What it’s like To Be in an Ideal Soulmate Union and Why the Twin Flame isn’t Exactly What You Thought it Was…

What it’s like To Be in an Ideal Soulmate Union and Why the Twin Flame isn’t Exactly What You Thought it Was…

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The Universe cannot give you information that you are not ready to receive. That’s the only reason you wouldn’t receive it. So, you have to make a decision. Do you want to know the truth, or do you want to stay in

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You see, we can’t know everything at once. That means we have to keep learning. Maybe the truth doesn’t change, but our understanding of it does. We can get closer and closer to understanding the truth as we evolve.

No-one is wrong.

Its just that we are always striving to reach a translation which is the closest to the truth that we can comprehend from where we currently are.

We have to start somewhere, and over time and with evolution, we become ready to understand more.

Are you ready?

 The Twin Flame is not so different from the traditional translation, but there is much more to it than the traditional Twin Flame template of understanding. 

If one soul splits off into two, are they still the same soul?

Yes and No.

They are of the same origination, but they are now two unique streams of consciousness, independent from each other. Their very own experiences, translations,  perceptions and possibilities.

“This new post turned out to be SO MUCH MORE than I ever thought it would be. It wasn’t my idea. I learn as I channel and the Universe puts pieces together that I’ve been collecting and forms them into a complete thought, like a mosaic.”

-Elise

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Come and join me on this new adventure as we accelerate our ascension. Our beliefs are hard to let go of. The truth hurts. Because lies hide our pain. They do. But I’m here for you. Decide if you want to confront your pains and obliterate them forever. There’s definitely a way. Source knows. That’s why I’m here, delivering to you, these loving messages. So, pick a side and stay tuned.

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Ever since this Union occurred, we could not be separated. We just couldn’t bear it and we found that we felt mutual about everything. It was the most ridiculously satisfying and dazzling experience to find that someone loves you exactly the same way that you love them. That you both want to spend every minute together. That you both can just make out forever, like teenagers in some kind ridiculous, infatuated puppy love trance. That you both just can’t leave the bed because you love pressing your bodies closely together and your very soul is telling you to just stay there, meshed in each other’s energy. Your body won’t even obey you. Separating takes quite a bit of preparation. Peeling yourselves away from each other, even just to stand up can seem like an impossible task when you’re in what I call heaven. A state of complete ecstasy and utter bliss, palpable throughout your entire being. Now, I know what it means to say “Love is in the air”. It’s a place, a vibration, a realm that you can reach. It’s crazy to discover that you both just want to stare into each other’s eyes. That you both are sharing in this state of heaven. Reaching higher, heavenly realms, simultaneously, together. I’ve invested a lot of time contemplating love and visualizing the best case scenario and yet, things happened in this Union that I had never experienced and did not even realize I was missing out on. I have spent months writing pages upon pages to gain momentum on thoughts of love and reach depths as great as I could, yet I never experienced this level of intimacy.

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I had never made love before, and I didn’t even know it. Discovering something through him, with him, well, it was more than special. More than amazing. A whole new world opened to me in those moments. A world that I had never even contemplated the existence of and it happened because it was special. It wasn’t special because it happened. Fate made it possible. From the beginning, I can see that now.

I thought I had done it all, but there was such great levels of intimacy that I had never even fathomed. I did come to realize that I could not hold eye contact with anyone during intimacy. I simply didn’t like to. I noticed that and I knew it was a result of a fear of intimacy. But, that was normal. “Normal” sex is enjoyable, but you aren’t having need to gaze deeply into the eyes of one another for that. You aren’t needing it to be tantric, sensual and to share a heavenly connection. Every minuscule amount of our consciousness was involved. He was the first person, not only that I noticed could look in the eye, but it evolved into enjoying gazing deeply into him and I would use it as a way to shower him in the reality of my love.  He could see me, seeing him, and in my gaze it is undeniable that I love him to his core, all reservations aside. No hesitation in me about it. It is the opposite. My gaze into him is thick with pure adoration. This was all new to me. And we were both awakened to enjoy it. The moments are cherished and savored. Awareness heightened and consciousness brought to a peak, not to miss a beat or a detail. To make even the slightest energy a full throttle experience. Every moment milked for all its beauty. Time stands still and means nothing. It does’t even exist. When we are in heaven, we are in 3D, but we are also somewhere else. In another realm. A realm that doesn’t exist in this dimension. You simply can’t get there without leaving the rest behind. Heaven, it is.

I never made love like that. It just happened, it was unexpected. I didn’t predict any of it. It wast something I had avoided. I thought I had made love before. I thought it was just integrated into the act, when you love someone. But I was in such awe, when we were in this experience and I even said to him, that I have never done this before. Awe and pleasant surprise is the best way I can describe it. It was such an all encompassing experience. I was like, wow, I have never done this before! Everything was so beyond perfect. I never knew that sex could be like this!  It made everything else seem so tiny, compared to the vast, blissful intensity of this. It was not even of this world. I describe it as conscious sex. Your body is so fully experiencing it. Every part of you is fully aware, reveling in happiness and closeness with your partner. But, the sex wasn’t it. It was just one way to experience. What really blew us away is what happened when we just lay down next to each other. We were making out like high school sweethearts. I have never enjoyed kissing so much! I had never even kissed like that. We didn’t want it to end.

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Before this, I remember kissing being decidedly short lived. Somewhere, in the moment, you’re in your head and you just want it to end. But here, with him, our hearts and bodies  fully entwined, yet never getting enough. We just kept on and we became enveloped in ecstasy. I mean, a physical, tangible, very real feeling throughout the entire body of intense bliss. Different from an orgasm or any feeling you get purely from sex or anything sexual. It was not short lived, either. It was literally like being in another dimension. One where you have to be in bliss to exist there. It was lasting, it was thick and intense and very, very real. We could not move from that spot and we surely didn’t want to. Every little touch felt like ripples of ecstasy throughout the whole body. Every caress yielding utter delight throughout. I felt all of my chakras glowing and charged in a warm, euphoric frenzy. My energy centers just lighting up, like no tomorrow. Like I had no body, not the one I knew. I felt all of the energy flowing through my entire body. It’s like somebody turned the endorphin gauge wayyy up and forgot to turn it back down. The bliss and ecstasy was just flowing abundantly and we were both feeling it. We were whispering softly in each other’s ears. Trying to figure out if we both felt it and confirming that we did. It was an out of this world experience.  I have been a serial monogamous, hopeless romantic my entire life and I have never known of any experience so celestial.

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Ever since then, we only leave each other to go to work. Before we were able to live together, we went to great lengths to see each other, daily. To greater lengths that would not even make sense for any other couple. But, we just wanted to be together and we felt better, even if our visit was short, or just enough time to sleep. That didn’t matter. We had to see each other  as often as possible. What would not have been feasible to a “Normal” relationship was necessity for us and still is. Only now, we live together. That just makes it easier. We followed our joy and doing that has brought us even more joy. We still savor every moment we have and romanticize about the time we get together. It is like a fairytale romance in 3D. We hurry home to see each other and we relish the days our work schedules allow us to sleep together.

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We are intimate very often, even if we aren’t planning on it, which is most of the time, we just end up getting swept up in it, even if we have very little time and we go for it. Because, we have decided to let love win. We really enjoy just laying next to each other and cuddling and gazing into each other. It’s one of our favorite things to do that we do several times a day, depending on if we are together, as opposed to at work. After being intimate, we always just lay together and gaze at each other afterward. Even if there is no sex, we love to lay and look at each other. It’s an activity for us, like watching a movie. We’re consciously dedicating loving energy towards each other. That’s always how we fall asleep. I even enjoy when there is only that and no sex, because there is still a knowing of mutual satisfaction in simply enjoying this dream come true that we have together.

Some things in life, you just want to ignore, but with him, I just want to take everything in. To be even more present. To dedicate to him even more of my complete awareness. It can never be enough. I always want to pay him more attention and enjoy him more…. I actually fear the day that we may have a child because I don’t want my attention taken from him. I love what we are able to share. The uninterrupted moments we have together. Being able to look into each other’s eyes and stay there, whispering sweet things for as long as we want to. I love the way his eyes smile when he tells me he loves me and my heart chakra gets a warm, fuzzy, glow. Telepathically confirming to me the energy in those words. Maybe I have been deprived my entire life. Maybe this Union isn’t so marvelous as I perceive it to be. Whatever the reason is that I cherish this Union so much, doesn’t matter. All I know is that our Union is lovely, full of harmony, laughter and desires fulfilled.. It’s a dream for us, and it’s real! Twin Flame, Twin Soul, Soulmate… Makes no difference to me. What we have is what we have, the experience is real and I don’t need to know why. It simply is. We simply are. For whatever reason, I we have been truly blessed with this gift of Perfect Union and we have both decided to keep the momentum going in this direction of love and harmony. The experience is what matters. Since the experience is here, we are making the very best of it.

Everything gets better with time, because we both want it to. We agree that what we have is special and worth preserving and making it as good as we can. We have no reservations, only love. We made a decision to go with our feelings and let love lead the way and we stick with it. Following our joy just leads us closer together and that is exactly how an Ideal Union occurs.

We are an Open Heart Union.

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I feel that sometimes, contrast is a very good way to demonstrate defining characteristics. So, I’m going to compare some opposite ends of the spectrum…

In most relationships, there is compromise. So much so, that people think it is a genuine necessity. Perhaps agreement is the necessity, and that comes much more easily with sameness. To be in Union is to be same. You are in agreement. When the combining occurs, the two things become one. They embrace and celebrate the sameness of their essences. This is what it is to “Meet your match”. This is why people are saying that they are sharing a soul with their “Twins”, because of the feeling of being so incredibly same. In a way that is unique to any other experience. In a way that has not been possible with any other. The resonance is tremendous! It is more than sharing the same interests, likes and dislikes, although, that is also the case. But, it’s more like, naturally being on the same page, all of the time. Naturally thinking the same thing on the same subjects and naturally being on the same frequency at times when there could easily be differences. Always having the same preferences and finding yourself rendezvousing in the vortex whenever you are together.

In my Union, it seems we are always thinking the same thing, or at least, agreeing on it. Even if one has a preference, the preference of the other may not be exact, but it also doesn’t conflict. As in, maybe we want to watch a movie. Maybe I know which specific movie I want to watch and he doesn’t, but his preference does’t conflict with mine.

To be same doesn’t mean you are a clone or an exact copy. You aren’t always doing the same things, having the exact same experiences, the same exact reactions to life and the same exact thoughts. That would be impossible. Each stream of consciousness is an individual. Only you look through your own set of eyes and only they look through theirs. Only your experience and your stream of consciousness is yours and only their experience and their stream of consciousness is theirs.

Because we each evolve, from unique perspectives, to be exactly the same as any other being is impossible, and creation designed it that way.

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To be same means you have found someone who is a very close vibrational match. A match that is remarkably similar and close to yours. Like two pizzas made from the same ingredients. They both came from the same source. Once there is a split from one into two, it is then two different things. Two streams of consciousness which endure two different experiences, lives, thoughts, desires and perspectives.  They are each a whole unit. But we long for that which is similar in vibration to us. This is natural.

The problem that I am witnessing with most relationships and with what the traditional Twin Flame community are identifying as Twin Flame relationships is that they are trying to attain Union with someone who is not actually same enough in vibration to come into union with. Not even same enough to come to agreement.  Not same enough to share the same desires and willingness to act upon them. Not same enough to be equally open hearted. Not same enough to agree to move forward without fear. Not realizing, all the while, that it can be so much easier when you simply meet your match! Someone who is similar in reality, not just in your head. What you see is what you get. If you want different things, it means the two of you are just that different.

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The perfect vibrational match or, the closest vibration match would have a natural, automatic resonance and harmony with you.  Being together would be the easiest thing in the world. Which means, they would not be running away from you. There would not be this huge, back and forth tumultuous calamity of a relationship that causes thrashing about and screaming and fighting and begging and running and pleading and chasing. Harmony, resonance and sameness are all related. If Twin Flames truly shared the same soul, or even very close to it, the whole Twin Flame concept would not look like the running and chasing dynamic that the traditional Twin Flame template depicts. It simply defies Universal Law to say that your match is not agreeing with you or sharing your desires to be together. It’s a complete and total oxymoron. Not a paradox. An oxymoron. It does not coincide with what we know of Universal Laws and the way the Universe operates.

This dynamic has been made up by some painfully lovesick  romantic caught in the 3rd dimensional trap known as attachment. If you are lovesick over someone, idealizing over them, it is no wonder you would find solace in this concept. It’s the only concept can find solace in, without doing the necessary work. The real work. The very fact that traditional “Twins” feel they need to defend their Twin Flame romantic story lines is the evidence that they are insecure. That something is not right. They all get triggered when you challenge their title. Why is that? Why get triggered? Do you get triggered when someone challenges your name? No, because there’s nowhere to land with that. But challenging the Twin Flame story… it’s a trigger. What doe a trigger mean? It means something is unresolved in you. Think about that.

The Twin Flame story It gives these spiritual travelers something to hold onto. Some glimmer of romanticized hope.

For, it is better to be a hopeless romantic with a glimmer of hope, than a pathetic pile of sobbing, tearful, sorrow, with nowhere to turn and no story to explain themselves with.

To have a story about why you are in pain feels so much better than being in pain, and having no story as to why.

(I’ve been there, too.)

This is why you have to believe in the romantic, Traditional Twin Flame Template of running, chasing, and union in the end. Because, you have no other way to explain why you feel the way that you do. None.

Finding out where the pain is really coming from requires an ultimate truth that can only come from you. You don’t even have to know why you’re in pain, but you have to be able to stop blaming anything outside of yourself and take ownership. Know that you have choices and you’re actually in control.

“You don’t live on an iceberg. Go out and make a life” – My mom

The next step is loving yourself no matter how you show up. Loving and accepting the one who is in pain.

“I feel like crap today. Oh, well, that’s just how I am today and that’s ok. Hello, pain”

This concept is not new.  Spiritual teachers of awareness, such as, Elkhart Tolle, are teaching this very same concept and it’s not new to me either. Here is a post that I wrote in January, in the midst of my very painful Twin Flame experience.

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The problem is that this entire Twin Flame concept of sharing the same soul, keeps you attached to the outcome. Dependent upon something outside of yourself in order to have true happiness. In order to get what you really want. and that is why the vast majority of those who identify with the traditional Twin Flame template are so very unhappy and also not in Union. Because they are not attracting what they want. Attachment to the outcome repels the desired manifestation.

That’s Law of Attraction 2.0.

Traditional Twin Flamers who defend the Twin Flame story are fighting for something. Fighting for something outside of themselves and that’s simply no way to transcend.

The problem with the Traditional Twin Flame ideas is that they keep you married to attachment. The proof is in the pudding. There is no self proclaimed traditional Twin Flame follower out there who can feel truly fulfilled unless either A. their lover returns, or B. they move on. Most of them will choose A. because they don’t know how to do B. and they back it up with the Traditional Twin Flame storyline. But what has this gotten you? I know you’re all in pain. That is the reason you’re reading this..

But, there is hope. You’re seeking it,  and it has nothing to do with your Twin Flame

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Sameness of vibration/soul is the belief of the traditional Twin Flame followers, but sameness yields harmony and resonance. Not the opposite! So, it is impossible that one can meet their truest vibrational match and be repelled. This logic defies the Universal Laws of Attraction!

It is possible for a catalytic Twin Flame to become a Harmonious Soulmate relationship, if that person truly is a close vibrational match, the evolution inspired by the meeting would bring you back together, but you cannot hang onto the chance of this possibility as almost all of you are. In most cases, the Twin Flame that you are speaking of having reunion with is simply to inspire you to accelerated ascension and also, enhance desire. The universe wants you to use your wildest imagination to envision the best possible outcomes and that is what the catalytic Twin Flame inspires. Being brought to great desire helps you to attract the best possible outcome. But there is more to the process if you want to see any Union and especially a Harmonious Union. Attachment to a person or demanding a specific outcome from the Universe is not the point of it all. The Universe doesn’t care if you deny all other possibilities that the doorway of love and freedom can bring. The Universe does not respond to your demands or your perseverance or pleas. The Universe responds to your ability to embody higher vibrations, to be authentic, open hearted and to have faith in the great plan that is in store for you.

If you know anything, and if you are not so attached to the idea of Twins sharing a soul that you cannot possibly consider any other idea, this just makes sense. I’m an experienced, professional and well studied soul reader. Well studied in soul traits and identification and an expert in the Law of Attraction from all angles. I have been working with a TON of Soul Mates and “Twin Flames” but it doesn’t take a romantic scientist to see that two people who harmonize well and have resonance with each other do so because they are actually SIMILAR! People who click are on the same vibrational page. It can be no other way! If you don’t click, you do not share similar enough core qualities. The differences are too great. Period. This is Universal Law. Don’t listen to the psychics who all want to tell you what you want to hear. That “confirmation” means nothing. You know how many people in the Twin Flame communities that I could get to tell me that someone is my Twin flame, if I really wanted it? All of them! It’s already happened. They make their assumptions whether I am asking or not! Everyone in the Twin Flame community wants to tell you to “hold on” But that’s attachment.

 They can form whatever opinion they want. They can tell you not to give up on your “Twin Flame” or not, but the TRUTH?…. THEY DON’T KNOW! Twin Flames come and they go. Even the Twin Flames get confused about it!

There is no such thing as missing out on your one and only opportunity for completion. There is no such thing as being destined to reunite with the other half of your soul. That whole theory is very cool, but it invokes two things:

1. That you are incomplete

2. Attachment to something outside of yourself

This theory has it’s value along the path of evolution. But the only constant is change and you can’t “Hold on” forever.

 Do not use the opinions of other people who are stuck in attachment to back up your perpetuation of this nonexistent Twin Flame idea that makes no sense if you know anything about what causes energies to be attracted and repelled. Support holds no weight against truth.

At the very least, you should be seeking truth, not validation of the Twin Flame story, not confirmation of your “Other half”. Truth.

Without truth, love is actually shielded.

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A Twin Flame is a soulmate catalyst that triggers a great amount of growth and inspires enormous depths of passion within you. A Twin Flame is not the end all, be all of you and you are not at the mercy of your Twin Flame’s willingness to surrender to you or to the Universe. There is no such thing as only having one option or one other half in a limitless Universe.

I am saying this because there are many people who believe this, and they will push it on you. Their sanity depends upon having a story for their pain to stand on. I am simply asking that you make sure that you are applying your knowledge on Universal Law and that you take in all of the data that you can, before you get stuck in a theory that puts so many people on a treadmill to nowhere.

This theory has served us well, but it can’t take us all the way. This is the way many spiritual teachings are designed. To meet you where you are. It is time to move beyond this.

You cannot become a master of any one thing if you do not pull from a larger pool of knowledge that goes beyond that one thing.

The only reason I have succeeded in the flesh, in my life, in attracting my Union and the only reason that I know what I know and have the ability to pull more and more advanced teachings and put the pieces together is because I am fully willing to learn. Even if evolution means leaving old ideas behind. If you want to achieve, you have to be willing to let the Universe give you new information.

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I used to be in a space that said that nobody outside of yourself could tell you if someone was your Twin Flame or not. I actually  refer to the whole thing as a Twin Flame experience because many people could be having the Twin Flame experience, whether it is actually a close match or not. I noticed that when I was working with these soulmate “Twin” chasers and runners who were coming to me. They were having the Twin Flame experience, but it definitely wasn’t with a “Twin” Soul. I realized, that by the traditional Twin Flame description of sharing the “same soul”, that made it easy to root out the definite energetic mismatches. It’s just so blatantly obvious when two souls do not share the same core essence or when the energetic traits are very different. It would make me think to myself, no wonder there is a problem in the “Union”. There always will be, because you two are not similar. Yet, the experience was real. It’s an experience. The purpose is growth.

The traditional ideology is that the Twin Flame as an Ultimate Union, but, the only problem with that is how often these Twin Flames remain stuck on the Twin Flame treadmill, by themselves, year after long and painstakingly lonely year?

A Union is a Union. A Twin Flame is a Twin Flame. A Soulmate is a Soulmate. Stop trying to make the transition from Twin Flame into Union and just take the lesson! You have no other choice! You can’t change their mind. You can’t force anything into being. You can learn the hard way, or you can learn the easy way. That’s the only choice you have.

You will learn. But how much pain will it take?

”Go or be dragged” – Amazing Yoga

If Reunion is going to occur, don’t worry you won’t miss it. Nothing could make you miss it…except yourself.

Stop trying to arrange your fate. That’s the job of the Universe. YOUR job is to learn to love.

 Love yourself, love others and love your life. Stop wanting things to be different. Follow your joy in the ways that you are able to. Not only is that all you can do, it’s enough. Not only is it enough, it’s all you can do.

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Listen to energetic reason. The one who is naturally same, doesn’t have to be forced, persuaded, coerced   chased, or gradually negotiated into compromise. The very root of disagreement in any form is difference in opinion or desire, which is simply an extension of differences in the soul itself. If you are having a very large discord with someone, such as, “ I want a relationship with you, but you don’t want a relationship with me.” that person cannot possibly be the same soul that you are. It simply would not happen with someone who is the same that you are. Someone who shares your exact traits and makeup at the core, would be agree with you and they would be more than willing.

Don’t even start with the excuses. Excuses don’t exist in an Open Heart Union.

People who drift apart over time do so because as they evolve into more authentic versions of themselves, they realize that they are with someone who is actually very different from them.

The opposite is also true. People who are the same at their core will grow closer as they evolve into their most authentic versions of themselves.

That is what it is like to be in Union with your Ideal Soulmate. You grow closer. 

The more authentic you become, the more it brings you together. That’s how you know if you are same at your core.

When you find this person, there is no chasing, there is no running, there is only recognition. The resonance is so strong that there is simply no other way. No turning back. You KNOW when you are dealing with your match because you merge. This is simply how the Laws of Attraction work.

Same =Resonance=Harmony= Merging=Union

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If there is not mutual recognition, then there is a noticeable difference at core essence that makes being apart a more appealing option than being together. Once the core match is found, there is a mutual clarity and understanding of togetherness being priority. There is no excuse in existence that would be convincing enough to separate either of you from your perfect Union, once recognized. By definition, an Ideal Union is when you are SAME.  On the same page, on the same frequency, on the same vibration, which means you will easily agree. An Ideal Union cannot be in the past, otherwise, it obviously wasn’t Ideal. An Ideal Union is in the present and Harmonious, like heaven on Earth. Following your joys bring you closer, not farther. Some of you are receiving the message that Heaven on Earth is what this ascension process is aiming to achieve. These Open Heart Unions are simply a manifestation of that collaborative agreement/effort to raise the vibration of the collective consciousness.

Here’s a math problem for you…

If there are 1 million un-united Twin Flames in the world and all of them learned how to attract an Open Heart Union to themselves, how much would that raise the vibration of the collective consciousness?

It is impossible to share exactly the same soul. A soul is not a thing that can be divided into two. Once it becomes two, it is two different things. We are all one, we are all same, because we all come from one source and we are all extensions of that same source. So, we are all Twin Flames, but, on the level that we are speaking,

A soul is simply a stream of consciousness. If a stream of consciousness were to split into two, it then would become two different streams of consciousness. Two different perspectives  two different bodies, two different experiences, two different reactions, two entirely different worlds. So, the fact that you are looking at someone through your own set of eyes and not theirs, makes you different, NOT same.

However, what we are looking for in an Ideal Soulmate Union is someone who is very similar to us, energetically. Now, that can be achieved. It is possible to find someone who thinks on the same level as you, agrees with you,  shares your viewpoints, interests and likes your ideas. It is possible to find someone to share a mutual love relationship that is full of resonance and harmony. That is possible. So, when I say “same”, I am saying similar, or very, very similar energetic vibration.

Majority of the people who come to me for readings are remarkably different. The fact that they are in separation physically, mentally or emotionally is the evidence.

This is not about being right or wrong. There’s really nothing “wrong” about the traditional story. But the traditional story is not expansive enough. If it keeps you locked into attachment and causes you more pain than joy, you miss the point of the entire scene. If you feel like Union comes from the manifestation of “The one”, you aren’t focusing inward, you are focusing outward, to them. But they cannot help you. They are only a manifestation of your current state.

If you feel like something is missing, or like you can’t have what you truly want or that what you truly want is in the future, you will be right. It will never be manifested in your NOW moment.

Most of my clients miss the point that this is ALL ABOUT THEM. Not about the other person.

And they don’t want to hear that.

They want me to tell them the future about reunion. They want me to confirm the connection. They want to know more about what the other person is doing than about the inner work.

Don’t let the story distract you from the reason that your catalyst came to you.

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Ideal Union is so easy when you’re experiencing it. It feels like the most natural thing in the world and once you find it, you have no idea how it took so long to find it and how on Earth you came to know so many issues with others in the past. We all know that harmony is possible. That finding and equal soul to come into Union with is possible and it makes sense to us that it has to be out there. I remember having this thought over and over, so many times, even years before it came into my reality. It makes more sense in every way, to be in harmony than it does to be in disharmony, but you still have to find a way to come into harmony with harmony!! You still have to match the vibration in order to align with it and manifest it in 3D. You have to come into harmony with the self. All things outside the self aside. It is possible for all. There is no-one but you. You are the only missing piece.  I always knew, for sure, that there had to be somebody out there who was looking for me, exactly, in every way. I knew that there was someone out there who would feel like they hit the jackpot with me and would do anything for me. The same is true for everyone else! You have a match, and you can attract it. It all depends upon you.

This is quite possibly where the phrase “Till death do you part” comes from. Because this is how it feels when you meet your match, and it’s mutual. That you will be venturing through all eternities and realms together, because in each other, you have found your “perfect” match. A place called home. A home that exists no where else and home is where the heart is.

The Traditional Twin Flame Concept is a metaphor for the truth of Unity, Oneness and Love. The truth that we all are of the same and that we come from the same source. We are all united in this unified universe. I am your Twin Flame and thank you for being mine. My catalyst, my reason, my mission, my motivation and my inspiration and my purpose for continuing on in my expression of love.

Here are some videos from credible sources that support all of the above that I have just mentioned. Matt Kahn teaches from an emotional standpoint. Teal Swan explains the Technical view and Larissa Roberts confronts the truth of the Metaphor and the purpose of the Twin Flame experience. Enjoy.

TEAL SWAN, ON TWIN FLAMES

                           TEAL SWAN, DO TWIN FLAMES EXIST? <- Go to 16:14

LARISSA ROBERTS, ON TWIN FLAMES

MATT KAHN, ON TWIN FLAMES

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 There is more information to cover on this subject. For instance, based on what I said regarding the Law of Attraction, then why would one attract someone and then repel them? Or, why would one attract anyone at all, if they aren’t close enough in vibration to have harmony with? This goes back to attracting based on the vibrations within yourself which need to be resolved and that is something which I have already covered.

Here is the Link -> ALIGNING WITH THE VIBRATION OF THE IDEAL SOULMATE UNION

Hi, this is Elise<3…

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OPEN HEART UNIONS

I have been conducting Twin Flame and Soulmate readings for you all, for many months now…

I have the ability to point out the blocks in your energetic patterning that need to be resolved before your Perfect, Ideal Soulmate Union can occur.

I need only a picture of you in order to perform this reading. The reading includes detailed instruction, tailored to your specific needs and guidance to explain exactly what it is that you must resolve and how to go about in doing so.

I am still offering TwinFlame/Soulmate Readings.

But ALL of you who come to me are desiring an Ideal Union/Open Heart Union

This requires you to identify and resolve the misaligned energies within yourself.

Call the reading what you will, but all who come to receive readings from me will be informed of what is blocking you from your Perfect Union and what you must do in order to resolve and come into alignment with your Open Heart Union.

I have already resolved and completed my transition, which has resulted in my very own Unification With My Ideal Soulmate in the 3rd dimension.

This is what I want for all of you.

63c4fffe9454ab29bbaa6792cbb9d81dI am not supporting the idea of attachment. That is not what resolution is about. It’s not about a means to an end. A pot of gold at the end of the rainbow. However, Ideal Union does occur as a result of resolving the self and coming into union with the self, but, if that is the goal, that is a block in itself.

My approach is via open heartedness, which means becoming more familiar with your authentic self and embodying 100% authentic self expression. For all of you, authentic self expression equals love. Love for the self and love for others without reservations, expectations or attachments to outcome. Anything not of love is a result of fear and is not of you.

I am now, solely teaching advanced concepts. I expect my clients to be well informed and completely dedicated to the cause. Otherwise, you will miss everything I have said to you.

My mission is to assist in the growth of each individual into love, for the good of all.

My clients must be those who are up to speed enough to benefit from my assistance.

Before contacting me, please understand that this is all about you.

Your soulmate is simply a reflection.

When you change yourself, you change the reflection.

With Great Love <3

You are all my Twin Flame. Thank you.

At this point, my blog is very comprehensive, with over 70 posts on this subject and my life experience is a testimony that whatever I am doing, it works, because it has lead me into manifesting my greatest desire. If there is something that does not make sense to you, it is either because you are not ready for the information, you are not fully understanding  due to a block, (I notice that when people want to “Hold on” to an idea, they do not fully take in the information and they also misinterpret, completely. This is a block, due to not wanting to change the mind about a current standpoint) or because there are many other pieces of the puzzle that need to fill in before you can reach this point. It’s simply a journey and my intention whoever does come across this information benefits.

I have many, many other helpful posts and many of them have nothing to do with Redefining Twin Flames. Many of my posts do align with traditional concepts, so, It’s likely that no matter where you stand, I have something that can meet you where you are. Please contact me if you are looking for any information. Perhaps I can provide you with links to previous entries I have completed.

My Mission is service, via Truth and Love. My Courage is my Testimony. My work is my Seal.

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Capturing/Aligning with the Vibration of the Ideal Soulmate Union

Capturing/Aligning with the Vibration of the Ideal Soulmate Union

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All of the messages here are channeled via Unity Consciousness. This is a Unified Universe and we are all in this together.

With love <3

Many of you do not know how this is supposed to go for you. You do not know what a good relationship feels like, because you have never had one. If you had, you’d still be in it and you would not be reading this! You would be with your lover! Talking with your lover in perfect harmony! But this does not happen because you do not know what to look for! You think it takes effort, when really, it is far less effort than you think. Really, it is no effort at all. You have been told many times and through many venues that love is supposed to be easy. How many ways can we convey this to you? But you still want to work hard in your relationships, hoping that will make them work and in the end, you can possibly gain some good from it, but never as much good as you could gain from joining with the energy that makes the union effortless and easy. You need to know what to look for. There are many people out there and it is so easy to see potential. You need to know that every second you are not within your union, you are preparing for it. That is what is happening. So, let the preparations begin! You need to know what to look for so that you are not settling. The longer that you are willing to settle, the longer that you postpone the union that you are really wanting to occur. So you see, the two are connected. Once you are not needing to settle, you are showing the Universe that you are ready for more. That you do not have anything more to learn from those other energies that are not serving you.

This process of experiencing relationships that are only leading to a more fulfilling relationship is necessary. The point is to work out the kinks in your energy so that when the right one comes along, you can recognize him. People come our way to assist in our process of evolution. Until you feel settled within yourself, you cannot attract a person to feel settled with. So, suitors come along to bring out energies in your field so that you can identify them and resolve them. When these energies are no longer in your field, you can then link up with someone who, instead of reflecting back what is unresolved within you, they reflect what is resolved within you.

So, what does that feel like?

We often fall for people who give us butterflies, make us nervous and jittery… But its too much work to be with someone who makes us nervous. It’s too much work wondering how much someone appreciates you, or notices your good points. It’s too much work wondering if they are going to call you tomorrow or change their mind about you. It’s too much work to be praying that they don’t see your flaws. It’s too much work wondering if  they think you are good enough for them.

The right person for you will not inspire you to walk on eggshells. Being with them will not cause you to feel self doubt, nervous and they will not make you feel insane. It will feel so natural to be with them that you will notice those types of thoughts just vanish. Instead of being more self doubt or nervousness, there will be less. being with them will be easy and effortless. This is the way it is designed to be and this way is consistent with the idea of following your joy, which is the path of least resistance. The path of least resistance is the easiest and most natural way to flow. It is the path that is inspired by joy and leads to more joy, every time.

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There are an infinite number of variables when it comes to the energies of relationships. The one thing that will always be true is that good relationships flow easily. Everyone has the ability to meet someone truly suited for them, it is simply a matter of being a vibrational match to that circumstance. Simply remember this. That the Universe is never asking you to settle. When someone comes into your life, go into it knowing that they might leave just as swiftly as they came and that, that would be ok because there is no lack, and losing them simply means another is on the way. Once you begin to embody an energy that doesn’t settle, you will attract a relationship that reflects that. In order to get there, you may have some evolving to do. As long as you remain hopeful and expectant, you will hit all of the points that you need to hit in order to get you to where you are wanting to go.

Here is what to look for in a relationship or potential relationship:

  • Look for interaction to happen easily and naturally. You’re not waiting on him, he isn’t waiting for you, there is an ease around communication.
  • You should not feel afraid. A person who inspires fear or unease is not going to be the best match.
  • Balance. The relationship should be mutual. Sometimes it can take some time to sync up, but for the most part, the balance will be pretty close to even.
  • There is no lack. You should not feel a sense of lack or that something you desire is not happening.
  • Peace. Being with the right person just feels peaceful. The opposite of nervous or anxious.
  • Everything should feel good and natural
  • It isn’t difficult to progress, progression happens naturally or with little effort.
  • Communication is easy and each party should feel content in giving honesty and that they are receiving honesty.
  • Supportive. Each partner should feel supported and feel that they can offer the same, energetically speaking.
  • Resonance. It should be easy to exchange ideas and see eye to eye.

This all seems pretty simple, doesn’t it? Well, yes, it is quite simple, yet most relationships aren’t characterized by the list above. Use this to help you gauge people out. If someone makes you nervous, if you feel like you need something they aren’t giving or you tend to hit a lot of snags in the relationship, this isn’t reflective of the best possible match for you. So, simply keep all this in mind and don’t cling to anything unnecessarily. It is important to know that there is no lack in the universe and there is no lack when it comes to providing the perfect partner for you. People come and go, but a lesson learned is a lesson learned. Let people come, offer their lessons and leave when they have served their purpose in your life. Relationships are meant to be good! Let go of the old to let in the new.

How do you know if it isn’t good?

Here is an easy way to tell. When it is truly good, there is no question about it. You would not even be asking the question “Is it good?”, “Is it good enough?” or “Is this what I want?” because the answer would be obvious. You would know, without having to question it. If you harbor doubt, then there is room for doubt. You do not doubt something that there is no doubt about. You see how that works?

Don’t settle. You know when you are. It isn’t necessary.

Demonstrate your trust in the Universe and your Ideal Soulmate will come.

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Love Revolution~ The Ideal Soulmate Union

Love Revolution~ The Ideal Soulmate Union

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The pictures really are what it feels like<3-Elise

Every message here is channeled via Unity Consciousness, which is love

Every Message here is a message of love

Written with great love and care

The Love Revolution is upon us. Did you know that it is possible to bypass all pain? Did you know that struggle is not necessary? Put your knowings aside and hear this. That everything that you suffer through is for the purpose of bringing you closer to wisdom and love. So, what if you choose to embrace love? Then, you do not need to struggle anymore. But you so often refuse to do it! You refuse! You use words like “risk” and “rejection”. All of those are only in your mind. If you choose only to love, then you will feel none of this. We want to teach you how. The time is now.

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Did you know that you can attract a union that is PERFECT and free of struggle and pain? Did you know that you can attract complete harmony to yourself and not bother with the rest? It is only you who makes it difficult. Because you refuse to let things go when they are wanting to go. Pain is caused when you are holding onto something that does not want to be there!!! That is why it hurts!! Because it is telling you to release it! Because it does not belong to you!! When something is perfect for you, when it belongs to you, it does not go away, it is yours, and it does not cause you pain. It is perfect. it is harmony. It is love.

But, in order to attract this, you must BE love. That is your greatest challenge, and most of you have yet to accomplish this. But we promise you, we promise on every star in the cosmos, that if you become fully, authentically, ferociously and courageously an open hearted being, you will attract your ideal soulmate to you and the union will be perfection. That is all that you must do. Do not sneer until you have tried it. Your rejection of the message is a manifestation of your unwillingness to be your own friend. To give love a try. To understand that rejection does not exist. To choose to embrace only love and to let the rest fall away.  Do you even know how to accomplish this? Of course you do not! To create such a great shift in your vibration, It happens over time. But it begins with an intention. You must FIRST intend to become this way.

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If you want a union that does not require struggle and pain, there is a way to do it.

Begin here, with the last few posts which have been posted in this blog, before the writer even fully understood the magnitude of what was being orchestrated here. This is a Love Revolution! Why? Because humans do not know how to love! They are mixed bags of energy containing this and that and everything else in between. Energies, thoughts and beliefs that you have simply adopted and picked up from your surroundings without using your conscious discernment. Well, now, the Earth is awakening and conscious discernment is being understood and used. Awareness is being cultivated and with awareness comes more choices for you. You are not at the mercy of old energies, thoughts and beliefs that you have picked up along your path by default. One by one, we will cast all of that out. Have you ever heard of the cliche, “it’s all in your head”? It is cliche because it is true. So true, that you have forgotten to even notice. That is what truth is. It is the obvious. So obvious, that it can be overlooked. Well, now, we are looking. Every single doubt and fear can be overcome. You have given these energies all sorts of names. You have called them Karma, or Fate, or Reality. But none of that is true. All reality is created by you. By what you deem as real. So, instead of doubting your infinite nature, embrace it. Instead of fearing, choose love. Instead of fearing rejection, understand that what is your will inevitably stick to you when you show your true self. Anything that does not stick to you when you are your true, open hearted, unadulterated self simply does not belong to you. Everything is movement. Things come and go. but you must show the universe that you are ready to receive what represents your authentic state of being. In order to attract those things that match your core essence perfectly, you must embody your core nature. You must be completely open hearted and ferociously authentic and courageously love. Love in faith, because you know what is yours will surely come to you. That is the key. Release all doubt.

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 Do not forget that this is a process. A quantum leap in vibration cannot be accomplished in only a day.

Working out all the little bugs and identifying all of those things that need to be resolved takes time and experience. Experience because you must see what the Universe is showing you that you need to resolve. The Universe brings you people and circumstances that represent your current energetic state. Those parts that need to be looked at. You can resolve it simply by behaving in a way that is representative of the new vibration that you are choosing to embody. If you can do that, the universe will test you, yes. But once you have truly proven that you are embodying an open hearted, authentic and fearless approach, no matter what, the Universe will have no more reason to test you and it must bring you what is rightfully yours. That is the process.

If you have not already read these posts and you are wanting to come into alignment with your Ideal Soulmate, you may read these articles which have paved the way for this topic. Simply go back. The right hand column contains the most recent posts which have paved the way for this Love Revolution that is occurring. This blog is full of information, from multiple viewpoints to assist you in resolving MAJOR energetic nuisances that you want to overcome. You may sift through and read what is needed. If you are experiencing pain, you may find those posts regarding pain to be helpful. Intend to embark on this journey and what you need will find you.

Hi, this is Elise<3…

I have been conducting Twin Flame and Soulmate readings for you all, for many months now…

I have the ability to point out the blocks in your energetic patterning that need to be resolved before your Perfect, Ideal Soulmate Union can occur.

I need only a picture of you in order to perform this reading. The reading includes detailed instruction, tailored to your specific needs and guidance to explain exactly what it is that you must resolve and how to go about in doing so.

I am still offering TwinFlame/Soulmate Readings.

But ALL of you who come to me are desiring Unification with your Ideal Soulmate

So, call the reading what you will, but all who come to receive readings from me will be informed of what is blocking you from your Perfect Union and what you must do in order to resolve and come into alignment with your Perfect Soulmate Union.

I have already resolved and completed my transition, which has resulted in my very own Unification With My Ideal Soulmate in the 3rd dimension.

This is what I want for all of you.

If you would like a reading, you may contact me at any time, via AcceleratedAscension@yahoo.com

We are all in this together.

I love you<3

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The Love Compass… How To Prepare To Unite With Your Ideal Soulmate

The Love Compass… How To Prepare To Unite With Your Ideal Soulmate

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There are so many things that could be considered in matters of love. But what is important are those things that matter the most. What matters the most? We let complicated situations get in the way of love. Circumstances, events and people. None of those things are as important as love, yet we let them get in the way. Why is that? Things are always going to happen. We all know that the road to love isn’t perfect. It’s difficult. There are always imperfections. The question is, what are you focusing on? Where are you placing importance? In the person or in other factors? We seem to go about this all wrong. Submitting to obligations and socially accepted ideas. What do those things have to do with love? This is about who you are going to spend the rest of your life with. This is about you. This isn’t about anyone else. This isn’t even about what is right and what is wrong. This is about not taking love, connection or time for granted. Some things in this world are just hard to come by and should be cherished for the rarities that they are. Love and connection are definitely on that list of things. So, why do we let other things get in the way? Why do we look at the bad and not see what’s underneath it? Why do we hold grudges? Why do we let the opinions of others determine what we do? Why are we doubting love more than anything else?

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If you don’t sit yourself down and recognize what is important, you’re going to have misplaced focus and you’re going to miss out on the good things that come your way.

We have to be forgiving. It doesn’t mean to be a doormat. It doesn’t mean to be stupid. It means that you are understanding of the human condition an it means that you love yourself enough to allow yourself to love others. It doesn’t even mean tolerating bad behavior, it means putting more credence in intention than in the mistakes of the past. There are some people who will never change, no matter how many mistakes they make, but there are some people who are very willing to change and we cannot allow their past versions of themselves outweigh the version that they have become because of it. You have to look at what is in front of you, not at what has happened before. For, what exists now has never been before and people have the ability to learn from everything that they do.

This is why it is so important not to hold a grudge. Because if you hold a grudge for something that existed in the past, you are the one who could be missing out because of it. Because of your own inability to move on. There is no logic behind staying in the past. Only if you’re a skeptic, and let me tell you something, being a skeptic is a hard cross to bear. Just like you cannot judge another based only on their past experiences, you also cannot judge everyone based on your past experiences.

At some point, you have to open your heart in order to let good things flow in. That’s just the way it is. If you live as a skeptic, you will never be able to do that and the good things that come your way will be sabotaged by your skepticism in one way or another.

Look at the things that matter. Look at the things that are irreplaceable. Ask your intuition. Make sure that your choices are coming from you and not from the opinions of others or of your fear of being judged. When another person passes judgement on you and showers you with their opinion, tell me, what makes their thinking more important than yours? So, because someone has an opinion, suddenly you are going to wave your white flag and let them decide for you? You were given your own body, your own consciousness and your own discernment for very good reason and that reason is so that YOU could direct yourself. Not so that you could follow someone else’s direction and not so that you could direct someone else. Collaboration and exchange of ideas will always be important, but at the end of the day, your heart is the most important thing and the direction that you choose to take should be in agreement with what your heart tells you. Be sure to do that and you will never know regret.

The next time someone tells you right from wrong and what doctrines or dogmas you should follow, remember that you are equal and your heart will carry the burden if you do not follow your intuition. Don’t let anyone decide for you. Don’t let someone else’s rules be your compass. Do not allow yourself to flounder in fear of judgement.

No great man has ever trusted the opinion of another over the knowing of his own heart.

Courage is admirable, cowardice is not. Follow your heart.

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This is how you make love happen. Have your priorities in line and give credit where it is due. I have attracted and  united with my ideal soulmate and it would not have been possible if I did not do this. I used and applied the very same teachings that I have given you, to make this union of ideal soul mates occur. I want to help you to do the very same thing. I gave credit where it is due, I compromised my old beliefs and practiced new systems that led me to the union. You have to be able to recognize when old ways of doing things and old systems of beliefs get you nowhere, in order to get into vibrational alignment with something completely new. That is what we are all trying to do. To attract a new situation in a way that has never been done before. Are you ready to be open minded? Are you ready to see the good in people? Are you ready to live open-heartedly, with no expectations? All of these things are necessary in order to unite with your ideal soulmate. Following your heart is the most important thing of all. Let your heart and your joy guide you and choose your priorities accordingly. It may not appear to work out at first, and it won’t, until the Universe brings you the right person to do this practice with. Then you will see an unfolding like never before. Never give up on this concept. Keep practicing it so that when the Universe brings you the right one, you will have your priorities in line and the Union can transpire. The Universe knows how to bring you your ideal soulmate, but the Universe also knows that you will not be able to unite with your ideal soulmate with the old ways of thinking.

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The Union with your ideal soulmate is so incredible and amazing but it is an experience that requires you to function from a space of being transparent and completely open hearted. The Union will be perfect, but you have to show the Universe that you are ready by practicing the vibrations that you will need to have in order for the ideal union to occur. So throw out old beliefs that say he has to be this or he has to be that. She has to meet this criteria or that criteria. The only criteria that matters is that you are happy holding their hand and looking into their eyes at the end of the day. That you have a mutual connection like never before. That is what matters and that can come in many forms. Most likely a form you are not expecting. So be open and allow the Universe to do its work without your interference. Do not let yourself be swayed by the opinions of others. You must be in a space where you can follow your heart and do what is good for the union, not what is in accordance with other peoples ideals, but what is in accordance with your ideal union. Priorities. Love comes first and foremost. Follow that and everything else will align.

With Great Love

If you would like a Twin Flame/ Soulmate Reading or guidance on how to attract your Ideal Soulmate, you may contact me at any time via AcceleratedAscension@yahoo.com

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