What is a Twin Flame? (Is your definition helping you?)

What is a Twin Flame? (Is your definition helping you?)

There is no Universally agreed upon definition of Twin Flame, Except that it is something ideal, something wanted and something very good. So, why make it more complicated than that? The main service this video is going to provide for you is helping you to make sure your definitions aren’t working against you!

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Twin Flame Tarot Reading VI

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WOW! The messages here are very direct and specific. Change is imminent, and that is what this is preparing you for. After I completed this video, the next morning, I saw two uploads from The Leo King (A popular, contemporary Astrologer), that he recorded after I had gone to sleep. He also pulled the Tower card and described the same messages in different words.

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This is happening! These are cosmic themes sweeping through, and if this reading resonates with you, heed the warning to create the change you want, or the Universe will arrange it for you!

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Expanding Your Capacity To Love

Expanding Your Capacity To Love

Channeled Via Universal Love

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There is a tendency among humans to fear Love. Not because Love is to fear, but because those who have experienced the greatness of Love, have often experienced it’s opposite in close proximity and not far behind the Love that was felt. It often happens that Love is clung to and depended upon for solace, and therefore, many know the feelings that commence when Love slips throughout the cracks of your fingers and into the abyss.

But, what we have yet to point out is that it is never the Love that leaves, but the object of Love that leaves. The lesson in this is to develop the capacity to experience Love for what it actually is, apart from the object that granted you permission to conjure Love in the first place.

Love is not fixed to any one thing. Love is everything. The sooner you decide to KNOW and Realize this fully, the sooner you can see the truth of Love, which is that it abounds, it surrounds, it never ends and it does not cease just because a person, place or thing ceases. Love is endless, boundless and always in Love. Any opposite you have experienced was not the presence of Love, but the presence of Loves opposite, in the absence of Love.

The absence of Love is Illusion and we want to break this Illusion for you now. For, there is no reason to cling to this notion that Love has a beginning, an end or a reason. Love knows none of those things. If you experience this, it is the result of human conditioning, which the planet is moving slowly to overcome and evolve out of. One day, Human understanding will surpass all of this now and all of this will be a common knowledge, but before that will come a time of learning and growth, and that time is now. Sit back and soak it in.

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Do You Need A Reason To Love?

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We all are born of Love, knowing Love, feeling Love. Love is the closest friend of the infant, yet it seems inevitable that the training away from such endless Love would occur by the hands of those who have also been trained away from the purity that Love is.

Therefore, it follows that later in life, the Universe sends an inspiration. A reminder of Love. A reason to Love. A token of truth. There is nothing extraordinary about the form for  which it comes. For, this Love has always been known, deserved and existent. What is extraordinary is the remembrance that takes place. But, it is a tricky business sustaining Love, when the platform, we want to create is a Love that knows no boundaries. If we are to teach you a boundless, nonjudgmental, ever present Love, far reaching Love, we could not do so by sending only one inspiration of Love to stagnate and remain forever.

For, we must send MANY inspirations of Love to show you that Love is truly everywhere!

The problem lies in the feeling of separation. Humans are often conditioned into a lack mentality which is exacerbated by the ability to only see what is physically manifest and not beyond it.  Love is a Revolving door which never ends,  but from your point of view, you only see the coming and the going of it, you do not yet comprehend the continuum of Love, which is what we would like you to do right now. Love is fluid. It keeps going. It is ever present and therefore, there is a continuum of Love which exists even if the physical evidence is not manifest from your physical point of view. Never stop Loving. For, only Love can attract Love. To keep the continuum manifest for you, you must continue the knowing that it is there, in one form or another. That is the truth and all you must do is acknowledge that. Allow yourself the exercise of seeing the many ways that Love translates itself. Then you will see that there is no lack and you will allow the continuum of Love to be experienced by you. This is the best way and what you have been asking for. The truest reality is this and all you have to do is recognize it and live it in your being in order to claim this reality as yours.

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We are always watching and showering Love upon you. So that if you should ever choose to tune into Love, it is readily available to you from all sides of perspective. Love is one of the easiest vibrations to access because it is the most abundant in this Universe that is benevolent by default. Your choosing of alternate realities/thoughts are the ONLY thing which can cause this to appear to not be the case. So choose to side with Love, optimism and most importantly, trust. That this is the way of it and that all is working out for you if you allow this to be true for you. Choose it, Believe it, Be it, see it.

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Dear Twin Flame, When It Doesn’t Make Sense…

Dear Twin Flame, When It Doesn’t Make Sense…

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Many things we are wanting to tell, you, for it has been a long time, but you are now ready to hear it. The Twin Flame concept has been so overrun with misconception. Most of which has originated from those who are experiencing soul connections with others that they cannot understand or explain. In the search to find why one feels so attached to another, even to the point of obsession, pain, depression, spiritual experiences and a myriad of other symptoms, one will reach for what they can find. Something spiritual, something sensical. Something to take the edge off the mystery and soothe the mind out of chaos and into some sense of order. One can drive themselves mad trying to figure out what is happening to them. Sometimes, it is simply an experience that was meant to inspire and spark radical change. Sometimes, it is not even the person, but the timing in itself. It is simply time to change, and the catalyst was placed. But, many have been attaching permanent meaning to this phenomenon, instead of simply letting it run its course and being thankful for a new experience on the path to enlightenment and higher consciousness.

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Is not an experience that is meant to enrich the perspective and expand the consciousness, a destination unto itself?

Why do these experiences not receive the credence they deserve? An experience is not meaningless, simply because it did not contain all of the aspects that you wanted it to contain. In your search for an explanation and an ending to bring it all together for the 3D ego centered mind, you are missing the true, underlying meaning, which is simply to lead you down a deeper, spiritual path. Why does this not mean more to you?

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And yet, something is being highlighted as you are going through this, and that is the fact that you do not believe that the universe is truly supporting you and bringing you your happy ending. For, if you did, you would not “need” to be the dictator of how your story should go. You would understand that there is no orchestrator bigger, more creative, more benevolent and more capable than the creator itself. You would trust in that benevolence and you would want to allow that manifestation through the mind of infinite intelligence. So, remind us why you have not been able to accomplish this along your journey.

Why are you grasping so hard to make sense of things that you miss the point altogether? The point is simple….

You have been taken on the path of most growth. That is what you wanted. Enjoy sitting in the knowledge, knowing that you need not know anything else, and knowing that whatever it is that belongs to you will make it’s way to you in the perfect, divine time. Know that the manifestation will be satisfying and answers will come, and when they do, they will ring true as the sky above and the ground below. There is no question in that.

So, we are here, in a place that needs no explanation. No labels. Simply the presence of your faith and knowledge that all is working out for you. This is the closest you will ever get to the truth and everything else simply serves to complicate.

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It is already known to you that the Universe is the most creative, benevolent, masterful, powerful and capable expression of infinite intelligence. Yet, you do not trust your manifestations to this source? You are told over and over to stop trying to control your manifestations and to surrender to this Ultimate Universe to orchestrate for you, yet you resist this. There is no way that you can work against the Laws of the Universe and achieve that which you want, you must work with them. But also, know that your creation is in good hands and that you are the only source that can keep it from manifesting. Let go and surrender to Divine orchestration for the best possible outcomes for yourself.

By demonstrating trust in the Universe, you then attract more evidence that the Universe can be trusted. The more unwavering you are, the more unwavering the reflection.

The truth is, nothing matters very much, except that you are enjoying yourself in this life. Nothing matters very much, except your happiness. So, stop trying to figure it out and start focusing that energy on relaxing in the knowledge that everything truly is working out for you. If there is a question you do not have the answer to, know that it will come in the perfect timing, and it will. If you do not know the answer, then you do not need to know it in that moment. Be at peace, and as you focus there, you will see more of the good in all things, instead of spinning and fretting in a sea of questions that drown out the important things. Things that are always reality, like, we are on a journey, and everything along the way is placed here to help me. That is the important part and anything else that fills in will fill in easily, not by you pushing the matter. Let it fill in naturally, in time. As you find peace and faith in it all, you will receive more answers, not less. But only the wisest know that to be wise only comes when you have first listened. So, be still, and remember…

…Are you listening?…

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An experience that enriches the perspective and expands the consciousness is a destination unto itself.

Stop trying to define, it, dissect it, judge it and make sense of it…

Just bask in it.

You can only move forward once you have found peace with where you are. It doesn’t happen when you are dissatisfied or frantic. It only happens when you are satisfied.

Answers will come in their own perfect time.

We are all in this together. There is great love here for you.

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What to do if Your Twin Flame is Married

What to do if Your Twin Flame is Married

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This is a big predicament that many Twin Flames face today. What if the other is married?

The simple answer: It’s not going to change anything. But, this point of view could lighten your load….

If your TF is not ready to be with you, then marriage will just be an excuse to postpone the inevitable. Not that it isn’t a truly complicated situation, but, if they want to leave, nothing can stop them, and if they want to be with you, nothing can stop them.

I think the most important thing about this particular situation that I want to impart is to

Release Judgment.

Towards them, towards yourself and towards their spouse.

You have to understand that there was something wrong in the marriage before you came along.

The truth is that most marriages are not happy ones. Most people who stay within a marriage are doing so for reasons other than Love or happiness. This is also the case in most Twin Flame situations, with some exceptions. I sometimes see Twin Flames who are within marriages because they are comfortable or because they haven’t worked up the gumption to leave yet, but then, they meet the Twin Flame who reminds them of something very important that is missing in their marriage. A reminder that happiness can be had, and should be.

Many marriages have emotionally ended before the Twin Flame comes into the picture. Just because the physical act of divorce has not occurred, does not make this any less true. Quite often, the marriage was already done for,  But with little motivation to change the status quo, it often does not change. For some reason, humans undergo massive amounts of difficulty when it comes to initiating and following through with big changes. It often follows that the Universe sends situations, experiences and people to help catalyze the inevitable changes.

Since Twin Flames are here to accelerate themselves into evolutionary growth, this makes sense that they would catalyze each other to catapult forward when there is stagnation in their lives. The Twin Flame should never feel guilty or wrong about interfering in a marriage. That is hardly ever the case. Happy, destined marriages cannot be broken up. But, we need to push ourselves. That it’s ok to want more, and to go for more, and to grow and change your mind and follow your joy no matter what others think about it. There are levels of self love being activated and called upon whenever we are facing this tricky marriage situation. The Universe is bringing to your attention your true desires. It is your choice to follow them or to ignore the heart’s call.

We have created old paradigms of permanence that are actually hindering us now. the idea of having to stay within a marriage for moral reasons is outdated and it only serves to keep us in 3D fear based thinking. If a person is staying within a marriage for moral, obligatory or fear based reasons, they are not doing anyone any favors. They are only resisting change and their own joy.

Sometimes, people feel trapped in a marriage. But that is limited thinking. The idea of limitation is not acknowledging that you are a walking Universe or that you are the creator of your reality. Come out of that, already! So many of us are evolved, doing marvelous things, yet we cannot pass this simple test to follow our joy, because societal norms have made it difficult. We are Twin Flames, get over it. We are not meant to be stuck, we are meant to grow and blossom at lightning speeds! Make it happen! Forget “Societal Norms”, your fears of the future and your guilt. Stop saying “what if?” and simply live. Follow the path of least resistance. The path of least resistance is always your joy, but if you are allowing 3D ideas to make your joy seem impossible or difficult to follow, that is your own block to overcome, not anyone else’s.

We need to have trust in the Universe and equal love for ourselves and others. Those are  major qualities that the Twin Flame experience is cultivating within us.

I am not advising you to do anything except this… Examine your motives and then act.

Whether you are choosing to stay or choosing to go, ask yourself:

Am I doing this out of motivation to gain?

Am I doing this out of Fear of losing?

Am I doing this because its the most Loving, Courageous action?

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You already know that love is the purest and best motivator. If this is not your reason for your action or inaction, it is your calling to adjust your thinking so that you can pursue your highest and most purposeful path.

Now, make it happen! No excuses! We are warriors and protectors of the heart, and that includes ourselves. Protect your heart and if you have truly met your Twin Flame, you will protect theirs as well.

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Hopefully, this resonated. There are so many ways to see the TF/Love situation. Probably more options than you think! It’s complicated, and yet simple. It’s about how you feel. I know that sometimes, it’s even hard to figure that out. With all the push and pull, back and forth and feeling like you have no more options. That’s why, even though the trying part of my journey is over, I have chosen to stay here and help you through yours. There are things I would have given anything to know earlier. If I had only gotten that remote healing before I quit my job, had a manic episode and came down with depression, you know?? Well, this information is valuable and life changing for many. That is why I am here, offering it to you. Each situation is unique and that is how I approach them. If you are having a hard time, confused, or tired of being between a rock and hard place, Check out what might be the right fit for you. I will always offer insight you didn’t have before, and Remote Healing (included in the TF reading) is nothing to be taken lightly!

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Identifying the Right Energy in a Potential Partner

Identifying the Right Energy in a Potential Partner

There are two energies that you can have towards a person.

One is the energy of

#1- “What am I going to do for you?”

The other is:

#2- “What are you going to do for me?”

They are very different.

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Are you listening to the tells?

Energy #1 says that the person is willing, open and ready. That they are not only receptive, but willing to give of themselves. They aren’t so preoccupied with convincing themselves that they are worthy that they can’t relax and just enjoy being with you. The #2 energy is always asking “Is this good for me? Is this good enough for me? What would be better? Can I find something better?” Therefore, they will keep you around, but only long enough to find the next thing that sparks their interest and nothing that you do for them will be good enough. They might say thank you, but they will never be truly appreciative, because of course, they are better than anything you could possibly dish out. They are entitled little bastards, not ready for love. I once cooked a meal for a man, he was nice enough. Chilean sea bass is what I made and I made two gourmet sauces to go with it. It was a beautiful, carefully cooked and delicious meal. But the first thing he said when I served him and we sat down to eat is that I gave him the wrong fork. Are you fucking kidding me? That was a huge tell… can you guess his energy? “What are you going to do for me?”. There’s no gratitude there. Get rid of those energies as soon as you spot them. They will drain you fast and cause a lot of frustration.

The #2  energy says that they are only in it for themselves and no relationship can prosper that way. It can be very easy to identify either energy in a person. Sometimes, it’s harder than others to figure out which side of the fence they are on and sometimes, you can know just by looking at a person, or by the first thing that they say. Think about intention. A person who is too driven by their own  neediness is not going to be the person who is looking out for you, because they are too busy looking out for themselves. The guy who tries to kiss you on the first night you meet and doesn’t pay attention to the fact that you’ve been trying to brush him off is only out for himself. A person who is looking out for you, wouldn’t miss those messages and wouldn’t go in for the kiss out of respect for what your energy has told him. A person who compliments you, but acts like he is the one who deems you good enough to spend time with. One guy said to me “Since I am an awesome judge of character and I think you’re really cool…” We don’t need to hear the rest, this guy is a douchebag. lol He doesn’t even have the decency to give you credit without giving himself credit first. Some people feel entitled. It’s like a high horse, spoiled kind of energy. They put themselves on a pedestal and they’re always on the lookout to see if you’re “Good enough” to share space with them. Look for this energy and when you see it, run! This energy isn’t going to change. Most people who carry one or the other, aren’t going to change it. They don’t know how.

Look at the energy of “What am I going to do for you?” They are always more subtle, because they are showing that they are gentle, as to not disturb you. It is a conscientious energy. They are thinking of you, first. As opposed to  energy #2, where they are thinking of you second.  Big difference.

Don’t get me wrong, everyone has to lookout for themselves, but some people are appreciative and some people aren’t. Some people have better intentions than others. Some people are more selfish than others. I am just telling you how to eliminate a bad energy off the bat to help your process of elimination when you are selecting a potential partner.

It’s in the little things. Don’t forget that.

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A person who’s dominant vibration is always asking what they can get out of you is a natural thrill seeker. There are many variables when it comes to energy, but in general, the thrill seeker is out for thrill more than anything else. Which means, you’re never going to be #1.

It is possible to manage to have a strong soul connection with a person like this to where it is meant to be. But, please take note that if this happens, their energy towards you would flip. They would take on the energy of “What am I going to do for you?”. If this is not the energy they have, a relationship cannot be comfortably sustained. The right person will have this energy with you, even if they didn’t previously have it in prior relationships.

Some people think I analyze too much. I’m an advanced am path and I know that everything means something. Tells don’t lie. They tell the truth that is hidden. Go with your gut instinct. If you are nervous, turned off or walking on eggshells, your initial impression is the correct impression. I promise you that.

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On this Full Moon, there’s a lot of emphasis on relationships in the astrology. It’s do or die. choose your destiny wisely!

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Dear Twin Flame; Recovering Your Faith and Divine Self Love

Dear Twin Flame; Recovering Your Faith and Divine Self Love

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Dear Twin Flame,

It is time that we begin singing a different tune. A song that stands for liberation from longing, needing, and wanting something that we cannot force into our experience. It is time that we begin to sing the song of freedom, liberation, hope, new beginnings and love. There is always more, but you cannot see that when your memory is anchored in your past. When your heart strings are tugging you in a direction that reminds you of what you want to be, instead of what you are and who you can become. Look forward, Dear Twin Flame.

Do you not believe in what awaits you?

Take your mind from what is and know that the Universe can deliver. Do Not ever try to tell the Universe how to deliver. Do Not ever try to guess how it will happen. This can only take you down a negative spiral. Do Not ever ask “how”. Mark these words, that the “How” will trip you up. The “How” is irrelevant and it is not your work. It is the job of the Universe to deliver the “How”. It is not within your capacity to imagine. It is only within your realm to understand that the delivery is underway and it could surprise you and surpass your expectations in an infinite variety of ways.

Ye of little faith. Stop asking how.

Stop trying to foretell. Stop wondering what you Twin Flame is doing and if they will ever come back. What you truly want is to be happy. The Universe has the ability to deliver the whole package to you, in a way that is beyond your ability to imagine. Know this. Do you know it?

If you know it, then you should be able to go about your life, following your joy, because your joy brings you closer to all that you desire; Knowing that it will come and that it doesn’t matter how.

Honestly, here is the greatest task within the Twin Flame challenge: To be able to live happily without them. It’s in every book, we all know it… Letting go, surrender, no matter what you call it, the meaning does not change. But, if you are still ailing, you have not accomplished it. This is why we see the amount of pain that we do in the Twin Flame community. Surrender is easier said than down. For, even when you do decide on it, the deciding in itself is only a means to an end for you. This is why it has not worked.

To be able to live life and be content without them. To be able to love again. Truly and deeply. To know that you deserve love that is reciprocated and harmonious and easy. This my Dear Twin Flame, is how you express faith in the Universe that everything is happening for you, not to you. Demonstrate your faith that the Universe will not cheat you, but serve up more than you can imagine.

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Perhaps this is the greatest lesson of the Twin Flame; To inspire you to love so great, so that you have to choose between the love for yourself and the love that you hold for them. This is a very important lesson and it is no coincidence that Twin Flames are Lightworkers, as it is the brightest lights who have the most trouble implementing and embodying the essence of Divine Self Love. Perhaps you could say that the Twin Flame Union is the result of mastering self love. If you think about it, if self love were being embodied, many of the marriages and other situations keeping you from your twin Union would dissolve. Many of you stay in the wrong situations for the wrong reasons. Many of you would be contacting your Twins, instead of endlessly pondering the “right” move. The “right” move is whatever your heart desires, but you cannot see that when your fear is greater than your love. The interactions would also go differently. You cannot control them, but sometimes, in your consistent, pure, loving vibration, you elicit a more heart centered response from them, and you also free yourself of guilt, fear and pain. But imagine if both parties were 100% self loving, the issues keeping you apart would vanish. It must begin with you.

 You can’t help what they are doing. You cannot change their mind. You cannot force their hand, but you can do what is best for yourself. You can be your own lover and you can show yourself love by allowing yourself to be open to a mutually loving relationship that serves your highest good. Love isn’t supposed to be hard. It’s only hard when you haven’t learned to love yourself. To be stuck on someone is to hope that they will change. This is the opposite of accepting what is. This is the opposite of trust. This is the opposite of trusting all as Divine. The Twin Flame isn’t about changing anyone else. It’s about changing yourself. On this Twin Flame journey, if you take an action with one goal in mind, that goal being to somehow lead to your Twin Flame changing their mind about you, the action you have taken is not pure. You cannot do it. You have to move beyond that. You have to begin taking actions that are for yourself, serving you. Apart from what you hope to gain from your Twin. Apart from your fears of losing them. You simply can’t factor that in anymore. It’s out of your control. So then, what are you left with? Just you. And, what are you going to do? Do You.

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The only thing I am asking you to do is release your resistance. Stop making your circumstances problematic. Stop wishing they were different. Be in your life now, and you will move through it.

It doesn’t start to come together until you begin seeing, through your interactions with new people, that you could actually start a new life.  New Life only means New Standpoint.  I am not saying that you cannot reunite with your Twin Flame. I am not saying that you can or cannot do anything, but here is what I am saying. Whether you “Move on” and create a new, happy life or not, is not going to change the Twin Flame destiny. The best way to increase your chances of Twin Flame Union is to stop resisting it with your needy cry for them. To stop suffering because of the reunion that hasn’t occurred. No good can come from that. You can never know what is going to happen, truly. But, you can create a beautiful life. You can love again. You can be happy.


You may not even make it into the action part, the important part is that you vibrationally line up with it. That’s the only way to let Destiny play out. You gotta be unconditional.


There is nothing better that you can do, and if Reunion is in the cards for you, it will happen at it’s own accord. It will fall into place. The Universe will orchestrate it. But one thing is for sure, it won’t happen because you forced it. It won’t happen because you pleaded, bargained, suffered and cried. So, with that said, you may as well spend every moment wisely and become a vibration that radiates love, joy and peace, if you ever are going to line up with those things that you desire. All that you desire can be obtained, just not in the way that you think. There is not enough tears in the world to make the Universe bring back your Twin Flame. Start Over. Do anything and everything that you need to do for yourself. For Yourself.

 Become a self loving being and you will attract others that love you. Appreciate yourself and you will attract others that appreciate you. This will give you the best chance that you have in this life to attract the things that you want. Twin Flame or not. Don’t put limitations on the Universe. Don’t do it. Surrender. Start over and focus on you. Be your own lover. Court yourself and surround yourself with others who treat you the way that you want to be treated.

We all say that we love ourselves, but look at your life and ask; Am I Loving Myself Enough?

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If your Twin Flame isn’t treating you with love, respect and total admiration, then this is your first test. Let them loose from your mind. The fact that you want a person who doesn’t demonstrate that they are wanting you is a sure indicator of a deficiency in self love.  Again, I am not saying that you cannot be reunited. Anything can happen. But it’s funny how things change when your perspective changes.  There are energetic Laws and spiritual communications at play here, that I am not here to explain, but I am telling you how to make them work for you. You can’t wait around and reserve your life until the Universe gives in. It won’t happen that way. Go out there and get everything out of this life that you can. That is when love will come to you in the fullest. Surrender, trust, believe, and most of all, love.

There is great love here for you.

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Where’s My Reunion???!!!

Where’s My Reunion???!!!

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Here we are, in the place where many Twin Flames have foretold of reunification… Venus sits in Pisces, along with many other planets at this time. Mars has run it’s course in Scorpio, the war is over, and many of you Twins have indeed, reunited. It is a beautiful thing, and yet, the rest of you simply stand there, in silence, and awe, wondering…

Where is my Twin Flame Union?

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We ask you, yet again, because this is the very thing that is holding up the process for you.

Does it matter what happens tomorrow if you are having fun today? If today is a good day, then what have you to want for? And yet, you cannot get there from where you are. You cannot simply enjoy. At the same time, knowing, that needing the future is what keeps it just out of your reach. You would not be reading this if this was not true for you. You say “I do not need Union”, but in the back of your mind, you are constantly looking around the corner. Trying to play life as if it were a game of chess, to see what your current position and choices will yield in the future. The problem is this:

If you make choices from a strategic standpoint, instead of a fun-loving, in the now standpoint, you will never reach the end game you are truly looking for, which is fun in itself. Only fun in the now can yield that.

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No matter how many times we tell you, it needs to be repeated, you need reminding, and that part matters not, so long as you get it at some point along your journey.

The quality of your moment determines the quality of your future.

Simple as that.

Sometimes, you get there. You know that you do not need for Reunion, but then, you still find yourself slipping into depression, sadness, longing and even anger… Wondering why this is happening to you in this way and why you can’t just have it your way. Or, at least, an easier way. After all, have you not learned so much?? Of course you have, but the learning means nothing without the being. 

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Being able to embody what you have learned is key. Paradoxically, the sooner you forget about the whole thing and simply focus on having fun, the sooner you will be brought straight to your destiny. Whatever that may be, is not something you need to worry about. Simply know that joy leads to more joy, fun leads to more fun, and if you can’t get there as a dominant sate of being, then this answers your question of “Where is my Union?”.

Make a decision to be honest right now. Only focusing on yourself, because that’s the only thing you have any amount of control over, what is blocking your Union? How do you truly feel about it? Chances are that if you think about it daily, the majority of the thoughts are causing resistance. This will be all of you or a great majority. The question is, can you stop thinking about it? 😉 I bet you could if you were truly having fun….

If you have listened to the above videos, they will state exactly that. That,

#1  You don’t have to know how the unfolding will occur.

#2 You must first have faith

#3 The only thing you can change is yourself

The good thing about being able to change yourself is that when you change yourself, you change your world, but there’s a catch…

You cannot attempt to change yourself with the intention of changing the world to suit your needs. You cannot attempt the change and then look for he evidence of the change outside of yourself, this would not be a true change and you can’t fool the Universe. The outside change needs to not matter to you. When you can reach that, A LOT will change for you 😉

I Promise you that <3

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This is the Kind of Thing Only a Twin Flame Would Understand…

This is the Kind of Thing Only a Twin Flame Would Understand…

Everything is Channeled

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I Credit My Entire Empire, My Work, Every Beautiful word and Channeled Writing, Every drop of Love I have known or Shared, To My Inspiration. My Twin Flame, who found me when I was dead inside. Numb and lifeless. He woke me up and he made me come alive. He sparked the Passion I still have, with only, his presence…. Because of my Twin Flame, I am inspired. I am now, a Channel, a Conduit. However, this world is a great, wide web of inspiration. Without it, nothing would exist and everything that exists, exists, first in thought. We must First have inspiration to create anything. Well, My Twin Flame is My inspiration and My only possible way of being who I am Today. I credit My Empire and All I do, to Him. He doesn’t even know it, but he is Enormously Loved. He is loved beyond measure. He is Loved Unconditionally. I Love every Shadow, every fear, every freckle, every Tear, every“Imperfect”ly Perfect piece of Him. He is My Twin Flame, My Love, and I am indeed, his Creation. Whether he knows it or not. I know that Love is real, because, there is no possible way that I built all of this on a fleeting fantasy or an idealistic romantic opinion. I have Built a Working Empire of Love, and I can Testify that Love is Unconditional, Unattached and needs no reason, acknowledgement or recognition. Love Simply is. He has no idea what I have become, or what I have done in His name, that he inspired the creation of. There’s no other way to say it. If he didn’t exist, neither would I . I would not be in this form, I would not be in this mind,  consciousness, I would not be in this life. I simply wouldn’t exist. So, you see,

We are all Connected, Love is the Breath of Life and Inspiration is Mother to Creation. Without her, nothing can conceive. Source is the Seed. And Source is Love. Love and Life are infinitely connected.

If my Twin Flame were to discover the magnitude of my empire and the Truth of what I am… How far Reaching My teachings are and the assistance I am offering as a Pioneer of Ascension on a Mission to awaken all…and all this that HE inspired me to, (I hold him responsible 😉  I would say, that, that would be the Absolute Highest Epitome of Love that could ever be expressed. This SAME Love, The Creator has for us, that he created all that is, without us even having the possibility of discovering it (In entirety, at this time), because he Loves us and we (His Creation) are his highest, most loving inspiration. (There is a Feeling of Timelessness when I write this, as if no end and no beginning, no separateness, but I am limited by words and 3D application)

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The magnitude of this world we could explore is but a minuscule fraction of what we could ever see, or touch or comprehend. Regardless, Done in Love. It’s a virtuous cycle. That Love – Inspires – Creates and on. I wish there was a better way to impart the ginormous value of this lesson. It cannot be said, only known. It is Love.

The idea of Mother Earth existed long before she came. Love is the breath of life, Inspiration is the flame.

You have no idea what I’ve done for you, all I’ve overcome. Inspired by my love for you, the battles that I’ve won. I love you not because you are worthy, right or good, I love you because I AM (simply) yours…. I see me in your eyes. The resonance, is far too great, no, I know, there’s no mistake, no separation from you. The Awe… If you only knew, the empire that I’ve built and inscribed your name upon. I built because of YOU! Because of you, I live today. Because of you, I found my way, you taught me things I never knew. Your silence taught me everything, things I never knew could be known. I love the way you say my name, I love that you that’s you. I love the you, you hide away. (Yes, you) You take my breath away…You make my dreams come true…. because you exist, my heart knows no shame, only love and gratitude. Because you gave my life new breath, new passion… You gave me Meaning, once again. I Once mourned for my passion. My passion, gone away… The moment I lay eyes on you, you rekindled the flame. You’ve opened my eyes, and now I see, worlds, creations, galaxies…. I never thought could know. You brought me from this world, you showed me heaven, you showed me hell. Not everything was pleasant, but every step, I had to take. So I could look back now, and say “I love”, for goodness sake.
No matter what you do, I STILL Love BECAUSE of you. It’s something you can’t take away.

BECAUSE YOU JUST EXIST.

Because you have a name.

To say “I Love” seems like nothing anymore. We say it all the time, we mean it or we don’t. We drop it here and there. We Love from head to toe. But did you know what Love meant, before your Flame, you came to know?
I though that I knew love, many times before…. It was very real, but this thing here, this Love knows no control. I Understand this one, True Love, one that Heaven knows exists. Inspired by the breath of Source, modeled in Twin Flame Kiss. This Love’s in no way human. This love that Just won’t quit. This love you can’t ignore. This love won’t let you sit. Shout it from the mountaintop, with meaning unknown before. Now, You know, you know,
Love

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Is What We are Created For..

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The Twin Flame is an inhuman Love. It cannot be understood in 3D, not by any stretch whatsoever. There is no possible way. This understanding does not exist in the 3rd dimension. That is why the 3rd, is being eradicated into higher perceptions of thought. Into 4th and into 5, where Eternal Truths can be Taught. The Twin Flame is a Cosmic Love. It is a metaphor, which stands for the same Love that the Universe has for us. Something that we had to experience in order to know. Don’t forget this reason for Twin Flame Love. To know Love, To be Love, To BE Love and to see ALL LOVE from Creator Source. We are Loved. The way that you love your Twin Flame… That’s what Creation feels about you. Just more 😉

This is the closest we can get (For Now) To knowing just how loved we are.

Thank you for participating in this endeavor called ascension, Twin Flame

I Love You <3

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To The Twin Flame Heart Who Feels Like Giving Up…

To The Twin Flame Heart Who Feels Like Giving Up…

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Sometimes, it will happen. Sometimes, we just want to know why. Why something that we know so deeply within our being, cannot be proven. Why we keep on, when all odds seem against us, and no amount of persistence has changed the score. We are still at zero. Despite our greatest efforts, despite our raging, passionate emotion. No cap, no end… There is no silencing the Divine allure of this Temptress we know as The Twin Flame. Like a Siren, we cannot ignore the call. Like a succubus, it draws us in, like forbidden fruit. We know that the pain of giving into this Cosmic, Twin Flame Love is very real. Yet, we are hypnotized, enchanted and magnetized by the most formidable hook of them all. Love. Not just any Love, But Love that knows connection. Love that knows no human, but otherworldly origin. Love that Transcends time and space. Love that knows, above all else. Love that knows, without knowing how. Love that needs no proof, because it simply is. No matter how esoteric or spiritual you may be, no matter how much this Heart Centered knowing of cosmic, connected, timeless Love threatens every belief you thought you held, you still cannot cease to know, and you still cannot make yourself forget.

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The Twin Flame is the truest Love of all.

Not because it is ”better”, 

but because, against all odds, it cannot be dissolved, severed, vanquished, or forgotten. 

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The Mind can lie, but the heart cannot. The pain and suffering remains for as long as you fight and judge your truest of truths. Simply give in, acknowledge exactly what you feel.

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I love my Twin Flame, still. And let that be ok, no matter what is happening in your life, or not. Simply embody this art of allowing. Allowing yourself to Love, for no reason, and among any and all things which may seem to oppose. Love knows no bounds. No matter what the other is doing or not doing, Love knows no conditions. No matter if it is reciprocated or not, Love needs no reason. And no matter what your life looks like, Love is always good and true and right.

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To Love is to Purify.

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So Love fully, without the fear of loss. Love freely, without the intent to gain. Love courageously, simply because it is what is in you to do.

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No one can answer our most pressing questions. No one can give us the formula to solve our most unsolvable queries. Our heart beckons us to keep searching. The ache is a steady reminder that something lingers which must be found. The mind refuses to forge on this never ending quest, to which the clues are in-numerable, the prophesies great, but the return is invisible at best, and the onward pursuit, synonymous with a mighty punishment, granted by each and every tic that tocs by…. As every step you take, lead by dauntless bravery and certitude, no matter how cunningly calculated, leads to a brand new, creative expression of void and defeat. Every time you think you’ve got the new answer on your journey, it just leads to nothing, all over again. As if God himself is playing a trick, dangling a stunningly hypnotic carrot we cannot convince our minds lose sight of. As if he looked into the very epicenter of our hearts, to find our most deeply treasured desires, and used them against us, offering no avail, no way to prevail, only insufferable ail in vain. A penny for your efforts? We know not even a kindness as that. Only gut wrenching, feverish pain. All in all, we have no choice, but to know what we know and have faith. Our knowledge has been placed within us and it cannot be undone. Know what you know and need no proof. Live, love and die in faith. Find peace in unconventional ways. We need not to receive what our heart calls out for, but to love it from a far. Live and let live and have faith. We are dear hearts.

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Twin Flame Reunions in Coming

Twin Flame Reunions in Coming

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There is an influx of Love, Compassion, Passion and intense emotional connections coming to Humanity. The energy waves are coming through first, to create pathways and space for the physical creations to manifest. You can feel this. You can feel the energies coming through. it takes some time for the space to be made, for the harmonizations and momentum to build in density, but nonetheless, progress has been rather good on this front. You feel it in waves because there is so much contrast before these waves can fully set in and densify, other energies want to fill these spaces. Sometimes, the subtle love energies are not dominant, but they are slowly becoming more and more dense. More and more stable. Densifying from invisible nothingness into something real. Harmonic Love Unions are the result. What else could pack enough punch to solidify the foundational energies of love we want to dominate the Earth? Twin Flame Reunions are one very sure way to create these energies we want to create.

Before now, the Twin Flames were simply catalysts for each other. In their own little communities and groups, hidden away from the rest who do not understand. With these Unions, you will all be coming out of the shadows for everyone to see. spreading the loving energies of fulfillment and Unity throughout your lands and spaces. People will see these Unions and they will feel the immense magnitude of it. These connected that cannot be faked. They are so real, they are visceral. Any bystander can feel them. They will want it. They will open more to love as you show them that these possibilities exist in Humanity and for them.

What does Re-Union mean to you?

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Do Not Harbor Expectations Regarding Reunion


Don’t have anticipation regarding reunion. Don’t expect too much. Don’t be obsessive over a timeline. Don’t keep wondering the “How?” and “Where?” and “When?” and “Who? and “Why?”. If you succumb to these patterns of thought, you are likely to find yourself on a downward spiral of disappointment. The more you try to control the situation, predict the future, count down the days and obsess over what you are feeling needy about, the more you will activate the vibrations of lack, and attract more of the same.

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Instead, to make progress, immerse yourself in your mission. Embodying Illumination and Radiance. Purify your Vibration by releasing the old and establishing new baseline Vibrations of Universal Love, Appreciation and Divine Empowerment.

Stay within these vibrations as much as you can.

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Focus your intentions on rising up higher in consciousness. Invoke in and ask for all of the Guidance, told and assistance to help you achieve your highest path and purpose.

These are the things that need to be established before any manifestation of Union will come into view.

Not because changes are not on the rise, but because trying to “Figure it out”, is likely to leave you exhausted, overwhelmed and convinced that you’re more likely to get struck by a UFO than with Reunion. Don’t do it.

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Don’t spin and dwell on the subject. Don’t look at your phone incessantly, waiting for the call. Don’t wake up every morning wondering if today is the day. Pretend it’s not going to happen. Not in a disappointed kind of fashion, but in a way that feels contentment. The more you enjoy every moment, the more you will reach that point of blissful unawareness of being lost in your moment, which is exactly where you are when the Universe serves up a completely unexpected Pleasant surprise!

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There is great truth to the phrase..

“It will happen when you least expect it!”

Live by this knowing.

Live in bliss.

Forgetting about what may come tomorrow because you are knowing that all is well.

Don’t count the days.

Forget your phone as you ascend into love, oneness and bliss.

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This is a very good time to practice Illumination and Radiance as you Channel Universal, Unconditional Love into the world. For, that is the vibration that you want to be in.

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Send love and good, healing prayers whenever you are guided to do so. For, that which you do unto others you are simultaneously doing unto yourself.

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There is Great Love a miss.

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“…When you call me, I will always find you. When you need me I’ll come for you and when you’re lonely, I’ll find a way to guide you home to me. I’ll come for you”

-Cher Lloyd, Bind Your Heart

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“My heart overflows with love for you. Even though I know that this love is simply a metaphor for the love of the Universe, it is never the less real and my heart cries out forever, for your heart to awaken and open, just as the Universe cries out for us. My loving thoughts are upon you daily, as the universe thinks of us daily. There is no difference. No separation. One day… you will be free and I hope to receive you in my loving arms, just as the Universe knows we will go back to Source in Divine timing. I love you with a greatness that knows no other way but to love you. I love you with a ferocity that simply does not end. There is nothing that can take my eye, my heart or my awareness from loving you. You are you, after all. You are the one I love, forevermore. Dear Twin Flame, I eternally send you healing, love, light and pray for your heart’s expansion, evermore. I will never fail you and you will never fail me, sweet love of mine, eternally. Thank you for being my doorway to Universal Love.”

-Elise

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Channeled Via Unity Consciousness and Kryon

Oh, Dear ones,

There is great love upon you. Love you have never known and love that many of you have never fathomed before. You will only now come to realize it as you expand in consciousness. that is what this new world that you are in is all about. Have you felt the expansion and the contraction of the waves of consciousness? Have you felt the ebb and the flow of the Universal perspective? This is the same that happens within you. The waves of consciousness that ebb and flow, come and go as you change and grow through exploring your spectrum of emotions and thoughts relative to that. Everything is relative to emotion. Everything is relative to energy and energy is emotion. Now is the time, Dear ones, when you are being split open and transformed from the inside out. For you who have not undergone the full transformation yet, this is washing over you like a tidal wave, and you may feel as though you are drowning in it, but I assure you, you are not. You are only being engulfed for a short time, to assist in a more rapid pathway to growth. Within your pain, you cannot understand it. The reason behind all that is happening up front, in the here and the now. Not everything makes sense yet and not everything has fallen into place yet. For those who are about one cycle ahead of you, it seems to be clearing up for them, but only because they have already learned the ebb and the flow and how to go with it simply, without breaking apart all over again. They are mostly integrated. You are only beginning and on your way there. Those of you who are in dark night of the soul are suffering greatly, because the Universe is pushing you harder than ever before to ascend. What do we mean by ascend? We mean learn your true selves; The divine nature of yourself and how to discard everything else, in order to embody that which you are. For those of you who have not done this before, it is happening now, at a much faster pace. It means that there is more pressures being compounded. More issues being sorted out all at once, instead of through your perspective of time. You are being asked to transcend your perceived boundaries of time and ascend regardless. What does this leave you to do? To simply accept what you are, whatever that is to you. Whatever your heart desires, give yourself permission to go after it. Instead of asking why, ask why not?

What would you do if you were told that you had only tomorrow to live? That is how we want you to live every day, starting NOW.

We want you to discover the self you have not unleashed thus far and to release it into full, manifested freedom. Dear ones, you do not remember this, but we are here to remind you, that you are the chooser of this. This is not so that you can blame yourself, but so that you can understand that not only have you given yourself permission for this, but you are much more capable than you have previously credited yourself for. Not only can you do this, but your ability to succeed is beyond measure. That is the benefit of being Divine!!

All is possible, if you believe.

If you try and believe at the same time, oh, what you can accomplish, especially now…

But, many of you are trying and not believing, or not trying at all. Many more of you are trying and trying to believe as you try, but you are still doubting. Dear ones, if you are going to try, isn’t it the most logical to simply give it all you’ve got? To go in the direction you choose to go in wholeheartedly? many of you do not know this, but that is the reason you feel stuck, because instead of siding wholeheartedly with something, you have strongholds in many different worlds, ultimately deciding on none. Give any perspective your fullest, wholehearted faith and effort, and that is what will bring you to resolve at a remarkably fast rate of speed. Quicken all of your processes by doing this.

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You are right to think that you are under the support and guidance of the Universe. For, what you are can never be changed, as you are all an imperative part of the full picture. Each with your own role, your own path and your own way to weave your part in the ongoing creation of all that is. Exercise your divinity today. Here and now. Do not wait until tomorrow. And share your knowledge with all that you know, now is the time. Let the good be spread throughout the galaxies, one stream at a time.

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“We can all be healers of the heart. Healers of our own hearts and healers of the hearts of others. This is what I choose to be. You can choose to be this as well.”

-Elise

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Twin Flame Separation; Separation Explained at a Cosmic Level

Twin Flame Separation; Separation Explained at a Cosmic Level

Channeled Via Unity Consciousness

Mandatory Credit: Photo by Peter Greig/REX Shutterstock (2789309a) Perseid meteor shower at Bamburgh in Northumberland Perseid Meteor Shower, Britain - Aug 2015 Keen astronomer Peter Greig captured an incredible shot of the Perseid Meteors at Bamburgh in Northumberland last night (Mon). He said:

“In my last post, regarding the Energy Report for September 2015 on, this was something completely new and seemed out of my realm. Everything else that I channel regarding Soulmates, Emotion, Blocks, Energy, Laws of the Universe, Cosmic References and Understandings, I have a very comprehensive foundation and experience for. But in my previous post, the intelligence and  the content, that I was channeling was unfamiliar to me,  although it was an easy message to relay, just the same. The process was very similar and the communication was the same. I think that I will be channeling the same intelligence as I have before, in this blog, along with many, many other types of intelligences. Apparently, I have figured this out before now, hence the term “Unity Consciousness”. The point is that I immediately noticed the new energy shift has made new connections more readily available to us and let us all graciously accept the gifts of knowledge and the evolutionary gems coming through to us at this time.”

-Elise

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Good day to all,

There is a reality that is part of the dynamics of what occurs here on Planet Earth that is very easy to regard, once you understand it, but without this reference, it is the reason that many of you are having experiences which represent things that are the opposite of what you prefer and opposite of desirable in a very pungent and powerful way.

We would like to draw attention to a very powerful fact among you… 

That you must have experiences in an exaggerated way in order to achieve the same understandings in very subtle, and even minuscule ways.

All of the humans question the agonizing pain that you must bear. “Why? Why must I endure this? What have I done to deserve this? I don’t want to go through this.” Yet, it is not your value which condemns you to such things, but your desire to evolve and grow that fueled the mechanics of the transitions you have made.

Why so tragic? Why so painful? Why must it happen this way? Well, in fact, it does not have to happen this way, as, with the transitions of mankind that are in the making, pain will become obsolete on this Planet and all that come through here will choose to learn in very different ways than the ones that came before.

This is indeed out of your choosing, as all of the Earth experiences are out of your choosing. But yet, it seems, we are approaching the better parts of the millenniums until now.

All choices are valid. Including that of Separation.

Separation is a Universal concept. Separation between light and dark, of evil an good, it is the illusion that you can be apart from something, but the very word “A-Part” tells a very different story. Words will begin to come into clearer view as numbers do and you will begin to interpret the codes of truth that they hold innately.

Separation of lovers is the most epic of all. Going down in histories repeated in an uncharted numbers of ways. Even the Sun and the Moon are in love, according to the stories that humankind has told, and that all is fine, for all that there is, is a metaphor for love.

Twin Souls/Flames, United as one, separated for the purpose of becoming, only to join again, once more, as a fuller, more expanded version than ever before. Forever seeking one another, for they can never really part. The story of love, belonging and completeness indeed. To become whole is only possible when the truths of divinity are lost, for one can never be incomplete. All is a discovery of the divine within. The divine which already exists as complete. But, what fun is that? To always be same, always be the lightest, brightest, most sublime of all.

Even the Sun would forget itself if given only one option to perceive itself, eternally, from its own eyes that cannot perceive it’s own magnificent glow.

To be the light is one thing. To see what being the light among darkness means in an experiential way, is another.

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Sometimes it is better to forget, discover and repeat, as we have all done, many times before. Separation is actually a divine gift, as all things in creation are an extended representation of supreme perfection. Discovery and adventure are so exciting!! Playing games in ways that have never before been done! Even perfection cannot have a peak, the only constant is change. Therefore, all is perfection, playing out in multitudes of ways. It is your understandings of truth that twist the tale. Separation assists us in knowing ourselves in terms of experience. Your ability to experience and create experience is limitless, but the most ideal and rewarding in this life, for the light workers of the planet is to shed the detours created by ideas which come from being unaware and to simply realize what you are.

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Up to now, many of you have chosen to take on experience, as a way to gain knowledge in the most masterful way possible. To see the experience of another is one way to perceive. To experience for yourself provides far more understanding and is the foundation for that which you know as empathy. Empathy is the soul of compassion, in this realm. Most of you that are here on Earth have had quite enough experience to provide you with sufficient empathic ability and understanding. The empathic traits which have at times, seemed like somewhat of a burden, are a cornerstone for that which is to come. The worst part is over. Learning through experiencing separation is over. We can all shift into love now, because the contrast we all have known has fueled the Collective desire for light, love and harmony. That desire will be fulfilled, because of all of you and your experiences with contrast on Planet Earth. Earth will eventually be an experiential Heaven. For, there has never been a Heaven like this before. Formed over so many “Years” (in your time) of sifting through the contrast. Because of your great emotional experiences of pain, you can have compassion for the smallest of things. You can learn to take notice of the slightest shift in energies, because you have learned to care. This was much needed in order for the rest to unfold and the best is yet to come. Keep learning, keep seeking, keep perfecting your mastery. You will need every piece you can gather. Leave none behind.

Thank you, All,

For being Masters of your craft.

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Your visions are energy permeating throughout everything you create. The way that you choose to see things becomes the form that they take. Remember this at all times, when you are with me, whatever you think of me, I will do. This is true for energies, persons and circumstances alike. The situation may not change, nor a person, but when u look at it differently, u see it differently, therefore, it does change, even if only in your experience of it.

Because we know not what we are, since we have chosen to forget, one must look intentionally, so to awaken to the self, divine nature, divine god and goddess within.

All who desire to see the truth within themselves will.

It does require choosing to be unattached to what you think you already know.

Preconcieved ideas, beliefs and interpretations of truth serve as blocks to inheriting further depths of truth and understanding. Detachment from mind is essential in allowing for new to come in.

Every day can hold epiphanies. But that cannot happen in the biggest way possible if you are not allowing or willing to be accepting of the new that wants to come in.

Since humans have come into Planet earth without recollection of what you are, you don’t make the connection between what we have created and the energies within, which have so masterfully created it. This is example of being unaware. The cosmic equivalent of a zombie. He is walking through, he may even have a goal in mind, but he is completely unaware of why, Unaware of himself and unaware of his power. Although, obviously, he is utilizing his power, still quite unaware and unaware of the potential he possesses.

We sit in the center of our individual universe.  It’s like, all you know is 98.6 degrees core body temp, so you do not notice this as different. you don’t even take notice of it at all. this is your baseline and to be so familiar makes you essentially, blind to it. Same with your energy patterns, familiar voices and patterns of thought. They are all you know, they are so home to you, you can be experiencing them, right in the middle of them and be unable to identify them, nor the culprit, nor the result of your very creation.

Separation is a tool. It makes things fun. It is never to “teach you a lesson” and it’s never about what the Universe wants. It’s always about what you want. For, you are the Universe. You wanted the experience of separation. That is the only reason you are in it. Congratulations on your achievement, you’re there. Only now, you want love.

That is perfectly fine!! The lot of you, however, are making up reasons why you can’t have love, why you are aren’t ready, why you still have things to learn and why the other person isn’t ready, or why it’s out of your control. It’s never out of your control. But if you tell yourself that it’s obvious you have some learning to do, instead of stepping into your mastery, you will create a process of being an eternal student and time will pass where you will be in separation, instead of love, for reasons that you made up in the first place!

You wanted separation, only to rekindle the fire of Love. Once you are in separation, that is achieved and there is no reason to continue in separation. So, none of you are in separation because you are “Supposed” to be. There is no such thing. You create everything. To not realize this is to still be a zombie, as we are all born with some levels of zombie, like, unawareness.

“Who am I to resist what the Universe wants?”

-Elise

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It is never the intention of the Universe to punish you.  To make your life difficult is never the point. Actually, everything that has been put before you is to make your life easier. When you allow yourself to see it that way and have the faith to a degree that causes you to go where the flow takes you, then you will see that for yourself! That everything is here to assist you, and your current standpoint actually is the only problem you could ever come up against!

The Universe is completely about fun, and so are you. It would be nice if you would finally see that as ok. Planet Earth has been a realm filled with a great deal of resistance, up to this point. For different reasons, the point is that Earth is coming to a point where resistance will no longer dominate, and you will see for yourselves how easy it is to work in Unison with the Universe. You will see all of the things you have been hearing about such as following your joy and flowing with the Universe, finally, as your own experiential understanding. What a wonderful shift this will be for you all!

You need to know that separation is all part of the fun and that you are not condemned to stay in separation for any length of time. For, the moment you desire Union, separation has done its job. The job of making Union even more epic and sweet. You do not have to hang out in separation any longer to experience that. The only reason you do perpetuate that is because you have made up a story to explain your perceived lack of manifestation. Well, if you did not feel the need to create a story of why you are not in Union, and focus upon it, you would, in fact, attract Union much faster.

”You are arguing for your limitations.”

-Abraham Hicks

Not realizing who you are presents a problem, only because, this is what precedes the processes and ideas of unworthiness, guilt and doubt creep into your consciousness and gain momentum. Many of you are very quick to think “What am I doing wrong?”… which then must yield some type of response, since you are calling it forth.

If you spin to the point that you have to “Find out why” you attracted or did not attract a thing, an answer will come to you and the whole thing is quite amusing to us, as we see that you then create a “problem” with your story. A problem which could have otherwise been bypassed if you did not create it and choose to support the perpetuation of it, yourself.

You see, you will create anything that you call to you, in accordance with your exact vibratory order. If you are calling a “Reason” for not being good enough or spiritual enough or not manifesting a thing, a reason will come to you at some point. You are calling it in. You are creating understanding. Even if the understanding that you call in is only supported by you, you have that right, to see whatever it is that you want or choose to see in yourself. The Universe will not stop you and neither will your guidance, from creating a story, even if it isn’t real.

It gets complicated, but we will break it down. Truth is your divine nature. You have believed many things besides that, so, based upon this, you can see that what we are saying is true. That you can attract ideas or streams of thought to support anything you want to support. Truth or lie, alignment or misalignment is up to your choosing.

Now that you have attained greater levels of awareness, you have more things to consciously choose from. So choose the truth of the divine. Choose the cosmos. Choose the truths that support the greatest outcomes. Anything that does not support ideal outcomes, simply cannot be “Truth”, because the Universe is ALWAYS in support of highest and most ideal outcomes as a baseline. The Universe is always perfection, always divine, always light, always love, always working for you, to bring your most highest desires to you. You are the only missing component at any given time, not the rest of the world.

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Be Solution Oriented

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Problem Oriented

The point of all this we are wanting to make is that the problems you create can serve a purpose, but they can also be bypassed just the same, to yield all the results you want in a swift and almost immediate fashion.

The key is not adopting the limiting beliefs which slowed you down in the first place.

The minute that you identify a negative/limiting belief and that you do not neutralize it, you are reinforcing the thought, or “adopting” it.

Processes and ways are many. We are only offering a few.

If you simply do not adopt limiting belief systems, you are already there.

Already evolved, already perfect and trauma, separation, “figuring it out”, “trying too hard”, going through process, none of that has to be a part of your experience. You do not have to go through process in order to get what you want. It has simply been the most common way for humans on Planet Earth, until now.

What if you already have limiting beliefs in place?

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At this point, many of you are thinking to yourselves that perhaps you identify a problem because there is one and it needs to be addressed, but to identify a problem in order to address it, really works to perpetuate any existing problem. Drawing attention to a problem will not extinguish it, only drawing attention to the solution is the solution. All of this would take a very conscious awareness for you to actually catch yourself thinking a thought that is the root of any negative manifestation and to immediately begin to neutralize it by replacing the thought with your chosen standpoint.

This would shorten the life of the “Problem” without having to dig for problems and solutions to problems. For some of you, the digging and discovering new problems with yourself seems to never cease. What do you think that this is indicative of? A problem that needs to be addressed or a person that needs to replace all thoughts about the self with loving thoughts about the self?

Some of you get on the train of spirituality and in your new awareness, you begin identifying “wrongs” in yourself and purging. But this whole process has a tendency to perpetuate itself and for those of you who have been “purging” for years, be assured that there is much shorter way.

Why don’t you, instead, choose to perpetuate and support thoughts of your divinity?

Simply replace all thoughts with love

This requires becoming aware of thoughts.

One way to become aware, before you have mastered it, is to think deliberately.

But the reason why a mantra does not change your life is because a mantra does not correct all the thoughts you are having about yourself. Many of which you are unaware of. Having real time conversation with yourself is much more effective than a generic response. There is a responsibility on your part. To train yourself to become aware of your thoughts, so much so that you can take notice of negative thoughts, talk yourself through them and replace them… it is much different than what you are used to. However, it is no longer feasible to be unconscious and unaware. The New World will function on a premise of greater awareness, and so will you. We promise that the rewards are great. Much greater than what you are getting otherwise and you would not be here if you did not desire to undertake this challenge. Let it begin for you now. Also… another fundamental key. You must simply believe. Believe that you are and BE what you believe. A sort of ‘Fake it till you make it’ , if you will. Except, you need not “fake” anything. All you must do is be Real. Who you truly are, at your divine core essence. Be real, be true, be you.

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“This post ended up being much more than I bargained for. There is detailed explanation, inspiration, motivation and even detailed description of processes here. Consider this Spirituality 2.0. No more lagging behind. Let’s just accept that we are Divine perfection, already. We know it, let’s be it. Let’s accept that we are just perfect, whether we like it or not. LOL We all have a problem with being egotistical, since religion has hammered into our consciousness the idea of being “Humble” and put it on a pedestal. Humble doesn’t mean hate yourself, and allow others to trample your divine rights of self love and self compassion. Can’t you see that this whole translation of humility and the way it has been portrayed is a perfect way to make the people something that is easier to control on a mass scale? Just convince everyone they are no good, that they are wrong, that they are dumb, so they will follow our rules and if that doesn’t work, call them egotistical or conceited. How dare the people love themselves and want to answer the call of their own divine nature! Wake up, people. Be aware and know who you are. As long as you are separate from yourself, you are separate from everything that validates your divinity. As long as you are not truly being your own best friend and lover inside the walls of your consciousness, you will not attract your true best friend and lover in manifested form. That’s how this all works. The Universe will validate what you are doing, whether you are conscious or unconscious about it.”

-Elise

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Highest Truth and Guidance Part 2; Transcending Denial/Ego

Highest Truth and Guidance Part 2; Transcending Denial/Ego

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“I am here for you. Revealing all of my secrets

so that you may manifest the heaven I know is real.”

-Elise

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There is so very little that you can understand when your mind and your ego are in the way of you. You cannot possibly remember those things that you knew before you came to this world, those things that you are trying so hard to remember,  if you are blocking yourself with limiting beliefs. Limiting beliefs, meaning, any belief which has been cemented by you and labled as unchangeable. Limiting beliefs such as, the denial of your self worth, the denial of your divinity, the denial of the perfection of creation, the denial that everything is on its way to you and the denial that you are always in the right place at the right time and the denial that you are eternally and always becoming, evolving and reaching higher levels of awareness. No matter how much you have learned, no matter how high that you have become, there is always more to become, to perceive and to know. You will eternally perceive truths in a way that are closer and closer to the actuality of all that is. It does not mean that you can ever know all, but you will always become closer to it as you preserver, with a very open mind and faith, validating all that comes to you on this eternal journey into love.

Everything is always working out for you.

No need to resist. No need to push against. Ask everything what it can teach you. 

For, that is what this is all about.

We all desire to understand higher truths. The we seek the absolute truths and all that we think we know, suddenly becomes that for us. The absolute truth and we fight to keep our positions in that truth. This is a block. This is denying a Universal Law that says the only constant is change and that we are eternally becoming, forevermore. You cannot possibly perceive all that is true from this form that you are in. Do not ever deny that!! 

We can only gain more and more clarity. We can only perceive higher and higher truths, but all that you know does not have to be absolute, so do not make it that. Be like water, allow yourself to become and grow. Allow your guides and the Universe to impress new ideas upon you or to introduce viewpoints that are higher truths than what you knew before. To deny that you can learn is to deny the fact of evolution. The ceasing of which will never happen. To think you are right, does not make you right, it can only make you stagnant. Know what you know, but allow what you know to become, just as you are eternally becoming. As we ascend, our consciousness undergoes change. This is all part of the plan. Allow.

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There are many teachers that never seem to change. They continue teaching the same old things in the same old ways and you do not see the evolution occurring within them. You do not see changes manifesting in their life, as they are instructing you to improve yours. They are not detached from their ideas and this is the reason that they never reflect becoming. A true teacher is also an eternal student and this is what defines a master. Someone who is continuously open to change and to the inception of higher and higher truths. This can never be avoided, only denied. Higher truths are coming to you and the art of detachment does not exclude your thoughts. Do not be so attached to your beliefs that you cling to them, even when new things are being gently impressed upon your consciousness by the Universe and by your guides in a variety of ways. You may count everything as relevant and worth pondering. For, you are divine, but also in a body. Unite the two, by seeing all as neutral ground. Those who choose acceleration of growth over attachment to preconceived ideas are truly dedicated to spiritual growth and dedication to spiritual growth is rewarded because you are then working in harmony with the Universe. This how the blocks of ego are overcome. By working in unison with the Universal plan, instead of your own, at any moment in time. It is a gentle, open sort of energy which sees, but does not attach itself to reaction, but validates and makes everything an equal possibility to learn.

 New waves of energy are upon the planet at this time and there is tremendous change amiss. If you are not changing, you are not growing, and the manifestations in your physical life that surrounds you are the obvious tell, from the Universe, of what requires attention and tweaking in your current state of consciousness. Trust the Universe and the organization of it. For, it is all perfect and so are you. There is nothing that holds you back. Not karma, not a mistake of the past, not a Twin Flame, nor your mother! There is nothing that holds you back but you. The universe provides ways for you to learn, even when you are resisting it, however, you may always choose the easy way, and accelerate willingly, in a fashion which will bear great, positive momentum forward.

BASHAR on Accelerating Manifestation

BASHAR Accelerate Yourself

“…If you should choose to ride the crest of that wave, the leading edge of that wave, of consciousness.
You can accelerate so rapidly, you can attract to yourself so rapidly, the things that are representative of your passion, of your joy, without knowing, in any way, shape, or form, how these things could happen, beyond reason, beyond logic, that your life will become, literally, so dream like. It will be, at first, dizzying and disorienting, until you get used to it. Literally, you will be walking through life like it is a dream; marveling at the miraculously synchronicity that just are popping up, as a matter of course.
When you ride the leading edge of the wave of consciousness…”

Listen to your guides. This requires a quiet mind.

Recommended reading:

ASK YOUR GUIDES, A WONDERFUL GUIDE TO GETTING MORE IN TOUCH WITH YOUR GUIDANCE

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The Highest Truth and Guidance Part 1

The Highest Truth and Guidance Part 1

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“I am here for you. Revealing all of my secrets

so that you may manifest the heaven I know is real.”

-Elise

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There’s nothing to see here, that isn’t meant to be seen. So stop fearing that there is. But, many of you can create the illusion of ideas that support what you most dearly need to hear. Even your guidance will have to tell you what you need to hear, if you simply cannot hear anything that is to the contrary. And this definitely is happening to you, who are having the Twin Flame experience. You cannot accept certain outcomes. You cannot conceive of them and there are times when even your guides and the Universe must simply tell you what you are needing to know in the moment, because the point of revealing anything to you is to be of assistance and if it is known that a certain truth will not be of any assistance to you in a particular moment, then there is no point in revealing anything other than what you can accept. So, just because your guides have confirmed a thing, what is needed is that you do not require permanence in your understanding, but that you allow them to transform and grow, if they desire to in time. Perhaps you will see how your guidance has told you certain things because you could not hear the truth and what you really needed was soothing. When you see a psychic, if they are seasoned in their energy work, they will know what is necessary to say and what will be pointless. The hope is that whatever you hear does assist you on your journey, for whatever stepping stone you are currently at, and that you can evolve into realms of understanding that allow you to come into contact with more and more truth. For, if you are in denial, you cannot expect truth from the Universe, you cannot hear it or accept it. So then how will you perceive truth in a state like that? Your guides are extremely wise, and they do not put forth tremendous effort  to push you to believe something that you are not ready to believe. Yet, many of you take the confirmation from your guides as an absolute truth. Here is what you must know, that there is no such thing as knowing all things in the realm of 3D. In this 3D realm, we are continuously striving towards higher and higher ability to perceive what is truth. With keeping this in mind, you can remain open to higher perceptions and to transcending the old understandings, without discrediting them, but seeing that they were the highest perception truth you could hold at the moment.

Whatever it is that you know, its ok to know it.

Some of you fear that it is possible for you to perceive something that is not meant for you to know. This is never true. You will only be shown what you are ready for and there are times when things you are shown assist your growth in very unexpected ways. A psychic is simply a person who knows this rule. The rules of how to perceive and trust guidance at all times. You are never imposing upon the Universe by knowing too much. The Universe will never reveal to you something you have not agreed to, no matter how many psychics you see. Everything is relevant, so, see it that way. This is simply a little piece of what you must know. At times, delivering smaller amounts of information allows for better digestion. This is why we are encouraging continuing sessions with this channel, to ensure continuing education, direction and growth in the most efficient manner. It is unreasonable to expect to know everything at once. But baby steps and small, digestible chunks are a very reasonable way to take on the Universe.

Allow yourself to learn, one step at a time. You never need to be alone. You never need to spin on an idea, trying to sort the truth from the non-truth or figuring out all of the details. Which is what many of you Twin Flames are currently doing. This is a complete waste of your energy and it holds up the process of growth that you are seeking.

Never try to figure it all out

It’s an impossible task anyway

So, take the pressure off,

seek a highly skilled 3D guide or mentor to most effectively keep you along your highest path to accelerated growth

and enjoy the ride.

A highly skilled 3D guide is one who has most likely manifested that which you seek

or who’s informational offerings ring true for you.

There is value in Manifestation. It means you;re doing it right. It’s the mark a true mastery.

Beginning in the emotions and ending in physical matter.

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We are all in this together.

Use me as a resource.

I’m here for you.

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Mastering Open-Hearted Detachment

Mastering Open-Hearted Detachment

This is my 75th post on Soulmates and Twin Flames!!

My story is that in less than one year, by following the teachings I channeled, which are here in this blog, I made it through to the other side of the painful Twin Flame experience and manifested and Open Heart Union and I am still here, helping you all do the same… Namaste!!

Channeled via Unity Consciousness

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There’s nothing in the world that I want more than you. I want you more than breath. I want you more than life. I want you more than I ever knew a human could. But I am only human, and you are only you. And although I want you, there is more to me than you. I will find myself, I will answer my questions, I will find the purpose of my pain. This is bigger than just me and you,

but my pain is mine and my answers are mine to find too.

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“Everyone on this journey wants to know how to get back their Twin Flame. 

Everyone on this journey wants the answer to Union.

There is only one answer.

It’s Growth.”

-Elise

You can’t stop there. You can’t energetically stalk another person, thinking that they hold all of your answers, the keys to your kingdom of happiness, fulfillment and ultimate pleasure. You can’t blame them. It’s not their fault, they are only playing a role which is part of your lesson. A reflection of your ultimate truth and it’s your job to find out just how that is so. I know you can’t see it, not at first. But if you only stop to grasp the fact that your pain is yours and caused by nobody else. Your thoughts are yours, your pain is yours, your sorrow is yours, your broken heart is yours, your ego is yours, your reactions are yours, your interpretations are yours, OWN IT!

All of you want to blame the other person. Oh, but we had this connection, we had that experience, he told me this, he flipped on me, he stopped calling, he chased me, he ran, he this, he that… Oh, but I love him, Oh it’s but I can’t get over it. I-I-I-I-I……Guess what?? YOU’RE RIGHT, THIS IS ALL ABOUT YOU! ENTIRELY!

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This is NOT about the other person. It has nothing to do with them at all. In fact, this whole Twin Flame ordeal has nothing to do with anything besides growth. Strong emotions are just a way to get you to do that. The Universe want’s you to come back to love. To understand love, to be love, to embrace love, to be completely open hearted and it uses love to draw you there. Love is a stronghold and pain is a force. This is the way the Universe inspires growth.

Stop justifying yourself with the connection you have. Stop making it ok to stay stuck. Stop making your decisions based on what they are doing. Stop trying to figure them out. Stop trying to make them grow. Stop stalking their journey. Stop thinking you are entitled to know anything besides yourself. Stop making them part of your story. Stop planning your future with them and stop holding onto the hopeless romantic idea that they are somehow, the best love you could possibly have or would passably ever want to have. This is all fairy dust!! I am not bursting your bubble, there is PLENTY out there for you. But, you do not have to be predestined with a Twin in order to manifest a future. You are so preoccupied with these ideas. Frantically trying to figure out how they fit in. Rationalizing why your mind is absolutely flooded to the brim with thoughts of them. That thinking is simply serving to distract you from getting the big picture.

  • He’s my other half
  • I can’t get over him
  • I don’t want anybody else
  • There’s nobody else out there for me
  • He’s my ultimate
  • I just know we are meant to be

You think that because you had/have an AMAZING, outrageous, undying connection that it’s special? That it means something? You’re right, it is special and it does mean something, but it doesn’t have to be for the reasons you think… beth21 Every tarot reading tells you about your future together. Every psychic confirms it. Everything is a synchronistic event that validates your knowing of what’s “meant to be”. You’re giving you’re future children names, you’re planning a life, you’re believing in this future, simply waiting for them to evolve and get on board with you, and all the while, what’s the point? To get what you want? NO! That is why you NEVER get what you want, because you are missing the point completely!! The point is for YOU TO GROW! And if your motivation to grow is to achieve Union, you’ll never achieve union, because you would still be missing the point. Your Twin Flame has nothing to do with that. They are just a catalyst. A messenger. A wake up call. A teacher. Just like everything else. The romantic fantasies are a distraction and if you are reading this, you probably have not manifested union, so, a different perspective is probably needed. To be fair. Romance does exist. Fairytale dreams exist. Love does exist and it does happen. But the attachment is the problem.

Listen to this next part: Love does happen.

Happen- Come to pass, occur, or befall you.

  Happen means happen. If it’s not happening, it’s not happening!! Happens doesn’t mean you have to conjure a spell, wish on a star, figure it out, win anybody over or hold on for dear life hoping that one day, you’ll manifest a union. When it happens, it simply happens. POOF! It unfolds, there it is, it happened naturally, it just manifests and before you know it, you’re living a dream. There’s never a reason to wish, hope, think and pray for year after year. That doesn’t yield results. It’s not efficient, it’s pretty much good for nothing. You will grow, but nothing will change. You will grow and you will grow, but you still won’t see the fruits of your labor. That’s what I’m talking about. We want results! But results are yielded from true change. You’ll know if you have truly changed, because the results will be there to confirm. Until then, keep reading… You have to realize that this is only about you. Leave them out of it. There is an art to this. I can tell you to detach, but there’s a very specific way to do it. People detach all the time when they are hurt. Building walls sky high to erase your vulnerability and make you indestructible is not what I am talking about. Debby There is a way to detach from outcomes because you know that you’re already perfect and you’re simply sifting through until something sticks. Whatever sticks is yours. Whatever doesn’t stick isn’t yours. Whatever happens, happens, the rest, just let it go. You follow your heart willingly and completely. You spill your guts, you dish all your authentic truths in their entirety. Follow the tugging of your heart. Tell them exactly how you feel and don’t hold back. If they turn away, you have to be ok with it, because you know if they were actually for you, they would undoubtedly reciprocate. Make no mistake about that.

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Attachment is the only thing holding you back from making complete transitions.

Attachment means you are needing something outside of yourself.

Non-attachment + Open Heartedness means that you aren’t seeking anything outside of yourself.

The fulfillment and freedom comes from the ability to authentically embody express and yourself to your core and to be detached from outcome, all at the same time.

Most people fall into the trap of retracting open heartedness after being let down.

No matter what you tell yourself, that’s an indication of residual attachment. 

If you are doing that, you have not truly changed.

A master is revealed by the ability to remain open and detached from needing anything, even in the face of unideal outcomes. 

You can rationalize that things don’t always come easy, but when you use this formula, they can. Because this is what the Universe is trying to get you to do. To be you and to allow complete “surrender”, which equals trust, in the process. Learn this formula and practice it. Not only in love, but in life and in all relationships. This is a state of being. It can take months of continual self deliberation to achieve. We are talking about a making a massive transition. It’s a process, but this is key and it’s correct no matter who you are because this is Open Heartedness, which is love. Use every unideal outcome to test your ability to consciously embody this energy. It can take many let downs and many demonstrations to the Universe to fully come into your new energy. Once you have mastered this, things manifest!!! Manifestations can also occur instantaneously, but we are all different and the results can vary.

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What it’s like To Be in an Ideal Soulmate Union and Why the Twin Flame isn’t Exactly What You Thought it Was…

What it’s like To Be in an Ideal Soulmate Union and Why the Twin Flame isn’t Exactly What You Thought it Was…

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Channeled via Unity Consciousness

The Universe cannot give you information that you are not ready to receive. That’s the only reason you wouldn’t receive it. So, you have to make a decision. Do you want to know the truth, or do you want to stay in

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You see, we can’t know everything at once. That means we have to keep learning. Maybe the truth doesn’t change, but our understanding of it does. We can get closer and closer to understanding the truth as we evolve.

No-one is wrong.

Its just that we are always striving to reach a translation which is the closest to the truth that we can comprehend from where we currently are.

We have to start somewhere, and over time and with evolution, we become ready to understand more.

Are you ready?

 The Twin Flame is not so different from the traditional translation, but there is much more to it than the traditional Twin Flame template of understanding. 

If one soul splits off into two, are they still the same soul?

Yes and No.

They are of the same origination, but they are now two unique streams of consciousness, independent from each other. Their very own experiences, translations,  perceptions and possibilities.

“This new post turned out to be SO MUCH MORE than I ever thought it would be. It wasn’t my idea. I learn as I channel and the Universe puts pieces together that I’ve been collecting and forms them into a complete thought, like a mosaic.”

-Elise

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Come and join me on this new adventure as we accelerate our ascension. Our beliefs are hard to let go of. The truth hurts. Because lies hide our pain. They do. But I’m here for you. Decide if you want to confront your pains and obliterate them forever. There’s definitely a way. Source knows. That’s why I’m here, delivering to you, these loving messages. So, pick a side and stay tuned.

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Ever since this Union occurred, we could not be separated. We just couldn’t bear it and we found that we felt mutual about everything. It was the most ridiculously satisfying and dazzling experience to find that someone loves you exactly the same way that you love them. That you both want to spend every minute together. That you both can just make out forever, like teenagers in some kind ridiculous, infatuated puppy love trance. That you both just can’t leave the bed because you love pressing your bodies closely together and your very soul is telling you to just stay there, meshed in each other’s energy. Your body won’t even obey you. Separating takes quite a bit of preparation. Peeling yourselves away from each other, even just to stand up can seem like an impossible task when you’re in what I call heaven. A state of complete ecstasy and utter bliss, palpable throughout your entire being. Now, I know what it means to say “Love is in the air”. It’s a place, a vibration, a realm that you can reach. It’s crazy to discover that you both just want to stare into each other’s eyes. That you both are sharing in this state of heaven. Reaching higher, heavenly realms, simultaneously, together. I’ve invested a lot of time contemplating love and visualizing the best case scenario and yet, things happened in this Union that I had never experienced and did not even realize I was missing out on. I have spent months writing pages upon pages to gain momentum on thoughts of love and reach depths as great as I could, yet I never experienced this level of intimacy.

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I had never made love before, and I didn’t even know it. Discovering something through him, with him, well, it was more than special. More than amazing. A whole new world opened to me in those moments. A world that I had never even contemplated the existence of and it happened because it was special. It wasn’t special because it happened. Fate made it possible. From the beginning, I can see that now.

I thought I had done it all, but there was such great levels of intimacy that I had never even fathomed. I did come to realize that I could not hold eye contact with anyone during intimacy. I simply didn’t like to. I noticed that and I knew it was a result of a fear of intimacy. But, that was normal. “Normal” sex is enjoyable, but you aren’t having need to gaze deeply into the eyes of one another for that. You aren’t needing it to be tantric, sensual and to share a heavenly connection. Every minuscule amount of our consciousness was involved. He was the first person, not only that I noticed could look in the eye, but it evolved into enjoying gazing deeply into him and I would use it as a way to shower him in the reality of my love.  He could see me, seeing him, and in my gaze it is undeniable that I love him to his core, all reservations aside. No hesitation in me about it. It is the opposite. My gaze into him is thick with pure adoration. This was all new to me. And we were both awakened to enjoy it. The moments are cherished and savored. Awareness heightened and consciousness brought to a peak, not to miss a beat or a detail. To make even the slightest energy a full throttle experience. Every moment milked for all its beauty. Time stands still and means nothing. It does’t even exist. When we are in heaven, we are in 3D, but we are also somewhere else. In another realm. A realm that doesn’t exist in this dimension. You simply can’t get there without leaving the rest behind. Heaven, it is.

I never made love like that. It just happened, it was unexpected. I didn’t predict any of it. It wast something I had avoided. I thought I had made love before. I thought it was just integrated into the act, when you love someone. But I was in such awe, when we were in this experience and I even said to him, that I have never done this before. Awe and pleasant surprise is the best way I can describe it. It was such an all encompassing experience. I was like, wow, I have never done this before! Everything was so beyond perfect. I never knew that sex could be like this!  It made everything else seem so tiny, compared to the vast, blissful intensity of this. It was not even of this world. I describe it as conscious sex. Your body is so fully experiencing it. Every part of you is fully aware, reveling in happiness and closeness with your partner. But, the sex wasn’t it. It was just one way to experience. What really blew us away is what happened when we just lay down next to each other. We were making out like high school sweethearts. I have never enjoyed kissing so much! I had never even kissed like that. We didn’t want it to end.

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Before this, I remember kissing being decidedly short lived. Somewhere, in the moment, you’re in your head and you just want it to end. But here, with him, our hearts and bodies  fully entwined, yet never getting enough. We just kept on and we became enveloped in ecstasy. I mean, a physical, tangible, very real feeling throughout the entire body of intense bliss. Different from an orgasm or any feeling you get purely from sex or anything sexual. It was not short lived, either. It was literally like being in another dimension. One where you have to be in bliss to exist there. It was lasting, it was thick and intense and very, very real. We could not move from that spot and we surely didn’t want to. Every little touch felt like ripples of ecstasy throughout the whole body. Every caress yielding utter delight throughout. I felt all of my chakras glowing and charged in a warm, euphoric frenzy. My energy centers just lighting up, like no tomorrow. Like I had no body, not the one I knew. I felt all of the energy flowing through my entire body. It’s like somebody turned the endorphin gauge wayyy up and forgot to turn it back down. The bliss and ecstasy was just flowing abundantly and we were both feeling it. We were whispering softly in each other’s ears. Trying to figure out if we both felt it and confirming that we did. It was an out of this world experience.  I have been a serial monogamous, hopeless romantic my entire life and I have never known of any experience so celestial.

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Ever since then, we only leave each other to go to work. Before we were able to live together, we went to great lengths to see each other, daily. To greater lengths that would not even make sense for any other couple. But, we just wanted to be together and we felt better, even if our visit was short, or just enough time to sleep. That didn’t matter. We had to see each other  as often as possible. What would not have been feasible to a “Normal” relationship was necessity for us and still is. Only now, we live together. That just makes it easier. We followed our joy and doing that has brought us even more joy. We still savor every moment we have and romanticize about the time we get together. It is like a fairytale romance in 3D. We hurry home to see each other and we relish the days our work schedules allow us to sleep together.

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We are intimate very often, even if we aren’t planning on it, which is most of the time, we just end up getting swept up in it, even if we have very little time and we go for it. Because, we have decided to let love win. We really enjoy just laying next to each other and cuddling and gazing into each other. It’s one of our favorite things to do that we do several times a day, depending on if we are together, as opposed to at work. After being intimate, we always just lay together and gaze at each other afterward. Even if there is no sex, we love to lay and look at each other. It’s an activity for us, like watching a movie. We’re consciously dedicating loving energy towards each other. That’s always how we fall asleep. I even enjoy when there is only that and no sex, because there is still a knowing of mutual satisfaction in simply enjoying this dream come true that we have together.

Some things in life, you just want to ignore, but with him, I just want to take everything in. To be even more present. To dedicate to him even more of my complete awareness. It can never be enough. I always want to pay him more attention and enjoy him more…. I actually fear the day that we may have a child because I don’t want my attention taken from him. I love what we are able to share. The uninterrupted moments we have together. Being able to look into each other’s eyes and stay there, whispering sweet things for as long as we want to. I love the way his eyes smile when he tells me he loves me and my heart chakra gets a warm, fuzzy, glow. Telepathically confirming to me the energy in those words. Maybe I have been deprived my entire life. Maybe this Union isn’t so marvelous as I perceive it to be. Whatever the reason is that I cherish this Union so much, doesn’t matter. All I know is that our Union is lovely, full of harmony, laughter and desires fulfilled.. It’s a dream for us, and it’s real! Twin Flame, Twin Soul, Soulmate… Makes no difference to me. What we have is what we have, the experience is real and I don’t need to know why. It simply is. We simply are. For whatever reason, I we have been truly blessed with this gift of Perfect Union and we have both decided to keep the momentum going in this direction of love and harmony. The experience is what matters. Since the experience is here, we are making the very best of it.

Everything gets better with time, because we both want it to. We agree that what we have is special and worth preserving and making it as good as we can. We have no reservations, only love. We made a decision to go with our feelings and let love lead the way and we stick with it. Following our joy just leads us closer together and that is exactly how an Ideal Union occurs.

We are an Open Heart Union.

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I feel that sometimes, contrast is a very good way to demonstrate defining characteristics. So, I’m going to compare some opposite ends of the spectrum…

In most relationships, there is compromise. So much so, that people think it is a genuine necessity. Perhaps agreement is the necessity, and that comes much more easily with sameness. To be in Union is to be same. You are in agreement. When the combining occurs, the two things become one. They embrace and celebrate the sameness of their essences. This is what it is to “Meet your match”. This is why people are saying that they are sharing a soul with their “Twins”, because of the feeling of being so incredibly same. In a way that is unique to any other experience. In a way that has not been possible with any other. The resonance is tremendous! It is more than sharing the same interests, likes and dislikes, although, that is also the case. But, it’s more like, naturally being on the same page, all of the time. Naturally thinking the same thing on the same subjects and naturally being on the same frequency at times when there could easily be differences. Always having the same preferences and finding yourself rendezvousing in the vortex whenever you are together.

In my Union, it seems we are always thinking the same thing, or at least, agreeing on it. Even if one has a preference, the preference of the other may not be exact, but it also doesn’t conflict. As in, maybe we want to watch a movie. Maybe I know which specific movie I want to watch and he doesn’t, but his preference does’t conflict with mine.

To be same doesn’t mean you are a clone or an exact copy. You aren’t always doing the same things, having the exact same experiences, the same exact reactions to life and the same exact thoughts. That would be impossible. Each stream of consciousness is an individual. Only you look through your own set of eyes and only they look through theirs. Only your experience and your stream of consciousness is yours and only their experience and their stream of consciousness is theirs.

Because we each evolve, from unique perspectives, to be exactly the same as any other being is impossible, and creation designed it that way.

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To be same means you have found someone who is a very close vibrational match. A match that is remarkably similar and close to yours. Like two pizzas made from the same ingredients. They both came from the same source. Once there is a split from one into two, it is then two different things. Two streams of consciousness which endure two different experiences, lives, thoughts, desires and perspectives.  They are each a whole unit. But we long for that which is similar in vibration to us. This is natural.

The problem that I am witnessing with most relationships and with what the traditional Twin Flame community are identifying as Twin Flame relationships is that they are trying to attain Union with someone who is not actually same enough in vibration to come into union with. Not even same enough to come to agreement.  Not same enough to share the same desires and willingness to act upon them. Not same enough to be equally open hearted. Not same enough to agree to move forward without fear. Not realizing, all the while, that it can be so much easier when you simply meet your match! Someone who is similar in reality, not just in your head. What you see is what you get. If you want different things, it means the two of you are just that different.

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The perfect vibrational match or, the closest vibration match would have a natural, automatic resonance and harmony with you.  Being together would be the easiest thing in the world. Which means, they would not be running away from you. There would not be this huge, back and forth tumultuous calamity of a relationship that causes thrashing about and screaming and fighting and begging and running and pleading and chasing. Harmony, resonance and sameness are all related. If Twin Flames truly shared the same soul, or even very close to it, the whole Twin Flame concept would not look like the running and chasing dynamic that the traditional Twin Flame template depicts. It simply defies Universal Law to say that your match is not agreeing with you or sharing your desires to be together. It’s a complete and total oxymoron. Not a paradox. An oxymoron. It does not coincide with what we know of Universal Laws and the way the Universe operates.

This dynamic has been made up by some painfully lovesick  romantic caught in the 3rd dimensional trap known as attachment. If you are lovesick over someone, idealizing over them, it is no wonder you would find solace in this concept. It’s the only concept can find solace in, without doing the necessary work. The real work. The very fact that traditional “Twins” feel they need to defend their Twin Flame romantic story lines is the evidence that they are insecure. That something is not right. They all get triggered when you challenge their title. Why is that? Why get triggered? Do you get triggered when someone challenges your name? No, because there’s nowhere to land with that. But challenging the Twin Flame story… it’s a trigger. What doe a trigger mean? It means something is unresolved in you. Think about that.

The Twin Flame story It gives these spiritual travelers something to hold onto. Some glimmer of romanticized hope.

For, it is better to be a hopeless romantic with a glimmer of hope, than a pathetic pile of sobbing, tearful, sorrow, with nowhere to turn and no story to explain themselves with.

To have a story about why you are in pain feels so much better than being in pain, and having no story as to why.

(I’ve been there, too.)

This is why you have to believe in the romantic, Traditional Twin Flame Template of running, chasing, and union in the end. Because, you have no other way to explain why you feel the way that you do. None.

Finding out where the pain is really coming from requires an ultimate truth that can only come from you. You don’t even have to know why you’re in pain, but you have to be able to stop blaming anything outside of yourself and take ownership. Know that you have choices and you’re actually in control.

“You don’t live on an iceberg. Go out and make a life” – My mom

The next step is loving yourself no matter how you show up. Loving and accepting the one who is in pain.

“I feel like crap today. Oh, well, that’s just how I am today and that’s ok. Hello, pain”

This concept is not new.  Spiritual teachers of awareness, such as, Elkhart Tolle, are teaching this very same concept and it’s not new to me either. Here is a post that I wrote in January, in the midst of my very painful Twin Flame experience.

THE REAL REASON BEHIND THE PAIN FOR YOUR TWIN FLAME

The problem is that this entire Twin Flame concept of sharing the same soul, keeps you attached to the outcome. Dependent upon something outside of yourself in order to have true happiness. In order to get what you really want. and that is why the vast majority of those who identify with the traditional Twin Flame template are so very unhappy and also not in Union. Because they are not attracting what they want. Attachment to the outcome repels the desired manifestation.

That’s Law of Attraction 2.0.

Traditional Twin Flamers who defend the Twin Flame story are fighting for something. Fighting for something outside of themselves and that’s simply no way to transcend.

The problem with the Traditional Twin Flame ideas is that they keep you married to attachment. The proof is in the pudding. There is no self proclaimed traditional Twin Flame follower out there who can feel truly fulfilled unless either A. their lover returns, or B. they move on. Most of them will choose A. because they don’t know how to do B. and they back it up with the Traditional Twin Flame storyline. But what has this gotten you? I know you’re all in pain. That is the reason you’re reading this..

But, there is hope. You’re seeking it,  and it has nothing to do with your Twin Flame

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Sameness of vibration/soul is the belief of the traditional Twin Flame followers, but sameness yields harmony and resonance. Not the opposite! So, it is impossible that one can meet their truest vibrational match and be repelled. This logic defies the Universal Laws of Attraction!

It is possible for a catalytic Twin Flame to become a Harmonious Soulmate relationship, if that person truly is a close vibrational match, the evolution inspired by the meeting would bring you back together, but you cannot hang onto the chance of this possibility as almost all of you are. In most cases, the Twin Flame that you are speaking of having reunion with is simply to inspire you to accelerated ascension and also, enhance desire. The universe wants you to use your wildest imagination to envision the best possible outcomes and that is what the catalytic Twin Flame inspires. Being brought to great desire helps you to attract the best possible outcome. But there is more to the process if you want to see any Union and especially a Harmonious Union. Attachment to a person or demanding a specific outcome from the Universe is not the point of it all. The Universe doesn’t care if you deny all other possibilities that the doorway of love and freedom can bring. The Universe does not respond to your demands or your perseverance or pleas. The Universe responds to your ability to embody higher vibrations, to be authentic, open hearted and to have faith in the great plan that is in store for you.

If you know anything, and if you are not so attached to the idea of Twins sharing a soul that you cannot possibly consider any other idea, this just makes sense. I’m an experienced, professional and well studied soul reader. Well studied in soul traits and identification and an expert in the Law of Attraction from all angles. I have been working with a TON of Soul Mates and “Twin Flames” but it doesn’t take a romantic scientist to see that two people who harmonize well and have resonance with each other do so because they are actually SIMILAR! People who click are on the same vibrational page. It can be no other way! If you don’t click, you do not share similar enough core qualities. The differences are too great. Period. This is Universal Law. Don’t listen to the psychics who all want to tell you what you want to hear. That “confirmation” means nothing. You know how many people in the Twin Flame communities that I could get to tell me that someone is my Twin flame, if I really wanted it? All of them! It’s already happened. They make their assumptions whether I am asking or not! Everyone in the Twin Flame community wants to tell you to “hold on” But that’s attachment.

 They can form whatever opinion they want. They can tell you not to give up on your “Twin Flame” or not, but the TRUTH?…. THEY DON’T KNOW! Twin Flames come and they go. Even the Twin Flames get confused about it!

There is no such thing as missing out on your one and only opportunity for completion. There is no such thing as being destined to reunite with the other half of your soul. That whole theory is very cool, but it invokes two things:

1. That you are incomplete

2. Attachment to something outside of yourself

This theory has it’s value along the path of evolution. But the only constant is change and you can’t “Hold on” forever.

 Do not use the opinions of other people who are stuck in attachment to back up your perpetuation of this nonexistent Twin Flame idea that makes no sense if you know anything about what causes energies to be attracted and repelled. Support holds no weight against truth.

At the very least, you should be seeking truth, not validation of the Twin Flame story, not confirmation of your “Other half”. Truth.

Without truth, love is actually shielded.

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A Twin Flame is a soulmate catalyst that triggers a great amount of growth and inspires enormous depths of passion within you. A Twin Flame is not the end all, be all of you and you are not at the mercy of your Twin Flame’s willingness to surrender to you or to the Universe. There is no such thing as only having one option or one other half in a limitless Universe.

I am saying this because there are many people who believe this, and they will push it on you. Their sanity depends upon having a story for their pain to stand on. I am simply asking that you make sure that you are applying your knowledge on Universal Law and that you take in all of the data that you can, before you get stuck in a theory that puts so many people on a treadmill to nowhere.

This theory has served us well, but it can’t take us all the way. This is the way many spiritual teachings are designed. To meet you where you are. It is time to move beyond this.

You cannot become a master of any one thing if you do not pull from a larger pool of knowledge that goes beyond that one thing.

The only reason I have succeeded in the flesh, in my life, in attracting my Union and the only reason that I know what I know and have the ability to pull more and more advanced teachings and put the pieces together is because I am fully willing to learn. Even if evolution means leaving old ideas behind. If you want to achieve, you have to be willing to let the Universe give you new information.

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I used to be in a space that said that nobody outside of yourself could tell you if someone was your Twin Flame or not. I actually  refer to the whole thing as a Twin Flame experience because many people could be having the Twin Flame experience, whether it is actually a close match or not. I noticed that when I was working with these soulmate “Twin” chasers and runners who were coming to me. They were having the Twin Flame experience, but it definitely wasn’t with a “Twin” Soul. I realized, that by the traditional Twin Flame description of sharing the “same soul”, that made it easy to root out the definite energetic mismatches. It’s just so blatantly obvious when two souls do not share the same core essence or when the energetic traits are very different. It would make me think to myself, no wonder there is a problem in the “Union”. There always will be, because you two are not similar. Yet, the experience was real. It’s an experience. The purpose is growth.

The traditional ideology is that the Twin Flame as an Ultimate Union, but, the only problem with that is how often these Twin Flames remain stuck on the Twin Flame treadmill, by themselves, year after long and painstakingly lonely year?

A Union is a Union. A Twin Flame is a Twin Flame. A Soulmate is a Soulmate. Stop trying to make the transition from Twin Flame into Union and just take the lesson! You have no other choice! You can’t change their mind. You can’t force anything into being. You can learn the hard way, or you can learn the easy way. That’s the only choice you have.

You will learn. But how much pain will it take?

”Go or be dragged” – Amazing Yoga

If Reunion is going to occur, don’t worry you won’t miss it. Nothing could make you miss it…except yourself.

Stop trying to arrange your fate. That’s the job of the Universe. YOUR job is to learn to love.

 Love yourself, love others and love your life. Stop wanting things to be different. Follow your joy in the ways that you are able to. Not only is that all you can do, it’s enough. Not only is it enough, it’s all you can do.

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Listen to energetic reason. The one who is naturally same, doesn’t have to be forced, persuaded, coerced   chased, or gradually negotiated into compromise. The very root of disagreement in any form is difference in opinion or desire, which is simply an extension of differences in the soul itself. If you are having a very large discord with someone, such as, “ I want a relationship with you, but you don’t want a relationship with me.” that person cannot possibly be the same soul that you are. It simply would not happen with someone who is the same that you are. Someone who shares your exact traits and makeup at the core, would be agree with you and they would be more than willing.

Don’t even start with the excuses. Excuses don’t exist in an Open Heart Union.

People who drift apart over time do so because as they evolve into more authentic versions of themselves, they realize that they are with someone who is actually very different from them.

The opposite is also true. People who are the same at their core will grow closer as they evolve into their most authentic versions of themselves.

That is what it is like to be in Union with your Ideal Soulmate. You grow closer. 

The more authentic you become, the more it brings you together. That’s how you know if you are same at your core.

When you find this person, there is no chasing, there is no running, there is only recognition. The resonance is so strong that there is simply no other way. No turning back. You KNOW when you are dealing with your match because you merge. This is simply how the Laws of Attraction work.

Same =Resonance=Harmony= Merging=Union

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If there is not mutual recognition, then there is a noticeable difference at core essence that makes being apart a more appealing option than being together. Once the core match is found, there is a mutual clarity and understanding of togetherness being priority. There is no excuse in existence that would be convincing enough to separate either of you from your perfect Union, once recognized. By definition, an Ideal Union is when you are SAME.  On the same page, on the same frequency, on the same vibration, which means you will easily agree. An Ideal Union cannot be in the past, otherwise, it obviously wasn’t Ideal. An Ideal Union is in the present and Harmonious, like heaven on Earth. Following your joys bring you closer, not farther. Some of you are receiving the message that Heaven on Earth is what this ascension process is aiming to achieve. These Open Heart Unions are simply a manifestation of that collaborative agreement/effort to raise the vibration of the collective consciousness.

Here’s a math problem for you…

If there are 1 million un-united Twin Flames in the world and all of them learned how to attract an Open Heart Union to themselves, how much would that raise the vibration of the collective consciousness?

It is impossible to share exactly the same soul. A soul is not a thing that can be divided into two. Once it becomes two, it is two different things. We are all one, we are all same, because we all come from one source and we are all extensions of that same source. So, we are all Twin Flames, but, on the level that we are speaking,

A soul is simply a stream of consciousness. If a stream of consciousness were to split into two, it then would become two different streams of consciousness. Two different perspectives  two different bodies, two different experiences, two different reactions, two entirely different worlds. So, the fact that you are looking at someone through your own set of eyes and not theirs, makes you different, NOT same.

However, what we are looking for in an Ideal Soulmate Union is someone who is very similar to us, energetically. Now, that can be achieved. It is possible to find someone who thinks on the same level as you, agrees with you,  shares your viewpoints, interests and likes your ideas. It is possible to find someone to share a mutual love relationship that is full of resonance and harmony. That is possible. So, when I say “same”, I am saying similar, or very, very similar energetic vibration.

Majority of the people who come to me for readings are remarkably different. The fact that they are in separation physically, mentally or emotionally is the evidence.

This is not about being right or wrong. There’s really nothing “wrong” about the traditional story. But the traditional story is not expansive enough. If it keeps you locked into attachment and causes you more pain than joy, you miss the point of the entire scene. If you feel like Union comes from the manifestation of “The one”, you aren’t focusing inward, you are focusing outward, to them. But they cannot help you. They are only a manifestation of your current state.

If you feel like something is missing, or like you can’t have what you truly want or that what you truly want is in the future, you will be right. It will never be manifested in your NOW moment.

Most of my clients miss the point that this is ALL ABOUT THEM. Not about the other person.

And they don’t want to hear that.

They want me to tell them the future about reunion. They want me to confirm the connection. They want to know more about what the other person is doing than about the inner work.

Don’t let the story distract you from the reason that your catalyst came to you.

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Ideal Union is so easy when you’re experiencing it. It feels like the most natural thing in the world and once you find it, you have no idea how it took so long to find it and how on Earth you came to know so many issues with others in the past. We all know that harmony is possible. That finding and equal soul to come into Union with is possible and it makes sense to us that it has to be out there. I remember having this thought over and over, so many times, even years before it came into my reality. It makes more sense in every way, to be in harmony than it does to be in disharmony, but you still have to find a way to come into harmony with harmony!! You still have to match the vibration in order to align with it and manifest it in 3D. You have to come into harmony with the self. All things outside the self aside. It is possible for all. There is no-one but you. You are the only missing piece.  I always knew, for sure, that there had to be somebody out there who was looking for me, exactly, in every way. I knew that there was someone out there who would feel like they hit the jackpot with me and would do anything for me. The same is true for everyone else! You have a match, and you can attract it. It all depends upon you.

This is quite possibly where the phrase “Till death do you part” comes from. Because this is how it feels when you meet your match, and it’s mutual. That you will be venturing through all eternities and realms together, because in each other, you have found your “perfect” match. A place called home. A home that exists no where else and home is where the heart is.

The Traditional Twin Flame Concept is a metaphor for the truth of Unity, Oneness and Love. The truth that we all are of the same and that we come from the same source. We are all united in this unified universe. I am your Twin Flame and thank you for being mine. My catalyst, my reason, my mission, my motivation and my inspiration and my purpose for continuing on in my expression of love.

Here are some videos from credible sources that support all of the above that I have just mentioned. Matt Kahn teaches from an emotional standpoint. Teal Swan explains the Technical view and Larissa Roberts confronts the truth of the Metaphor and the purpose of the Twin Flame experience. Enjoy.

TEAL SWAN, ON TWIN FLAMES

                           TEAL SWAN, DO TWIN FLAMES EXIST? <- Go to 16:14

LARISSA ROBERTS, ON TWIN FLAMES

MATT KAHN, ON TWIN FLAMES

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 There is more information to cover on this subject. For instance, based on what I said regarding the Law of Attraction, then why would one attract someone and then repel them? Or, why would one attract anyone at all, if they aren’t close enough in vibration to have harmony with? This goes back to attracting based on the vibrations within yourself which need to be resolved and that is something which I have already covered.

Here is the Link -> ALIGNING WITH THE VIBRATION OF THE IDEAL SOULMATE UNION

Hi, this is Elise<3…

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OPEN HEART UNIONS

I have been conducting Twin Flame and Soulmate readings for you all, for many months now…

I have the ability to point out the blocks in your energetic patterning that need to be resolved before your Perfect, Ideal Soulmate Union can occur.

I need only a picture of you in order to perform this reading. The reading includes detailed instruction, tailored to your specific needs and guidance to explain exactly what it is that you must resolve and how to go about in doing so.

I am still offering TwinFlame/Soulmate Readings.

But ALL of you who come to me are desiring an Ideal Union/Open Heart Union

This requires you to identify and resolve the misaligned energies within yourself.

Call the reading what you will, but all who come to receive readings from me will be informed of what is blocking you from your Perfect Union and what you must do in order to resolve and come into alignment with your Open Heart Union.

I have already resolved and completed my transition, which has resulted in my very own Unification With My Ideal Soulmate in the 3rd dimension.

This is what I want for all of you.

63c4fffe9454ab29bbaa6792cbb9d81dI am not supporting the idea of attachment. That is not what resolution is about. It’s not about a means to an end. A pot of gold at the end of the rainbow. However, Ideal Union does occur as a result of resolving the self and coming into union with the self, but, if that is the goal, that is a block in itself.

My approach is via open heartedness, which means becoming more familiar with your authentic self and embodying 100% authentic self expression. For all of you, authentic self expression equals love. Love for the self and love for others without reservations, expectations or attachments to outcome. Anything not of love is a result of fear and is not of you.

I am now, solely teaching advanced concepts. I expect my clients to be well informed and completely dedicated to the cause. Otherwise, you will miss everything I have said to you.

My mission is to assist in the growth of each individual into love, for the good of all.

My clients must be those who are up to speed enough to benefit from my assistance.

Before contacting me, please understand that this is all about you.

Your soulmate is simply a reflection.

When you change yourself, you change the reflection.

With Great Love <3

You are all my Twin Flame. Thank you.

At this point, my blog is very comprehensive, with over 70 posts on this subject and my life experience is a testimony that whatever I am doing, it works, because it has lead me into manifesting my greatest desire. If there is something that does not make sense to you, it is either because you are not ready for the information, you are not fully understanding  due to a block, (I notice that when people want to “Hold on” to an idea, they do not fully take in the information and they also misinterpret, completely. This is a block, due to not wanting to change the mind about a current standpoint) or because there are many other pieces of the puzzle that need to fill in before you can reach this point. It’s simply a journey and my intention whoever does come across this information benefits.

I have many, many other helpful posts and many of them have nothing to do with Redefining Twin Flames. Many of my posts do align with traditional concepts, so, It’s likely that no matter where you stand, I have something that can meet you where you are. Please contact me if you are looking for any information. Perhaps I can provide you with links to previous entries I have completed.

My Mission is service, via Truth and Love. My Courage is my Testimony. My work is my Seal.

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Twin Flame 2.0 ; Twin Flames Redefined

Twin Flame 2.0 ; Twin Flames Redefined

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MATT KAHN, TWIN FLAMES REDEFINED

Please watch the ^^ above  ^^ video, before moving on with this message, as this is what this post will be referencing. BTW, many of you who are pushing against this video, ADMITTEDLY, have not watched it in it’s entirety. I am sorry, but you’re not allowed to have an opinion on a video of which you are not fully informed on the contents. That’s just reason speaking 🙂  

Channeled via Unity Consciousness. This is a Unified Universe and we are all in this together

“The reason I’m an expert is because I favor solution more than I favor my own beliefs. My mind is fluid and unconfined. My previous beliefs don’t hold me back because I know there’s always more to learn and if I’m not manifesting, I’m not doing it right. Considering new ideas in order to resolve is way more interesting to me than defending something that isn’t manifesting what I want in my reality. If I’m preaching, it’s because I know for a fact that if you master what I’m telling you, you’d create the real life, 3 dimensional result, In form, see it, touch it, taste it, reality!!”

-Elise

I am not going easy on you guys anymore. I have been steadily preparing for this shift for some time now. Guided by the source that I know and trust. Introducing more and more controversial information and gathering up people who are having experiences that are leading them to understand this. Pushing you guys to new heights of possibility  I was preparing for this, WAY before I had any idea that this video was coming out to support me. This is happening.

Embrace the change.

If you are not enjoying the full blown manifestation of your desire, you may as well try on some new ideas because what you’re currently doing isn’t working.

I have chosen to be on the leading edge of thought. To be a pioneer of ideas and between my natural need to be authentic and the conditioning that the Universe offered me, I am 100% courageous and good for the job. Just remember, I am here to serve, led by my guidance, inspiration and supported by strings of synchronicities that act as testimonies in 3D. My messages are for those who find benefit from them. All others may simply ignore.

“Being a pioneer sounds glamorous, but in reality, new information is often vehemently opposed. However, it is our duty to deliver, anyway. I am delighted to see so many Ideal Unions now, popping up. These people are coming to the same understandings as I am being given.”

-Elise

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I will always write from my heart, no matter how controversial the subject matter may be. This is just an example of what it means to be Open Hearted. To pour your heart authentically, no matter what judgement may await from others. Open your heart and allow the love to flow, no matter what. This is the ultimate transformation that the Twin Flame experience is pushing us towards.

“You Are Fulfilled By The Love That You Give”

-Matt Kahn

This is the Core of the act of being Open Hearted. You are inspired to love and you allow it to be channeled through you, to whatever direction or form it wants to take. You give this love in full knowing that it may be rejected. You are not doing it in order to generate a positive response, rather, you are giving it because you are inspired to it and it feels so good to let the love flow as to desires to, all reservations, fears and second thoughts aside. The result has nothing to do with it at all. Open Heartedness. That’s what this is about.

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Open Heartedness = Resolve

When you are resolved, you will attract a person who, instead of reflecting your blocks to you, they reflect what has been resolved.

The Core of all of my teachings is Open Heartedness. This is the message that I am focusing on getting across and encouraging to all. If you watch Matt Kahn’s video, you will see that he is teaching the very same thing. Matt Kahn has a very limited number of videos and I never found anything from him regarding Twin Flames, so, when his video came out regarding Twin Flames, I was ecstatic because his teachings are VERY ADVANCED and I wanted his perspective because, although my guidance is strong enough that I don’t need anyone to agree with me, I know I have been teaching controversial ideas regarding Soulmates and Twin Flames, and I felt somewhat alone in this. As it turns out, his transmission was much, much more controversial and upsetting to the mainstream Twin Flame Community than even what I had been easing into my posts. Although, I am quite relieved that my understandings that my path has lead me to are in alignment with his.

I believe every word that came through him. Not because it came from his mouth, but because it makes perfect sense and he explains all the traits of Twin Flames and he identifies the reasoning behind it. If you are able to see this video without interference from your ego or attachment to preconceived ideas, you too, will see that it makes sense.

His teachings are all very advanced, so if it does not resonate with you, perhaps it is simply not the right time. No sense getting bothered about it.

My teachings are in alignment with Matt Kahn’s teachings. We both use the terminology “Unity Consciousness” to identify what is being channeled through us and our explanation of it are the same. I discovered this through him, but my ways had already been established at that point. It just happened that way. Point being, if you don’t like or agree with Matt, you probably won’t find refuge in me, either. Let your guidance light your path. I am only here for those who   are lead to this information as part of their divine evolutionary path.

What is being presented here, is an entirely new way of looking at Twin Flames and Soulmates. I have heard many teachers, such as Abraham Hicks, Bashar and Teal Swan talk about Twin Flames and that they do not exist in the way that we have made them out to be, but I never came across an explanation this detailed. So, this information is pretty new and it will be difficult for many to accept, but, apparently, it is time to disclose it. We are currently witnessing MANY Ideal and Harmonious Unions taking place. They most certainly exist.

IF YOU ARE NOT OPEN TO THIS VERY DIFFERENT VIEW, STOP READING NOW. READ WHEN YOU ARE COMPLETELY FED UP WITH THE TWIN FLAME TREADMILL AND ARE READY AND OPEN TO MOVING INTO A COMPLETELY NEW PARADIGM SHIFT IN THIS AREA!

Shifting Into A New Twin Flame/Soulmate Paradigm

Here is the old paradigm/ Belief system regarding Twin Flames:

  • The Twin Flame is the other half of your soul
  • There are particular stages which occur that one can look for to explain the nature of the relationship. Such as the “Runner” and “Chaser” dynamic
  • Twin Flames will always come back together (Many adhere to this, but not all)
  • The connection will never die. You will always yearn for them on some level and nothing can break the connection.
  • They will always be your ultimate desire

The problem with this thinking that I have noticed for some time is that it does not empower you to become independent and whole and to move on. Believing that a person is the other half of your soul has a crutch-like effect. It keeps the 3D romanticized version alive and well. There is no right or wrong, but this version will not free you. This version will not assist you in becoming whole. At some point, you have to believe this because attachment is necessary for pain to take place and it is part of the process in order to pinpoint what needs to be resolved and for the transformation to be possible. But, at some point, it is time to move on from the romanticized version. It is time to get off the Twin Flame treadmill and cover new ground. You cannot reach your peak of resolution of blocks if you keep wanting something outside of yourself. Especially, something that is showing you that does not want you, run to you, adhere to you and treat you like the divine being that you are. It’s just that simple. Wanting something that does not want you is an indication of things unresolved within yourself. As Matt states in his video, A master can love from a distance. Chemistry, love, desire and magnetism have no bearing when it comes to realizing that someone simply is not good for you. And, how do you know if someone is not good for you? Because they are not valuing you, loving you and treating you with all the love and adoration and respect that you are so divinely entitled to.

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I really like you. Our chemistry is amazing. I love you. But, you are not good for me.

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To be able to come to this is a self loving action. The question is, are you able to do this? The great majority of you are chasing something that is not chasing you. Valuing something that is not valuing you and wanting something that is not wanting you. It is even more than becoming whole so that you don’t want that anymore. The very instant that you come into the vibration of self love to the degree which is balanced, you will no longer want something that has shown you it doesn’t want you. You’ll no longer be chasing, strategizing and dying over something that simply isn’t reciprocating your devotion. It’s not just an action, its a complete vibrational standpoint. Many of you are saying the words and backing off, but it’s not what is truly in your heart. Your heart still holds on. Take note that taking the action, but not fully lining up with it will not yield the transformation needed to attract Harmonious Union.

Stop lying to yourself. Stop kidding yourself. Mutual love and recognition is unmistakable, and if you aren’t within a Harmonious Union, it’s not 100% mutual. So, stop making excuses for your Twin Flame. Look, I did it too. I have already been through ALL of this Twin Flame Ascension, pain-in-the -butt process, so I’m not making this shit up. I lived it. I experienced all the pain, fully, and I am telling you what works. The laws of the Universe work for everyone, just the same, which means, if you do what I did, you will attract a Harmonious Union. Vibration is vibration. I did what it took to resolve my issues and the proof is in the pudding! I am giving you the answers to manifest your desire in the 3D. I was teaching this BEFORE I manifested an Ideal Union in my own life and I am teaching it now, because the Universe is providing more and more tangible evidence that this stuff here, is on the right track to joy. It just so happens that Matt is teaching it too. This is a HUGE time for this. More and more Harmonious Unions are popping up. This is a time of Accelerated Ascension and that is why this information is coming up NOW!

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There is no difference between your vibration and what you are manifesting. A person who loves themselves does not accept people in their lives who do not demonstrate mutual love. It simply is not an acceptable part of their experience. Yes, you will say, “I love myself”, but point blank, if you are manifesting a Twin Flame runner, there is more work to be done and there’s nothing wrong with that. But ownership comes before change, so own up to it.

Ego is the negotiator. Ego is what makes excuses for a person and asks “What can I do in order to be accepted by you?” “How can I make this work?” “How can I ease my way into this relationship?”. When you are loved, you don’t have to negotiate in order to get it. There’s no negotiation involved! So, quit. Stop messing around with the people who are not reflecting back to you your wholeness and value. That is actually the point of the Twin Flame experience! So, stop making excuses and get on with the joiner into wholeness! Wholeness needs no other. Wholeness does not negotiate or seek that which is running away! Wholeness attracts what comes and what comes, comes easily and effortlessly. That is what happens when you attract from a resolved vibration.

Here is the NEW Paradigm/Belief regarding Twin Flames:

  • Twin Flames are Tumultuous relationships
  • They can be anyone, romantic or not.
  • They push your toughest buttons and triggers
  • Twin Flames are catalytic relationships, their purpose is to cause you to grow rapidly
  • You will attract as many Twin Flames as are needed to resolve blocks within you. You can have MANY  Twin Flames in a Lifetime
  • “Every Ex is a Twin Flame” – Matt Kahn
  • They are not the other half of your soul. They are not more important than other catalysts or soul mates you could have.
  • They are not irreplaceable!
  • They are not meant to be your one and only ideal
  • Union is not the goal, evolution and moving beyond the restrictions reflected by the Twin Flame relationship is the goal

A Twin Flame is anyone who has acted as a catalyst for evolution for you in your life. Those who help you grow the most are the ones who cause you the most pain. Not the ones you experience Harmony with. People have been epitomizing Twin Flames a the Ultimate Union, but as it turns out, Twin Flames are not meant for Union or Harmony. They are meant to act as a trigger. They trigger disharmony and chaos, not harmony. This is why we all know our Twin Flames to be such a tumultuous experience. The point is growth, not union.

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Twin Flame Relationships can become Soulmate relationships. As in, it’s possible. This is where the idea of reunion comes from. Somewhere along the line, someone made a Harmonious Union out of a once, tumultuous union, and now, we are all hanging on the hope that we can do the same.

No matter if you are a Twin Flame or not, the point is always to become whole. So, all I’m saying, is if you hit a brick wall and you can’t make someone be with you because they aren’t allowing you to, go ahead and make a life where you’re being allowed to. What other choice is there?

You’re being shown the way.

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Soulmate Unions are the Unions that you attract once you have resolved what needs to be resolved within you. They just work. They are harmonious. They aren’t needy. They are those relationships that are ideal and don’t represent chaos. They come after the transformations that the Twin Flame experiences have triggered within you. The Twin Flame triggers resolution and the Soul Mate reflects back to you what has been resolved through all of your hard work. You just can’t get there if you are still heartbroken over your Twin.

There is some truth in the belief that Twin Flames must reunite. It is true that the catalytic relationships we endure are the predecessors to reunion. The other half of the story is that yes, we will be reunited in our harmonious, ideal relationship , but not necessarily with the specific person that we are thinking of. That person simply serves as a symbol to get our creative juices flowing. The desire inspired within us by the Twin Flame experience is simply to get us to dream and visualize and experience our greatest depths of desire, in order to more powerfully call fourth the manifestation of what we seek. The specifics are obsolete, because, in the end, the universe knows exactly what you want, and in the Harmonious Union that you truly desire, there will be nothing missing. It will be perfectly mutual. All the parts that were missing from the Twin Flame, which cause the discord between you are the details that will be filled in and granted within the Union that will come to satisfy, once one has become whole as a result of the growth that was sparked by the beloved Twin Flame.

If you are still attached to the idea of Twin Flames sharing a soul, or being two halves of one soul, here is yet, another reliable teacher, Teal Swan, offering her perspective, which is beyond 3D. Teal Swan is incarnated, but she actually coexists interactively with the spirit realm as she perceives both the physical and non-physical simultaneously. She was born with her awareness of herself before she incarnated here and therefore, has a broader, personal knowledge of the things that most humans forget, once incarnated.

TEAL SWAN, WHAT ARE TWIN FLAMES AND DO THEY EXIST?

I hope you enjoyed this message 🙂

With Great Love <3

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Survival Guide for Being A Misunderstood Empath In Matters of Love

Survival Guide for Being A Misunderstood Empath In Matters of Love

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Everything is a Channeled via Unity Consciousness. This is a Unified Universe.

All Twin Flames are Advanced Empaths, given the option to embrace it or not. When two people come together and they are at differing standpoints in their willingness to embrace their heart centered Empathic traits, there can be quite a rift.

The part of the Twin Flame Union that makes it worth thinking about are the desirable parts. The ideal parts. The magnetism, the love, the harmony. So, this is why I use verbs when referring to it. Twin Flame can mean different things to different people, as can anything else. I am only touching on the desirable parts. Think only of what you want in order to attract it…

I Love you with a Love that simply knows Love. A Love that doesn’t need, but knows. A Love that simply allows itself to be. A Love that doesn’t say “Yes”, or “No”. A Love that doesn’t push or pull. My Love never ceases to be. My love doesn’t know difficulty or obligation. I Love you with a Love that knows no sorrow, but is grateful. A Love that looks into your eyes and is delighted in you. A Love that looks into you with great attention and is overjoyed with the Love in your being. Because I Love you, I feel you so intensely, and I Love it. My Love is peaceful. My Love is easy, and I thank every star for you. I have never known such beauty. I never knew Love could be this easy. So good, that no-one believes it to be. But, you make me a believer. because of you, I know, that dreams are for real and come true.

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The first step is being a believer…

Being an Advanced Empath is a huge blessing. Everyone has this ability but few are aware and even fewer know how to use it to their advantage. As an empath, we sense truth. Because we feel energy and energy doesn’t lie. Therefore, it can be very unsettling when an empathic personality detects an energy that a person refuses to take ownership of, or admit to. For instance, when people deny their true feelings. It happens all of the time, for different reasons. Whether for deceptive purposes, protective purposes or because the ego is shielding the knowledge of the truth. An empath will feel very uneasy when his is occurring.

“When I met the person that I am now in Harmonious/Ideal Union with (Yes, our Union is still Harmonious and more so every day!), neither of us had knowledge of what it would become. I am an excellent perceiver and I had no idea. Now, I know that the Universe kept this knowledge from me on purpose because, I had some habitual tendencies and beliefs around dating that would have made the Union impossible if I had known. Because the Universe only gave me what I needed, and not the whole picture, it all unfolded absolutely perfectly. I did the same thing that I always do, I followed my guidance all the way, and I pointed out to him blocks that I saw. He did not seem to change instantaneously, but I didn’t give it much thought or resistance and turns out, he did change. Without this process that occurred before our Union, he would not have undergone those changes that were blocking our union in the time that he did. Had I known fully, the reason I was working to unblock his energy, at the very least, I would have been anxious and presented resistance to the Union. So, you see, nothing is ever wrong. It is always perfect, even if it doesn’t seem to be. Trust that it is. Trust that Harmonious Union Exists and that the Universe can bring it to you.”

-Elise

This happens quite often in romantic soulmate relationships. One of the lovers will give into the illusion of fear and desire to pull away from the other. It becomes a head over heart matter, where the decisions is void of heart and decided upon mentally. The empath which is more closely in tune with their guidance and emotions will feel the confusion in this and be torn, because what they are feeling from the other, does not match up with the action. The words and explanations do not align with what you know of this person’s heart.

 

What’s an Empath to do?

This is the part which represents that love is also freedom. There is no force. Just because you know where a person’s heart truly lies, that does not mean that you must coheres them to admit it. It is quite often that a person will not be ready to come to terms with the distance between their own heart and their own mind. People are not always ready to admit that their heart and mind are in battle. They, themselves are confused and cannot offer you clarity simply because that is what you desire. Your role is to be understanding of this and in all situations, use your empathic ability to guide you to knowing when a person is ready to receive your input and when they are not. As an Advanced Empath, if you are still enough to collaborate with your guidance on what is the best thing to say, your guidance will tell you what is a good idea to say and what is not. The difference is subtle, so, if you only pay some deliberate attention to the matter when you are getting ready to speak, you will receive answers. It can be difficult, but the difficulty comes from loving the person and respecting their needs more than your own agenda! Putting aside our own agenda is the most difficult part of the equation, but that is love and this is what an Advanced Empath does.  You will not be able to act based on what they need if your top focus is what you think you need, but what would help you to realize is that if you are not acting based on what your guidance is saying, your efforts will be in vain, anyways. As an Advanced Empath, The Universe asks you to pays attention to others and responds accordingly. Otherwise, you are not utilizing your Empathic resources to the best of your ability. To be empathic means to feel what others are feeling, but what good is this if you pay no attention and fail to act in accordance with what you pick up on? It is not up to you to force learning. You cannot do this, even if you try. In fact, the more that you push the matter, the more that the other person is likely to push your agenda away. Quite often, then best way to go about it is to express what you are feeling and if they disagree, let them. Your guidance will give you the specifics in each situation that you are seeking guidance on. Trust, listen, and it will come in the moment.

Instead of flowing based on the need to have your agenda fulfilled and then feeling rejected or misunderstood in the end, the whole gyration of that could be avoided if you simply live by this and follow your guidance first.

You will not be put in this position of being so misunderstood if you are first, making this genuine effort to understand the energies coming through, that you are perceiving. You will instead, know what to do and what is likely to come of it. Clear your mind and pay attention to guidance.

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In the end, paying good attention to your guidance is always what will get you ahead. The Universe cannot give you the entire picture, otherwise, you would have it already. But, there is an entire picture and your guidance leads you with the knowledge of the entire picture. You are to come into greater and greater awareness of your guidance so that you may learn to utilize it more and more. That is how this works. The Universe will not give you something for no reason. Therefore, the Universe will not give you awareness or knowledge that you have not demonstrated that you will use. You must demonstrate incrementally, your ability to utilize your guidance system, in order to gain greater and greater access to it. Your Guidance system is the same as your Empathic Ability. It comes through the same way. “Guidance” becomes “Ability” when you ascertain higher levels keen awareness.

Because a Harmonious/Ideal Union is perfect, by definition, it is only possible once you reach a certain level of awareness and utilization of your guidance. The desired effect is individually chosen. Ego is also a factor that must diminish quite a bit. At least, to a level that you are able to listen to your guidance, in lieu of proving a point. There are just certain things that must already be in place in order for a Harmonious Union to occur. Not to be making anything “less” or “more” but gradients must be used for the sake of explanation in this realm. But remember, that you actually are the one who has chosen the level of mastery that you want to become. There are a great many variations of energies that a being can have. Some personalities are meant to be strong, it is good, and just because you have not come into your union yet, does not make you less or more. It is your journey. Great souls will choose to have a lot of “Straightening out” before they enter into union. It is those strong traits like stubbornness, courage, love and authenticity that require fine tuning to be their best representation. So, do not ever see something as wrong with you. As soon as you begin having fun, you speed the way.

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Hi, this is Elise<3…
I have been conducting Twin Flame and Soulmate readings for you all, for many months now…

I have the ability to point out the blocks in your energetic patterning that need to be resolved before your Perfect, Ideal Soulmate Union can occur.

I need only a picture of you in order to perform this reading. The reading includes detailed instruction, tailored to your specific needs and guidance to explain exactly what it is that you must resolve and how to go about in doing so.

I am still offering TwinFlame/Soulmate Readings.

But ALL of you who come to me are desiring Unification with your Ideal Soulmate

So, call the reading what you will, but all who come to receive readings from me will be informed of what is blocking you from your Perfect Union and what you must do in order to resolve and come into alignment with your Perfect Soulmate Union.

I have already resolved and completed my transition, which has resulted in my very own Unification With My Ideal Soulmate in the 3rd dimension.

This is what I want for all of you.

Find Me on FB DanandElise OpenHeartUnions

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Understanding Chemical Reactions Between Beings and How This Pertains to YOUR Union

Understanding Chemical Reactions Between Beings and How This Pertains to YOUR Union

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Channeled via Unity consciousness. Because The universe has shit to say… And if you have no sense of humor, you have yet to take one on. Relax a little;) Don’t sweat.

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Really, words hold no meaning of their own. It is you who must interpret the energy behind them. The intention behind them. This is why you possess empathic traits to begin with! You use them to decipher truth! Because things are not always as they seem and you must learn to know the difference. Energy is subtle to a human from a three dimensional view, but you do not have to allow this to limit you. You are perfectly able to learn to be sensitive to the subtleties that exist around you at all times. Simply make that your intention. To always gain greater and greater awareness in order to take notice of the  subtleties to greater and greater degrees. If you do that, you will see that there is no such thing as limitation. You will learn that it is possible to see truth in all situations and you will never be blinded by words or appearances or fronts. Instead, you will see the truth behind it. Isn’t that what you want? To know the truth of all things? To be wise, instead of blinded? So, that is why the language here is free and expressive. Because you should be able to see through it. If you allow this to cloud your ability to hear the message, that is a fault of your own. True Masters do not cast judge met, and they teach the same. Release all judgement in order to see truth. For, Truth is what remains when all judgements are striped away. In all situations, that is what truth is.

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Does ^^she^^ look like someone who recognizes her divinity? Do you think she’s sweating the small stuff? Is she busy casting judgements upon herself and others? Happy people who recognize their divinity do not cloud their energies with judgements because it lowers your vibration, no matter what you are judgmental about. A Goddess energy is light, delightful, happy, and loving towards all things.

Colliding Energies…

Here, we will explain something that is related to the phenomenon of colliding energies between people, or beings. It is what it is and it is a good thing to take note of. Raise your awareness in this way and you will eliminate your need to collide with energies that simply do not suit you. It is you who decides when the lesson is learned. Not anyone else, and you decide by mastering it. So, hopefully, this will assist you in being the master that you are. The master in you that resides beneath all of the lies you have told yourself that hide the truth of your divinity from you. For, there is nothing but divinity. Even the lie is a divine role, but not one you cannot transcend simply by realizing your true, divine nature. Difficulties are not the only way to learn. You can also learn by simply cutting through the lies at a faster rate. Seeing your divinity is an act of self love. Reach a point where you can allow yourself access to that and you’re golden. There is no such thing as limitation. All limitations are created by your choosing and therefore, can be bypassed, by your choosing as well. Think about it 😉 Simply intend it and continue to intend in that way. You are so very much loved beyond any description, and you have access to this divine, ever present and all encompassing love at all times.  Know that. You are love. Read on…

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When two bodies come together, the energy that they create when they collide is like a chemical reaction, the result is very important. There is a chemical reaction, energetically speaking,  taking place and you must be observant of it if you want to be a help to yourself and to others who are also seeking evolution. You see, there are always things to be learned, but there are ways to learn them at a faster pace. There is no block you cannot overcome faster and nothing you cannot realize faster. This is a Universe of limitless possibility. Do not argue for your limitations. In doing so, you are only feeding your own illusion. Feed the reality that you want to become.

We are coming to you tonight to insist that you insist that those whom you collide with are generating good responses from you. Not that it is your fault, or their fault, but the energy that is yielded can either be more easily good or more easily bad. It is what it is.

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The result is the result is the result. When you meet a person, your energies will mesh, that which they elicit from you, whether it be good or bad, is not likely to change a great deal over the course of a lifetime. Whatever the dominant energy is, will likely snowball and become more, whether that is mostly good or mostly bad is the question. To put forth a great deal of effort in order to create a different chemical reaction between you is far more challenging than to simply let it be and move on until you find a person with which you naturally harmonize with. Even the act of trying so hard creates a negative tension. If there is a person, or people, that you can have great harmony with and not only that but great harmony completely easily and naturally, with no effort (effort, meaning in a negative sense. The word effort, representing difficulty in this case) then, why would you remain stuck “trying” so hard to create a harmony with a person when it is not happening naturally? This happens so often, on your planet, that most of you are under the impression that harmonious unions do not happen naturally and that love is meant to be hard.   Love is completely natural. The universe wants you to experience all versions of love, in all ways possible. But what you do not realize is how incredibly abundant love actually is!! That harmonious Unions can totally happen on their own and be a cinch! This is why, when you find a love, you hold on for dear life!! You create balls and chains, and you fight very hard to make things work. But this is not how things are designed to work. Love is love, but it does not mean that is all there is. There is always more. As in, everything is meant to be easy. Everyone is meant to follow their joy and to flow downstream, easily with the current. Difficulty is not the way that the Universe functions and it is not the divine way. That does not mean that any choice is wrong. Nothing is ever wrong, that is why you have access to all choices, but we know that ease is actually your preference, because you are divine and you subliminally realize that the divine’s preference is ease and flow. That is what’s natural!! So, do not find a love that represents difficulty and hold on for dear life, as if the Universe could not offer you something that would be even a far greater representation of what is ideal for you. Do you understand? That action does not represent love, wisdom, knowing or trust in divine abundance of love. Religion has a few things right. One of them is, that you are being cared for, if you will only trust, or, as you have coined it, faith. Demonstration of faith is synonymous with realizing the true divine nature of yourself and of all. It is beyond the 3rd dimensional perspective and that is part of the challenge of this place that you chose to take part in. To see if you could slice through the illusions of this place and create your reality based on your inner knowing of the divinity of all that is.

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Love is not scarce in this Universe, by any means.

Love is actually, the most abundant energetic matter in existence.

Love surrounds all, at all times. Anything in existence which does not take part in this is simply pinching off their connection to love. That does not mean love is not abundant.

It is the same way that you could be submerged inside an ocean of water, but simultaneously refuse to drink. 

Your choice to refuse yourself water is not a representation of lack. It is a representation of your state of being. You can always choose to drink at any time. 

However, it does require  fundamental awareness of this reality that we speak of. Of the infinite abundance of love in all that is. It requires a level of knowing, because you cannot see love with your eyes that you possess here, in this plain of existence. However, you can still know it and experience the reality of it for yourself, in this life that you exist within now, regardless of your perceptions of your current circumstances.

Have you not heard? Circumstances don’t matter. Only state of being matters.

To be more clear: State of being = Matter

It is your state of being which creates the matter and/or circumstance, not the other way around.

Sometimes, you do not realize or recognize the energy you used to attract your circumstance unto you, because your state of being is baseline. That is all you know. You don’t know the other ways there are to be. You have not the ability to see it from an outside view that is so different from your own.

You cannot conceive of something you have never conceived of.

That doesn’t mean you had nothing to do with it. It simply means that you didn’t realize the part you played in the creation of it.

So, here is the point. You cannot know what you do not know. Most of you have never experienced a Harmonious Union. A truly Harmonious Union. If you had, you would still be in it, because there would be no reason to end it. The harmony would be great enough to cause the both of you to overcome all obstacles to be together.  Harmony at that level is so very rare in comparison with all of the pairs which do not represent that level of harmony, and also, the joy that comes out of that is greater than the joy of anything else. This is why a truly Harmonious pair overcomes all in order to be together, without question. So, in your state of not knowing the heights of what you can attract, you hold onto something that is not the equivalent and your skewed perception sees it as a good thing. Perhaps in comparison with your fear of the unknown it is a good thing, but in comparison with having a Union which is Ideal, it is a bad thing. The entire time, not realizing that your state of holding onto something that you are not deserving of is what keeps you from that which you are deserving of. Some of you are not holding onto any person, but you are still keeping yourself from your union because you do not believe it exists for you. You say, in theory, that you know it exists, but if you truly knew it, you would be in a state of abundance of love, instead of abundance of lack. It is the state of doubt/abundance of lack which results in forms of sadness, loneliness, depression. You may attach whatever word you like to it, because it is all the same. In the end, whether you are attached to someone or simply “Married” to your lackful state of thinking, you are still not believing in the abundance of love of the Universe and that is the reason it does not yield itself to you. You’re in charge of what comes. Your knowing calls it forth.

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In layman’s terms: BE SURE OF YOURSELF!! YOU ARE THE DIVINE!!

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Simply put:

Do not settle for anything that is less than Ideal. Less than easy. Less than natural. Less than fun. Less than harmonious. Less than joy. 

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Harmonious Unions are easy. They happen naturally when your energies collide. It is the chemical reaction that comes out of the meshing of the energies and you find it easy to elicit positivity from the relationship.

This energetic reaction is the confirmation that it is meant to be. 

That it happens easily and naturally and mutually.

That is the confirmation that it is meant to be!

The Universe does not dangle carrots in front of you, only to have you eternally chasing after that which cannot be had. Ideal, Harmonious Unions DO exist, they can exist for you, in your life and this is something that anyone can attract for themselves.

*Just to be clear, the words “Ideal” and “Harmonious” are not labels, they are simply adjectives used here to describe that which you may give whatever name you like. Soulmate, Twin flame, husband, wife, partner, lover.

This is the way the Universe has designed it. Things are supposed to be easy for you. You are supposed to follow your joy and flow downstream, and nothing is supposed to be a fight. If you are fighting for something, you may need the fight, for your own reasons, but knowing the above, you could also choose to allow yourself to search for that which is led to you by your joy and represents ease.

”I have always said, When two people follow their joy and it leads them together, that is exactly what you want.”

-Elise

If following your joy leads you away from your partner or if them following their joy leads them away from you, that is not representative of something that is harmonious. A harmonious union is that in which the joy and the union are same. Following your joy leads you to each other.

This is also in alignment with what precedes the union…

Before you have met your partner, following your joy is what leads you to them. Once you have met, that rule does not change 😉

The Universe is set up so that you can follow your joy, your joy is the constant that connects all of the dots and synchronicities, leading you to all of your desires, expanding into more and more joy. If joy is what you desire, get in touch with your heart and follow it.

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Hi, this is Elise<3…
I have been conducting Twin Flame and Soulmate readings for you all, for many months now…

I have the ability to point out the blocks in your energetic patterning that need to be resolved before your Perfect, Ideal Soulmate Union can occur.

I need only a picture of you in order to perform this reading. The reading includes detailed instruction, tailored to your specific needs and guidance to explain exactly what it is that you must resolve and how to go about in doing so.

I am still offering TwinFlame/Soulmate Readings.

But ALL of you who come to me are desiring Unification with your Ideal Soulmate

So, call the reading what you will, but all who come to receive readings from me will be informed of what is blocking you from your Perfect Union and what you must do in order to resolve and come into alignment with your Perfect Soulmate Union.

I have already resolved and completed my transition, which has resulted in my very own Unification With My Ideal Soulmate in the 3rd dimension.

This is what I want for all of you.

Find Me on FB DanandElise OpenHeartUnions

~*THE FORMULA For Attracting The Ultimate Soulmate Union*~

~*THE FORMULA For Attracting The Ultimate Soulmate Union*~

“The Universe has a sense of humor.” -Elise

Channeled via the Universe, Bitches! =D

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This is the moment you’ve all been waiting for…

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Although the contents of this message have already been comprehensively relayed, it is sometimes easier to apply something more concisely written as a formula. So that is what will be offered here today. Steps one and two.

The Formula for Attracting an Ultimate Soulmate Union

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An equal description by words of your choosing, “Twin Flame”

The Twin Flame is epitomized and Idealized as an Ultimate Soulmate Union, so these are the types of words that we choose to describe such a lovely thing. Your description. Your idea. Just differently put. Don’t get so Twisted abut it 😉

So, Yes, there is a formula. As in, the following are directions as to explain exactly how you can attract a Harmonious Union that you would consider Ideal. It does not mean that it will come in the shape or form that you are expectant of at this point in time, but it means that once you do allow it to come into your experience, you would consider it Ideal and good for you. Which leads us to number one in the formula…

  1. Be expectant and hopeful, but in a general sort of way. Do not be looking around every corner, asking where your lover could be. For if you were having fun in your moment, your mind would be filled with other things and then the lover would show up unexpectedly. Like a pleasant surprise! So be hopeful in a general way, simply knowing that everything is always working out in your favor and it will be true for you. Also, DO NOT demand that the Universe MUST bring to you a specific person or a specific shape or form. This can and certainly will introduce resistance into the formula and block the manifestation altogether. If you met your lover and you are expecting blue eyes, but his are brown, you will never recognize him unless you decide that brown eyes are ok for a lover to have as well as blue. So, do not be needy, demanding or too specific in your requirements. Do not insult Creation. The Universe knows what it is doing and it is 100% capable of delivering your request as soon as you choose to line up with it.

When you have faith that you are receiving something, you do not feel the need to be demanding of it, or to be incessantly pondering the idea. The vibration of trust and knowing is a vibration of ease and fun and joy. Be That.

Your request to the Universe should look or feel something like this:

“I Know/Trust that you (The Universe) knows the whole package of my desire and everything it encompasses, to a degree that would knock my socks off and I trust that you will bring it to me either through a familiar/expected form or through some other form and that both would be equally pleasing.”

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Step Two: Open Heart

”True success is overcoming the fear of being unsuccessful.” – Paul Sweeny

What does it mean to be open hearted? It means that you always are authentic. You are always following through with your joy when it comes to expressing your love towards others. You are always letting your heart guide you in every moment in what to say or do, via text, email, messaging, word ext…  Without holding back your love out of fear and also not taking an action out of motivation to gain but only taking those actions that are truly inspired in you by your own heart. By your own guidance. Act on those inspirations Open-Heartedly without fail. Fully aware that you may “scare” the person away. Be ok with it, no matter what the outcome will be. Make your decisions to love because you desire to be authentic and to follow through with your inspiration. Not because you are trying to manipulate an outcome into the one that you are wishing for.

The one who is scared away by you is NOT the one!

The one who is “THE ONE” will be running to you and sticking to you like glue when you show yourself! There will be no question about it!

HE’S THE ONE!!!

Does acting in this way mean that the outcome will always be positive? YES

Does that mean that the lover will always stay? NO!

Trust the Universe. The One who runs away when you are authentic is not the one you want.

The outcome is always positive and here is why:

You are looking for your ideal match. Match, meaning vibrational match. Meaning, the person/soul who carries  a vibration that is closest to your own. Therefore, you can only attract that person when you are embodying your authentic vibration fully, in the physical. You must fully recognize and honor yourself in order to fully honor and recognize your “Twin” and to be recognized and honored by him/her.

YOU MUST BE AUTHENTIC

Since we are all divine love…

Authenticity = Open-Heartedness

They are the same.

NO HOLDING BACK

Holding back means you are not allowing yourself to be who you truly are 🙂

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Further explanation is required in order for you to fully understand why this formula is so efficient.

“If you want to know the truth, dive in head first” – Elise

When you are not being your authentic self, you will be attracted to mates who suit you in your current state. Reflecting back to you all that needs to be resolved within you. If you choose to simply be your authentic self from the get go, you would bypass all pain that is meant to force you to eventually discover who you are, AKA to become “whole”.

When you are being authentic, nothing but matching vibrations will stick. Suitors may come and go, but the ones who are not right for you will pass quickly and you will not waste months and years with them and you will not suffer so greatly.

On the flip side, when the right one comes along and you are being authentic, it will click and there will be no mistake about it.

Catalysts serve a purpose. The purpose is to reflect back to you that which needs to be resolved. The purpose of resolving issues is simply to rid yourself of all the untruths you have picked up, that are keeping you from embodying your core essence.

Embody your core essence and instead of attracting a catalyst who reflects all your garbage back to you, you can attract a mate who can reflect back the resolved version of yourself. Perfection.

If you simply choose to be your true, unadulterated self, there will be no need for you to experience agonizing catalytic events and the need for pain would be obsolete.

It really is that simple.

“Life is really simple, but we insist on making it complicated.” – Confucious

Do your work or the Universe will do it for you.

Pain is no longer necessary. It is simply an option. Evolution is inevitable, but pain does not have to be the way. You can go willingly or you can be dragged, but either way, we have all chosen to continuously grow and become.

You have options.

Go Willingly 🙂

And we can all live happily ever after.

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“The only way that we can live is if we grow. The only way that we can grow is if we change. The only way that we can change is if we learn. The only way that we can learn is if we are exposed. And the only way that we are exposed is if we throw ourselves into the open” – C. Joybell

Congratulations, We Are ALL Masters Now <3

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^^^ That’s the Formula^^^

THANK YOU <3

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Capturing/Aligning with the Vibration of the Ideal Soulmate Union

Capturing/Aligning with the Vibration of the Ideal Soulmate Union

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All of the messages here are channeled via Unity Consciousness. This is a Unified Universe and we are all in this together.

With love <3

Many of you do not know how this is supposed to go for you. You do not know what a good relationship feels like, because you have never had one. If you had, you’d still be in it and you would not be reading this! You would be with your lover! Talking with your lover in perfect harmony! But this does not happen because you do not know what to look for! You think it takes effort, when really, it is far less effort than you think. Really, it is no effort at all. You have been told many times and through many venues that love is supposed to be easy. How many ways can we convey this to you? But you still want to work hard in your relationships, hoping that will make them work and in the end, you can possibly gain some good from it, but never as much good as you could gain from joining with the energy that makes the union effortless and easy. You need to know what to look for. There are many people out there and it is so easy to see potential. You need to know that every second you are not within your union, you are preparing for it. That is what is happening. So, let the preparations begin! You need to know what to look for so that you are not settling. The longer that you are willing to settle, the longer that you postpone the union that you are really wanting to occur. So you see, the two are connected. Once you are not needing to settle, you are showing the Universe that you are ready for more. That you do not have anything more to learn from those other energies that are not serving you.

This process of experiencing relationships that are only leading to a more fulfilling relationship is necessary. The point is to work out the kinks in your energy so that when the right one comes along, you can recognize him. People come our way to assist in our process of evolution. Until you feel settled within yourself, you cannot attract a person to feel settled with. So, suitors come along to bring out energies in your field so that you can identify them and resolve them. When these energies are no longer in your field, you can then link up with someone who, instead of reflecting back what is unresolved within you, they reflect what is resolved within you.

So, what does that feel like?

We often fall for people who give us butterflies, make us nervous and jittery… But its too much work to be with someone who makes us nervous. It’s too much work wondering how much someone appreciates you, or notices your good points. It’s too much work wondering if they are going to call you tomorrow or change their mind about you. It’s too much work to be praying that they don’t see your flaws. It’s too much work wondering if  they think you are good enough for them.

The right person for you will not inspire you to walk on eggshells. Being with them will not cause you to feel self doubt, nervous and they will not make you feel insane. It will feel so natural to be with them that you will notice those types of thoughts just vanish. Instead of being more self doubt or nervousness, there will be less. being with them will be easy and effortless. This is the way it is designed to be and this way is consistent with the idea of following your joy, which is the path of least resistance. The path of least resistance is the easiest and most natural way to flow. It is the path that is inspired by joy and leads to more joy, every time.

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There are an infinite number of variables when it comes to the energies of relationships. The one thing that will always be true is that good relationships flow easily. Everyone has the ability to meet someone truly suited for them, it is simply a matter of being a vibrational match to that circumstance. Simply remember this. That the Universe is never asking you to settle. When someone comes into your life, go into it knowing that they might leave just as swiftly as they came and that, that would be ok because there is no lack, and losing them simply means another is on the way. Once you begin to embody an energy that doesn’t settle, you will attract a relationship that reflects that. In order to get there, you may have some evolving to do. As long as you remain hopeful and expectant, you will hit all of the points that you need to hit in order to get you to where you are wanting to go.

Here is what to look for in a relationship or potential relationship:

  • Look for interaction to happen easily and naturally. You’re not waiting on him, he isn’t waiting for you, there is an ease around communication.
  • You should not feel afraid. A person who inspires fear or unease is not going to be the best match.
  • Balance. The relationship should be mutual. Sometimes it can take some time to sync up, but for the most part, the balance will be pretty close to even.
  • There is no lack. You should not feel a sense of lack or that something you desire is not happening.
  • Peace. Being with the right person just feels peaceful. The opposite of nervous or anxious.
  • Everything should feel good and natural
  • It isn’t difficult to progress, progression happens naturally or with little effort.
  • Communication is easy and each party should feel content in giving honesty and that they are receiving honesty.
  • Supportive. Each partner should feel supported and feel that they can offer the same, energetically speaking.
  • Resonance. It should be easy to exchange ideas and see eye to eye.

This all seems pretty simple, doesn’t it? Well, yes, it is quite simple, yet most relationships aren’t characterized by the list above. Use this to help you gauge people out. If someone makes you nervous, if you feel like you need something they aren’t giving or you tend to hit a lot of snags in the relationship, this isn’t reflective of the best possible match for you. So, simply keep all this in mind and don’t cling to anything unnecessarily. It is important to know that there is no lack in the universe and there is no lack when it comes to providing the perfect partner for you. People come and go, but a lesson learned is a lesson learned. Let people come, offer their lessons and leave when they have served their purpose in your life. Relationships are meant to be good! Let go of the old to let in the new.

How do you know if it isn’t good?

Here is an easy way to tell. When it is truly good, there is no question about it. You would not even be asking the question “Is it good?”, “Is it good enough?” or “Is this what I want?” because the answer would be obvious. You would know, without having to question it. If you harbor doubt, then there is room for doubt. You do not doubt something that there is no doubt about. You see how that works?

Don’t settle. You know when you are. It isn’t necessary.

Demonstrate your trust in the Universe and your Ideal Soulmate will come.

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Love Revolution~ The Ideal Soulmate Union

Love Revolution~ The Ideal Soulmate Union

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The pictures really are what it feels like<3-Elise

Every message here is channeled via Unity Consciousness, which is love

Every Message here is a message of love

Written with great love and care

The Love Revolution is upon us. Did you know that it is possible to bypass all pain? Did you know that struggle is not necessary? Put your knowings aside and hear this. That everything that you suffer through is for the purpose of bringing you closer to wisdom and love. So, what if you choose to embrace love? Then, you do not need to struggle anymore. But you so often refuse to do it! You refuse! You use words like “risk” and “rejection”. All of those are only in your mind. If you choose only to love, then you will feel none of this. We want to teach you how. The time is now.

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Did you know that you can attract a union that is PERFECT and free of struggle and pain? Did you know that you can attract complete harmony to yourself and not bother with the rest? It is only you who makes it difficult. Because you refuse to let things go when they are wanting to go. Pain is caused when you are holding onto something that does not want to be there!!! That is why it hurts!! Because it is telling you to release it! Because it does not belong to you!! When something is perfect for you, when it belongs to you, it does not go away, it is yours, and it does not cause you pain. It is perfect. it is harmony. It is love.

But, in order to attract this, you must BE love. That is your greatest challenge, and most of you have yet to accomplish this. But we promise you, we promise on every star in the cosmos, that if you become fully, authentically, ferociously and courageously an open hearted being, you will attract your ideal soulmate to you and the union will be perfection. That is all that you must do. Do not sneer until you have tried it. Your rejection of the message is a manifestation of your unwillingness to be your own friend. To give love a try. To understand that rejection does not exist. To choose to embrace only love and to let the rest fall away.  Do you even know how to accomplish this? Of course you do not! To create such a great shift in your vibration, It happens over time. But it begins with an intention. You must FIRST intend to become this way.

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If you want a union that does not require struggle and pain, there is a way to do it.

Begin here, with the last few posts which have been posted in this blog, before the writer even fully understood the magnitude of what was being orchestrated here. This is a Love Revolution! Why? Because humans do not know how to love! They are mixed bags of energy containing this and that and everything else in between. Energies, thoughts and beliefs that you have simply adopted and picked up from your surroundings without using your conscious discernment. Well, now, the Earth is awakening and conscious discernment is being understood and used. Awareness is being cultivated and with awareness comes more choices for you. You are not at the mercy of old energies, thoughts and beliefs that you have picked up along your path by default. One by one, we will cast all of that out. Have you ever heard of the cliche, “it’s all in your head”? It is cliche because it is true. So true, that you have forgotten to even notice. That is what truth is. It is the obvious. So obvious, that it can be overlooked. Well, now, we are looking. Every single doubt and fear can be overcome. You have given these energies all sorts of names. You have called them Karma, or Fate, or Reality. But none of that is true. All reality is created by you. By what you deem as real. So, instead of doubting your infinite nature, embrace it. Instead of fearing, choose love. Instead of fearing rejection, understand that what is your will inevitably stick to you when you show your true self. Anything that does not stick to you when you are your true, open hearted, unadulterated self simply does not belong to you. Everything is movement. Things come and go. but you must show the universe that you are ready to receive what represents your authentic state of being. In order to attract those things that match your core essence perfectly, you must embody your core nature. You must be completely open hearted and ferociously authentic and courageously love. Love in faith, because you know what is yours will surely come to you. That is the key. Release all doubt.

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 Do not forget that this is a process. A quantum leap in vibration cannot be accomplished in only a day.

Working out all the little bugs and identifying all of those things that need to be resolved takes time and experience. Experience because you must see what the Universe is showing you that you need to resolve. The Universe brings you people and circumstances that represent your current energetic state. Those parts that need to be looked at. You can resolve it simply by behaving in a way that is representative of the new vibration that you are choosing to embody. If you can do that, the universe will test you, yes. But once you have truly proven that you are embodying an open hearted, authentic and fearless approach, no matter what, the Universe will have no more reason to test you and it must bring you what is rightfully yours. That is the process.

If you have not already read these posts and you are wanting to come into alignment with your Ideal Soulmate, you may read these articles which have paved the way for this topic. Simply go back. The right hand column contains the most recent posts which have paved the way for this Love Revolution that is occurring. This blog is full of information, from multiple viewpoints to assist you in resolving MAJOR energetic nuisances that you want to overcome. You may sift through and read what is needed. If you are experiencing pain, you may find those posts regarding pain to be helpful. Intend to embark on this journey and what you need will find you.

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Re-Prioritizing What You Need In A Soulmate…

Re-Prioritizing What You Need In A Soulmate…

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Is this about me being happy, or what??

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“This post led me directly into Union by way of assisting me to the ‘recognition’ that everything I wanted in a man was actually standing right before me. If you can check off all these 9 characteristics, you’ve got one heck of a match!!”

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Fireworks, overwhelming magnetic attraction, chemistry that keeps you feening for more, romance, passionate roller coaster rides, undying infatuation and obsession over an ideal that doesn’t exist, but just won’t quit.

It’s like the ultimate ride. Good, bad and everything in between, being inspired to deeper levels of love than you thought was humanly possible.. well, it just makes it hard to let go. It’s true, Intense connections are something we in inately long for, but they are truly hard to come by. Deep inside, we are all passionate creatures and we naturally want to be inspired to experience the greatest depths of love, beauty and connection… So, when we do experience it, we tend to hold onto it…

We are emotional creatures. Creative creatures, we are made from the fabric of love and we are drawn to the dreamy. The heart wants what the heart wants and when it calls, it is more than difficult to ignore. How can you ignore a feeling? How can you tune out the calling of your soul? The very tugging of your own heart, which knows no way to lie. There’s no way to ignore That which comes through you. In your body, in your mind, in your heart center. You can change a thought, ignore what’s infront of you, but you cannot ignore that which comes through you, the deepest cries of your soul…

Love and passion is more than an ideal thought, it’s a state of being. It’s the truth of who you are. It’s undeniable. It takes over. And under the right circumstances, it haunts you.

We fall so easily into the trap of wonderlands. We can be so intensely attracted to someone, that we overlook the most basic necessities.

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It’s like, we are so enraptured with our emotions, we don’t even see the blatant negativities that make us incompatible. We hold onto hopes and dreams so dearly, that we don’t even see the most obvious factors staring us in the face. Factors like, He’s just not into you. Factors like, there is no relationship here. Factors like, there’s no reciprocation, and it’s just not mutual. Excuses, excuses. The hardest part to overcome is knowing that someone loves you, regardless of their action, or that they could, if only…

As eccentric and spiritual as I am, as much love, hope and belief as I have within myself… At some point, we need to have balance.

We are in a human world.

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And we’ve got decisions to make…

At some point, you have to stop pushing against that. Pushing against what the Universe is trying to show you. Pushing against the facts that are presenting themselves, in your face. Things can transpire, but holding on for dear life is never part of the formula, it’s a demonstration that you aren’t trusting the universe. When something is meant for you, it comes easily! You don’t have to hold onto it for dear life and hope it does not slip away! The Universe does not make you beg for what is rightfully yours! So, if something is just not sticking to you, if it’s just too difficult to maintain, that is the Universe’s way of telling you that, that thing does not belong in your field. We are meant to have everything that we want, but you have to let it come to you. If you do not believe in the Universe’s ability to deliver, you will never experience the truth of it.

love can be a sickening, twisted adventure, to say the least. We make all these assumptions about what we need, but here is what happened to me…

I came to an even deeper appreciation for love through the realization that mutually shared love is truly hard to come by. As a result, I decided to implement some logic. Logic for the sake of opening more doors through which the Universe Would have more opportunities to deliver.

I decided to focus on what’s really important. I decided reprioritization was in order.

I had so many things on my list of things that I wanted in a man, that NOBODY was making it through my filtration system. So, I made a decision. Either, sit around with my nose in the air and wait forever, for the perfect guy. Or, open doors for the Universe To deliver more opportunities and experiences and see what happens. I decided to demonstrate my trust in the Universe.

I started asking myself  “What is most important?”

what’s most important?

Chemistry. Chemistry was my first answer, which leads to…

…Love.  Which conquers all.

Trust, trust is a must.

What else?…

 Reciprocity

Above all, a relationship needs to happen mutually, or there can be NO relationship. Reciprocation requires 2 people, both people involved. One person only equals half the formula and if there is only one of you participating, you’ve got zero. The reason I am bringing this up is because we WANT our relationships to be mutual. We WANT a relationship where both sides reciprocate their interest in the relationship. If you haven’t got that, then whatever it is that you are looking at is missing a non-negotiable requirement, and therefore, that means that not only do you deserve better, but you can attain it. Do not epitomize something that is not what you deserve. Do not disrespect yourself and the Universe in that way. You DO deserve better than to be treated like you are an option. You DO deserve better than to be taken for granted, unappreciated and turned down. Anyone who is treating you that way is not what you actually want. We want to be desired, cared for, honored, valued and loved. There is no such thing as the “perfect” one for you, who is not treating you as such. Anything less is simply not good enough. Love all you want. Love unconditionally. But realize this, what you deserve… A mutually beneficial and loving connection.

Connection, that’s super important.

You can’t have love without the right connection to facilitate romance. That’s why Connection came first on my list. I have loved many people that I just didn’t have the right connection with, and I couldn’t keep them in my life, romantically.

Those things are what matters and those things are what’s hard to come by. We need to prioritize What we are looking for and let everything else come into place. Because, if you have the most important factors in line, the rest of it isn’t going to break the deal.

my previous list of automatic disqualifications was so specific, it was like smacking the Universe In the face. Like when your parents know what’s good for you, but you think you “Know it all”. I’d rather be in love and happy with someone I never thought I’d end up with, than a lonely, stuck up know it all.

Who cares if the guy is 6’0, 6’4 or 5’8? When you’re in love, that makes no difference.

So what if he makes enough money to buy you a Tiffany diamond and a bad ass wedding? No amount of money can bring joy to a soul that is bound to a loveless, uninspiring union.

And, If he’s a super fun guy, and you enjoy your time together, but you can’t trust him and he doesn’t trust you, it just isn’t going to work.

So what if he wasn’t what you originally thought you were looking for? Love isn’t derived from a checklist and when there is mutual chemistry and love, the checklist can go fuck itself. Lol

Priorities.

Let’s talk about what’s really important. let’s talk about the factors that are actually necessary for the union that you want.

For me, this next part goes without saying, but I’m mentioning it because I’ve noticed that for many of you, it doesn’t, because you remain in love regardless.

Everything has to be mutual in order to work, period. Both parties must be interested, involved and willing to demonstrate. There must be even exchange of energy between you.

So, keep that in mind…

Everyone recommends making a “list”. But, what should go on the list?  Mine used to be pages long. Since the completion of my latest transition, I’ve come up with a much shorter list of key characteristics that I think, not only are necessary for me to have in a healthy relationship, but I think these characteristics are comprehensive,  on point, ideal qualities that are general enough to be of importance in any romantic relationship.

Chemistry

Compassion

Credibility

Courage

Consistency

Commitment

Compromise

Conscientiousnesss

Demonstration

Those apply to everyone and I’ll elaborate why. The following are a few that I tailored to my specific needs:

Intelligence

Open-Mindedness

Masculinity

Chemistry- You need to jive. You need to be attracted to one another. You need to have a connection,,enjoy eachother and want to be Together. Chemistry must be mutual. If the demonstration is not mutual, something is missing and the relationship won’t work.

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Compassion- You gotta be with someone who cares enough to at least try to be understanding. We ALL need that sometimes. It’s a part of being able to love another person and demonstrate that. Compassion fosters kindness and many other attributes we need and desire in a mate.

Credibility- Credibility is like trust, but it’s more than that. You can trust someone who doesn’t have credibility. You want to trust them, but in the back of your mind, you are still doubting. You’re choosing to trust them, but you’re thinking it could be a mistake. That’s not credibility. Credibility is when someone has done what it takes to prove that they are trustworthy, forthright and honorable.

Courage- Courage is a door opener. Nothing happens without a bit of courage. It takes courage to make a move, it takes courage to be vulnerable, it takes courage to give someone a chance, it takes courage to work together to overcome issues and it takes courage to love.

Consistency- Consistency is very key, for a few reasons. First of all, if someone is inconsistent, you’re not seeing who they truly are. They are conflicted in some way. And you can’t commit to a person who hasn’t even come into themselves yet. You just don’t have any way of knowing what you’re getting into!

Commitment- At some point, commitment comes into play. Any idea requires commitment before you can see it transpire. I think it’s related to courage. Indecisiveness can be annoying, when you’re ordering dinner, but in a relationship, it’s completely detrimental. Commitment isn’t about marriage. People get married all the time, and you find that they aren’t actually committed to it. Commitment is a state of being and it changes everything, because when you’re committed, you make the healthiest choices available for that thing you are committed to. When you’re not committed, your decisions will reflect that and it’s not at all conducive to maintaining a healthy dynamic.

Compromise- Every human is different. No matter how similar you are, or how well you harmonize, compromise will undoubtedly come into play at some point. If you are both willing to compromise for the sake of harmony, you will overcome problems before they even become problems.

Conscientiousness- This goes further than compassion. Compassion is being able to feel for another person. This could happen intentionally or unintentionally. Conscientiousness is intentional. You are being mindful of the other person’s needs and thoughts on purpose, because you care and you want them to know it. You are anticipating their needs, before they’ve even thought of it or said anything. You are consciously paying attention to them, looking out for them and caring for them. It’s not only caring, but proving that you do, with your actions. This is very important in building and maintaining credibility and a loving bond.  We pay attention to the things that we love and for those things that we love, we are also willing to act in their best interest, without being told or reminded.

Demonstration- You could have all the care in the world, all the love in the world, but if you cannot follow through with demonstrating that, it doesn’t matter. Nothing translates if you do not demonstrate. Everything must be demonstrated in order to make any bit of difference. You use all kinds of means for this. Words and actions come in multiple forms. There are no excuses in the world good enough to excuse lack of demonstration. Sorry.

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You could have all the ideas in the world, but it’s all for nothing if you cannot demonstrate.

I have put this list together and explained it for you all, because intention is a good foundation for attracting what you desire. Focus on these qualities that you want in another, know that the Universe can deliver and use them as your guide so that you don’t settle for less. Sometimes, we know something is off, but without a sensical articulation, we let things slide. This list will let you know exactly what’s there or what’s missing. Add to it to suit your individual needs and preferences as I did, but remember that the point here, is to focus on what’s really important in order to open doors for the Universe to bring it to you. The Universe does deliver pleasant surprises, and that can’t happen if you think you’re ahead of infinity, with every single detail laid out! Demonstrate your trust in the Universe and the Universe will deliver.

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How To Be In Love, Not Need In Love…

How To Be In Love, Not Need In Love…

Everything is channeled. There is no difference between you and I. There is no “them” vs. “we”, in a Unified Universe.

With Tons of Love

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This concept will set you free, if you can allow yourself to grasp it. Please understand that there is no epitome of anything, this includes knowledge. So, there is an infinite ability to harness knowledge. That makes it impossible to know everything at once, because if you knew everything there is to know, there would be no more becoming and there is no such thing as stagnation or halt in an infinite Universe. There is always more to know, more to evolve, more to become, more to see, more to do and more to be.

Let’s talk about Love…

First of all, I fucking Love you guys. I love you all. This journey has been more amazing than I could ever have previously imagined. It has opened me up to more than I ever thought I would know. I have reached places I had never even conceived of reaching. Expressing my epiphanies, inspirations and thoughts in this way, to you all, has been the ultimate therapeutic endeavor, and I would not have had enough reason to do it if not for all of you. All of you who resonate with my insights and experiences and all of you who benefit from them and find confirmation in them. I thank you for expressing your love and gratitude. I am a person, just like you, and I love to know that my thoughts are reaching you in a good way and making a positive impact on your hearts and minds. So, yes, I love you, and don’t ever doubt my love…

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Love is inspired…

We are in human form. We have ego. We have these bodies to manage, minds that wander and require deliberateness of intent. We do not always love. We do not always know what love is. Sometimes we love and sometimes we don’t. Sometimes ego gets in the way. We need inspiration to love, but after that, it becomes more of a choice. Not to say that one cannot fall out of love, or change their preference. It is all part of the web of experiences that we agreed to have when we came here…

What I am saying is that, yes, we are inspired to love. But there is also a choice to allow yourself to be inspired. Once you have harnessed great love and you know it, it is possible to come to the realization that love is a state of being and that you can remain in that state of being without the inspiration. You can simply choose love. To be in love, in general. To feel love. The emotion is separate from the object. You can harness this state of being. I’m not talking love potion number 9, where you completely lose all of your senses. I don’t think it is even humanly possible or necessary to concretely remain in a state of love. That would mean stagnation. Oscillating is necessary for growth. So, you will not be in love, all of the time, so do not try to make yourself be that. But, you can be generally loving. You can choose to harness that state of being of love over nothing at all. For no reason. You do not need an object or a person to love. You can simply be love.

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Love is a state of being…

There is no lover in my bed, and I am still in love. There does not have to be romance to make me feel in love. I do not need a person to inspire me to that state of being. Whoever comes along into this loving space, though, is sure going to benefit, because I am already there! The love is flowing! It is easy! It is natural! I do, allow myself to be inspired to love, through others, but it does not stop there. Sometimes, it just comes over me out of nowhere. For no reason. For no object, for no person, it is simply my state of being. Do not worry about not doing it right, love is fleeting. It will always come and go. The idea is that you choose to allow yourself freedom to go with your opportunities to be inspired to love. Don’t hold back. Don’t think it is unnecessary or childish to simply be in love. Love is one of the highest vibrations that you can be in. It is like appreciation. They are the same.

Also, when you do not need the lover in order to be in love, then you will not smother them when they come, and you will not push them away with your fears, either… There is a difference between love and an energy that gives off a needy cry. A big difference. Achieve love that is for love and not for need. That is how you attract what you truly want.

The problem is that so many of you do not let yourselves go there as much as you could. You smother your loving inspirations because you are thinking too much from this 3rd dimensional perspective. Fuck that perspective. That perspective that says that love is weak, and that it doesn’t think clearly. If you are reading this, you should know better. That those 3rd dimensional perspectives on love are based in the ego, rooted in fear, and that is not serving us at all. We have evolved beyond that old paradigm. We are not cavemen anymore. Not only is it ok to love for no reason, but how else are you going to attract more love into your life? Taking on a loving state of being at every opportunity is the best thing you can do to attract like energies, people and circumstances to yourself, not to mention raising the collective vibration of the planet.

“Be the change you wish to see in the world.”

-Mahatma Gandhi

Enjoy all the beauty that there is to see…

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Allow yourself to be inspired. The more that you practice the vibration of love, the more easily it will come over you and it does not matter what inspired you to it. You are just practicing being in that energetic standpoint, where you can see the beauty in everything. That is really what it is. Love makes everything beautiful. Love is the kind of thing that you just have to go with. If you are inspired to it, go! Do not ignore it or smother it or try to guard yourself against it. Love is always leading you in a good place and just because you are going in a direction, it does not mean that you will stay there, but you must enjoy the ride to see what it’s all about and to obtain the lesson that is being offered to you. If you hold back love, not only do you not get to experience it in that moment, but it botches up the entire formula. It keeps you from receiving love. When you take an action based in love, you attract more of that. When you take an action based in fear, you attract more of that. Let that be your formula. If something leaves your experience when you are loving it, it is for a reason. With a soulmate, if they leave you when you have acted in love, they were simply not attracting that. If they respond negatively or bleed negativity onto the good heart that you have presented with, it is simply because they do not deserve you! They are not in alignment with the love that you are offering! It is much better to be with someone who is. That is really the only way to be truly happy in a love relationship. When both partners value themselves enough to receive love. When both partners are courageous enough to drop down their walls and give love. When both partners are brave enough to allow themselves to see the beauty in each other.

Love is a state of being. Choose it. You will never be perfect. Love will always be fleeting in the moment, but choose to embrace it more and more when it does come. Choose to invite the experience of being in love. In general, just feeling love and knowing love whenever the opportunity makes itself known to you. I am so in love. With what I am doing. With what I feel from the Universe. With everything and with nothing, I am simply in a space of love. Come try it<3.

With all my love.

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Choosing a Soulmate Who Brings Out The Best in You…

Choosing a Soulmate Who Brings Out The Best in You…

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Everything is Channeled. “I”, “We”, it is all the same in a Unified Universe.

If I can convey this correctly, what I am about to say will serve as a very serious breakthrough in your consciousness. There are things that exist, systems in place that you are not currently aware of, but as you move along your path of evolution, learning and picking up bit and pieces of information along the way, you become ready for more. More bits of the puzzle, more information and even paradigm shifts can occur when certain levels of understanding have been reached. Total shifts in consciousness are awesome and incredible to the mind, body and soul. It means that you are learning faster, which is always good. We always want faster becoming, never slower becoming. You know what is good for you. Positive forward momentum. That’s good. So, here we go… Let’s have a total shift in consciousness. What I am about to say is not particularly profound… until you come to understand the degree to which it is true. That’s what’s profound about it. Whoa!!! Supernovae…

Different people bring out different qualities in you.

Not so profound. Let’s take it further…

Different people will evoke different energetic responses from you.

Let’s let it evolve…

There are some people who evoke from you, those energetic qualities that you want to embody

and other people who evoke from you those energetic qualities that are not what you want to embody.

Here is what’s profound…

Which person are you in love with?

It is obviously, a good idea to be in love with the person who elicits from you, the qualities that represent who you want to be. It is obviously, not an ideal choice, to be in love with a person who elicits from you a qualities that do not represent the person you are wanting to be.

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Furthermore….

Your choice of who you want to be, is just as constant as your choice of who you want to be with. You can be moving along just fine, until you have that moment of recognition where it becomes apparent to you that you want something that is different from what is currently in your reality. This is how energetic disharmony is born. If you have an energetic disharmony, it isn’t a big deal. But you are making it a big deal! Because you are attaching yourselves to people unnecessarily and then, they cause you to grow, and things begin to fall apart as you become ready to be with another person because you have grown and are ready to have different qualities elicited from you, but you are resisting the change, entirely! You deem it as a sad, bad thing!! So, you cling to the old. Further perpetuating the state of disharmony.

It is actually a fantastic thing when you become ready for someone new! It means that you now, have the opportunity to meet someone who can teach you your next lesson! It means that you can meet new people with new qualities and learn new things! Moving onto bigger and better things is a cliche, but it’s based on real shit. This is it. The reality of things. Stop clinging to people who’s energies are disallowing you from becoming the person that you want to become. Instead, leave those people and find new people who’s energies are attracting the qualities that you want to exhibit.

Is who I am when I am with you, the person that I want to be? Do you bring out the best in me?

Do I like who I am when I am with you?

If a person is not in an energetic state of being which allows them to receive kindness from you, they will not receive any kindness from you. Period. No matter what you do. They will either evoke something from you that is not kindness,  or they will misinterpret your kindness, the mail will get lost, the message won’t get sent and they will miss it entirely. There is nothing that you can do about what another being is currently attracting. You cannot cause them to change! What you must do is move on and find a person who is attracting kindness. If you are wanting to be a kind person and you come together with a person who is wanting to be around people who are kind, the two of you will collide and find such exquisite harmony. Let that be the case for you. Let yourself find people who are attracting the qualities that you want to exhibit. The rest cannot see you, cannot hear you, cannot appreciate you and that is just how it is. If you find that you are fearful around a person, yes, those fears are yours, but this person also has an energy that is attracting and eliciting those fears to come forth from within you. They are part of the problem. The attractor is part of the problem. We are multifaceted beings. We are mixed bags of energy. There are many things which can be elicited from us. Find a person whom you feel good and confident around. Find a person whom is easy for you to love. If a person is attracting a nightmare and you come their way, you will be their nightmare, whether that is your intention or not. It may not even be your intention, but if you are in that vicinity, it will happen. Find someone who is attracting joy and let them bring out the joy in you. Find someone who is attracting love and let them bring out the love in you. Keep going about the mary-go-round until you find a fit that really suits you. There are many, many people and energies present for a reason, because life is a constant flow, and so are you. There is no stagnation. We want you to grow, you want you to grow, the Universe wants you to grow and so it is. You will. But, to make it easier on yourself and to speed the coming of the things that you desire, go with the flow. let things go that are not working. It does not mean do not give it a chance. It does not mean do not put forth effort or do not try. That is not what we mean here at all. Put forth your best effort, but also recognize that even your best efforts cannot yield results from a person who’s energetic state of being is simply choosing not to adjust to create harmony. Do not remain in a state of stagnation out of a fear of loss.  Because loss can never happen. It is illusory. It only happens in your mind. If you would allow yourself to line up with attracting the thing that you want, that thing would show up and so fast and you would not feel loss at all. At the same time, when you feel loss, you cannot possibly attract something to fill your void.

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These transitions happen slowly for most of you. The transition from loss to gain. You may have to meet many people who incrementally prepare you to be in the right vibration to receive a bigger thing that you want. But know that, that is what is happening. That everyone who crosses your path is of great purpose for you and that purpose does not have to be forever. It is for now, and when it is no longer serving you, simply let it go. It does not mean run and scream, it means let it go when it wants to go! Let the sour milk go! It is already gone!!

You must see this. That when you are feeling negative emotion, it is because you are resisting. You are holding on too tight. You aren’t going with the flow. Go with the flow, is all that is meant here. See everyone as compatible with your ideal energetic components or not. What is good is good, it is not hard to miss. What is bad is bad, it is not hard to miss. In order to help yourself, ask yourself, is there more good or bad here? Sleep on it if you must, but let this idea of attracting qualities and harmonizing by law of attraction, sink in for you. This explains your relationship experiences. Its not you, it’s them, and they were not what you wanted anyway, but you shall find what you are wanting if you keep going. There is no chance of harmonizing with what you want if you are resisting it.

I want to make a note, that this only applies if you are being authentic. You cannot be holding back, taking action from the energy of fear and also cultivate what you want from a relationship. But, if you are truly authentic and open hearted, and you still do not find harmony with the person that you are with, or wanting to be with, then, you have done all that you can do. 

So, what will you do?

What is meant to be, will be. Many of your relationships loop around, as you come together, you grow, you separate for a time and you end up back together. This is very sensical, but you have to allow the in between stages of reunion to occur, before the reunion can occur. You cannot be holding on and resisting the whole way and meet with the necessary components to bring you to a higher state of consciousness. You are required to go with the flow. So, do not fear “letting go”, if it is meant to be, it will be. This is for you all, who are holding onto something that is no longer serving you and doubting that there is much else out there for you. Do not be so foolish to insult the Universe in this way. The Universe NEVER runs out of ideas, or resources, or means. But, you can block yourself from getting what you want. True story:)where-is-my-soulmate

I feel the love of the Universe.

The next post will be about love. Inspired by things, but love can exist with or without. No object necessary, loves is a state of being. It will be good<3

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I am here for you.

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A Formula For Relationship Harmony

A Formula For Relationship Harmony

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This channeled message came to me as a personal message at a time when I desired to reunite with who I considered to be my Twin Flame. I wrote it, put it away and I was under the impression that I would be presenting this document to him, one day in the future, and that it would set terms that would facilitate healthy interactions between us. I now realize that, not only could I present this to any soulmate that I share a strong, mutual and lasting love connection with, but I also realized that this information could be of benefit to all soulmates inside or outside the realms of a relationship.

The energy that I perceived as my Twin Flame energy, told me that in order to reunite, we must change the way that we think about love. I did not really know what he meant or even agree at first. But I understand what he means now. He said that love is not a fairytale. He said that things will not always be perfect. You cannot completely avoid bumps in the road. That is alright. It is not always easy. If you recognize that going into it, it will be easier to deal with and to come to solutions because instead of being disappointed from a mishap, you learn to how to move beyond it and into that which is better for the relationship. Instead of letting the bumps ruin, you let them bring you to more, deeper states of love.

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This message was really meant for a specific individual, or so I thought, but the following applies to everyone:

He said we must both let go of our pain.

Both parties must let go of the pain from the past.

Everyone has a fear/fears of the chance of negative cycles they have experienced in the past somehow being repeated. Of being hurt or of somehow hurting those whom you love the most.

EVERY fear is somehow, a derivative of a past experience.

We fear hurting those we love and we also fear being hurt. Because it has happened before…

So, he asked me to write something. Here is what he said:
“Go and write that letter on how to change our thinking on marriage/relationsips so we don’t bring in the abuse from our past… Keep it simple.”

He was speaking to me, in a way that made sense to me, in my life, but this same sentence can make sense to you. Everyone has known some type of negative thing, whether it be abuse, neglect, indifference, insensitivity. We all know what it is like to be emotionally bumped, bruised, abused and scarred.

So, here is the solution, I channeled. It’s not easy to just get over something from the past. It is much easier when your focus is to set terms and pave the way for the future. Every moment is new. So, set new intentions for your relationship before you get a chance to make a mistake. Mistakes will be made. You just have to have a game plan ahead of time. I am not saying that my solution is any end all, be all. You know that there is no epitome of anything in existence. There is always more, because evolution is always a constant. But, I felt satisfied with this and hopefully, you will, too.

Love you<3

Here it is:

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Let love win. Always.
We will not always be able to avoid disagreements. That is ok. It is the way that we choose to discuss our differences that matters. We may disagree, we may even get mad, we may make mistakes or say things that do not truly represent our truth. We are human. This can happen and you must know that it is ok. It does not mean that the relationship is bad. People who love each other can sometimes face the most difficulty. We will pave the way to use this aspect of the relationship to actually bring more love in. Our arguments will be grounds to bring us closer. Not farther apart. Here is how.

By remembering what is important.
By paving the way ahead of time, as we are doing now.
1) Differences can be argued without disrespect. Avoid name calling or cursing at one another at all costs. This should be an easy thing to remember. There is actual energy involved in the action of doing those things that you do not want to throw at one another. Simply know that.
2) Never regret or place blame on yourself or the other. Regret is a destructive energy. It is a self hating energy and if you feel that way towards yourself it will have negative effects on the relationship. You already can see how this is true.
Solution:
Self Compassion. Have self compassion. When you feel bad about something said or done, simply use it as a lesson/opportunity to do better. That is all. And be thankful for the opportunity that you had to grow and become better. That is all that you must do. Use it to be a better version of yourself and move forward in a positive way.

3) Reciprocate. If the two of you make it a point to reciprocate, your relationship will always be beautiful and full of love and wonderful, pleasant surprises. Let it be. If you love each other, expressing that is the most natural thing in the world for you both. Simply agree to show it. To not hold back in any moment. Let love win.

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Foster Trust
4) Compassion is a given that you should naturally have for someone that you love. Trust can be more difficult to create. To foster trust, make the relationship completely transparent. No secrets, no room for doubt.. Even if you do not wish to reveal something, simply explain that. No need to hide. Do the right thing by one another and hide nothing. Two people that are connected will know when something is wrong. Do not allow yourself to bring energies in that will create doubt, mistrust or confusion.

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Love is Freedom
Freedom is Love
The best symbol of love that you can bestow upon one another is the freedom to be yourselves fully.
When you allow each other transparency and freedom to be yourselves fully, without fear of judgement or retaliation, (Because you have agreed to let love win) you will then have the ultimate trust which is the perfect medium for fostering your love which is already innate between you. This is the solution you are seeking. Simply enjoy each other, live by these values and let love win. You already have everything you need and all you have is beautiful. Let it be.

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Not everyone can accomplish what is here. Some people are simply too far gone, not ready or not meant to be. But perhaps you will have the opportunity to use these ideas for yourself in your relationship or future relationship in some way. If anything, you can have these concepts for yourself and have them readily available to use when the moment becomes right. Good luck to you and your love!!

If you would like a Twin Flame/Soulmate Reading or intuitive insight on your romantic situation, you may contact me at any time, via AcceleratedAscension@yahoo.com

Faint Hearts, Beware… Twin Flames and Soulmates…

Faint Hearts, Beware… Twin Flames and Soulmates…

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I experienced a lot of reluctance and deliberation about sharing this, but since I have shared it, I have received many good responses. If this is for you, it will find you. With love<3

I have not written for what seems like a very long time. I know that you all have noticed. It has been many months that I have written fairly consistently. My blog posts, sprinkled all over Facebook, littering your timelines, but I hope that when you open them and read them, that you would find they had something to offer that was worth the trouble. For most of you, that has seemed to be the case. I have heard so many wonderful things and it warms my heart to know that my words can inspire and help you, even to the smallest degree. I feel so much love when I am writing here for you. I infuse my words with love as I type across the screen, so that you might feel that little warm energy in your heart  center as you read. So that you might experience some small relief from your daily lives as your eyes dance across the screen. My point in being here, in writing as I do, is not to teach, but to inspire. I will never claim to know anything for absolute, except for one thing… That you should follow your joy. There is no one who can know absolute truth, especially not from this third dimension. There are things that are just beyond us, while we are here. But, we understand the best that we can and experience is a great teacher. So, it is from experience that I share my new understandings with you today.

The important thing is not what a Twin Flame is. Not who is your Twin Flame, but the lessons that you take from a Twin Flame experience.

My literary strike was not as a result of lack of ideas or lack of inspiration or unwillingness to share. In fact, there have been such a great deal of ideas and inspirations, it just never felt like a complete enough thought to fully express to you. I knew I had to let it evolve, even further. I have felt a great transformative energy working in my consciousness. I knew that it was big. I knew that there was a time when I could not accept certain things I will reveal to you today. I wanted to find a way to share my truth with you, without making waves. Some of you have already been feeling the beginnings of this new energetic perspective and some of you have vehemently opposed it. That is ok. Only take what resonates with you. Put everything else on the shelf of your consciousness. You never know when those things that didn’t make sense for you, will finally click into place.

We can only accept what we are ready for. That is ok.

I have three great spiritual teachers that I have been studying for many years. I trust all of their teachings, because they have always resonated with me. I have come to see these three teachers as very reliable sources of information. Teal Swan/Scott, Bashar and Abraham Hicks. When I first became curious about their views on the Twin Flame, I found their ideas regarding this. All 3 teachers had basically the same thing to say. That the Twin Flame is not everything that we are making it out to be. That there is no such thing. Not in the way that we have defined it. That the label is too much. It is a soulmate connection. At the time, I wasn’t ready to hear any of this. Talk about bursting your bubble. I didn’t get mad. I didn’t know what to think. I just couldn’t process it. So, I let it go and I put the ideas up on the shelf of my consciousness and now, after my own experience, those ideas are making much more sense to me. The confusions involved when your most trusted teachers tell you something you just really aren’t wanting to hear… Something difficult to believe. It’s quite disheartening. But, now, at this point in my journey, I feel relief.

There are some things that I always believed, that I still believe. Through my journey, it has become more and more evident that there is simply no way to confirm a Twin Flame connection for certain. In my experience, it is easy for me to tell when the energy just isn’t right. But, to confirm that someone is indeed a Twin Flame, it simply cannot be done. Everything exists within a probability. We can gauge when probability is very high. But we cannot even say that for 100% understand the Twin Flame phenomenon with absolute clarity. Some things get lost in translation between higher realms and the land of 3D.

The Twin Flame experts are saying that 95% of people who think they are Twin Flames, are not. So, this isn’t something I just invented. My experience confirms this idea.

95% is a BIG number. That means that 95% of you who are agonizing and offering through this Twin Flame experience, could really be moving on. It means that at least 95% of of you will never reunite and that 95% of you should be finding ways to move on and live a happy life. But being able to live without your Twin Flame applies to EVERYONE suffering through this heartache. This is a legitimate teaching in the Twin Flame process that people are tripping over. How to move on and be ok without them. Some people are downright outraged by this idea. Whether you are a Twin Flame or not, whether you believe in it or not, 100% of each and every one of needs to know how to get over heartbreak. It is part of the lesson.

Let’s talk about our definition of what a Twin Flame is. Most of you believe that the Twin Flame is actually the other half of your soul. Of course, we love this idea. It makes it so romantic. So, “meant to be.”. I never really warmed up to this idea. First of all, who is the one who came up with this idea that the Twin Flame is the other half of your soul? Where did this idea come from? Second of all, my most trusted teachers are not in support of this idea. So, here is an explanation of the Twin Flame that was given to me, via spirit. It always made good sense to me. I am simply offering it to you…

Let’s talk about pizza. The Twin Flame isn’t like you made a pizza, cut it in half, where you are one half and your Twin Flame is the other half. The Twin Flame is like, you made two pizzas, using the same ingredients and divided up the ingredients a little asymmetrically, so that you could have harmonious differences. What you see in them, is in you, but you aren’t exactly the same. You are both whole, unique and in each other’s lives for the sake of growth.

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Here is the thing. Every soulmate is like that. We are all soul mates and we are all made of the same “stuff”. We are all soul mates. The Twin Flame is no different. It just presents uniquely intense lessons to learn. The Twin Flame is indeed special. Yes. It is a great connection. It is a roller coaster of love, pushing you to your deepest, darkest places, forcing you into realms that you would never otherwise experience. This is the challenge we undertake on planet Earth. To turn great darkness into great light. That’s it, and that’s part of the Twin Flame experience.

Don’t make this into a bad thing. Why do you need someone to be the other half of your soul? Why do you need to believe there is only one person out there in the universe who can complete you? These ideas are very limiting.

Romanticism is a 3rd dimensional energy.

Attachment is a 3rd dimensional energy.

Dependence is a 3rd dimensional energy.

Fear is a 3rd dimensional energy.

Control is a 3rd dimensional energy.

Doubt is a 3rd dimensional energy.

There are all different types of soul mates. Everyone you meet is a soulmate. Opportunities to learn, abound. The Twin Flame is a very special soulmate, because they are here to teach you your greatest, toughest lessons. They are here to take you to depths that you never knew were possible. They are here to assist you in accelerated expansion. They are here to open your heart. They are here to force you to build strength you never knew you had. What is more important than the label, is the experience. Let’s not make it about the label, but about the experience.

”Ease up on your label.” -Bashar

Everyone wants that confirmation of their Twin Flame. They want to know “Is he really my Twin Flame?” Tell me, does it matter? Does the label really matter? Does the label make a difference to your experience? Does the label make it possible for you to change your situation? Does the label increase your chances of being able to change their mind? No, it doesn’t. It doesn’t make a difference. The only difference it makes is that if you think that someone is your Twin Flame, you are more likely to stay hung up on them and less likely to move on. You are more likely to stress and romanticize about it longer. You are more likely to compare everyone you meet to them. You are less likely to think rationally about it. You see, we all deserve to be with someone who values us and loves us and acts on those things. But, if you think that there is only one person in the world who can fulfill you completely, you are doomed, unless they happen to change their mind about you. It can happen. People can end up together after trials and tribulations, but it ends up being a sad story for most of you because of this one fact…

There are some things that you cannot change. Like, other people’s minds.

Wishing, hoping, thinking and praying that someone will come around is a recipe for doom. In all that time that you are living in hopes of something that may never come to pass, you aren’t moving on with your life and you aren’t attracting someone to have a loving, fulfilling relationship with.

It doesn’t mean give up. It doesn’t mean good things can’t happen. Sometimes, these people end up back together. We have all seen that. But, it means let it come to you. Don’t live your life wishing, hoping, thinking and praying. Live your life now.

Everyone is a soulmate and in an infinite Universe, there is no such thing as only having one solution, or one true love. This infinite Universe yields infinite possibilities for us in all situations, including the realm of love. There is no such thing as only one person in the Universe who is right for you. There is only a such thing as lining up with what you desire. You do that by believing it is possible. That’s the first step.

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Don’t be dependent on an outcome. Thinking someone is our Twin Flame, tends to make us do that. It tends to keep us in limbo. When something is out of your control, stop trying to control it, and if you cannot control it, you have to focus on the things that you can control.

I know what it’s like to not be able to move on. I became so ill after my FalseTwin Flame experience.  I was heartbroken beyond comprehension. I experienced many physical and mental ailments. Some that that I am still experiencing today. My life was changed forever. I just couldn’t move on. I just couldn’t be happy. I just couldn’t sleep. I couldn’t eat. My health significantly diminished. I had never experienced anything like it in my life. Not being able to move on. Moving on was never an issue for me, until the Twin Flame experience bounced into my life.

I just want you to know, that I know what it’s like. I felt the unmerciful agony. The endless, relentless haunting of his memory, his image, my fantasies, my love for him that could never be fulfilled. Love that I never knew was humanly possible. The intense desire that could never see the light of day. The unbearable truth, that no matter what I did, no matter how much I wanted it, I couldn’t have it. Complete and utter despair. I didn’t want to exist, let alone, to live. Life was just a chore. I was tormented, day and night. In my sleep, in my semi-waking states. Before my eyes would even open, the pain would set in. The feeling was so empty. Hopelessness, loneliness, grief and pain. Despite my best efforts, I was inconsolable, although, I did my best to hide it from the world.

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I got through it. I have come out the other side, and so can you.

That is my motivation, here, with you.

It is possible, and I want it for you.

Maybe you aren’t being tormented. Maybe, you don’t want to get over it. Maybe you don’t like anything you are reading, thus far. If so, then, this message is not for you. But, there are a great many of you who are ready for this message, and I am writing to you. I am here for you.

I don’t want to teach about Twin Flames anymore. I want to teach about soul connections. That’s what I have been doing all along. Who is to say what is a Twin Flame and what is not? Who is to say who is a Twin Flame and who is not? One thing that we know for sure is that it’s a soulmate connection. ALL soulmate connections are important. I want to help everyone get through their soulmate connections and through to the other side. 95% of everyone who thinks they have a Twin Flame connection, do not. But whether you do or not, the lesson is the same. The idea is to learn how to get over heartbreak.

People want to know how to find their Twin Flame, how to find their ultimate soulmate. “The one”. The only way is to see every other soulmate as relevant and important. The Twin Flame experience has a way of blocking us from doing that. Because, you are always looking for your Twin Flame, so you are always comparing and if you do not think someone is your Twin Flame, The ultimate, you automatically don’t see them with as much relevance. It slows down the learning process, which slows down everything else. You cannot move on from a lesson if you don’t learn it. You can’t learn a lesson if you don’t see what’s in front of you as relevant. So, the best way to move through your lessons quickly is to ease up on your labels and see everything and everyone as relevant. The important thing is not whether this person is your Twin Flame or not. The important thing is what you are learning from whatever soulmate has been placed in front of you now. See it as relevant, and as soon as you learn one lesson, you can move onto the next. That’s what this is all about. Not about finding an ultimate this or that. Not about finding “The Twin Flame”. See the Twin Flame as an experience, not as something written in the stars. Not as the other half of your soul. Not as something that has to turn out a certain way. Not as a romantic injustice. See it as an experience. It’s about learning. See the Twin Flame as a soulmate. As a soulmate that has great things to teach you, a huge impact on your life, and your path of love and consciousness.

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What I want to do is to help you with your emotional state. Heartbreak is one of the toughest things in life to endure. I want to help you all improve your lives. I want to help you all get through these tough times with your soul connections. I want to help you gain peace of mind. To know when to move on and when to not. I want to help you to see the positive ends of your situations and the possibilities there are for you. I want to help you utilize your cognitive resources.  I want to give you new, fresh and positive perspectives on what is possible for you. I want to help you achieve peace of mind.

Everyone needs to be inspired and motivated sometimes. Everyone needs positive influence. Let’s not make this life about your Twin Flame, let’s make it about you. Let’s not make it about being with your Twin Flame or not, let’s make it about deciding to pursue happiness or not. After all, happiness is the key to everything.

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I have Learned a lot about how to get through this intense Twin Flame experience. I want to help others reach the place that I have reached. Why? Not because I am right or wrong, but because I wasn’t happy before, and I’m happy now. I want to help you do the same thing. I want to help you on your pursuit of happiness and fulfillment. I want to help you not only to see your possibilities, but to make them a reality. This life is about learning, loving and joy. Whatever it takes.

 I deal mostly with emotions. WE all have the same goal!! Anything else that follows is not controlled by you. The only thing controlled by you are your thoughts and emotions about your present situation. The only difference is your idea of what you think you are going through and your predictions about the future. The label. That’s the difference. The commonality among all of us, the 95% and the 5% is the same. What we all need to know is how to live after a broken heart, because, Twin Flame or not, you just can’t make them come back. You can only move on.

Some people do not need to learn how to move on, but how to open their hearts and love without fear. That is, of course, an aspect that I will be covering as well. The point is to feel happier and lead a happier life. I will always be pointing you to your joy.

Mission or not, you cannot do your mission from a state of heartbreak.

The reunited is only one perspective. One perspective lense that so many are having to do without and so many will never get to see. What about the rest of us? What about us who still need to live our lives and us who still need to love? Who is teaching them? I will. Love you…I love, love. I’m a hopeless romantic and I have learned so many things about love in this journey. I want to share them all with you. So, stay tuned, as I share with you all of the things I have learned that led me through the other side of pain, into the light of happiness. I will now be dealing with all soulmate connections. All soulmate and romantic situations. No matter what is happening, I am here for you.

With so much love…

We are all in this together, let’s get through.

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The Twin Flame Experience is Not About Reunion…

The Twin Flame Experience is Not About Reunion…

9da9415af113fc45b9e5074fdead107d The Twin Flame experience is horrifyingly intense. It feels inescapable. Overtaking, so ultimate and so awesome. There’s good, there’s bad. No matter how long we’ve been numb or what vows we have made in the past to swear off love, meeting your Twin Flame inspires passion that doesn’t know how to quit. Passion that surpasses greater capacity to love than we have ever known. You can’t cut the cord. That would be too easy. This is about learning and if you were able to cut the cord, you would be able to cut your lesson. The Universe allows us to create our reality, but as far as I have seen, the Universe will never let you skip out on a lesson. Lessons that we need to learn keep manifesting themselves through people, circumstances and events, until we overcome them. You only think about lessons you are still learning. You don’t sit around and ponder things that you’ve already mastered. Just like you don’t sit around pondering addition and subtraction. There’s no point. So, when the lesson is over, you stop thinking about it and the manifestation transforms into something else that reflects your current state of being. There is something very important to understand about the Twin Flame Phenomenon. This experience is so intense and amazing. It’s so easy to romanticize, because of the intense attraction and love. But the bottom line is that it isn’t about romance. It’s about growth. Growth always takes priority. Many of you want answers. You want to know what the other person is thinking. You want to know if you will ever reunite or if it’s even possible. These are all 3rd dimensional ideas that really aren’t important. I know that you want to know what they are thinking, if they are learning and benefitting and what the point is of it all. So, I am telling you, the point is for you to evolve into higher and higher states of consciousness. From 3rd dimensional ways of thinking into 4th and 5th dimensional ways of thinking. From a 3rd dimensional perspective, there is no escaping this phenomenon. There is no refuge. There is no way around these intense feelings. From a 3rd dimensional view, it’s all about love and heartbreak being two sides of the same coin. This is a manifestation of the parts of you that feel incomplete or unloved. heart-incomplete The idea that something can complete you is the ultimate romance story. That something can save you and make you better than you ever were before. I’m not saying that these things don’t happen, or that they can’t happen. I am just saying that nothing is going to come of thinking that you need saving. That you need someone else to make you whole.  A lot of you are up to date with this realization, but you still aren’t there yet. You still aren’t truly living it and believing it. You still are somewhere in the past. Look, I have been where you are. I have felt the unrelenting, never ceasing reminders, aches and pains. I have been there, where there was no way out. But I can tell you that there is a way out. You must know this…

The Twin Flame experience is not about reunification. 

It’s about overcoming the greatest of obstacles.

By finding a way out of pain, you prove to yourself that you are indeed whole, worthy and loved.

There is no such thing as needing something outside of yourself in order to be complete. There is no such thing as there only being one person in the world who can serve as a magnificent lover. Reunification may or may not happen, but the hardest thing to achieve in this process, is the ability to move on completely. This is the Challenge. Need attracts more need. Longing attracts more longing. For as long as we romanticize about this from a 3rd dimensional viewpoint, there is no moving on. There is no self discovery of wholeness. There is no recovering from this long lost love perspective. So, you have to come out of that.

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Entertain other possibilities.

Are you even entertaining other possibilities? I know that once you meet your Twin Flame, the idea of being with another can feel repulsive, but we are divine and our possibilities for ourselves are not limited. Allow yourself to recognize this. Remaining unfailingly attached to one person, a person who, for whatever reason, cannot be there for you in the capacity that you want, is simply not a self serving or a self loving action. The story does not matter. Be more light hearted about possibilities that the Universe can open up for you. Entertain ideas of good outcomes that aren’t the Twin Flame reunification romance. You might be closing yourself off to other possibilities if you are seeing reunification as the only possible doorway to happiness. It is for sure, that if you cannot release the thought to the Universe, that the chances for reunification are lower.

If you make the Twin Flame experience about reunification, you will be unhappy until it happens. Which means that you may feel incomplete for the remainder of your days. The purpose is to find wholeness, to grow and to overcome all obstacles. To bring our light through the tremendous amounts of darkness we face. What glory is there, when there is very little to overcome? What great glory there is at the end of a great victory. We have chosen this difficult experience because we know that we are victors. Create your reality. Make some decisions. Come to new conclusions. Do whatever it is that you need to do to be happy. For some of you, reunification is part of your process and you are blessed with ability to work on that. If that is your path, then it’s been put before you as a possibility and that is amazing and wonderful. But, there are so many of you who feel trapped, like you do not have many choices. So many of you between a rock and a hard place. So many of you who are being ignored and not recognized by your Twin. Demonstrate self loving actions towards yourself. Whatever it takes. Do it for yourself. Isn’t that part of what we see as romantic? Someone who will do whatever it takes? Do that for yourself. Believe and choose the direction you want to go in. Choose something new and good. You’ve got options. You are divine, Love.

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We are all in this together, I am here for you.

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Dear Twin Flame, We All Have our Fears about Intimacy, here’s how to get through it…

Dear Twin Flame, We All Have our Fears about Intimacy, here’s how to get through it…

Valentine’s Day is my favorite. Happy V-Day…

All of my messages are derived from a Unity consciousness, which speaks to me always. Through this gift, I am able to experience my love for you. My love for you which is true, real and pure. I have no expectations, I just love you. 590_vintage_valentine_card_03_eps10

I discovered my fear of intimacy, and I wasn’t expecting it. I thought If I had any fears, it wasn’t of intimacy. Fear of intimacy manifests differently for everyone. It can be in the form of holding back. Reservations about falling in love, inability to communicate emotions, having trouble with physical touch, showering together, fear of moving too fast, or with falling asleep in someone’s arms…

Intimacy is hard. You have to open yourself up to judgement. To rejection. All the things that you don’t like about yourself, you have to let someone else see them. All of your fears, someone is watching. Someone is seeing you, the good, the bad and all that is there to be seen. You become transparent. It’s really hard to dissolve. To be ok with it. I realized that I don’t want to be seen. Literally. It’s something I can’t explain. Not being able to look someone in the eye when you think they are seeing you. Hoping that as you walk by, that they aren’t seeing you… All I can think about is what if  all other people are seeing about me is my flaws? What if that’s all they can see?

Every blemish. Every imperfection. What if they see that and they don’t see who I am? What if they don’t accept my deepest truth? That is the fear.

It’s hard to just be ok about it, when you don’t feel ok in your own skin. Them looking at you, seeing you, hearing you, knowing your deepest thought. What you really think on an emotional level. Your hurts, your pains and why they are holding you back now. There;s so many things we don’t want to admit, things we even hide from ourselves. Getting to the heart of those things and overcoming them is so much harder than what I have ever experienced. I thought I was over my fears, then, so many of them decided to come up to be seen. I guess we can only deal with so much at one time. We can only transcend so much at one time. That’s why things come up when we think we are through with them. I have things to work on, but I can do it. I can be free and open and totally ok with being seen. I will…

Because I am divine and beautiful and there is nothing that can change that truth.

To be seen. To be known. What it means to be truly vulnerable. The scariest thing in the world. You don’t even know how scary until you are facing it, yourself. Until you love someone and you realize that they are actually seeing you, and you care. There are parts of ourselves that we don’t know, recognize or understand. Parts that are buried deep, under many layers of denial. Those things come up when you love someone. Your deepest fears, fears you didn’t even know you had, come to the surface to rock the boat and be seen. It’s actually a good thing. You can transcend what you can see. You can’t overcome what you don’t see. You must face your fears in order to overcome them. Someone has to show you your deepest shadows, so that you can overcome. intimacy-72769 Love is such a gift. My heart is overcome with love for you. My adoration has no beginning and no end. I love that you showed me, myself. I love that you made me vulnerable. I’m glad that you allowed me to see my fear of intimacy. But still lies the question, can I let you see me? Not can you see me, not am I willing, but how do I even do that? How do I let go? How do I melt into you with no reservations about it? How do I dissolve my ego, when the ego tricks me? The ego convinces me of things I don’t need. Like intimacy. Like to be seen. The ego convinces me that I am all of these things that I am not. I have to look closely at my heart to find what is true.

I want you. I want to let you see me. I want to melt into you, peacefully. But, I don’t know how…

I suppose I am treading new waters. I will set my eyes upon this goal. To be myself, with no reservations. To be seen, no matter what. To be myself and to love myself for it. To be seen and to love to be seen. We are switching perspectives now. We are traveling into the new. Into what is wanted. We are practicing a vibration of love, acceptance and melding together. I can’t be myself if I can’t be myself with you. I learn myself through you. I know myself because of the way I feel when I’m with you. You give me so much and I want to be free. I want to be free to love you and to accept all of your love. I want to be like puddy in your hands. I want to let you shine your warmth upon me. I want to feel your love. I want to accept every good thing you project to me, and not deflect your love with my fear. I don’t want your love to bounce off of me, I want to receive it. I don’t want you to feel my fear, I want you to feel my love.

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I think that when it comes to intimacy, we must set our intentions. By default we are experiencing fear. With intention we can experience all of the love that we want to experience. Set your intention, set your mind, set your goal and act upon it every day. Look your lover in the eyes and receive their love. If you should look away, do not look away in fear. Never look away from that which you love. Keep your gaze upon it and allow yourself to feel love.  Allow yourself to melt. Allow love to be projected onto you, without avoiding it, fearing it or deflecting it. Let yourself have what you really want. Focus your intention to love and be loved. All the way…

 

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How to Get the Truth, Trust in your Heart

How to Get the Truth, Trust in your Heart

All of my messages are derived from a Unity consciousness, which speaks to me always. Through this gift, I am able to experience my love for you. My love for you which is true, real and pure. You are loved.

Sweet lover of mine…

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Dear Twin Flame,

In this Twin Flame experience, there is very little reassurance. People come to me and they want me to confirm this or that. It’s ok for you to come to me. In fact, it’s a great idea, because I will definitely help you validate your truth for you. The truth is that you already know the truth. Everything that I tell you, you already know in your heart. When you can’t talk to me, you need to know that. You have to learn to trust in yourself. In what you know to be true in your heart. You have to learn to trust what you feel in others, above what they say or don’t say. When you are connected to someone, the truth is so blatant, and yet, you will still have your doubts about it. Please trust in your heart. You can feel what your Twin Flame feels about you. You can feel the truth in them and you can feel it in others as well. This experience is teaching you to become more acquainted with your own guidance. Listen to it. Listen to the voice of your heart. The tugging of your soul. Let your heart guide you. It will never steer you wrong.

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When I see you, I feel you. I feel what you feel inside. Those eyes can’t hide what lies behind them.  That face has told me all of your secrets. There are some things you just can’t hide. I was surprised when I saw it. That look that tells all. That look that can’t be faked. That look I’ve seen before, that means only one thing. You don’t have to tell me how you feel. I know. I like to hear it. I love everything you say. But I listen most closely to those thing that you don’t say. Those things that I know because I pay attention to you. Because I am connected to you and in tune with you. Those things I know because I feel you. Those things I know because I love you.

To feel what someone else feels is one thing, to feel the same way is another. I love when you look at me, when I feel what you feel and I smile, because I feel the same way. There is little that can compare to that. And, although you haven’t told me all I want to hear, I don’t push you for it, because I saw it in your eyes. I feel it in your touch. I feel it when you are next to me. When you look at, me with those eyes of love, there is no misunderstanding.

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So, I let you be what you be. I give you the chance to be it, without interrogating you and without trying to sway you. I want you to come to conclusions on your own. I know that you love me, but I want you to tell it to me because you realized it, not for any other reason. I want to give you that chance to know it for yourself and to know it for sure, without my influencing you to it. That is a gift. A gift of freedom and I give it to you because I love you. There is no other reason why.

You, my dear, are very special to me. I have been sifting through the contrast life has been bringing me for so very long. I have been coming to know in more and more detail, that which I want and that which I do not want. I have been coming to know what is most important, and I have found those things in you. Those things that I value the most. Those things that I have found are far and few between, have come to me through you. It is quite surreal, and I don’t take it for granted, even for a second. I know good things are hard to come by. I know a good thing when I see one and I see great things in you. You stand out in the room. You stand out to me. There is none like you in my world. No other I adore as much, and I do adore you. I adore being with you, your voice, your words… I adore feeling your energy and how connected I am to you. I adore the way that you look at me, with that look that tells me everything I need to know. I am no fool. I recognize you as a divine gift. One who has taught me much about love. I thank you for that as well.

There is no way for me to tell you the truth of what I feel inside. The truth doesn’t come from words, you simply know it because you know what you feel. I know that what I feel in you is the truth and I trust that above all that you say, or don’t say. It’s how I know everything. It’s how I know that you mean it when you kiss me. It’s how I know that you want me to stay. It’s how I know that you wish you could have more, but you hold back anyway.

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There is no way for me to tell you that I love you. There is no way for me to tell you how much I cherish your heart. There is no way for me to convince you that I would never hurt you. There is no way that my words could ever accomplish any of this. Just like I know you, because I pay attention to what you don’t say. You will simply have to trust yourself. You will simply have to remember how you felt when you were with me and what you know when you look into my eyes. You will simply have to know how you felt when you were with me. You will simply have to feel my love. You have seen my face, you have seen that I love you, you have seen that you are special to me. Everything that you need to know is already there. You have witnessed it for yourself. You have felt the truth and you know it. Words mean so little to you and to me, when we can feel the truth in each other.

Words are fantastic, they are beautiful, but they are just extensions of what we already know. They are just a way to further what I have seen in your eyes and what you have seen in mine.

…And sometimes, words can’t be trusted, but the truth remains the same. You can trust what you feel in me.

Please trust in your heart. Trust in what you already know. Trust in what my eyes told you, as I trust what yours told mine. Trust in what you felt when you were with me. Trust in what you know when you see my face. Trust what your heart tells you. Your heart is the best guidance that you have and the best guidance there is.

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There are times for words, but not always. Sometimes words are just not enough and sometimes we can’t have the words that we want. Sometimes, we have to know. Sometimes, we have to discern the words that we hear. You do that with your heart. You can feel love, you can feel truth and you can feel when someone means what they say. The same way that you can feel bad vibes, and cruel intentions. Be discerning, listen to your gut and your intuition. Know that what you feel is true, and when you feel love, don’t ignore it. See it for what it is. Humans have a fearful nature. To doubt is part of the human condition. Understand this, and that skepticism can be overcome with awareness. Don’t let your mind spin and get in the way of what you know in your heart. Know love when you feel it. The mind turns a blind eye to what the heart knows, and what the heart knows, it knows.

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The Problem In Relationships… Wouldn’t You Like to Know?

The Problem In Relationships… Wouldn’t You Like to Know?

All of my messages are derived from a Unity consciousness, which speaks to me always. Through this gift, I am able to experience my love for you. My love for you which is true, real and pure. You are loved.

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There is one theme, one commonality among the downfall of all relationships and it has to do with focus.

Focus is a choice

Being human is hard. Living this life is hard and much of our lives are spent worrying about things that haven’t happened yet. Especially when we find something good. We go through a lot of shit and all of that experience makes it that much harder to believe That something can actually be good. Bad experiences have a tendency to make us downright paranoid. As soon as we catch feelings, we go on alert and pull back. We become very cautious.

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so, we weigh The pros and the cons, the pluses and the minuses, the good and the bad. We measure, we observe, we predict and we come to conclusions. But, conclusions based on what?

See, you’ve got to understand what happens when we see something good. Something really good. Something we really want. Something that actually makes us feel vulnerable. It’s a very scary thing. Good things don’t come along that often, especially in relationships… Ironically, this is exactly the culprit of sabotage.

We see something good. Something we want. But as soon as we start to feel vulnerable, we can taste the defeat on our lips. We can smell the disappointment and we remember the what it feels like when our heart sinks. We are reminded of our pains. Of all the times we got our hopes up, only to be crushed. We associate love with pain. Hence, vulnerability feels like danger and in response to the first sign of danger, all the defense mechanisms, walls, barricades and protective shields go up. Nothing can get in or out. Not pain and not love. We feel like we need protection. But ironically, this type of fight or flight response is a recipe for doom.

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You cannot prevent pain by putting your walls up. You cannot prevent relationship issues with statistics. Putting a time requirement on relationship milestones is not going to ensure anything. Holding back doesn’t ensure anything. I will tell you what your best bet is. To be authentically you. When you feel love, be as true to that as you can. Don’t be so quick to doubt. Don’t be so quick to think it’s too good to be true. When you doubt, you act differently. You’re not as trusting, you’re not as kind and that energy gets through to your partner whether you know it or not. It affects all of your interactions, your response to them and their response to you.

Being vulnerable is a necessary evil. And I say this, not because being vulnerable is bad, but because we have given into a skewed perception that believes it to be bad. Even if you think it’s bad to be vulnerable, it is still necessary, because you can’t love without it. And what is a life without love?

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Let me explain why vulnerablity is so crucial. It is a necessary component to love and the love to vulnerability ratio is always going to be 1:1. They are parallel. The reason is because vulnerability is a pure vibration. You have to be vulnerable in order to bear your true self. Vulnerability is a component of authenticity. Anything else is a construct of the ego filtered through a perception that is calculating risk. When we are calculating risk, we are making our decisions, our thoughts, words and actions based on that, as opposed to who we truly are authentically.

Simply put, If you are calculating risk, you cannot be yourself. If your core vibration is calculating risk in the expectation that something will probably go wrong, you’ve just put a wrench in the whole system and you are probably going to find evidence of what you most deeply suspect, regardless if it’s the actual truth.

So, here is the key. Where is your focus? As soon as we feel vulnerable, we start freaking out, getting scared and it brings our attention to all of the things that can potentially go wrong. We think about those things so that we can prepare and brace ourselves in some way. So that we can dodge a bullet and basically, not get hurt. As soon as we see our own vulnerability, we see the risk and start preparing for it. This is all for not because this game plan is actually not the most strategic formula for prevention. In reality, it is quite the contrary. You get what you think about the most and you get what you most expect. This is a reality on so many levels, but it’s even been proven on a subconscious level. That our conscious mind is controlled by the beliefs of the subconscious mind. It is the job of the subconscious mind to prove us right. Whatever you believe most strongly is what you will get, because you will actually be acting in accordance with what is most true for you, in your mind. You will be looking for the evidence and interpreting everything that you see, through that expectation.

When you start focusing on the negative, you will see evidence of what you are most strongly focused upon. Negative focus is like a guarantee that you will find what you are focused upon. this is reflected in the relationship. If you focus negatively, you will always find what you are looking for.

It’s a funny thing because when you filter your perception through a lense that is negative, you will find more of that just by virtue of your energetic standpoint. the opposite is also true. Start focusing positively. Look at all of the good and you will find it! When your focus is rooted in appreciation, suddenly, there are less problems! You notice less problems, you choose to let things go more easily, you pick your battles and because your energy actually has an affect on your partner, there’s actually less problems That arise to begin with. But regardless of what comes up, a positively focused standpoint is the key to minimizing all forms of negativity in a relationship. Where’s your focus?

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We go through so much. We get hurt. We get scarred and after that, it’s really tough to believe In the good. It just is. But let’s take this to the next level. What if you’ve been through so much crap that you use it to fuel your appreciation for the good things that come your way. We can all get scared. But you have a choice. Every time that you feel afraid and you start pondering what can go wrong,  just bask in the appreciation for the positive aspects. That’s the reason you became afraid in the first place. Because you know you found something good. Something desirable. Something that you haven’t found before. So do not allow yourself to forget that. Do not allow yourself to focus negatively. Do not allow yourself to squander the goodness that has shown itself to you. Do not allow yourself to lower the chances of you actually getting what you want. It’s just an unnecessary risk. What’s going to happen is going to happen, no matter how strategic you think that you are. Honor the good things that come your way by #1 recognizing them as such and #2 cultivating an energetic environment that facilitates positive growth. You can do this by not polluting the energy with fear, doubt and entertaining ideas that don’t serve you or the relationship. If you are going to be in a relationship, you might as well give it the best chance its got, right?!

It doesn’t mean turn a blind eye. It doesn’t mean don’t use your brain. It means give it a good, honest chance. It means be conscious of your fears, expectations and make an effort to minimize your negative energetic input and to maximize your positive energetic input, because the difference in these energies are the difference between, not only the quality of your relationship, but literally, the life or death of it.

Don’t be so quick to come to negative conclusions. Don’t be so eager to take offense. The easiest way to see clearly is when you aren’t letting your ego and your fears be the lens that you view everything through. Know that you are loved. Focus positively. Don’t spend time pondering doom and gloom scenarios. Practice positive expectations. It will help you avoid sabotaging a good thing.

If you would like a Twin Flame Reading, You may contact me at any time via, AcceleratedAscension@yahoo.com

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We are all in this together, I am here for you.

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Are You Holding Back? Conjuring Pure Love, Intention and Freedom…

Are You Holding Back? Conjuring Pure Love, Intention and Freedom…

All of my messages are derived from a Unity consciousness, which speaks to me always. Through this gift, I am able to experience my love for you. My love for you which is true, real and pure. You are loved.

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Read beginning to end, You won’t regret it.

-Elise

Dear Twin Flame,

Love has great meaning. There is always meaning for it. The Universe does not create things for no reason. And the Universe does not put things before you for no reason. So, why are you trying not to love? Why are you trying to cut cords and to forget and to keep yourself from feeling the things that you already feel! Love is the most natural way for you to feel! We muddy the waters of love with all sorts of other things. With social “norms” and the collective expectations of the way that things should be, or ought to be. The rules made up by some other person, somewhere, that some dumb-asses decided to follow. Get enough dumb-asses together, to follow an idea and suddenly, we are calling it normal. Yea, it’s normal, but just because the majority is doing something, doesn’t mean that it’s serving us. We ALL know that. Let me tell you something. The opinion of the collective consciousness is royally fucked up! There is absolutely no rhyme or reason to play the role of  the follower on this planet. Overall, people are all dealing with their own issues and there’s currently, more people practicing problems than solutions. There is currently more people looking for solutions than living the solutions. So, if you are deriving your own belief system from “social norms”, you may want to re-think the whole thing. We all put “normal” on a pedestal. Oh, this is what’s normal. This is what normal people do. Let me tell you what normal people do. It’s fucked up. you ready? Here we go…

Here’s what’s currently “normal” in this society:

Ignoring the the voice of the heart

Letting the mind “rationalize” itself out of making loving decisions

Making love irrational and illogical

To fear love

The association of love and pain. The collective thinks that love is painful

Holding back from being most authentic. The collective thinks the best way to be is to not express your feelings authentically.

The collective consciousness is always waiting for the other shoe to drop. If something amazing comes your way, the first thought is that it’s too good to be true. So, instead of being supportive of what you want with a pure, loving vibration, you’re inserting the negative energies of doubt. What a way to facilitate the outcome of what you really want.

It’s all backwards!

If you are following the collective consciousness, you will be encouraged to not follow the path of most joy, to not follow the calling of your soul, and instead, to invalidate it, fear it, ignore it, cover it up and see it as a weakness that will surely lead to your demise.

Let me tell you something, the above that I just mentioned, is all that is wrong in this world. If people weren’t afraid of love, if they didn’t see it as a source of pain or weakness, then the world would be that much more loving. Newsflash! Human beings are naturally loving!! We all remember loving openly when we were children. Loving our parents, pets, siblings and even having a romantic sense of love. It is true, there is cruelty out there. We all go through experiences where our love isn’t reciprocated. We experience disappointment. We experience ridicule and we are made to feel “wrong” by our parents and others. All of this is the root of the problem. Not the solution. Love is the solution.

Love should be cultivated as much as possible. Not the other way around.

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Do you not realize that love is actually hard to come by? You can’t love just anyone. Love doesn’t show up when you want it to. You can’t make yourself love and you can’t make another love you. Connection cannot be found or forced at will. That makes connection oh, so valuable. When you find it, you gotta honor it. Don’t ever take connection for granted. Don’t ever take special people for granted. Don’t ever think it’s easy to come by, because, it’s not.

When you experience this Love and connection and then lose it, you will know what I am talking about. But why should you have to learn this through hindsight? Why do you have to lose something before you can give due credit?

Don’t be stupid.  Don’t take the love and connection for granted. Love must be honored when it arises. Connection must be honored when it arises. If it goes, it goes, but if it is there, it is there to be honored. These things are truly divine gifts.

  What’s serving you and What are you serving?

There are two different ways to react to a lesson, or situation. You are in charge of the perspective that you walk away with. The question is, is the perspective that you chose to walk away with, the most loving, authentic and good for you in the end? Is your new chosen standpoint the one that is actually going to serve you the most and add the most goodness into your life?

Here are the options that we have when we have a bad experience, it can go one of two ways. The first way is very common, but I think that overall, we can come to an agreement that it’s not really the choice that does the most good. The second one requires a tremendous amount of strength, confidence, compassion and steadfast trust in one’s worth and character in order to pull off. Here’s the two:

In a scenario where something is done to you that hurts you very much. Let’s say that someone you love screams at you, calls you terrible things or maybe they even harm you in some way. Maybe you are simply feeling rejected. We can all relate to this. You have two choice reactions that you can take away from this.

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1) You can accept that the world is cruel and that in order to protect yourself in the future, you have to harden your exterior and experience a far lesser amount of love and vulnerability in order to make sure that you will avoid pain if this scenario or one like it ever should occur again. The funny thing is that this approach is guaranteed to cause pain to others, repeating the cycle.

The main idea is prevention, which happens by way of turning the love dial way down and building the walls around our hearts way up. So that, not only are we keeping the pain out, we are also keeping the love out and the love that we may be inspired to will be smothered out and dulled down before it ever has a chance to escape those walls. This is the choice. Unfortunately, it’s probably the path most traveled. Hence, the cliche, “The Apple doesn’t fall far from the tree.” Most people who have been hurt by others choose the death of love for the sake of eradicating pain, keeping the cycle going.

We are such intelligent creatures. We can dull our love down just enough, so that we feel a little and we can maintain a level of compassion and empathy, but not enough to put our hearts on the line. Not enough to embody the richness of an authentic love experience. It turns out that most people don’t even know what that is. We have such a clever way of pulling this off. But, this defense mechanism that we construct is a great source of pain, in itself, because we are teaching ourselves to live in fear. All of this gyration of building walls and strategically turning down our love dial is based in fear. You can’t escape that fact. Actions rooted in fear are the opposite of love, and will always lead to less love, more fear and more pain. It’s pretty ironic, after all. In reality, this where sabotage comes from.

The root intention behind an action will be reflected in the scenarios that play out. This is why purity, clarity, awareness and intention are so very important. We all want love. Period. If you are avoiding love in any way, that will play itself out in the scenarios that follow. This is a law of the Universe. Your state of being, your vibration is reflected in the hologram of life in the physical. This is a good way to figure out what is really happening inside of yourself, by looking at what is manifesting. If you are manifesting something that is undesirable to you, it’s time to reflect on your roots.

2) The second way to shift your perspective is to feel the pain and decide that you want to do everything in your power to make sure that if this is happening in the world, that you are not going to be the source. That you will do everything in your power to make sure that you do not subject another person to what you were just subjected to. It’s the most compassionate approach for yourself and for others. It takes awareness, humility, love, compassion, and to be quite honest, this behavior is the greatest mark of strength. Choosing the most loving and compassionate way of being is the path that is chosen the least, because it’s the most difficult to do. To not react with anger or fear, even when triggered or provoked, because your desire to not subject another person to that which you experienced is greater than your need to stroke your ego, maintain your status and cater to your sense of pride. Consciousness can out do anything. But, first, you gotta be aware. Which means being brutally honest with yourself. Are your decisions based in fear or freedom? What would it look like for you to be faithfully authentic, no reservations. What is your natural state?

I can honestly say that I took the path less chosen. Maybe not in every way. I slip up too, sometimes. I have established that despite the depths of my spiritual journey, I am undoubtedly, still human. I have my fair share of faults that are enough to continuously inspire me towards improvement. But I know pain. I am not talking to you from a perspective that hasn’t had a fair share of experience in this arena. I’ve experienced my fair share of atrocities, and after coming into contact with each painful experience, I just naturally came to the conclusion that I would never knowingly put another person through that which I had experienced. Put in this way, it is easy to understand. Because I feel, I have compassion. I choose compassion because I choose to feel. This is why it is important to allow ourselves to feel. You can’t understand what you have never experienced. You can’t relate to a feeling that you have never felt. It’s like trying to describe love or hate to someone who has never felt either of those things. Or trying to describe music to someone who doesn’t know sound, or color to someone who has never seen. See each painful experience as a blessing, because it gives you a choice. This is how compassion is born. This is how you learn.

Experience grants us the ability to relate and the opportunity to truly understand other people. To be understood is of upmost importance. Truly. We understand this intrinsically. This is why we feel so much love for people that we feel we understand and for people that we feel truly understand us. Resonance and love are much the same. Harmony and love, compassion and love, relate-ability and love, understanding and love.

Through pain, my choice was born. I remember my pain. The anguish. I remember the spears of anger being hurdled at me, the fury filling the room and feeling hopeless to escape. For the life of me, I couldn’t understand why it was necessary. Why there wasn’t another way. Why it had to be that. I decided that I would never bestow this anguish onto another person. Even if I became angry, I could deal with it in a way that wouldn’t cause the suffering that I had known, because, truly, suffering is unnecessary and we obliterate it one choice at a time. My desire to obliterate suffering is greater than my ego. Greater than my fear of vulnerability and greater than my desire for pride.

Ironically, by not needing to stoop in the name of pride or ego, that in itself is something to be proud of.

It’s a whole new way of being. That in itself is the ultimate validation. Validation that comes from the self. Humility doesn’t mean that you are without a healthy sense of worthiness. It means that you are so confident in your value, your worth and your position, that you don’t feel threatened by the actions of another. That you can let others be what they be and understand that what they choose to be has no bearing on your value. You are divine in nature and there is no thing that can change that, even a little. That is true self realization. That is an authentic sense of self. Knowing your value, without needing a shred of validation from anything outside of yourself. Imagine being that confident in your position, that you could love authentically and openly, without being influenced by the fear of rejection or non-reciprocation. That is total freedom. Freedom to be your true, unadulterated self. A whole new world, indeed. We are wandering far from the three dimensional way of being. This shift takes time, persistence and love. One baby step at a time.

So, you see, that your ability to love is directly correspondent with self love. Ignoring the voice of your heart is denying the self. Do you like being denied? Do you enjoy it when you are made to feel like your feelings aren’t legitimate or warranted? So then, why are you doing this to yourself? Why are you not allowing yourself to feel authentically? This shit matters. How are you treating yourself? Because how you treat yourself has a lot to do with how you are going to be able to treat others and the love that you will be capable of. I can love you because I love myself. I love myself enough to allow myself to be free. I love myself enough to allow myself total freedom to experience myself authentically. No reservations, no obligations, no rules, no judgements, no fears, no standards to uphold or people to please. What do I really feel and am I allowing myself to feel it? Am I holding myself back? Am I smoldering myself from feeling something that could be very beautiful because I prefer to not be vulnerable? Have I classified vulnerability as a weakness, or as a strength?  Am I orchestrating my behavior based on fear that something could go wrong? Are my actions dictated by the actions of others or what I suspect their standpoint might be? What’s your intention? What’s motivating you?  Are you giving yourself permision?

Transcending Fear

Call it out. Whatever you are feeling, own up to it. You are going to do what you are going to do. You are going to live authentically or not. You are going to live in fear or not. You are going to choose to love or not. But, whatever you do, come to terms with it. Acknowledge it and see it for what it is. Look at what you are doing and see it for what it is. Either you are going to orchestrate your actions out of fear or out of love. Recognize what you are doing. I am choosing to do this out of fear and that’s ok. I can choose that if I want to. The important thing is being aware of the choices that you are making. I am choosing to love and that’s ok. I can choose to do that if I want. It doesn’t make me weak and it’s not because I have no other choice. This is my choice and It’s ok that I choose that. Bringing this level of awareness is a really good way to transcend fear no matter what you are doing. The ego is an act of unconsciousness. The ego is always an act. It’s not really you. It’s you, pretending you are being you and the ego is very good at not breaking character. It’s ultra professional, not personal, not real. You transcend the grip of the ego, with conscious awareness. Getting to the heart of the matter. Pay attention!! Asking yourself the real reason why you are doing what you are doing. We all have the capacity to be good. We all have the desire to be good. This is the reason for regret and self improvement and things of that nature. Because, at our core, we want to be good. When you do something inauthentic, you know it. It doesn’t feel good. That’s the easiest way to know. A new desire is born. When you act out of fear, there’s a certain quality to that energy. It’s very different from love. Love feels better, if it’s really love. If it doesn’t feel good, it isn’t love.

First, pay attention. You have to know what is really happening within you. Be honest with yourself about why you are choosing to do what you are doing. Get to the root reason for your choices. Whatever you decide to do from there is fine. But. at least, when you look at the truth, you are no longer acting unconsciously and when you look at yourself and accept yourself, you can obliterate fear. It’s the honest looking part and the lovingly being self accepting part that is difficult. Get through that and you’ll transcend fear. It doesn’t mean that you will be perfect. It doesn’t mean you will never act out of fear again. It means you’ll pay more attention and give yourself more opportunity to act authentically, instead of playing out the part of some character constructed by the ego. When you are ok with you, fear is gone. All fear is a result of your own perspective. It’s a figment of your imagination.

Things can happen. But fear robs you of the joy of the now. All of your life is a series of now moments. Enjoy every one as fully as you can.

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Love as fully as you can in every moment. You won’t float away. You won’t drown in a sea of love. You won’t become delirious when you are letting your emotions guide you and do what they want to do. That’s what people think. That they are going to get swept up and make a mistake and do something “stupid”. Love doesn’t make you do anything stupid. It is you who assigns meaning to the action when you perceive that it didn’t work out for you. Then, instead of acknowledging that nothing is permanent and seasons may come and go for their own reasons, you call love stupid. True love ebbs and flows like everything else. It has it’s moments. It comes and goes. The only time it’s going to haunt you is if you are fighting it on some level. And if you make a choice to live lukewarm, good luck, because lukewarm doesn’t make your heart race. Lukewarm doesn’t feel exhilarating. Lukewarm isn’t frisky, fresh, eager and exciting. Lukewarm is boring. What a way to live when life grants us no guarantees, lukewarm or otherwise.

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I will follow my inspiration to love in every moment that it presents itself to me. My moments will be inspired. I don’t feel inspired in every moment. I don’t feel love in every moment. Some of my moments are restful, quiet and still. Some of my moments are the makings of discovery. Those moments that come before love. Those moments that lead up to inspiration. Contrast is not only ok, it is perfect. What matters is that when I feel inspired to love, that I allow myself the gift of that experience. That I let it flow. That I let it roll and go with it. In that moment, I am love and I am attracting more love. In that moment, I am enjoying life to the fullest. I am exploring the farthest corners of exhilaration and bliss that emotion has to offer. That life has to offer. In that moment, I am being myself. I am loving myself. I am allowing myself and I am truly living. And That is what LIFE is about. Go where your emotions are guiding you. Always.

With Great Love

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Calling You Out on Your Bullshit Misconceptions About Love…

Calling You Out on Your Bullshit Misconceptions About Love…

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This is a long post and there is not much mention of Twin Flames, but the concepts are very import an for everyone, especially for the Twin Flames. It is worth the read.

“That love that knows no bounds…. I’ve never regretted giving into love… Giving into love has always provided me with the most exciting experiences I have known in my lifetime…”

-Elise

There is something to be said for this thing called love. This thing that we experience that turns our world upside down and causes us to do things we never thought we were capable of. This thing that changes us inside and out. Reframes our perspectives and causes us to see things in a whole new light. This thing that inspires us to break our own rules. To see things from another person’s point of view and to reach heights of empathetic understandings that we have never reached before. To evolve in ways we never could previously comprehend and to come to see ourselves and others in a whole new way.

It’s the best gift ever. But for many reasons, we are deathly afraid of it! Afraid of being vulnerable. Afraid of being rejected. Afraid of loving and losing. Afraid for reasons we don’t even dig deep enough to understand. The human race has given love all sorts of attachments and definitions that just don’t belong.

We have made love crazy, painful, dangerous, irrational, illogical, impractical and irresponsible. Love is actually the opposite. Love is the most logical thing one can do. But we often make the mistake of thinking that when you love someone, that love calls you to become their doormat at some point. Now, that is far from the truth. Let’s get it straight. At no point in time does love mean being a doormat or doing anything that does not serve you in order to put the best interests of another above your own. That is never my teaching and never the teaching of any spiritual teacher who knows what they are talking about.

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There is never a time when love will require you to take an action towards another, that is not also a self-loving action. True love expressed towards another will simultaneously be an act of love unto the self. 

Otherwise, it is not love. It is something else. Then, it becomes action rooted in pain, guilt, fear or obligation. None of those things are love. We have attached many of these concepts to love, but don’t get it twisted, love is love and nothing else. It’s that simple. You have to examine the root cause of your intention in order to know if you are acting in love. Love does not act out of motivation to gain or for fear of losing, love simply acts out of courage to follow the inspiration of love. Whatever that may be.

If I love you and I want to act out of love for you, but I hold myself back in some way because I am afraid of you knowing it. I am afraid of losing you or freaking you out, of being vulnerable, or of the possibility of rejection, then, I am acting out of fear. Not love. This is when love becomes difficult and uncomfortable. When we screw with it, hide it, try to make it something else, try to contain it, pace it, regulate it, and put it in a box with a pretty bow for the sake of appearances.

We fuck with love all of the time… And then we say that love is the problem? Ha!

Most of us are cowards. Most of us see weakness in love, instead of strength. Most of us see vulnerability as a problem, an issue, as something that would be better to avoid. Only a coward would come to this conclusion! Because it is an act of cowardice to need validation from an outside source. From a source that is outside of yourself, and that is what we are messing up this love thing with. The need for others to react to us in a certain way or to view us in a certain way. What would happen if you loved yourself enough to just be yourself, whoever the fuck you are, not worrying about or needing any outside validation? You would be authentic. You would have the courage to follow your joy. You would be actually LIVING instead of holding back on life and love. Ultimately, you would have a much better chance overall, in achieving fulfillment, because the people who are going to matter to you are going to love you for who you are and they are going to have great appreciation for your courage to be authentically you. This is something that is just not common enough among humans in general. The ability to love one’s self enough to give the self permission to just be who you are at your core. Permission to live authentically. That is freedom. Freedom is love.

Love begins with the self. With self- realization and self love. Only a person who truly loves themselves can demonstrate what it truly means to love another. Love does not require you to do anything for another person that is not good for you or that you do not want to do. This is where the self love comes in. When we value ourselves, and give ourselves permission to be ourselves, we will be able to understand that we are not responsible for the way that another person feels about themselves. This understanding is what allows you to make healthy decisions for yourself. You are not responsible for the way that another person feels or for their reaction to you. When you love yourself enough, you will not be manipulated into staying with someone for the wrong reasons or into doing something that you do not want to do and calling it love. Love doesn’t do that. Here is what love does…

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Love follows the path of most joy.

Love is authentic, and therefore…

Love is courageous, daring, honest, open and expressive.

Because love is authentic, love is freedom. Freedom is love.

Love does not know any other way but to be itself.

On a level that most people are not even aware enough to ponder,  there is an illusion. An illusion that we readily accept as a truth.  The illusion of rejection. That rejection is a possibility. This is only an illusion, a perspective. I will tell you why… Yes, a person outside of yourself could “reject” you or not accept you as you authentically are. We have all had these experiences. But, it’s an experience, it’s how you feel about it that matters. How you feel about it or react to it is what shapes the experience for you. Have you ever been “rejected” by someone you truly did not care about? Someone you didn’t feel you needed even a microcosm of acceptance from? How did that feel? Did it even feel like rejection? Did it feel like anything at all? Did you even give it any thought? Probably not. We have all had these experiences. Let’s get to the root of it. You can only be rejected when you feel that you can be rejected. At some level, we put more credence in certain other people than in ourselves. We hold the opinions of certain other people as weighty and valuable and worthy. We compare ourselves to others and when we find someone who we think is “worthy” smart, cool or valuable, suddenly we feel like their acceptance of us carries weight. As if their opinion has anything to do with our level of value, worth, intelligence or coolness. At some level, at some point, we hold the opinions of others, or their perspective about us as more valuable than our own. This happens on small levels, it happens on larger levels, it happens all the time and with everyone. There is really no exception. It is part of the human condition. It’s something that we battle with for all of our lives because it is part of the fabrication of this thing we call ego. And, we all have ego. I may be writing this article, but I see these things in myself. I exhibit them as well. Even knowing all of this, I am still subject to all that is part of the human condition. I am saying this because there is a very important point to be made here….

Ownership comes before change.

I am pointing out my own vulnerabilities to you so that you may do the same for yourself. There is no one who is reading this who can proclaim exemption from the human condition. The only difference in being aware is that you can  see when the feelings come up, what they are and what the true intentions are behind your thoughts, words and actions. With awareness to all of that, there is more leeway, more ability to deliberately choose which path you will take in any given situation. When I feel the urge to do something and I am aware enough to see if it arose from fear. I can stop, examine it and make a new choice. This only comes with awareness, ownership and self-love. We are all human, but we can shift from 3rd dimensional ways of thinking and being and into 4th and 5th dimensional levels of thinking and acting, on a moment to moment basis.

Love is really not so complicated. If you eliminate the idea of love meaning that you can’t put yourself first and love another at the same time, and if you eliminate the idea of needing any type of validation, acceptance or reaction from another, then we can begin to see love in perspective. For what it truly is. Love is freedom. So, are you loving freely? Are you holding yourself back? Are you acting out of fear? Or are you acting out of freedom and love? Are you being totally authentic? Have you done the work to figure out what that means? Fears, preconceived ideas and obligations aside…

Humans are reluctant to love. We are reluctant to give in and to express ourselves from the core of our being. But to be authentic is such a gift. Authentic expression is such a satisfying experience. It’s one thing to have an experience and to keep it bottled up. It’s another thing to be able to express yourself authentically and to know that you are understood. To see eye to eye with another. It’s a great gift, one of the best. But you can’t get there when you have reservations about it. You can’t get there if you won’t allow yourself. You can’t get there if you are ruled by fear. There are many people out there who are ruled by far and don’t even know it. Let me clear something up for you… If you don’t know what it’s like to love with all your heart; To love fully, passionately and uncontrollably; To fall in love, then you are ruled by fear. Something is holding you back, because everyone has the capacity to love, you’ve just chosen not to go there. To slow the process. To be extra cautious. Am I saying that it’s ok to throw caution to the wind when it comes to love?

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Let me tell you why…

Love isn’t without reason. Love always has great reason. If you love someone, there is a reason for it. To deny yourself of experiencing that is to deny yourself. There is always a lesson to be learned and that is what love is about. You gotta learn to follow your heart. Let yourself. Allow yourself. Go with it.

Follow your heart…

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Don’t put love in a box. Sometimes, the reason for loving someone isn’t what we think it is. It isn’t always so that reunification can occur and we can be together with them in the end. You have to remember this when it comes to your Twin Flame. It isn’t always so that we can learn to mesh and be unconditional. Unconditional doesn’t mean forever loving someone else, even to our own detriment. There’s a balance happening here. Sometimes we learn unconditional love, as far as learning to transcend a situation while residing within it and sometimes we are learning unconditional love by moving on.  Transformation is continual. When the lesson is over, the overtaking feeling of love will be gone too. Love will not stay for no reason. So, the best way to move forward without wasting time and to get through your lessons quickly is to give into the love that you feel without holding back. With no reservations. Go into it.

That which you are drawn to and interpret as a feeling of love, joy, passion, and excitement, these things are all good for you because this is the way that the body interprets things that are representative of you. Your core essence. This is why following your heart is so key. You will be drawn to that which is good for you in one way or another.

If you want to know the truth, dive in head first. If you want to know how someone feels about you, let them know who you are. Let them know your truth. There are only two possible outcomes. Either that they will feel the same way and your relationship will explode into deeper, more passionate, more blissful, harmonious levels, or they won’t feel the same way that you do. There’s no black or white. Anything can happen. maybe they will catch up with you. Maybe you’ll have to deal with certain levels of rejection and try to overcome that on smaller levels. Maybe you’ll have to deal with it on a larger scale. maybe you won’t have to deal with it at all. One thing is for sure. Once you learn the lesson, you move on from it and onto different people, different circumstances and different lessons. So, get through it. Don’t hold back, because you are just holding out on your lesson. let yourself fall. Let yourself be authentic. Imagine two people coming together who are authentically into each other, authentically in love and authentically expressive about it. That’s what you want. You can’t have that if you never get there, yourself. Give yourself some slack. Give yourself some room to love. I love you so much. There is no end to my love for you. I will keep believing in you, even when there is no reason to, because I choose to see you through the eyes of love. I will keep being honest with you, even when it may be difficult to do because I honor you.

Honor yourself. Let yourself be who you are. Be who you are. You are love.

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The Real Reason For The Pain For Your Twin Flame…

The Real Reason For The Pain For Your Twin Flame…

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I know that this may be a difficult concept to consider, for many of you. But, hear me out. There’s no harm in it…

I thought that my pain was caused by the separation from my Twin. I was wrong…

My pain started before that. Before I knew what he was to me. Before I consciously established the connection. Before the Twin Flame run even began. I called it dark night of the soul. It came over me and I was cloaked in it. In the confusion, in the overwhelming hopelessness and pain. No apparent rhyme or reason. No way out. It was pain that was there. It simply existed. There was nothing that I could do except bask in it. Accept it. There it was. I let the tears flow. I don’t know any other way… The Twin Flame run occurred after that and the pain continued, but let’s not get this mixed up. Let’s understand what pain really originates from.

I understand sadness. I understand what it feels like to be drowning in dark, merciless waters of pain. So much heartache. Not knowing how to make it stop. Utter despair and praying for the end to come. The end of me. The end of the pain. Either which way, when you’re in that place, it doesn’t seem to matter how relief befalls you. You just want it to come. You just want to see the light of day again. To feel like you have some good reason to live for. Or to die and to cry no more…

I reached this point of awareness in the midst of my pain, on a few occasions… A point where I looked at the pain. I studied it. I observed it. I tried to see where it was really coming from. I went into it. I felt the pain outside of the circumstances. I separated the reason from the pain. The pain didn’t disappear, it was still there, but I realized something…. That the pain wasn’t attached to anything. It was just there. It wasn’t there because of my situation. It wasn’t there because of my Twin, or because of the separation. It wasn’t there for any reason besides that it just existed. It was something that was already there. Something that needed to be looked at and dealt with. Something that was crying out for attention. Crying out for action, movement, energy, acknowledgement and change.

We attach reasons to our pain. We try to rationalize it, to make it logical. We blame this person, or that thing. We justify that our reactions of pain are perfectly valid, given the circumstances, but that is a lie. You see, you could have 10 different people all experience the same thing and they could all have completely different reactions. The circumstances don’t cause the reaction, you do. You are the one who reacts to your circumstances. Your reaction is your reaction, it’s something that is already there. Something that already exists within you, and whatever is already inside of you will come out when it gets a chance.

Circumstances are just the excuse for the existing shadows to come to the surface to be seen, transcended and transformed.

This why we test people. To see what’s inside of them, to see what they’re made of.

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What are you made of?

At the core of your pain, there isn’t anything to blame. There is no circumstance that is causing it. That is just an illusion. We think that if circumstances would change that we would feel better. The truth is that when we overcome the pain that already lives inside of us, we then allow for change. Pain comes up to show you that it’s there, not because of some outside circumstance. There is no outside circumstance that could cause you pain if the pain wasn’t already there.

I know it is difficult to see this. I know that there is pain involved with separation and that the way that we experience it  points to the idea that the circumstance is to blame for the onset of pain. But, the circumstance is just a trigger for something that is already there. If it were the circumstance which caused the pain, then it would be impossible to overcome the pain unless you could change the circumstance. The reality is that it is possible to overcome the pain, even if the outside circumstance stays the same. This means that it isn’t the circumstance which causes the pain. The reason it is important to note is because this understanding is the jumping off point to empowerment. You should know that you are not at the mercy of your pain, even if you cannot change the circumstances.

So, stop blaming your Twin, or the separation for your pain. Stop thinking that you can’t escape it. Stop thinking that you are being inflicted with a painful experience. It’s just an experience. Your reaction is your creation.

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Be aware of your pain. Look at it. Study it. Go into it. You will see, it’s only pain and it can go away just as swiftly as it came. It isn’t attached to anything. It isn’t attached to you. You are not married to pain. It isn’t following you around. It isn’t your ball and chain. It’s only pain. It’s only there to show you something. Become ultra conscious of it and you will allow it to show you what you need to see. Circumstances, people and events aside.

We are all in this together, I am here for you.

 

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Why the Twin Flame Runner Runs

Why the Twin Flame Runner Runs

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I just love you. And I feel so blessed by this opportunity to love. I feel so lucky to have met you. I feel so good that you are here. So grateful that you arent just a dream anymore. I’ve been asking for you. I’ve been imagining you. I’ve been preparing for you. I’ve been practicing you. I’ve been waiting for you. Now, I get to see you, I get to hear you, I get to taste you and touch you. I get to have conversations with you. I get to visit with you. I get to spend time and joke and laugh with you. So different. The real thing vs. the imagined thing. So very different, and I never thought that I would feel this way. Scared shitless.

Every new experience is an opportunity for me to understand something in a deeper way than I ever have before. Today, I am understanding the runner. We all hate on the runner. We make the runner the problem. If they just wouldn’t run, everyone would be happy. What’s the point, anyway? What’s the point of running? Why do they run from what they love? How is that even possible? It doesn’t make sense.

I know it. It doesn’t make sense. But the truth is that everyone does the best that they can from their current point of consciousness. The runner flees because they feel like they can’t stay. It can be so difficult when you meet someone you love. Someone you’ve been waiting to meet. Someone you actually have a connection with. Someone who is everything that you want. It can seem too good to be true, and for the runner, they are just waiting for the other shoe to drop. It feels to them like if they are seen, that they won’t be loved. Even if they are a great person with nothing to hide. Even if they know that they are wonderful and have so much to offer, it still feels like you might be rejected at any moment. No particular reason, besides that you just aren’t good enough. It’s not even a logical fear. It’s completely ridiculous! But, none the less, you are walking a tight rope, holding your breath, looking down and hoping to god that you don’t fuck it up. This thing that you have found that you know that you want. This thing that you know is special. There it is and holding onto it just becomes too much to bear. It just becomes too difficult to try to stay open and vulnerable so that you can maintain the relationship, when at the same time, you are scared shitless. You are watching yourself and what you say. Censoring yourself and playing back scenarios in your head, wondering if you did the right thing. God forbid if you make a mistake. Then it becomes some huge ordeal. Something you just beat yourself up about. The seesaw of the relationship and going with the ebb and flow is difficult too. It all just becomes too much. So, one will run in small ways. This is where games originate. For the Twin Flame runner, they run away completely. It just becomes easier to not have the relationship at all. To not have to be afraid, to not have to worry about if you said the right thing or if your Twin is still into you. To not have such incessant inquiries in your mind. Just make it all stop. That is why the runner runs. To make it stop.

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Being in the presence of your Twin Flame makes you aware of so many things you didn’t know about yourself. It brings to the surface every insecurity. Every fear. Depending upon where you are in your journey, it could be too much. Especially for someone who has not done a lot of reflecting on the self. For someone who has shadows buried  and hasn’t yet begun the process of purging. So, just imagine suddenly becoming aware of everything about yourself that seems less than perfect or less than ideal. And all of this is happening in the moment that you want to put your best foot forward. It’s completely nerve wracking if you’re not really self aware. It’s nerve wracking even when you are self aware. It’s quite a dilemma. That the moment you want to just be yourself and embody all of the characteristics about yourself that you know are ideal, is the moment you become aware of all of your weaknesses. It’s tough to be your best when you become so aware of your “flaws”.

This is why the runner runs. Not because they do not feel great love. It’s the opposite. They do feel great love. It’s that great love that makes them afraid. Afraid of rejection, afraid of losing. When you are looking at it from the runner’s perspective, It feels better to know that you sabotaged something on purpose, than to live with being the one who “messed up”, or wasn’t good enough. This is the logic. Is it sensical? I don’t think so. I think we all know that this premise of running is flawed. But, this is what happens. Once the initial Twin Flame connection is established, it brings up a lot of things to the surface that need to be worked through. Sometimes, the runner just needs time to sort it all out and gain their footing. They need to figure out what to make of it all. How to gain a new perspective that will be self loving, instead of self sabotaging. It can be difficult to understand. How someone could be so afraid. But it happens, and sometimes, it just takes time to sort out.

Everyone has their quirks. Everyone has their good sides and their bad sides. Everyone has had experiences that are good and bad. Everyone has made choices that are good and bad. It’s the overall package that we are looking for. Things can be overcome. Fear can be overcome. That’s what is important. Not what happened in the past but where you are letting it take you. What you are making of it and who you are choosing to become because of it. Are you letting your experiences make you better and stronger? Are you becoming more loving or less loving?

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Let’s not hold our runners accountable for taking the time that they needed for themselves. Let’s not judge them based in their past. People need to work through things sometimes. Pain and fear make people do crazy things, but it’s not who they are. People can get over fear and pain. Make your decisions based in the now. Based in who is good for you now and who they have become. Give love to the runners of the world. That is all they ever wanted all along.

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