There is no Universally agreed upon definition of Twin Flame, Except that it is something ideal, something wanted and something very good. So, why make it more complicated than that? The main service this video is going to provide for you is helping you to make sure your definitions aren’t working against you!
Channeled Via Universal Love
There is a tendency among humans to fear Love. Not because Love is to fear, but because those who have experienced the greatness of Love, have often experienced it’s opposite in close proximity and not far behind the Love that was felt. It often happens that Love is clung to and depended upon for solace, and therefore, many know the feelings that commence when Love slips throughout the cracks of your fingers and into the abyss.
But, what we have yet to point out is that it is never the Love that leaves, but the object of Love that leaves. The lesson in this is to develop the capacity to experience Love for what it actually is, apart from the object that granted you permission to conjure Love in the first place.
Love is not fixed to any one thing. Love is everything. The sooner you decide to KNOW and Realize this fully, the sooner you can see the truth of Love, which is that it abounds, it surrounds, it never ends and it does not cease just because a person, place or thing ceases. Love is endless, boundless and always in Love. Any opposite you have experienced was not the presence of Love, but the presence of Loves opposite, in the absence of Love.
The absence of Love is Illusion and we want to break this Illusion for you now. For, there is no reason to cling to this notion that Love has a beginning, an end or a reason. Love knows none of those things. If you experience this, it is the result of human conditioning, which the planet is moving slowly to overcome and evolve out of. One day, Human understanding will surpass all of this now and all of this will be a common knowledge, but before that will come a time of learning and growth, and that time is now. Sit back and soak it in.
Do You Need A Reason To Love?
We all are born of Love, knowing Love, feeling Love. Love is the closest friend of the infant, yet it seems inevitable that the training away from such endless Love would occur by the hands of those who have also been trained away from the purity that Love is.
Therefore, it follows that later in life, the Universe sends an inspiration. A reminder of Love. A reason to Love. A token of truth. There is nothing extraordinary about the form for which it comes. For, this Love has always been known, deserved and existent. What is extraordinary is the remembrance that takes place. But, it is a tricky business sustaining Love, when the platform, we want to create is a Love that knows no boundaries. If we are to teach you a boundless, nonjudgmental, ever present Love, far reaching Love, we could not do so by sending only one inspiration of Love to stagnate and remain forever.
For, we must send MANY inspirations of Love to show you that Love is truly everywhere!
The problem lies in the feeling of separation. Humans are often conditioned into a lack mentality which is exacerbated by the ability to only see what is physically manifest and not beyond it. Love is a Revolving door which never ends, but from your point of view, you only see the coming and the going of it, you do not yet comprehend the continuum of Love, which is what we would like you to do right now. Love is fluid. It keeps going. It is ever present and therefore, there is a continuum of Love which exists even if the physical evidence is not manifest from your physical point of view. Never stop Loving. For, only Love can attract Love. To keep the continuum manifest for you, you must continue the knowing that it is there, in one form or another. That is the truth and all you must do is acknowledge that. Allow yourself the exercise of seeing the many ways that Love translates itself. Then you will see that there is no lack and you will allow the continuum of Love to be experienced by you. This is the best way and what you have been asking for. The truest reality is this and all you have to do is recognize it and live it in your being in order to claim this reality as yours.
We are always watching and showering Love upon you. So that if you should ever choose to tune into Love, it is readily available to you from all sides of perspective. Love is one of the easiest vibrations to access because it is the most abundant in this Universe that is benevolent by default. Your choosing of alternate realities/thoughts are the ONLY thing which can cause this to appear to not be the case. So choose to side with Love, optimism and most importantly, trust. That this is the way of it and that all is working out for you if you allow this to be true for you. Choose it, Believe it, Be it, see it.
We are Here for you
With Love <3
Now Offering Marriage Counseling!
Channeled via Unity Consciousness
Many things we are wanting to tell, you, for it has been a long time, but you are now ready to hear it. The Twin Flame concept has been so overrun with misconception. Most of which has originated from those who are experiencing soul connections with others that they cannot understand or explain. In the search to find why one feels so attached to another, even to the point of obsession, pain, depression, spiritual experiences and a myriad of other symptoms, one will reach for what they can find. Something spiritual, something sensical. Something to take the edge off the mystery and soothe the mind out of chaos and into some sense of order. One can drive themselves mad trying to figure out what is happening to them. Sometimes, it is simply an experience that was meant to inspire and spark radical change. Sometimes, it is not even the person, but the timing in itself. It is simply time to change, and the catalyst was placed. But, many have been attaching permanent meaning to this phenomenon, instead of simply letting it run its course and being thankful for a new experience on the path to enlightenment and higher consciousness.
Is not an experience that is meant to enrich the perspective and expand the consciousness, a destination unto itself?
Why do these experiences not receive the credence they deserve? An experience is not meaningless, simply because it did not contain all of the aspects that you wanted it to contain. In your search for an explanation and an ending to bring it all together for the 3D ego centered mind, you are missing the true, underlying meaning, which is simply to lead you down a deeper, spiritual path. Why does this not mean more to you?
And yet, something is being highlighted as you are going through this, and that is the fact that you do not believe that the universe is truly supporting you and bringing you your happy ending. For, if you did, you would not “need” to be the dictator of how your story should go. You would understand that there is no orchestrator bigger, more creative, more benevolent and more capable than the creator itself. You would trust in that benevolence and you would want to allow that manifestation through the mind of infinite intelligence. So, remind us why you have not been able to accomplish this along your journey.
Why are you grasping so hard to make sense of things that you miss the point altogether? The point is simple….
You have been taken on the path of most growth. That is what you wanted. Enjoy sitting in the knowledge, knowing that you need not know anything else, and knowing that whatever it is that belongs to you will make it’s way to you in the perfect, divine time. Know that the manifestation will be satisfying and answers will come, and when they do, they will ring true as the sky above and the ground below. There is no question in that.
So, we are here, in a place that needs no explanation. No labels. Simply the presence of your faith and knowledge that all is working out for you. This is the closest you will ever get to the truth and everything else simply serves to complicate.
It is already known to you that the Universe is the most creative, benevolent, masterful, powerful and capable expression of infinite intelligence. Yet, you do not trust your manifestations to this source? You are told over and over to stop trying to control your manifestations and to surrender to this Ultimate Universe to orchestrate for you, yet you resist this. There is no way that you can work against the Laws of the Universe and achieve that which you want, you must work with them. But also, know that your creation is in good hands and that you are the only source that can keep it from manifesting. Let go and surrender to Divine orchestration for the best possible outcomes for yourself.
By demonstrating trust in the Universe, you then attract more evidence that the Universe can be trusted. The more unwavering you are, the more unwavering the reflection.
The truth is, nothing matters very much, except that you are enjoying yourself in this life. Nothing matters very much, except your happiness. So, stop trying to figure it out and start focusing that energy on relaxing in the knowledge that everything truly is working out for you. If there is a question you do not have the answer to, know that it will come in the perfect timing, and it will. If you do not know the answer, then you do not need to know it in that moment. Be at peace, and as you focus there, you will see more of the good in all things, instead of spinning and fretting in a sea of questions that drown out the important things. Things that are always reality, like, we are on a journey, and everything along the way is placed here to help me. That is the important part and anything else that fills in will fill in easily, not by you pushing the matter. Let it fill in naturally, in time. As you find peace and faith in it all, you will receive more answers, not less. But only the wisest know that to be wise only comes when you have first listened. So, be still, and remember…
…Are you listening?…
An experience that enriches the perspective and expands the consciousness is a destination unto itself.
Stop trying to define, it, dissect it, judge it and make sense of it…
Just bask in it.
You can only move forward once you have found peace with where you are. It doesn’t happen when you are dissatisfied or frantic. It only happens when you are satisfied.
Answers will come in their own perfect time.
We are all in this together. There is great love here for you.
I am Now Offering Marriage/Relationship Counseling
In my own experience, I have seen for myself, the bleak reality that not all counselors are created equal in their ability to target the true root of the problem, decipher mixed energies and put things in perspective. However, I have found that I am able to facilitate progress with remarkable speed. So, since it is my duty to offer up my talents in any and all ways that present an opportunity to assist others, this is my new way of being here for you.
“I will hold your hand, I will guide you, I will give you tools and advice… My Duty, My Mission, My Highest Path and Purpose, is to help you find yours. I will help you overcome your most formidable hooks, so that you need not rely on others for guidance, but the True North within yourself. My job is to give you everything you need, your job is to do the work.”
There are two energies that you can have towards a person.
One is the energy of
#1- “What am I going to do for you?”
The other is:
#2- “What are you going to do for me?”
They are very different.
Are you listening to the tells?
Energy #1 says that the person is willing, open and ready. That they are not only receptive, but willing to give of themselves. They aren’t so preoccupied with convincing themselves that they are worthy that they can’t relax and just enjoy being with you. The #2 energy is always asking “Is this good for me? Is this good enough for me? What would be better? Can I find something better?” Therefore, they will keep you around, but only long enough to find the next thing that sparks their interest and nothing that you do for them will be good enough. They might say thank you, but they will never be truly appreciative, because of course, they are better than anything you could possibly dish out. They are entitled little bastards, not ready for love. I once cooked a meal for a man, he was nice enough. Chilean sea bass is what I made and I made two gourmet sauces to go with it. It was a beautiful, carefully cooked and delicious meal. But the first thing he said when I served him and we sat down to eat is that I gave him the wrong fork. Are you fucking kidding me? That was a huge tell… can you guess his energy? “What are you going to do for me?”. There’s no gratitude there. Get rid of those energies as soon as you spot them. They will drain you fast and cause a lot of frustration.
The #2 energy says that they are only in it for themselves and no relationship can prosper that way. It can be very easy to identify either energy in a person. Sometimes, it’s harder than others to figure out which side of the fence they are on and sometimes, you can know just by looking at a person, or by the first thing that they say. Think about intention. A person who is too driven by their own neediness is not going to be the person who is looking out for you, because they are too busy looking out for themselves. The guy who tries to kiss you on the first night you meet and doesn’t pay attention to the fact that you’ve been trying to brush him off is only out for himself. A person who is looking out for you, wouldn’t miss those messages and wouldn’t go in for the kiss out of respect for what your energy has told him. A person who compliments you, but acts like he is the one who deems you good enough to spend time with. One guy said to me “Since I am an awesome judge of character and I think you’re really cool…” We don’t need to hear the rest, this guy is a douchebag. lol He doesn’t even have the decency to give you credit without giving himself credit first. Some people feel entitled. It’s like a high horse, spoiled kind of energy. They put themselves on a pedestal and they’re always on the lookout to see if you’re “Good enough” to share space with them. Look for this energy and when you see it, run! This energy isn’t going to change. Most people who carry one or the other, aren’t going to change it. They don’t know how.
Look at the energy of “What am I going to do for you?” They are always more subtle, because they are showing that they are gentle, as to not disturb you. It is a conscientious energy. They are thinking of you, first. As opposed to energy #2, where they are thinking of you second. Big difference.
Don’t get me wrong, everyone has to lookout for themselves, but some people are appreciative and some people aren’t. Some people have better intentions than others. Some people are more selfish than others. I am just telling you how to eliminate a bad energy off the bat to help your process of elimination when you are selecting a potential partner.
It’s in the little things. Don’t forget that.
A person who’s dominant vibration is always asking what they can get out of you is a natural thrill seeker. There are many variables when it comes to energy, but in general, the thrill seeker is out for thrill more than anything else. Which means, you’re never going to be #1.
It is possible to manage to have a strong soul connection with a person like this to where it is meant to be. But, please take note that if this happens, their energy towards you would flip. They would take on the energy of “What am I going to do for you?”. If this is not the energy they have, a relationship cannot be comfortably sustained. The right person will have this energy with you, even if they didn’t previously have it in prior relationships.
Some people think I analyze too much. I’m an advanced am path and I know that everything means something. Tells don’t lie. They tell the truth that is hidden. Go with your gut instinct. If you are nervous, turned off or walking on eggshells, your initial impression is the correct impression. I promise you that.
On this Full Moon, there’s a lot of emphasis on relationships in the astrology. It’s do or die. choose your destiny wisely!
Still need further guidance?
Yes, I do twin Flame Readings…
I READ THE COSMOS, TWIN FLAMES, SOULMATES AND PEOPLE
This works for Twin Flames as well!
WE ARE ALL IN THIS TOGETHER!!
Channeled via Unity Consciousness
“I am here for you. Revealing all of my secrets
so that you may manifest the heaven I know is real.”
There is so very little that you can understand when your mind and your ego are in the way of you. You cannot possibly remember those things that you knew before you came to this world, those things that you are trying so hard to remember, if you are blocking yourself with limiting beliefs. Limiting beliefs, meaning, any belief which has been cemented by you and labled as unchangeable. Limiting beliefs such as, the denial of your self worth, the denial of your divinity, the denial of the perfection of creation, the denial that everything is on its way to you and the denial that you are always in the right place at the right time and the denial that you are eternally and always becoming, evolving and reaching higher levels of awareness. No matter how much you have learned, no matter how high that you have become, there is always more to become, to perceive and to know. You will eternally perceive truths in a way that are closer and closer to the actuality of all that is. It does not mean that you can ever know all, but you will always become closer to it as you preserver, with a very open mind and faith, validating all that comes to you on this eternal journey into love.
Everything is always working out for you.
No need to resist. No need to push against. Ask everything what it can teach you.
For, that is what this is all about.
We all desire to understand higher truths. The we seek the absolute truths and all that we think we know, suddenly becomes that for us. The absolute truth and we fight to keep our positions in that truth. This is a block. This is denying a Universal Law that says the only constant is change and that we are eternally becoming, forevermore. You cannot possibly perceive all that is true from this form that you are in. Do not ever deny that!!
We can only gain more and more clarity. We can only perceive higher and higher truths, but all that you know does not have to be absolute, so do not make it that. Be like water, allow yourself to become and grow. Allow your guides and the Universe to impress new ideas upon you or to introduce viewpoints that are higher truths than what you knew before. To deny that you can learn is to deny the fact of evolution. The ceasing of which will never happen. To think you are right, does not make you right, it can only make you stagnant. Know what you know, but allow what you know to become, just as you are eternally becoming. As we ascend, our consciousness undergoes change. This is all part of the plan. Allow.
There are many teachers that never seem to change. They continue teaching the same old things in the same old ways and you do not see the evolution occurring within them. You do not see changes manifesting in their life, as they are instructing you to improve yours. They are not detached from their ideas and this is the reason that they never reflect becoming. A true teacher is also an eternal student and this is what defines a master. Someone who is continuously open to change and to the inception of higher and higher truths. This can never be avoided, only denied. Higher truths are coming to you and the art of detachment does not exclude your thoughts. Do not be so attached to your beliefs that you cling to them, even when new things are being gently impressed upon your consciousness by the Universe and by your guides in a variety of ways. You may count everything as relevant and worth pondering. For, you are divine, but also in a body. Unite the two, by seeing all as neutral ground. Those who choose acceleration of growth over attachment to preconceived ideas are truly dedicated to spiritual growth and dedication to spiritual growth is rewarded because you are then working in harmony with the Universe. This how the blocks of ego are overcome. By working in unison with the Universal plan, instead of your own, at any moment in time. It is a gentle, open sort of energy which sees, but does not attach itself to reaction, but validates and makes everything an equal possibility to learn.
New waves of energy are upon the planet at this time and there is tremendous change amiss. If you are not changing, you are not growing, and the manifestations in your physical life that surrounds you are the obvious tell, from the Universe, of what requires attention and tweaking in your current state of consciousness. Trust the Universe and the organization of it. For, it is all perfect and so are you. There is nothing that holds you back. Not karma, not a mistake of the past, not a Twin Flame, nor your mother! There is nothing that holds you back but you. The universe provides ways for you to learn, even when you are resisting it, however, you may always choose the easy way, and accelerate willingly, in a fashion which will bear great, positive momentum forward.
“…If you should choose to ride the crest of that wave, the leading edge of that wave, of consciousness.
You can accelerate so rapidly, you can attract to yourself so rapidly, the things that are representative of your passion, of your joy, without knowing, in any way, shape, or form, how these things could happen, beyond reason, beyond logic, that your life will become, literally, so dream like. It will be, at first, dizzying and disorienting, until you get used to it. Literally, you will be walking through life like it is a dream; marveling at the miraculously synchronicity that just are popping up, as a matter of course.
When you ride the leading edge of the wave of consciousness…”
Listen to your guides. This requires a quiet mind.
*NOTE: This is not my book, I am not selling this book or seeing any profits from the selling of this book. This is simply a book that I read and found it to be an invaluable tool which accelerated my growth.
Please watch the ^^ above ^^ video, before moving on with this message, as this is what this post will be referencing. BTW, many of you who are pushing against this video, ADMITTEDLY, have not watched it in it’s entirety. I am sorry, but you’re not allowed to have an opinion on a video of which you are not fully informed on the contents. That’s just reason speaking 🙂
Channeled via Unity Consciousness. This is a Unified Universe and we are all in this together
“The reason I’m an expert is because I favor solution more than I favor my own beliefs. My mind is fluid and unconfined. My previous beliefs don’t hold me back because I know there’s always more to learn and if I’m not manifesting, I’m not doing it right. Considering new ideas in order to resolve is way more interesting to me than defending something that isn’t manifesting what I want in my reality. If I’m preaching, it’s because I know for a fact that if you master what I’m telling you, you’d create the real life, 3 dimensional result, In form, see it, touch it, taste it, reality!!”
I am not going easy on you guys anymore. I have been steadily preparing for this shift for some time now. Guided by the source that I know and trust. Introducing more and more controversial information and gathering up people who are having experiences that are leading them to understand this. Pushing you guys to new heights of possibility I was preparing for this, WAY before I had any idea that this video was coming out to support me. This is happening.
Embrace the change.
If you are not enjoying the full blown manifestation of your desire, you may as well try on some new ideas because what you’re currently doing isn’t working.
I have chosen to be on the leading edge of thought. To be a pioneer of ideas and between my natural need to be authentic and the conditioning that the Universe offered me, I am 100% courageous and good for the job. Just remember, I am here to serve, led by my guidance, inspiration and supported by strings of synchronicities that act as testimonies in 3D. My messages are for those who find benefit from them. All others may simply ignore.
“Being a pioneer sounds glamorous, but in reality, new information is often vehemently opposed. However, it is our duty to deliver, anyway. I am delighted to see so many Ideal Unions now, popping up. These people are coming to the same understandings as I am being given.”
I will always write from my heart, no matter how controversial the subject matter may be. This is just an example of what it means to be Open Hearted. To pour your heart authentically, no matter what judgement may await from others. Open your heart and allow the love to flow, no matter what. This is the ultimate transformation that the Twin Flame experience is pushing us towards.
“You Are Fulfilled By The Love That You Give”
This is the Core of the act of being Open Hearted. You are inspired to love and you allow it to be channeled through you, to whatever direction or form it wants to take. You give this love in full knowing that it may be rejected. You are not doing it in order to generate a positive response, rather, you are giving it because you are inspired to it and it feels so good to let the love flow as to desires to, all reservations, fears and second thoughts aside. The result has nothing to do with it at all. Open Heartedness. That’s what this is about.
Open Heartedness = Resolve
When you are resolved, you will attract a person who, instead of reflecting your blocks to you, they reflect what has been resolved.
The Core of all of my teachings is Open Heartedness. This is the message that I am focusing on getting across and encouraging to all. If you watch Matt Kahn’s video, you will see that he is teaching the very same thing. Matt Kahn has a very limited number of videos and I never found anything from him regarding Twin Flames, so, when his video came out regarding Twin Flames, I was ecstatic because his teachings are VERY ADVANCED and I wanted his perspective because, although my guidance is strong enough that I don’t need anyone to agree with me, I know I have been teaching controversial ideas regarding Soulmates and Twin Flames, and I felt somewhat alone in this. As it turns out, his transmission was much, much more controversial and upsetting to the mainstream Twin Flame Community than even what I had been easing into my posts. Although, I am quite relieved that my understandings that my path has lead me to are in alignment with his.
I believe every word that came through him. Not because it came from his mouth, but because it makes perfect sense and he explains all the traits of Twin Flames and he identifies the reasoning behind it. If you are able to see this video without interference from your ego or attachment to preconceived ideas, you too, will see that it makes sense.
His teachings are all very advanced, so if it does not resonate with you, perhaps it is simply not the right time. No sense getting bothered about it.
My teachings are in alignment with Matt Kahn’s teachings. We both use the terminology “Unity Consciousness” to identify what is being channeled through us and our explanation of it are the same. I discovered this through him, but my ways had already been established at that point. It just happened that way. Point being, if you don’t like or agree with Matt, you probably won’t find refuge in me, either. Let your guidance light your path. I am only here for those who are lead to this information as part of their divine evolutionary path.
What is being presented here, is an entirely new way of looking at Twin Flames and Soulmates. I have heard many teachers, such as Abraham Hicks, Bashar and Teal Swan talk about Twin Flames and that they do not exist in the way that we have made them out to be, but I never came across an explanation this detailed. So, this information is pretty new and it will be difficult for many to accept, but, apparently, it is time to disclose it. We are currently witnessing MANY Ideal and Harmonious Unions taking place. They most certainly exist.
IF YOU ARE NOT OPEN TO THIS VERY DIFFERENT VIEW, STOP READING NOW. READ WHEN YOU ARE COMPLETELY FED UP WITH THE TWIN FLAME TREADMILL AND ARE READY AND OPEN TO MOVING INTO A COMPLETELY NEW PARADIGM SHIFT IN THIS AREA!
Shifting Into A New Twin Flame/Soulmate Paradigm
Here is the old paradigm/ Belief system regarding Twin Flames:
- The Twin Flame is the other half of your soul
- There are particular stages which occur that one can look for to explain the nature of the relationship. Such as the “Runner” and “Chaser” dynamic
- Twin Flames will always come back together (Many adhere to this, but not all)
- The connection will never die. You will always yearn for them on some level and nothing can break the connection.
- They will always be your ultimate desire
The problem with this thinking that I have noticed for some time is that it does not empower you to become independent and whole and to move on. Believing that a person is the other half of your soul has a crutch-like effect. It keeps the 3D romanticized version alive and well. There is no right or wrong, but this version will not free you. This version will not assist you in becoming whole. At some point, you have to believe this because attachment is necessary for pain to take place and it is part of the process in order to pinpoint what needs to be resolved and for the transformation to be possible. But, at some point, it is time to move on from the romanticized version. It is time to get off the Twin Flame treadmill and cover new ground. You cannot reach your peak of resolution of blocks if you keep wanting something outside of yourself. Especially, something that is showing you that does not want you, run to you, adhere to you and treat you like the divine being that you are. It’s just that simple. Wanting something that does not want you is an indication of things unresolved within yourself. As Matt states in his video, A master can love from a distance. Chemistry, love, desire and magnetism have no bearing when it comes to realizing that someone simply is not good for you. And, how do you know if someone is not good for you? Because they are not valuing you, loving you and treating you with all the love and adoration and respect that you are so divinely entitled to.
I really like you. Our chemistry is amazing. I love you. But, you are not good for me.
To be able to come to this is a self loving action. The question is, are you able to do this? The great majority of you are chasing something that is not chasing you. Valuing something that is not valuing you and wanting something that is not wanting you. It is even more than becoming whole so that you don’t want that anymore. The very instant that you come into the vibration of self love to the degree which is balanced, you will no longer want something that has shown you it doesn’t want you. You’ll no longer be chasing, strategizing and dying over something that simply isn’t reciprocating your devotion. It’s not just an action, its a complete vibrational standpoint. Many of you are saying the words and backing off, but it’s not what is truly in your heart. Your heart still holds on. Take note that taking the action, but not fully lining up with it will not yield the transformation needed to attract Harmonious Union.
Stop lying to yourself. Stop kidding yourself. Mutual love and recognition is unmistakable, and if you aren’t within a Harmonious Union, it’s not 100% mutual. So, stop making excuses for your Twin Flame. Look, I did it too. I have already been through ALL of this Twin Flame Ascension, pain-in-the -butt process, so I’m not making this shit up. I lived it. I experienced all the pain, fully, and I am telling you what works. The laws of the Universe work for everyone, just the same, which means, if you do what I did, you will attract a Harmonious Union. Vibration is vibration. I did what it took to resolve my issues and the proof is in the pudding! I am giving you the answers to manifest your desire in the 3D. I was teaching this BEFORE I manifested an Ideal Union in my own life and I am teaching it now, because the Universe is providing more and more tangible evidence that this stuff here, is on the right track to joy. It just so happens that Matt is teaching it too. This is a HUGE time for this. More and more Harmonious Unions are popping up. This is a time of Accelerated Ascension and that is why this information is coming up NOW!
There is no difference between your vibration and what you are manifesting. A person who loves themselves does not accept people in their lives who do not demonstrate mutual love. It simply is not an acceptable part of their experience. Yes, you will say, “I love myself”, but point blank, if you are manifesting a Twin Flame runner, there is more work to be done and there’s nothing wrong with that. But ownership comes before change, so own up to it.
Ego is the negotiator. Ego is what makes excuses for a person and asks “What can I do in order to be accepted by you?” “How can I make this work?” “How can I ease my way into this relationship?”. When you are loved, you don’t have to negotiate in order to get it. There’s no negotiation involved! So, quit. Stop messing around with the people who are not reflecting back to you your wholeness and value. That is actually the point of the Twin Flame experience! So, stop making excuses and get on with the joiner into wholeness! Wholeness needs no other. Wholeness does not negotiate or seek that which is running away! Wholeness attracts what comes and what comes, comes easily and effortlessly. That is what happens when you attract from a resolved vibration.
Here is the NEW Paradigm/Belief regarding Twin Flames:
- Twin Flames are Tumultuous relationships
- They can be anyone, romantic or not.
- They push your toughest buttons and triggers
- Twin Flames are catalytic relationships, their purpose is to cause you to grow rapidly
- You will attract as many Twin Flames as are needed to resolve blocks within you. You can have MANY Twin Flames in a Lifetime
- “Every Ex is a Twin Flame” – Matt Kahn
- They are not the other half of your soul. They are not more important than other catalysts or soul mates you could have.
- They are not irreplaceable!
- They are not meant to be your one and only ideal
- Union is not the goal, evolution and moving beyond the restrictions reflected by the Twin Flame relationship is the goal
A Twin Flame is anyone who has acted as a catalyst for evolution for you in your life. Those who help you grow the most are the ones who cause you the most pain. Not the ones you experience Harmony with. People have been epitomizing Twin Flames a the Ultimate Union, but as it turns out, Twin Flames are not meant for Union or Harmony. They are meant to act as a trigger. They trigger disharmony and chaos, not harmony. This is why we all know our Twin Flames to be such a tumultuous experience. The point is growth, not union.
Twin Flame Relationships can become Soulmate relationships. As in, it’s possible. This is where the idea of reunion comes from. Somewhere along the line, someone made a Harmonious Union out of a once, tumultuous union, and now, we are all hanging on the hope that we can do the same.
No matter if you are a Twin Flame or not, the point is always to become whole. So, all I’m saying, is if you hit a brick wall and you can’t make someone be with you because they aren’t allowing you to, go ahead and make a life where you’re being allowed to. What other choice is there?
You’re being shown the way.
Soulmate Unions are the Unions that you attract once you have resolved what needs to be resolved within you. They just work. They are harmonious. They aren’t needy. They are those relationships that are ideal and don’t represent chaos. They come after the transformations that the Twin Flame experiences have triggered within you. The Twin Flame triggers resolution and the Soul Mate reflects back to you what has been resolved through all of your hard work. You just can’t get there if you are still heartbroken over your Twin.
There is some truth in the belief that Twin Flames must reunite. It is true that the catalytic relationships we endure are the predecessors to reunion. The other half of the story is that yes, we will be reunited in our harmonious, ideal relationship , but not necessarily with the specific person that we are thinking of. That person simply serves as a symbol to get our creative juices flowing. The desire inspired within us by the Twin Flame experience is simply to get us to dream and visualize and experience our greatest depths of desire, in order to more powerfully call fourth the manifestation of what we seek. The specifics are obsolete, because, in the end, the universe knows exactly what you want, and in the Harmonious Union that you truly desire, there will be nothing missing. It will be perfectly mutual. All the parts that were missing from the Twin Flame, which cause the discord between you are the details that will be filled in and granted within the Union that will come to satisfy, once one has become whole as a result of the growth that was sparked by the beloved Twin Flame.
If you are still attached to the idea of Twin Flames sharing a soul, or being two halves of one soul, here is yet, another reliable teacher, Teal Swan, offering her perspective, which is beyond 3D. Teal Swan is incarnated, but she actually coexists interactively with the spirit realm as she perceives both the physical and non-physical simultaneously. She was born with her awareness of herself before she incarnated here and therefore, has a broader, personal knowledge of the things that most humans forget, once incarnated.
I hope you enjoyed this message 🙂
With Great Love <3
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Everything is a Channeled via Unity Consciousness. This is a Unified Universe.
All Twin Flames are Advanced Empaths, given the option to embrace it or not. When two people come together and they are at differing standpoints in their willingness to embrace their heart centered Empathic traits, there can be quite a rift.
The part of the Twin Flame Union that makes it worth thinking about are the desirable parts. The ideal parts. The magnetism, the love, the harmony. So, this is why I use verbs when referring to it. Twin Flame can mean different things to different people, as can anything else. I am only touching on the desirable parts. Think only of what you want in order to attract it…
I Love you with a Love that simply knows Love. A Love that doesn’t need, but knows. A Love that simply allows itself to be. A Love that doesn’t say “Yes”, or “No”. A Love that doesn’t push or pull. My Love never ceases to be. My love doesn’t know difficulty or obligation. I Love you with a Love that knows no sorrow, but is grateful. A Love that looks into your eyes and is delighted in you. A Love that looks into you with great attention and is overjoyed with the Love in your being. Because I Love you, I feel you so intensely, and I Love it. My Love is peaceful. My Love is easy, and I thank every star for you. I have never known such beauty. I never knew Love could be this easy. So good, that no-one believes it to be. But, you make me a believer. because of you, I know, that dreams are for real and come true.
The first step is being a believer…
Being an Advanced Empath is a huge blessing. Everyone has this ability but few are aware and even fewer know how to use it to their advantage. As an empath, we sense truth. Because we feel energy and energy doesn’t lie. Therefore, it can be very unsettling when an empathic personality detects an energy that a person refuses to take ownership of, or admit to. For instance, when people deny their true feelings. It happens all of the time, for different reasons. Whether for deceptive purposes, protective purposes or because the ego is shielding the knowledge of the truth. An empath will feel very uneasy when his is occurring.
“When I met the person that I am now in Harmonious/Ideal Union with (Yes, our Union is still Harmonious and more so every day!), neither of us had knowledge of what it would become. I am an excellent perceiver and I had no idea. Now, I know that the Universe kept this knowledge from me on purpose because, I had some habitual tendencies and beliefs around dating that would have made the Union impossible if I had known. Because the Universe only gave me what I needed, and not the whole picture, it all unfolded absolutely perfectly. I did the same thing that I always do, I followed my guidance all the way, and I pointed out to him blocks that I saw. He did not seem to change instantaneously, but I didn’t give it much thought or resistance and turns out, he did change. Without this process that occurred before our Union, he would not have undergone those changes that were blocking our union in the time that he did. Had I known fully, the reason I was working to unblock his energy, at the very least, I would have been anxious and presented resistance to the Union. So, you see, nothing is ever wrong. It is always perfect, even if it doesn’t seem to be. Trust that it is. Trust that Harmonious Union Exists and that the Universe can bring it to you.”
This happens quite often in romantic soulmate relationships. One of the lovers will give into the illusion of fear and desire to pull away from the other. It becomes a head over heart matter, where the decisions is void of heart and decided upon mentally. The empath which is more closely in tune with their guidance and emotions will feel the confusion in this and be torn, because what they are feeling from the other, does not match up with the action. The words and explanations do not align with what you know of this person’s heart.
What’s an Empath to do?
This is the part which represents that love is also freedom. There is no force. Just because you know where a person’s heart truly lies, that does not mean that you must coheres them to admit it. It is quite often that a person will not be ready to come to terms with the distance between their own heart and their own mind. People are not always ready to admit that their heart and mind are in battle. They, themselves are confused and cannot offer you clarity simply because that is what you desire. Your role is to be understanding of this and in all situations, use your empathic ability to guide you to knowing when a person is ready to receive your input and when they are not. As an Advanced Empath, if you are still enough to collaborate with your guidance on what is the best thing to say, your guidance will tell you what is a good idea to say and what is not. The difference is subtle, so, if you only pay some deliberate attention to the matter when you are getting ready to speak, you will receive answers. It can be difficult, but the difficulty comes from loving the person and respecting their needs more than your own agenda! Putting aside our own agenda is the most difficult part of the equation, but that is love and this is what an Advanced Empath does. You will not be able to act based on what they need if your top focus is what you think you need, but what would help you to realize is that if you are not acting based on what your guidance is saying, your efforts will be in vain, anyways. As an Advanced Empath, The Universe asks you to pays attention to others and responds accordingly. Otherwise, you are not utilizing your Empathic resources to the best of your ability. To be empathic means to feel what others are feeling, but what good is this if you pay no attention and fail to act in accordance with what you pick up on? It is not up to you to force learning. You cannot do this, even if you try. In fact, the more that you push the matter, the more that the other person is likely to push your agenda away. Quite often, then best way to go about it is to express what you are feeling and if they disagree, let them. Your guidance will give you the specifics in each situation that you are seeking guidance on. Trust, listen, and it will come in the moment.
Instead of flowing based on the need to have your agenda fulfilled and then feeling rejected or misunderstood in the end, the whole gyration of that could be avoided if you simply live by this and follow your guidance first.
You will not be put in this position of being so misunderstood if you are first, making this genuine effort to understand the energies coming through, that you are perceiving. You will instead, know what to do and what is likely to come of it. Clear your mind and pay attention to guidance.
In the end, paying good attention to your guidance is always what will get you ahead. The Universe cannot give you the entire picture, otherwise, you would have it already. But, there is an entire picture and your guidance leads you with the knowledge of the entire picture. You are to come into greater and greater awareness of your guidance so that you may learn to utilize it more and more. That is how this works. The Universe will not give you something for no reason. Therefore, the Universe will not give you awareness or knowledge that you have not demonstrated that you will use. You must demonstrate incrementally, your ability to utilize your guidance system, in order to gain greater and greater access to it. Your Guidance system is the same as your Empathic Ability. It comes through the same way. “Guidance” becomes “Ability” when you ascertain higher levels keen awareness.
Because a Harmonious/Ideal Union is perfect, by definition, it is only possible once you reach a certain level of awareness and utilization of your guidance. The desired effect is individually chosen. Ego is also a factor that must diminish quite a bit. At least, to a level that you are able to listen to your guidance, in lieu of proving a point. There are just certain things that must already be in place in order for a Harmonious Union to occur. Not to be making anything “less” or “more” but gradients must be used for the sake of explanation in this realm. But remember, that you actually are the one who has chosen the level of mastery that you want to become. There are a great many variations of energies that a being can have. Some personalities are meant to be strong, it is good, and just because you have not come into your union yet, does not make you less or more. It is your journey. Great souls will choose to have a lot of “Straightening out” before they enter into union. It is those strong traits like stubbornness, courage, love and authenticity that require fine tuning to be their best representation. So, do not ever see something as wrong with you. As soon as you begin having fun, you speed the way.
Hi, this is Elise<3…
I have been conducting Twin Flame and Soulmate readings for you all, for many months now…
I have the ability to point out the blocks in your energetic patterning that need to be resolved before your Perfect, Ideal Soulmate Union can occur.
I need only a picture of you in order to perform this reading. The reading includes detailed instruction, tailored to your specific needs and guidance to explain exactly what it is that you must resolve and how to go about in doing so.
I am still offering TwinFlame/Soulmate Readings.
But ALL of you who come to me are desiring Unification with your Ideal Soulmate
So, call the reading what you will, but all who come to receive readings from me will be informed of what is blocking you from your Perfect Union and what you must do in order to resolve and come into alignment with your Perfect Soulmate Union.
I have already resolved and completed my transition, which has resulted in my very own Unification With My Ideal Soulmate in the 3rd dimension.
This is what I want for all of you.
Find Me on FB DanandElise OpenHeartUnions
Channeled via Unity consciousness. Because The universe has shit to say… And if you have no sense of humor, you have yet to take one on. Relax a little;) Don’t sweat.
Really, words hold no meaning of their own. It is you who must interpret the energy behind them. The intention behind them. This is why you possess empathic traits to begin with! You use them to decipher truth! Because things are not always as they seem and you must learn to know the difference. Energy is subtle to a human from a three dimensional view, but you do not have to allow this to limit you. You are perfectly able to learn to be sensitive to the subtleties that exist around you at all times. Simply make that your intention. To always gain greater and greater awareness in order to take notice of the subtleties to greater and greater degrees. If you do that, you will see that there is no such thing as limitation. You will learn that it is possible to see truth in all situations and you will never be blinded by words or appearances or fronts. Instead, you will see the truth behind it. Isn’t that what you want? To know the truth of all things? To be wise, instead of blinded? So, that is why the language here is free and expressive. Because you should be able to see through it. If you allow this to cloud your ability to hear the message, that is a fault of your own. True Masters do not cast judge met, and they teach the same. Release all judgement in order to see truth. For, Truth is what remains when all judgements are striped away. In all situations, that is what truth is.
Does ^^she^^ look like someone who recognizes her divinity? Do you think she’s sweating the small stuff? Is she busy casting judgements upon herself and others? Happy people who recognize their divinity do not cloud their energies with judgements because it lowers your vibration, no matter what you are judgmental about. A Goddess energy is light, delightful, happy, and loving towards all things.
Here, we will explain something that is related to the phenomenon of colliding energies between people, or beings. It is what it is and it is a good thing to take note of. Raise your awareness in this way and you will eliminate your need to collide with energies that simply do not suit you. It is you who decides when the lesson is learned. Not anyone else, and you decide by mastering it. So, hopefully, this will assist you in being the master that you are. The master in you that resides beneath all of the lies you have told yourself that hide the truth of your divinity from you. For, there is nothing but divinity. Even the lie is a divine role, but not one you cannot transcend simply by realizing your true, divine nature. Difficulties are not the only way to learn. You can also learn by simply cutting through the lies at a faster rate. Seeing your divinity is an act of self love. Reach a point where you can allow yourself access to that and you’re golden. There is no such thing as limitation. All limitations are created by your choosing and therefore, can be bypassed, by your choosing as well. Think about it 😉 Simply intend it and continue to intend in that way. You are so very much loved beyond any description, and you have access to this divine, ever present and all encompassing love at all times. Know that. You are love. Read on…
When two bodies come together, the energy that they create when they collide is like a chemical reaction, the result is very important. There is a chemical reaction, energetically speaking, taking place and you must be observant of it if you want to be a help to yourself and to others who are also seeking evolution. You see, there are always things to be learned, but there are ways to learn them at a faster pace. There is no block you cannot overcome faster and nothing you cannot realize faster. This is a Universe of limitless possibility. Do not argue for your limitations. In doing so, you are only feeding your own illusion. Feed the reality that you want to become.
We are coming to you tonight to insist that you insist that those whom you collide with are generating good responses from you. Not that it is your fault, or their fault, but the energy that is yielded can either be more easily good or more easily bad. It is what it is.
The result is the result is the result. When you meet a person, your energies will mesh, that which they elicit from you, whether it be good or bad, is not likely to change a great deal over the course of a lifetime. Whatever the dominant energy is, will likely snowball and become more, whether that is mostly good or mostly bad is the question. To put forth a great deal of effort in order to create a different chemical reaction between you is far more challenging than to simply let it be and move on until you find a person with which you naturally harmonize with. Even the act of trying so hard creates a negative tension. If there is a person, or people, that you can have great harmony with and not only that but great harmony completely easily and naturally, with no effort (effort, meaning in a negative sense. The word effort, representing difficulty in this case) then, why would you remain stuck “trying” so hard to create a harmony with a person when it is not happening naturally? This happens so often, on your planet, that most of you are under the impression that harmonious unions do not happen naturally and that love is meant to be hard. Love is completely natural. The universe wants you to experience all versions of love, in all ways possible. But what you do not realize is how incredibly abundant love actually is!! That harmonious Unions can totally happen on their own and be a cinch! This is why, when you find a love, you hold on for dear life!! You create balls and chains, and you fight very hard to make things work. But this is not how things are designed to work. Love is love, but it does not mean that is all there is. There is always more. As in, everything is meant to be easy. Everyone is meant to follow their joy and to flow downstream, easily with the current. Difficulty is not the way that the Universe functions and it is not the divine way. That does not mean that any choice is wrong. Nothing is ever wrong, that is why you have access to all choices, but we know that ease is actually your preference, because you are divine and you subliminally realize that the divine’s preference is ease and flow. That is what’s natural!! So, do not find a love that represents difficulty and hold on for dear life, as if the Universe could not offer you something that would be even a far greater representation of what is ideal for you. Do you understand? That action does not represent love, wisdom, knowing or trust in divine abundance of love. Religion has a few things right. One of them is, that you are being cared for, if you will only trust, or, as you have coined it, faith. Demonstration of faith is synonymous with realizing the true divine nature of yourself and of all. It is beyond the 3rd dimensional perspective and that is part of the challenge of this place that you chose to take part in. To see if you could slice through the illusions of this place and create your reality based on your inner knowing of the divinity of all that is.
Love is not scarce in this Universe, by any means.
Love is actually, the most abundant energetic matter in existence.
Love surrounds all, at all times. Anything in existence which does not take part in this is simply pinching off their connection to love. That does not mean love is not abundant.
It is the same way that you could be submerged inside an ocean of water, but simultaneously refuse to drink.
Your choice to refuse yourself water is not a representation of lack. It is a representation of your state of being. You can always choose to drink at any time.
However, it does require fundamental awareness of this reality that we speak of. Of the infinite abundance of love in all that is. It requires a level of knowing, because you cannot see love with your eyes that you possess here, in this plain of existence. However, you can still know it and experience the reality of it for yourself, in this life that you exist within now, regardless of your perceptions of your current circumstances.
Have you not heard? Circumstances don’t matter. Only state of being matters.
To be more clear: State of being = Matter
It is your state of being which creates the matter and/or circumstance, not the other way around.
Sometimes, you do not realize or recognize the energy you used to attract your circumstance unto you, because your state of being is baseline. That is all you know. You don’t know the other ways there are to be. You have not the ability to see it from an outside view that is so different from your own.
You cannot conceive of something you have never conceived of.
That doesn’t mean you had nothing to do with it. It simply means that you didn’t realize the part you played in the creation of it.
So, here is the point. You cannot know what you do not know. Most of you have never experienced a Harmonious Union. A truly Harmonious Union. If you had, you would still be in it, because there would be no reason to end it. The harmony would be great enough to cause the both of you to overcome all obstacles to be together. Harmony at that level is so very rare in comparison with all of the pairs which do not represent that level of harmony, and also, the joy that comes out of that is greater than the joy of anything else. This is why a truly Harmonious pair overcomes all in order to be together, without question. So, in your state of not knowing the heights of what you can attract, you hold onto something that is not the equivalent and your skewed perception sees it as a good thing. Perhaps in comparison with your fear of the unknown it is a good thing, but in comparison with having a Union which is Ideal, it is a bad thing. The entire time, not realizing that your state of holding onto something that you are not deserving of is what keeps you from that which you are deserving of. Some of you are not holding onto any person, but you are still keeping yourself from your union because you do not believe it exists for you. You say, in theory, that you know it exists, but if you truly knew it, you would be in a state of abundance of love, instead of abundance of lack. It is the state of doubt/abundance of lack which results in forms of sadness, loneliness, depression. You may attach whatever word you like to it, because it is all the same. In the end, whether you are attached to someone or simply “Married” to your lackful state of thinking, you are still not believing in the abundance of love of the Universe and that is the reason it does not yield itself to you. You’re in charge of what comes. Your knowing calls it forth.
In layman’s terms: BE SURE OF YOURSELF!! YOU ARE THE DIVINE!!
Do not settle for anything that is less than Ideal. Less than easy. Less than natural. Less than fun. Less than harmonious. Less than joy.
Harmonious Unions are easy. They happen naturally when your energies collide. It is the chemical reaction that comes out of the meshing of the energies and you find it easy to elicit positivity from the relationship.
This energetic reaction is the confirmation that it is meant to be.
That it happens easily and naturally and mutually.
That is the confirmation that it is meant to be!
The Universe does not dangle carrots in front of you, only to have you eternally chasing after that which cannot be had. Ideal, Harmonious Unions DO exist, they can exist for you, in your life and this is something that anyone can attract for themselves.
*Just to be clear, the words “Ideal” and “Harmonious” are not labels, they are simply adjectives used here to describe that which you may give whatever name you like. Soulmate, Twin flame, husband, wife, partner, lover.
This is the way the Universe has designed it. Things are supposed to be easy for you. You are supposed to follow your joy and flow downstream, and nothing is supposed to be a fight. If you are fighting for something, you may need the fight, for your own reasons, but knowing the above, you could also choose to allow yourself to search for that which is led to you by your joy and represents ease.
”I have always said, When two people follow their joy and it leads them together, that is exactly what you want.”
If following your joy leads you away from your partner or if them following their joy leads them away from you, that is not representative of something that is harmonious. A harmonious union is that in which the joy and the union are same. Following your joy leads you to each other.
This is also in alignment with what precedes the union…
Before you have met your partner, following your joy is what leads you to them. Once you have met, that rule does not change 😉
The Universe is set up so that you can follow your joy, your joy is the constant that connects all of the dots and synchronicities, leading you to all of your desires, expanding into more and more joy. If joy is what you desire, get in touch with your heart and follow it.
Hi, this is Elise<3…
I have been conducting Twin Flame and Soulmate readings for you all, for many months now…
I have the ability to point out the blocks in your energetic patterning that need to be resolved before your Perfect, Ideal Soulmate Union can occur.
I need only a picture of you in order to perform this reading. The reading includes detailed instruction, tailored to your specific needs and guidance to explain exactly what it is that you must resolve and how to go about in doing so.
I am still offering TwinFlame/Soulmate Readings.
But ALL of you who come to me are desiring Unification with your Ideal Soulmate
So, call the reading what you will, but all who come to receive readings from me will be informed of what is blocking you from your Perfect Union and what you must do in order to resolve and come into alignment with your Perfect Soulmate Union.
I have already resolved and completed my transition, which has resulted in my very own Unification With My Ideal Soulmate in the 3rd dimension.
This is what I want for all of you.
Find Me on FB DanandElise OpenHeartUnions
“The Universe has a sense of humor.” -Elise
Channeled via the Universe, Bitches! =D
This is the moment you’ve all been waiting for…
Although the contents of this message have already been comprehensively relayed, it is sometimes easier to apply something more concisely written as a formula. So that is what will be offered here today. Steps one and two.
The Formula for Attracting an Ultimate Soulmate Union
An equal description by words of your choosing, “Twin Flame”
The Twin Flame is epitomized and Idealized as an Ultimate Soulmate Union, so these are the types of words that we choose to describe such a lovely thing. Your description. Your idea. Just differently put. Don’t get so Twisted abut it 😉
So, Yes, there is a formula. As in, the following are directions as to explain exactly how you can attract a Harmonious Union that you would consider Ideal. It does not mean that it will come in the shape or form that you are expectant of at this point in time, but it means that once you do allow it to come into your experience, you would consider it Ideal and good for you. Which leads us to number one in the formula…
- Be expectant and hopeful, but in a general sort of way. Do not be looking around every corner, asking where your lover could be. For if you were having fun in your moment, your mind would be filled with other things and then the lover would show up unexpectedly. Like a pleasant surprise! So be hopeful in a general way, simply knowing that everything is always working out in your favor and it will be true for you. Also, DO NOT demand that the Universe MUST bring to you a specific person or a specific shape or form. This can and certainly will introduce resistance into the formula and block the manifestation altogether. If you met your lover and you are expecting blue eyes, but his are brown, you will never recognize him unless you decide that brown eyes are ok for a lover to have as well as blue. So, do not be needy, demanding or too specific in your requirements. Do not insult Creation. The Universe knows what it is doing and it is 100% capable of delivering your request as soon as you choose to line up with it.
When you have faith that you are receiving something, you do not feel the need to be demanding of it, or to be incessantly pondering the idea. The vibration of trust and knowing is a vibration of ease and fun and joy. Be That.
Your request to the Universe should look or feel something like this:
“I Know/Trust that you (The Universe) knows the whole package of my desire and everything it encompasses, to a degree that would knock my socks off and I trust that you will bring it to me either through a familiar/expected form or through some other form and that both would be equally pleasing.”
Step Two: Open Heart
”True success is overcoming the fear of being unsuccessful.” – Paul Sweeny
What does it mean to be open hearted? It means that you always are authentic. You are always following through with your joy when it comes to expressing your love towards others. You are always letting your heart guide you in every moment in what to say or do, via text, email, messaging, word ext… Without holding back your love out of fear and also not taking an action out of motivation to gain but only taking those actions that are truly inspired in you by your own heart. By your own guidance. Act on those inspirations Open-Heartedly without fail. Fully aware that you may “scare” the person away. Be ok with it, no matter what the outcome will be. Make your decisions to love because you desire to be authentic and to follow through with your inspiration. Not because you are trying to manipulate an outcome into the one that you are wishing for.
The one who is scared away by you is NOT the one!
The one who is “THE ONE” will be running to you and sticking to you like glue when you show yourself! There will be no question about it!
HE’S THE ONE!!!
Does acting in this way mean that the outcome will always be positive? YES
Does that mean that the lover will always stay? NO!
Trust the Universe. The One who runs away when you are authentic is not the one you want.
The outcome is always positive and here is why:
You are looking for your ideal match. Match, meaning vibrational match. Meaning, the person/soul who carries a vibration that is closest to your own. Therefore, you can only attract that person when you are embodying your authentic vibration fully, in the physical. You must fully recognize and honor yourself in order to fully honor and recognize your “Twin” and to be recognized and honored by him/her.
YOU MUST BE AUTHENTIC
Since we are all divine love…
Authenticity = Open-Heartedness
They are the same.
NO HOLDING BACK
Holding back means you are not allowing yourself to be who you truly are 🙂
Further explanation is required in order for you to fully understand why this formula is so efficient.
“If you want to know the truth, dive in head first” – Elise
When you are not being your authentic self, you will be attracted to mates who suit you in your current state. Reflecting back to you all that needs to be resolved within you. If you choose to simply be your authentic self from the get go, you would bypass all pain that is meant to force you to eventually discover who you are, AKA to become “whole”.
When you are being authentic, nothing but matching vibrations will stick. Suitors may come and go, but the ones who are not right for you will pass quickly and you will not waste months and years with them and you will not suffer so greatly.
On the flip side, when the right one comes along and you are being authentic, it will click and there will be no mistake about it.
Catalysts serve a purpose. The purpose is to reflect back to you that which needs to be resolved. The purpose of resolving issues is simply to rid yourself of all the untruths you have picked up, that are keeping you from embodying your core essence.
Embody your core essence and instead of attracting a catalyst who reflects all your garbage back to you, you can attract a mate who can reflect back the resolved version of yourself. Perfection.
If you simply choose to be your true, unadulterated self, there will be no need for you to experience agonizing catalytic events and the need for pain would be obsolete.
It really is that simple.
“Life is really simple, but we insist on making it complicated.” – Confucious
Do your work or the Universe will do it for you.
Pain is no longer necessary. It is simply an option. Evolution is inevitable, but pain does not have to be the way. You can go willingly or you can be dragged, but either way, we have all chosen to continuously grow and become.
You have options.
Go Willingly 🙂
And we can all live happily ever after.
“The only way that we can live is if we grow. The only way that we can grow is if we change. The only way that we can change is if we learn. The only way that we can learn is if we are exposed. And the only way that we are exposed is if we throw ourselves into the open” – C. Joybell
Congratulations, We Are ALL Masters Now <3
^^^ That’s the Formula^^^
THANK YOU <3
Channeled Via Unity Consciousness
Is this about me being happy, or what??
“This post led me directly into Union by way of assisting me to the ‘recognition’ that everything I wanted in a man was actually standing right before me. If you can check off all these 9 characteristics, you’ve got one heck of a match!!”
Fireworks, overwhelming magnetic attraction, chemistry that keeps you feening for more, romance, passionate roller coaster rides, undying infatuation and obsession over an ideal that doesn’t exist, but just won’t quit.
It’s like the ultimate ride. Good, bad and everything in between, being inspired to deeper levels of love than you thought was humanly possible.. well, it just makes it hard to let go. It’s true, Intense connections are something we in inately long for, but they are truly hard to come by. Deep inside, we are all passionate creatures and we naturally want to be inspired to experience the greatest depths of love, beauty and connection… So, when we do experience it, we tend to hold onto it…
We are emotional creatures. Creative creatures, we are made from the fabric of love and we are drawn to the dreamy. The heart wants what the heart wants and when it calls, it is more than difficult to ignore. How can you ignore a feeling? How can you tune out the calling of your soul? The very tugging of your own heart, which knows no way to lie. There’s no way to ignore That which comes through you. In your body, in your mind, in your heart center. You can change a thought, ignore what’s infront of you, but you cannot ignore that which comes through you, the deepest cries of your soul…
Love and passion is more than an ideal thought, it’s a state of being. It’s the truth of who you are. It’s undeniable. It takes over. And under the right circumstances, it haunts you.
We fall so easily into the trap of wonderlands. We can be so intensely attracted to someone, that we overlook the most basic necessities.
It’s like, we are so enraptured with our emotions, we don’t even see the blatant negativities that make us incompatible. We hold onto hopes and dreams so dearly, that we don’t even see the most obvious factors staring us in the face. Factors like, He’s just not into you. Factors like, there is no relationship here. Factors like, there’s no reciprocation, and it’s just not mutual. Excuses, excuses. The hardest part to overcome is knowing that someone loves you, regardless of their action, or that they could, if only…
As eccentric and spiritual as I am, as much love, hope and belief as I have within myself… At some point, we need to have balance.
We are in a human world.
And we’ve got decisions to make…
At some point, you have to stop pushing against that. Pushing against what the Universe is trying to show you. Pushing against the facts that are presenting themselves, in your face. Things can transpire, but holding on for dear life is never part of the formula, it’s a demonstration that you aren’t trusting the universe. When something is meant for you, it comes easily! You don’t have to hold onto it for dear life and hope it does not slip away! The Universe does not make you beg for what is rightfully yours! So, if something is just not sticking to you, if it’s just too difficult to maintain, that is the Universe’s way of telling you that, that thing does not belong in your field. We are meant to have everything that we want, but you have to let it come to you. If you do not believe in the Universe’s ability to deliver, you will never experience the truth of it.
love can be a sickening, twisted adventure, to say the least. We make all these assumptions about what we need, but here is what happened to me…
I came to an even deeper appreciation for love through the realization that mutually shared love is truly hard to come by. As a result, I decided to implement some logic. Logic for the sake of opening more doors through which the Universe Would have more opportunities to deliver.
I decided to focus on what’s really important. I decided reprioritization was in order.
I had so many things on my list of things that I wanted in a man, that NOBODY was making it through my filtration system. So, I made a decision. Either, sit around with my nose in the air and wait forever, for the perfect guy. Or, open doors for the Universe To deliver more opportunities and experiences and see what happens. I decided to demonstrate my trust in the Universe.
I started asking myself “What is most important?”
what’s most important?
Chemistry. Chemistry was my first answer, which leads to…
…Love. Which conquers all.
Trust, trust is a must.
Above all, a relationship needs to happen mutually, or there can be NO relationship. Reciprocation requires 2 people, both people involved. One person only equals half the formula and if there is only one of you participating, you’ve got zero. The reason I am bringing this up is because we WANT our relationships to be mutual. We WANT a relationship where both sides reciprocate their interest in the relationship. If you haven’t got that, then whatever it is that you are looking at is missing a non-negotiable requirement, and therefore, that means that not only do you deserve better, but you can attain it. Do not epitomize something that is not what you deserve. Do not disrespect yourself and the Universe in that way. You DO deserve better than to be treated like you are an option. You DO deserve better than to be taken for granted, unappreciated and turned down. Anyone who is treating you that way is not what you actually want. We want to be desired, cared for, honored, valued and loved. There is no such thing as the “perfect” one for you, who is not treating you as such. Anything less is simply not good enough. Love all you want. Love unconditionally. But realize this, what you deserve… A mutually beneficial and loving connection.
Connection, that’s super important.
You can’t have love without the right connection to facilitate romance. That’s why Connection came first on my list. I have loved many people that I just didn’t have the right connection with, and I couldn’t keep them in my life, romantically.
Those things are what matters and those things are what’s hard to come by. We need to prioritize What we are looking for and let everything else come into place. Because, if you have the most important factors in line, the rest of it isn’t going to break the deal.
my previous list of automatic disqualifications was so specific, it was like smacking the Universe In the face. Like when your parents know what’s good for you, but you think you “Know it all”. I’d rather be in love and happy with someone I never thought I’d end up with, than a lonely, stuck up know it all.
Who cares if the guy is 6’0, 6’4 or 5’8? When you’re in love, that makes no difference.
So what if he makes enough money to buy you a Tiffany diamond and a bad ass wedding? No amount of money can bring joy to a soul that is bound to a loveless, uninspiring union.
And, If he’s a super fun guy, and you enjoy your time together, but you can’t trust him and he doesn’t trust you, it just isn’t going to work.
So what if he wasn’t what you originally thought you were looking for? Love isn’t derived from a checklist and when there is mutual chemistry and love, the checklist can go fuck itself. Lol
Let’s talk about what’s really important. let’s talk about the factors that are actually necessary for the union that you want.
For me, this next part goes without saying, but I’m mentioning it because I’ve noticed that for many of you, it doesn’t, because you remain in love regardless.
Everything has to be mutual in order to work, period. Both parties must be interested, involved and willing to demonstrate. There must be even exchange of energy between you.
So, keep that in mind…
Everyone recommends making a “list”. But, what should go on the list? Mine used to be pages long. Since the completion of my latest transition, I’ve come up with a much shorter list of key characteristics that I think, not only are necessary for me to have in a healthy relationship, but I think these characteristics are comprehensive, on point, ideal qualities that are general enough to be of importance in any romantic relationship.
Those apply to everyone and I’ll elaborate why. The following are a few that I tailored to my specific needs:
Chemistry- You need to jive. You need to be attracted to one another. You need to have a connection,,enjoy eachother and want to be Together. Chemistry must be mutual. If the demonstration is not mutual, something is missing and the relationship won’t work.
Compassion- You gotta be with someone who cares enough to at least try to be understanding. We ALL need that sometimes. It’s a part of being able to love another person and demonstrate that. Compassion fosters kindness and many other attributes we need and desire in a mate.
Credibility- Credibility is like trust, but it’s more than that. You can trust someone who doesn’t have credibility. You want to trust them, but in the back of your mind, you are still doubting. You’re choosing to trust them, but you’re thinking it could be a mistake. That’s not credibility. Credibility is when someone has done what it takes to prove that they are trustworthy, forthright and honorable.
Courage- Courage is a door opener. Nothing happens without a bit of courage. It takes courage to make a move, it takes courage to be vulnerable, it takes courage to give someone a chance, it takes courage to work together to overcome issues and it takes courage to love.
Consistency- Consistency is very key, for a few reasons. First of all, if someone is inconsistent, you’re not seeing who they truly are. They are conflicted in some way. And you can’t commit to a person who hasn’t even come into themselves yet. You just don’t have any way of knowing what you’re getting into!
Commitment- At some point, commitment comes into play. Any idea requires commitment before you can see it transpire. I think it’s related to courage. Indecisiveness can be annoying, when you’re ordering dinner, but in a relationship, it’s completely detrimental. Commitment isn’t about marriage. People get married all the time, and you find that they aren’t actually committed to it. Commitment is a state of being and it changes everything, because when you’re committed, you make the healthiest choices available for that thing you are committed to. When you’re not committed, your decisions will reflect that and it’s not at all conducive to maintaining a healthy dynamic.
Compromise- Every human is different. No matter how similar you are, or how well you harmonize, compromise will undoubtedly come into play at some point. If you are both willing to compromise for the sake of harmony, you will overcome problems before they even become problems.
Conscientiousness- This goes further than compassion. Compassion is being able to feel for another person. This could happen intentionally or unintentionally. Conscientiousness is intentional. You are being mindful of the other person’s needs and thoughts on purpose, because you care and you want them to know it. You are anticipating their needs, before they’ve even thought of it or said anything. You are consciously paying attention to them, looking out for them and caring for them. It’s not only caring, but proving that you do, with your actions. This is very important in building and maintaining credibility and a loving bond. We pay attention to the things that we love and for those things that we love, we are also willing to act in their best interest, without being told or reminded.
Demonstration- You could have all the care in the world, all the love in the world, but if you cannot follow through with demonstrating that, it doesn’t matter. Nothing translates if you do not demonstrate. Everything must be demonstrated in order to make any bit of difference. You use all kinds of means for this. Words and actions come in multiple forms. There are no excuses in the world good enough to excuse lack of demonstration. Sorry.
You could have all the ideas in the world, but it’s all for nothing if you cannot demonstrate.
I have put this list together and explained it for you all, because intention is a good foundation for attracting what you desire. Focus on these qualities that you want in another, know that the Universe can deliver and use them as your guide so that you don’t settle for less. Sometimes, we know something is off, but without a sensical articulation, we let things slide. This list will let you know exactly what’s there or what’s missing. Add to it to suit your individual needs and preferences as I did, but remember that the point here, is to focus on what’s really important in order to open doors for the Universe to bring it to you. The Universe does deliver pleasant surprises, and that can’t happen if you think you’re ahead of infinity, with every single detail laid out! Demonstrate your trust in the Universe and the Universe will deliver.
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Everything is channeled. There is no difference between you and I. There is no “them” vs. “we”, in a Unified Universe.
With Tons of Love
This concept will set you free, if you can allow yourself to grasp it. Please understand that there is no epitome of anything, this includes knowledge. So, there is an infinite ability to harness knowledge. That makes it impossible to know everything at once, because if you knew everything there is to know, there would be no more becoming and there is no such thing as stagnation or halt in an infinite Universe. There is always more to know, more to evolve, more to become, more to see, more to do and more to be.
Let’s talk about Love…
First of all, I fucking Love you guys. I love you all. This journey has been more amazing than I could ever have previously imagined. It has opened me up to more than I ever thought I would know. I have reached places I had never even conceived of reaching. Expressing my epiphanies, inspirations and thoughts in this way, to you all, has been the ultimate therapeutic endeavor, and I would not have had enough reason to do it if not for all of you. All of you who resonate with my insights and experiences and all of you who benefit from them and find confirmation in them. I thank you for expressing your love and gratitude. I am a person, just like you, and I love to know that my thoughts are reaching you in a good way and making a positive impact on your hearts and minds. So, yes, I love you, and don’t ever doubt my love…
Love is inspired…
We are in human form. We have ego. We have these bodies to manage, minds that wander and require deliberateness of intent. We do not always love. We do not always know what love is. Sometimes we love and sometimes we don’t. Sometimes ego gets in the way. We need inspiration to love, but after that, it becomes more of a choice. Not to say that one cannot fall out of love, or change their preference. It is all part of the web of experiences that we agreed to have when we came here…
What I am saying is that, yes, we are inspired to love. But there is also a choice to allow yourself to be inspired. Once you have harnessed great love and you know it, it is possible to come to the realization that love is a state of being and that you can remain in that state of being without the inspiration. You can simply choose love. To be in love, in general. To feel love. The emotion is separate from the object. You can harness this state of being. I’m not talking love potion number 9, where you completely lose all of your senses. I don’t think it is even humanly possible or necessary to concretely remain in a state of love. That would mean stagnation. Oscillating is necessary for growth. So, you will not be in love, all of the time, so do not try to make yourself be that. But, you can be generally loving. You can choose to harness that state of being of love over nothing at all. For no reason. You do not need an object or a person to love. You can simply be love.
Love is a state of being…
There is no lover in my bed, and I am still in love. There does not have to be romance to make me feel in love. I do not need a person to inspire me to that state of being. Whoever comes along into this loving space, though, is sure going to benefit, because I am already there! The love is flowing! It is easy! It is natural! I do, allow myself to be inspired to love, through others, but it does not stop there. Sometimes, it just comes over me out of nowhere. For no reason. For no object, for no person, it is simply my state of being. Do not worry about not doing it right, love is fleeting. It will always come and go. The idea is that you choose to allow yourself freedom to go with your opportunities to be inspired to love. Don’t hold back. Don’t think it is unnecessary or childish to simply be in love. Love is one of the highest vibrations that you can be in. It is like appreciation. They are the same.
Also, when you do not need the lover in order to be in love, then you will not smother them when they come, and you will not push them away with your fears, either… There is a difference between love and an energy that gives off a needy cry. A big difference. Achieve love that is for love and not for need. That is how you attract what you truly want.
The problem is that so many of you do not let yourselves go there as much as you could. You smother your loving inspirations because you are thinking too much from this 3rd dimensional perspective. Fuck that perspective. That perspective that says that love is weak, and that it doesn’t think clearly. If you are reading this, you should know better. That those 3rd dimensional perspectives on love are based in the ego, rooted in fear, and that is not serving us at all. We have evolved beyond that old paradigm. We are not cavemen anymore. Not only is it ok to love for no reason, but how else are you going to attract more love into your life? Taking on a loving state of being at every opportunity is the best thing you can do to attract like energies, people and circumstances to yourself, not to mention raising the collective vibration of the planet.
“Be the change you wish to see in the world.”
Enjoy all the beauty that there is to see…
Allow yourself to be inspired. The more that you practice the vibration of love, the more easily it will come over you and it does not matter what inspired you to it. You are just practicing being in that energetic standpoint, where you can see the beauty in everything. That is really what it is. Love makes everything beautiful. Love is the kind of thing that you just have to go with. If you are inspired to it, go! Do not ignore it or smother it or try to guard yourself against it. Love is always leading you in a good place and just because you are going in a direction, it does not mean that you will stay there, but you must enjoy the ride to see what it’s all about and to obtain the lesson that is being offered to you. If you hold back love, not only do you not get to experience it in that moment, but it botches up the entire formula. It keeps you from receiving love. When you take an action based in love, you attract more of that. When you take an action based in fear, you attract more of that. Let that be your formula. If something leaves your experience when you are loving it, it is for a reason. With a soulmate, if they leave you when you have acted in love, they were simply not attracting that. If they respond negatively or bleed negativity onto the good heart that you have presented with, it is simply because they do not deserve you! They are not in alignment with the love that you are offering! It is much better to be with someone who is. That is really the only way to be truly happy in a love relationship. When both partners value themselves enough to receive love. When both partners are courageous enough to drop down their walls and give love. When both partners are brave enough to allow themselves to see the beauty in each other.
Love is a state of being. Choose it. You will never be perfect. Love will always be fleeting in the moment, but choose to embrace it more and more when it does come. Choose to invite the experience of being in love. In general, just feeling love and knowing love whenever the opportunity makes itself known to you. I am so in love. With what I am doing. With what I feel from the Universe. With everything and with nothing, I am simply in a space of love. Come try it<3.
With all my love.
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Everything is Channeled. “I”, “We”, it is all the same in a Unified Universe.
If I can convey this correctly, what I am about to say will serve as a very serious breakthrough in your consciousness. There are things that exist, systems in place that you are not currently aware of, but as you move along your path of evolution, learning and picking up bit and pieces of information along the way, you become ready for more. More bits of the puzzle, more information and even paradigm shifts can occur when certain levels of understanding have been reached. Total shifts in consciousness are awesome and incredible to the mind, body and soul. It means that you are learning faster, which is always good. We always want faster becoming, never slower becoming. You know what is good for you. Positive forward momentum. That’s good. So, here we go… Let’s have a total shift in consciousness. What I am about to say is not particularly profound… until you come to understand the degree to which it is true. That’s what’s profound about it. Whoa!!! Supernovae…
Different people bring out different qualities in you.
Not so profound. Let’s take it further…
Different people will evoke different energetic responses from you.
Let’s let it evolve…
There are some people who evoke from you, those energetic qualities that you want to embody
and other people who evoke from you those energetic qualities that are not what you want to embody.
Here is what’s profound…
Which person are you in love with?
It is obviously, a good idea to be in love with the person who elicits from you, the qualities that represent who you want to be. It is obviously, not an ideal choice, to be in love with a person who elicits from you a qualities that do not represent the person you are wanting to be.
Your choice of who you want to be, is just as constant as your choice of who you want to be with. You can be moving along just fine, until you have that moment of recognition where it becomes apparent to you that you want something that is different from what is currently in your reality. This is how energetic disharmony is born. If you have an energetic disharmony, it isn’t a big deal. But you are making it a big deal! Because you are attaching yourselves to people unnecessarily and then, they cause you to grow, and things begin to fall apart as you become ready to be with another person because you have grown and are ready to have different qualities elicited from you, but you are resisting the change, entirely! You deem it as a sad, bad thing!! So, you cling to the old. Further perpetuating the state of disharmony.
It is actually a fantastic thing when you become ready for someone new! It means that you now, have the opportunity to meet someone who can teach you your next lesson! It means that you can meet new people with new qualities and learn new things! Moving onto bigger and better things is a cliche, but it’s based on real shit. This is it. The reality of things. Stop clinging to people who’s energies are disallowing you from becoming the person that you want to become. Instead, leave those people and find new people who’s energies are attracting the qualities that you want to exhibit.
Is who I am when I am with you, the person that I want to be? Do you bring out the best in me?
Do I like who I am when I am with you?
If a person is not in an energetic state of being which allows them to receive kindness from you, they will not receive any kindness from you. Period. No matter what you do. They will either evoke something from you that is not kindness, or they will misinterpret your kindness, the mail will get lost, the message won’t get sent and they will miss it entirely. There is nothing that you can do about what another being is currently attracting. You cannot cause them to change! What you must do is move on and find a person who is attracting kindness. If you are wanting to be a kind person and you come together with a person who is wanting to be around people who are kind, the two of you will collide and find such exquisite harmony. Let that be the case for you. Let yourself find people who are attracting the qualities that you want to exhibit. The rest cannot see you, cannot hear you, cannot appreciate you and that is just how it is. If you find that you are fearful around a person, yes, those fears are yours, but this person also has an energy that is attracting and eliciting those fears to come forth from within you. They are part of the problem. The attractor is part of the problem. We are multifaceted beings. We are mixed bags of energy. There are many things which can be elicited from us. Find a person whom you feel good and confident around. Find a person whom is easy for you to love. If a person is attracting a nightmare and you come their way, you will be their nightmare, whether that is your intention or not. It may not even be your intention, but if you are in that vicinity, it will happen. Find someone who is attracting joy and let them bring out the joy in you. Find someone who is attracting love and let them bring out the love in you. Keep going about the mary-go-round until you find a fit that really suits you. There are many, many people and energies present for a reason, because life is a constant flow, and so are you. There is no stagnation. We want you to grow, you want you to grow, the Universe wants you to grow and so it is. You will. But, to make it easier on yourself and to speed the coming of the things that you desire, go with the flow. let things go that are not working. It does not mean do not give it a chance. It does not mean do not put forth effort or do not try. That is not what we mean here at all. Put forth your best effort, but also recognize that even your best efforts cannot yield results from a person who’s energetic state of being is simply choosing not to adjust to create harmony. Do not remain in a state of stagnation out of a fear of loss. Because loss can never happen. It is illusory. It only happens in your mind. If you would allow yourself to line up with attracting the thing that you want, that thing would show up and so fast and you would not feel loss at all. At the same time, when you feel loss, you cannot possibly attract something to fill your void.
These transitions happen slowly for most of you. The transition from loss to gain. You may have to meet many people who incrementally prepare you to be in the right vibration to receive a bigger thing that you want. But know that, that is what is happening. That everyone who crosses your path is of great purpose for you and that purpose does not have to be forever. It is for now, and when it is no longer serving you, simply let it go. It does not mean run and scream, it means let it go when it wants to go! Let the sour milk go! It is already gone!!
You must see this. That when you are feeling negative emotion, it is because you are resisting. You are holding on too tight. You aren’t going with the flow. Go with the flow, is all that is meant here. See everyone as compatible with your ideal energetic components or not. What is good is good, it is not hard to miss. What is bad is bad, it is not hard to miss. In order to help yourself, ask yourself, is there more good or bad here? Sleep on it if you must, but let this idea of attracting qualities and harmonizing by law of attraction, sink in for you. This explains your relationship experiences. Its not you, it’s them, and they were not what you wanted anyway, but you shall find what you are wanting if you keep going. There is no chance of harmonizing with what you want if you are resisting it.
I want to make a note, that this only applies if you are being authentic. You cannot be holding back, taking action from the energy of fear and also cultivate what you want from a relationship. But, if you are truly authentic and open hearted, and you still do not find harmony with the person that you are with, or wanting to be with, then, you have done all that you can do.
So, what will you do?
What is meant to be, will be. Many of your relationships loop around, as you come together, you grow, you separate for a time and you end up back together. This is very sensical, but you have to allow the in between stages of reunion to occur, before the reunion can occur. You cannot be holding on and resisting the whole way and meet with the necessary components to bring you to a higher state of consciousness. You are required to go with the flow. So, do not fear “letting go”, if it is meant to be, it will be. This is for you all, who are holding onto something that is no longer serving you and doubting that there is much else out there for you. Do not be so foolish to insult the Universe in this way. The Universe NEVER runs out of ideas, or resources, or means. But, you can block yourself from getting what you want. True story:)
I feel the love of the Universe.
The next post will be about love. Inspired by things, but love can exist with or without. No object necessary, loves is a state of being. It will be good<3
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This channeled message came to me as a personal message at a time when I desired to reunite with who I considered to be my Twin Flame. I wrote it, put it away and I was under the impression that I would be presenting this document to him, one day in the future, and that it would set terms that would facilitate healthy interactions between us. I now realize that, not only could I present this to any soulmate that I share a strong, mutual and lasting love connection with, but I also realized that this information could be of benefit to all soulmates inside or outside the realms of a relationship.
The energy that I perceived as my Twin Flame energy, told me that in order to reunite, we must change the way that we think about love. I did not really know what he meant or even agree at first. But I understand what he means now. He said that love is not a fairytale. He said that things will not always be perfect. You cannot completely avoid bumps in the road. That is alright. It is not always easy. If you recognize that going into it, it will be easier to deal with and to come to solutions because instead of being disappointed from a mishap, you learn to how to move beyond it and into that which is better for the relationship. Instead of letting the bumps ruin, you let them bring you to more, deeper states of love.
This message was really meant for a specific individual, or so I thought, but the following applies to everyone:
He said we must both let go of our pain.
Both parties must let go of the pain from the past.
Everyone has a fear/fears of the chance of negative cycles they have experienced in the past somehow being repeated. Of being hurt or of somehow hurting those whom you love the most.
EVERY fear is somehow, a derivative of a past experience.
We fear hurting those we love and we also fear being hurt. Because it has happened before…
So, he asked me to write something. Here is what he said:
“Go and write that letter on how to change our thinking on marriage/relationsips so we don’t bring in the abuse from our past… Keep it simple.”
He was speaking to me, in a way that made sense to me, in my life, but this same sentence can make sense to you. Everyone has known some type of negative thing, whether it be abuse, neglect, indifference, insensitivity. We all know what it is like to be emotionally bumped, bruised, abused and scarred.
So, here is the solution, I channeled. It’s not easy to just get over something from the past. It is much easier when your focus is to set terms and pave the way for the future. Every moment is new. So, set new intentions for your relationship before you get a chance to make a mistake. Mistakes will be made. You just have to have a game plan ahead of time. I am not saying that my solution is any end all, be all. You know that there is no epitome of anything in existence. There is always more, because evolution is always a constant. But, I felt satisfied with this and hopefully, you will, too.
Here it is:
Let love win. Always.
We will not always be able to avoid disagreements. That is ok. It is the way that we choose to discuss our differences that matters. We may disagree, we may even get mad, we may make mistakes or say things that do not truly represent our truth. We are human. This can happen and you must know that it is ok. It does not mean that the relationship is bad. People who love each other can sometimes face the most difficulty. We will pave the way to use this aspect of the relationship to actually bring more love in. Our arguments will be grounds to bring us closer. Not farther apart. Here is how.
By remembering what is important.
By paving the way ahead of time, as we are doing now.
1) Differences can be argued without disrespect. Avoid name calling or cursing at one another at all costs. This should be an easy thing to remember. There is actual energy involved in the action of doing those things that you do not want to throw at one another. Simply know that.
2) Never regret or place blame on yourself or the other. Regret is a destructive energy. It is a self hating energy and if you feel that way towards yourself it will have negative effects on the relationship. You already can see how this is true.
Self Compassion. Have self compassion. When you feel bad about something said or done, simply use it as a lesson/opportunity to do better. That is all. And be thankful for the opportunity that you had to grow and become better. That is all that you must do. Use it to be a better version of yourself and move forward in a positive way.
3) Reciprocate. If the two of you make it a point to reciprocate, your relationship will always be beautiful and full of love and wonderful, pleasant surprises. Let it be. If you love each other, expressing that is the most natural thing in the world for you both. Simply agree to show it. To not hold back in any moment. Let love win.
4) Compassion is a given that you should naturally have for someone that you love. Trust can be more difficult to create. To foster trust, make the relationship completely transparent. No secrets, no room for doubt.. Even if you do not wish to reveal something, simply explain that. No need to hide. Do the right thing by one another and hide nothing. Two people that are connected will know when something is wrong. Do not allow yourself to bring energies in that will create doubt, mistrust or confusion.
Love is Freedom
Freedom is Love
The best symbol of love that you can bestow upon one another is the freedom to be yourselves fully.
When you allow each other transparency and freedom to be yourselves fully, without fear of judgement or retaliation, (Because you have agreed to let love win) you will then have the ultimate trust which is the perfect medium for fostering your love which is already innate between you. This is the solution you are seeking. Simply enjoy each other, live by these values and let love win. You already have everything you need and all you have is beautiful. Let it be.
Not everyone can accomplish what is here. Some people are simply too far gone, not ready or not meant to be. But perhaps you will have the opportunity to use these ideas for yourself in your relationship or future relationship in some way. If anything, you can have these concepts for yourself and have them readily available to use when the moment becomes right. Good luck to you and your love!!
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I experienced a lot of reluctance and deliberation about sharing this, but since I have shared it, I have received many good responses. If this is for you, it will find you. With love<3
I have not written for what seems like a very long time. I know that you all have noticed. It has been many months that I have written fairly consistently. My blog posts, sprinkled all over Facebook, littering your timelines, but I hope that when you open them and read them, that you would find they had something to offer that was worth the trouble. For most of you, that has seemed to be the case. I have heard so many wonderful things and it warms my heart to know that my words can inspire and help you, even to the smallest degree. I feel so much love when I am writing here for you. I infuse my words with love as I type across the screen, so that you might feel that little warm energy in your heart center as you read. So that you might experience some small relief from your daily lives as your eyes dance across the screen. My point in being here, in writing as I do, is not to teach, but to inspire. I will never claim to know anything for absolute, except for one thing… That you should follow your joy. There is no one who can know absolute truth, especially not from this third dimension. There are things that are just beyond us, while we are here. But, we understand the best that we can and experience is a great teacher. So, it is from experience that I share my new understandings with you today.
The important thing is not what a Twin Flame is. Not who is your Twin Flame, but the lessons that you take from a Twin Flame experience.
My literary strike was not as a result of lack of ideas or lack of inspiration or unwillingness to share. In fact, there have been such a great deal of ideas and inspirations, it just never felt like a complete enough thought to fully express to you. I knew I had to let it evolve, even further. I have felt a great transformative energy working in my consciousness. I knew that it was big. I knew that there was a time when I could not accept certain things I will reveal to you today. I wanted to find a way to share my truth with you, without making waves. Some of you have already been feeling the beginnings of this new energetic perspective and some of you have vehemently opposed it. That is ok. Only take what resonates with you. Put everything else on the shelf of your consciousness. You never know when those things that didn’t make sense for you, will finally click into place.
We can only accept what we are ready for. That is ok.
I have three great spiritual teachers that I have been studying for many years. I trust all of their teachings, because they have always resonated with me. I have come to see these three teachers as very reliable sources of information. Teal Swan/Scott, Bashar and Abraham Hicks. When I first became curious about their views on the Twin Flame, I found their ideas regarding this. All 3 teachers had basically the same thing to say. That the Twin Flame is not everything that we are making it out to be. That there is no such thing. Not in the way that we have defined it. That the label is too much. It is a soulmate connection. At the time, I wasn’t ready to hear any of this. Talk about bursting your bubble. I didn’t get mad. I didn’t know what to think. I just couldn’t process it. So, I let it go and I put the ideas up on the shelf of my consciousness and now, after my own experience, those ideas are making much more sense to me. The confusions involved when your most trusted teachers tell you something you just really aren’t wanting to hear… Something difficult to believe. It’s quite disheartening. But, now, at this point in my journey, I feel relief.
There are some things that I always believed, that I still believe. Through my journey, it has become more and more evident that there is simply no way to confirm a Twin Flame connection for certain. In my experience, it is easy for me to tell when the energy just isn’t right. But, to confirm that someone is indeed a Twin Flame, it simply cannot be done. Everything exists within a probability. We can gauge when probability is very high. But we cannot even say that for 100% understand the Twin Flame phenomenon with absolute clarity. Some things get lost in translation between higher realms and the land of 3D.
The Twin Flame experts are saying that 95% of people who think they are Twin Flames, are not. So, this isn’t something I just invented. My experience confirms this idea.
95% is a BIG number. That means that 95% of you who are agonizing and offering through this Twin Flame experience, could really be moving on. It means that at least 95% of of you will never reunite and that 95% of you should be finding ways to move on and live a happy life. But being able to live without your Twin Flame applies to EVERYONE suffering through this heartache. This is a legitimate teaching in the Twin Flame process that people are tripping over. How to move on and be ok without them. Some people are downright outraged by this idea. Whether you are a Twin Flame or not, whether you believe in it or not, 100% of each and every one of needs to know how to get over heartbreak. It is part of the lesson.
Let’s talk about our definition of what a Twin Flame is. Most of you believe that the Twin Flame is actually the other half of your soul. Of course, we love this idea. It makes it so romantic. So, “meant to be.”. I never really warmed up to this idea. First of all, who is the one who came up with this idea that the Twin Flame is the other half of your soul? Where did this idea come from? Second of all, my most trusted teachers are not in support of this idea. So, here is an explanation of the Twin Flame that was given to me, via spirit. It always made good sense to me. I am simply offering it to you…
Let’s talk about pizza. The Twin Flame isn’t like you made a pizza, cut it in half, where you are one half and your Twin Flame is the other half. The Twin Flame is like, you made two pizzas, using the same ingredients and divided up the ingredients a little asymmetrically, so that you could have harmonious differences. What you see in them, is in you, but you aren’t exactly the same. You are both whole, unique and in each other’s lives for the sake of growth.
Here is the thing. Every soulmate is like that. We are all soul mates and we are all made of the same “stuff”. We are all soul mates. The Twin Flame is no different. It just presents uniquely intense lessons to learn. The Twin Flame is indeed special. Yes. It is a great connection. It is a roller coaster of love, pushing you to your deepest, darkest places, forcing you into realms that you would never otherwise experience. This is the challenge we undertake on planet Earth. To turn great darkness into great light. That’s it, and that’s part of the Twin Flame experience.
Don’t make this into a bad thing. Why do you need someone to be the other half of your soul? Why do you need to believe there is only one person out there in the universe who can complete you? These ideas are very limiting.
Romanticism is a 3rd dimensional energy.
Attachment is a 3rd dimensional energy.
Dependence is a 3rd dimensional energy.
Fear is a 3rd dimensional energy.
Control is a 3rd dimensional energy.
Doubt is a 3rd dimensional energy.
There are all different types of soul mates. Everyone you meet is a soulmate. Opportunities to learn, abound. The Twin Flame is a very special soulmate, because they are here to teach you your greatest, toughest lessons. They are here to take you to depths that you never knew were possible. They are here to assist you in accelerated expansion. They are here to open your heart. They are here to force you to build strength you never knew you had. What is more important than the label, is the experience. Let’s not make it about the label, but about the experience.
”Ease up on your label.” -Bashar
Everyone wants that confirmation of their Twin Flame. They want to know “Is he really my Twin Flame?” Tell me, does it matter? Does the label really matter? Does the label make a difference to your experience? Does the label make it possible for you to change your situation? Does the label increase your chances of being able to change their mind? No, it doesn’t. It doesn’t make a difference. The only difference it makes is that if you think that someone is your Twin Flame, you are more likely to stay hung up on them and less likely to move on. You are more likely to stress and romanticize about it longer. You are more likely to compare everyone you meet to them. You are less likely to think rationally about it. You see, we all deserve to be with someone who values us and loves us and acts on those things. But, if you think that there is only one person in the world who can fulfill you completely, you are doomed, unless they happen to change their mind about you. It can happen. People can end up together after trials and tribulations, but it ends up being a sad story for most of you because of this one fact…
There are some things that you cannot change. Like, other people’s minds.
Wishing, hoping, thinking and praying that someone will come around is a recipe for doom. In all that time that you are living in hopes of something that may never come to pass, you aren’t moving on with your life and you aren’t attracting someone to have a loving, fulfilling relationship with.
It doesn’t mean give up. It doesn’t mean good things can’t happen. Sometimes, these people end up back together. We have all seen that. But, it means let it come to you. Don’t live your life wishing, hoping, thinking and praying. Live your life now.
Everyone is a soulmate and in an infinite Universe, there is no such thing as only having one solution, or one true love. This infinite Universe yields infinite possibilities for us in all situations, including the realm of love. There is no such thing as only one person in the Universe who is right for you. There is only a such thing as lining up with what you desire. You do that by believing it is possible. That’s the first step.
Don’t be dependent on an outcome. Thinking someone is our Twin Flame, tends to make us do that. It tends to keep us in limbo. When something is out of your control, stop trying to control it, and if you cannot control it, you have to focus on the things that you can control.
I know what it’s like to not be able to move on. I became so ill after my FalseTwin Flame experience. I was heartbroken beyond comprehension. I experienced many physical and mental ailments. Some that that I am still experiencing today. My life was changed forever. I just couldn’t move on. I just couldn’t be happy. I just couldn’t sleep. I couldn’t eat. My health significantly diminished. I had never experienced anything like it in my life. Not being able to move on. Moving on was never an issue for me, until the Twin Flame experience bounced into my life.
I just want you to know, that I know what it’s like. I felt the unmerciful agony. The endless, relentless haunting of his memory, his image, my fantasies, my love for him that could never be fulfilled. Love that I never knew was humanly possible. The intense desire that could never see the light of day. The unbearable truth, that no matter what I did, no matter how much I wanted it, I couldn’t have it. Complete and utter despair. I didn’t want to exist, let alone, to live. Life was just a chore. I was tormented, day and night. In my sleep, in my semi-waking states. Before my eyes would even open, the pain would set in. The feeling was so empty. Hopelessness, loneliness, grief and pain. Despite my best efforts, I was inconsolable, although, I did my best to hide it from the world.
I got through it. I have come out the other side, and so can you.
That is my motivation, here, with you.
It is possible, and I want it for you.
Maybe you aren’t being tormented. Maybe, you don’t want to get over it. Maybe you don’t like anything you are reading, thus far. If so, then, this message is not for you. But, there are a great many of you who are ready for this message, and I am writing to you. I am here for you.
I don’t want to teach about Twin Flames anymore. I want to teach about soul connections. That’s what I have been doing all along. Who is to say what is a Twin Flame and what is not? Who is to say who is a Twin Flame and who is not? One thing that we know for sure is that it’s a soulmate connection. ALL soulmate connections are important. I want to help everyone get through their soulmate connections and through to the other side. 95% of everyone who thinks they have a Twin Flame connection, do not. But whether you do or not, the lesson is the same. The idea is to learn how to get over heartbreak.
People want to know how to find their Twin Flame, how to find their ultimate soulmate. “The one”. The only way is to see every other soulmate as relevant and important. The Twin Flame experience has a way of blocking us from doing that. Because, you are always looking for your Twin Flame, so you are always comparing and if you do not think someone is your Twin Flame, The ultimate, you automatically don’t see them with as much relevance. It slows down the learning process, which slows down everything else. You cannot move on from a lesson if you don’t learn it. You can’t learn a lesson if you don’t see what’s in front of you as relevant. So, the best way to move through your lessons quickly is to ease up on your labels and see everything and everyone as relevant. The important thing is not whether this person is your Twin Flame or not. The important thing is what you are learning from whatever soulmate has been placed in front of you now. See it as relevant, and as soon as you learn one lesson, you can move onto the next. That’s what this is all about. Not about finding an ultimate this or that. Not about finding “The Twin Flame”. See the Twin Flame as an experience, not as something written in the stars. Not as the other half of your soul. Not as something that has to turn out a certain way. Not as a romantic injustice. See it as an experience. It’s about learning. See the Twin Flame as a soulmate. As a soulmate that has great things to teach you, a huge impact on your life, and your path of love and consciousness.
What I want to do is to help you with your emotional state. Heartbreak is one of the toughest things in life to endure. I want to help you all improve your lives. I want to help you all get through these tough times with your soul connections. I want to help you gain peace of mind. To know when to move on and when to not. I want to help you to see the positive ends of your situations and the possibilities there are for you. I want to help you utilize your cognitive resources. I want to give you new, fresh and positive perspectives on what is possible for you. I want to help you achieve peace of mind.
Everyone needs to be inspired and motivated sometimes. Everyone needs positive influence. Let’s not make this life about your Twin Flame, let’s make it about you. Let’s not make it about being with your Twin Flame or not, let’s make it about deciding to pursue happiness or not. After all, happiness is the key to everything.
I have Learned a lot about how to get through this intense Twin Flame experience. I want to help others reach the place that I have reached. Why? Not because I am right or wrong, but because I wasn’t happy before, and I’m happy now. I want to help you do the same thing. I want to help you on your pursuit of happiness and fulfillment. I want to help you not only to see your possibilities, but to make them a reality. This life is about learning, loving and joy. Whatever it takes.
I deal mostly with emotions. WE all have the same goal!! Anything else that follows is not controlled by you. The only thing controlled by you are your thoughts and emotions about your present situation. The only difference is your idea of what you think you are going through and your predictions about the future. The label. That’s the difference. The commonality among all of us, the 95% and the 5% is the same. What we all need to know is how to live after a broken heart, because, Twin Flame or not, you just can’t make them come back. You can only move on.
Some people do not need to learn how to move on, but how to open their hearts and love without fear. That is, of course, an aspect that I will be covering as well. The point is to feel happier and lead a happier life. I will always be pointing you to your joy.
Mission or not, you cannot do your mission from a state of heartbreak.
The reunited is only one perspective. One perspective lense that so many are having to do without and so many will never get to see. What about the rest of us? What about us who still need to live our lives and us who still need to love? Who is teaching them? I will. Love you…I love, love. I’m a hopeless romantic and I have learned so many things about love in this journey. I want to share them all with you. So, stay tuned, as I share with you all of the things I have learned that led me through the other side of pain, into the light of happiness. I will now be dealing with all soulmate connections. All soulmate and romantic situations. No matter what is happening, I am here for you.
With so much love…
We are all in this together, let’s get through.
Valentine’s Day is my favorite. Happy V-Day…
All of my messages are derived from a Unity consciousness, which speaks to me always. Through this gift, I am able to experience my love for you. My love for you which is true, real and pure. I have no expectations, I just love you.
I discovered my fear of intimacy, and I wasn’t expecting it. I thought If I had any fears, it wasn’t of intimacy. Fear of intimacy manifests differently for everyone. It can be in the form of holding back. Reservations about falling in love, inability to communicate emotions, having trouble with physical touch, showering together, fear of moving too fast, or with falling asleep in someone’s arms…
Intimacy is hard. You have to open yourself up to judgement. To rejection. All the things that you don’t like about yourself, you have to let someone else see them. All of your fears, someone is watching. Someone is seeing you, the good, the bad and all that is there to be seen. You become transparent. It’s really hard to dissolve. To be ok with it. I realized that I don’t want to be seen. Literally. It’s something I can’t explain. Not being able to look someone in the eye when you think they are seeing you. Hoping that as you walk by, that they aren’t seeing you… All I can think about is what if all other people are seeing about me is my flaws? What if that’s all they can see?
Every blemish. Every imperfection. What if they see that and they don’t see who I am? What if they don’t accept my deepest truth? That is the fear.
It’s hard to just be ok about it, when you don’t feel ok in your own skin. Them looking at you, seeing you, hearing you, knowing your deepest thought. What you really think on an emotional level. Your hurts, your pains and why they are holding you back now. There;s so many things we don’t want to admit, things we even hide from ourselves. Getting to the heart of those things and overcoming them is so much harder than what I have ever experienced. I thought I was over my fears, then, so many of them decided to come up to be seen. I guess we can only deal with so much at one time. We can only transcend so much at one time. That’s why things come up when we think we are through with them. I have things to work on, but I can do it. I can be free and open and totally ok with being seen. I will…
Because I am divine and beautiful and there is nothing that can change that truth.
To be seen. To be known. What it means to be truly vulnerable. The scariest thing in the world. You don’t even know how scary until you are facing it, yourself. Until you love someone and you realize that they are actually seeing you, and you care. There are parts of ourselves that we don’t know, recognize or understand. Parts that are buried deep, under many layers of denial. Those things come up when you love someone. Your deepest fears, fears you didn’t even know you had, come to the surface to rock the boat and be seen. It’s actually a good thing. You can transcend what you can see. You can’t overcome what you don’t see. You must face your fears in order to overcome them. Someone has to show you your deepest shadows, so that you can overcome. Love is such a gift. My heart is overcome with love for you. My adoration has no beginning and no end. I love that you showed me, myself. I love that you made me vulnerable. I’m glad that you allowed me to see my fear of intimacy. But still lies the question, can I let you see me? Not can you see me, not am I willing, but how do I even do that? How do I let go? How do I melt into you with no reservations about it? How do I dissolve my ego, when the ego tricks me? The ego convinces me of things I don’t need. Like intimacy. Like to be seen. The ego convinces me that I am all of these things that I am not. I have to look closely at my heart to find what is true.
I want you. I want to let you see me. I want to melt into you, peacefully. But, I don’t know how…
I suppose I am treading new waters. I will set my eyes upon this goal. To be myself, with no reservations. To be seen, no matter what. To be myself and to love myself for it. To be seen and to love to be seen. We are switching perspectives now. We are traveling into the new. Into what is wanted. We are practicing a vibration of love, acceptance and melding together. I can’t be myself if I can’t be myself with you. I learn myself through you. I know myself because of the way I feel when I’m with you. You give me so much and I want to be free. I want to be free to love you and to accept all of your love. I want to be like puddy in your hands. I want to let you shine your warmth upon me. I want to feel your love. I want to accept every good thing you project to me, and not deflect your love with my fear. I don’t want your love to bounce off of me, I want to receive it. I don’t want you to feel my fear, I want you to feel my love.
I think that when it comes to intimacy, we must set our intentions. By default we are experiencing fear. With intention we can experience all of the love that we want to experience. Set your intention, set your mind, set your goal and act upon it every day. Look your lover in the eyes and receive their love. If you should look away, do not look away in fear. Never look away from that which you love. Keep your gaze upon it and allow yourself to feel love. Allow yourself to melt. Allow love to be projected onto you, without avoiding it, fearing it or deflecting it. Let yourself have what you really want. Focus your intention to love and be loved. All the way…
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All of my messages are derived from a Unity consciousness, which speaks to me always. Through this gift, I am able to experience my love for you. My love for you which is true, real and pure. You are loved.
Sweet lover of mine…
Dear Twin Flame,
In this Twin Flame experience, there is very little reassurance. People come to me and they want me to confirm this or that. It’s ok for you to come to me. In fact, it’s a great idea, because I will definitely help you validate your truth for you. The truth is that you already know the truth. Everything that I tell you, you already know in your heart. When you can’t talk to me, you need to know that. You have to learn to trust in yourself. In what you know to be true in your heart. You have to learn to trust what you feel in others, above what they say or don’t say. When you are connected to someone, the truth is so blatant, and yet, you will still have your doubts about it. Please trust in your heart. You can feel what your Twin Flame feels about you. You can feel the truth in them and you can feel it in others as well. This experience is teaching you to become more acquainted with your own guidance. Listen to it. Listen to the voice of your heart. The tugging of your soul. Let your heart guide you. It will never steer you wrong.
When I see you, I feel you. I feel what you feel inside. Those eyes can’t hide what lies behind them. That face has told me all of your secrets. There are some things you just can’t hide. I was surprised when I saw it. That look that tells all. That look that can’t be faked. That look I’ve seen before, that means only one thing. You don’t have to tell me how you feel. I know. I like to hear it. I love everything you say. But I listen most closely to those thing that you don’t say. Those things that I know because I pay attention to you. Because I am connected to you and in tune with you. Those things I know because I feel you. Those things I know because I love you.
To feel what someone else feels is one thing, to feel the same way is another. I love when you look at me, when I feel what you feel and I smile, because I feel the same way. There is little that can compare to that. And, although you haven’t told me all I want to hear, I don’t push you for it, because I saw it in your eyes. I feel it in your touch. I feel it when you are next to me. When you look at, me with those eyes of love, there is no misunderstanding.
So, I let you be what you be. I give you the chance to be it, without interrogating you and without trying to sway you. I want you to come to conclusions on your own. I know that you love me, but I want you to tell it to me because you realized it, not for any other reason. I want to give you that chance to know it for yourself and to know it for sure, without my influencing you to it. That is a gift. A gift of freedom and I give it to you because I love you. There is no other reason why.
You, my dear, are very special to me. I have been sifting through the contrast life has been bringing me for so very long. I have been coming to know in more and more detail, that which I want and that which I do not want. I have been coming to know what is most important, and I have found those things in you. Those things that I value the most. Those things that I have found are far and few between, have come to me through you. It is quite surreal, and I don’t take it for granted, even for a second. I know good things are hard to come by. I know a good thing when I see one and I see great things in you. You stand out in the room. You stand out to me. There is none like you in my world. No other I adore as much, and I do adore you. I adore being with you, your voice, your words… I adore feeling your energy and how connected I am to you. I adore the way that you look at me, with that look that tells me everything I need to know. I am no fool. I recognize you as a divine gift. One who has taught me much about love. I thank you for that as well.
There is no way for me to tell you the truth of what I feel inside. The truth doesn’t come from words, you simply know it because you know what you feel. I know that what I feel in you is the truth and I trust that above all that you say, or don’t say. It’s how I know everything. It’s how I know that you mean it when you kiss me. It’s how I know that you want me to stay. It’s how I know that you wish you could have more, but you hold back anyway.
There is no way for me to tell you that I love you. There is no way for me to tell you how much I cherish your heart. There is no way for me to convince you that I would never hurt you. There is no way that my words could ever accomplish any of this. Just like I know you, because I pay attention to what you don’t say. You will simply have to trust yourself. You will simply have to remember how you felt when you were with me and what you know when you look into my eyes. You will simply have to know how you felt when you were with me. You will simply have to feel my love. You have seen my face, you have seen that I love you, you have seen that you are special to me. Everything that you need to know is already there. You have witnessed it for yourself. You have felt the truth and you know it. Words mean so little to you and to me, when we can feel the truth in each other.
Words are fantastic, they are beautiful, but they are just extensions of what we already know. They are just a way to further what I have seen in your eyes and what you have seen in mine.
…And sometimes, words can’t be trusted, but the truth remains the same. You can trust what you feel in me.
Please trust in your heart. Trust in what you already know. Trust in what my eyes told you, as I trust what yours told mine. Trust in what you felt when you were with me. Trust in what you know when you see my face. Trust what your heart tells you. Your heart is the best guidance that you have and the best guidance there is.
There are times for words, but not always. Sometimes words are just not enough and sometimes we can’t have the words that we want. Sometimes, we have to know. Sometimes, we have to discern the words that we hear. You do that with your heart. You can feel love, you can feel truth and you can feel when someone means what they say. The same way that you can feel bad vibes, and cruel intentions. Be discerning, listen to your gut and your intuition. Know that what you feel is true, and when you feel love, don’t ignore it. See it for what it is. Humans have a fearful nature. To doubt is part of the human condition. Understand this, and that skepticism can be overcome with awareness. Don’t let your mind spin and get in the way of what you know in your heart. Know love when you feel it. The mind turns a blind eye to what the heart knows, and what the heart knows, it knows.
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We are all in this together, I am here for you.
All of my messages are derived from a Unity consciousness, which speaks to me always. Through this gift, I am able to experience my love for you. My love for you which is true, real and pure. You are loved.
There is one theme, one commonality among the downfall of all relationships and it has to do with focus.
Focus is a choice
Being human is hard. Living this life is hard and much of our lives are spent worrying about things that haven’t happened yet. Especially when we find something good. We go through a lot of shit and all of that experience makes it that much harder to believe That something can actually be good. Bad experiences have a tendency to make us downright paranoid. As soon as we catch feelings, we go on alert and pull back. We become very cautious.
so, we weigh The pros and the cons, the pluses and the minuses, the good and the bad. We measure, we observe, we predict and we come to conclusions. But, conclusions based on what?
See, you’ve got to understand what happens when we see something good. Something really good. Something we really want. Something that actually makes us feel vulnerable. It’s a very scary thing. Good things don’t come along that often, especially in relationships… Ironically, this is exactly the culprit of sabotage.
We see something good. Something we want. But as soon as we start to feel vulnerable, we can taste the defeat on our lips. We can smell the disappointment and we remember the what it feels like when our heart sinks. We are reminded of our pains. Of all the times we got our hopes up, only to be crushed. We associate love with pain. Hence, vulnerability feels like danger and in response to the first sign of danger, all the defense mechanisms, walls, barricades and protective shields go up. Nothing can get in or out. Not pain and not love. We feel like we need protection. But ironically, this type of fight or flight response is a recipe for doom.
You cannot prevent pain by putting your walls up. You cannot prevent relationship issues with statistics. Putting a time requirement on relationship milestones is not going to ensure anything. Holding back doesn’t ensure anything. I will tell you what your best bet is. To be authentically you. When you feel love, be as true to that as you can. Don’t be so quick to doubt. Don’t be so quick to think it’s too good to be true. When you doubt, you act differently. You’re not as trusting, you’re not as kind and that energy gets through to your partner whether you know it or not. It affects all of your interactions, your response to them and their response to you.
Being vulnerable is a necessary evil. And I say this, not because being vulnerable is bad, but because we have given into a skewed perception that believes it to be bad. Even if you think it’s bad to be vulnerable, it is still necessary, because you can’t love without it. And what is a life without love?
Let me explain why vulnerablity is so crucial. It is a necessary component to love and the love to vulnerability ratio is always going to be 1:1. They are parallel. The reason is because vulnerability is a pure vibration. You have to be vulnerable in order to bear your true self. Vulnerability is a component of authenticity. Anything else is a construct of the ego filtered through a perception that is calculating risk. When we are calculating risk, we are making our decisions, our thoughts, words and actions based on that, as opposed to who we truly are authentically.
Simply put, If you are calculating risk, you cannot be yourself. If your core vibration is calculating risk in the expectation that something will probably go wrong, you’ve just put a wrench in the whole system and you are probably going to find evidence of what you most deeply suspect, regardless if it’s the actual truth.
So, here is the key. Where is your focus? As soon as we feel vulnerable, we start freaking out, getting scared and it brings our attention to all of the things that can potentially go wrong. We think about those things so that we can prepare and brace ourselves in some way. So that we can dodge a bullet and basically, not get hurt. As soon as we see our own vulnerability, we see the risk and start preparing for it. This is all for not because this game plan is actually not the most strategic formula for prevention. In reality, it is quite the contrary. You get what you think about the most and you get what you most expect. This is a reality on so many levels, but it’s even been proven on a subconscious level. That our conscious mind is controlled by the beliefs of the subconscious mind. It is the job of the subconscious mind to prove us right. Whatever you believe most strongly is what you will get, because you will actually be acting in accordance with what is most true for you, in your mind. You will be looking for the evidence and interpreting everything that you see, through that expectation.
When you start focusing on the negative, you will see evidence of what you are most strongly focused upon. Negative focus is like a guarantee that you will find what you are focused upon. this is reflected in the relationship. If you focus negatively, you will always find what you are looking for.
It’s a funny thing because when you filter your perception through a lense that is negative, you will find more of that just by virtue of your energetic standpoint. the opposite is also true. Start focusing positively. Look at all of the good and you will find it! When your focus is rooted in appreciation, suddenly, there are less problems! You notice less problems, you choose to let things go more easily, you pick your battles and because your energy actually has an affect on your partner, there’s actually less problems That arise to begin with. But regardless of what comes up, a positively focused standpoint is the key to minimizing all forms of negativity in a relationship. Where’s your focus?
We go through so much. We get hurt. We get scarred and after that, it’s really tough to believe In the good. It just is. But let’s take this to the next level. What if you’ve been through so much crap that you use it to fuel your appreciation for the good things that come your way. We can all get scared. But you have a choice. Every time that you feel afraid and you start pondering what can go wrong, just bask in the appreciation for the positive aspects. That’s the reason you became afraid in the first place. Because you know you found something good. Something desirable. Something that you haven’t found before. So do not allow yourself to forget that. Do not allow yourself to focus negatively. Do not allow yourself to squander the goodness that has shown itself to you. Do not allow yourself to lower the chances of you actually getting what you want. It’s just an unnecessary risk. What’s going to happen is going to happen, no matter how strategic you think that you are. Honor the good things that come your way by #1 recognizing them as such and #2 cultivating an energetic environment that facilitates positive growth. You can do this by not polluting the energy with fear, doubt and entertaining ideas that don’t serve you or the relationship. If you are going to be in a relationship, you might as well give it the best chance its got, right?!
It doesn’t mean turn a blind eye. It doesn’t mean don’t use your brain. It means give it a good, honest chance. It means be conscious of your fears, expectations and make an effort to minimize your negative energetic input and to maximize your positive energetic input, because the difference in these energies are the difference between, not only the quality of your relationship, but literally, the life or death of it.
Don’t be so quick to come to negative conclusions. Don’t be so eager to take offense. The easiest way to see clearly is when you aren’t letting your ego and your fears be the lens that you view everything through. Know that you are loved. Focus positively. Don’t spend time pondering doom and gloom scenarios. Practice positive expectations. It will help you avoid sabotaging a good thing.
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All of my messages are derived from a Unity consciousness, which speaks to me always. Through this gift, I am able to experience my love for you. My love for you which is true, real and pure. You are loved.
Read beginning to end, You won’t regret it.
Dear Twin Flame,
Love has great meaning. There is always meaning for it. The Universe does not create things for no reason. And the Universe does not put things before you for no reason. So, why are you trying not to love? Why are you trying to cut cords and to forget and to keep yourself from feeling the things that you already feel! Love is the most natural way for you to feel! We muddy the waters of love with all sorts of other things. With social “norms” and the collective expectations of the way that things should be, or ought to be. The rules made up by some other person, somewhere, that some dumb-asses decided to follow. Get enough dumb-asses together, to follow an idea and suddenly, we are calling it normal. Yea, it’s normal, but just because the majority is doing something, doesn’t mean that it’s serving us. We ALL know that. Let me tell you something. The opinion of the collective consciousness is royally fucked up! There is absolutely no rhyme or reason to play the role of the follower on this planet. Overall, people are all dealing with their own issues and there’s currently, more people practicing problems than solutions. There is currently more people looking for solutions than living the solutions. So, if you are deriving your own belief system from “social norms”, you may want to re-think the whole thing. We all put “normal” on a pedestal. Oh, this is what’s normal. This is what normal people do. Let me tell you what normal people do. It’s fucked up. you ready? Here we go…
Here’s what’s currently “normal” in this society:
Ignoring the the voice of the heart
Letting the mind “rationalize” itself out of making loving decisions
Making love irrational and illogical
To fear love
The association of love and pain. The collective thinks that love is painful
Holding back from being most authentic. The collective thinks the best way to be is to not express your feelings authentically.
The collective consciousness is always waiting for the other shoe to drop. If something amazing comes your way, the first thought is that it’s too good to be true. So, instead of being supportive of what you want with a pure, loving vibration, you’re inserting the negative energies of doubt. What a way to facilitate the outcome of what you really want.
It’s all backwards!
If you are following the collective consciousness, you will be encouraged to not follow the path of most joy, to not follow the calling of your soul, and instead, to invalidate it, fear it, ignore it, cover it up and see it as a weakness that will surely lead to your demise.
Let me tell you something, the above that I just mentioned, is all that is wrong in this world. If people weren’t afraid of love, if they didn’t see it as a source of pain or weakness, then the world would be that much more loving. Newsflash! Human beings are naturally loving!! We all remember loving openly when we were children. Loving our parents, pets, siblings and even having a romantic sense of love. It is true, there is cruelty out there. We all go through experiences where our love isn’t reciprocated. We experience disappointment. We experience ridicule and we are made to feel “wrong” by our parents and others. All of this is the root of the problem. Not the solution. Love is the solution.
Love should be cultivated as much as possible. Not the other way around.
Do you not realize that love is actually hard to come by? You can’t love just anyone. Love doesn’t show up when you want it to. You can’t make yourself love and you can’t make another love you. Connection cannot be found or forced at will. That makes connection oh, so valuable. When you find it, you gotta honor it. Don’t ever take connection for granted. Don’t ever take special people for granted. Don’t ever think it’s easy to come by, because, it’s not.
When you experience this Love and connection and then lose it, you will know what I am talking about. But why should you have to learn this through hindsight? Why do you have to lose something before you can give due credit?
Don’t be stupid. Don’t take the love and connection for granted. Love must be honored when it arises. Connection must be honored when it arises. If it goes, it goes, but if it is there, it is there to be honored. These things are truly divine gifts.
What’s serving you and What are you serving?
There are two different ways to react to a lesson, or situation. You are in charge of the perspective that you walk away with. The question is, is the perspective that you chose to walk away with, the most loving, authentic and good for you in the end? Is your new chosen standpoint the one that is actually going to serve you the most and add the most goodness into your life?
Here are the options that we have when we have a bad experience, it can go one of two ways. The first way is very common, but I think that overall, we can come to an agreement that it’s not really the choice that does the most good. The second one requires a tremendous amount of strength, confidence, compassion and steadfast trust in one’s worth and character in order to pull off. Here’s the two:
In a scenario where something is done to you that hurts you very much. Let’s say that someone you love screams at you, calls you terrible things or maybe they even harm you in some way. Maybe you are simply feeling rejected. We can all relate to this. You have two choice reactions that you can take away from this.
The Apple Doesn’t Fall Far From The Tree…
Choosing Fear Over Love As A Result Of Pain
1) You can accept that the world is cruel and that in order to protect yourself in the future, you have to harden your exterior and experience a far lesser amount of love and vulnerability in order to make sure that you will avoid pain if this scenario or one like it ever should occur again. The funny thing is that this approach is guaranteed to cause pain to others, repeating the cycle.
The main idea is prevention, which happens by way of turning the love dial way down and building the walls around our hearts way up. So that, not only are we keeping the pain out, we are also keeping the love out and the love that we may be inspired to will be smothered out and dulled down before it ever has a chance to escape those walls. This is the choice. Unfortunately, it’s probably the path most traveled. Hence, the cliche, “The Apple doesn’t fall far from the tree.” Most people who have been hurt by others choose the death of love for the sake of eradicating pain, keeping the cycle going.
We are such intelligent creatures. We can dull our love down just enough, so that we feel a little and we can maintain a level of compassion and empathy, but not enough to put our hearts on the line. Not enough to embody the richness of an authentic love experience. It turns out that most people don’t even know what that is. We have such a clever way of pulling this off. But, this defense mechanism that we construct is a great source of pain, in itself, because we are teaching ourselves to live in fear. All of this gyration of building walls and strategically turning down our love dial is based in fear. You can’t escape that fact. Actions rooted in fear are the opposite of love, and will always lead to less love, more fear and more pain. It’s pretty ironic, after all. In reality, this where sabotage comes from.
The root intention behind an action will be reflected in the scenarios that play out. This is why purity, clarity, awareness and intention are so very important. We all want love. Period. If you are avoiding love in any way, that will play itself out in the scenarios that follow. This is a law of the Universe. Your state of being, your vibration is reflected in the hologram of life in the physical. This is a good way to figure out what is really happening inside of yourself, by looking at what is manifesting. If you are manifesting something that is undesirable to you, it’s time to reflect on your roots.
2) The second way to shift your perspective is to feel the pain and decide that you want to do everything in your power to make sure that if this is happening in the world, that you are not going to be the source. That you will do everything in your power to make sure that you do not subject another person to what you were just subjected to. It’s the most compassionate approach for yourself and for others. It takes awareness, humility, love, compassion, and to be quite honest, this behavior is the greatest mark of strength. Choosing the most loving and compassionate way of being is the path that is chosen the least, because it’s the most difficult to do. To not react with anger or fear, even when triggered or provoked, because your desire to not subject another person to that which you experienced is greater than your need to stroke your ego, maintain your status and cater to your sense of pride. Consciousness can out do anything. But, first, you gotta be aware. Which means being brutally honest with yourself. Are your decisions based in fear or freedom? What would it look like for you to be faithfully authentic, no reservations. What is your natural state?
I can honestly say that I took the path less chosen. Maybe not in every way. I slip up too, sometimes. I have established that despite the depths of my spiritual journey, I am undoubtedly, still human. I have my fair share of faults that are enough to continuously inspire me towards improvement. But I know pain. I am not talking to you from a perspective that hasn’t had a fair share of experience in this arena. I’ve experienced my fair share of atrocities, and after coming into contact with each painful experience, I just naturally came to the conclusion that I would never knowingly put another person through that which I had experienced. Put in this way, it is easy to understand. Because I feel, I have compassion. I choose compassion because I choose to feel. This is why it is important to allow ourselves to feel. You can’t understand what you have never experienced. You can’t relate to a feeling that you have never felt. It’s like trying to describe love or hate to someone who has never felt either of those things. Or trying to describe music to someone who doesn’t know sound, or color to someone who has never seen. See each painful experience as a blessing, because it gives you a choice. This is how compassion is born. This is how you learn.
Experience grants us the ability to relate and the opportunity to truly understand other people. To be understood is of upmost importance. Truly. We understand this intrinsically. This is why we feel so much love for people that we feel we understand and for people that we feel truly understand us. Resonance and love are much the same. Harmony and love, compassion and love, relate-ability and love, understanding and love.
Through pain, my choice was born. I remember my pain. The anguish. I remember the spears of anger being hurdled at me, the fury filling the room and feeling hopeless to escape. For the life of me, I couldn’t understand why it was necessary. Why there wasn’t another way. Why it had to be that. I decided that I would never bestow this anguish onto another person. Even if I became angry, I could deal with it in a way that wouldn’t cause the suffering that I had known, because, truly, suffering is unnecessary and we obliterate it one choice at a time. My desire to obliterate suffering is greater than my ego. Greater than my fear of vulnerability and greater than my desire for pride.
Ironically, by not needing to stoop in the name of pride or ego, that in itself is something to be proud of.
It’s a whole new way of being. That in itself is the ultimate validation. Validation that comes from the self. Humility doesn’t mean that you are without a healthy sense of worthiness. It means that you are so confident in your value, your worth and your position, that you don’t feel threatened by the actions of another. That you can let others be what they be and understand that what they choose to be has no bearing on your value. You are divine in nature and there is no thing that can change that, even a little. That is true self realization. That is an authentic sense of self. Knowing your value, without needing a shred of validation from anything outside of yourself. Imagine being that confident in your position, that you could love authentically and openly, without being influenced by the fear of rejection or non-reciprocation. That is total freedom. Freedom to be your true, unadulterated self. A whole new world, indeed. We are wandering far from the three dimensional way of being. This shift takes time, persistence and love. One baby step at a time.
So, you see, that your ability to love is directly correspondent with self love. Ignoring the voice of your heart is denying the self. Do you like being denied? Do you enjoy it when you are made to feel like your feelings aren’t legitimate or warranted? So then, why are you doing this to yourself? Why are you not allowing yourself to feel authentically? This shit matters. How are you treating yourself? Because how you treat yourself has a lot to do with how you are going to be able to treat others and the love that you will be capable of. I can love you because I love myself. I love myself enough to allow myself to be free. I love myself enough to allow myself total freedom to experience myself authentically. No reservations, no obligations, no rules, no judgements, no fears, no standards to uphold or people to please. What do I really feel and am I allowing myself to feel it? Am I holding myself back? Am I smoldering myself from feeling something that could be very beautiful because I prefer to not be vulnerable? Have I classified vulnerability as a weakness, or as a strength? Am I orchestrating my behavior based on fear that something could go wrong? Are my actions dictated by the actions of others or what I suspect their standpoint might be? What’s your intention? What’s motivating you? Are you giving yourself permision?
Call it out. Whatever you are feeling, own up to it. You are going to do what you are going to do. You are going to live authentically or not. You are going to live in fear or not. You are going to choose to love or not. But, whatever you do, come to terms with it. Acknowledge it and see it for what it is. Look at what you are doing and see it for what it is. Either you are going to orchestrate your actions out of fear or out of love. Recognize what you are doing. I am choosing to do this out of fear and that’s ok. I can choose that if I want to. The important thing is being aware of the choices that you are making. I am choosing to love and that’s ok. I can choose to do that if I want. It doesn’t make me weak and it’s not because I have no other choice. This is my choice and It’s ok that I choose that. Bringing this level of awareness is a really good way to transcend fear no matter what you are doing. The ego is an act of unconsciousness. The ego is always an act. It’s not really you. It’s you, pretending you are being you and the ego is very good at not breaking character. It’s ultra professional, not personal, not real. You transcend the grip of the ego, with conscious awareness. Getting to the heart of the matter. Pay attention!! Asking yourself the real reason why you are doing what you are doing. We all have the capacity to be good. We all have the desire to be good. This is the reason for regret and self improvement and things of that nature. Because, at our core, we want to be good. When you do something inauthentic, you know it. It doesn’t feel good. That’s the easiest way to know. A new desire is born. When you act out of fear, there’s a certain quality to that energy. It’s very different from love. Love feels better, if it’s really love. If it doesn’t feel good, it isn’t love.
First, pay attention. You have to know what is really happening within you. Be honest with yourself about why you are choosing to do what you are doing. Get to the root reason for your choices. Whatever you decide to do from there is fine. But. at least, when you look at the truth, you are no longer acting unconsciously and when you look at yourself and accept yourself, you can obliterate fear. It’s the honest looking part and the lovingly being self accepting part that is difficult. Get through that and you’ll transcend fear. It doesn’t mean that you will be perfect. It doesn’t mean you will never act out of fear again. It means you’ll pay more attention and give yourself more opportunity to act authentically, instead of playing out the part of some character constructed by the ego. When you are ok with you, fear is gone. All fear is a result of your own perspective. It’s a figment of your imagination.
Things can happen. But fear robs you of the joy of the now. All of your life is a series of now moments. Enjoy every one as fully as you can.
Love as fully as you can in every moment. You won’t float away. You won’t drown in a sea of love. You won’t become delirious when you are letting your emotions guide you and do what they want to do. That’s what people think. That they are going to get swept up and make a mistake and do something “stupid”. Love doesn’t make you do anything stupid. It is you who assigns meaning to the action when you perceive that it didn’t work out for you. Then, instead of acknowledging that nothing is permanent and seasons may come and go for their own reasons, you call love stupid. True love ebbs and flows like everything else. It has it’s moments. It comes and goes. The only time it’s going to haunt you is if you are fighting it on some level. And if you make a choice to live lukewarm, good luck, because lukewarm doesn’t make your heart race. Lukewarm doesn’t feel exhilarating. Lukewarm isn’t frisky, fresh, eager and exciting. Lukewarm is boring. What a way to live when life grants us no guarantees, lukewarm or otherwise.
I will follow my inspiration to love in every moment that it presents itself to me. My moments will be inspired. I don’t feel inspired in every moment. I don’t feel love in every moment. Some of my moments are restful, quiet and still. Some of my moments are the makings of discovery. Those moments that come before love. Those moments that lead up to inspiration. Contrast is not only ok, it is perfect. What matters is that when I feel inspired to love, that I allow myself the gift of that experience. That I let it flow. That I let it roll and go with it. In that moment, I am love and I am attracting more love. In that moment, I am enjoying life to the fullest. I am exploring the farthest corners of exhilaration and bliss that emotion has to offer. That life has to offer. In that moment, I am being myself. I am loving myself. I am allowing myself and I am truly living. And That is what LIFE is about. Go where your emotions are guiding you. Always.
With Great Love
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This is a long post and there is not much mention of Twin Flames, but the concepts are very import an for everyone, especially for the Twin Flames. It is worth the read.
“That love that knows no bounds…. I’ve never regretted giving into love… Giving into love has always provided me with the most exciting experiences I have known in my lifetime…”
There is something to be said for this thing called love. This thing that we experience that turns our world upside down and causes us to do things we never thought we were capable of. This thing that changes us inside and out. Reframes our perspectives and causes us to see things in a whole new light. This thing that inspires us to break our own rules. To see things from another person’s point of view and to reach heights of empathetic understandings that we have never reached before. To evolve in ways we never could previously comprehend and to come to see ourselves and others in a whole new way.
It’s the best gift ever. But for many reasons, we are deathly afraid of it! Afraid of being vulnerable. Afraid of being rejected. Afraid of loving and losing. Afraid for reasons we don’t even dig deep enough to understand. The human race has given love all sorts of attachments and definitions that just don’t belong.
We have made love crazy, painful, dangerous, irrational, illogical, impractical and irresponsible. Love is actually the opposite. Love is the most logical thing one can do. But we often make the mistake of thinking that when you love someone, that love calls you to become their doormat at some point. Now, that is far from the truth. Let’s get it straight. At no point in time does love mean being a doormat or doing anything that does not serve you in order to put the best interests of another above your own. That is never my teaching and never the teaching of any spiritual teacher who knows what they are talking about.
There is never a time when love will require you to take an action towards another, that is not also a self-loving action. True love expressed towards another will simultaneously be an act of love unto the self.
Otherwise, it is not love. It is something else. Then, it becomes action rooted in pain, guilt, fear or obligation. None of those things are love. We have attached many of these concepts to love, but don’t get it twisted, love is love and nothing else. It’s that simple. You have to examine the root cause of your intention in order to know if you are acting in love. Love does not act out of motivation to gain or for fear of losing, love simply acts out of courage to follow the inspiration of love. Whatever that may be.
If I love you and I want to act out of love for you, but I hold myself back in some way because I am afraid of you knowing it. I am afraid of losing you or freaking you out, of being vulnerable, or of the possibility of rejection, then, I am acting out of fear. Not love. This is when love becomes difficult and uncomfortable. When we screw with it, hide it, try to make it something else, try to contain it, pace it, regulate it, and put it in a box with a pretty bow for the sake of appearances.
We fuck with love all of the time… And then we say that love is the problem? Ha!
Most of us are cowards. Most of us see weakness in love, instead of strength. Most of us see vulnerability as a problem, an issue, as something that would be better to avoid. Only a coward would come to this conclusion! Because it is an act of cowardice to need validation from an outside source. From a source that is outside of yourself, and that is what we are messing up this love thing with. The need for others to react to us in a certain way or to view us in a certain way. What would happen if you loved yourself enough to just be yourself, whoever the fuck you are, not worrying about or needing any outside validation? You would be authentic. You would have the courage to follow your joy. You would be actually LIVING instead of holding back on life and love. Ultimately, you would have a much better chance overall, in achieving fulfillment, because the people who are going to matter to you are going to love you for who you are and they are going to have great appreciation for your courage to be authentically you. This is something that is just not common enough among humans in general. The ability to love one’s self enough to give the self permission to just be who you are at your core. Permission to live authentically. That is freedom. Freedom is love.
Love begins with the self. With self- realization and self love. Only a person who truly loves themselves can demonstrate what it truly means to love another. Love does not require you to do anything for another person that is not good for you or that you do not want to do. This is where the self love comes in. When we value ourselves, and give ourselves permission to be ourselves, we will be able to understand that we are not responsible for the way that another person feels about themselves. This understanding is what allows you to make healthy decisions for yourself. You are not responsible for the way that another person feels or for their reaction to you. When you love yourself enough, you will not be manipulated into staying with someone for the wrong reasons or into doing something that you do not want to do and calling it love. Love doesn’t do that. Here is what love does…
Love follows the path of most joy.
Love is authentic, and therefore…
Love is courageous, daring, honest, open and expressive.
Because love is authentic, love is freedom. Freedom is love.
Love does not know any other way but to be itself.
On a level that most people are not even aware enough to ponder, there is an illusion. An illusion that we readily accept as a truth. The illusion of rejection. That rejection is a possibility. This is only an illusion, a perspective. I will tell you why… Yes, a person outside of yourself could “reject” you or not accept you as you authentically are. We have all had these experiences. But, it’s an experience, it’s how you feel about it that matters. How you feel about it or react to it is what shapes the experience for you. Have you ever been “rejected” by someone you truly did not care about? Someone you didn’t feel you needed even a microcosm of acceptance from? How did that feel? Did it even feel like rejection? Did it feel like anything at all? Did you even give it any thought? Probably not. We have all had these experiences. Let’s get to the root of it. You can only be rejected when you feel that you can be rejected. At some level, we put more credence in certain other people than in ourselves. We hold the opinions of certain other people as weighty and valuable and worthy. We compare ourselves to others and when we find someone who we think is “worthy” smart, cool or valuable, suddenly we feel like their acceptance of us carries weight. As if their opinion has anything to do with our level of value, worth, intelligence or coolness. At some level, at some point, we hold the opinions of others, or their perspective about us as more valuable than our own. This happens on small levels, it happens on larger levels, it happens all the time and with everyone. There is really no exception. It is part of the human condition. It’s something that we battle with for all of our lives because it is part of the fabrication of this thing we call ego. And, we all have ego. I may be writing this article, but I see these things in myself. I exhibit them as well. Even knowing all of this, I am still subject to all that is part of the human condition. I am saying this because there is a very important point to be made here….
Ownership comes before change.
I am pointing out my own vulnerabilities to you so that you may do the same for yourself. There is no one who is reading this who can proclaim exemption from the human condition. The only difference in being aware is that you can see when the feelings come up, what they are and what the true intentions are behind your thoughts, words and actions. With awareness to all of that, there is more leeway, more ability to deliberately choose which path you will take in any given situation. When I feel the urge to do something and I am aware enough to see if it arose from fear. I can stop, examine it and make a new choice. This only comes with awareness, ownership and self-love. We are all human, but we can shift from 3rd dimensional ways of thinking and being and into 4th and 5th dimensional levels of thinking and acting, on a moment to moment basis.
Love is really not so complicated. If you eliminate the idea of love meaning that you can’t put yourself first and love another at the same time, and if you eliminate the idea of needing any type of validation, acceptance or reaction from another, then we can begin to see love in perspective. For what it truly is. Love is freedom. So, are you loving freely? Are you holding yourself back? Are you acting out of fear? Or are you acting out of freedom and love? Are you being totally authentic? Have you done the work to figure out what that means? Fears, preconceived ideas and obligations aside…
Humans are reluctant to love. We are reluctant to give in and to express ourselves from the core of our being. But to be authentic is such a gift. Authentic expression is such a satisfying experience. It’s one thing to have an experience and to keep it bottled up. It’s another thing to be able to express yourself authentically and to know that you are understood. To see eye to eye with another. It’s a great gift, one of the best. But you can’t get there when you have reservations about it. You can’t get there if you won’t allow yourself. You can’t get there if you are ruled by fear. There are many people out there who are ruled by far and don’t even know it. Let me clear something up for you… If you don’t know what it’s like to love with all your heart; To love fully, passionately and uncontrollably; To fall in love, then you are ruled by fear. Something is holding you back, because everyone has the capacity to love, you’ve just chosen not to go there. To slow the process. To be extra cautious. Am I saying that it’s ok to throw caution to the wind when it comes to love?
Let me tell you why…
Love isn’t without reason. Love always has great reason. If you love someone, there is a reason for it. To deny yourself of experiencing that is to deny yourself. There is always a lesson to be learned and that is what love is about. You gotta learn to follow your heart. Let yourself. Allow yourself. Go with it.
Follow your heart…
Don’t put love in a box. Sometimes, the reason for loving someone isn’t what we think it is. It isn’t always so that reunification can occur and we can be together with them in the end. You have to remember this when it comes to your Twin Flame. It isn’t always so that we can learn to mesh and be unconditional. Unconditional doesn’t mean forever loving someone else, even to our own detriment. There’s a balance happening here. Sometimes we learn unconditional love, as far as learning to transcend a situation while residing within it and sometimes we are learning unconditional love by moving on. Transformation is continual. When the lesson is over, the overtaking feeling of love will be gone too. Love will not stay for no reason. So, the best way to move forward without wasting time and to get through your lessons quickly is to give into the love that you feel without holding back. With no reservations. Go into it.
That which you are drawn to and interpret as a feeling of love, joy, passion, and excitement, these things are all good for you because this is the way that the body interprets things that are representative of you. Your core essence. This is why following your heart is so key. You will be drawn to that which is good for you in one way or another.
If you want to know the truth, dive in head first. If you want to know how someone feels about you, let them know who you are. Let them know your truth. There are only two possible outcomes. Either that they will feel the same way and your relationship will explode into deeper, more passionate, more blissful, harmonious levels, or they won’t feel the same way that you do. There’s no black or white. Anything can happen. maybe they will catch up with you. Maybe you’ll have to deal with certain levels of rejection and try to overcome that on smaller levels. Maybe you’ll have to deal with it on a larger scale. maybe you won’t have to deal with it at all. One thing is for sure. Once you learn the lesson, you move on from it and onto different people, different circumstances and different lessons. So, get through it. Don’t hold back, because you are just holding out on your lesson. let yourself fall. Let yourself be authentic. Imagine two people coming together who are authentically into each other, authentically in love and authentically expressive about it. That’s what you want. You can’t have that if you never get there, yourself. Give yourself some slack. Give yourself some room to love. I love you so much. There is no end to my love for you. I will keep believing in you, even when there is no reason to, because I choose to see you through the eyes of love. I will keep being honest with you, even when it may be difficult to do because I honor you.
Honor yourself. Let yourself be who you are. Be who you are. You are love.
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I know that this may be a difficult concept to consider, for many of you. But, hear me out. There’s no harm in it…
I thought that my pain was caused by the separation from my Twin. I was wrong…
My pain started before that. Before I knew what he was to me. Before I consciously established the connection. Before the Twin Flame run even began. I called it dark night of the soul. It came over me and I was cloaked in it. In the confusion, in the overwhelming hopelessness and pain. No apparent rhyme or reason. No way out. It was pain that was there. It simply existed. There was nothing that I could do except bask in it. Accept it. There it was. I let the tears flow. I don’t know any other way… The Twin Flame run occurred after that and the pain continued, but let’s not get this mixed up. Let’s understand what pain really originates from.
I understand sadness. I understand what it feels like to be drowning in dark, merciless waters of pain. So much heartache. Not knowing how to make it stop. Utter despair and praying for the end to come. The end of me. The end of the pain. Either which way, when you’re in that place, it doesn’t seem to matter how relief befalls you. You just want it to come. You just want to see the light of day again. To feel like you have some good reason to live for. Or to die and to cry no more…
I reached this point of awareness in the midst of my pain, on a few occasions… A point where I looked at the pain. I studied it. I observed it. I tried to see where it was really coming from. I went into it. I felt the pain outside of the circumstances. I separated the reason from the pain. The pain didn’t disappear, it was still there, but I realized something…. That the pain wasn’t attached to anything. It was just there. It wasn’t there because of my situation. It wasn’t there because of my Twin, or because of the separation. It wasn’t there for any reason besides that it just existed. It was something that was already there. Something that needed to be looked at and dealt with. Something that was crying out for attention. Crying out for action, movement, energy, acknowledgement and change.
We attach reasons to our pain. We try to rationalize it, to make it logical. We blame this person, or that thing. We justify that our reactions of pain are perfectly valid, given the circumstances, but that is a lie. You see, you could have 10 different people all experience the same thing and they could all have completely different reactions. The circumstances don’t cause the reaction, you do. You are the one who reacts to your circumstances. Your reaction is your reaction, it’s something that is already there. Something that already exists within you, and whatever is already inside of you will come out when it gets a chance.
Circumstances are just the excuse for the existing shadows to come to the surface to be seen, transcended and transformed.
This why we test people. To see what’s inside of them, to see what they’re made of.
What are you made of?
At the core of your pain, there isn’t anything to blame. There is no circumstance that is causing it. That is just an illusion. We think that if circumstances would change that we would feel better. The truth is that when we overcome the pain that already lives inside of us, we then allow for change. Pain comes up to show you that it’s there, not because of some outside circumstance. There is no outside circumstance that could cause you pain if the pain wasn’t already there.
I know it is difficult to see this. I know that there is pain involved with separation and that the way that we experience it points to the idea that the circumstance is to blame for the onset of pain. But, the circumstance is just a trigger for something that is already there. If it were the circumstance which caused the pain, then it would be impossible to overcome the pain unless you could change the circumstance. The reality is that it is possible to overcome the pain, even if the outside circumstance stays the same. This means that it isn’t the circumstance which causes the pain. The reason it is important to note is because this understanding is the jumping off point to empowerment. You should know that you are not at the mercy of your pain, even if you cannot change the circumstances.
So, stop blaming your Twin, or the separation for your pain. Stop thinking that you can’t escape it. Stop thinking that you are being inflicted with a painful experience. It’s just an experience. Your reaction is your creation.
Be aware of your pain. Look at it. Study it. Go into it. You will see, it’s only pain and it can go away just as swiftly as it came. It isn’t attached to anything. It isn’t attached to you. You are not married to pain. It isn’t following you around. It isn’t your ball and chain. It’s only pain. It’s only there to show you something. Become ultra conscious of it and you will allow it to show you what you need to see. Circumstances, people and events aside.
We are all in this together, I am here for you.
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I just love you. And I feel so blessed by this opportunity to love. I feel so lucky to have met you. I feel so good that you are here. So grateful that you aren’t just a dream anymore. I’ve been asking for you. I’ve been imagining you. I’ve been preparing for you. I’ve been practicing you. I’ve been waiting for you. Now, I get to see you, I get to hear you, I get to taste you and touch you. I get to have conversations with you. I get to visit with you. I get to spend time and joke and laugh with you. So different. The real thing vs. the imagined thing. So very different, and I never thought that I would feel this way. Scared shitless.
Every new experience is an opportunity for me to understand something in a deeper way than I ever have before. Today, I am understanding the runner. We all hate on the runner. We make the runner the problem. If they just wouldn’t run, everyone would be happy. What’s the point, anyway? What’s the point of running? Why do they run from what they love? How is that even possible? It doesn’t make sense.
I know it. It doesn’t make sense. But the truth is that everyone does the best that they can from their current point of consciousness. The runner flees because they feel like they can’t stay. It can be so difficult when you meet someone you love. Someone you’ve been waiting to meet. Someone you actually have a connection with. Someone who is everything that you want. It can seem too good to be true, and for the runner, they are just waiting for the other shoe to drop. It feels to them like if they are seen, that they won’t be loved. Even if they are a great person with nothing to hide. Even if they know that they are wonderful and have so much to offer, it still feels like you might be rejected at any moment. No particular reason, besides that you just aren’t good enough. It’s not even a logical fear. It’s completely ridiculous! But, none the less, you are walking a tight rope, holding your breath, looking down and hoping to god that you don’t fuck it up. This thing that you have found that you know that you want. This thing that you know is special. There it is and holding onto it just becomes too much to bear. It just becomes too difficult to try to stay open and vulnerable so that you can maintain the relationship, when at the same time, you are scared shitless. You are watching yourself and what you say. Censoring yourself and playing back scenarios in your head, wondering if you did the right thing. God forbid if you make a mistake. Then it becomes some huge ordeal. Something you just beat yourself up about. The seesaw of the relationship and going with the ebb and flow is difficult too. It all just becomes too much. So, one will run in small ways. This is where games originate. For the Twin Flame runner, they run away completely. It just becomes easier to not have the relationship at all. To not have to be afraid, to not have to worry about if you said the right thing or if your Twin is still into you. To not have such incessant inquiries in your mind. Just make it all stop. That is why the runner runs. To make it stop.
Being in the presence of your Twin Flame makes you aware of so many things you didn’t know about yourself. It brings to the surface every insecurity. Every fear. Depending upon where you are in your journey, it could be too much. Especially for someone who has not done a lot of reflecting on the self. For someone who has shadows buried and hasn’t yet begun the process of purging. So, just imagine suddenly becoming aware of everything about yourself that seems less than perfect or less than ideal. And all of this is happening in the moment that you want to put your best foot forward. It’s completely nerve wracking if you’re not really self aware. It’s nerve wracking even when you are self aware. It’s quite a dilemma. That the moment you want to just be yourself and embody all of the characteristics about yourself that you know are ideal, is the moment you become aware of all of your weaknesses. It’s tough to be your best when you become so aware of your “flaws”.
This is why the runner runs. Not because they do not feel great love. It’s the opposite. They do feel great love. It’s that great love that makes them afraid. Afraid of rejection, afraid of losing. When you are looking at it from the runner’s perspective, It feels better to know that you sabotaged something on purpose, than to live with being the one who “messed up”, or wasn’t good enough. This is the logic. Is it sensical? I don’t think so. I think we all know that this premise of running is flawed. But, this is what happens. Once the initial Twin Flame connection is established, it brings up a lot of things to the surface that need to be worked through. Sometimes, the runner just needs time to sort it all out and gain their footing. They need to figure out what to make of it all. How to gain a new perspective that will be self loving, instead of self sabotaging. It can be difficult to understand. How someone could be so afraid. But it happens, and sometimes, it just takes time to sort out.
Everyone has their quirks. Everyone has their good sides and their bad sides. Everyone has had experiences that are good and bad. Everyone has made choices that are good and bad. It’s the overall package that we are looking for. Things can be overcome. Fear can be overcome. That’s what is important. Not what happened in the past but where you are letting it take you. What you are making of it and who you are choosing to become because of it. Are you letting your experiences make you better and stronger? Are you becoming more loving or less loving?
Let’s not hold our runners accountable for taking the time that they needed for themselves. Let’s not judge them based in their past. People need to work through things sometimes. Pain and fear make people do crazy things, but it’s not who they are. People can get over fear and pain. Make your decisions based in the now. Based in who is good for you now and who they have become. Give love to the runners of the world. That is all they ever wanted all along.
We are all in this together, I am here for you
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Shut up and Love.
I will focus my loving attention on you. Why? Because you have inspired me. You have made it easy. You have opened me up and made me vulnerable. Vulnerable so that I could see the parts of myself that I couldn’t see before. The parts of myself that need to be loved. The parts of myself I ignored, before you came along. Thank you for coming along and being the being that you are. For inspiring me to love. For giving me a reason to experience the divine. I see the divine in you, and seeing the divine in you allows me to see the divine in myself.
I am so appreciative of you. You are more than I remember asking for. You are my pleasant surprise. I have been asking for this for so very long and in so many ways. I have been piecing this together, one desire at a time. One preference at a time, and there you come, just on time. I recognize you. You are my creation. You are the living proof, the manifestation, the evidence that the Universe is conspiring in my favor, to bring me all that I have asked for, whether I was aware of the asking or not. Even the most artfully crafted poetic masterpiece would undermine the delight I have been graced with since you’ve crossed my path. But it’s even more than that. Because what we have is mutual. What a blessing that we can both have this experience together, at the same time. That I can understand you and you can understand me. The as I resonate with you, you are resonating with me. Our bliss is shared. Our joy is shared. We are on the same page, seeing eye to eye, being understood and understanding. Everyone wants to be understood and understanding is the doorway to freedom. Freedom is love. This is good. This is easy. This is logical. And this experience has shown me what I really want. No walls, no fears, no barriers. Just me, just you. Two people coming together who want the very same thing and are ready for it, at the same time.
Anything else would fall short.
This what you want, Twin Flame. You want your experience to be mutual. You want your experience to be easy and smooth. You want your experience to feel good. You want for everything to fall into place just perfectly, no resistance on either end and no reservations, no hesitation, no fear. This is truly what you want. Something that you can touch and taste and smell and be a part of, in the flesh. Not just in the mind’s eye or on a soul level.
If your Twin Flame is running, that’s not your ideal experience. It is only half of the experience. One half that you are in love, but the other half that it is not easy, not mutual or satisfying. You must understand this, that no matter how much you think you want this Twin, that attaching yourself to anything that is not serving you in love is not a self loving action. If you love a person and want an experience with them that they do not want with you, they are simply not your ideal person. Not in that moment that they are denying you. They are only half the ideal. The half that you love, and the half that loves you, but not the half that can make your love into a fully fleshed out reality that you can live to enjoy. And since we are here to have a 3rd dimensional experience, it matters. This truth is real. It deserves consideration. There is so much more at play here, in the Twin Flame connection than meets the eye. The real purpose is for you to love yourself. The best way to learn an to grow is to be challenged. That is what this is. It’s a challenge. A great challenge which is only taken on by those who have great ability and desire to evolve at a rate which many have not committed to taking on.
Your Twin Flame has inspired you to experience an enormous capacity to love. This energy also makes you aware of your need for things outside of yourself for the feeling of fulfillment, satisfaction or completeness. This awareness is key, so that you may experience the contrast and pain which will inspire you on your journey to fulfillment through the self. Contentment and completeness through the self, instead of by any other means outside of the self. This is the journey. Reunification of the Twin Flame is not the goal of this experience. The reunification or fulfillment via 3rd dimensional manifestation is simply a by-product of the inner workings we are motivated toward as part of the Twin Flame odyssey.
You are not attached to anything. The Twin Flame is a connection, yes, and it is true that you cannot sever it, but it is also true that you do not have to want for something that is not serving you. You must learn to make the self loving action of allowing yourself to come to a place where you can allow a person in that will actually represent true love. A person who values you. A person who looks at you through the eyes of love and with no reservations about it. A person who is not afraid of themselves or of you. A person who is not afraid of connection or intimacy. This is what you deserve, Twin Flame! This is the challenge! To love yourself first, so that you are not at the mercy of another. Not to be a stone who refuses to love. But to love without condition. To love, regardless of the outcome an to be able to see new beginnings in the endings, instead of seeing pain, fear and anguish in the endings.
Your Twin Flame could very well be the person who can offer you the whole package of mutually expressed love. Do not despair. But are you making that the end all be all? There is need to underline this idea that you cannot be dependent upon the reunification with your Twin Flame for completion. You must recognize that love abounds. Satisfaction, contentment, completion and wonder abound in this universe and the forms that these experiences can take on cannot possibly be predicted by you, or any human mind.
You want the one who has mutual feelings and gives you what you want in every way. Through actions and words and consistency, manifested in the physical. Many of us have this idea that we cannot have it all. This is a human, limiting concept. You can have it all. Great love doesn’t have to be hard, but what are you believing? What are you accepting as real, possible and true? If you are accepting a reality of a standard that is less than what you know that you deserve as a divine being, then that is the reality that you will attract. Once you cease to entertain the less than ideal as a reality, it won’t be your experience because you won’t be accepting of it. You therefore, raise your expectations of the Universe and the Universe must deliver.
Value yourself enough to be firm with the Universe about what you want. Value yourself enough to realize what’s really important. We get so caught up in the details of what we want, forgetting that when the Universe brings you the right package, certain other things don’t matter. We get so hung up on one person, forgetting that there is more than one person for everyone. Forgetting that if the Universe brought it through one, it can bring it through another. It does not mean that the experience will be the same. It does not mean that it will be the Twin Flame experience all over again, but it will be what you want. Twin Flame, it is true that it can come, but you must value yourself enough and raise your vibration enough to attract the satisfaction that you seek. It can come through your Flame or through some other way, but what we know is that either way, you have to let go of your part in trying to control it. No matter what you attract in the end, whether it be the person you currently consider to be your Twin Flame or not, the means is always the same. You attract what you feel and you attract what you are. So, value yourself, don’t settle, satisfy yourself in all the ways that you can, be content in your now and open minded to the future. This is the formula, and along the way, use every excuse that you can to experience love. Cherish every soulmate and act upon the love that they inspire within you. Give all of them your full attention and love. Be in that vibration of appreciation as much as you can. Good things will come. I love you.
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There are two main points of the Twin Flame Journey that will be covered in this Transmission. The first has to do with Guidance. As you know, guidance is an amazing and invaluable tool that is meant to assist you through your travels here in this dimension. It is the bridge between the physical and the spiritual. All of you desire guidance, for it is no secret that you all are asking for it on a daily basis. Every single one of you. Is it so hard to believe that you have access to your guidance at any point in time? The Twin Flame experience is an exaggerated play on what it feels like to be guided. It’s an exaggerated gut feeling. An Exaggerated hunch. An exaggerated intuitive pull. So much so, that even those of you who have no belief in these types of things will be compelled to understand this experience which is so foreign to you. There is no one who can ignore the intensity of the Twin Flame connection. It exists, it’s undeniable and this is for good reason.
The Twin Flame experience in meant to get you in touch with your own guidance system on a greater scale.
Once you learn this, that you have intense feelings that you cannot ignore and that you didn’t make it up, it’s an experience and that experience is legitimate in itself; You will then be at the jumping off point that allows you to pay attention to your guidance system, even in times when it presents itself in much subtler ways.
Many of you wonder if you are crazy because of this Twin Flame experience. It’s an experience! It is real! The experience is real! The connection is real! You don’t make up these feelings, they are real. You meet many people throughout your lifetime that do not trigger such intensity within you, so why should it be so hard to fathom that the connection you feel to that one person is real? You would not be stuck on this situation if it was not real. If there was no real connection. Stop doubting yourself. Stop doubting your sanity and stop doubting your connection to your Twin Flame. Stop asking if it is real, simply be at peace with it. Simply acknowledge the experience and move on if you must, or do whatever it is that you must do, but stop going over it again and again, as if there is something that you do not know. You can’t have everything all at once. You must have faith in your guidance and then move on to the second point that we are about to make about the Twin Flame experience…
The second point of the Twin Flame experience is essentially to become whole. To learn unconditional love, self realization, ultimate authenticity and manifestation of courageous love. You cannot discover your capacity to love without loving yourself and as you learn to love others you learn to love yourself. As you learn to love yourself, you also learn to love others. The two are connected.
You must learn what it means to love yourself in order to get through this. It’s a whole different world than what you are accustomed to. It is a completely different perspective. A completely different experience. It will take a complete shift in paradigm. What will be explained in later transmissions will be difficult to accept at first, for some of you. But, be assured, that what is offered here will be of good help to you if you can trust and gradually learn to apply it.
Self Loving Actions and Reaching Completeness
You must know that you are ok, even by yourself. You must know that you are ok, even without your flame. Do you know it? Do you feel it? Is that your experience? Many of you will say that you do feel complete, but you are still wanting for the completeness of the Twin Flame experience and this is counter to feeling what it actually means to feel complete. When you are complete, there is no longing for anything. when you are longing, you are not demonstrating trust that the Universe will deliver to you what you want and therefore, it cannot!
Do you see how you are the one who is putting a wrench in your own fate? You attract what you feel and what you are. What signal are you giving to the Universe? Are you telling yourself that you are ok and loving yourself in every moment, no matter what state you are in? Or are you wanting, desiring and longing for things you do not yet have.
It is no secret that to stop the longing seems impossible to many of you. This is why it will be covered in greater detail in the next transmission. Please try to let this idea sink in a bit, as the promise here is to bring you closer to happiness and freedom, one step at a time.
You are so very loved and that will never change, Dear, Twin Flame. The Universe has made every possible preparation for you, everything is ready and all you have to do is allow the abundance of love to flow. That is what these transmissions are all about. Namaste.
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“My pain has made my fear obsolete.”
Pain is the one thing that we are all trying to avoid. The one thing that we fear the most can take on many different embodiments, but at the core, it’s the same for everyone; Pain.
What happens when you can’t avoid pain? When circumstances and events take place that cause debilitating pain…. What is one to do? Here is the thing. We view pain as a negative experience. But, in order to learn how to overcome pain, we must first have the experience of pain. Once you learn how to transcend pain, fear has no hold on you anymore. This is freedom. making decisions from a place of love and freedom, instead of fear. Fear keeps us from following our hearts. From pursuing the things that are the most meaningful to us. It’s such a handicap when we can’t make decisions from a place of love and freedom.
We are only an empty shell if we cannot live by freedom. We are lukewarm, stagnant and unsatisfied at best, if we ignore our hearts and live by some other rule. Some rule that says we are controlled by our fear of pain. Choices are unencumbered by fear and pain. Otherwise, they are just rules that we live by. They are not choices. Choice represents freedom to choose. Freedom to choose only exists when all options are available to us.
Life is a paradox and the paradox of pain is that when you overcome pain, you are free. When you are no longer ruled by fear, all options become available to you. There is no obligation. There is no ultimatum. No means that can be used to manipulate you into submission. No way that you could be persuaded into some self hating action. That is freedom. Freedom to choose. Freedom to be entirely authentic. Freedom to go after those things that you truly want and to distance yourself from those things you know you don’t want.
When pain is the only threat, bring it on. I have been there. I have lost it all. I have endured the gut wrenching tears day after day. The grueling pain. The desire to cease to exist. The confusion beyond belief. The incapacitating sorrow. The exhaustive spinning of the mental body which tries so hard to figure it out and solve this problem of pain. All to no avail. Just a downward spiral. Here is the verdict. There is a way out of pain and when you find it, you will fear nothing and no-one. There is no thing more empowering than that. Than the ultimate freedom to love and be loved outside of the boundaries that fear wants to keep us within. There is no self-sabotage outside of fear. There is no obligation outside of fear. There is no insecurity outside of fear.
It’s pain that makes you stronger. Pain puts things in perspective. It makes you come to a clearer understanding of what’s really important. Most of all, pain ultimately provides freedom to those who overcome it. Once you overcome pain, the world is yours. You no longer make decisions based in fear, but in love, forevermore. What more have you to fear once you have lost your Twin Flame? What more can happen to you that is worse than that? What more have you to fear if you have lost your Twin and come out the other side and made a beautiful life for yourself? What threat will you fear? For me, there is none. There is no threat great enough to take away my audacity to choose in love. I will move forward in love. I will move forward knowing that I have nothing to lose, because I’ve already lost it all and I not only survived, I overcame. I figured it out. I am the lotus, risen from the mud. Risen from the shadows. I am happy and whole and free as can be. I did it.
There is nothing better than this freedom that I have achieved. This freedom that you can achieve. To be no longer afraid of love. No longer afraid of rejection. To no longer settle for less. To no longer be manipulated. To no longer be under appreciated. To no longer be ruled by fear. Outside of fear there is love, and that is where you can live. This is your way out. Your freedom from fear is on the other side of pain. There is progression involved. It’s no easy task. It’s ok to take your time to arrive. It happens over time. Just be patient and love yourself every step of the way. Every day of pain brings you closer to freedom.
Pain makes fear obsolete.
You cannot be persuaded by pain, once you know pain and have overcome it.
Become stronger than your pain.
We are all in this together. You are loved.
My Twin Flame told me how he felt about me. I didn’t make it up. It was mutual. It happened. It was real. But, as you all know, there’s always a problem, and when push comes to shove, it was all over. I asked him if he meant it. He said that he did, and then he said something else…
“Does it matter?”
I’ll never forget those words. Why would he say that? I couldn’t understand it. I just knew that it felt bad. I get it now. Those are the words of someone who has given up. Someone who has relinquished their freedom to go with their heart. In his mind, there was no other choice. So, it didn’t matter.
I didn’t understand it because I never put myself in a corner. I never relinquish my ability to choose. I didn’t understand that type of thinking. Although I understand it now, it’s still difficult to relate to.
Here is what I want you to know…
Dear Twin Flame, it matters. You can’t help that. You can’t stop it. There is no ceasing, no running, no stopping. This love is like a waterfall. It flows with a strong current and when you feel pain, that’s when you’re trying to go against it.
You can’t talk yourself out of love. You can’t cut the cords.
“I love him so much. Nothing soothes the pain. Nothing takes it away. nothing makes me forget. Nothing else is good enough. There is nothing that could ever replace him in my heart. No substitute. No other way. My thirst for you will never be quenched. Never satisfied outside of you. My desire for you is too great. This is a gut wrenching love. I am consumed in my sorrow. My heart, body and soul mourns for you. My sadness won’t let me forget my love for you. My sadness reminds me of how I miss you.
You are a part of me and I can’t have it any other way. My heart knows no other. No distraction is enough. I laugh at the idea of replacing you. There is no such thing.
I love you. “
I know that it is hard to live this way. I know that sometimes, it feels like there is no escape. It feels like all is lost. It feels like you can’t move on. Like it’s the end of the road and life becomes one great big chore. We just go through the motions, wishing, hoping, thinking and praying for change. Missing the Flame that set our souls on fire. So close, yet so far. If only…. If only they would return. If only there was some way.
Dear Twin Flame, don’t invalidate your feelings. Don’t try to cut the cord. It is impossible to do, anyway. Don’t make it wrong that you feel the way that you feel. That’s the first step. Being loving and understanding towards yourself, no matter what you are feeling. You are human, after all.
Here’s an idea…
We live our lives in a state of disappointment when things don’t go our way. But what you aren’t considering, as you are living in disappointment is that things can change in any moment. Imagine living from that state. Of knowing that the world is fluid, malleable and is subject to change in any moment. That things can move in your favor unexpectedly at any given time.
The other side to that is that you must be in a receptive mode. You must be in a state of being that allows you to attract the types of changes that you want.
Stop thinking that your moments are predictable. They are not!
Things can change in an instant. Are you considering that? It’s true, so do yourself a favor and remind yourself of that and move forward with positive expectation that everything is working out for you.
It only takes one. One moment, one circumstance, one person to change your life forever, for the better, and that one thing can show up at any moment. So, instead of trying to cut chords or figure out how to forget, just remind yourself that things can change and that they are changing all the time. Stop trying to stop loving. Stop trying to run away and harden yourselves. Stop living in disappointment.
There is no death sentence here. Only circumstances. There is no hard, fast, definite outcome. Anything can happen. You must see that. Don’t let yourself wallow in pain, while you could be learning lessons that get you closer to reunification.
“The one truth you cannot hide is love”
-Dr. Henry Morgan, Forever
You create your reality. It’s hard to escape the pain, but we are doing it little by little. We are loving ourselves instead of beating up on ourselves. We are learning to love with hope, instead of doubt and we are learning that no matter what happens, we are ok. Give yourself the gift of peace, one moment at a time. Don’t smudge out the love. Don’t forget it, block it or hide it. You can learn to integrate it in and to let go of the pain. Keep the love and let go of the pain, one hopeful moment at a time.
We are all in this together, I am here for you.
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It hurts when we can’t have what we want. It hurts so bad. To love so truly, so deeply. That kind of love that you can only hope to find. The heart wants what the heart wants and you can’t help that. How do you transcend the pain, when you just want them to care? What happens when you just can’t have what you want? When you realize you never will?
When you realize you can’t make them open up. Even when you know they love you back.
Will it ever go away? The pain? What makes pain fade? What heals a broken heart? What heals loss? What can replace a love so strong? What can bend the will?
How to deal…
Are you making it your fault? Are you making yourself not good enough? Are you wondering if you could have done something differently? Well, how are you going to move on if you are stuck in the past? How are you going to bring an end to the pain?
There’s no easy way. No easy way besides surrender. Stop blaming yourself. Stop thinking you’re not good enough. Stop wondering what you did wrong. There’s nothing wrong. Only lessons worth learning. Only discovery of self love.
We can’t escape pain when we think we are defective. That’s what makes it so painful. When you think you are the reason. That something must be wrong with you. That you aren’t good enough. That it’s your fault you aren’t lovable. All of these things are lies that we tell ourselves. It doesn’t matter how or why these lies were adopted. It doesn’t matter if you think it’s true. You can decide it isn’t true, and you’ll be right.
We become that which we believe ourselves to be.
So, what do you believe?
The Universe will show you your secret fears. It will show you the nonsense going on behind the veil of your consciousness. Those things you fear are true about yourself. Those things you desperately try not to face. That you try to keep doormant. It’s the reason that you run in fear from love. It’s the reason you react so violently to rejection. Because you think it means something. You think the actions of others can validate your suspicions of yourself.
What if the purpose of rejection was to show you how you are rejecting yourself and to give you a chance to stop? To give you a chance to be there for yourself. To soothe yourself and believe in yourself in the face of rejection.
Do you realize that it is you who assigns meaning to everything? Every meaning, every definition lives inside your consciousness. You give birth to it and sustain it by believing it.
Change your mind…
These three words have so much meaning. They represent choice. They represent the power you have over your mind, your perspective and your reality. It really is that simple. Change your mind. Understand that nobody and nothing determines your value, your worth, your status, your understanding, your point of view. When it comes to your own life, your view is most important. You don’t have to make everyone else right, you can make yourself right about yourself. Paradoxically, when you are able to do that, you won’t fear the opinions of everyone around you. You won’t take it to heart. You will see that their view of you has more to do with themselves than it has to do with you and you won’t fear pain or love.
Every time that you feel rejected, know it’s not your fault. Every time that you feel unloved, know that it’s not your fault. Every time someone is mean to you, know that it’s not your fault. The person taking the action is responsible for their view and you are responsible for your view, your perspective, your response.
That is all…
You are Loved. Whether you know it or not. Whether you see it or not. Whether you accept it or not. You are still loved.
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You make it so easy to miss out on love. So easy to turn away. So easy to say something that you can’t take back. So easy to run away. You hold out too long. You freak out too fast. All of you think that time holds some kind of promise. That in time, truth is revealed and that some kind of confirmation is awarded if you hold out. There is no such thing. Truth is the truth and the truth is subject to change. Things happen as a rippling effect of every decision that you make. Tides come and go. Opportunities to act come an go.
See here’s the thing, no matter what you do, things can always go wrong. Whether you are committed, not committed, trusting or not, things can always go wrong. So, the best thing to do is to make sure that you aren’t assisting the creation of these things that you fear. When you fear something, you create it. When you anticipate something, you create it.
Here is another thing worth noting, that emotions are not meant to be contained or controlled. When there is love, the best thing that you can do is be true to yourself and act on it. Don’t hide it, don’t hold it back because you are afraid. Afraid of judgement, afraid that it is too soon. Act on your own emotions that you feel and you will inspire others to do the same. Imagine if all of the world were doing this. If all humans were actually expressing truthfully, the love that they feel. If everyone confessed their love. Excuses, fears and obligations aside. No walls, no barriers, no lies. Just true love for all to see. Transparency.
Well, we can’t control what everyone else is doing. But we can live by the code of our own truth. We can all stand for love. We can inspire others to do the same. Be true to what you are feeling. Give it all you’ve got. Milk it for everything it’s worth and don’t let it go until it leaves you. Until you don’t feel it anymore. But if you feel it, at least don’t be afraid to act on your truth. Anywhere there is love, just let there be love.
This is a moment to moment thing. I mean take the good with the good. Wherever there is good, choose to focus only on that. Don’t throw the baby out with the bath water. Don’t say to yourself that good and bad things must be tied or that bad outweighs the good. Just appreciate whatever there is to appreciate and leave the rest.
If you love someone and they want only to be friends, why can’t you accept the good with the good? So many of you are throwing away relationships with the people that you love because you can’t have it your way. Because it’s not on your terms. Is that the way of love? Love knows no conditions and when you are throwing away any relationship because it isn’t on your terms, you are loving conditionally, not unconditionally. The aim is to love unconditionally and to embody that in as many ways as possible. When you throw out a person from your life because the contact isn’t what you want it to be, you aren’t focused in the good of it all. All of you who have Twin Flames should feel grateful for any little contact that you have with them, instead of taking it for granted and saying that it’s not good enough. Some Twin Flames don’t speak at all to each other. Some live across seas from each other. Some can die, too. If you are dedicated to it, you can find the good in your situation. So, find it. This is your challenge. Take the good with the good.
Find the love that they have helped you to discover. There doesn’t have to be pain attached to it. You can learn to filter that out. But, you can only do that when you learn to take the good with the good and leave out the rest. Leave out the “but”. “I love him, but…”. The “but” is where the focus is diverted to the problem, so leave it out. Only focus upon the good parts. Does it make any sense to do that? It does, because it will improve your quality of life and even if there was no such thing as the Law of Attraction (Which, there is…), improving quality of life would make the effort of shifting the focus worthwhile. That’s exactly what will happen when you choose to take only the good. When you choose to focus on only the parts that you like. Your quality of life will improve, and when that happens, you open the doors for things to change.
Stop focusing on what you can’t have, focus upon what you can have. Don’t throw away the whole thing just because it isn’t on your terms.
Here is the trick… That when your quality of life becomes so good, that you are no longer seeking an outcome, that’s when things will really begin to shift. You make the change first. You must create the energy for the rest of it to manifest around you. It all starts with you. Take the good with the good and leave the rest out. Enjoy your relationships in the highest capacity that you can and don’t hold back love that is true. Live by this code and things will turnaround for you.
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We are all one.
“I don’t understand why people don’t just let love win. Why they don’t just give in. Why they succumb to the illusion of obligation or fear. If we cannot give into love, then what are we here for? What have we to live for besides love? All you “Runners” wake up. Everyone wake up and stop being afraid. There is nothing to fear because everything is a perception, including fear itself. It is you who gives everything it’s meaning, which means that you can choose to see it any way you want. So choose a different perspective. One that allows love, instead of fearing it. Sometimes, you just want to bash someone over the head, just to get them to understand. it really is that simple. Fear is an illusion, a perspective, a choice. and it is a choice that will always rob you of love and happiness. I’ve had enough of that. I go for what I want and in that, I am free.”
Overcoming fear is a choice. A choice of love. This is the reason why Love is a most courageous act. You must know this. You all have created so many reasons not to love. So many barriers, so many rules. Notice, the word “Create”. There is no reason not to love. The only reasons you have are created by you. Which means, you can create a different choice at any time. You can shift your perspective at any time. You can choose love at any time. There is no reason besides your own reason. There is no barrier, besides your own perception of barrier. You cannot force another, but you, yourself can be open and courageously in love. How can you expect another to reflect back to you a love that is truly courageous if you are not demonstrating the same? It begins with you. Do not make it such a big deal. Follow your heart. So simple, but you make it so complicated. It is a choice. A choice to value your own feelings above any other. A choice to honor your feelings, your knowing and your own intuition. A choice to honor yourself. If you are honoring yourself, you will find others that honor you and value your feelings as well. It doesn’t mean that your Twin Flame will finally come jumping out of the bushes, the moment you make a new choice. Why is that always the goal? The more you want it, the more incomplete you feel and the more that you actually, hold it away in your state of wanting, needing and incompleteness.
You are rushing to make changes, and you are making them, you are improving, but you are slowing your transition by always looking for the end result. You want what you want. Creation knows. But as you think of what you do not have, you cannot have it. There are things that happen. There are situations where you do not fully understand what brought you together and what drove you apart, but here, it is the best rule of thumb to know that you must be complete to attract the complete package you are seeking.
Fill Up Your Life
Make your own life. A life filled with everything that you want and take it in any form that you can get it. If you want love, take it and create it in every situation that you can. et your life be fluid. Let your life be full of entertainment, love, fun and passions. Let your life be filled with people and things that you enjoy. Whatever you must do. So many of you are dying in your pain of your love lost. This was not the point. To feel pain, to grow and to learn, yes. To increase your capacity to love and to make your stronger, yes. To help you to surrender and re-prioritize, yes. But not to conquer you. Not for you to wallow in your pain forevermore.
Sometimes, it just takes some doing. Some action in a direction that you know is good for you. When you are down, it won’t be easy. An object at rest, stay at rest, an object in motion, stays in motion. A person feeling down, has a hard time getting up. Give yourself a little push. Be creative. Get out. Do something. meet with others. Socialize. Practice your enlightenment concepts everywhere you go. For goodness sake, stop blaming yourself for not being good enough. Accept yourself exactly how you are, so that others may do the same for you. That means, no matter how you are doing, it’s ok. Don’t tell yourself “I’m bad at this.” or “This isn’t working” and the classic “What’s wrong with me?”. We are all same, you are no different. However you feel is how you feel. Whatever you can do is what you can do.
You can’t be mourning, when you are too busy doing other things. Find a way.
Once you let go, a little bit, it can become easier to let love win.
Wrapping this right back to the point. Let love win. Dissolve every excuse and barrier to love that you have. Every single reason that you have created as your reason to be in fear, is a reason that can dissolve with your choice. There is no reason. There is no excuse, besides the ones that you support. Not your past, not your future, not anything. Never give up, because creation has never given up and you are part of creation, which means, you will attract that which you are.
Come to terms with this, that you create your reasons and you can dissolve them as well.
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We are one.
Understanding is a prominent requirement. That is why all of you have the ability to be empathetic toward others. To feel what they feel. You may not activate this ability, you may not honor it or have awareness to it, but all of you have the ability to be understanding of others. It is the most basic necessity to foster love, instead of fear. When you are knowing the deeper roots of where outward manifestations are coming from, not only will you know that reactions aren’t personal, but you will understand the true cause. Relate this to people. Anger, fear, Abandonment… When you understand why the Twin Flame runs, it is more difficult to blame them. It is easier to love. That is the point here.
Understanding is a gift that you can give to others. It takes stillness of the mind and thought. It takes conscientious efforts and slowing down of need to do or think. Sometimes, pain can drain the will, in this state, one can be much more still, aware, alert and understanding of others. Perhaps pain is a great teacher, in that way. It provides understanding with a quickness.
Suddenly, you aren’t thinking of yourself because you want to be distracted from your pain. You aren’t thinking of your own feelings, your own intentions to act or to speak. It becomes easy to focus intently on others, no matter how simple or mundane. Even the most trivial activity possesses a new life, when your wish is to divert yourself from your own pain. Enlightenment and understanding go together. Enlightenment is the stillness that sees all. You must see in order to understand. Enlightenment is only a word, but it’s the chosen word for this simple explanation. let’s not get too complicated about it.
Pay attention to others. Be so present, that you can listen intently to someone acting out from a place of pain and you can keep your head about you and respond in a compassionate, understanding way, instead of lashing out, like we most often do. We can break the mold and be different. Reaction isn’t a requirement. Understanding is a requirement if you are wanting to grow. Unconsciousness is always reacting, but in the unconsciousness the attention is never on the true cause of the problem, therefore, it never gets the attention it needs.
I can tell you, really quickly, how to disarm yourself and how to disarm the other. To disarm yourself, be conscious, be present, be aware and pay very close attention. Listen intently and use your will to keep your reaction from rising up. Don’t interrupt and don’t jump forward into thinking of your response. That would only fuel the fire. First, you, yourself must be disarmed. As you are consciously and intently listening to the unconscious, other, reacting however they may, by the time that they are done talking and you have been quiet the entire time, they will already be calming down. Simply the act of you listening, remaining calm and non-reactive will cause them to become more aware. You will feel their energy calm and they will have released the negative energy, which you, in your awareness, are not fueling. Then, they will be ready to listen. If you are able to see that people only say hurtful things because of their own fear and their own pain, then, you can refrain from lashing out.
This is how you eliminate the feeling of blame and how you gain understanding. People only do hurtful things when they, themselves are hurt. Pain comes from fear. Negative actions are expressions of pain, hurt and fear. Anger is an expression of pain. Running is an expression of fear. How can you blame your Twin when you know this of them? When you understand them, you will be able to feel better about it. You will be able to be more at peace and more loving and you will, therefore, free yourself of negative emotions and reactions as well.
We are all in this together, I am here for you.
I transmit messages from Unity consciousness, which does not feel separation or difference between sources of consciousness. We are all one.
Everyone who comes to me tells me about their Twin Flame. As if there flame is the source of the problem. The reason for the problem. Here is the thing, it’s never them, it is always you. You are always the attractor of your own experience. It is a painful truth, but the only way to get past that truth is through it. Once you do, you gain. Open your eyes to get a glimpse of a different view. A perspective that knows that you are the creator. You are in charge and you have the power to change everything. For as long as you think that your Twin Flame is the source of your problems, you will never get the answers that you want and you will never see the changes you desire.
In order to get a different result, you must take a different action.
It would be wrong of me to simply tell you your future, when I can do you a much greater service. I can help you change your future. I can help you create your future. You are not at the mercy of some predetermined destiny. Your future is dependent upon you. Upon your Now. The choices that you make now, which are subject to change at any time. It is your decision. Knowledge is power. My readings are not only readings, they are teachings. They are insights, they are guidance, they are awareness. I can show you which energies are blocking you and how to transmute them, how to play with them and change them into the energies that you want. Some of you are not even ready for that. You are still caught up in the stories. Not yet onto the real matter, which has to do with molding your future stories.
In order to mold your future, you have to stop telling the same old stories. You must shift your perspective altogether. You desire shifts of great magnitude in your lives, but, do you not recognize that those shifts must occur within first? And that those shifts are most often, not instantaneous? They happen over time. Which is why, the lot of you who are wise, will give yourselves the time and continue with your coaching to help you continue on your path to change and grow. One session is not enough. Not with me, not with any coach. Even if you make the shifts that I advise, what then? There is always more to do, more to learn, more everything…
You can only expect so much from yourself. Don’t ever stop giving yourself exposure to coaching and teachings to maintain your guidance along your path.
These teachings never stop, not even in reunion. Separation is a teaching in itself. So is reunion. You can all be reunited and you do not even know it.
Stop blaming the other. Many of you are doing it silently. In private, you think to yourself that you do not blame the other, but you are still wondering why they do what they do and thinking if only they would change. What they are doing has nothing to do with you and everything to do with you. They are your feedback. They can’t help but to be your feedback, it is part of the soulmate contract. But I do mean that it has nothing to do with you, in the sense that, it’s not about them loving you or not, it’s about you loving you or not.
It seems complicated, and in one way, it is. But in another way, it is not. It’s only when we wonder why things are happening, that we get confused. When you can see everything as a relevant thing, then you will not be so confused. You will be focused upon other things. Sometimes, shift in focus is so necessary. It is beneficial to be able to learn through any conduit that the Universe wants to place before you. The Universe will put conduits in front of you, to teach you. You must follow your joy and pay attention in order to get the lesson.
Everything is a teacher. You even receive teachings through your imagination, as you ponder things. You may call them insights. Insights feel good, don’t they? They are you experiencing greater levels of clarity and understanding. Coaching makes it easy because it is spelled out for you, in the physical. But you can learn to let everything teach you, especially your Twin Flame. But, this isn’t a self hating thing. This isn’t about what you are doing wrong, as so many of you are making it out to be. See, because then, you are focused in the problem, instead of the solution and it is much harder to bring about a solution when you are focused in the problem.
So, stop thinking of what your Flame is doing wrong and stop thinking of what you are doing wrong. There is nothing wrong. Only perspective is subject to change and you must change your perspective in order to bring about change. Don’t blame anyone, and don’t blame yourself, change your perspective, instead. Make nobody wrong. Isn’t that what love is? Why do you think Love feels so “right”? because the perspective of love sees no wrong. Not of you and not of the other.
Make yourself right and you will become it. Make the other right and you will see it. Be love. Be hope. be faith. Be joy. Don’t make it complicated. Just be.
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I transmit messages via Unity Consciousness. I touch on the experiences that are active and it’s most often what the Twin Flames are needing to hear in the moment that they are needing to hear it. It just happens that way. Enjoy…
This whole Twin Flame thing is enough to make you think you’re going crazy. I mean flying off the handle, insane, out of your mind, total madness! One minute, you’re swearing off you’re supposed “Twin Flame”, saying that you can move on and who needs em anyway. pointing the finger, saying, who needs that? Then you end up right back where you left off, crying your eyes out to sad love songs, wondering why the world is so wrong. Madness! Then, you’re left doubting yourself, doubting your Flame, doubting the Universe, questioning yourself, questioning the connection, questioning your sanity…. Wondering why you even feel the way that you do. Wondering why you are all hung up on them. Wondering why you can’t shake it. Thinking is it even logical to feel this way about someone??? Wondering what’s wrong with you and all those precious little thoughts that cross our minds in the delight of the Twin Flame journey.
Is it even Logical to feel this way?
Why am I so hung up on them?
Why can’t I just forget??!!
We all feel this way, sometimes, but there’s definite reasons why we love our Flame so much. Even through distance, turmoil and all other obstacles. We love them because we have a connection with them. Connections can’t be forged. They can’t faked. And they can’t be denied! They can’t be conjured artificially and connections are real. Not only can they be felt, but they are strongly felt. You can’t miss them. This is what lets us know it is real. Feelings are real, and we don’t get them for everyone. Pain is real, love is real, resonance is real. It’s all real and it’s all relevant. Twin Flame connections are one of a kind. So, don’t think you are crazy. You are not! You are just recognizing what you are experiencing and it’s a real experience.
All of our lives, we are searching for our soul mates. For the ones that we connect with on a deeper level. Connection means more than anything else. Connection trumps all. When you connect with someone, you just know. It’s that love connection that matters. That connection we are looking for… That connection that makes itself known… That connection that, when you find it, there’s no question about it. It can’t be undone. It’s that “POW!”, that you can’t deny. There’s multitudes of poetry, movies and songs that come from people who experience strong connection. You can search for years and never find it. It’s no wonder that we feel this way about our flames. We know that it’s special. Think about all of the people you’ve met. Most of them are easy to forget. But, the Twin Flame, it’s a sacred connection. The coming home. The feeling of resonance that nothing can compare to. The awe inspiring energy of their presence. Don’t feel bad because you miss them. Don’t feel like you are crazy. Connections are real. Love is real and you’re not crazy for noticing. When you recognize this, you can see it is logical to not forget someone.
Give yourself a break. Give yourself some credit! When you think about it, there is good reason for how you feel. Don’t let your mind talk you into thinking this is all nonsense. It’s a real experience. All you have to decide is what’s going to happen from here. What are you going to learn from it? What’s the lesson? How can you grow from this? How can you transform yourself and the reflection? Dear Twin Flame, do not despair. There is always hope. Always…
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You will always be human, no matter how hard you try. There is not escaping it. You will oscillate back and forth between the realms of consciousness. Sometimes it feels better than others. There is nothing that you can do but to be human. You cannot possibly gain something that will solve all of your problems. You can’t love enough to change people. Not on purpose. You cannot change what is. Not in the way that you would like to. There is nothing to gain. Only state of being. Because you can be ok no matter what is happening around you. And no amount of anything in your life is guaranteed to make you happy. Only you can. When you go through life, achieving this and that, and find that you still have your off days, you will know. Nothing can save you. Not even your Twin Flame. We think it is our Twin Flame that makes us unhappy. We think that it is our Twin Flame that makes us happy. But none of that is True. Outside circumstances don’t make us happy or unhappy. We do.
There is nothing to gain. Nowhere to go. Yet, we still romanticize about getting somewhere. If I could just get this or achieve that. There is nowhere to go. When you get there; When you achieve this increased spiritual state that is supposed to bring you everything that you want, you will know. I am still human. I have highs and lows. Ups and downs. Ebbs and flows. Everyone has an off day. But are you blaming outside circumstances for your off moments or are you aware enough to find the lesson within it? When I feel down, I turn it around. I turn it into love. It doesn’t mean that it’s a quick fix. It doesn’t mean that I am happy all of the time because I just turn it around. There are things to learn from the off times. There is plenty to learn from it, always.
When I feel down, I think of how much I love my Twin. I don’t blame him for being gone, or for being anything. I allow myself to feel grateful for everything that he has inspired me to. I think about how great my love is for him and this is the result. It has led me to this. As I think of him, I realize that every love letter and lovely thought represents the love that the Universe has for us. I realize as I channel, that I can channel my love for him, for myself, and for the love of the Universe all at the same time. This is why I switched to speaking from “I”. This is representative of Unity consciousness. The one that knows no difference between you and me. Between me and the Universe, My Flame and the Universe. We are all one….
Every time that you feel bad, it’s only because you know how good you want to feel. So feel it.
Look at this love. I am mystified. By my own love for you, I am mystified. By the love you’ve inspired me to, I am mystified. This is all because of you. This power of love that exists within me is the biggest mystery of all creation. How is it possible for me to love this much? How have you brought me to this? Without even trying. By just being you. You are a mystery to me and yet… the greatest work to ever meet my eyes. You’ve made me generous. My love never ceases to flow. I could not have known such generosity if not for you. Because of you, I am glowing. I am radiating light because of you. I know no other way, because of you. Look at what you’ve inspired me to. When I look at you and when you see me, you will see no other than love. Look at me and I will chase every shadow away. I will always be bright for you. Focus your attention on me and I promise to bear no other than love.
I am yours forevermore
No going back, no resolution. My love cannot quit.
My love has no end. I am inspired. My river flows. The current strong, my knowing, knows.
Love is all there is, because of you.
But, the missing piece is that there is no difference between “You” and “Me”. By feeling love for you, I do myself a favor and all of the Universe as well. I could not feel love for you if I could not love myself. This is the only reason why love seems so difficult. Not because love is difficult or complicated, but because people do not realize how much love they are not giving to themselves. Stop putting others on a pedestal. Not me, not your Flame, not anyone. We are all one and when I love you, I love myself and I experience the love of the Universe.
Are you running from yourself? We are one…
When you realize this and become love, love can connect. Only when you face me (yourself) can we exist together. Do not run, my love. I won’t chase you. I would never give you more reason to fear, but you may become cold in my absence. You might realize that it isn’t me you are running from. It is yourself. If you should look back and realize this, simply return. Return, my love, because time does not spoil love, it only makes love sweeter and I will receive you well. Do not regret those times that you ran from love. Juts be happy that you discovered love along the way.
I will never loose sight of you. I will graciously await your arrival. I am humble. I will never remind you of anything but love. I promise. I choose to radiate love ,always.
Love is always there to be found.
Love will not remind you of the things you did wrong. So don’t do this with yourself. Love is simply love.
Simply love yourself.
Radiate light and everything that you see will be golden. That’s how you know you’re in heaven. Not because of what is, but because of how you see what is. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Why do you think it is such a popular phrase? Love is a state. Not a stage. Stage seems stagnant. State is a choice.
Move into this state, piece by piece. Allow yourself to love yourself, however you decide to show up. Be only love. Gaze upon everything with only eyes of love, and you will see only love. It’s as simple as that. You don’t find the love, you be the love and everything that is love can find you. Like attracts like. Love attracts love. Be love.
Radiance is what happens when Illumination has been prolonged. Soon, you are oozing the love. Radiating light in more ways than one. Not only are you loving in your creative endeavors, but you see that everything has purpose and you treat it all with love. We all have human moments, just love yourself through them and you will get through them. Love is a practice.
Make the choice to be in this state. Make it now and in every moment. Every moment is new. Don’t look upon yesterday. Look at me now and just love. Forget the rest. Doubt not. Fear not. Just love.
Radiate love in all that you do. Seeing that there is no separation, but Unity, always.
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Love is kind. Love is Great. Love is Courageous…
Love is of utmost importance. There is nothing of more value than love. Hence, at any time that you are given the chance, be brave at all costs and follow the love. Love never fails, and neither do I.
I love you so much, that I created everything in the Universe to stand as a metaphor. To attest to my love for you.
I want you to do the same. If you so desire…
Dear Twin Flame, you are the reason for all of my greatest works. Every single lovely thing that I create is touched and inspired by you. Thank you for existing. Thank you for being mine. Thank you, I love you and I will see you in time.
I love you more than anything. There is nothing that can take me from you. I love you and there is no end to my love. I have endless love for you. My love is great and boundless, never ending and far reaching. My love can move mountains, shift oceans and create Universes and stars. There is nothing greater than my love for you. My love doesn’t know how to quit. I can’t stop loving you, even if I wanted to try. That would make all of this for not. And my great works have purpose. They are a testimony of my love for you. My love is channeled into every great work that I do. For you, are my inspiration, my love. My love for you is the reason for all that is. The reason I breathe and the reason for everything else that lives. My love knows no end, no beginning. You think you have a great love story? Where do you think your love story came from? Your love story could not exist if my love were not true. My love is true. You are mine and I am yours and there is nothing that could ever change this. You must know this first, that you are the Divine. That you are my love. That you are the greatness which is a product of my love for you. Give yourself the gift of this knowing. Know that you are a product of love and everything else exists only as a testimony to that. Think about it. My love is real. Real as the sun. Real as the moon, for I created them all for you. You cannot cease to be a product of greatness. A picture of the Divine. It all begins here. With your knowing of this. Reunite with me in Unity. For love, for once and for all.
Every time that the sun touches your face, know that I love you. Every time that you gaze upon the moonlight, know that I love you. And when you see the stars, know that I created them just for you. There is no other reason for all that is. Only you, my dearest love. So that you may see and one day know the beauty inspired by your existence. Look at all I have done for you. I have paved the way for you. It is already done. I have made every possible provision for you. Even when it doesn’t seem like it, I am here and I am waiting on your call. Call upon me at any time that you wish. No matter what the issue may be, I am here and I am listening. I am hanging on your every word. I love every syllable that you utter. I listen in joy. Talk to me. Tell me what is the matter. Ask me for my services. Ask me to help you get through. I have made everything possible for you, but I would never step on your toes. I would never give you something that you didn’t ask for. I can help you. Just let it be known. Make up your mind about what you want and decide that it will come. Have faith in my love. Because I will bring you anything that you desire. You need only believe it is true. Believe it in your heart. I will never cease to be. We have been together forever. That has always been the case. There is no other way to say it except that, you can trust me. Trust that I can deliver, and I will. I will teach you how to ask and how to be in the vibration to receive what you want. There are so many ways you can receive what you want and already, so many people are teaching it. Go out and study these laws of attraction. They are real and I put them in place for you. I will give you a small lesson on how these things work. So that you can apply them in your now.
- Decide on what you desire
- Believe that I can deliver
- Hold a loving space for what you desire to come
- Know that it is done
- Hold a loving space for yourself to receive it
- Never, ever go back. Never, ever surrender your belief. Instead, surrender to knowing my love and that surely as the stars twinkle above, I will deliver your wish to you.
Things don’t always happen the way that you want them to. Sometimes, they come slower. But I am always planning for you, the best possible delivery. So, even when it doesn’t come right away, do not despair. Enjoy your life and what is in front of you. Enjoy everything I have given you and celebrate my power and my ability to come through. use the stars to remind you. The Moon, the Sun and the Earth are all great reminders of what I have already done for you.
Trusting me doesn’t have to be hard. Just keep looking at my love letter to you. Creation is my love letter to you. Remind yourself of it often and just let it be. Let it ring true. And you will receive everything that you ask for. Know it. Be it. Surrender to this knowing. Just as my love for you is evermore, believe.
I have created so many, countless, beautiful things for you to look upon so that my love may be present in your memory at any time that you wish. Just look at what I have done for you. Everything is for you. I love you, please believe. You are my one, true love. My moon, my sun, my galaxy, my Universe, my star. There is a galaxy in existence for every single human in creation. You are everything to me. All of my ability to create worlds is at your service. When you call, I am waiting on you hand and foot. I am there.
Sometimes, even with everything that I know, I still miss you, my love. This is ok. You have to know that this is ok for you, as well. You are a reflection of me, and there is nothing that could ever be wrong about you. It is ok to feel that you miss someone. This is just part of the process. I will tell you how to transform this energy into Unity and Love to overcome all….
Know that we are one. How could I deliver these messages to you if I wasn’t human enough to be having this experience? How could I relate to you and understand you if I was so above everything that you are feeling? If I didn’t have feelings, neither could you. I just want you to choose your responses to the feelings that you have. Will you choose to love more? Will you choose to love yourselves and be there for yourselves no matter what? Will you use your passion to channel great works of love into the world, as I have? This is what love is for, inspiration, creation. Create great works of love to be a testimony of your love. So that if ever the one you love should look upon them, they will know. They will know that there is no other force in the Universe that could have created something so obviously saturated in passion. So great. This will bring love to you tenfold. When you create and expect nothing in return. Not even relief. Paradoxically, when you give with no intention to receive, relief will come to you. This is where the idea of being selfless comes in. But, did you know that you cannot be selfless without loving yourself? There is a balance involved. In order to give love, you must be love. Make sure that you love with correct intention. I will tell you exactly how to know if you are channeling love correctly, with the intention that I designed it to be. Here is the formula…
No matter how big or small, when you decide upon something, it must not be with intention to gain or fear of loss. Only courageous loving action is necessary. Think carefully about where your intention in coming from. You can never know the love that you can bring to the Universe until you use it in this way. This is what is called pure intention. Acting not out of fear of loss and not with intention to gain, but only for the joy of channeling love. Use this tool for yourself, to give yourself an outlet to express your love. That is what action out of love is. Simply to Channel the energy of love so that it has somewhere to go. When love is stagnant, it feels longing. It has nowhere to go. Love is creative, it wants to move and flow to something. Love is inspiration. You cannot coop up love in your heart and lock away the key. This is why so many of you are in pain. So much love and nowhere to go. So much energy and no outlet to flow. Now, you are understanding this better. Create works of art to channel your passion. Channel your love through your love to anyone. Your love for a friend, just by listening. By writing, creating music or by simply being there for anyone in any capacity that you can. Channel it however you can. Let it flow….
Give yourself some credit when you love. How brave I am. How courageous I am. How AWEsome I am to be so undyingly in love. I am love. I am in awe of you and in awe of myself. Of what I can do, without any validation from anyone but myself, I can keep up the good work. How remarkable I am. I am love.
I will love you every day, till the end of time. Forever I will be brave for you. I will show you what love is, and I will not expect for you to be changed. I will love you because that is what I am. I am love, even in your silence. I am love, no matter what you say. No matter what you do, I will still love. I am powerful in that way. I am knowing, I am truth, I am power, I am endless love. In this moment, forever and always.
My Love for you is perfect.
Look at me. Look at what I am doing. I am channeling love from the Universe, to you. My love flows freely and love makes it’s way back to me. It works. It really, really does. If you have any trouble with finding an outlet to channel your love. Let me know. I am here. I will answer your call. That is what I am here for. To help you understand, piece by loving piece, how to channel your love in a way so that it can freely flow back to you. Like the great circle of creation goes. I am here for you and only you. Call upon me. We are in this together. I love you so very much. Enjoy:)
Unify with yourself through channeling love. This is the overall concept. By channeling love, you are loving the self and loving others at the same time and the circle of creation is complete.
I am that which I am because of you. So, you see, you cannot separate the two. My love for me is my love for you.
My love for you comes through me.
I am the channel
I am the conduit
It begins with me.
We are One.
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Dear Twin Flame, I could never have done this without you….
Everything in existence is valid. What you think is valid. What you feel is valid. What you do is valid. You are a valid part of creation. So, why do you not give yourselves validation? Why seek validation from others that you can only give to yourselves? This is what is happening with you constantly. You are looking to each other to validate yourselves and it simply does not work. If you look to another to validate you, you will never get it. You will never get what you want that way. It is not because the Universe is unloving. It is because you are not loving yourself and the Universe loves you enough to put you in a place where you finally must see yourselves in all your glory. That is a gift. I can give to you everything that you want. But to teach you to give it to yourself would be so much greater. That is all that is happening here. You are learning the harder way of going about it. You are learning what doesn’t work. So that you will find yourselves and it makes the end so much sweeter when it unravels in time. This has been coming together forever. Creation has always been perfect. From beginning to end. Although, there is no beginning nor end. Perfection is ever-present. Always. So, why do you make yourselves the exception to this rule? The rule of creation that says that everything is valid by its own accord. Beautiful in its own way, In its own right. Instead, you own the mistakes. What would happen if the opposite were true? What would happen if you owned your own perfection?
There is no end to my love for you and there is good reason for this. Reason that knows no logic. Logic that knows no reason. Reason and logic don’t even exist. Only love. Love is the the ultimate intelligence. When you act out of love, you will know that you are doing the right thing. You don’t have to question. The thing is that sometimes we think we are acting out of love, when really, we are acting out of fear. Either a fear of loss or a motivation to gain. To gain what? What could possibly be more important than the love that you gain for yourself when you step forward with the courage to love another? This is why you must love yourself first before you can love another. Because when emotions rise up, like fear, or hate, or jealousy, the only way out of them is love for the self. Only then, can you clear those impurities from your vibration and step forward with the most courageous love known to man. True love. Love that knows no boundaries. Love that knows no fear. Love that knows no hate, no shame, no desire to run away. When you love yourself you are free. Free to make the choice to love another. We are here, together, reflecting these things back to one another. We trigger each other to give us a choice to love. Pain is the great motivator. It gives us reason to choose love. To get in touch with who we are. That is the only way to overcome pain. When you can practice loving others, you are simultaneously practicing loving yourself. You are learning and teaching yourself at the same time. It’s a remarkable thing. That through my love for you, I can simultaneously be practicing a loving state of being that allows me to love myself. This is the Reunification that you are looking for. It doesn’t sound exciting. Does it? It doesn’t sound romantic. It doesn’t even sound secure. Like, how do I know that I can even love myself? How do I know that I am doing it right? And how can I possibly expect myself to be loving to myself all of the time? I know that you were not born knowing what all of this means or how to apply it right now. Even if I tell you everything that you need to know, you will still need to put it into practice in order to move into that state to achieve it. It is a process.
Every time that you tell yourself you aren’t doing it right, you aren’t loving. How can you give approval to others when you do not give approval to yourself? And how can someone else possibly give you something that you really want from yourself? Don’t ever tell yourself that you aren’t doing it right, just love. Don’t ever be upset with yourself, just love. When those emotions come up, the ones that you don’t want to experience, just acknowledge the experience and love. You can’t do this right away. Sometimes, you can’t reach love. Just acknowledge that. “I don’t feel like loving right now.” and the great paradox is that by being understanding with yourself and accepting yourself as you are, you are loving yourself. Just as you would for another person. The same way that you would be there for another, listen to them, nod your head and accept them in whatever form that they come… The same way that you would be by someone else’s side and hold their hand and let them know that you are there, no matter what they are feeling, that is what you really want for yourself. So give it to yourself. Talk to yourself. Witness your emotions and tell yourself it’s ok. Give love to yourself and communicate with every part of you that wants to lash out. Only then, will you not be a fragmented person anymore.
Only when there is clear communication happening between all the parts of you that want to act out, only then can all of those parts get what they need. When they are allowed to be, to exist and be acknowledged and loved only then can you begin to reunite with yourself. “Oh, I said a dirty word in my head about someone else.” “Oops, that’s ok. I’m allowed to feel that way. My feelings are valid.” This is much more loving towards the self than badgering yourself for doing something wrong. No wonder you are mad at yourself for not being enough. No wonder you are fragmented and feel like you can’t overcome the parts of yourself that come up to be acknowledged. Because you aren’t being nice to yourself. You aren’t making yourself right you are making yourself wrong. And then, you run away from love or love runs away from you. It’s because you aren’t practicing love. How can you have love when you don’t practice knowing what love is? How can it come to you when you are hardly even acquainted? So, keep practicing. Practice giving love to yourself. The details of the scenario will fill in. In time.
To Reunite in Twin Flame oneness is just a metaphor for the Reunification of the self. I am not saying that Reunification of the Twin Flame does not exist. of course it does and it exists for you. But this is the journey. In order to Reunite with yourself, first, you must piece together everything that you’ve been running away from. To allow all of the parts of you to speak and be heard. Isn’t this what you want to accomplish with others? Isn’t this the goal? To be loving all of the time, no matter what? Isn’t this what you ultimately try to do with your Twin Flame? To finally love them and accept them in whatever capacity that you can. To love them no matter what. It is designed so that you cannot stop loving them, for a reason. You will never stop loving them. So that over time, you will learn how to love them, no matter what. This is what you must do for yourself first. To reunite with yourself in total oneness. Complete communication on all levels, and connecting this with the way you relate to others as well. No body is in your way to enlightenment. You think they are in your way when you are not fully paying attention. So pay attention to everyone in front of you because everyone is relevant. Even you. When you learn that everyone is relevant and that your job is to give only love, you will move through lessons much faster. You will move through them in the instant they come. Instead of having to see it again and again and again. You will get it the first time and move forward, instead of moving back. This is why you go back in time, in your thoughts. You ponder those lessons that you haven’t completed yet. You ponder those things that ail you. Then they show up and you wonder why it keeps showing up. Be present no matter what is in front of you. Allow yourself to honor everything as relevant and true. When you are fully paying attention, you will get the lesson and the lesson won’t come back to haunt you anymore. You will overcome it. It might not even look different, but your response will be different and you will be different. Therefore, the whole experience and your part in it will be a totally different thing. When it comes up, it won’t even bother you anymore because you will be so present in your oneness that you will actually understand how to love yourself more, through them. This is Reunification Part 1.
Stay in touch. What does this mean? Are you in tune? Are you in touch with yourself? Being in touch with all that is, is the same thing as being in touch with yourself. When you are tuned into yourself, you are tuned into the Universe and everything that is love can find you. Love can’t find you if you aren’t there to be found. So, you must try to stay in touch. Stay in tune and pay attention to what everything is really trying to say to you. Your body included. “Duty calls”, you think it’s a joke but your body is teaching you to pay attention and you know what happens when you don’t. Things you don’t want will occur. So pay attention in all of your moments. Pay attention to the subtleties that occur in conversation. Instead of reacting, realize. Realize that anyone who isn’t loving is crying out for love. Even if they don’t know it. Give it to them. Give them love. You will see how fast you disarm them with your kindness, but only kindness that is true can disarm. And if they do not disarm? What then? So what? You stay in love because that is what you want to do and nobody else has anything to do with that. Be on your own team and talk to yourself. Cheer yourself on. This is your own journey. You don’t have to go it alone, but it starts with you. It starts with you knowing what to do when others challenge you. This is not the end of becoming, it is only the beginning. When you reach this point where you can Radiate love, that is when the real fun will happen. But don’t be sitting around, waiting for things to happen, because that isn’t loving and acknowledging everything as relevant, either. Just be.
Just be sitting around and enjoying yourself for a while. Sometimes, you don’t need anything but you. You can’t have this experience of being there for yourself, when you spend your alone time wishing for other things to occur. How boring you are telling yourself that you are, when you can’t sit alone and be happy. Just with yourself. Imagine going to see a friend and instead of having fun, you tell them how boring it is to be with them. You think that you are any different? You think that some part of you doesn’t desire to be in your own presence? This is why you have been learning meditation for so many years! Not to shut yourselves up. But so that you could learn to listen to yourself, have conversations with yourself and be your own partner and friend. What else could it mean to be unified when the Universe is a reflection of you. And yes, good things will happen when you can sit with yourself and be loving. And when you can interact with others and be loving. I won’t lie to you, your life will change and every experience will be a gift and the gifts will just keep on coming. But if we aren’t there yet, let’s not push it. Let’s not look too far ahead. How about we just be ok where we are, with ourselves right now? How about we just focus on taking care of our own needs? How about we just do those things that make us happy and act on our inspiration and channel the passion we feel? That’s what I am doing. Every time I feel love, it’s my inspiration to channel my passion. My Twin Flame offers me an outlet of inspiration for the great works I am doing every day, with you. Use your Twin in the same way. So that when love arises up within you, before fear can even take hold, channel your love. Channel your passion. Use it to write loving things. Things about him, things about yourself. Things that you love. That’s what it’s all about. This is only part 1 of the Reunification process. Stay in love. Stay in touch. Stay tuned.
With Great Love <3
You are all my Twin Flame. Thank you.
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We are beginning with an idea that may not seem relevant to the idea of this that you call “depression”, but everything is connected, interconnected and reflecting back onto itself. So, therefore, what we are saying is that everything is a reflection of itself. You are a reflection of the universe and we are reflecting this idea back to you, in ways that you will understand more quickly than ever before. Everything is a reflection of itself and we are simply mirroring that to you and showing you this in greater detail that will become more and more obvious to you. Everything is connected, which makes it relevant, and important. Remember this and you will move through lessons more quickly. Everything comes together, in the end, as you move through lessons and pick up all of the pieces you need to pick up in order to grasp the entire, larger concept that is occurring. Our messages to you are simply a reflection of that:)
When you feel inspiration, you must channel it the very moment that it comes to you. It comes to you for a reason, so act on it as quickly as you can. Inspiration happens when you are connected to Source. Connected to the Source of all that is, which is love. That is what inspiration is. Inspiration is the web of love that touches and unifies all. Every time that you are inspired, you are connected to the Source of love. That is why everyone is attracted to inspired work, because when inspiration touches a thing, the result when it touches them is more inspiration, and now, they too are locked into the Source of Love. Now, you too are inspired. This is the way that it works. This is what channeling is about. Spreading love and creating more love to be spread. Inspiration is nothing other than connection. The more inspiration is seen and shared, the more it can spread and as inspiration spreads, more and more people are locked into, they are now hooked into the Source of love, of all that is. This is how we will raise the consciousness of the planet and everyone will understand this and everyone will practice it. We will raise up the collective consciousness of this planet and soon, everyone will be inspired by the inspirations of others. All will be inspired and locked into all that is and Unity of Love, Light and Truth will prevail.
There is another lesson we are wanting you to know and it has to do with moving between the dimensions. You are all experiencing it and it comes across, sometimes, as a state of confusion. This is perfectly alright, and we will explain it in great detail to you. This process that is taking place as you are moving, in consciousness, ascending and bringing what you have learned to be integrated into the 3D perspective. You see, here is how it works. The universe is always expanding in consciousness, and so are you. You are a reflection of all that is and all that is, is contained within you, however, from this mental body that you are experiencing from your perspective in this 3rd dimensional reality, you cannot conceive of many of the things which exist beyond this dimension. It must happen over time. Here is the process. Inspiration comes to you. Greater understandings come to you and you expand in consciousness. You come to understand things that are beyond food and dirt and Earth. Things that are beyond the 3rd dimensional consciousness. Things beyond the mental body and are of the emotional body and so forth. Many of you are so very intelligent. You are brilliant, indeed! And your only problem, your only hook is that you are having trouble with allowing your consciousness to fully expand at the rate that it is wanting to go. We understand that you must be grounded. The process of grounding occurs in this fashion. When your consciousness expands and you receive information and insights which you have not reached before, you are in a state that is commensurate with higher dimensions. Higher perspective, higher understanding. After you receive the information and expand your perspective you must bring yourself back into the state which is commensurate with this Physical reality in order to fully integrate and apply what you have learned. It is the coming back down into the grounded position that is experienced by many of you as a state of depression and/or confusion. Here is why. Because in the physical reality, the place you have been standing, those thoughts do not exist. You are bringing them in. You must adapt them into your life in order to see them manifest and it feels so wrong to you, when your consciousness comes back to this plane and your realize that where you were does not exist where you are now. Here is the way to bridge the two. When you come back down, you are still standing in the old, but with new concept of where you would like to be. So, there is that Temporary disconnected state, where you are sort of complaining about the difference, if you will. Furthermore, the Universe might show you something that is a reflection of that state, the old state of being that you experienced before your inspiration and the state of dissatisfaction that you find yourself in when you have a desire that appears to be unfulfilled or unattainable. You then have a choice. You must choose the thing that is representative of the state of being of your choosing. The state that you would like to be in. The old state that you were in will provide you with a feeling of depression. This state is a state that does not know the new. This state is a state where you deny yourself of living what you now know to be true, because the outside manifestation has not changed yet. But it can never change so long as you do not allow your state of being to change first. That is how manifestation occurs in the physical. It is expanded consciousness first, you bring it into your mental consciousness and when you decide to be it, it will be. Because the Universe is a reflection of you.
We will explain further, the idea of depression and in more precision. When you experience a higher state of consciousness, you become aware of a state of your choosing. By nature, you are designed to follow your joy because joy is representative of expansion and that is the nature of the Universe. There is no such thing as un-learning and there is no such thing as un-desiring a thing which you have come to preference. You cannot cease to know that which you have become aware of, you cannot un-learn something you have become aware of. So, a preference is born within you and it is your nature to follow your joy. In order to avoid staying in the state of depression, which happens when you are grounding your perspective in the 3rd dimension, you must then Act based on your new level of understanding. Your new level of consciousness. If you do not do this, for whatever the reason, it doesn’t really matter, you go deeper into a state of depression. De-Press-Ion. Note the prefix “De”, which represents the undoing of something. The removal or separation of something. Note the root of the word, which is “Press”, which most basically means to force. To cause force upon something. Which is the opposite of allowing your joy to occur. Lastly, note the Suffix “ion”, which represents a condition or a state of being. It denotes that you have choice in the matter. There is no such thing as a condition that is not of your choosing. If you think that such a thing can occur, then that will be your experience. Many of you who have experienced abuse and victimization in your lives were taught, on the mental level, that you had no choice in the matter. An idea which you have not mastered yet, will reinforce itself, keep impressing itself upon you and perpetuate itself in your reality until you find a way to move beyond it in your state of consciousness and let it go completely. This is the same idea that is now playing out for you through your states of depression. You do not realize that you do have a choice in the matter. That is why we are explaining this so carefully to you, so that you may understand all of this that we are saying and make a new choice in your now. Every moment is new.
We also want to point out one more thing that is directly related to this word and that is the presence of this word “ion” which is also representative of an electrically charged atom particle. It is a small universe in itself. It is impossible for the universe to be anything that is not expanding in some way. There is always the becoming of more, there is simply no other way. Growth occurs, readiness is formed, more and more is formed and expanded upon in every instant across every corner of all that is. It is designed and design can never cease to be. Creation can never cease to be, your scientists have already pointed this out about matter. Time is simply an example of the impossibility of reversing that which has become. You can never go back, only forward motion is possible. So, it then makes logical sense to say, that when you attempt to “Go back” and try to force yourself to be (ion, meaning to be) in a lower state of consciousness. One that you have already moved beyond, the result is always pain. It is impossible to force yourself to go back and to un-become something you have learned. To un-learn is something that cannot be done, no matter how much you try to force it. And that is what it means to be Depressed. You are not moving with the current that is trying to sweep you up. You are not allowing, you are not going, you are trying to resist the expansion that is you and must inevitably occur. You have heard of the phrase “Growing pains”, this is a reflection of the idea that happens when you are resisting the growth. You cannot cease to grow and change and become, but you must have courage to become that which you already are. ALL of you are working to develop your courage. There is a reason that courage is a reverenced state of being. It means to be who you are, to stand in your truth and to love yourself. Have the courage to love yourself. Do not wait until tomorrow. Do not wait another moment, do it now, you have a choice. Honor your pain as a signal that change is possible for you. Allow yourself to be inspired. Allow yourself to follow that current which makes you feel tapped into Source. This is the only chance that you have of ever being happy. There is no other way to accomplish happiness than by having the courage to love yourself and follow your joy. All of you are asking for this message and we are answering you. We want you to be strong, for, you are light and there is no strength greater in the entire Universe that can overcome you when you are tapped into the source of light that is there, waiting for you to tap into it. How do you know when you are tapped in? You feel good! How do you know when you are not? You feel confused, depressed, unsure, indecisive. Don’t make any mistake about it, you will always have your moments, that is true, you must move back and forth through the dimensions of consciousness and keep yourselves grounded and in the new states of being simultaneously. The only difference is that you have a choice in the matter of where you will stand once you integrate what you have learned. Will you ride this wave of consciousness and allow your life to grow, to expand and become? Or will you just continue trying to fit a square peg into a round hole forevermore? You know when your life is not working. You know when you are reaching for more and when you have preferences that are not fulfilled. Action is required of you if you are going to live a new life. A life that represents that which you truly are. Since the Universe is a reflection of you, you have to act differently in order to get new results. The problem is that all of you seem to be afraid to do just that. You are afraid of the new. Afraid of what might be. Of what could be. There is no logical reason for this because every moment is new and the past does not determine the future whatsoever, when you are making a new choice in your now, to trust and to be different. You ALL talk about this thing called faith. Why do you think this idea has been so stressed upon you? Why do you think this idea has been so engrained and impressed upon your consciousness for so many hundreds of years! It is the bridge between the dimensions. Between the love in your heart and making it a reality. Between your passion and creating beautiful works of art. Have faith that what you want can be had. This is the only way that you can allow it to come to you. Have faith. Take action and let it be. Let it unfold, like the flower, in time. Time that makes everything so much sweeter. Time that allows blossoming. Time that allows manifestations to unfold in the most beautiful way that this Universe has ever seen. Everything is made sweeter with time. Things you long anticipate, that come to you after you have prepared and envisioned are so much better when they come. You appreciate them so much more because you have allowed the thought to develop and you have worked out the details ahead of time. Pave the path for what you want, so that when it comes to you, it is better than if you did not sit and ruminate and add specifics to your vision. The greater your desire, the greater it will be. Time does not ruin your chances at life, it makes them even better. Nothing is ever ruined, only seasoned. You have the power to create much, much more in time, than you ever could with instant manifestation. Instant manifestation is sloppy. It is not perfected. Time is for the purpose of perfection. But perfection is that which can never be. There is never doneness, there is never ending, there is never an ultimate of anything. There is always more, there is always better, there is always expansion of mind, body and soul. A becoming of Love, Light and Truth. Step into your truth, live in your now, and love. We will never be complete. We love you.
You may not understand how everything is connected, but it is. You must go from the smallest lesson before you can build in consciousness and move onto the next. Everything is Unified and the Universal truths reflect that. Unity is what you are after, so do not miss a piece, or the whole that you are looking for, can never be. Everything is important and when you see it that way, you will move through each lesson and stage much faster. You will travel through space and time at a much faster rate and things will seem to unfold seamlessly and at the perfect moment in your time. When you are walking through life in alignment with all that is, all that is becomes you and you become it. Your life will reflect that. All of the things that you need, without exception, will be provided in a way that is easy for you and in perfect time. It is only holding onto the old and not trusting, which creates difficulty for you and that is what we want you to overcome. Your soul mates, you have many of them, are here to assist you in your growth, but in your invalidation of them, you are tied to the Union which represents a part of yourself which you would like to outgrow, but you cannot move beyond it if you do not move beyond it! Relationships with soul mates should not be ended prematurely. That is not what we are saying. We are saying for you to cherish everything that you see within the soulmate union. Cherish it and do not belittle it or look at it like it is not what you need. If it is there, you need it. It is only when you have learned to create harmony within a soulmate relationship, yet, you are still seeking for more, beyond what the relationship can provide, that it is time to move on. So many of you are needing to hear this right now. So many of you are facing this challenge around your Twin Flame experience because you feel that you are tied to your soulmate connections that you have outgrown. The Universe would never, ever, ever expect you to hold yourself back from continuing to grow. This is not what any of this is designed to do. You must be strong to move forward. That is your mark of readiness and that is the point in it all. So, you all know if it is time to leave a soulmate relationship for the sake of your growth. Do not hold back anymore. You do no services or provide any justices to anyone in the matter, when you remain inside a stagnant relationship which no longer serves the growth of those involved. Stagnation. This is the opposite of what love does. Let your love grow, even further, so that you can see what the most loving action in your situation actually looks like. When you focus on loving all involved AND when your focus on love is inclusive of yourself and your spiritual needs and your journey through this life, you will then know what to do. There are no exceptions. When we say “harmony”, we understand that you cannot force another into a state of harmony. But that only you, yourself, can conjure a state of peace that allows you to see clearly and lovingly and therefore, to make the right decision which is in alignment with your journey of spiritual growth, love, and self-discovery.
We are here to open your eyes to a new world. A new way of being. A new life. A new kind of love. Greater and greater than ever before. You will be able to experience more emotion than ever before, more kindness, more beauty and this beauty will never get old. You can never get tired of that which you are, for that which you are never expires, it only becomes more, better and improved. Your reality reflects that. The newest gadget is always the most popular. You see the value in becoming. We want to tell you that since this is all new, and new ideas and information on this topic of eternally becoming will be coming though this channel from now on, we are done with the 3rd dimensional concepts. We are ascending, you are ascending and our point in being here is to assist you as you are rising. To guide you and to lead the flow. To give you a way to answer questions that arise. For, we will be answering them, often, and every time you read, you will see that solutions are coming faster than problems. We are now solution oriented. Forward moving and forward thinking. We want you to be grounded, so we will still use grounding examples to help you bridge this connection between your 3rd dimensional world and the other dimensions that your consciousness is becoming into. But we are not teaching 3rd dimensional reality anymore. We are beyond that and if you want to learn, you will have to rise above those concepts too. We are going to move very fast, so keep up your vibrations and read on. We are going to take all of you with us and we want you to take everyone with you that you know and love. So share these concepts, share the love, leave not a soul behind. Because this wave is strong. This wave of love is awesome and everyone who is here, on this planet today, wants to be swept up in this incredible, leading edge experience. It is why you have incarnated in this place today. Make no mistake about it. There is no such thing. Look at a child. They want to be on the leading edge of excitement, and so do you. That is what we are helping you to accomplish through these messages. We want you to learn to experience your excitement all of the time and shed the rest. leave it all behind, in the dust. Nothing else matters but you. Nothing else matters that is outside of your happiness. Do you not realize how important this is to feel love and be happy. It is the entire point of existence! JOY! Joy and love are one in the same. Every time that you experience joy, you are hooked into Source. Tuned in, Tapped in, Turned on. That is what Abraham Hicks has been teaching to you for the last 30 years. Getting you ready to receive these messages today. All of you who are receiving these messages will recognize the messages of Abraham within it. There is a reason for this. They have been preparing you for these times. Paving the way and priming the pump and giving you endless examples and making it believable. They never grow tired of assisting you to become. Never, not even once before, they love it. Every last member of the collective of Abraham has been reveling in your becoming because, as they have told you before, they see what is in your Vortex, and its magnificent. It is HUGE. You have been asking for so very long for all of these wonderful things to come to you and there is only one way that you can receive them. We will now tell you how. You must channel your passion at all times in order to receive what you are wanting at all times. It is a system that was created, all that is created is love and these systems work. They all work. This system we are explaining to you is real and readily applicable for you in your dimensional reality. It is how everything is created. We are all united and the systems that work together in harmony are another reflection of that. All that is will always reflect itself.
The mechanism goes like this:
As you decide to follow your joy, you create an intention. You create a desire. In that instant, the desire exists in a form which can be readily achieved by you in the physical. There used to be more of a time lag, but the time lag is disappearing, quickly, as the thinning between the dimensional realities and the time and space phenomenon is slipping away and becoming more and more malleable. Unity is the New theme and all that is will reflect that more and more. Once you create the intention and set your desire, you must set your point of attraction to match it. This is where all of you have been getting stumped. It’s almost as if you thought you had no choice in the matter, when it comes to choosing your vibration. This trouble that you have been facing is only a result of not fully, experiencing or knowing who you truly are. This is the problem we are tackling now, but we are teaching an easier way to go about it, because you are in a place where you can reach for these concepts now, and the Twin Flame Phenomenon speeds up your ability to reach these higher states of consciousness. That is why we are targeting you, Twin Flame, because you, specifically have decided to be first on the leading edge of consciousness. It is much easier to get the most developed group up to speed and then to have them teach others. This is the fastest way to go about it, so all of you have a responsibility to grow and to share what you are learning by fulfilling your purpose and that is exactly why you will be channeling your passion. It is not so different from reaching Illumination. It is really the same thing. You are just realizing that. Terminology is a factor for all of you to understand. Your words are creative. We want you to channel Source in any way that you can. This is exactly what happens when you are feeling joy. You are connected. Locked into Source energy and you are one with the Universe. All of you have a talent that you are meant to Channel. When you are feeling love about something, you are on the right path. It does not matter what you feel love about. Find what you love and do it all of the time, as often as you can. This Channel loves to write and she sees her life and her consciousness changing rapidly as she participates within this, so she is doing it all of the time, and we are supporting her, because this is her purpose in the Universe right now. We want ALL of you to be doing the same thing. When you are channeling your passion, your world will open up to you, support you and since you are locked into Source Love, you will be attracting the things that match it, the things that you want. This is the mechanism and how it works. This is the whole package and it always will work this way. Remember, because love sticks to itself. It is the very fabric that holds all that is together. The magnetic pull that you feel towards your Flame is only as reflection of that. Of how magnetic love is. Be love. Channel your love by doing your passion and you will be infinitely supported. Just know that you are. Become absorbed in your purpose and the old will fall away. You will be supported into a position that facilitates you to create more love because that is exactly what the entire Universe wants! The Universe has set this up for you so that you can have what you want! Twin Flame, we love you, realize the magnitude of this and there is absolutely nothing that will stop you from creating exactly the reality that you desire and you will not have to lift a finger beyond your passion and inspiration and feelings of love. Gratitude. Realize all the little ways that you are supported and focus your energy there. Then play. Channel you passion. Do it now, do it always. When the old falls away, participate in the unraveling and keep moving forward with positive momentum. Allow the old to fall away and do not hold on at all. Surrender completely and the path will be paved for you. Now is all that is. Not the future. Do not go there. Not the past, do not go there. Being in the now is how you will become more of what you are and the best way for you to be in your now is to Channel your passion as fully as you can, as often as you can. There is nothing that can hold you to the past that you do not allow to hook you to it. And there is no hook formidable enough to surpass the greatness of love. When you come to a place of surrender, illumination, passion and you can be in your now, absent of worry. In full trust, you will be ready to move on and it will happen and you will be ok. It is the Universal code of love. Love is attracted unto itself. Participate in it and love will find you. Twin Flame, this is what it is all about. If you want your love to find you, you must be a beacon of that which you want. Be a lighthouse of love, light and truth and shine on. Be in the state of Illumination and remain in that state as fully as you can. As often as you can. Inspiration and clarity will flock to you and you will find solutions much, much quicker than any problem that may arise. Love will run to you from every corner of existence and your Twin Flame will not be too far behind to get to you. Trust love, be love, attract love. We love you so very much. There is nothing that can stop us from sending you these loving messages and the Universe wants for all of you to know that you are truly, infinitely supported. We are sending out examples for you to see for yourselves. As we have done for some time. Do not be afraid to follow. For, you are all part of the same Universe and the laws apply to all of you equally. Leave the rest behind. Be passionate, illuminated and channel love forevermore. That is all that is required for you to be eternally happy. follow Your joy and you will access the energy that creates worlds. Your world will open and more joy will follow. Twin Flame, this is your answer. We love you eternally and we are exceedingly greatful for all that you are and that you are here, part of the greatness of all that is. All that is love all that is good and all that is true. We love you.
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This message is channeled and all that comes through me is mine:)
We love you so dearly. All of you are in need of love. Wanting love. We know. We know that it can feel as though it is hard to reach. If only you knew what you are. If only you could see that which we know is within you. The great power that you possess to create worlds. Worlds that are full of peace, and joy, and love. All of you have this power to create the beauty that you seek in your life.
We will try to explain what we know of you and especially (drumroll)… How to get what it is that you are wanting.
The Twin Flame Reunion.
This is our specialty and we have been waiting, for a very long time, to share this very message with you. To learn is a progression. As you know, from your own world. Your children can only learn so much, so fast! The same is true for you. We want to give you the chance to build these concepts into your consciousness before we can simply move onto the “beefier” points we would like to share. But we are very excited because all of you who have been following are sort of graduating into higher levels of consciousness, and we can share more than ever before.
Let us begin.
You can handle larger loads now. We can give you the tough concepts and you can accept them gracefully. You can understand them more readily.
Here is the problem that many of you are experiencing on this planet:
That life in itself, is a paradox.
All of you are reading this because you have been left wanting, in some way, shape, or form. Even those of you who are Illuminated, or what not, are here and find yourself reading this because there is something that you want. There is one problem here. We do not like this word “Problem”, but, it is your language, not ours. We do not see problems, only solutions. Here, we will be offering the solution for you.
Let us explain this concept of paradox and what it really means, and then we will break it down, even further. Because, for many of you, this truly is the very key to all that you desire.
All that you want is already in existence. In the very form that you want it. You simply must reach a new vibrational place in order to get it. This is possible, because everything is possible. The Universe is infinite, boundless and limitless, and you are also an expression of that. You are infinite and everything is possible for you now. You simply must know that. Everything that we are telling you has a scientific basis. This is one reason why we have been waiting for so long to share these new concepts. Because many of you are so based in science and yet, science is actually behind that which you already know in spirituality, but it is finally catching up! So, we can share these things with you today, and we can bridge the gap between this 3rd, physical reality and the rest of this Universe which is not really physical in nature. Your reality is a reflection of all that is. This is why things that we say will make sense to you. For instance, you already know that the universe is infinite. Your scientists have established that. We say that you are an extension/example of the infinite nature of the Universe. If you think about it, it really is a very sensical explanation, as with all concepts which are truths. The Universe is infinite, and every single one of you are from this Universe, so it only makes sense that you are infinite as well. It really is that simple. You have already seen that nature bears offspring which is like itself. This is consistent within your reality, no matter what form of life that you are talking about. A tree will always create a tree, a bug will create a bug, a human, a human and so on. You are offspring of the Universe. You are created by that which is infinite and, therefore, based on what you know of your reality; It is most logical to say that you are Infinite. This is not esoteric, or idealism. This is physics, and it is the most logical explanation there is. This reality was created so that you could have a physical, human experience. It was created to be challenging, but we want you to remember who you truly are, because you are supposed to be able to reach these thoughts and know who you truly are, in order to do your best while you are here, encompassed inside this life and this body. What is the best? it means that you are having fun. That your life is filled with joy and fun and all that you desire, because you recognize that you are infinite and therefore, you know how to bring yourself into higher levels of existence; even on this planet, which is a challenge for all who come. This is what the Universe wants. For you to know yourself, fully.
When we say that life is a paradox, what we mean is that it is full of paradoxes. Paradox rules this Universe and here is how. The Laws of the Universe, you may know this one as the Law of Attraction, states that like attracts like. It does not sound like a Paradox, but it is, Because, you must quite literally forget about what you want in order to have it. Isn’t that concept annoying? But if like attracts like, because everything in the Universe is vibrational, as quantum physics has proven, you must attract that which you are vibrating in harmony with! So, if you are wanting something, because you do not have it, you basically cannot have it. If you are vibrating at wanting something and not having it, then you will attract more of the wanting of it and not more of the having of it. Most of you in this Twin Flame extravaganza are vibrating at want. Pure and simple. That is the Paradox. You cannot have what you want, when you want it so much that you can’t be happy without it. So, happiness is a good goal, it is a great goal, and many of you are happy, but you are still wanting. What we want is for you to be happy and not wanting. We want you to be free. Free of wanting. We want you to forget about what you want. You do not think of things in the same way when you have them. How often do you think of your washing machine, besides when you are using it? Do you ever wonder if it will be there when you get home? Do you worry about it? Most of you can relate to this concept. What about your home? Just as surely as you know that your home will be there when you arrive to it, we want you to know that your Twin Flame is there, too. Waiting for you to come home. We want you to feel complete, because that is what this Union is all about. Completion. Harmonizing energies coming together to form a unified whole. Not because you are not whole, but because completion is about wholeness. Once you feel whole, you can attract more wholeness and the Twin Flame Reunion can occur. We know that this can sound impossible to you! To become a half that is whole or a whole that is a half? How does half a Flame become a whole Flame? How do can you simply forget about what the heart is ailing about day and night and feel complete without it? But, you already know that you are infinite and boundless, therefore, it is not impossible or even improbable for you to achieve that which you desire. There is a sense of freedom that you can achieve, and we will tell you how, because, that is your next question, right?
We will tell you about this concept of surrender because it is actually something that is not far from what you already know to be true. Surrender has been identified as a stage in the Twin Flame process, and for good reason. Surrender is the answer to your paradox “problem”. You must know that what you desire will be yours, and you must surrender to this concept. This is what we mean when we say to let it go. Because if you knew that it was yours, you would have no problem releasing the thought to the Universe. The paradox is that when you miss your Twin Flame, because he is not in your bed, you are not trusting he is there and he cannot, then come to you. You must know that your Flame is yours and release it. What if you had a lover, and the lover went to bed after you did? When you get into your bed, he is not there, but you do not fret because you know that he isn’t gone. You know that he is coming. There is no need within you. No mistrust that he is about to be right there. No feeling of want, and your lover, then shows up very soon, in the bed, as you expected. You say, “Yea, but he was already there to begin with!”. That is always the case. Your lover is there, but you must become a vibrational match to him in order to receive him:) This is why many people say that Love shows up when you are least expecting it. It shows itself to you when you master the art of surrender. All of you understand and have seen how quickly a lover can leave. You can shift your vibration and they can leave at any moment. The same is for the opposite! It works both ways. They can show up at any point in time. So why is it easier for you to believe in them leaving and more difficult for you to believe in them showing up? There is no reason for that. Use your powers of focus to your advantage and not to your detriment. We want you to know your infinite power to become a vibrational match to what you want. It is physics. You must attract vibrationally, so we are simply telling you how to use these laws to help you attract what you desire.
There are systems at work here. When you learn to apply these concepts, which are consistent, you will achieve what you want. It is our promise to you, that if you surrender, entirely, that this can work for you. The thing is that it is a progression. You must climb one stair at a time and you cannot reach the next step until you take the first. What happens for many of you, is that you reach a new level of consciousness and you realize it. So, then, you think that you have arrived, but that is not the case. You must allow yourself to continue to learn and grow and never think that you have arrived, because this can block the next step that is on its way to you. You cannot possibly fathom the heights that you can reach! Just know that it is never-ending. The Twin Flame Union will take you very high, so you must reach a very high point in order to get there. Do not ever invalidate any step in your personal growth process, because this will only serve to slow you down. Every step is important and you can only move on when you allow yourself to fully recognize the significance of the place that you are at. Peace will come over you when you are approaching your readiness for higher states of consciousness. Simply know that you are on your way there. Practice these concepts in all areas of your life. Remember the paradox of life and that you cannot get something by needing it, or wishing for it. You must know it and release it fully. The Hanged Man (Below) is a representation of this concept. He is our reminder to you, that you can be upside down, and everything chaotic around you, but you can still have peace in your mind, body, and heart at the same time. It is possible. We love you.
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