Moving Out of the State of “Longing” for Your Twin Flame

Moving Out of the State of “Longing” for Your Twin Flame

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I am Channeling from a Unity Consciousness

When everything seems wrong, like there’s no way out… When the longing for love brings us to tears…How do we get so trapped inside our minds that we cannot escape them? How do we escape a pain that we don’t know how to escape? How do we seem to slip back into pain, even when we thought we were doing just fine? Why can’t we reach the state of happiness and just stay there? Why can’t we transcend the pain? Why can’t we divert from our sadness, forevermore? There must be something… There must be some sort of solution. Some sort of relief. Some sort of way out of this pitt of darkness. Who can live this way? Who can live with a heart so broken?

To not know pain is to not know love. When you know pain, you know love.

But it still leaves a problem.

A question that needs answering….

How does one forget the pain of a lost Twin Flame Love?

How does one forget what they knew? How does one erase those ever present, clear memories? I remember, so clearly, how it felt when you were standing in front of me. Your presence in the room. The music you played and how it felt like heaven to me. How you looked when you smiled. Where you gave me that gentle kiss and the passion we had. The relief in my heart when you told me how you felt. The resonance when we spoke and how it took my breath away. Leaving me completely speechless and the awe that I couldn’t describe. It took me weeks to unravel that feeling and put words to it. It was that new, that real, that divine, that mysterious, that good.

Awe…. That’s what it was.

You put me in awe.

I kept loving you, and I kept giving my love. My love grew…. Love that was so big, I just knew it couldn’t be human. It was love like none other. Love that knew no limits. Love that was visionary, delightful and real…

But soon, I missed you. My love for you turned into Love that never saw your face. Love that never felt you next to me. Love that didn’t know your presence. Love that was never comforted by your voice. Love that just was. It was stagnant love. Love that was sent out into the world, into oblivion, into some black hole of condemnation. Never to be seen or heard from again. Never to serve it’s purpose. Eternally missing the mark.

…And then, my love turned to pain… And the pain kept coming…

How does one live in a one sided Love affair? How does one ignore the silence? How does love bear the absence? Knowing love. Feeling love. Knowing…. but never reaching the manifested version. Never expressing love with a kiss. Never being received. Never even running its course. Just being there. Love, all by itself. Love, lonely love. Silent love. Love that never sees the light of day. Love that never gets its way. Love that wants what it wants. Love that cannot cease and refuses to quit.

My love is innocent. But my love is like a stepping stone. My precious stepping stone into pain. Into anguish. Into doubt. Into nothingness.

How does one overlook the empty spaces? How does one ignore the ever present, painful reminder of the absence of that which is loved?

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Where are you? Are you in your past, your present or your future? We love, and that’s good. It’s perfect. But the future creeps in. it reminds us of what we think we don’t have. It makes us wonder if we will ever have it. If there will ever be an end to this suffering. An end to this pain. Will I ever see my love again? Will I ever be received? But that’s where we get tripped up. We begin thinking about the future. Big mistake. Because we aren’t meant to be able to perceive the future. Not in the way that we would like to. When you look at your future, compared with your now, there is no solution in mind. No way to see how things will work out. That’s how it’s supposed to be! We are supposed to trust! Trust the Universe, trust ourselves and trust creation. But, instead, we are muddying our present moment, with these thoughts of doubting the future. Doubting our lives. Doubting ourselves. Doubting the Universe. Completely missing the point. Which is now. Now is the place that takes you to your future. You cannot move into your future if you are missing your now. Messing up your now moment with your despair. Despair is ok. Pain is ok. It’s all ok. But we must realize how to move on from these moments of disparity so that they become simply moments and not our entire lives. I know what it is to be in utter despair. In pain. I have been there. I am not immune to this and I understand that you are not either. We can move on from these moments and cultivate something new. This trick works. Focusing in the now. It means, not worrying about the future. How it will pan out. Will he ever come back? Will I ever make something of myself? When these thoughts creep in, just focus on how to get through today. How will I get through today? What is important today? How can I live my best day today? That is really all that matters. Then, your future, which is dependent upon all of your Now moments, can unfold without interference. If every day matters, then your future will reflect that.

It’s when we get caught up in a picture that is too big, that we become afraid of our future. That we become afraid of where we are. That we see where we are as inferior to where we want to be. You can’t move into your future unless you are giving credence to your now. You can’t pay enough attention to your now, to accomplish all that needs to be accomplished in your now, if you are enveloped in disparity over your future. I could not write these articles to you if I was too caught up in my future. I could not muster up the belief that it takes to do it, if I was thinking about how this is going to shape my future. We are not designed to design our future by dwelling in it with thoughts of worry. We are designed to shape our future by following our joy. I write these articles because it is truly my joy. People love them. They ask me to keep writing them and because I am following my joy, I am actually helping others. I could not be doing this otherwise. What a concept. So simple and yet, that is exactly how it works. Don’t ask what the outcome will be of your action. That is a pointless way to approach your endeavors. Ask what makes you happy. Ask what makes your heart sing. Only be in your now. Now is all that matters. Apparently, we are all here for a reason. The universe knows no such thing as mistake and we ALL came here because we wanted to. Don’t belittle that fact by allowing yourself to get caught up in this longing for your twin Flame.

Notice the word “Longing”. Like frequencies attract more of their likeness. When you are in the vibration of longing you are creating more of that. The word “Long” represents something having considerable duration or length. “Longing” is a strong, persistent desire for something. When you are in that state of longing, you are not utilizing your now. You are not creating your future, you are waisting your time and creating more time, more space, more distance between you and that which you desire. Twin Flame, it is ok to miss, to want, to desire, but learn to shift your focus and come out of that state. You must simply “lighten up”. Live in your moment and live for today. Today only. Today is where you can find happiness. Today is where you can find joy. Today is where you have control over what happens. Today, you can channel your passion and do not even think of the end result! The end result will think of itself! It will take care of itself! You just focus on living in your moment. Do Not worry of your future and all of your moments will be worthwhile and your future will unfold on its own.

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I do not mean be reckless. I do not mean forget your common sense. I simply mean, do not worry of your future. Do not fret. Do not spin your mind, turning on the subject because it will never work out for you that way. You will never find peace, love and Unity that way. Shift your focus. Shift your focus to only today. To making the best life that you can today. I love you so much and I am telling you, from Unity consciousness, that all that you want is within your reach. Once you reach the vibration of it, you will know it because you will feel it. The goal is to stay in that vibration for more of the time. To keep learning and growing and preparing ourselves to be the best that we can for our reunions. You can only make the necessary provisions when you are in a state of heightened awareness. So, be in that state. Reach those thoughts. They put you on the right path and you know when you are there. Don’t think about how it will happen. Just have fun along the way and let the Universe worry about itself. The Universe provides all. For you are the Universe. You are not only supported, you are at one with all that is. Believe.

So much Love to All of You. Each and Every One.

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The Absolute Knowing Of Truth; Correct And Effective Use Of Guidance

The Absolute Knowing Of Truth; Correct And Effective Use Of Guidance

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This message, and every message posted here, on this site is, and always will be a Channeled Message

There is a time in your life when you will be so tired of the confusion. We want you to know something very important here. Something that Elise has come to learn on her own and through our guidance. There is only one reason, ever, why you will wonder about the truth. When something is truth, it rings true! You cannot deny it because at the very core of your being, you have resonance with everything that is true for you! If you are ever dealing with a person, or if you have a feeling that something isn’t right, it is because the thing that you are thinking about isn’t right. We, as your guides, have only one purpose to fulfill with you while you are inside your bodies on the planet that you call Earth. You have your purpose and we have ours. All of you have guidance that is consistently there, at all the times in your life. awaiting your call for assistance. Our only job with you is to offer you correct guidance that is true on all levels. We cannot possibly offer you a feeling of goodness on a matter that we know is not good for you! That would completely defy our purpose for working with you on this planet and the Creator of all would never allow that under any conditions. You have chosen your guides before you even came here. You are long time friends. Your guides are happy to be watching you and playing with you, working with you and assisting you at all times, in regards to all matters big and small. No guide of yours could offer assistance if it were not true. It is true that there beings that are not of light that seek to influence you in ways that are not in accordance with light. But those are not guides! They are influences that you did not make agreements to work with before you came here. They are beings that are being cast out of this place, one by one. Light is winning over and dominating over all other things. So, do not place your fears into negative influences. You are much more powerful than they are and they have absolutely no purpose and no power over you to influence you when you recognize your own truth. You have a choice. The all that is, of creation has seen to that and kept that a truth that will never change for you or any other being, for that matter. All beings have choice because the point is to evolve and the only constant in the Universe has got to be change or things would simply cease to be. It doesn’t mean that things would disappear. But there would be stagnation. So, there would be no new thoughts or intentions that could flow. It is the perpetuations of thoughts and intentions across all levels of existence that create the perpetuation of what is or the beginning of all things new.

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So, this is the very important thing that we want you to remember and take away from this. Trust that feeling in your gut. You all have tired of hearing this one. But it is so true and yet all of you are full of your own doubts about yourselves and who you are. Well, that is about to change, I do declare! If you feel it is wrong, it is wrong! If you feel it is right, KNOW it is right! leave no room for doubt in your heart. You can always quiet your thoughts and go inside and ask for the truth. Your guides will give you a feeling that is of peacefulness when something is true. It is a feeling you will know. Utter peace. In your heart. And when you feel unsettled, they are telling you that something isn’t right. Just know that. You cannot always pinpoint what it is, but if you have this feeling, you are justified in searching for truth. This is the first of many messages that we will relay in regards to guidance. This is a vast subject. We are telling you this because your guidance is 989903733_hjFJ0YzT_1208_161349_0J5GLY9CLZ_1very important and in order to receive any help from the higher realms, help from your guides, help on day to day things and problematic issues, you must know how to connect and pay attention in order to follow instructions. When we say the word “Instruction” yes, it sounds like an order. But guidance ALWAYS feels like the good thing to do. The guidance that you receive, if it is true guidance, will ALWAYS entail doing something that makes you feel good, happy, strong, vital and secure. There is always good feelings involved. That is the point. The point of guidance is to point you to that which will benefit you the MOST in any given moment. here is the thing. That you cannot see what we can see and you cannot know what we can know. But, we know. And, you must learn to trust. As, this was your goal that you established before you even came here to this life. You knew, with great and total certainty that you could trust this guidance that we are speaking of. It is, after all, the key to living your happiest and most abundant life. There is no greater gift to you, from spirit, than your guidance. This is the reason that every great teacher who has ever lived made a big stink about it;) lol, listen, we are not so different than you. We have personalities. Where do you think that your personalities come from? The physical body? No! You had personalities before you even came here to the physical. So, you see, it can all make sense to you now and will continue to make more and more sense as you continue on your path of learning and evolution with us. We will guide you every step of the way and we are consistently here for you. You are so loved and there are so many beings with so much love showering down upon you every moment of every day. We will continue to hold you as our dominant and loving object of attention. We want you to connect all of the dots. Because clarity feels so very good and because it is what you are doing here, as you are evolving into higher and higher states of consciousness. So, start putting all of your pieces of the puzzle together. Start looking within. Start asking for answers and when you pray for anything, always believe.

Intuition is like a muscle that must have practice in order to become proficient. Either that, or it needs to be without tainting. But, what often happens is that the intuition is ignored and tainted, so, the opposite must occur. Without guidance, what direction do you have? Without a compass, how will you decide where to go?? You cannot make even one decision without proper guidance. Physical vision is one thing, but even that is useless without inner vision. You must know in order to do anything. Take the steps you need to take in order to fine tune your intuitive mechanism. The road to union is paved with joy. But, in order to find your joy, you must first be in tune. Get your In-tuition In-Tune.

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An Introduction To The Twin Flame Sacred Union

An Introduction To The Twin Flame Sacred Union

This is a channeled message

Together there is nothing that cannot be overcome through the Twin Flame Sacred Union. This is the first lesson that you show each other as you overcome doubt and fear in the first stages, so that you may discover all of the love and beauty that this planet has to offer.

For those of you who have not been reunited, I have a message for you. There is nothing to fear. Only love exists. Anything that you experience as pain is a result of fears that stem from your views of yourself. Fear is an illusion. It is a state of being. It is not a reality. You can change it at any moment simply by coming into a higher state of consciousness. And so you see that fear is not even real. No matter what is happening around you, you do not have to fear. It is your choice to fear. To give into this illusory concept. You may choose to transcend fear at any time you like. What is within you is never changing. It is evermore. The essence that is you that comes from source. The truth that is at the very core of your nature. The ever present gifts that have been yours from birth. There is nothing that can change the value that is you. Fear is an item you have picked up from others. It really serves no purpose, other than to show you that you are not being in touch with yourself. That you are not knowing who you truly are. When you are ignoring the truth at the core, you will have fear. When you have not searched within to see what is at the core of you, yes, you will have many fears. But, what is fear, anyway? This is what you must come to realize if you are to reunite. That there is nothing that can stop this but you. There is no other. There is only you. You cannot blame or mock. You cannot find that which is wrong in them without exhibiting the same weaknesses that you see in them. They are a reflection of you. You must see what you are wanting to see in them and you must embody unconditional love if you are to be reunited with your Twin Flame. It is a union of your own soul. Your own love for yourself and for everything in life. When you come into contact with love… When love is all you see… All you know. When you are content with self, it will seem as if they will appear out of nowhere. But it is not out of nowhere. It is as a result of your new found vibrational space. That which is you attracts more of that which is you. In order to attract your Twin Flame, you must be that which is you. That which you truly are at the core of you. And so, it can be very hard to hear if you are not there yet. Some vibrations that are very far away from this will find it hard to comprehend, but you must know that it is possible. It is the purpose, after all. Your love is true, believe in it. By believing in that and keeping the faith it will help you move forward into the new places you are destined to go, and the life that you are living will unfold in such a way that you will bring more goodness into your life. You will begin to feel better than you have before, and you will attract things that are new to you. Little things you have wanted. That is how it will begin. You must notice these things as improvements and be glad in them. Rejoice in them! Be glad in the good that you are attracting and the Universe will give you more. More and more you will attract, into an upward spiral of virtuous events. Feel gratitude for every good thing that comes into your life. For, this is only the beginning. Love is abundant in the Universe. There is unlimited amounts of love and abundance that the Universe wants to shower down onto you. That is why there are more and more channels opening up to share with you these messages of love. So that you might hear and know and begin to receive. Loving messages. This is what we give to you. There is so much love in this world, if you will only notice it. Look at a flower. Look at how much beauty is in it. Even the flower that you call a weed. Look at it. Is it not beautiful? Is it not easy to look upon and find dandelionappreciation? If you would stop yourself for a moment. Get out of your head and use your eyes to look upon all of the things that are around you that are easy to appreciate, you would find love very fast and you would begin to see small changes in your life in just a little bit of time. That feeling that you feel in your heart, when your heart is full of love. That feeling is an indication that you are in the vibration of unconditional love. That warm, soothing feeling. You do not have to feel this feeling all the time in order to make love work for you. You only need to notice the feeling and give it your attention when you have it, in order for love to work for you in your life. For, the more that you notice this feeling and give it your attention the more opportunities you will come across to find this feeling again. This is how you will open your windows of opportunity to cultivate more and more love in your life. Amplify the feeling of love by recognizing and feeling the appreciation of simply being in that state. What you focus on grows and your love will grow with time.

This is a good first step that anyone can apply in their life in order to reunite with their Twin Flame. Especially those of you who are feeling pain. We love you all and we are directing our loving focus towards you and towards our knowledge of your growth into all that we know you to be.