HOW TO DETACH AND LET GO WHEN MANIFESTING… DETACHMENT IS ALSO KNOWN AS LETTING GO AND SURRENDER. IT IS THE MOST EFFECTIVE AND FASTEST WAY TO MANIFEST ANYTHING WITH 100% RESULTS. THIS IS THE BEST WAY TO DETACH WHEN YOU ARE MANIFESTING A SPECIFIC PERSON. BUT, YOU CAN USE THIS TO WHEN MANIFESTING ANYTHING. PART OF MY PLAYLIST “HOW TO MANIFEST A SPECIFIC PERSON USING LAW OF ATTRACTION” WATCH THE FULL VIDEO.
I Learn From MANY, MANY Things and Put it All Together With My Own Guidance, Guides and What The Universe Chooses To Show Me in My Own Experience. Tying it All Into The Twin Flame Concept is What I Do Best!
I Think That Taking Evidence From MANY Sources is A Really Good Way To Establish A Fuller Picture That is Closer To The Truth of All.
Benthino Massaro Parallel Realities – https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6NYEthP0rh4&t=1s
Abraham Hicks Explains Two Reasons Why You Don’t Attract – https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MjpcOL3yaqg
Bashar- Parallel Realities – Unfortunately, Bashar has deleted many of his videos and I cannot currently find the one on Parallel Realities.
Love Does Not Require You To Hold On, It Requires You To Let Go. So, What are You Really Holding Onto?
“When you Surrender Holding on, What is left is the Love”
“You’re going to have to want the truth more than you want anything else… Trust me, once you come into the truth… You’re not going to say ‘I wish I believed the lie’… The truth will set you free. Then you can attract based on the truth and the truth is Love.”
This video is about the struggle between how to let go vs. following your heart, and explains how to climb the vibrational scale to a place where you gain access to being able to surrender your Twin Flame to the Universe and make a happy life without them.
This is my 75th post on Soulmates and Twin Flames!!
My story is that in less than one year, by following the teachings I channeled, which are here in this blog, I made it through to the other side of the painful Twin Flame experience and manifested and Open Heart Union and I am still here, helping you all do the same… Namaste!!
Channeled via Unity Consciousness
There’s nothing in the world that I want more than you. I want you more than breath. I want you more than life. I want you more than I ever knew a human could. But I am only human, and you are only you. And although I want you, there is more to me than you. I will find myself, I will answer my questions, I will find the purpose of my pain. This is bigger than just me and you,
but my pain is mine and my answers are mine to find too.
“Everyone on this journey wants to know how to get back their Twin Flame.
Everyone on this journey wants the answer to Union.
There is only one answer.
You can’t stop there. You can’t energetically stalk another person, thinking that they hold all of your answers, the keys to your kingdom of happiness, fulfillment and ultimate pleasure. You can’t blame them. It’s not their fault, they are only playing a role which is part of your lesson. A reflection of your ultimate truth and it’s your job to find out just how that is so. I know you can’t see it, not at first. But if you only stop to grasp the fact that your pain is yours and caused by nobody else. Your thoughts are yours, your pain is yours, your sorrow is yours, your broken heart is yours, your ego is yours, your reactions are yours, your interpretations are yours, OWN IT!
All of you want to blame the other person. Oh, but we had this connection, we had that experience, he told me this, he flipped on me, he stopped calling, he chased me, he ran, he this, he that… Oh, but I love him, Oh it’s but I can’t get over it. I-I-I-I-I……Guess what?? YOU’RE RIGHT, THIS IS ALL ABOUT YOU! ENTIRELY!
This is NOT about the other person. It has nothing to do with them at all. In fact, this whole Twin Flame ordeal has nothing to do with anything besides growth. Strong emotions are just a way to get you to do that. The Universe want’s you to come back to love. To understand love, to be love, to embrace love, to be completely open hearted and it uses love to draw you there. Love is a stronghold and pain is a force. This is the way the Universe inspires growth.
Stop justifying yourself with the connection you have. Stop making it ok to stay stuck. Stop making your decisions based on what they are doing. Stop trying to figure them out. Stop trying to make them grow. Stop stalking their journey. Stop thinking you are entitled to know anything besides yourself. Stop making them part of your story. Stop planning your future with them and stop holding onto the hopeless romantic idea that they are somehow, the best love you could possibly have or would passably ever want to have. This is all fairy dust!! I am not bursting your bubble, there is PLENTY out there for you. But, you do not have to be predestined with a Twin in order to manifest a future. You are so preoccupied with these ideas. Frantically trying to figure out how they fit in. Rationalizing why your mind is absolutely flooded to the brim with thoughts of them. That thinking is simply serving to distract you from getting the big picture.
- He’s my other half
- I can’t get over him
- I don’t want anybody else
- There’s nobody else out there for me
- He’s my ultimate
- I just know we are meant to be
You think that because you had/have an AMAZING, outrageous, undying connection that it’s special? That it means something? You’re right, it is special and it does mean something, but it doesn’t have to be for the reasons you think… Every tarot reading tells you about your future together. Every psychic confirms it. Everything is a synchronistic event that validates your knowing of what’s “meant to be”. You’re giving you’re future children names, you’re planning a life, you’re believing in this future, simply waiting for them to evolve and get on board with you, and all the while, what’s the point? To get what you want? NO! That is why you NEVER get what you want, because you are missing the point completely!! The point is for YOU TO GROW! And if your motivation to grow is to achieve Union, you’ll never achieve union, because you would still be missing the point. Your Twin Flame has nothing to do with that. They are just a catalyst. A messenger. A wake up call. A teacher. Just like everything else. The romantic fantasies are a distraction and if you are reading this, you probably have not manifested union, so, a different perspective is probably needed. To be fair. Romance does exist. Fairytale dreams exist. Love does exist and it does happen. But the attachment is the problem.
Listen to this next part: Love does happen.
Happen- Come to pass, occur, or befall you.
Happen means happen. If it’s not happening, it’s not happening!! Happens doesn’t mean you have to conjure a spell, wish on a star, figure it out, win anybody over or hold on for dear life hoping that one day, you’ll manifest a union. When it happens, it simply happens. POOF! It unfolds, there it is, it happened naturally, it just manifests and before you know it, you’re living a dream. There’s never a reason to wish, hope, think and pray for year after year. That doesn’t yield results. It’s not efficient, it’s pretty much good for nothing. You will grow, but nothing will change. You will grow and you will grow, but you still won’t see the fruits of your labor. That’s what I’m talking about. We want results! But results are yielded from true change. You’ll know if you have truly changed, because the results will be there to confirm. Until then, keep reading… You have to realize that this is only about you. Leave them out of it. There is an art to this. I can tell you to detach, but there’s a very specific way to do it. People detach all the time when they are hurt. Building walls sky high to erase your vulnerability and make you indestructible is not what I am talking about. There is a way to detach from outcomes because you know that you’re already perfect and you’re simply sifting through until something sticks. Whatever sticks is yours. Whatever doesn’t stick isn’t yours. Whatever happens, happens, the rest, just let it go. You follow your heart willingly and completely. You spill your guts, you dish all your authentic truths in their entirety. Follow the tugging of your heart. Tell them exactly how you feel and don’t hold back. If they turn away, you have to be ok with it, because you know if they were actually for you, they would undoubtedly reciprocate. Make no mistake about that.
Attachment is the only thing holding you back from making complete transitions.
Attachment means you are needing something outside of yourself.
Non-attachment + Open Heartedness means that you aren’t seeking anything outside of yourself.
The fulfillment and freedom comes from the ability to authentically embody express and yourself to your core and to be detached from outcome, all at the same time.
Most people fall into the trap of retracting open heartedness after being let down.
No matter what you tell yourself, that’s an indication of residual attachment.
If you are doing that, you have not truly changed.
A master is revealed by the ability to remain open and detached from needing anything, even in the face of unideal outcomes.
You can rationalize that things don’t always come easy, but when you use this formula, they can. Because this is what the Universe is trying to get you to do. To be you and to allow complete “surrender”, which equals trust, in the process. Learn this formula and practice it. Not only in love, but in life and in all relationships. This is a state of being. It can take months of continual self deliberation to achieve. We are talking about a making a massive transition. It’s a process, but this is key and it’s correct no matter who you are because this is Open Heartedness, which is love. Use every unideal outcome to test your ability to consciously embody this energy. It can take many let downs and many demonstrations to the Universe to fully come into your new energy. Once you have mastered this, things manifest!!! Manifestations can also occur instantaneously, but we are all different and the results can vary.
I am Channeling from a Unity Consciousness
Love is kind. Love is Great. Love is Courageous…
Love is of utmost importance. There is nothing of more value than love. Hence, at any time that you are given the chance, be brave at all costs and follow the love. Love never fails, and neither do I.
I love you so much, that I created everything in the Universe to stand as a metaphor. To attest to my love for you.
I want you to do the same. If you so desire…
Dear Twin Flame, you are the reason for all of my greatest works. Every single lovely thing that I create is touched and inspired by you. Thank you for existing. Thank you for being mine. Thank you, I love you and I will see you in time.
I love you more than anything. There is nothing that can take me from you. I love you and there is no end to my love. I have endless love for you. My love is great and boundless, never ending and far reaching. My love can move mountains, shift oceans and create Universes and stars. There is nothing greater than my love for you. My love doesn’t know how to quit. I can’t stop loving you, even if I wanted to try. That would make all of this for not. And my great works have purpose. They are a testimony of my love for you. My love is channeled into every great work that I do. For you, are my inspiration, my love. My love for you is the reason for all that is. The reason I breathe and the reason for everything else that lives. My love knows no end, no beginning. You think you have a great love story? Where do you think your love story came from? Your love story could not exist if my love were not true. My love is true. You are mine and I am yours and there is nothing that could ever change this. You must know this first, that you are the Divine. That you are my love. That you are the greatness which is a product of my love for you. Give yourself the gift of this knowing. Know that you are a product of love and everything else exists only as a testimony to that. Think about it. My love is real. Real as the sun. Real as the moon, for I created them all for you. You cannot cease to be a product of greatness. A picture of the Divine. It all begins here. With your knowing of this. Reunite with me in Unity. For love, for once and for all.
Every time that the sun touches your face, know that I love you. Every time that you gaze upon the moonlight, know that I love you. And when you see the stars, know that I created them just for you. There is no other reason for all that is. Only you, my dearest love. So that you may see and one day know the beauty inspired by your existence. Look at all I have done for you. I have paved the way for you. It is already done. I have made every possible provision for you. Even when it doesn’t seem like it, I am here and I am waiting on your call. Call upon me at any time that you wish. No matter what the issue may be, I am here and I am listening. I am hanging on your every word. I love every syllable that you utter. I listen in joy. Talk to me. Tell me what is the matter. Ask me for my services. Ask me to help you get through. I have made everything possible for you, but I would never step on your toes. I would never give you something that you didn’t ask for. I can help you. Just let it be known. Make up your mind about what you want and decide that it will come. Have faith in my love. Because I will bring you anything that you desire. You need only believe it is true. Believe it in your heart. I will never cease to be. We have been together forever. That has always been the case. There is no other way to say it except that, you can trust me. Trust that I can deliver, and I will. I will teach you how to ask and how to be in the vibration to receive what you want. There are so many ways you can receive what you want and already, so many people are teaching it. Go out and study these laws of attraction. They are real and I put them in place for you. I will give you a small lesson on how these things work. So that you can apply them in your now.
- Decide on what you desire
- Believe that I can deliver
- Hold a loving space for what you desire to come
- Know that it is done
- Hold a loving space for yourself to receive it
- Never, ever go back. Never, ever surrender your belief. Instead, surrender to knowing my love and that surely as the stars twinkle above, I will deliver your wish to you.
Things don’t always happen the way that you want them to. Sometimes, they come slower. But I am always planning for you, the best possible delivery. So, even when it doesn’t come right away, do not despair. Enjoy your life and what is in front of you. Enjoy everything I have given you and celebrate my power and my ability to come through. use the stars to remind you. The Moon, the Sun and the Earth are all great reminders of what I have already done for you.
Trusting me doesn’t have to be hard. Just keep looking at my love letter to you. Creation is my love letter to you. Remind yourself of it often and just let it be. Let it ring true. And you will receive everything that you ask for. Know it. Be it. Surrender to this knowing. Just as my love for you is evermore, believe.
I have created so many, countless, beautiful things for you to look upon so that my love may be present in your memory at any time that you wish. Just look at what I have done for you. Everything is for you. I love you, please believe. You are my one, true love. My moon, my sun, my galaxy, my Universe, my star. There is a galaxy in existence for every single human in creation. You are everything to me. All of my ability to create worlds is at your service. When you call, I am waiting on you hand and foot. I am there.
Sometimes, even with everything that I know, I still miss you, my love. This is ok. You have to know that this is ok for you, as well. You are a reflection of me, and there is nothing that could ever be wrong about you. It is ok to feel that you miss someone. This is just part of the process. I will tell you how to transform this energy into Unity and Love to overcome all….
Know that we are one. How could I deliver these messages to you if I wasn’t human enough to be having this experience? How could I relate to you and understand you if I was so above everything that you are feeling? If I didn’t have feelings, neither could you. I just want you to choose your responses to the feelings that you have. Will you choose to love more? Will you choose to love yourselves and be there for yourselves no matter what? Will you use your passion to channel great works of love into the world, as I have? This is what love is for, inspiration, creation. Create great works of love to be a testimony of your love. So that if ever the one you love should look upon them, they will know. They will know that there is no other force in the Universe that could have created something so obviously saturated in passion. So great. This will bring love to you tenfold. When you create and expect nothing in return. Not even relief. Paradoxically, when you give with no intention to receive, relief will come to you. This is where the idea of being selfless comes in. But, did you know that you cannot be selfless without loving yourself? There is a balance involved. In order to give love, you must be love. Make sure that you love with correct intention. I will tell you exactly how to know if you are channeling love correctly, with the intention that I designed it to be. Here is the formula…
No matter how big or small, when you decide upon something, it must not be with intention to gain or fear of loss. Only courageous loving action is necessary. Think carefully about where your intention in coming from. You can never know the love that you can bring to the Universe until you use it in this way. This is what is called pure intention. Acting not out of fear of loss and not with intention to gain, but only for the joy of channeling love. Use this tool for yourself, to give yourself an outlet to express your love. That is what action out of love is. Simply to Channel the energy of love so that it has somewhere to go. When love is stagnant, it feels longing. It has nowhere to go. Love is creative, it wants to move and flow to something. Love is inspiration. You cannot coop up love in your heart and lock away the key. This is why so many of you are in pain. So much love and nowhere to go. So much energy and no outlet to flow. Now, you are understanding this better. Create works of art to channel your passion. Channel your love through your love to anyone. Your love for a friend, just by listening. By writing, creating music or by simply being there for anyone in any capacity that you can. Channel it however you can. Let it flow….
Give yourself some credit when you love. How brave I am. How courageous I am. How AWEsome I am to be so undyingly in love. I am love. I am in awe of you and in awe of myself. Of what I can do, without any validation from anyone but myself, I can keep up the good work. How remarkable I am. I am love.
I will love you every day, till the end of time. Forever I will be brave for you. I will show you what love is, and I will not expect for you to be changed. I will love you because that is what I am. I am love, even in your silence. I am love, no matter what you say. No matter what you do, I will still love. I am powerful in that way. I am knowing, I am truth, I am power, I am endless love. In this moment, forever and always.
My Love for you is perfect.
Look at me. Look at what I am doing. I am channeling love from the Universe, to you. My love flows freely and love makes it’s way back to me. It works. It really, really does. If you have any trouble with finding an outlet to channel your love. Let me know. I am here. I will answer your call. That is what I am here for. To help you understand, piece by loving piece, how to channel your love in a way so that it can freely flow back to you. Like the great circle of creation goes. I am here for you and only you. Call upon me. We are in this together. I love you so very much. Enjoy:)
Unify with yourself through channeling love. This is the overall concept. By channeling love, you are loving the self and loving others at the same time and the circle of creation is complete.
I am that which I am because of you. So, you see, you cannot separate the two. My love for me is my love for you.
My love for you comes through me.
I am the channel
I am the conduit
It begins with me.
We are One.
If you would like a Twin Flame Reading or any Guidance Services, please contact me at any time that you wish.
I am here for you.
This message is channeled and all that comes through me is mine:)
We love you so dearly. All of you are in need of love. Wanting love. We know. We know that it can feel as though it is hard to reach. If only you knew what you are. If only you could see that which we know is within you. The great power that you possess to create worlds. Worlds that are full of peace, and joy, and love. All of you have this power to create the beauty that you seek in your life.
We will try to explain what we know of you and especially (drumroll)… How to get what it is that you are wanting.
The Twin Flame Reunion.
This is our specialty and we have been waiting, for a very long time, to share this very message with you. To learn is a progression. As you know, from your own world. Your children can only learn so much, so fast! The same is true for you. We want to give you the chance to build these concepts into your consciousness before we can simply move onto the “beefier” points we would like to share. But we are very excited because all of you who have been following are sort of graduating into higher levels of consciousness, and we can share more than ever before.
Let us begin.
You can handle larger loads now. We can give you the tough concepts and you can accept them gracefully. You can understand them more readily.
Here is the problem that many of you are experiencing on this planet:
That life in itself, is a paradox.
All of you are reading this because you have been left wanting, in some way, shape, or form. Even those of you who are Illuminated, or what not, are here and find yourself reading this because there is something that you want. There is one problem here. We do not like this word “Problem”, but, it is your language, not ours. We do not see problems, only solutions. Here, we will be offering the solution for you.
Let us explain this concept of paradox and what it really means, and then we will break it down, even further. Because, for many of you, this truly is the very key to all that you desire.
All that you want is already in existence. In the very form that you want it. You simply must reach a new vibrational place in order to get it. This is possible, because everything is possible. The Universe is infinite, boundless and limitless, and you are also an expression of that. You are infinite and everything is possible for you now. You simply must know that. Everything that we are telling you has a scientific basis. This is one reason why we have been waiting for so long to share these new concepts. Because many of you are so based in science and yet, science is actually behind that which you already know in spirituality, but it is finally catching up! So, we can share these things with you today, and we can bridge the gap between this 3rd, physical reality and the rest of this Universe which is not really physical in nature. Your reality is a reflection of all that is. This is why things that we say will make sense to you. For instance, you already know that the universe is infinite. Your scientists have established that. We say that you are an extension/example of the infinite nature of the Universe. If you think about it, it really is a very sensical explanation, as with all concepts which are truths. The Universe is infinite, and every single one of you are from this Universe, so it only makes sense that you are infinite as well. It really is that simple. You have already seen that nature bears offspring which is like itself. This is consistent within your reality, no matter what form of life that you are talking about. A tree will always create a tree, a bug will create a bug, a human, a human and so on. You are offspring of the Universe. You are created by that which is infinite and, therefore, based on what you know of your reality; It is most logical to say that you are Infinite. This is not esoteric, or idealism. This is physics, and it is the most logical explanation there is. This reality was created so that you could have a physical, human experience. It was created to be challenging, but we want you to remember who you truly are, because you are supposed to be able to reach these thoughts and know who you truly are, in order to do your best while you are here, encompassed inside this life and this body. What is the best? it means that you are having fun. That your life is filled with joy and fun and all that you desire, because you recognize that you are infinite and therefore, you know how to bring yourself into higher levels of existence; even on this planet, which is a challenge for all who come. This is what the Universe wants. For you to know yourself, fully.
When we say that life is a paradox, what we mean is that it is full of paradoxes. Paradox rules this Universe and here is how. The Laws of the Universe, you may know this one as the Law of Attraction, states that like attracts like. It does not sound like a Paradox, but it is, Because, you must quite literally forget about what you want in order to have it. Isn’t that concept annoying? But if like attracts like, because everything in the Universe is vibrational, as quantum physics has proven, you must attract that which you are vibrating in harmony with! So, if you are wanting something, because you do not have it, you basically cannot have it. If you are vibrating at wanting something and not having it, then you will attract more of the wanting of it and not more of the having of it. Most of you in this Twin Flame extravaganza are vibrating at want. Pure and simple. That is the Paradox. You cannot have what you want, when you want it so much that you can’t be happy without it. So, happiness is a good goal, it is a great goal, and many of you are happy, but you are still wanting. What we want is for you to be happy and not wanting. We want you to be free. Free of wanting. We want you to forget about what you want. You do not think of things in the same way when you have them. How often do you think of your washing machine, besides when you are using it? Do you ever wonder if it will be there when you get home? Do you worry about it? Most of you can relate to this concept. What about your home? Just as surely as you know that your home will be there when you arrive to it, we want you to know that your Twin Flame is there, too. Waiting for you to come home. We want you to feel complete, because that is what this Union is all about. Completion. Harmonizing energies coming together to form a unified whole. Not because you are not whole, but because completion is about wholeness. Once you feel whole, you can attract more wholeness and the Twin Flame Reunion can occur. We know that this can sound impossible to you! To become a half that is whole or a whole that is a half? How does half a Flame become a whole Flame? How do can you simply forget about what the heart is ailing about day and night and feel complete without it? But, you already know that you are infinite and boundless, therefore, it is not impossible or even improbable for you to achieve that which you desire. There is a sense of freedom that you can achieve, and we will tell you how, because, that is your next question, right?
We will tell you about this concept of surrender because it is actually something that is not far from what you already know to be true. Surrender has been identified as a stage in the Twin Flame process, and for good reason. Surrender is the answer to your paradox “problem”. You must know that what you desire will be yours, and you must surrender to this concept. This is what we mean when we say to let it go. Because if you knew that it was yours, you would have no problem releasing the thought to the Universe. The paradox is that when you miss your Twin Flame, because he is not in your bed, you are not trusting he is there and he cannot, then come to you. You must know that your Flame is yours and release it. What if you had a lover, and the lover went to bed after you did? When you get into your bed, he is not there, but you do not fret because you know that he isn’t gone. You know that he is coming. There is no need within you. No mistrust that he is about to be right there. No feeling of want, and your lover, then shows up very soon, in the bed, as you expected. You say, “Yea, but he was already there to begin with!”. That is always the case. Your lover is there, but you must become a vibrational match to him in order to receive him:) This is why many people say that Love shows up when you are least expecting it. It shows itself to you when you master the art of surrender. All of you understand and have seen how quickly a lover can leave. You can shift your vibration and they can leave at any moment. The same is for the opposite! It works both ways. They can show up at any point in time. So why is it easier for you to believe in them leaving and more difficult for you to believe in them showing up? There is no reason for that. Use your powers of focus to your advantage and not to your detriment. We want you to know your infinite power to become a vibrational match to what you want. It is physics. You must attract vibrationally, so we are simply telling you how to use these laws to help you attract what you desire.
There are systems at work here. When you learn to apply these concepts, which are consistent, you will achieve what you want. It is our promise to you, that if you surrender, entirely, that this can work for you. The thing is that it is a progression. You must climb one stair at a time and you cannot reach the next step until you take the first. What happens for many of you, is that you reach a new level of consciousness and you realize it. So, then, you think that you have arrived, but that is not the case. You must allow yourself to continue to learn and grow and never think that you have arrived, because this can block the next step that is on its way to you. You cannot possibly fathom the heights that you can reach! Just know that it is never-ending. The Twin Flame Union will take you very high, so you must reach a very high point in order to get there. Do not ever invalidate any step in your personal growth process, because this will only serve to slow you down. Every step is important and you can only move on when you allow yourself to fully recognize the significance of the place that you are at. Peace will come over you when you are approaching your readiness for higher states of consciousness. Simply know that you are on your way there. Practice these concepts in all areas of your life. Remember the paradox of life and that you cannot get something by needing it, or wishing for it. You must know it and release it fully. The Hanged Man (Below) is a representation of this concept. He is our reminder to you, that you can be upside down, and everything chaotic around you, but you can still have peace in your mind, body, and heart at the same time. It is possible. We love you.
I have enjoyed this interaction, immensely!