order to resolve and come into alignment with your Perfect Soulmate Union.

I have already resolved and completed my transition, which has resulted in my very own Unification With My Ideal Soulmate in the 3rd dimension.

This is what I want for all of you.

Find Me on FB DanandElise OpenHeartUnions

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Understanding Chemical Reactions Between Beings and How This Pertains to YOUR Union

Understanding Chemical Reactions Between Beings and How This Pertains to YOUR Union

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Channeled via Unity consciousness. Because The universe has shit to say… And if you have no sense of humor, you have yet to take one on. Relax a little;) Don’t sweat.

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Really, words hold no meaning of their own. It is you who must interpret the energy behind them. The intention behind them. This is why you possess empathic traits to begin with! You use them to decipher truth! Because things are not always as they seem and you must learn to know the difference. Energy is subtle to a human from a three dimensional view, but you do not have to allow this to limit you. You are perfectly able to learn to be sensitive to the subtleties that exist around you at all times. Simply make that your intention. To always gain greater and greater awareness in order to take notice of the  subtleties to greater and greater degrees. If you do that, you will see that there is no such thing as limitation. You will learn that it is possible to see truth in all situations and you will never be blinded by words or appearances or fronts. Instead, you will see the truth behind it. Isn’t that what you want? To know the truth of all things? To be wise, instead of blinded? So, that is why the language here is free and expressive. Because you should be able to see through it. If you allow this to cloud your ability to hear the message, that is a fault of your own. True Masters do not cast judge met, and they teach the same. Release all judgement in order to see truth. For, Truth is what remains when all judgements are striped away. In all situations, that is what truth is.

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Does ^^she^^ look like someone who recognizes her divinity? Do you think she’s sweating the small stuff? Is she busy casting judgements upon herself and others? Happy people who recognize their divinity do not cloud their energies with judgements because it lowers your vibration, no matter what you are judgmental about. A Goddess energy is light, delightful, happy, and loving towards all things.

Colliding Energies…

Here, we will explain something that is related to the phenomenon of colliding energies between people, or beings. It is what it is and it is a good thing to take note of. Raise your awareness in this way and you will eliminate your need to collide with energies that simply do not suit you. It is you who decides when the lesson is learned. Not anyone else, and you decide by mastering it. So, hopefully, this will assist you in being the master that you are. The master in you that resides beneath all of the lies you have told yourself that hide the truth of your divinity from you. For, there is nothing but divinity. Even the lie is a divine role, but not one you cannot transcend simply by realizing your true, divine nature. Difficulties are not the only way to learn. You can also learn by simply cutting through the lies at a faster rate. Seeing your divinity is an act of self love. Reach a point where you can allow yourself access to that and you’re golden. There is no such thing as limitation. All limitations are created by your choosing and therefore, can be bypassed, by your choosing as well. Think about it 😉 Simply intend it and continue to intend in that way. You are so very much loved beyond any description, and you have access to this divine, ever present and all encompassing love at all times.  Know that. You are love. Read on…

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When two bodies come together, the energy that they create when they collide is like a chemical reaction, the result is very important. There is a chemical reaction, energetically speaking,  taking place and you must be observant of it if you want to be a help to yourself and to others who are also seeking evolution. You see, there are always things to be learned, but there are ways to learn them at a faster pace. There is no block you cannot overcome faster and nothing you cannot realize faster. This is a Universe of limitless possibility. Do not argue for your limitations. In doing so, you are only feeding your own illusion. Feed the reality that you want to become.

We are coming to you tonight to insist that you insist that those whom you collide with are generating good responses from you. Not that it is your fault, or their fault, but the energy that is yielded can either be more easily good or more easily bad. It is what it is.

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The result is the result is the result. When you meet a person, your energies will mesh, that which they elicit from you, whether it be good or bad, is not likely to change a great deal over the course of a lifetime. Whatever the dominant energy is, will likely snowball and become more, whether that is mostly good or mostly bad is the question. To put forth a great deal of effort in order to create a different chemical reaction between you is far more challenging than to simply let it be and move on until you find a person with which you naturally harmonize with. Even the act of trying so hard creates a negative tension. If there is a person, or people, that you can have great harmony with and not only that but great harmony completely easily and naturally, with no effort (effort, meaning in a negative sense. The word effort, representing difficulty in this case) then, why would you remain stuck “trying” so hard to create a harmony with a person when it is not happening naturally? This happens so often, on your planet, that most of you are under the impression that harmonious unions do not happen naturally and that love is meant to be hard.   Love is completely natural. The universe wants you to experience all versions of love, in all ways possible. But what you do not realize is how incredibly abundant love actually is!! That harmonious Unions can totally happen on their own and be a cinch! This is why, when you find a love, you hold on for dear life!! You create balls and chains, and you fight very hard to make things work. But this is not how things are designed to work. Love is love, but it does not mean that is all there is. There is always more. As in, everything is meant to be easy. Everyone is meant to follow their joy and to flow downstream, easily with the current. Difficulty is not the way that the Universe functions and it is not the divine way. That does not mean that any choice is wrong. Nothing is ever wrong, that is why you have access to all choices, but we know that ease is actually your preference, because you are divine and you subliminally realize that the divine’s preference is ease and flow. That is what’s natural!! So, do not find a love that represents difficulty and hold on for dear life, as if the Universe could not offer you something that would be even a far greater representation of what is ideal for you. Do you understand? That action does not represent love, wisdom, knowing or trust in divine abundance of love. Religion has a few things right. One of them is, that you are being cared for, if you will only trust, or, as you have coined it, faith. Demonstration of faith is synonymous with realizing the true divine nature of yourself and of all. It is beyond the 3rd dimensional perspective and that is part of the challenge of this place that you chose to take part in. To see if you could slice through the illusions of this place and create your reality based on your inner knowing of the divinity of all that is.

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Love is not scarce in this Universe, by any means.

Love is actually, the most abundant energetic matter in existence.

Love surrounds all, at all times. Anything in existence which does not take part in this is simply pinching off their connection to love. That does not mean love is not abundant.

It is the same way that you could be submerged inside an ocean of water, but simultaneously refuse to drink. 

Your choice to refuse yourself water is not a representation of lack. It is a representation of your state of being. You can always choose to drink at any time. 

However, it does require  fundamental awareness of this reality that we speak of. Of the infinite abundance of love in all that is. It requires a level of knowing, because you cannot see love with your eyes that you possess here, in this plain of existence. However, you can still know it and experience the reality of it for yourself, in this life that you exist within now, regardless of your perceptions of your current circumstances.

Have you not heard? Circumstances don’t matter. Only state of being matters.

To be more clear: State of being = Matter

It is your state of being which creates the matter and/or circumstance, not the other way around.

Sometimes, you do not realize or recognize the energy you used to attract your circumstance unto you, because your state of being is baseline. That is all you know. You don’t know the other ways there are to be. You have not the ability to see it from an outside view that is so different from your own.

You cannot conceive of something you have never conceived of.

That doesn’t mean you had nothing to do with it. It simply means that you didn’t realize the part you played in the creation of it.

So, here is the point. You cannot know what you do not know. Most of you have never experienced a Harmonious Union. A truly Harmonious Union. If you had, you would still be in it, because there would be no reason to end it. The harmony would be great enough to cause the both of you to overcome all obstacles to be together.  Harmony at that level is so very rare in comparison with all of the pairs which do not represent that level of harmony, and also, the joy that comes out of that is greater than the joy of anything else. This is why a truly Harmonious pair overcomes all in order to be together, without question. So, in your state of not knowing the heights of what you can attract, you hold onto something that is not the equivalent and your skewed perception sees it as a good thing. Perhaps in comparison with your fear of the unknown it is a good thing, but in comparison with having a Union which is Ideal, it is a bad thing. The entire time, not realizing that your state of holding onto something that you are not deserving of is what keeps you from that which you are deserving of. Some of you are not holding onto any person, but you are still keeping yourself from your union because you do not believe it exists for you. You say, in theory, that you know it exists, but if you truly knew it, you would be in a state of abundance of love, instead of abundance of lack. It is the state of doubt/abundance of lack which results in forms of sadness, loneliness, depression. You may attach whatever word you like to it, because it is all the same. In the end, whether you are attached to someone or simply “Married” to your lackful state of thinking, you are still not believing in the abundance of love of the Universe and that is the reason it does not yield itself to you. You’re in charge of what comes. Your knowing calls it forth.

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In layman’s terms: BE SURE OF YOURSELF!! YOU ARE THE DIVINE!!

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Simply put:

Do not settle for anything that is less than Ideal. Less than easy. Less than natural. Less than fun. Less than harmonious. Less than joy. 

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Harmonious Unions are easy. They happen naturally when your energies collide. It is the chemical reaction that comes out of the meshing of the energies and you find it easy to elicit positivity from the relationship.

This energetic reaction is the confirmation that it is meant to be. 

That it happens easily and naturally and mutually.

That is the confirmation that it is meant to be!

The Universe does not dangle carrots in front of you, only to have you eternally chasing after that which cannot be had. Ideal, Harmonious Unions DO exist, they can exist for you, in your life and this is something that anyone can attract for themselves.

*Just to be clear, the words “Ideal” and “Harmonious” are not labels, they are simply adjectives used here to describe that which you may give whatever name you like. Soulmate, Twin flame, husband, wife, partner, lover.

This is the way the Universe has designed it. Things are supposed to be easy for you. You are supposed to follow your joy and flow downstream, and nothing is supposed to be a fight. If you are fighting for something, you may need the fight, for your own reasons, but knowing the above, you could also choose to allow yourself to search for that which is led to you by your joy and represents ease.

”I have always said, When two people follow their joy and it leads them together, that is exactly what you want.”

-Elise

If following your joy leads you away from your partner or if them following their joy leads them away from you, that is not representative of something that is harmonious. A harmonious union is that in which the joy and the union are same. Following your joy leads you to each other.

This is also in alignment with what precedes the union…

Before you have met your partner, following your joy is what leads you to them. Once you have met, that rule does not change 😉

The Universe is set up so that you can follow your joy, your joy is the constant that connects all of the dots and synchronicities, leading you to all of your desires, expanding into more and more joy. If joy is what you desire, get in touch with your heart and follow it.

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Hi, this is Elise<3…
I have been conducting Twin Flame and Soulmate readings for you all, for many months now…

I have the ability to point out the blocks in your energetic patterning that need to be resolved before your Perfect, Ideal Soulmate Union can occur.

I need only a picture of you in order to perform this reading. The reading includes detailed instruction, tailored to your specific needs and guidance to explain exactly what it is that you must resolve and how to go about in doing so.

I am still offering TwinFlame/Soulmate Readings.

But ALL of you who come to me are desiring Unification with your Ideal Soulmate

So, call the reading what you will, but all who come to receive readings from me will be informed of what is blocking you from your Perfect Union and what you must do in order to resolve and come into alignment with your Perfect Soulmate Union.

I have already resolved and completed my transition, which has resulted in my very own Unification With My Ideal Soulmate in the 3rd dimension.

This is what I want for all of you.

Find Me on FB DanandElise OpenHeartUnions

~*THE FORMULA For Attracting The Ultimate Soulmate Union*~

~*THE FORMULA For Attracting The Ultimate Soulmate Union*~

“The Universe has a sense of humor.” -Elise

Channeled via the Universe, Bitches! =D

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This is the moment you’ve all been waiting for…

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Although the contents of this message have already been comprehensively relayed, it is sometimes easier to apply something more concisely written as a formula. So that is what will be offered here today. Steps one and two.

The Formula for Attracting an Ultimate Soulmate Union

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An equal description by words of your choosing, “Twin Flame”

The Twin Flame is epitomized and Idealized as an Ultimate Soulmate Union, so these are the types of words that we choose to describe such a lovely thing. Your description. Your idea. Just differently put. Don’t get so Twisted abut it 😉

So, Yes, there is a formula. As in, the following are directions as to explain exactly how you can attract a Harmonious Union that you would consider Ideal. It does not mean that it will come in the shape or form that you are expectant of at this point in time, but it means that once you do allow it to come into your experience, you would consider it Ideal and good for you. Which leads us to number one in the formula…

  1. Be expectant and hopeful, but in a general sort of way. Do not be looking around every corner, asking where your lover could be. For if you were having fun in your moment, your mind would be filled with other things and then the lover would show up unexpectedly. Like a pleasant surprise! So be hopeful in a general way, simply knowing that everything is always working out in your favor and it will be true for you. Also, DO NOT demand that the Universe MUST bring to you a specific person or a specific shape or form. This can and certainly will introduce resistance into the formula and block the manifestation altogether. If you met your lover and you are expecting blue eyes, but his are brown, you will never recognize him unless you decide that brown eyes are ok for a lover to have as well as blue. So, do not be needy, demanding or too specific in your requirements. Do not insult Creation. The Universe knows what it is doing and it is 100% capable of delivering your request as soon as you choose to line up with it.

When you have faith that you are receiving something, you do not feel the need to be demanding of it, or to be incessantly pondering the idea. The vibration of trust and knowing is a vibration of ease and fun and joy. Be That.

Your request to the Universe should look or feel something like this:

“I Know/Trust that you (The Universe) knows the whole package of my desire and everything it encompasses, to a degree that would knock my socks off and I trust that you will bring it to me either through a familiar/expected form or through some other form and that both would be equally pleasing.”

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Step Two: Open Heart

”True success is overcoming the fear of being unsuccessful.” – Paul Sweeny

What does it mean to be open hearted? It means that you always are authentic. You are always following through with your joy when it comes to expressing your love towards others. You are always letting your heart guide you in every moment in what to say or do, via text, email, messaging, word ext…  Without holding back your love out of fear and also not taking an action out of motivation to gain but only taking those actions that are truly inspired in you by your own heart. By your own guidance. Act on those inspirations Open-Heartedly without fail. Fully aware that you may “scare” the person away. Be ok with it, no matter what the outcome will be. Make your decisions to love because you desire to be authentic and to follow through with your inspiration. Not because you are trying to manipulate an outcome into the one that you are wishing for.

The one who is scared away by you is NOT the one!

The one who is “THE ONE” will be running to you and sticking to you like glue when you show yourself! There will be no question about it!

HE’S THE ONE!!!

Does acting in this way mean that the outcome will always be positive? YES

Does that mean that the lover will always stay? NO!

Trust the Universe. The One who runs away when you are authentic is not the one you want.

The outcome is always positive and here is why:

You are looking for your ideal match. Match, meaning vibrational match. Meaning, the person/soul who carries  a vibration that is closest to your own. Therefore, you can only attract that person when you are embodying your authentic vibration fully, in the physical. You must fully recognize and honor yourself in order to fully honor and recognize your “Twin” and to be recognized and honored by him/her.

YOU MUST BE AUTHENTIC

Since we are all divine love…

Authenticity = Open-Heartedness

They are the same.

NO HOLDING BACK

Holding back means you are not allowing yourself to be who you truly are 🙂

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Further explanation is required in order for you to fully understand why this formula is so efficient.

“If you want to know the truth, dive in head first” – Elise

When you are not being your authentic self, you will be attracted to mates who suit you in your current state. Reflecting back to you all that needs to be resolved within you. If you choose to simply be your authentic self from the get go, you would bypass all pain that is meant to force you to eventually discover who you are, AKA to become “whole”.

When you are being authentic, nothing but matching vibrations will stick. Suitors may come and go, but the ones who are not right for you will pass quickly and you will not waste months and years with them and you will not suffer so greatly.

On the flip side, when the right one comes along and you are being authentic, it will click and there will be no mistake about it.

Catalysts serve a purpose. The purpose is to reflect back to you that which needs to be resolved. The purpose of resolving issues is simply to rid yourself of all the untruths you have picked up, that are keeping you from embodying your core essence.

Embody your core essence and instead of attracting a catalyst who reflects all your garbage back to you, you can attract a mate who can reflect back the resolved version of yourself. Perfection.

If you simply choose to be your true, unadulterated self, there will be no need for you to experience agonizing catalytic events and the need for pain would be obsolete.

It really is that simple.

“Life is really simple, but we insist on making it complicated.” – Confucious

Do your work or the Universe will do it for you.

Pain is no longer necessary. It is simply an option. Evolution is inevitable, but pain does not have to be the way. You can go willingly or you can be dragged, but either way, we have all chosen to continuously grow and become.

You have options.

Go Willingly 🙂

And we can all live happily ever after.

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“The only way that we can live is if we grow. The only way that we can grow is if we change. The only way that we can change is if we learn. The only way that we can learn is if we are exposed. And the only way that we are exposed is if we throw ourselves into the open” – C. Joybell

Congratulations, We Are ALL Masters Now <3

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^^^ That’s the Formula^^^

THANK YOU <3

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Capturing/Aligning with the Vibration of the Ideal Soulmate Union

Capturing/Aligning with the Vibration of the Ideal Soulmate Union

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All of the messages here are channeled via Unity Consciousness. This is a Unified Universe and we are all in this together.

With love <3

Many of you do not know how this is supposed to go for you. You do not know what a good relationship feels like, because you have never had one. If you had, you’d still be in it and you would not be reading this! You would be with your lover! Talking with your lover in perfect harmony! But this does not happen because you do not know what to look for! You think it takes effort, when really, it is far less effort than you think. Really, it is no effort at all. You have been told many times and through many venues that love is supposed to be easy. How many ways can we convey this to you? But you still want to work hard in your relationships, hoping that will make them work and in the end, you can possibly gain some good from it, but never as much good as you could gain from joining with the energy that makes the union effortless and easy. You need to know what to look for. There are many people out there and it is so easy to see potential. You need to know that every second you are not within your union, you are preparing for it. That is what is happening. So, let the preparations begin! You need to know what to look for so that you are not settling. The longer that you are willing to settle, the longer that you postpone the union that you are really wanting to occur. So you see, the two are connected. Once you are not needing to settle, you are showing the Universe that you are ready for more. That you do not have anything more to learn from those other energies that are not serving you.

This process of experiencing relationships that are only leading to a more fulfilling relationship is necessary. The point is to work out the kinks in your energy so that when the right one comes along, you can recognize him. People come our way to assist in our process of evolution. Until you feel settled within yourself, you cannot attract a person to feel settled with. So, suitors come along to bring out energies in your field so that you can identify them and resolve them. When these energies are no longer in your field, you can then link up with someone who, instead of reflecting back what is unresolved within you, they reflect what is resolved within you.

So, what does that feel like?

We often fall for people who give us butterflies, make us nervous and jittery… But its too much work to be with someone who makes us nervous. It’s too much work wondering how much someone appreciates you, or notices your good points. It’s too much work wondering if they are going to call you tomorrow or change their mind about you. It’s too much work to be praying that they don’t see your flaws. It’s too much work wondering if  they think you are good enough for them.

The right person for you will not inspire you to walk on eggshells. Being with them will not cause you to feel self doubt, nervous and they will not make you feel insane. It will feel so natural to be with them that you will notice those types of thoughts just vanish. Instead of being more self doubt or nervousness, there will be less. being with them will be easy and effortless. This is the way it is designed to be and this way is consistent with the idea of following your joy, which is the path of least resistance. The path of least resistance is the easiest and most natural way to flow. It is the path that is inspired by joy and leads to more joy, every time.

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There are an infinite number of variables when it comes to the energies of relationships. The one thing that will always be true is that good relationships flow easily. Everyone has the ability to meet someone truly suited for them, it is simply a matter of being a vibrational match to that circumstance. Simply remember this. That the Universe is never asking you to settle. When someone comes into your life, go into it knowing that they might leave just as swiftly as they came and that, that would be ok because there is no lack, and losing them simply means another is on the way. Once you begin to embody an energy that doesn’t settle, you will attract a relationship that reflects that. In order to get there, you may have some evolving to do. As long as you remain hopeful and expectant, you will hit all of the points that you need to hit in order to get you to where you are wanting to go.

Here is what to look for in a relationship or potential relationship:

  • Look for interaction to happen easily and naturally. You’re not waiting on him, he isn’t waiting for you, there is an ease around communication.
  • You should not feel afraid. A person who inspires fear or unease is not going to be the best match.
  • Balance. The relationship should be mutual. Sometimes it can take some time to sync up, but for the most part, the balance will be pretty close to even.
  • There is no lack. You should not feel a sense of lack or that something you desire is not happening.
  • Peace. Being with the right person just feels peaceful. The opposite of nervous or anxious.
  • Everything should feel good and natural
  • It isn’t difficult to progress, progression happens naturally or with little effort.
  • Communication is easy and each party should feel content in giving honesty and that they are receiving honesty.
  • Supportive. Each partner should feel supported and feel that they can offer the same, energetically speaking.
  • Resonance. It should be easy to exchange ideas and see eye to eye.

This all seems pretty simple, doesn’t it? Well, yes, it is quite simple, yet most relationships aren’t characterized by the list above. Use this to help you gauge people out. If someone makes you nervous, if you feel like you need something they aren’t giving or you tend to hit a lot of snags in the relationship, this isn’t reflective of the best possible match for you. So, simply keep all this in mind and don’t cling to anything unnecessarily. It is important to know that there is no lack in the universe and there is no lack when it comes to providing the perfect partner for you. People come and go, but a lesson learned is a lesson learned. Let people come, offer their lessons and leave when they have served their purpose in your life. Relationships are meant to be good! Let go of the old to let in the new.

How do you know if it isn’t good?

Here is an easy way to tell. When it is truly good, there is no question about it. You would not even be asking the question “Is it good?”, “Is it good enough?” or “Is this what I want?” because the answer would be obvious. You would know, without having to question it. If you harbor doubt, then there is room for doubt. You do not doubt something that there is no doubt about. You see how that works?

Don’t settle. You know when you are. It isn’t necessary.

Demonstrate your trust in the Universe and your Ideal Soulmate will come.

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Twin Flame 2.0; What’s The Point?

Twin Flame 2.0; What’s The Point?

Love_facts_04I Channel through a source that I know as Unity Consciousness. We are all connected, everything is relevant, accessible and channeled.

This message was channeled before my Union, but it wasn’t published and it encompasses the KEY point that I have been wanting to express as a result of my union. Because this message was written before my current union, it is also a testimony that the method does in-fact work. Enjoy 🙂

“The Twin Flame is the Highest Love.”

-John Apt (Currently In Twin Flame Union)

    Love is polluted. Its contaminated with fear and doubt. There is only love. And its opposite. All negativity is the opposite of love. Yet we are so afraid of love. Calling it dangerous and unwise, irrational.  There is no such thing as this in love. Anything besides love isn’t love. So, pain, fear and doubt are contaminates, and then we blame love. What would happen if we were not afraid to love? If we did not hold back in fear? What would happen if our love was pure and expressed fully and truthfully. What would happen if we did not hold back?

Finding the Ultimate Soulmate AKA Twin Flame

Yes, it has to do with soul contracts and who you are, but it mostly has to do with who you choose to be. This is always the missing piece that you are looking for. It is always your choice to love truthfully or not. To express authentically or not. To participate in a contamination of love or not. Always a choice. And then, your lover reflects that back to you, and it is a gut wrenching experience for you. But this is the lesson of the Twin Flame. You must learn to love authentically and express that truth of love authentically. To sniff out the fears and resolve them so that you can enjoy the highest and best love that there is. People could be “meant” for each other as in, they are meant to assist one another on a specific lesson. But the kind of soulmate that you are looking for and the kind of soulmate that you want to have is created here, in the participation of the 3rd dimensional experience. Even a pre-planned union requires participation to bring it about. Open-your-heart-2

Here is How it Works.

You have to learn to love openly and be willing to express authentically. the universe will test you in this. But we never make it through the “testing” because we take the testing and say that this way of life doesn’t work and then we change our mind again. Only when you have chosen to love authentically, no matter what anybody else is doing, that is the only time when you can unite with your ideal soulmate. The Universe will not bring it to you until you have demonstrated your willingness to do this regardless of other people’s reaction to you.  You MUST  be resilient in order to demonstrate that you have truly become an open- hearted being because, the Universe knows that even if your perfect match or Twin Flame is brought before you, the relationship will not unfold if you are not 100% open -hearted and authentic. If you can accomplish this as a total shift and a new way of being, you will attract a union that is beautiful beyond measure and, very important, there will be balance.  The energy exchange will  be mutual. It will be perfect. It can be no other way, because the Universe arranges it that way, so that when you reach that level of growth and line up with a Union such as that, everything will already be in place for that Union to unfold in an ideal way. Everything is already set up and there. This type of union is perfect, and its created in such a way that by the time that you get to it, everything can manifest perfectly and there is no going back. Only forward. open-your-heart A Note from the Elise: I do not know how I wrote this BEFORE my current Union, and now, it speaks to the experience that I have already had. Usually, I write about things that speak my current experience. I write about what is current in my vibration, but this was somehow speaking to the future. I suppose I made a prediction, I embodied it and my prediction was correct. The point is not to establish a label. Do not let the label distract you. Use whatever label you so desire. Just know that Twin Flame is the Highest love. The point is to love open heartedly as a baseline on a consistent basis. This is difficult to accomplish as a way of being, but it is possible and it will attract your Twin Flame Union. Cut the crap and the Universe will stop testing you. Pass the tests and you will not need to be tested anymore and you can finally get to the good stuff. The Union of your dreams. I did it and I’m living it. I want that for ALL of you   NEW FACEBOOK GROUP TWIN FLAME 2.0 LOVE REVOLUTION

 
Hi, this is Elise<3…

I have been conducting Twin Flame and Soulmate readings for you all, for many months now…

I have the ability to point out the blocks in your energetic patterning that need to be resolved before your Perfect, Ideal Soulmate Union can occur.

I need only a picture of you in order to perform this reading. The reading includes detailed instruction, tailored to your specific needs and guidance to explain exactly what it is that you must resolve and how to go about in doing so.

I am still offering TwinFlame/Soulmate Readings.

But ALL of you who come to me are desiring Unification with your Ideal Soulmate

So, call the reading what you will, but all who come to receive readings from me will be informed of what is blocking you from your Perfect Union and what you must do in order to resolve and come into alignment with your Perfect Soulmate Union.

I have already resolved and completed my transition, which has resulted in my very own Unification With My Ideal Soulmate AKA Twin Flame, in the 3rd dimension.

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Love Revolution~ The Ideal Soulmate Union

Love Revolution~ The Ideal Soulmate Union

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The pictures really are what it feels like<3-Elise

Every message here is channeled via Unity Consciousness, which is love

Every Message here is a message of love

Written with great love and care

The Love Revolution is upon us. Did you know that it is possible to bypass all pain? Did you know that struggle is not necessary? Put your knowings aside and hear this. That everything that you suffer through is for the purpose of bringing you closer to wisdom and love. So, what if you choose to embrace love? Then, you do not need to struggle anymore. But you so often refuse to do it! You refuse! You use words like “risk” and “rejection”. All of those are only in your mind. If you choose only to love, then you will feel none of this. We want to teach you how. The time is now.

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Did you know that you can attract a union that is PERFECT and free of struggle and pain? Did you know that you can attract complete harmony to yourself and not bother with the rest? It is only you who makes it difficult. Because you refuse to let things go when they are wanting to go. Pain is caused when you are holding onto something that does not want to be there!!! That is why it hurts!! Because it is telling you to release it! Because it does not belong to you!! When something is perfect for you, when it belongs to you, it does not go away, it is yours, and it does not cause you pain. It is perfect. it is harmony. It is love.

But, in order to attract this, you must BE love. That is your greatest challenge, and most of you have yet to accomplish this. But we promise you, we promise on every star in the cosmos, that if you become fully, authentically, ferociously and courageously an open hearted being, you will attract your ideal soulmate to you and the union will be perfection. That is all that you must do. Do not sneer until you have tried it. Your rejection of the message is a manifestation of your unwillingness to be your own friend. To give love a try. To understand that rejection does not exist. To choose to embrace only love and to let the rest fall away.  Do you even know how to accomplish this? Of course you do not! To create such a great shift in your vibration, It happens over time. But it begins with an intention. You must FIRST intend to become this way.

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If you want a union that does not require struggle and pain, there is a way to do it.

Begin here, with the last few posts which have been posted in this blog, before the writer even fully understood the magnitude of what was being orchestrated here. This is a Love Revolution! Why? Because humans do not know how to love! They are mixed bags of energy containing this and that and everything else in between. Energies, thoughts and beliefs that you have simply adopted and picked up from your surroundings without using your conscious discernment. Well, now, the Earth is awakening and conscious discernment is being understood and used. Awareness is being cultivated and with awareness comes more choices for you. You are not at the mercy of old energies, thoughts and beliefs that you have picked up along your path by default. One by one, we will cast all of that out. Have you ever heard of the cliche, “it’s all in your head”? It is cliche because it is true. So true, that you have forgotten to even notice. That is what truth is. It is the obvious. So obvious, that it can be overlooked. Well, now, we are looking. Every single doubt and fear can be overcome. You have given these energies all sorts of names. You have called them Karma, or Fate, or Reality. But none of that is true. All reality is created by you. By what you deem as real. So, instead of doubting your infinite nature, embrace it. Instead of fearing, choose love. Instead of fearing rejection, understand that what is your will inevitably stick to you when you show your true self. Anything that does not stick to you when you are your true, open hearted, unadulterated self simply does not belong to you. Everything is movement. Things come and go. but you must show the universe that you are ready to receive what represents your authentic state of being. In order to attract those things that match your core essence perfectly, you must embody your core nature. You must be completely open hearted and ferociously authentic and courageously love. Love in faith, because you know what is yours will surely come to you. That is the key. Release all doubt.

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 Do not forget that this is a process. A quantum leap in vibration cannot be accomplished in only a day.

Working out all the little bugs and identifying all of those things that need to be resolved takes time and experience. Experience because you must see what the Universe is showing you that you need to resolve. The Universe brings you people and circumstances that represent your current energetic state. Those parts that need to be looked at. You can resolve it simply by behaving in a way that is representative of the new vibration that you are choosing to embody. If you can do that, the universe will test you, yes. But once you have truly proven that you are embodying an open hearted, authentic and fearless approach, no matter what, the Universe will have no more reason to test you and it must bring you what is rightfully yours. That is the process.

If you have not already read these posts and you are wanting to come into alignment with your Ideal Soulmate, you may read these articles which have paved the way for this topic. Simply go back. The right hand column contains the most recent posts which have paved the way for this Love Revolution that is occurring. This blog is full of information, from multiple viewpoints to assist you in resolving MAJOR energetic nuisances that you want to overcome. You may sift through and read what is needed. If you are experiencing pain, you may find those posts regarding pain to be helpful. Intend to embark on this journey and what you need will find you.

Hi, this is Elise<3…

I have been conducting Twin Flame and Soulmate readings for you all, for many months now…

I have the ability to point out the blocks in your energetic patterning that need to be resolved before your Perfect, Ideal Soulmate Union can occur.

I need only a picture of you in order to perform this reading. The reading includes detailed instruction, tailored to your specific needs and guidance to explain exactly what it is that you must resolve and how to go about in doing so.

I am still offering TwinFlame/Soulmate Readings.

But ALL of you who come to me are desiring Unification with your Ideal Soulmate

So, call the reading what you will, but all who come to receive readings from me will be informed of what is blocking you from your Perfect Union and what you must do in order to resolve and come into alignment with your Perfect Soulmate Union.

I have already resolved and completed my transition, which has resulted in my very own Unification With My Ideal Soulmate in the 3rd dimension.

This is what I want for all of you.

If you would like a reading, you may contact me at any time, via AcceleratedAscension@yahoo.com

We are all in this together.

I love you<3

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Re-Prioritizing What You Need In A Soulmate…

Re-Prioritizing What You Need In A Soulmate…

Channeled Via Unity Consciousness

Is this about me being happy, or what??

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“This post led me directly into Union by way of assisting me to the ‘recognition’ that everything I wanted in a man was actually standing right before me. If you can check off all these 9 characteristics, you’ve got one heck of a match!!”

-Elise

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Fireworks, overwhelming magnetic attraction, chemistry that keeps you feening for more, romance, passionate roller coaster rides, undying infatuation and obsession over an ideal that doesn’t exist, but just won’t quit.

It’s like the ultimate ride. Good, bad and everything in between, being inspired to deeper levels of love than you thought was humanly possible.. well, it just makes it hard to let go. It’s true, Intense connections are something we in inately long for, but they are truly hard to come by. Deep inside, we are all passionate creatures and we naturally want to be inspired to experience the greatest depths of love, beauty and connection… So, when we do experience it, we tend to hold onto it…

We are emotional creatures. Creative creatures, we are made from the fabric of love and we are drawn to the dreamy. The heart wants what the heart wants and when it calls, it is more than difficult to ignore. How can you ignore a feeling? How can you tune out the calling of your soul? The very tugging of your own heart, which knows no way to lie. There’s no way to ignore That which comes through you. In your body, in your mind, in your heart center. You can change a thought, ignore what’s infront of you, but you cannot ignore that which comes through you, the deepest cries of your soul…

Love and passion is more than an ideal thought, it’s a state of being. It’s the truth of who you are. It’s undeniable. It takes over. And under the right circumstances, it haunts you.

We fall so easily into the trap of wonderlands. We can be so intensely attracted to someone, that we overlook the most basic necessities.

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It’s like, we are so enraptured with our emotions, we don’t even see the blatant negativities that make us incompatible. We hold onto hopes and dreams so dearly, that we don’t even see the most obvious factors staring us in the face. Factors like, He’s just not into you. Factors like, there is no relationship here. Factors like, there’s no reciprocation, and it’s just not mutual. Excuses, excuses. The hardest part to overcome is knowing that someone loves you, regardless of their action, or that they could, if only…

As eccentric and spiritual as I am, as much love, hope and belief as I have within myself… At some point, we need to have balance.

We are in a human world.

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And we’ve got decisions to make…

At some point, you have to stop pushing against that. Pushing against what the Universe is trying to show you. Pushing against the facts that are presenting themselves, in your face. Things can transpire, but holding on for dear life is never part of the formula, it’s a demonstration that you aren’t trusting the universe. When something is meant for you, it comes easily! You don’t have to hold onto it for dear life and hope it does not slip away! The Universe does not make you beg for what is rightfully yours! So, if something is just not sticking to you, if it’s just too difficult to maintain, that is the Universe’s way of telling you that, that thing does not belong in your field. We are meant to have everything that we want, but you have to let it come to you. If you do not believe in the Universe’s ability to deliver, you will never experience the truth of it.

love can be a sickening, twisted adventure, to say the least. We make all these assumptions about what we need, but here is what happened to me…

I came to an even deeper appreciation for love through the realization that mutually shared love is truly hard to come by. As a result, I decided to implement some logic. Logic for the sake of opening more doors through which the Universe Would have more opportunities to deliver.

I decided to focus on what’s really important. I decided reprioritization was in order.

I had so many things on my list of things that I wanted in a man, that NOBODY was making it through my filtration system. So, I made a decision. Either, sit around with my nose in the air and wait forever, for the perfect guy. Or, open doors for the Universe To deliver more opportunities and experiences and see what happens. I decided to demonstrate my trust in the Universe.

I started asking myself  “What is most important?”

what’s most important?

Chemistry. Chemistry was my first answer, which leads to…

…Love.  Which conquers all.

Trust, trust is a must.

What else?…

 Reciprocity

Above all, a relationship needs to happen mutually, or there can be NO relationship. Reciprocation requires 2 people, both people involved. One person only equals half the formula and if there is only one of you participating, you’ve got zero. The reason I am bringing this up is because we WANT our relationships to be mutual. We WANT a relationship where both sides reciprocate their interest in the relationship. If you haven’t got that, then whatever it is that you are looking at is missing a non-negotiable requirement, and therefore, that means that not only do you deserve better, but you can attain it. Do not epitomize something that is not what you deserve. Do not disrespect yourself and the Universe in that way. You DO deserve better than to be treated like you are an option. You DO deserve better than to be taken for granted, unappreciated and turned down. Anyone who is treating you that way is not what you actually want. We want to be desired, cared for, honored, valued and loved. There is no such thing as the “perfect” one for you, who is not treating you as such. Anything less is simply not good enough. Love all you want. Love unconditionally. But realize this, what you deserve… A mutually beneficial and loving connection.

Connection, that’s super important.

You can’t have love without the right connection to facilitate romance. That’s why Connection came first on my list. I have loved many people that I just didn’t have the right connection with, and I couldn’t keep them in my life, romantically.

Those things are what matters and those things are what’s hard to come by. We need to prioritize What we are looking for and let everything else come into place. Because, if you have the most important factors in line, the rest of it isn’t going to break the deal.

my previous list of automatic disqualifications was so specific, it was like smacking the Universe In the face. Like when your parents know what’s good for you, but you think you “Know it all”. I’d rather be in love and happy with someone I never thought I’d end up with, than a lonely, stuck up know it all.

Who cares if the guy is 6’0, 6’4 or 5’8? When you’re in love, that makes no difference.

So what if he makes enough money to buy you a Tiffany diamond and a bad ass wedding? No amount of money can bring joy to a soul that is bound to a loveless, uninspiring union.

And, If he’s a super fun guy, and you enjoy your time together, but you can’t trust him and he doesn’t trust you, it just isn’t going to work.

So what if he wasn’t what you originally thought you were looking for? Love isn’t derived from a checklist and when there is mutual chemistry and love, the checklist can go fuck itself. Lol

Priorities.

Let’s talk about what’s really important. let’s talk about the factors that are actually necessary for the union that you want.

For me, this next part goes without saying, but I’m mentioning it because I’ve noticed that for many of you, it doesn’t, because you remain in love regardless.

Everything has to be mutual in order to work, period. Both parties must be interested, involved and willing to demonstrate. There must be even exchange of energy between you.

So, keep that in mind…

Everyone recommends making a “list”. But, what should go on the list?  Mine used to be pages long. Since the completion of my latest transition, I’ve come up with a much shorter list of key characteristics that I think, not only are necessary for me to have in a healthy relationship, but I think these characteristics are comprehensive,  on point, ideal qualities that are general enough to be of importance in any romantic relationship.

Chemistry

Compassion

Credibility

Courage

Consistency

Commitment

Compromise

Conscientiousnesss

Demonstration

Those apply to everyone and I’ll elaborate why. The following are a few that I tailored to my specific needs:

Intelligence

Open-Mindedness

Masculinity

Chemistry- You need to jive. You need to be attracted to one another. You need to have a connection,,enjoy eachother and want to be Together. Chemistry must be mutual. If the demonstration is not mutual, something is missing and the relationship won’t work.

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Compassion- You gotta be with someone who cares enough to at least try to be understanding. We ALL need that sometimes. It’s a part of being able to love another person and demonstrate that. Compassion fosters kindness and many other attributes we need and desire in a mate.

Credibility- Credibility is like trust, but it’s more than that. You can trust someone who doesn’t have credibility. You want to trust them, but in the back of your mind, you are still doubting. You’re choosing to trust them, but you’re thinking it could be a mistake. That’s not credibility. Credibility is when someone has done what it takes to prove that they are trustworthy, forthright and honorable.

Courage- Courage is a door opener. Nothing happens without a bit of courage. It takes courage to make a move, it takes courage to be vulnerable, it takes courage to give someone a chance, it takes courage to work together to overcome issues and it takes courage to love.

Consistency- Consistency is very key, for a few reasons. First of all, if someone is inconsistent, you’re not seeing who they truly are. They are conflicted in some way. And you can’t commit to a person who hasn’t even come into themselves yet. You just don’t have any way of knowing what you’re getting into!

Commitment- At some point, commitment comes into play. Any idea requires commitment before you can see it transpire. I think it’s related to courage. Indecisiveness can be annoying, when you’re ordering dinner, but in a relationship, it’s completely detrimental. Commitment isn’t about marriage. People get married all the time, and you find that they aren’t actually committed to it. Commitment is a state of being and it changes everything, because when you’re committed, you make the healthiest choices available for that thing you are committed to. When you’re not committed, your decisions will reflect that and it’s not at all conducive to maintaining a healthy dynamic.

Compromise- Every human is different. No matter how similar you are, or how well you harmonize, compromise will undoubtedly come into play at some point. If you are both willing to compromise for the sake of harmony, you will overcome problems before they even become problems.

Conscientiousness- This goes further than compassion. Compassion is being able to feel for another person. This could happen intentionally or unintentionally. Conscientiousness is intentional. You are being mindful of the other person’s needs and thoughts on purpose, because you care and you want them to know it. You are anticipating their needs, before they’ve even thought of it or said anything. You are consciously paying attention to them, looking out for them and caring for them. It’s not only caring, but proving that you do, with your actions. This is very important in building and maintaining credibility and a loving bond.  We pay attention to the things that we love and for those things that we love, we are also willing to act in their best interest, without being told or reminded.

Demonstration- You could have all the care in the world, all the love in the world, but if you cannot follow through with demonstrating that, it doesn’t matter. Nothing translates if you do not demonstrate. Everything must be demonstrated in order to make any bit of difference. You use all kinds of means for this. Words and actions come in multiple forms. There are no excuses in the world good enough to excuse lack of demonstration. Sorry.

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You could have all the ideas in the world, but it’s all for nothing if you cannot demonstrate.

I have put this list together and explained it for you all, because intention is a good foundation for attracting what you desire. Focus on these qualities that you want in another, know that the Universe can deliver and use them as your guide so that you don’t settle for less. Sometimes, we know something is off, but without a sensical articulation, we let things slide. This list will let you know exactly what’s there or what’s missing. Add to it to suit your individual needs and preferences as I did, but remember that the point here, is to focus on what’s really important in order to open doors for the Universe to bring it to you. The Universe does deliver pleasant surprises, and that can’t happen if you think you’re ahead of infinity, with every single detail laid out! Demonstrate your trust in the Universe and the Universe will deliver.

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